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Welcome to FIEP.Welcome to FIEP.

So glad you chose to come!So glad you chose to come!

““Previews”Previews”

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Fully Fully

listening listening

is is

an an

ADVENTURE!ADVENTURE!

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PiggybackingPiggybacking

The Listener stops listening, jumps on the The Listener stops listening, jumps on the speaker’s topic and start talking.speaker’s topic and start talking.

First speaker: “My students…”

Second speaker: “Oh, I know just how you feel; that’s like when MY students…”

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Wonderful WordsWonderful Words

DiplomacyDiplomacy

Skill and tact in dealing with other Skill and tact in dealing with other people;people;

Skill in managing communication and Skill in managing communication and relationships.relationships.

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Quotable QuotesQuotable Quotes

““If you have If you have knowledge, let others knowledge, let others

light their candle in it.”light their candle in it.”

~Margaret Fuller~Margaret Fuller

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When you meet furious… When you meet furious…

……get curious. get curious.

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It is the It is the province of province of

knowledge to knowledge to speak,speak,

And it is the And it is the privilege of privilege of wisdom to wisdom to

listen.listen. Oliver Wendell Holmes

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Parking LotParking Lot

Suggest “parking the issue” while Suggest “parking the issue” while completing the current discussion.completing the current discussion.

Address prior to ending, schedule Address prior to ending, schedule

another time or connect with another time or connect with appropriate person or forum .appropriate person or forum .

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Pool of Shared MeaningPool of Shared Meaning

Dig deeper & get any relevant Dig deeper & get any relevant data out in the open.data out in the open.

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““What if ?”What if ?”

The “Miracle” Question

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STATE My PathSTATE My Path

SShare your hare your facts.facts.

TTell your story.ell your story.AAsk for others’ sk for others’

paths.paths.TTalk alk

tentatively.tentatively.EEncourage ncourage

testing.testing. Crucial Conversations

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Listening Set-AsidesListening Set-Asides

Autobiographical CommentsAutobiographical Comments““Me too”Me too”

Inquisitive, Frivolous QuestionsInquisitive, Frivolous Questions““Soap Opera” or “Kindergarten” Soap Opera” or “Kindergarten”

questionsquestions

Easy Fix SolutionsEasy Fix Solutions““You can do it!”You can do it!”

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Courage is what it takes to Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage stand up and speak. Courage

is also what it takes to sit is also what it takes to sit down and listen.down and listen.

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Winston Churchill

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Brain TeaserBrain Teaser

What is FIEP? What is FIEP?

Stay tuned…Stay tuned…

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LISTENING IS NOT… LISTENING IS NOT…

““a vocal competition in which a vocal competition in which the one who is catching his the one who is catching his breath is called the listener.”breath is called the listener.”

AnonymousAnonymous

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Start with HeartStart with Heart

Stay Focused on What Stay Focused on What You You ReallyReally Want Want

The First Principle of Dialogue:

Crucial Conversations

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ParaphraseParaphrase

Acknowledge & Clarify Acknowledge & Clarify ““Catch the essence & give back.”Catch the essence & give back.”

Summarize / Organize Summarize / Organize Themes or ‘containers’ or chunksThemes or ‘containers’ or chunks

Shifting Conceptual FocusShifting Conceptual FocusRaise level; moves conversation upRaise level; moves conversation up

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AMPP ABCAMPP ABCAAsk.sk.MMirror.irror.PParaphrasaraphras

e.e.PPrime.rime.

AAgree.gree.BBuild.uild.CCompare.ompare.

Crucial Conversations

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Manage DataManage Data Write it Down and Hang It on the WallWrite it Down and Hang It on the Wall

Work on one Issue at a Time.Work on one Issue at a Time.

AGREE on How to Work on that Issue.AGREE on How to Work on that Issue.

Ideas? Ideas? Write Down & Hang on the Write Down & Hang on the WallWall

Decisions? Decisions? Write Down & Hang on the WallWrite Down & Hang on the Wall

Need to Redirect? Need to Redirect? Look at the WallLook at the Wall

Ought to Do? Ought to Do? Write on the WallWrite on the Wall

Meet Next? Meet Next? Write on the WallWrite on the Wall

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Trust is about the relationship; rapport is about the moment.

Trust is the ground upon which we build rapport.

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“ “Procrastination is Procrastination is attitude’s natural assassin. attitude’s natural assassin.

There’s nothing so fatiguing There’s nothing so fatiguing as an uncompleted task.”as an uncompleted task.”

William JamesWilliam James

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The workshop starts The workshop starts momentarily.momentarily.

Treat Yourself to a Treat Yourself to a Learning Opportunity!Learning Opportunity!