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Relationship Bank Account
Habit 4 Think Win-Win
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Warm-up
Explain what you think the words below mean.
Win-Lose Lose-Win Lose-Lose
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Quick Write
Pinpoint the area of your life where you most struggle with comparisons. Perhaps it’s clothes, physical features,friends,or talents.
Where I’m struggling most with comparisons: ______________
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Habit 4 Think Win-Win
Attitude toward life, a mental frame of mind that says I can win and so can you.
No one is superior and no one is inferior Win – Win is not
– Win-Lose– Lose-Win– Lose-Lose
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Win-Lose
Win-Lose is competitive Examples of Win-Lose
– Using other people for your own gain– Trying to get ahead at the expense of another– Spreading rumors– Always insisting you get your own way– Becoming jealous/envious when something good happens
to someone else
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Lose- Win
These people avoid confrontation so they take the blame to keep the peace
It’s the doormat syndrome Giving into peer pressure Set low expectations and compromise your
standards
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Lose-Lose
The downward spiral Revenge is lose-lose I don’t care what happens to me as long as
_________ doesn’t do well
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Win-Win
The All You Can Eat Buffet There is plenty of success to go around
Examples of win-win– Your best friend got accepted at the college you wanted to
get into. You didn’t make it. You are happy for your friend– You want to go out to dinner, your friend wants to see a
movie. You get takeout and rent a movie for home
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Win the Private Victory First
If you are extremely insecure, it is hard to think win-win because you are threatened by others’ success. These people get jealous easily
Personal security is the foundation for thinking win-win.
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Comparing
Comparing yourself can become an addiction You feel superior one moment and then
inferior the next moment
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Win-Win
It is contagious Sometimes though not everyone thinks win-
win or you won’t be able to find a win-win solution. Then you need to decide not to play or to walk away
Increase how much you think win-win because it will make you feel great!
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Exit Slip
Think about your general attitude toward life. Is it based on Win-Lose, Lose-Win, Lose-Lose, or Win-Win thinking? How is that attitude affecting you?