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Another summer has come to a close and autumn has officially descended upon the tri-states. For many of us, this means festivals, scenic drives through

the Mississippi River valley, thick knit-ted sweaters and football.

In the Kloser household, fall’s approach meant raking leaves into gargantuan piles for (what else?) jumping into, much to Dad’s exasperation. (Sorry Dad!) In our defense, eventually my siblings and I helped bundle them into those giant jack-o-lantern plastic bags.

For others, however, the onset of fall means the inevitable nearing of another round of family-filled holidays and the stress that accompanies them. While children in the tri-states are also aware of upcoming festivities—likely for entirely different reasons—parents and guardians rush to take care of the demands of Halloween and Thanks-giving. Add to that the looming rush of family time December promises between Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Christ-mas and New Year’s celebrations, and fall can seem anything but relaxing.

With all this preparation, who has the time (or, maybe more accurately, the luxury) to enjoy the fall? We at

parenting: TODAY & TOMORROW believe that you do. This issue features articles on eco-friendly, “unplugged” toys offered by local retailers to stock up on before the snow flies, fun (and healthy!) reci-pes for a child’s Halloween party that are sure to please even the most persnickety eater, tips on get-ting willful teens to enjoy family-focused celebrations and ideas from area dental professionals on keeping Halloween cavities to a minimum. Additionally, we tackle the “holiday blues” that sometimes sidetrack par-ents and guardians.

Fall can be a stressful time of year; between finally settling into a school-year routine, handling hec-tic schedules and preparing for the holidays, October and November may leave many parents pining for the “lazy days” of summer. While autumn may be packed with things to do, take time to remember what makes impossibly massive orange pumpkins, vibrantly hued sugar maples, the crunch of a freshly plucked apple and the percussion of fallen leaves under your shoes so magical: experiencing them with family and seeing them through the eyes of children. Go ahead—jump in a leaf pile. Happy fall, y’all!

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CONTENTS

Unplugged Fun 3The Fear Factor 6Trick or Treat 9Paying It Forward 12Family Snapshot 16Tune in to Your Teen 17

Wholesome Living 20Daytripping 22Holiday Blues 23Media Moment 25Family Functions 27

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T hirty years ago I would have never dreamed of asking my parents for a computer

for Christmas, mostly because they wouldn’t have known what a com-puter was. I think my siblings and I were all shocked when an Atari™ game system appeared under the tree one year.

Today most kids (even the adult ones) have some kind of electronic device on their list for Santa. Parents need to buy stock in battery companies to power all those electronic gadgets opened on Christmas morning said Dave Rokusek, owner of The Atomic Toy Co. in Galena, Illinois. What is so wrong with the simple toys we all enjoyed as kids?

While the noise and lights of elec-tronic games and toys are tantalizing, plenty of other options are available that are quieter, entertaining and even educational. In addition to the quiet, parents should also consider the American Academy of Pediatrics’

(AAP) recommendations on screen time indicated Cathy Hubbard, owner of Crickets Toys and More in down-town Dubuque. The AAP recom-mends no TV for children under two years of age. The academy suggests no more than 2 hours of media time for older children. This includes TV, computers and video games. Given these recommendations, it is impor-tant that parents provide toys that take kids away from screens, monitors and hand-helds.

There are many advantages to get-ting children away from the TV and other electronic devices. Hubbard points out that many creative toys force children to be active and burn calo-ries, combatting child-hood obesity. She adds that other

benefits include increased attention spans, better problem solving skills and improved creativity. In addition to educational benefits, Hubbard said these types of toys tend to be more moderately priced, which may be an attractive plus for many parents.

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store specializes in nostalgic, time-less toys that parents had as children. “I don’t care if you’re 88, 68, 38 or 8, you are all on the same playing field,” said Rokusek. He added that nostalgic toys offer the older gen-eration an opportunity to teach the younger generation, instead of the roles being reversed with technical gadgets.

INFANTSCrickets Toys and More offers edu-cational toys for all ages. “The ear-lier they start with creative toys the better,” said Hubbard. Infants don’t interact as much with the toys, but they can be visually stimulated. Hubbard said she is not sure

if black-and-white or brightly colored toys are better—it depends on which study you read. Some toys contain both, so perhaps a mix is good. At this age safety is a top concern, so be sure to read the rec-ommended ages on the packaging. For infants, Hubbard suggests chew toys and items to grasp, to develop fine motor control. Another good choice is a play mat so the baby can roll around on the floor and play with toys that are placed nearby.

According to Hubbard, many of her customers highly

recommend Sofia la Girafe™. It is a chew toy made with food color-ing dye; therefore, it is safe for little ones to chew on.

TODDLERS Hubbard recommends push toys that toddlers can walk behind. Any type of plush toy is good, as long as it has embroidered eyes to prevent a choking hazard. Stacking toys and others that continue to nurture fine motor skills are also recommended. Hubbard’s favorite item for this age group is Rody Horse™ or Gyffy Giraffe™. Rody Horse™ is a soft rubbery toy for toddlers to bounce on, and it promotes balance. It is like a fitness ball for little ones.

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PRESCHOOLERSAt this age pretend play starts to take root, so kitchen sets and tool benches are a good choice. Hubbard also rec-ommends puzzles, blocks and simple games. She added that dolls are good for boys and girls because they have a natural curiosity about babies and want to nurture someone.

ELEMENTARY STUDENTSRokusek and Hubbard agree that building blocks are a great choice regardless of gender or age. “One of every four toys sold is a build-ing toy,” said Hubbard. There are a wide vari-ety of building toys on the market. Rokusek likes the Lincoln Logs™ and basic w o o d e n b l o c k s . Crickets offers Jaw Bones™, which are colorful plastic pieces that slide together to form any shape imaginable.

Board games, puzzles, marbles, dolls, magic sets, art kits, die-cast vehicles and pop-up books are also recommended. The choices made for this age group will be based on your child’s interest. Rokusek likes non-electronic toys because they are “simple. Life is too complex already.

There are a wide vari-ety of building toys onthe market. Rokuseklikes the Lincoln Logs™ and basic w o o d e nb l o c k s . Cricketsoffers JawBones™,which are colorful plastic piecesthat slide together to form any shapeimaginable.

Board games, puzzles, marbles, dolls,magic sets, art kits, die-cast vehicles andpop-up books are also recommended.The choices made for this age group willbe based on your child’s interest. Rokuseklikes non-electronic toys because theyare “simple. Life is too complex already.

Simple toys are easier for everybody.” When you have children a few years apart in age, these simple toys can

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suggests returning to classic toy roots with puzzlers like Rubic’s Cube™ and card games. Hubbard offers a game called Jishaku for teens 14 years and older that teaches sci-ence while promoting problem-solving skills.

Both proprietors like auto bingo for all ages. Many board games can entertain the entire

family, but for the more active clans, don’t forget WiffleTM ball, baseball, soccer, football or the sport of your choice. Be sure to include sleds, skis and ice skates as choices for when we get our “yearly foot” of snow here in the Midwest.

Rokusek believes a 10-year-old lives inside all of us, so parents should get in there and play with the kids. Simpler toys may not require a lot of skill, but they can provide plenty of

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The Fear FactorWe’ve all been there. For me, it was the bathroom door at the local pizzeria I couldn’t quite wrench open at age five; convinced that I would simply be trapped in the bathroom for eternity and that my family would leave without me, I developed a mild case of claustro-phobia. Ever since, root cellars, elevators and even crowded hallways have caused my blood pressure to rise. Don’t even get me started on roller coasters.

No matter how many times I have told myself that my fears are irrational, it does not make them any less real. Though the source of our fears may change over time, the nagging anxiety does not completely dis-sipate from our daily experiences. The same struggle exists for area children of all ages.

THE FOUNDATION OF FEARExperiencing fear can begin at a young age and persist throughout our lifetimes. Dr. Tim Boffeli, Associate Pro-fessor of Psychology and Department Chair at Clarke University, notes that all individuals experience “innate fears” that can originate from early negative encoun-

ters. “Typically, we have a memory that sparks a fight or flight response in our brains,” Boffeli explained. When kids—and adults, for that matter—confront something that scares them, the “fear center kicks in,” causing those infamous physical sensations of fear. Dr. Tim Boffeli



phobias (the fear of public scrutiny or humiliation).

While children and adults can experi-ence these types of phobias and more, simple fears tend to be more preva-lent in children. Sociologist Guy E. Swanson noted in his article “Phobias and Some Related Symptoms” that “. . . ‘simple’ fears can be intense and disruptive. For most people, however, these fears are strong only in early childhood, if then, and subsequently diminish or disappear” (Sociologi-cal Forum, 1986). This explains how even the boldest, friendliest five-year-old may experience considerable anx-iety when confronted with a spider as opposed to a new babysitter.

WHEN FEARS BECOME PHOBIASOf course, children experience their fears as individually as adults do. While there are some common fears many children experience as they age (“stranger danger” in toddlers, for example), the objects and issues that trigger their fear and the degree to which kids react can vary widely. Part of helping children overcome their fears is to encourage them to develop a sense of acceptance of their unique-ness and fears, Nemmers advised.

There are many ways fear can manifest in a child’s behavior, but a few cardinal reactions usually indicate that a child is experiencing fear. “Typically, tummy aches, sometimes headaches,” said Nemmers. “The tummy is usually the hallmark; kids are usually obviously and outwardly ill with a virus,” Nemmers explained, while sudden, nonspecific stomachaches can be indicative of fear manifesting itself physically.

Fear often manifests itself in progres-sive ways as kids age. According to kidshealth.org, the following fears are typical for their corresponding age groups:

Infants: Fear of separation from par-ents, being amongst strangers

Toddlers: (10–18 months): Fear of one or both parents leaving

Children ages 4–6 years: Fear of the supernatural (i.e., ghosts, monsters, the dark, etc.)

Children ages 7–12 years: Fear of nega-tive life events (i.e., natural disasters, bodily harm, etc.)

Kidshealth.org offers the following tips for helping kids face and overcome their fears:

See the fear through the child’s eyes; the fear is very real, regardless of how silly it may seem to an adult. Be open to discussing the fear with the child. Dis-cussions about the fear itself can make it less terrifying.

Avoid discounting the fear as ridicu-lous; as an adult, you may know there’s nothing to fear about the dark, but a child may be convinced otherwise. Instead, invite comfort and discussion to help the child overcome their fear.

While fears may be very real, avoid catering to them. Rather, support your child as they approach their fear to their comfort level.

Develop a rating system for fear. This will not only help adults relate to a child’s anxiety level, but help the child visualize their own level of fear and that it may not be as scary as they first thought.

Implement strategies for facing fears. Encourage the child to use positive statements (“I can do this,” “I will be alright”) when approaching a fear. Act as a home base for comfort and support for the child to return to after they have interacted with the object of their fear.

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Counselor Judy Nemmers also noted “there are basic human fears: aban-donment, separation . . . trauma can cause deeper fears” requiring inter-ventions that may need to be more intense, adding that research shows fear begins very early, possibly as early as 8 or 9 months. Nemmers explained that “children’s brains are impacted by not having their needs met,” which can lead to physi-ological changes in a child’s brain chemistry and the development of insecurities that can impact them throughout their lives.

As any parent knows, fear is just as real for kids as it is for adults. Whether it is bugs, thunderstorms, things that go bump in the night or even clowns, children certainly experience the same types of anxieties adults do. According to Nemmers some of the most common are “the dark, strang-ers, separation and that a parent won’t return.” As kids get older and become more aware of the world, issues such as natural disasters, political crises or general “fear of uncertainty” can become an older child’s new monster under the bed, Nemmers said.

However, the causes of fear in children vary slightly from what makes an adult’s skin crawl. Mental Health America has broken down phobias—which are extended, long-term fears—into three general categories: agoraphobia (the fear of being alone in or unable to escape public spaces); simple, specific phobias (fear of objects and situations that are relatively safe); and social



to] say ‘I don’t have to be afraid,’” explained Boffeli.

Nemmers also suggests to consider your child’s level of coping with fear. “Be aware of the uniqueness of your child, who they are, what they can tolerate, what they can’t. Respect different needs [and] personality traits,” she explained. Parents should “learn the balance between provid-ing security and comfort and help-ing a child develop self-confidence and an internal locus of control—a choice in how they think about the world. Help [your] child not see themselves as helpless and not completely dependent on a parent.” She added kids need to understand that “parents will teach you how to fly—help you face your fears [with] support.”

The silver lining in fear situations for kids is that they will learn the valu-able lesson of coping with what they cannot control. “We develop ways of coping with fear so that fears don’t negatively impact functioning,” said Nemmers. So, while many parents may struggle with their child’s fears as much as their child does, bear in mind that these are growing pains for children. By making sure our kids feel heard when they communicate about their fears, kids learn to under-stand that they can have control and strength as they face their fears and anxieties, Nemmers explained.

With these essential skills, kids can learn to brave all kinds of monsters, from those that lurk under the bed and in closets to the kind that accom-pany college entrance exams. And, perhaps one day, roller coasters as well.

Nemmers pointed out that in a child’s life, “childhood fears are natural, but go out of control with lack of struc-ture and stability.”

“Fear is a part of the human condi-tion,” Nemmers explained. Anxiety caused by phobias, however, can get in the way of a person’s functioning in life, and indicate the onset of a more serious disorder. “School avoid-ance, vomiting, inability to physically get to school and being so terrified that they can’t function” may all be signs of anxiety that “probably needs to be addressed professionally,” said Nemmers.

FIGHTING THE FEAROf course, there are methods to learn-ing how to cope with fear. Boffeli suggested that “the approach parents should use is exposure—put the child in the presence of the phobia—sys-tematically, incrementally expose the person to the feared object.” The “exposure issue” is very key, said Bof-feli. Parents don’t like to see kids cry or suffer; however, exposing children to their “feared objects” will help them understand that they can cope with their fear. “The brain [learns

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One overlapping issue to bear in mind, however, is the transformation fears can make into phobias, which can, if underestimated, lead to anxi-ety issues for kids. Kidshealth.org, a website dedicated to a wide range of children’s health issues, notes that “if anxious feelings persist, they can take a toll on a child’s sense of wellbeing.” Kids unable to cope with their fears can begin to suffer physical ailments such as stomachaches, headaches, nausea and sleep pattern disturbances.

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It’s Halloween—the dead are rising and so are blood sugars. Of course, it wouldn’t be Halloween to your child without some sweet indulgence, but keep in mind there are healthier alter-natives that still provide the visual appeal and tastiness kids love and nutrients parents can feel good about. Fortunately, this is one holiday where you can test your culinary creativity and the end product doesn’t have to look pretty!

Whether you’re hosting a children’s party or just baking for fun this Hal-loween, a simple swap of ingredients like white flour to whole-wheat flour adds a nutritious spin to an otherwise regular recipe. Instead of pure sugar, try using sugar alternatives like agave nectar, honey or TruviaTM. These products are sweeter than sugar and

thus require smaller amounts in reci-pes. And because all of these are low on the glycemic index, they won’t spike blood sugar levels. If you nor-mally leave bowls of candy bars and M&Ms™ out for the kids, try swap-ping those out with goldfish crackers, trail mix, or snack-pack puddings. Toss some granola and pure fruit-juice gummy worms in sugar-free choco-late pudding and, ta-dah, you’ve got worms in mud.

If easy and gross is what you’re aim-ing for, try taking an ordinary food and altering a part of it—for exam-ple, peeling the skins off of grapes creates slimy eyeballs. Jell-O™ is always a staple for gross texture, plus it’s versatile for adding extra goodies inside the gelatin like gummy worms or fruit. If your children like veggies,

hollow out the insides of cherry tomatoes and fill with flavored cream cheese to simulate oozing pimples. Create “booger dip” by adding green food coloring to melted cheese (pairs well with pretzel sticks for dipping). Another option is to dye the cheese a bloody red and pair with black tor-tilla chips.

The gross foods of the holiday just wouldn’t be complete without a fes-tive beverage of blood or swamp juice. Instead of serving sodas and corn syrup-filled juices, try color-ful punches made with natural fruit juices and club soda. If you want to avoid sugar completely, simply drop some green or red food coloring into water. You could even toss some fake bugs into the ice cubes (just make sure the kids realize they are not edible!).

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Bugs and blood aside, a more “normal” drink not specific to just Halloween is homemade apple cider—something both kids and parents can enjoy after a cool night of trick-or-treating.

To be conscious of not only your own children’s nutrition but also that of the trick-or-treaters knocking at your door, try handing out some of these treats that are lower in fat and sugar:

cereal bars

snack packets of dried fruit, baked pretzels, nuts, and seeds

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packages of low-fat crackers with cheese or peanut butter filling

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As if reading the food labels on candy isn’t scary enough, consider what a bucket full of it is doing to your child’s body. Sugar has no nutri-tional value except to add calories, and unless you live in a dungeon, you know that American children consume too many empty calories! This Halloween, try living in FEAR:

Feed your kids a nutritious meal before trick-or-treating.

Encourage sharing treats with others and saving some for later.

Assign a limit as to how many treats they can have.

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Though we don’t always think about it, a tremendous amount of behind-the-scenes work goes into making a com-

munity the best place it can be. Volunteers across the nation are responsible for a great deal of civic happenings, including (but certainly not limited to) fundraising, education, natural disaster clean-ups and housing those who may otherwise go without.

The tri-state area is no exception. Across the four counties that make up parenting: TODAY & TOMORROW’S readership, thousands

of volunteers contribute countless hours of community service for the benefit of all. In fact, VolunteeringInAmerica.gov estimates 886,900 volunteers contributed 93.4 million hours of service across the state of Iowa last year alone. 2.7 million Illinois volunteers logged approximately 347 million hours in that time span, while 159.1 million hours were contributed by 1.5 million volunteers statewide in Wis-consin. All together, these volunteers con-tributed about $12.8 billion in service to their home states.


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To say this makes a huge impact would be an understatement. Every year, community members donate time, money and skills in order to better their surroundings, the quality of life for others and, on a secondary level, their roles as engaged civic members.

In order to better understand the responsibilities and rewards of vol-unteering, I spoke with some local experts—members of YAPPERS, or Youth Area Philanthropists. Composed of high school students from the Dubuque community, YAPPERS is an organization requiring its members to dedicate their time to community service, grant making and philanthropy. These area teens also serve as youth board members of the Community Foundation of Greater Dubuque. Five members of this highly driven conglomerate of area teens sat down to discuss the challenges and benefits of philanthropic work with YAPPERS and other organizations.

It was obvious that these young phi-lanthropists were bitten by the “vol-unteer bug” early in life. Wahlert student Claire Wareham estimates that she was about 8 years old when she began volunteering, noting that it was “always easy to find something to do at church.” Fellow Wahlert stu-dent Sarah Fricano was about 6 when she started to volunteer at the food pantry with her mother.

These young women recommend starting volunteer work when you are

young. Fricano explained that volun-teering at a young age “influences the way you grow up.”

Senior High School student Jenna Manders said the “lessons you learn volunteering are more informative when you’re young.”

Wareham added that it’s “much easier to form [volun-teering as] a habit when you’re young, but you can teach an old dog new tricks!” She also pointed out that volunteer oppor-tunities are a great way for adults to set an example

for children. Despite their own early starts, Wareham insisted that kids and adults are never too old to start volunteering.

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these community-immersed stu-dents is fitting the time into their schedules. Fricano noted that it’s hard “finding time to do it” when balancing her schoolwork and extracurricular activities. Manders added that “if you’re taking on a big project, getting enough people involved and getting others moti-vated” can prove challenging. Doing something oth-ers won’t, knowing you could be doing other things and volunteer-ing for the right reasons may pose conflicts for young volunteers, added Wareham.

Challenges aside, volunteer-ing has clearly proved worth-while for these YAPPERS. Volunteering has brought with

it unexpected benefits, such as irre-placeable life lessons. “You don’t take anything for granted,” Fricano said, noting that many of the indi-viduals she has helped through her volunteer work are fighting to get out of poverty. Wareham added that

v o l u n t e e r i n g can be “really humbling,

seeing people that work so hard for things you feel like you’ve been handed . . . you see things through someone else’s eyes.” Manders concurred, add-ing that volunteering “makes you want to make each moment of your life worthwhile—enjoyable.”

Indeed, witnessing the effects of poverty is a common thread in what drives YAPPERS to volunteer. Senior High School student Amber Gulyash pointed out “that could be me in poverty; I’m helping someone.”

Once you know poverty is there, it’s hard to ignore it, said Fricano. “You

hope that someone would return the favor if you were in that situation,” added Manders.

Along with fundamental life lessons, YAPPERS are also aware of the effect their efforts have had on the greater Dubuque com-munity. “Vol-unteering is good for any community, b e t t e r i n g the place, the atmo-s p h e r e .

Helping out is always good,” Manders

concluded. Among their volunteering accomplishments in Dubuque, YAP-PERS have completed many local service projects, such as post-flood cleanup in downtown Dubuque, par-ticipating in the Bridges Out of Pov-erty program and working in Dubuque school revitalization on National Ser-vice Day—Martin Luther King, Jr.’s birthday. Given their participation in these programs, it’s easy to see why Wareham feels volunteering has given her a “better sense of the community.”

These YAPPERS recommend volun-teering for those who are interested or even curious about it. Manders advised local kids to “get involved, look for opportunity, don’t be afraid to try it.” Gulyash agreed, noting

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that there are volunteering opportunities everywhere so “step outside the box.” Senior High School stu-dent Brittany Blunk concluded succinctly, “It’s fun!”

On a more serious note, Wareham said “in order to be a member of the community, you need to educate yourself about the com-munity,” which she was able to do through volunteerism.

Fricano considers volunteering a “good experience for everyone to have.” Her advice to local kids: “If there’s something you really like, focus your volunteering around that.”

Gathering a group of friends to vol-unteer makes for a great shared expe-rience. Blunk noted that many of her friends volunteer at their respective churches, the Dubuque Regional Humane Society and the Dubuque Rescue Mission. She noted that while some friends think volunteer-ing sounds boring at first, when she tells them about the kinds of volun-teer work she does, they often change their minds. Wareham suggests inter-ested kids and youth “get someone else involved that you enjoy being around—you’ll leave with a sense of accomplishment.”

Given their first-hand experience with the challenges and benefits of volunteering, community service and philanthropy, these YAPPERS are sure to be volunteers for life. Manders will “definitely” be vol-unteering as an adult, stating that

her youth volunteering has “taught me to keep at it. I hope to do it a lot more.” Wareham agreed, noting “there’s always people that are going to need help. There’s always some-one worse off.” Fricano described her volunteering as “a habit now,” con-cluding that she sees volunteering as a personal responsibility by exercis-ing the popular idiom, “Ignorance is bliss, but not an excuse.”

A final warning to parents: Being “bitten” by the “volunteer bug” at

a young age may result in a lifelong volunteering habit which includes side effects such as a sense of accom-plishment, increased awareness of your community, acute empathy and appreciation for what you have. However, as Manders concludes, “there’s no bad side to volunteering.” Spoken like a true victim of the “vol-unteer bug.”



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Right now, David’s on leave, so supper is usually made and the laundry and dishes are done by the time Cathie returns from work. It is the “temporary absence of my partner,” that she greatly misses when he is over seas or training, said Cathie. For Nick, he misses having his Dad to talk to when-ever he needs. While Alex feels his absence most at sporting events and Ellie especially misses him during family fishing, swimming and boating trips. David struggles most with making sure everything is okay at home “from 6,000 miles away.” He added that, along with his service to his country, his kids and wife have served too.

Nonetheless, the Tielbars are undoubtedly a tight-knit tribe. They try to get at least four sit-down meals a week as a family, Cathie explains, noting that they can better share “our daily bread” spiritually when they are able to break bread physically. The “fellow-ship is what supports a family,” Cathie said. The Tielbars have sought—and clearly found—this fel-lowship in other military families, their spirituality and each other.

We at parenting: TODAY & TOMORROW extend our deepest gratitude to the Tielbars and all military families as they carry the greatest burdens and hon-ors of armed service.

by Amanda Kloser

“Nick came from Mommy’s tummy, and Alex came from Mommy’s tummy. I came from Mommy’s . . .”

“Heart.” Cathie Tielbar gently finishes her daugh-ter’s sentence as 8-year-old Ellie explains her and her brothers’ origins. By the time she celebrated her third birthday, Ellie Tielbar joined her brothers and parents in the United States after making a long trek from South Korea, her birth country.

Sergeant and proud papa David Tielbar explained: “We are a German, Italian, Korean family.”

Within the first few minutes spent with this family, it becomes apparent that the whole Tielbar house-hold is consumed in just that: Heart. After 22 years of marriage, Cathie and David have weathered many of the typical ups and downs of family life raising 18-year-old Nick, 15-year-old Alex, and Ellie. Add to that the four deployments with the 133rd Division Company A of the Iowa National Guard David has experienced, and you begin to see how this clan has become so tight-knit through their spirituality, love of country and, of course, each other.

A typical week in the Tielbar house is filled with plenty of extra-curricular activities. Nick, Alex and Ellie are immersed in sports, choir, school produc-tions and church activities. Cathie balances her position as Operations Manager at the Guttenberg Pharmacy with spending time with her family and David is embarking on his first semester as a gradu-ate student at Wartburg Seminary in Dubuque.

DSERVING THOSE WHO HAVE SERVEDhasIf you are or know a service member who how-recently returned from active duty, the follonsi-ing organizations can help make the tran

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Your local company/battalion’s Family Readiness Group (www.armyfrg.org)

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other events together. These parents make family time mandatory and instill this value in their children from a young age. The second family doesn’t have planned time together, but the parents volunteer at their children’s events so they know who their kids are with and what they are doing, and the children know they are being supported. Time is spent with their kids, but it is less struc-tured. Both types of families work; it just depends on what works for you, said Bryant.

As the children get older and become involved in sports and other activi-ties, maintaining that family time can be difficult, but it can be done

with some forethought and flex-ibility. Perhaps every evening meal together isn’t possible, but two meals can be scheduled. Maybe the fam-ily meal becomes breakfast instead of dinner. The schedule needs to be what works for your family, but this is the time parents need to outlaw cell phones, MP3 players, video games and other electronic devices so fam-ily members can talk to one another. Bryant said this might only be 20 minutes a day, but it is the best way to find out what is going on in your kids’ lives and to maintain your fam-ily’s core values.

Setting limits on children, espe-cially teens, can be difficult, but it

Hanging out with Mom and Dad is not cool. For some parents, this is why preparing for a family get-together becomes a contentious process when they have a teen who simply doesn’t want to participate.

This can become a huge argument with both sides feeling they are not being heard, or it can be an oppor-tunity to show your teen how to be respectful and negotiate. Casey Bry-ant, professional counselor at West-ern Dubuque High School, said it is up to parents to keep the situation from escalating.

The easiest way to do this is to set your expectations for your children at a young age. Respect for parents needs to be built over time, explained Bryant. If family meals or a family night are established at a young age, children become accustomed to it and will argue less about it in the teen years because that simply is the way their family operates.

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frees up time for family. “All teen-agers need limits—they are not very well-known for setting healthy limits for themselves,” said Bryant. Establishing limits on cell phone use, computer time, video games and other preferred teen activities on a daily basis will make it easier when you have to deal with the potential drama of going to a larger family event.

If you have older children and haven’t instilled the “family first

mentality,” don’t lose hope. It can be done, but it is going to take work, said Bryant.

When the family reunion rolls around, your hard work when the kids were younger will pay off, but it still may not be easy. Teens want free-dom and not your direct super-vision, so a large family event doesn’t seem too inviting. Bryant said the first step is to be clear that missing the event is not an option.

Parents need to know they are going to be manipulated by their teen. “You have to find a level of manipu-lation you can live with and keep your family values intact,” said Bry-ant. For parents, this is a delicate balancing act.

Being a teen today is completely different than when you were grow-ing up. With today’s hand-held technology, teens are in touch with their friends all day regardless of where they are. When teens try to guilt you into letting them skip the family event because you will ruin their weekend, parents need to use the technology to their advantage, said Bryant. At any family event the

teen is bound to spend at least part of the time texting friends, and par-ents should state that fact. Remind teens they will never be far from their friends even if they are miles apart.

He also remarked that diplomati-cally saying no takes skill. “Being the bad guy is a necessary evil if you want your kids to grow up to be decent human beings,” said Bryant.

Parents can still be understanding and compassionate. Bryant said it is important to show your teen empa-thy about missing out on an event with their friends, but they also need to know family is first.

“Don’t be afraid to negotiate,” advises Bryant. “Most teenagers are very understanding human beings.”

Tell your teen that he or she needs to make an appearance and spend a specified amount of time talk-ing to family members with the phone turned off and the ear buds unplugged. It is important to estab-lish that family functions are more than just a big meal with people you see only a few times a year.

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then leave to attend an event with friends. Teens need to be around peo-ple their own age conveyed Bryant. Functions can be difficult if there are others attending who are not within there own age group.

Another approach is to give your teen a specific task when preparing for the event. They can be respon-sible for a dish to pass, decorating or planning a game for everyone to play. Ask your teen for ideas, because they might think of something they find more entertaining than anything you would come up with.

“I’ve found at family events that if they’re doing something, time goes faster and they have fun,” said Bry-ant. He suggests letting the kids pack games or other options that will keep them occupied. Many times those alternatives aren’t needed, but the kids feel better knowing they have possible alternatives. Keeping young-sters busy means less stress for every-one, remarked Bryant.

If your teen is one of the oldest chil-dren at an event and ends up baby-sitting the younger children, you could pay them for helping out. “I’m not suggesting that you pay your kids to do things,” said Bryant, “but everyone’s time is worth something.” Even a small gesture to show they are appreciated can go a long way toward keeping the peace.

Family gatherings you expect your teen to attend are bound to be part of the upcoming holiday season. One impor-tant point to remember around the holidays is that people often expect everyone to be happy, but “holiday time is not always a happy time,” said Bryant.

A family that is struggling now has to spend a lot more time together because kids are home from school. Bryant said it is the parents’ responsibility to make this a happy time regardless of family tribulations. Be clear that it is family time and let kids help with some of the planning; doing so may make chil-dren, especially teens, appreciate and enjoy holiday get-togethers.

In the end remember, as much as they deny it, teenagers love their parents, and eventually they will appreciate the memories of shared family time as adults.

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It’s nearing that time of year when candy and desserts become their own food groups, wreak-ing havoc on teeth and gums as well as waist-lines. Especially during Halloween it’s important to make sure your youngster’s chompers are protected after indulging in extra sugar. Nation-ally, tooth decay in children ages 2–11 is on the rise every year; dental caries (cavities) are the most common chronic childhood disease in the United States. With the help of a toothbrush, floss and sensible eating habits, they are easily prevented.

Amy Duehr, dental hygienist at Stoffel Family Dentistry in Dubuque, said she sees a higher instance of cavities in young children of this generation, with some even requiring anesthesia to repair a mouthful of cavities. As a mother of two young children who trick-or-treat for Halloween, Duehr said contrary to what might seem like a healthier option, it’s actually harder on the teeth to space out the amount of time between sugary treats. “It’s better to eat or drink sugar in one sitting rather than snack or sip for a long period of time because when you introduce sugar into the mouth, pH (acidity) level in the mouth drops, and it takes a while to get that level back up to a non-cavity-causing level,” she said. Because

cavities are created from bacteria that feed off sugar, the longer sugar sits in the mouth, the more potential for fillings at your child’s next visit to the dentist.

A Halloween surplus of sugar (and ferment-able carbohydrates in general) is never great for oral health, but there are some candies that are worse for teeth than others. Duehr said the stickier the candy, the more damage it causes to your teeth. “Sticky candy has a

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Duehr stressed that even though a child might still have his or her baby teeth, it’s important to treat those teeth as if they were permanent. There are many products to choose

from that have kid appeal, but Duehr said even the most

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It’s unlikely that people will be handing out toothbrushes and floss to your trick-or-treaters, so remind your child of the importance of oral care not just on Halloween but every day of the year. If your child has a sweet tooth (and what child doesn’t?), regular brushing and

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ith urban sprawl and many parents working jobs far from Midwestern agricultural roots, many children never get the chance to visit a farm.

The Tri-State Market & Pumpkin Barn in rural East Dubuque, Illinois, allows families a glimpse of farm fun, an up-close encounter with animals and the opportunity to see the origins of the veg-etables they find on their dinner plates.

The market has been a family business since the 1900s when the family pulled a wagon into downtown Dubuque and sold fresh vegetables at the farmer’s market. In the 1960s the family built their current roadside stand and opened the pumpkin barn in 1965. Mary Jo May and her hus-band Fred took over the farm from her parents, and now their son Terry May runs the market.

You will discover an old country market feeling at the roadside stand along Illinois Route 35. Fresh, seasonal fruits and vegetables are available spring through fall. In addition, Mary Jo also sells her freshly baked and canned goods, including a variety of breads and cookies, jams and salsa. If you prefer to spend time in the kitchen yourself, ask Mary Jo for some of her recipes for your favor-ite vegetables or fruits. Even some local chefs have picked up her recipes when they purchased fresh produce from the market.

The kids will especially love the pumpkin barn, which is brimming with pumpkins of all colors, shapes and sizes. You can find the perfect pump-kin to turn into a jack-o-lantern or the ideal gourd for your pies. The theme of the barn is “It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown,” and you might even discover several of the characters among the hay bales.

Behind the barn are more attractions sure to keep your young ones smil-ing. A variety of farm animals will happily greet small hands with their warm licks. Aspiring farmers can climb atop an antique tractor and pretend to plant the fields.

If your brood includes some rambunctious young ones, the bounce house and inflatable slide will be sure to burn extra energy. The explorers in your clan can lead the family through the corn maze while the haunted barn welcomes any brave souls who make their way through the basement of the barn. On Sunday afternoons a pair of horses get in on the action by providing wagon rides through a field near the barn. Ride bracelets can be pur-chased for all attractions.

As the May family has grown, the children, and now grandchildren, have added their own touches to the fall fun, making lasting memories for any family visiting the market.

The Tri-State Market & Pumpkin Barn is open daily September 1–October 1, from 9 A.M. to 6 P.M. It is located at 1887 Highway 35 North, East Dubuque, Illinois, about 1.5 miles north of East Dubuque. All outdoor activities are on a weather-permitting basis. Call 815-747-6832 with questions or for more details.

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Before you can even pack away the kids’ Halloween cos-tumes for the year, fixings for pumpkin pies, dressing and cornucopias are all over the stores. And before you

can even baste the Thanksgiving turkey, your kids are scream-ing “I want that!” to the Black Friday ads on TV. The period of back-to-back holidays from Halloween through New Year’s can leave parents stressed out, but what about your kids? Holidays are generally perceived as constant elation for children but in reality those few months can leave them moody and overstimulated.

Joe Nemmers, lead therapist and licensed clini-cal social worker at Hillcrest Family Services in Dubuque, says much of the holiday stress is media-driven. “There’s a lot of hype culturally about what holidays should be like, and when yours doesn’t live up to that, you wonder what’s wrong with you and your family,” Nemmers said. “I think the media blitz has gotten worse over the years; it’s hard to keep up with those expectations. It seems like an attempt to mask what’s really going on in reality.”

The reality this holiday season is that many people are sitting financially and emotionally drained. Holidays like Thanksgiv-ing and Christmas generally mean family get-togethers, and that

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Aside from family issues during the holi-days, another cause of holiday glum in children is due to a break in routine and just plain overstimulation. For kids, the holidays are all about sensory overload and anticipation and it can be especially difficult for little ones to be thrown off schedule. “Children thrive on routine because it gives them a sense of security and stability. Limit-setting is part of a routine and behavior problems increase when that routine is not there,” Nem-mers said.

If you travel with small children for the holidays, Nemmers said keeping them informed is good for maintaining a sense of stability. “Tell them what’s coming up, where you’re going, and what you’re going to be doing when you get there,” he said.

The holidays and winter climate in gen-eral can also disrupt a child’s activity level and diet—two factors that can make a world of difference in your child’s mood. Try to keep them physically active and limit their fat and sugar intake.

Children will commonly experience behavioral ups and downs during the holiday season that should pass as the hoopla is over and things go back to real-ity. Justmann said setbacks and repressed aggression in kids often come out during the holidays, but if it doesn’t recess after the holidays are over, seek the help of a counselor for your child. Approach the holidays not as a time to buy things and force family cheeriness but as a time to give thanks for what your family has and to create fun memories regardless of how your family compares with the media “norm.”

can rile up reminders of what’s been severed within a family—through divorce, death, military leave, or the loss of financial stability. These sound like adult issues, but children tend to mirror the stresses their parents are feeling. Nemmers said parents should relay the emotions they wish their chil-dren to follow. “Keep yourself together, be emotionally strong, and show that you are moving forward,” he said.

Unfortunately, out of all the holiday stressors, divorce is a common one that can shake up a child’s holiday. Regard-less of the new family structure following a divorce, it’s important to listen to your children and let them feel their emotions, but focus on moving on and creating new traditions. Nemmers advises parents not to force their children—especially teens—to attend an event where one parent is introducing a new companion because children will feel a loss of con-trol in the situation. Instead, if they are

having a difficult time with it, Nemmers suggests maybe allowing them to bring a friend along to give back that sense of control. While it is normal for children to feel a grief response to the loss of fam-ily as they knew it, Nemmers said parents should affirm to them that “you’re not los-ing your family, you’re just changing.”

Sarah Justmann, advanced registered nurse practitioner at Hillcrest Family Ser-vices, said the best thing divorced or feud-ing parents can do during the holidays is be civil toward each other. “Primarily with small children, impressions stick lon-ger and harder. You’re the one helping them form opinions about the other respective parent so it’s important to get along and main-tain consistent discipline of the child from both parents so the child doesn’t take sides,” Justmann said.

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Sniffles for Bear, the third and newest picture book featuring the endearing Bear and Mouse, is finally here. This time around Bear is sick and grumpy and his friend Mouse does everything he can think of to speed Bear’s recovery; he reads him a story, plucks him a tune on his banjo, and serves him soup—all to no avail. When Bear wakes up from a long nap finally feeling refreshed, he discovers his buddy Mouse now has the sniffles and it is his turn to nurse him back to health. Find out if this old curmudgeon is up to the task! This comical

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story about selflessness and friendship begs to be read aloud and discussed.

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MUSIC Teenage Dream Katy Perry, 2010 Capitol Recordsby Amanda Kloser

In her latest release, pop superstar Katy Perry stretches the limits between bubblegum and hard-core. Though certainly packaged in the melodies and dance-club worthy beats that have defined successful pop music as of late, Perry’s latest effort sometimes appears as R-rated content presented in PG-13 clothing.

The Bad News: Loaded with catchy beats and addicting hooks, Perry’s latest album is radio play list gold. The content, however, does not always prove so appealing. Often featuring not-so-veiled

innuendo and the occasional unsavory four-letter word (“Peacock,” “Circle the Drain”), Perry illus-trates that she has irreverently and unapologeti-cally broken the bonds that kept Britney’s “Oops . . . I Did It Again” days in check. Though never overtly obscene, Perry often flirts with inappropriate, par-ticularly for younger listeners. Her dance-inspiring grooves tend to promote copious alcohol consump-tion and partying, which may send the wrong mes-sage to teenage fans (“Last Friday Night”). Sexual

exploitation also maintains a presence (“California Gurls,” “Hummingbird Heartbeat”).

The Good News: There are heartfelt and redemp-tive pieces to this album. Perry takes this opportu-nity to reflect on loves won and lost (“The One That Got Away,” “Not Like the Movies”) and, most poi-gnantly, the importance of love for self (“Firework”). Particularly appealing to young female listeners, these tracks show that who you are is not depen-dent on relationships (“Pearl”), and that you are “even brighter than the moon” just the way you are (“Firework”).

The Bottom Line: Suffice it to say that this album is branded with the parental advisory label for a reason. Though it would be unfair to categorize the entire album as music industry smut, much of the content leans toward adult issues and should be handled with care, particularly for younger listen-ers. Kids are going to love the dance-heavy beats and catchy hooks, but parents and guardians will find some lyrical content objectionable. Listening to this album together and discussing the impor-tance of self-respect can make Perry’s latest effort a teaching moment by discussing the ways of the music industry and making positive choices.

Amanda Kloser graduated from Luther College with degrees in English, Anthropology and Gender Studies. She plans to further study the intersection between culture and music.

WONDERSTRUCK Chapter Book, Brian Selznick, (Scholastic Press: 2011) by Stormy Mochal

Following the Caldecott Medal win-ning The Invention of Hugo Cabret (2007), Selznick is back with his newest master-piece Wonderstruck. Within these 600 pages are two character’s stories: Rose’s told through Sel-znick’s impeccable charcoal drawings and Ben’s told through Selznick’s straightforward text. Set 50 years apart, Rose’s story begins in 1927 and even-tually collides with Ben’s in New York City in 1977. Both are searching for love and are willing to risk everything to find it. Literally watch their stories unfold in this rich, complex, and stunning novel.

Readers may want to read this title on their own or aloud. (It is also recommended for the reluctant reader because the large number of illustrations will hold their attention.)

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Stormy is also a children’s book illustrator. Her first book, The Juggler, will be released in September 2011 by Ice Cube Press. Stormy lives with her husband Tony, who is an artist and their two cats, one who wishes she was an artist.



OCTOBERGalena Oktoberfest, Eastside Riverfront, Galena—October 1, noon–10 P.M. Annual German celebration featuring live music, wiener dog races and food and beverage. Adults/teens $5, chil-dren free.

Dubuque Symphony Opening Weekend: 53rd Season, Five Flags Theater, Dubuque—October 1, 7:30 P.M. and October 2, 2 P.M.The orchestra’s 53rd season kicks off with an all-Russian pro-gram. Tickets available at the Five Flags box office and through Ticketmaster, $12–$46. For more information, visit http://www.dubuquesymphony.org.

Bellevue Fire Department Breakfast, Bellevue Fire Department, Bellevue—October 2. Call 563-872-4949 for more information.

Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 3, 10, 17, 24, 31, 9:15 and 10:30 A.M. This 20-minute program features short stories, songs and movement activities for chil-dren ages 18–35 months with a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

Mother Goose Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 4, 11, 18, 25, 10:30 A.M. Children ages birth–18 months and a favorite adult will learn songs and action rhymes during this interactive program. A 15-minute social time will follow the sessions. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

Kennedy Mall Story Time, Kennedy Mall, Dubuque—October 6, 10:30 A.M. Take a break from your shopping or plan a trip to join library staff in this unique setting. On the first Thursday of the month, in partnership with Kennedy Mall and Finley Hospital, we offer wellness themed stories and songs at the Finley Play Area between Sears and Younkers. Story times are free and open to the public.

Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 6, 13, 20, 27, 6:30 P.M. This 20-minute program features short stories, songs and movement activities for children ages 18–35 months with a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

Teen Café, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 6, 3:30–5 P.M. The Teen Zone area will transform into the Teen Café for you to drop in after school for some fun and refreshments. Look at books, work on a simple craft project, surf the Internet or hang out with friends. Ages 12–High School. No registration required.

Read-Aloud Crowd, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 7, 14, 21, 28, 10:30 A.M. Stories, sing-alongs, movement activities, circle games and lots of fun—recommended for chil-dren ages 3–6 with a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

Driftless Film Festival, the Avalon Cinema, Platteville—Octo-ber 7–9. Check out independent films during this festival. Visit driftlessfilmfestival.com for more information.

One Act Play Festival Winners, Grand Opera House, Dubuque—October 7–8. The Dubuque Fine Arts Players’ one-act play con-test receives entries from around the country and the world. The top 3 will be staged. Admission charged. For more information, visit http://www.thegrandoperahouse.com.

Beckman Catholic High School Gala, Dyersville—October 8. Please call the school for more information, 563-875-7188.

Donkey Love and Chili Supper Day, Joyful Acres, Galena—Octo-ber 8, 2–6 P.M. Adoptable, sweet, affectionate donkeys waiting for love, treats and petting. Chili supper and fixings. Games, fun, hot cider and more.

Galena Country Fair, Galena—October 8–9. Annual country fair and craft show with more than 150 vendors. Fair food, live entertainment, children’s games, farmers’ markets. Suggested donation: $2

Senior High Orchestra Concert, Carnegie-Stout Public Library—Octo-ber 8, 10–10:30 A.M. Join us for an entertaining and educational con-cert for children and families. We will listen to spooky music such as “The Evil Eye and the Hideous Heart” and hear quotes from Edgar Allen Poe’s work. The concert will be held in Aigler auditorium on the 3rd floor. All ages welcome.

Reading with Rover, Carnegie-Stout Public Library—October 8, 10:30–11:15 A.M. Kids will get the opportunity to read to a pet, or they can just listen to a pet story along with some canine companions. Please do not bring your own dog. For kids grades K–3. No registra-tion is required.

Galena Mystery Series Book Signing: Sandra Principe, Hello, Galena!, Galena—October 8, 1–5 P.M. Author Sandra Principe will sign copies of her five Galena Mystery Books at Hello, Galena!

Dia de las Americas, Colt’s Building, Dubuque—October 8, 5–8 P.M. Traditionally celebrated in Central and South America, “The Day of the Americas” celebrates the rich culture of indigenous people and today’s multicultural society. Event will include Hispanic and Latin American musical performances, dance performance and lessons, food and displays. Free event.

Story Time at Comiskey Park, Comiskey Park, Dubuque—October 10, 10:30–11 A.M. This 20–30 minute story time is for ages 3–5.

Picture This at Your Library!, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 16–22. Watch for our Teen Advisory Board You-Tube video on Facebook featuring everything you can picture at your library. During Teen Read Week, book covers will be displayed in the Teen Zone area—which is your favorite? Cast your vote and pick up a Teen Read Week gift.

Teen Collage Contest, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—Octo-ber 16–22. We can be very random thinkers, so what better way to express this than by throwing a conglomeration of things together! Collages will be accepted from October 1–October 14. Collages are on display through Teen Read Week in the Teen Zone area. Put your thoughts together and show us how you Picture This at Your Library. For ages 12–high school. Collages should be no larger than 12”x12”.

Teens “R” Reading Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 17, 4–4:45 P.M. Area teens: check out this book club designed for you! This month’s reading: Excalibur: The Legend of Arthur by Tony Lee (graphic novel). Please register at the Youth Ser-vices Help Desk and pick up a copy of the book.

Kids’ Flick: Yogi Bear, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—Octo-ber 19, 2–3:30 P.M. Join us for popcorn and a showing of these feature films in the story time room. For ages 6–12. This activity is free, but seating is limited. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

B’Tween the Pages Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 20, 4–4:45 P.M. A book club just for ages 9–12. This month’s reading: Smile by Raina Telgemeir (graphic novel). Please register at the Youth Services Help Desk and pick up a copy of the book.

Meet the Illustrator—Stormy Mochal, Carnegie-Stout Public Library—October 22, 10–11 A.M. Meet local artist and children’s book illustrator Stormy Mochal. Stormy will read her first children’s book that she has illustrated, The Juggler. For ages 4 and up. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

LEGO® Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library—October 22, 1–2 P.M. LEGO® fans ages 7–12 are invited to come to the library to build, cre-ate and have fun. LEGO® creations will be exhibited in the library. The program will be held in the Aigler Auditorium on the 3rd floor.



NOVEMBERSpace is limited and registration is required. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at exten-sion 2228. Donations of LEGOs® are appreciated.

The Music Men Barbershop Chorus, Grand Opera House, Dubuque—Octo-ber 22. Their annual show is always a crowd pleaser. Admission charged. For more information, visit http://www.thegrandoperahouse.com.

Museum & Aquarium Trick-or-Treat, National Mississippi River & Aquarium, Dubuque—October 23. Frightfully fun, family-friendly sights and sounds of Halloween will fill the air as you venture through the Museum & Aquarium campus and collect treats from the many costumed volunteers. Admission charged. For preschool–elementary aged children. For more information, visit http://www.rivermuseum.com.

Kid’s Night, Culver’s Frozen Custard, Galena—October 25, 4:30–7:30 P.M. Coloring contest, prizes, balloons and balloon sculptures. Free admission.

Live Performance of Leroy “Satchel” Page: Long Rifle, Five Flags Theater, Dubuque—October 25, 6–7:30 P.M. This is a 90 minute one-man solo per-formance narrative based on the life of baseball legend Satchel Paige (1906–1982), who was the first Negro League player elected to the Baseball Hall of Fame in 1971. This event for ages 7 and up is free but please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

Teen Advisory Board, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 27, 4 P.M. What programs would you like to see for teens at the Library? What music titles and graphic novels should we add to our collection? If you are ages 12–high school you can help make these decisions and become a part of the Teen Advisory Board. This is a lot of fun and a great opportunity to earn volunteer credit for school. Call Sharon at 563-589-4225 x 2237.

Galena Halloween Balloon Glow, Galena River Levee, Galena—October 28, 7–9 P.M. Balloons lit from within make a spectacular site at dusk as they are lined up along the Galena River. Weather permitting.

Paint a Pumpkin, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 29, 10–11 A.M. Show us your artistic painting skills when you get creative and paint your very own pumpkin to take home. For ages 8 and up. Please reg-ister by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

33rd Annual Halloween Parade, Galena—October 29, 6:30 P.M. Galena’s 33rd Annual Halloween Parade takes off down Main Street with ghouls, ghosts and floats galore. Join the fun and see why thousands line the streets every year. Treats for the kids and lots of spooky surprises!

Pancake, Egg & Ham Breakfast, Oxus Grotto, Asbury—October 30. Pan-cake, Egg & Ham Breakfast from 8 A.M.–12:30 P.M. Cost: adults $6.00, children $3.00. The Oxus Grotto supports children with cerebral palsy and dentistry for the handicapped. For further information call James McGov-ern, 563-451-2812.

Halloween Trick-or-Treat with Spooky Stories, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—October 30, 2–3 P.M. Join us in ghoulish fashion for our Trick-or-Treat event. Wear your favorite costume and parade through the library to collect treats and enjoy a spooky story time. For ages 10 and under. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

Bellevue Rotary Halloween Parade, Bellevue—October 30, 3–4 P.M. For more information, please call 563-872-3413 or 563-872-5830.

Halloween Event, Multicultural Family Center, Dubuque—October 31, 5:30–6:30 P.M. Children’s activities including face painting, pumpkin decorating, coloring contest and other games for prizes. Drop in for this fun, family-friendly event. Parents are encouraged to attend this event, which is open to youth 4–10 years old. Free event; call to register.

Mother Goose Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 1, 8, 15, 29, 10:30 A.M. Children ages birth–18 months and a favorite adult will learn songs and action rhymes during this interactive program. A 15-minute social time will follow the sessions. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

Kennedy Mall Story Time, Kennedy Mall, Dubuque—November 3, 10:30 A.M. Take a break from your shopping or plan a trip to join library staff in this unique setting. On the first Thursday of the month, in partnership with Ken-nedy Mall and Finley Hospital, we offer wellness themed stories and songs at the Finley Play Area between Sears and Younkers. Story times are free and open to the public.

Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 3, 10, 17, 6:30 P.M. This 20-minute program features short stories, songs, and move-ment activities for children ages 18–35 months with a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

Teen Café, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 3, 3:30–5 P.M. The Teen Zone area will transform into the Teen Café for you to drop in after school for some fun and refreshments. Look at books, work on a simple craft project, surf the Internet or hang out with friends. Ages 12–high school. No registration required.

Read-Aloud Crowd, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 4, 18, 10:30 A.M. Stories, sing-alongs, movement activities, circle games and lots of fun—recommended for children ages 3–6 with a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

National Farm Toy Show, Dyersville—November 4–6. Hundreds of farm toys for sale, trade and show. Toy auction; mini pull; kids pull; displays; dioramas, and more. Admission charged. For more information, visit www.toyfarmer.com.

Once Upon a (Blank)—Fairy Tale Improv, Bell Tower Theater, Dubuque—November 5. The talented improv actors from the Quad Cities Comedy-Sportz have a brand new show that the whole family is sure to love. Using suggestions from the audience they will replay popular fairy tales the way the kids want to see them. Admission charged. For more information, visit http://www.belltowertheater.net.

Card Making, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 5, 10:30–11:30 A.M. Join local artist Justina Reisch for a card making workshop. Learn tips and techniques to make a perfect happy birthday, thank you or Christmas card. For ages 7–12. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

Tween Holiday Scrapbook Workshop, Carnegie-Stout Public Library—November 5, 2–3:30 P.M. Have you ever made a scrapbook using paper bags? Register for this workshop and be ready to have a place to put your holiday memories or give as a gift. For ages 9–12. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

Toddler Time, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 7, 14, 21, 28, 9:15 and 10:30 A.M. This 20-minute program features short sto-ries, songs and movement activities for children ages 18–35 months with a favorite adult. No registration is required; parental participation is a must.

Veterans’ Day Program at Bellevue High School, Bellevue—November 11, 10–11 A.M. Bellevue recognizes its veterans. For more information, please call 563-872-4639.



Beckman Catholic High School Trivia Fun Night, Dyersville—November 11. Contact the school for more information, 563-875-7188.

Festival of Trees, Great River Gallery, Bellevue—November 11–27. Wednes-day through Sunday, 10 A.M.–8 P.M. For more information, please call 563-872-5830 or 563-872-3388.

Reading with Rover, Carnegie-Stout Public Library—November 12, 10:30–11:15 A.M. Kids will get the opportunity to read to a pet, or they can just listen to a pet story along with some canine companions. Please do not bring your own dog. For kids grades K–3. No registration is required.

Cha Cha with the Chamber, Season 6, Marquette Education Center, Bel-levue—November 12. Watch Bellevue’s own stars in this elegant dance competition. For more information, call 563-872-5830.

Native American History Month Event, Five Flags Theater, Dubuque—November 12. Native American culture is full of colorful traditions in music, dance, dress and storytelling. Join us for an interactive, family-friendly pre-sentation and exploration of Native American culture and traditions. Free event.

Holiday Crafts, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 12, 10–11:30 A.M. Members of the Fleur-de-Lis chapter of the Embroiderers’ Guild of America will teach how to stitch and assemble two felt ornaments for the holidays. We will make a Thanksgiving turkey refrigerator magnet and a Christmas tree ornament. For ages 9 and up. Please register by call-ing the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

Bell Tower Follies, Bell Tower Theater, Dubuque—November 12–13. Enjoy some of Dubuque’s most talented performers and help support the Bell Tower Theater. This unique fundraising event features more than 15 indi-viduals and groups performing a wide variety of acts. Admission charged. For more information, visit http://www.belltowertheater.net.

Story Time at Comiskey Park, Comiskey Park, Dubuque—November 14, 10:30–11 A.M. This 20–30 minute story time is for ages 3–5.

Hillcrest Italian Dinner, Westminster Presbyterian Church, Dubuque—November 16, 4:30–8 P.M. Co-sponsored by Mario’s Italian Restaurant and Westminster Presbyterian Church in Dubuque, Mario’s Hillcrest Italian Din-ner has been an annual event since 1985. Funds raised through ticket sales to the dinner are used to purchase Christmas presents for clients in the Hillcrest residential treatment programs and the emergency shelter. Tick-ets: $7.00 adults; $4.00 children (12 and under). For more information, visit http://www.hillcrest-fs.org/specialevents/dinner/.

B’Tween the Pages Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 17, 4–4:45 P.M. A book club just for ages 9–12. This month’s reading: The Birchbark House by Louise Elrich. Please register at the Youth Services Help Desk and pick up a copy of the book.

Irving Berlin’s White Christmas, Grand Opera House, Dubuque—Novem-ber 18–November 27. The stage version of the popular 1954 musical fea-tures familiar songs like “Sisters,” “Count Your Blessings,” “Snow” and the title number “Let Yourself Go,” “Blue Skies,” “I Love a Piano” and other Berlin songs that weren’t in the film. Admission charged. For more informa-tion, visit http://www.thegrandoperahouse.com.

LEGO® Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library—November 19, 1–2 P.M. LEGO® fans ages 7–12 are invited to come to the library to build, create and have

fun. LEGO® creations will be exhibited in the library. The program will be held in the Aigler Auditorium on the 3rd floor. Space is limited and registration is required. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228. Donations of LEGOs® are appreciated.

Galena Mystery Series Book Signing: Sandra Principe, Hello Galena!, Galena—November 19, 1–5 P.M. Author Sandra Principe will sign copies of her five Galena Mystery Books at Hello Galena.

Dubuque Symphony Orchestra: A Musical Journey Around the World, Five Flags Theater, Dubuque—November 19, 7:30 P.M. and November 20, 2 P.M. The program features composers from England, America, Haiti, Czech Republic and Mexico. Tickets available at the Five Flags box office and through Ticket-master, $12–$46. For more information, visit http://www.dubuquesymphony.org.

Teens “R” Reading Book Club, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 21, 4–4:45 P.M. Area teens: check out this book club designed for you. This month’s reading: Ship Breaker by Paolo Bacigalupi. Please register at the Youth Services Help Desk and pick up a copy of the book.

Kids’ Flick: Mars Needs Moms, Carnegie-Stout Public Library, Dubuque—November 23, 2–3:30 P.M. Join us for popcorn and a film in the story time room. For ages 6–12. This activity is free, but seating is limited. Please register by calling the library at 563-589-4225 and ask for the Youth Services Help Desk at extension 2228.

Reflections in the Park, Louis Murphy Park, Dubuque—November 24–January 1, 5–10 P.M. nightly. The hills of Louis Murphy Park will be alive with glitter and glitz as the glow of thousands of Christmas bulbs and animated displays light up the park. Cost: $8.00 per car. For more information, call 563-583-7357 or visit Hillcrest Family Services.

Thanksgiving Weekend and Holiday Kick-Off, Eagle Ridge Resort and Spa, Galena—November 25–26. Kick off the holidays on Thanksgiving Weekend with Santa’s arrival, breakfast with Santa and tons of other holiday activities. Admission charged. For more information, visit http://www.eagleridge.com.

Unwrap the Magic of Christmas, Bellevue—November 26. Join the city of Bellevue for a plethora of Christmas activities! For more information, call 563-872-5830.

Pancake, Egg & Ham Breakfast, Oxus Grotto, Asbury—November 27. Pancake, Egg & Ham Breakfast from 8:00 A.M.–12:30 P.M. Cost: adults $6.00, children $3.00. The Oxus Grotto supports children with cerebral palsy and dentistry for the handicapped. For further information call James McGovern, 563-451-2812. Admission charged.

Cookies and Cocoa with Santa, East Dubuque Fire Station, East Dubuque—November 27, 1–4 P.M. East Dubuque Business & Tourism Council presents: Meet & Greet Santa & Mrs. Claus! FREE cookies and cocoa for all! For more information, visit [email protected].

Unwrap the Magic of Christmas–Tour of Homes, Bellevue—November 27, 1–5 P.M. Tour five beautiful homes throughout Bellevue, followed by hors d’oeuvres and wine at Great River Gallery for raffle of trees. Admission: $10. For more information, call 563-872-5830.

Kid’s Night, Culver’s Frozen Custard, Galena—November 29, 4:30–7:30 P.M. Coloring contest, prizes, balloons and balloon sculptures. Free admission.




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