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Low lights and a formal table setting embrace guests with luxurious ambience. Although the most formal reception tables will be uniformly set, creative license can still rule the day. Don’t be afraid to break away from the white tablecloths and the flowers in a glass vase. Experiment with burnished fabrics or gilt accents. Use seasonal elements to reinforce the festive spirit of your wedding. Most of all, make your celebration reflect you and your groom’s personality and tastes.

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What you need to know before booking your reception siteYou’ve been pronounced “husband and wife,” so now it’s time to kick off those heels and celebrate! This is a time for you and your brand new husband to relax, mingle, dance, chat and thoroughly enjoy the company of your friends and loved ones. While finding the ideal reception location is one of the biggest and most important wedding-related tasks,

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What you need to know before booking your reception siteYou’ve been pronounced “husband and wife,” so now it’stime to kick off those heels and celebrate! This is a time foryou and your brand new husband to relax, mingle, dance,chat and thoroughly enjoy the company of your friends and loved ones. While finding the ideal reception location is one of the biggest and most important wedding-related tasks, have no fear... we’re here to help. Below are three simple steps to finding the right reception site for your perfect day.


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Step 1: What to do firstThe biggest question regarding the

reception is “where?” Before you can work on this question, however, you’ll need to know a couple of things: what style of wedding do you envision, and how big? Obviously, a casual, relaxed summer afternoon reception would require a completely different reception site than a formal, elegant winter evening reception – so clarify the type of wedding (and the time of year) you both desire first.

Once that’s been established, determine the rough guest list, including all interested parties: you and your groom, and each set of parents.

Of course, you’ll also need to consider your budget as well, as this will have great influence on the number of guests you can afford to have. Once you’ve made these critical decisions, it’s time to start looking for the ideal reception site. As with anything, the more time you have, the better – some choice reception sites get booked one to two years in advance, particularly for prime dates.

Step 2: Start the searchLocal bridal publications, the Internet,

wedding shows, married friends and the yellow pages are all good sources of potential reception sites. If you have no idea where to hold your reception, try hotels, banquet halls, restaurants, community centers and country clubs. Other less obvious options are country inns, historic homes or mansions, city parks, college or university facilities, art galleries, museums and boats. Each location offers its own unique style and ambiance.

There are two basic types of reception facilities: on-site and off-site. Most on-site locations provide the majority of services you will need for your reception: catering, beverages, tables, chairs, tableware, linens and serving staff, making this a very convenient option. The facilities normally charge on a per person basis, and have a minimum guest requirement. Such locations include hotels, private clubs and restaurants. Off-site locations offer the use of the facility only, providing no other services. You supply nearly everything yourself, paying a flat fee for the use of the site. The nice thing about off-site locations is the freedom to do everything your own way, and more choices – although this can also mean more work!

Narrow down your search by focusing on those sites that seem to best meet your needs, depending on your style, season and estimated guest count. Once you’ve selected some possibilities, it’s time to go on a road trip with your fiancé, maid of honor and/or Mom and check out the sites in person.

Step 3: Evaluating reception sitesNow the real work begins. Every site

offers advantages and disadvantages, and your job is to sift through all of the features of each site, to find the best one for your wedding – all while keeping your budget in mind. Here are some factors to consider:

Location. The reception site should be no more than a 30-minute drive away from the ceremony location. A longer drive than that is really asking too much of your guests! If the location is difficult to find, or will offer

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special challenges to get there (say, located near a football stadium that has a home game on your wedding day) you should consider providing transportation for your guests from the ceremony site, and back to their cars after the reception.

Size and layout. Will everything happen in one big room, or in separate rooms for the cocktail hour, dinner, dancing? Will it comfortably hold the number of tables you’ll need, and will everyone dine in the same room? Is there room for a band or DJ, and for cocktail hour musicians, if you’re having them?

Privacy. If your venue does multiple events, find out if there are other bookings on the same day or time as yours. If so, ensure that there will be adequate privacy and separation for your celebration. There should also be ample time in between events to allow your caterer or other service people to set up or break down your party.

Parking. Make sure there is convenient, well-lighted, ample parking for your guests, and if not, find out if valet service is available.

Technical details. Whether you intend to have a DJ or a band, inquire about possible restrictions regarding the type, volume or duration of music. Be sure to confirm that there is an adequate power supply for speakers, mixers and amplifiers, or good acoustics for string and wind instruments. Some sites have built-in public-address systems which can be used for introductions and toasts. If your site of choice doesn’t offer this equipment, make sure your DJ or musicians can provide it.

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Room décor. Most sites offer a neutral background to work with, but make sure the flooring, wall coverings and colors will work with the style and season of your wedding.

Services offered. Be clear, with each site visited, exactly what is and is not included. From catering and wait staff, to candles and chairs… get those details up front.

A note about outdoor receptionsIf you’re planning an outdoor

reception, it’s critical to have a back-up plan in case of inclement weather. Planning for an outdoor reception is usually much more work overall, because you have to provide for everything from the salad forks to the tents to the chairs, and you may need to change plans at the last minute due to the weather! For these reasons, it’s highly recommended that you use an experienced wedding coordinator if you want an outdoor reception – this will ease your workload, and your stress, immensely.

Down to detailsAs with any wedding vendor, make

sure that all details are outlined in writing, and use a credit card whenever possible when making payments so that you have more protection in the unlikely event of a problem. You should feel very comfortable with your contact person, and feel that they respond in a timely and efficient manner to your questions and requests. Visit premierbride.com’s online wedding planner for a comprehensive list of questions to ask potential reception sites, and other great wedding planning help. B

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OK, you’re busy. You want the cut and dry version of reception planning, and you want it now.

Before You BookAs you’re searching for wedding

locations, ask vendors about catering policies, alcohol policies, bad weather contingency plans, staffing availability, parking, decorating, deposits, refunds and insurance.• Book your wedding and reception site

as soon as you have set a date. To find your perfect site, call around. Ask for a description and a list of services: caterers, waiters, bartenders and parking valets. Make an appointment to tour promising prospects.

• Hotels, restaurants, private clubs and halls normally offer catering services, and may not allow you to use your own caterer.

• Make sure there is enough room for your guests, and electric voltage for your entertainment.

• If you’re going to decorate, ask about restrictions.

• Churches and temples may have policies regarding alcohol and other restrictions.

• For a garden wedding be sure you have enough room inside in case of bad weather.

at the PartY• You may want to ask several relatives

or close friends to act as hosts, greeting your guests, assisting with seating and maximizing the mingling.

• Designate a table for the wedding party and another table for both of the families. The bridal couple sits in the center of the table, maid of honor to the groom’s left, and best man to the bride’s right. Alternate men and women as space allows.

• Just before the meal is served to the wedding party, it is traditional for the best man to propose a toast. All rise, except the bride and groom. After the toast, the groom may reply. Any other toasts are then appropriate.

• Serve the meal or send people to the buffet in this order: bride, groom, maid of honor, best man, attendants, parents and then guests.

• Your first dance as husband and wife should feature your special song, usually something romantic. The floor should be empty of other guests. Then come the dances for the bride and her father, the groom and his mother, the bride and the groom’s father, the groom and the bride’s mother. Lastly, the wedding party joins in, then the guests.

• Traditionally, the bouquet and garter toss take place near the end. To keep your original bouquet, have the florist create a special arrangement to be thrown.

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Lindsay & ShawnOctober 22

Shawn and I were friends before we started dating. It was Labor Day Weekend and I invited Shawn to join my family and I on a trip to the mountains, when last minute there was a change of plans and he was unable to come. I still ended up leaving for the weekend with all of my family to a place that I have been traveling to since I was a little girl and is very special to me. My mom owns a house with her eight sisters in their hometown of Wilcox which is tucked in the Allegheny mountains. It is a place where we can all be together as a family, share in memories, and create new ones. Shawn had been scheming with my mom the whole time and was planning on coming up to surprise me. I heard his truck pull into the gravel driveway on the Saturday of that weekend and was shocked to see him. On Sunday, we went out for a drive to the East Branch Dam and that’s when he proposed. I will never forget how special he made it for me.


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Everything about our wedding was a personal or special touch from riding up the long driveway in the 1958 Chevy Apache, to the bagpiper. I knew that I wanted my bridesmaids to wear cowboy boots with their dresses when I first started planning but I did not want them to know about it. This was going to be their gift from me and I started to select a different pair of boots for each of them. I started looking for a venue shortly after our engagement because I knew that I wanted it to be unique. Brittland Estates was the first venue that we had visited and I was so eager to visit the four different properties that Brittland Estates has to offer. We loved the wide open country setting and all of the comforts of home that it had to offer. It meant so much to be able to stay in the homes with our families for the wedding weekend. It is such a welcoming and amazing location for a wedding and we would not have had it any other way. We selected twelve different kinds of pies to be made for our wedding which included; raspberry, strawberry rhubarb, apple, peanut butter, pumpkin, and pecan. Stepne Manor was the perfect location to be with our family and friends the night before the wedding.


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expressingthankshow to show gratitude

When friends and family give you a gift for your wedding, you naturally want to thank them. Here’s a guide to achieving a personal, yet dignified, tone and creating a beautiful expression or your thanks.

Use a system to keep track of every offering, one that links the name of the giver with the gift, and indicates which cards you have already sent. You may want to make a note of the gifts received on your guest list so all names and addresses are handy.

The perfect way to handle thank-you notes is to write them the moment gifts are received. But since this isn’t always practical, strive for a delay of no more than three months. Printed initial acknowledgements are acceptable when your wedding is large and the gift list long, but eventually, a hand-written thank you is still a must.

Most gifts are regarded as having been sent to the bride and, consequently, it is her duty to do the thanking. But it is always proper to refer to the groom’s use of the gift and his appreciation. The groom should write the note when the gift giver is a close friend or fairly unknown to his new wife.

Write the notes on white or pastel paper, perhaps with borders or a monogram. If you order monogrammed stationery, remember to have some made up with your maiden initials for notes that must be written before the wedding.

Always mention the specific gift that was given in the note. Let your natural warmth and friendliness pervade your writing, and you will have a note as unique as the selected gift you received. B


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Selecting aceremony Site:ask the right questions• Is your facility open to non-members?

• Do you have any restrictions on times or days of the week?

• Do you have any restrictions or limitations on lighting, cameras, audio or video equipment?

• Do you have a dress code?

• Are outside musicians permitted to perform?

• Will any decorations be available through you?

• Are there dressing rooms?

• When could we have a rehearsal?

• Is ample parking available?

• Are there adequate restrooms? Are they easily accessible for elderly and handicapped guests?

• How far in advance must I book your services?

• What is your cancellation policy?

• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much??

CeremonySelecting a ceremony Site:

ask the right questions

•Isyourfacilityopentonon-members?•Doyouhaveanyrestrictionsontimesordaysoftheweek?

•Doyouhaveanyrestrictionsorlimitationsonlighting,cameras,audioorvideoequipment?

•Doyouhaveadresscode?•Areoutsidemusicianspermittedtoperform?•Willanydecorationsbeavailablethroughyou?•Aretheredressingrooms?•Whencouldwehavearehearsal?•Isampleparkingavailable?•Arethereadequaterestrooms?Aretheyeasilyaccessibleforelderlyandhandicappedguests?

•HowfarinadvancemustIbookyourservices?•Whatisyourcancellationpolicy?•Isadepositrequired?Ifso,whenandhowmuch?

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ReceptionSelecting a recePtion Site:ask the right questions•MayIseephotographsofotherreceptionsheldhere?•Wherewillwehaveaccess?Arethererestrictions?•Isthereampleparkingforguests?•Doyouprovideasoundsystem,AVorPAsystem?•Arethereanyrestrictionsondecor,photography,videography,smokingorbarservice?

•Willyouprovidevalet,coatcheck,restroom,baranddoorattendants?

•Isthereanonsitecaterer?Arewerequiredtousethem?•Arethereadequaterestroomsthatarehandicapaccessible?•Arethereadequateelectricaloutletsfortheentertainer?•Couldothereventsbescheduledthesameday?•Isthereacertaintimewhenwemustleave?•HowfarinadvancemustIbookyourservices?•Whatisyourcancellationpolicy?•Isadepositrequired?Ifso,whenandhowmuch?

Selecting areception Site:ask the right questions• May I see photographs of other receptions held here?• Where will we have access? Are there restrictions?• Is there ample parking for guests?• Do you provide a sound system, AV or PA system?• Are there any restrictions on decor, photography, videography, smoking or bar service?• Will you provide valet, coat check, restroom, bar and door attendants?• Is there an onsite caterer? Are we required to use them?• Are there adequate restrooms that are handicap accessible?• Are there adequate electrical outlets for the entertainer?• Could other events be scheduled the same day?• Is there a certain time when we must leave?• How far in advance must I book your services?• What is your cancellation policy?• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

The elegant Lighthouse Sound is a first class wedding and reception facility offering the best views in Ocean City. Overlooking the scenic bay and Ocean City Skyline, we specialize in delicious cuisine, outstanding hospitality and beautiful surroundings. Lighthouse Sound will have your guests raving for years to come!

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If you decide to have your wedding on a Friday or a Sunday, you’ll reap several rewards: both financial and otherwise. You’ll save time, you’ll probably save a significant amount of money, and you’ll find that your guests may appreciate having a Saturday free to spend time with you and the other guests they know.

MaxiMize Your DollarFor Friday or Sunday weddings,

the majority of banquet facilities, photographers, video producers, musicians/entertainers and limousine services are much more willing to negotiate in order to reach a price that suits your budget. Vendors tend to see Friday and Sunday as bonus days, a time when they can earn income. Savings on these services can really add up, making this option a great way to save money without having to sacrifice the quality of your wedding.

save tiMeOn a Friday, you’ll probably have

your wedding in the evening, which means that the ceremony is followed

immediately by dinner. This means that you will avoid the extra cost and hassle of a one-to-two-hour interim reception or cocktail party. Having the ceremony and reception back to back may ensure more people at the church ceremony.

Additionally, a Friday/Sunday wedding frees up at least one day of the weekend, generally making your family, friends and guests more appreciative of the extra time, especially if they are traveling.

save the DatePlanning for a Friday or a Sunday

wedding makes it much more likely that you will be able to reserve the church, hall, music and other services on the date of your choice. Choosing a Friday or Sunday date allows you to avoid making several calls to numerous vendors, only to hear, “Sorry, we’re booked on that date.”

rehearsal is easYRestaurants are usually thrilled to

have rehearsal dinners booked on Thursdays or other evenings during the week, since those are typically their slower business days. You will find a more relaxed atmosphere and the staff will be more attentive to your party’s needs.

In selecting a Friday or Sunday date for your event, you’ll help both your budget and your odds of getting exactly the wedding you want, while also allowing for more time dedicated to finalizing last minute details. You can use the extra day to catch your breath, and use the extra money to purchase something special. B

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Sheraton is where people gather.Surround yourself with the people who mean the most to you at the Sheraton Baltimore North Hotel! Exquisite Gourmet Cuisine & Elegant Ballrooms

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ceremony and receptionCeremonial music should suit the

tone of the ceremony; romantic, sincere or something unique to you and your fiancé. Vocalists, instrumentalists, soloists, choral or congregational singing are usually very appropriate.

An evening reception will be livelier with a pianist or other instrumentalists during dinner and a live band or DJ later for dancing into the night.

To find the right musicians, call a number of booking agents who represent the kind of entertainment you want. Determine how many performers you need and if the ones you are hearing are the same ones that will play at your wedding. Find out if you can make requests, or if they play only preset arrangements. What will the performers wear? Will it be in keeping with the flavor of your reception? How often, and for how long, do they break? Are you charged a flat fee or an hourly rate? Can the length of time they play be extended, or is it carved in stone?

Make notes on all these important items, but the most important question is do you really like this group? Do you want to share them with others? Your good feelings about the group are probably the most important qualifier of all.

Book your entertainment as early as possible. The best will be booked well in advance, up to a year is not unusual. Finally, two weeks to a month before the wedding, confirm the date, location, time of set up, and when the performance should begin. B


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Gone are the days of the bride’s family paying for the wedding. For now, it’s more like whoever has it, usually pays, even if it’s the couple themselves. As the average age of couples who are getting married rises, this is beginning to happen more and more. However, even as traditions change, it is useful to know what your family should expect.

Following are examples of how financial obligations have been traditionally distributed. Remember, though, that by making a financial contribution, some family members may feel entitled to contribute to the planning, too. Your family, and your ability to deal with their input, will largely determine how much tradition you keep and how much you ignore.

The Bride’s Responsibility: Personal stationary Wedding ring for groom Wedding gift for groom Gifts for attendants Lodging for out-of-town attendants (optional) Her physical examination

The Groom’s Responsibility: Bride’s ring Honeymoon Wedding gift for bride Bridal bouquet and going-away corsage Boutonnieres for all men in wedding party Mother’s corsages His physical examination Gifts for the best man, ushers Gloves, ties or ascots for men in wedding party Marriage license Lodging for out-of-town attendants (opt.) Fee for clergy or judge.

The Bride’s Family’s Responsibility:

Wedding gift for the newlyweds Entire reception Rental of sanctuary or chapel Bride’s wedding attire and trousseau Invitations, announcements and postage Engagement and wedding photographs Organist, soloist or musician fee Aisle carpets and/or canopy, and any additional

decorating costs Bridesmaid’s bouquet Flowers for reception Transportation for bridal party to ceremony

and reception Security and insurance for gifts

The Groom’s Family’s Responsibility:

Traveling expenses and hotel bills Wedding clothes Rehearsal dinner (optional) Wedding gift for the newlyweds Shipment of wedding gifts to bridal couple’s home.

Take time to evaluate the financial situations of those you want involved in your event planning and decide what is best--and less stressful--for you. B

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Located on 130 acres of rural land just 40 minutes away from Washington, DC. Historic Mattaponi Manor House & Grounds is a scenic setting that offers an extraordinary value for weddings, rehearsals, retreats, showers and more. The Manor House and the Retreat & Conference Center is equipped to handle a variety of functions, from a small meeting to a full formal event.

Historic Mattaponi's Manor House, built in the 18th century (rebuilt c. 1820) is an ideal setting for an intimate candlelight formal sit-down dinner, a buffet-style reception or a contemporary cocktail reception It is that perfect place for a smaller gathering, or a staring role in a larger outdoor event.

Lake Mattaponi and the surrounding 130 acre grounds also host endless options for your special event. Wide open spaces & tenting options make for the perfect backdrop year round. Contact us for all of your special event needs. We will connect you to vendors & can be your very own event concierge. Make an appointment to see the panoramic views for yourself & to begin planning an unforgettable event!


With the main event just around the corner, it’s time to relax and celebrate! After the ceremony rehearsal most couples choose to spend some quality time with close family and friends during a rehearsal dinner. The details of how you do this – who, what, when, where – are up to you. Below are five steps to help you pull it all fabulously together.

#1 – Choose your partyThe first step is to decide on what kind of gathering you wish to have. Most couples stick with something a little less formal, since you will all be dressed to the nines the next day. But really, you can do anything you like that feeds the crowd and allows for a little mingling: a pig roast, a potluck, dinner at a restaurant, a cocktail and appetizer cruise, a picnic in a park or a cookout in your backyard. Brainstorm with your sweetie and choose your ideal party.

#2 – Clarify who’s payingHistorically, the groom’s parents picked up the tab for the rehearsal dinner, however, you can no longer make that assumption. So – as with all wedding elements – it’s critical to be clear up front exactly who is paying for what. And never, ever assume!

#3 – Make the guest listAnyone involved in the ceremony, and therefore, at the ceremony rehearsal, would of course be invited. This includes attendants, parents and other immediate family, readers and so on. It’s also customary to include any out-of-town guests, as they will have traveled some distance for your wedding. It also gives them the chance to meet more people before the wedding itself; you wouldn’t want them hanging out in their hotel room alone in an unfamiliar city.

#4 – Make them mingleOne of the main purposes of the rehearsal dinner is for the two families to get to know each other better and enjoy each other’s company. So, whatever you and your groom can do to help with that, the better. Consider strategically planned seating with place cards or nametags with brief descriptions like “Mary Jones, Bride’s College Roommate,” and any other needed introductions. The rehearsal dinner is also an ideal time to give your attendants their gifts.

#5 – Fine tune the toastsTraditionally, the groom’s father toasts first at the rehearsal dinner, however, traditions continue to evolve and change! The rehearsal dinner is a more relaxed, informal atmosphere, so you can decide together, along with your families, who would like to speak and in what order. Often, the groom’s father will say a few words, followed by the bride’s father and then the bride and groom. Groomsmen, bridesmaids, mothers and other guests may also want to make a toast. Cheers! B

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• Experienced, Professional wedding coordinator• Views of Towson skyline and Loch Raven Reservoir• Beautiful patio for outside ceremony• Executive Chef has over 25 years of experience• Ballroom with a view• Space for rehearsal dinners and bridal showers• Your special event is the only wedding we will book that day• Memberships available...please call to inquire

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These days more Jewish couples than ever are opting for strictly Kosher catering at their weddings. Many make the decision because of the availability of unique personalized menus.

What Makes a Meal kosher?A special rabbi known as a Mashgiach

must be present to oversee the Kosher status of a menu at all times during the production and service of a Kosher event. All the equipment used to prepare and serve the meal must be appropriate for Kosher dairy or Kosher meat. Separate china, cooking utensils, pots and pans, cutting boards, even soaps, rags and dish racks must be used exclusively for Kosher meat and Kosher dairy. These pieces must never be used with any non-Kosher products such as pork or shellfish.

the kosher kitchenA banquet-hall kitchen normally used

for non-Kosher events can be used for a Kosher one if the Mashgiach thoroughly cleans everything and boils or blowtorches it to a very high temperature to remove any remnants of the non-Kosher products. It is important to note that no work for a Kosher event may be performed on the

Sabbath, from sunset Friday until sundown Saturday. Of course, Kosher caterers are used to dealing with this restriction.

creativelY kosherAlthough the rules governing Kosher

cooking are many, a Kosher meal can be one of the most exciting, creative and interesting meals your guests will ever have. Dairy menus go far beyond bagels and cream cheese and they can include poached salmon or grilled marinated tuna kabobs. You can have a chef-attended pasta station, a wok station, or a crepe station featuring Middle Eastern delicacies such as hummus (chick pea spread), hot falafel (vegetarian burgers) and roasted vegetables.

Meat menus can feature most cuts of beef and poultry, and they’ll undoubtedly taste excellent. Kosher prepared meats have long been thought of as being of superior quality. Your chef can feature the meats at carving, grilling or stir-fry stations, or offer traditional buffets and sit-down dinners. Kosher caterers have developed a wide variety of menu items using non-dairy creamer, non-dairy sour cream and even non-dairy ice creams. Desserts can be made with mousses and custards that are non-dairy.

Well Worth itIf your family will appreciate a truly

Kosher catered wedding, don’t be intimidated. It will cost a little more for Mashgiach supervision, Kosher prepared meats, and some labor to prepare the banquet hall kitchen, but the menu will assuredly be unique and delicious for everyone who attends. B

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Creating unique weddings is a timely trend. The individuality of our age is an opportunity for eloquence at this most meaningful of ceremonies. Self-written vows or symbolic silence, music from tribal drums to electric guitars, festive clothing from leather to lace, and food from old family recipes to outrageous gourmet fare epitomize the one-of-a-kind wedding.

Traditions are not always bound by law. Your only legal requirement may be a marriage license obtained from the county clerk, and signed by the witnesses you choose. The person officiating need not be a minister or judge, and the vows may reflect your version of the commitment that marriage entails. Explore and amplify

each other’s ideas. Chaplains and others with creative credentials can help customize your approach to this highly-symbolic ceremony.

You will gain strength as a couple from every individualized aspect of your wedding. Originality in vows and guest participation, and details reflecting you as a couple, such as setting, dress, music and festivities, are a sign of sharing as a pair. With individual tastes intertwined, you will own your wedding, rather than it owning you. The process of creative exploration will also be one more way to know each other better and assume a unified identity.

All weddings take courage. A creative ceremony makes a bolder statement still. B

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Selecting a caterer:ask the right questions•Whatpackagesdoyouoffer?Whatdotheyinclude?•Haveyouworkedatmyreceptionsitebefore?•Doyouprovidebeverageserviceorbarservice?•Dohaveopeningorcorkingfees?•Whenisthedeadlineforthefinalguestcount?•Whenwillweneedtofinalizethemenu?•Canyouprovideentreesformyguestswhohave specialdietaryneeds?•Willyouprovideflatware,china,stemware,etc?•Doyousupplyorarrangetables,chairsorlinens?•Howwillyouandyourstaffbedressed?•Willthecatererprovidewaitstaff?Howmany wouldIneed?•Doyouhavereferencesfrompreviousweddings?•HowfarinadvancemustIbookyourservices?•Whatisyourcancellationpolicy?•Isadepositrequired?Ifso,whenandhowmuch?

CateringSelecting a caterer:ask the right questions•Whatpackagesdoyouoffer?Whatdotheyinclude?•Haveyouworkedatmyreceptionsitebefore?•Doyouprovidebeverageserviceorbarservice?•Dohaveopeningorcorkingfees?•Whenisthedeadlineforthefinalguestcount?•Whenwillweneedtofinalizethemenu?•Canyouprovideentreesformyguestswhohavespecialdietaryneeds?

•Willyouprovideflatware,china,stemware,etc?•Doyousupplyorarrangetables,chairsorlinens?•Howwillyouandyourstaffbedressed?•Willthecatererprovidewaitstaff?HowmanywouldIneed?•Doyouhavereferencesfrompreviousweddings?•HowfarinadvancemustIbookyourservices?•Whatisyourcancellationpolicy?•Isadepositrequired?Ifso,whenandhowmuch?

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Parkstone CateringParkstone Catering offers an Elegant venue for your

special wedding day or rehearsal dinner.

7253 Parkway Drive Hanover, MD 21076

Hotel Catering 410-712-4300 x352

Unique reception packages can be customized to meet all of your needs and desires.

catereD With eleganceselecting the right caterer

A professionally catered meal can be the crowning glory of your celebration, so choose your caterer with care.

If you’re renting a restaurant, hotel, yacht, or similar facility, you may have to use their catering service. Some facilities will include catering charges in the rental cost, and some won’t. Know the score before you book and always comparison shop.

Many good private catering companies will cater meals at any location. As you investigate these possibilities, determine what extras are included in their charges: table linens, plates, glasses, crystal, silverware and service pieces. While these are usually included, it is something you will want to confirm in advance, not find out on your wedding day.

An independent caterer can generally work within any reasonable, agreed-upon

budget. Determine your food budget by deciding how much you will spend on each person. Simply multiply the cost per person by the number of guests. Get in writing which menu and the number of guests your money will cover. Then mentally add an additional 10 percent for overage and 15 to 20 percent for a gratuity, if appropriate. Your caterer will know, from formulas and experience, how much of each item to allow per person.

In selecting a caterer, ask for referrals from people who’ve tasted the caterer’s fare and observed their professionalism at work. Many caterers offer a tasting consultation to allow you the opportunity to sample a variety of specialties, if this is available be sure and take advantage of it. B


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Tents • Tables • Chairs • Linens • China • Glassware

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Love Point at Kent Island

1550 Love Point RdStevensville, MD 21666410-541-6588www.lovepointatkentisland.com

CaPaCIty ....................................................... 250OutDOOR SPaCe ..........................................yes WateR VIeW .................................................yesOff SIte CateRIng aLLOWeD ..................yes PRICe POInt ................................................... $ $SePaRate CeReMOny ROOM ...................yesfaCILIty fee ..................................................yes

Charming Destination on the Chesapeake Bay just over the Bay Bridge. Waterfront venue which includes outdoor tent and this grand mansion. a tranquil and picturesque setting, romantic sunsets and spectacular view of the Bay. Love Point at Kent Island offers a bridal suite, groomsman’s room, and a spacious outdoor ballroom making your dream day come true.


Osprey’s Landing

401 Belmont Bay Dr.Woodbridge, Virginia(703) 494-1935www.ospreyslanding.net

CaPaCIty .......................................................... 175OutDOOR SPaCe .............................................yes WateR VIeW ....................................................yesOff SIte CateRIng aLLOWeD .....................yes PRICe POInt ...................................................... $ $SePaRate CeReMOny ROOM ......................yesfaCILIty fee .....................................................yes

Discover a unique and charming waterfront venue filled with natural beauty, a relaxing atmosphere and quintessential hospitality. With an array of spacious waterfront outdoor locations, to a beautiful ballroom and terrace overlooking the 18-hole golf course and Occoquan River; Osprey’s Landing allows you to make your dream event into a reality!


admiral fell Inn

888 South BroadwayBaltimore, MD 21231(410) 522-7380 x111www.HarborMagic.com

CaPaCIty ....................................................... 150OutDOOR SPaCe ..........................................yes WateR VIeW .................................................yesOff SIte CateRIng aLLOWeD ...yes, Limited PRICe POInt ................................................ $ $ $SePaRate CeReMOny ROOM ...................yesfaCILIty fee ............................. Setup fee Only

admiral Ballroom, located on the top floor of the Inn, offers the traditional ambience of this elegant ballroom offering breathtaking views of Baltimore’s skyline in addition to the harbor and historic seaport. the adjacent balconies overlook the charm of fell’s Point Square and famous waterfront thames Street. the Bond Street Pier, one block from the Inn, makes a perfect setting for your ceremony. .


Brittland Manor

211 Britland farm LaneChestertown, MD 21620410-810-7591www.brittlandestates.com

CaPaCIty ....................................................... 400OutDOOR SPaCe ..........................................yes WateR VIeW .................................................yesOff SIte CateRIng aLLOWeD ..................yes SePaRate CeReMOny ROOM ...................yesfaCILIty fee ..................................................yes

Brittland Manor is a secluded mansion with gardens, pool, and 530 riverside acres. nestled away on the eastern Shore of Maryland this complete wedding kingdom could be yours for an entire weekend. Create a beautiful riverside ceremony in the natural setting of the Cyprus grove or in the Manor boxwood garden. the lawn and gardens of the mansion are a magnificent setting for a reception with a 180 degree view of the Chester River. there is an expansive brick patio that can accommodate six different size tents for your grand reception.


Pier 5 Hotel

711 eastern ave.Baltimore, MD(410) 649-5327www.HarborMagic.com

CaPaCIty ....................................................... 210OutDOOR SPaCe ..........................................yes WateR VIeW .................................................yesOff SIte CateRIng aLLOWeD ...yes, Limited PRICe POInt ................................................ $ $ $SePaRate CeReMOny ROOM ...................yesfaCILIty fee ............................. Setup fee Only

Pier 5 Hotel’s location offers the Harbor Club, panoramic views of the Inner Harbor in a “club style” atmosphere or the Harbor West Ballroom with a contemporary ambience. the Lighthouse garden is a beautiful outdoor oasis located next to the historic 7-foot Knoll Lighthouse, a premier outdoor wedding and/or reception location. also consider, one of the luxury Pintail yachts docked at the Pier 5 Hotel..

the Restaurant at Lighthouse Sound

12723 St. Martin’s neck RoadBishopville, MD 21813410-352-5250www.lighthousesoundrestaurant.com

CaPaCIty ....................................................... 200OutDOOR SPaCe ..........................................yesWateR VIeW .................................................yesOff SIte CateRIng aLLOWeD ...................noSePaRate CeReMOny ROOM ...................yesfaCILIty fee. ..................................................no

an elegant clubhouse with country charm, located on an 18-hole championship golf course and only 5 minutes drive from Ocean City, MD. Perfect location for an outdoor wedding ceremony on the water and an indoor reception with the picturesque views of the Bay and skyline. Beautiful gazebo for ceremony, a large outdoor patio, elegant ballrooms and a cozy lounge. Our chef will wow your guests with fresh seafood dishes and steaks prepared in eastern shore tradition while our hospitable staff will make your dream wedding a reality!


River Lodge

219 Britland farm LaneChestertown, MD 21620410-810-7591www.brittlandestates.com


With its rustic, peaceful waterfront setting, the River Lodge is an excellent venue for an informal wedding. the Lodge is perched on the banks of the Chester River and includes a shaded beachfront cove, spacious adjacent fields, and a scenic dock to the river. May through September weddings may only be held on fridays or Sundays. the two night minimum stay allows you and your close ones to relax and enjoy the time spent together while creating lifetime memories.

Running fox

23791 Ricauds Branch RdChestertown, MD 21620410-810-7591www.brittlandestates.com


Surrounded by pristine farmlands, woods, and a wildlife pond, Running fox is a pastoral heaven for a wedding. the brick patio and lawn give reception guests a beautiful view of the eastern Shore countryside and provides a perfect space for entertaining. the old milking barn is an intriguing back drop for wedding pictures. the driveway leading to the front of the house is beautifully lined with flowering trees and a charming white fence. this historic 1857 federal style home, with widow’s walk, is lavishly furnished to accommodate your weekend guests.

Stepne Manor

406 S. Cross St.Chestertown, MD 21620410-810-7591www.brittlandestates.com

CapaCity ....................................................... 400OutDOOr SpaCe ..........................................yes Water VieW .................................................yesOff Site Catering allOWeD ..................yes Separate CereMOny rOOM ...................yesfaCility fee ..................................................yes

ideal for a town charm wedding, Stepne Manor is located within walking distance to Chestertown’s historic buildings, churches, galleries, and shops. across the street you’ll find a park on the Chester river for some great wedding pictures. the wide covered porch and spacious lawn at Stepne provide a relaxed yet sophisticated setting for pre-wedding get-togethers and small receptions. the circa 1690 manor house is full of historic detail and ideal for the small wedding party weekend accommodations.


towson golf and Country Club

12801 Stone Hill rd.towson, MD 21131410-252-8484www.tgcc.net

CapaCity ....................................................... 220OutDOOr SpaCe ..........................................yesWater VieW ..................................................noOff Site Catering allOWeD ...................noSeparate CereMOny rOOM ...................yes

towson golf and Country Club offers a view like no other venue in the area. perched atop our outdoor deck overlooking the course, you and your guests will have a 180 degree view of the towson Skyline, our lush manicured greens, and landscape surrounding the loch raven watershed. all of our indoor spaces (main dining room, ballroom and bar room) offer floor to ceiling windows and captivating views. your event will be the Only wedding we book that day. We customize each package for every couple to create the day you always dreamed of. its all in the details!


Planning the wedding feast doesn’t have to be complicated. A good caterer will deliver an excellent meal and impeccable service within the specifications of your contract and budget.

A professional caterer should share your enthusiasm for pleasing each guest, but unfortunately, that’s not the only qualifier. You’ll want to address budget, service, the meal itself, and a variety of details with your caterer to make sure that the qualifications match the enthusiasm.

finDing Professional serviceThere is no substitute for professionalism

and experience. When selecting your caterer, get sound referrals and observe the professionalism of the staff. Extremely attentive service for a sit-down meal or cocktail party would require one server for every 10 guests; for a buffet the number is significantly less. Service is still quite good with one server for every 15 to 20 guests. A good caterer will be able to explain these ratios and make suggestions for the best service style and the appropriate number of servers for your budget.

a Meal to reMeMBerAh yes, the food. To ensure a quality

meal, schedule a meeting with the chef

who will prepare it. It is also appropriate to request a private dinner sampling for you and your groom, remembering your enjoyment there will be the measure of your guest’s enjoyment at the wedding reception.

catering BuDgetFound a caterer whose food and

service you like? Great. Can you afford them? The best way to determine the catering budget is to decide how much you will spend on each guest. Multiply that dollar amount by the number of guests expected. Then add an additional 10 percent to cover overage and approximately 17 to 20 percent for gratuities. Don’t forget to add your local applicable taxes and any extras that aren’t included in the price.

DoWn to DetailsOnce you’ve decided on a caterer

then take the time to determine as many additional details as possible. Have a firm agreement, and thoroughly examine your contract. Make sure it clearly states dates, costs and when deposits are due. Your contract should also specify the food and beverages to be served and stipulate the number of servers needed. Check to see that all the services you requested are listed in the contract, such as centerpieces, the wedding cake, decorations for the room and head table and other labor intensive additions such as ice sculptures or any other additional needs. Carefully review postponement policies and cancellation policies. If you have any questions or concerns, this is the time to openly discuss them with your caterer. B

uncomplicaTe caTeringa few tips


Banquet Guide

Adelphi Mill8402 Riggs Rd.,Adelphi, MD(301) 699-2400 www.pgelegantsettings.com

Anchor Inn 7617 Water Oak Point Rd., Pasadena, MD(410) 437-3784www.cateringbyuptown.com

Atlantic Marina Resort2042 Knollview Dr., Pasadena, MD(410) 437-3784www.cateringbyuptown.com

Best Western Hotel and Conference Center5625 O’Donnell St.,Baltimore, MD(410) 633-9500www.bwhotelbaltimore.com

Billingsley House Museum6900 Green Landing Rd.,Upper Marlboro, MD(301) 627-0730www.pgelegantsettings.com

The Black Horse Inn8393 Meetze Rd., Warrenton, VA(540) 349-4020www.blackhorseinn.com

Brittland Manor 211 Britland Farm Ln.,Chestertown, MD(410) 810-7591www.brittlandestates.com

Cape May-Lewes Ferry43 Cape Henlopen Dr., Lewes, DE(302) 644-6012www.cmlf.com

Celebrations at the Bay 2042 Knollview Dr.,Pasadena, MD(410) 437-3784www.cateringbyuptown.com

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Banquet GuideDarnall’s Chance House Museum14800 Governor Oden Bowie Dr.,Upper Marlboro, MD (301) 952.8010www.pgelegantsettings.com

Dorsey Chapel10704 Brookland Rd.,Glenn Dale, MD(240) 264-3415www.pgelegantsettings.com

Historic Mattaponi Manor11000 Mattaponi Rd.,Upper Marlboro, MD(443) 433-6098

Holiday Inn Columbia7900 Washington Blvd. Columbia, MD(410) 799-9500www.holidayinn.com/columbiamd

Holiday Inn Laurel15101 Sweitzer Ln.,Laurel, MD(301) 206-4111www.holidayinnlaurel.com

1827 Mountain Road, Joppa, MD410-836-9600 • www.mountainbranch.com

Inn at Henderson’s Wharf1000 Fleet St.,Baltimore, MD(410) 649-5314 www.harbormagic.com

La Banque de Fleuve321 St. John St.,Havre de Grace, MD(410) 939-4744www.labanquedefleuve.com

Love Point at Kent Island1550 Love Point Rd., Stevensville, MD(410) 541-6588www.lovepointatkentisland.com

MacGregor’s Restaurant & Tavern331 Saint John St.,Havre de Grace, MD(410) 939-3003www.macgregorsrestaurant.com

Elegance · Value · Breathtaking Landscapes Outstanding Catering · Personal Service

at Historic Mattaponi Manor

11000 Mattaponi Road : Upper Marlboro, MD 20772 : 443.433.6098

Located on 130 acres of rural land just 40 minutes away from Washington, DC. Historic Mattaponi Manor House & Grounds is a scenic setting that offers an extraordinary value for weddings, rehearsals, retreats, showers and more. The Manor House and the Retreat & Conference Center is equipped to handle a variety of functions, from a small meeting to a full formal event.

Historic Mattaponi's Manor House, built in the 18th century (rebuilt c. 1820) is an ideal setting for an intimate candlelight formal sit-down dinner, a buffet-style reception or a contemporary cocktail reception It is that perfect place for a smaller gathering, or a staring role in a larger outdoor event.

Lake Mattaponi and the surrounding 130 acre grounds also host endless options for your special event. Wide open spaces & tenting options make for the perfect backdrop year round. Contact us for all of your special event needs. We will connect you to vendors & can be your very own event concierge. Make an appointment to see the panoramic views for yourself & to begin planning an unforgettable event!

Whether sophisticated and formal or fun and light-hearted, the team at Harbor Magic Hotels are ready and waiting to help make your special day one to remember.

Pier 5 Hotel 410.649.5314 Admiral Fell Inn 410.951.1667

Henderson’s Wharf 410.649.5314

www.HarborMagic.com

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Banquet Guide

The Minker Banquet HallHistoric Perryville, MD(410) 939-3003www.macgregorsrestaurant.com

Montpelier Mansion9650 Muirkirk Rd.,Laurel, MD(301) 377-7817www.pgelegantsettings.com

Mountain Branch1827 Mountain Rd.,Joppa, MD(410) 836-9600www.mountainbranch.com

National Aquarium501 E. Pratt St., Baltimore, MD(410) 576-3869www.aqua.org

Newton White Mansion2708 Enterprise Rd.,Mitchellville, MD(301) 249-2004www.pgelegantsettings.com

Osprey’s Landing401 Belmont Bay Dr., Woodbridge, VA(703) 494-1935www.ospreyslanding.net

Oxon Hill Manor6901 Oxon Hill Rd., Oxon Hill, MD(301) 839-7782www.pgelegantsettings.com

Pier 5 Hotel711 Eastern Ave., Baltimore, MD(410) 649-5319www.harbormagic.com

Piney Branch Golf Club5301 Trenton Mill Rd., Upperco, MD(410) 239-7114www.pineybranchgolf.com


Banquet GuidePrince George’s Ballroom2411 Pinebrook Ave., Landover, MD(301) 341-7439www.pgelegantsettings.com

Ramada BWI7253 Parkway Dr., Hanover, MD(410) 712-4300www.bwiramada.com

The Restaurant at Lighthouse Sound12723 St. Martin’s Neck Rd.,Bishopville, MD(410) 352-5250www.lighthousesoundrestaurant.com

River Lodge 219 Britland Farm Ln.,Chestertown, MD(410) 810-7591www.brittlandestates.com

Riversdale House Museum4811 Riverdale Rd.,Riverdale Park, MD(301) 864-0420www.pgelegantsettings.com

Rocky Gap Resort16701 Lakeview Rd. NE, Flintstone, MD(800) 724-0828www.rockygapresort.com

Running Fox 23791 Ricauds Branch Rd.,Chestertown, MD(410) 810-7591www.brittlandestates.com

Sheraton Baltimore North Hotel903 Dulaney Valley Rd., Towson, MD(410) 321-7400www.SheratonBaltimoreNorth.com

Snow Hill Manor13301 Laurel-Bowie Rd.,Laurel, MD(301) 725-6037www.pgelegantsettings.com


The Rocky Gap Resort experience brings an unforgettable AAA 4-Diamond touch to a dramatic natural mountain setting.

Rocky Gap Resort is conveniently located directly in the middle between Washington, Baltimore and Pittsburgh, two hours drive from all three on I-68 near Cumberland, MD.

Lakeside Ceremonies Complete Banquet Services Outdoor Receptions • Golf Complete Spa Services

Romantic resort setting in the Maryland Mountains.

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The elegant Lighthouse Sound is a first class wedding and reception facility offering the best views in Ocean City. Overlooking the scenic bay and Ocean City Skyline, we specialize in delicious cuisine, outstanding hospitality and beautiful surroundings. Lighthouse Sound will have your guests raving for years to come!

www.lighthousesoundrestaurant.com | 410.352.5250 | Ocean City, MD


Banquet GuideThe Steakhouse139 Mitchells Chance Rd.,Edgewater, MD410-956-4494www.thesteakhousemd.com

The Steakhouse3615 East Joppa Rd.,Perry Hall, MD410-882--3377 www.thesteakhousemd.com

Stepne Manor 406 S. Cross St., Chestertown, MD(410) 810-7591www.brittlandestates.com

Sunset Crest Manor42169 Mayhew Ln., Chantilly, VA(703) 967-9148www.sunsetcrestmanor.com

Town & Country 2319 Hammonds Ferry Rd., Baltimore, MD(410) 247-5100www.cateringbyuptown.com

Towson Golf andCountry Club12801 Stone Hill Rd., Towson, MD(410) 252-8484www.tgcc.net

The Villa 4060 Powder Mill Rd., Beltsville, MD(301) 572-7744www.cateringbyuptown.com

Waverly Mansion 2300 Waverly Mansion Dr.,Marriottsville, MD(301) 572-7744www.cateringbyuptown.com


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a picture perfect dayIt may be hard to imagine now, but after many months of hard work and detailed planning, your wedding day will suddenly arrive… and zooooom!

The hours will fly by in a blur of beautiful, moving, memorable moments. And after the cake has been

eaten, the dress has been carefully put away, and the gifts have been opened – you and your new spouse

will be left with the most precious gift of all: memories of your special day. 4

PhotographyDo a dry run.A good test for a photographer is the engagement photo. Is this person willing to work with you? Do you love the results? How’s the customer service? Don’t sign up until you’ve seen the results.


A Picture Perfect DayIt may be hard to imagine now, but after many months of hard work and detailed planning, your wedding day will suddenly arrive… and zooooom! The hours will fly by in a blur of beautiful, moving, memorable moments. And after the cake has been eaten, the dress has been carefully put away, and the gifts have been opened – you and your new spouse will be left with the most precious gift of all: memories of your special day.

a picture perfect dayIt may be hard to imagine now, but after many months of hard work and detailed planning, your wedding day will suddenly arrive… and zooooom!

The hours will fly by in a blur of beautiful, moving, memorable moments. And after the cake has been

eaten, the dress has been carefully put away, and the gifts have been opened – you and your new spouse

will be left with the most precious gift of all: memories of your special day. 4

PhotographyDo a dry run.A good test for a photographer is the engagement photo. Is this person willing to work with you? Do you love the results? How’s the customer service? Don’t sign up until you’ve seen the results.


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After the wedding day, some of the most cherished moments of your marriage will be spent reminiscing with your spouse while looking at your wedding photographs. Therefore, it is of the utmost importance to find a professional photographer with the creative skills and techniques necessary to capture the beauty and joy of your wedding day on film.

Be certain to secure your photographer at least six months in advance however, twelve month’s notice is best. Your keenest evaluation takes place at the studio, where you can examine the photographer’s work and talk about your wedding. This is the time to discuss any special effects you have in mind and to determine the costs in order for you to plan your budget. Don’t forget to budget for additional prints you might want to give as gifts later. Agree on a firm figure for both the deposit and the final payment and pay both promptly.

Provide all specifics about visual details, as well as exact locations and times for the ceremony and reception. Be sure the photographer is in contact with your minister, rabbi or priest to avoid last-minute situations where certain lighting or shooting is not allowed.

You will come up against at least one photographic dilemma - when should the portraits be taken? After the ceremony, as is traditional, or before the ceremony? The consensus of most professionals is that taking formal pictures right after the ceremony dampens the spontaneity of the group. Before the ceremony, however, taking formal pictures might eliminate the sparkle from everyone’s eyes. It is important to get your photographer’s input; they’ve seen it done both ways. There are choices to make in order to minimize the conflict between seizing the moment and capturing the memory.

If you have a large wedding party, you can do yourself and your photographer a favor by providing an informed assistant. He or she should know everyone involved and be able to ensure that no one is missing from large portraits. Tell your photographer about sensitive situations in either partner’s family, such as deaths or divorce, to eliminate any uncomfortable situations.

Be sure you understand exactly what you are buying when you purchase photography. The end product should be a variety of poses and prints, which you will need to specify. You will need to establish a date when the proofs will be ready and how you will receive and pay for the finished work. Your photographer will probably keep your negatives, so make sure you agree to how long they will be saved.

Once you feel confident that all the bases have been covered, let the professional do his work. Your photographer should orchestrate formal poses and portrait sessions, quietly slip in for candid shots and leave you with an album of memories that reflect your shining day. B

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Depending on your religion you might decide to forget about tradition and create your own wedding vows for your big day. The sky is really the limit in this case and there is no better way to begin your life together than to take the time to really let one another know how you feel.

If you do decide that you want to write your own vows meet with the officiant to discuss what you want to do. Certain vows must be kept in the ceremony in order for the wedding to be legal.

When you do personalize your wedding vows think about those things that are really important to you such as the meaning of marriage, why you are planning to spend your life together and how you will make this arrangement work for better or worse. Too many times nowadays couples don’t realize that marriage is supposed to be a lasting bond of togetherness through the good and the bad times.

No matter how far astray you want your wedding vows to go it might be a good idea to start with the familiar. There is definitely something beautiful about the words in a wedding ceremony and perhaps just adding a few of your own personalized additions throughout the

wedding is all that will be needed to add that special touch.

Of course, you want to make sure that you and your fiancé are in agreement when it comes to changing the vows during the wedding. Talk about the things that make your life together unique and different and the plans you have for your future. One really special way to say “I love you” is to remember why you fell in love in the first place. Often during the hassles of the wedding this is easy to forget. Perhaps bringing it all back together in front of your family and friends will make a bond that will never be broken.

Talk about the experiences you have shared together while making memories. These are often very important moments frozen in time and will also help to build your future as you look ahead at what makes your marriage so important to both of you. What do you want for your future? This will be a good start as to what you want to promise each other as you stand before God and man becoming man and wife.

Another fun thing to do might be have you and your fiancé write your vows apart and then come together to read them before you decide exactly what you will read during the ceremony. This will be a good way to discover any hidden feelings and you might be surprised at how identical your feelings really are, this is the mark of a great love.

If you and your fiancé have an eclectic style or personality then by all means let that come out in your personalized vows. In the long run in might make it easier for you to express your real feelings anyway. B

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Create a memorable, take-home token for your guests.Set up digital photo booths during the cocktail hour. Have the memory card processed at a nearby one-hour shop and present the guests with a framed photo that they can take home that night.



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video/dvdThe wonders of modern

technology certainly brings a new and exciting dimension to weddings. Once, preserving every precious moment of your wedding ceremony in moving sight and sound relied on videocassette tapes, but now you can have a tape, a digital, web-friendly version or even a DVD of your wedding.

The first step in engaging a videographer (yes, they’re still called that!) is similar to finding a good photographer. Make sure they can provide sound references, consider the quality of work, and discuss filming methods. Book several months in advance to ensure your date.

Fees are usually figured by number of cameras, assistants, editing time and special production costs. Most videographers charge either per camera, per hour, or a flat fee for the finished products you order.

Tell the videographer what you want recorded: who, what, where and when. Besides the actual ceremony, will you want footage of the bridal shower or bachelor party? Be sure to include the important people you want filmed--parents, friends and other relatives.

There are lots of things to consider when searching for the perfect videographer. Download the videography checklist and questions to ask (or the entire 12 page planner) by visiting premierbride.com and clicking on the planning tab.B

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Sara & MikeSeptember 3

I had just moved back from Florida and started going to the local gym, where I met Mike and we began to date. One day, Mike invited our parents and siblings over to our house. They were sitting on the couch and I was kneeling with our daughter on the floor. Mike knelt down very close to me as if he was going to kiss me and said, “would you like to be Mrs. Farris?”. Prior to this I was thinking why is everyone here on a Monday night? Our two year old daughter, Hailee, who has the most amazing spirit, twirled and clapped during the ceremony and commanded the dance floor during the reception. I used the seashells that we collected over the years for our center pieces. My veil was my best friend’s who got married two years before me, it was perfect for my dress and we didn’t change a thing. It’s great to look back at the pictures and know every person on a personal level made our day truly special. Our ceremony was at the pier of the Cape May-Lewes Ferry. Our daughter had a very cute pail of flowers to carry. The ferry has a cat that hangs out and of course it decided it wanted to be a part of our ceremony. It walked up the aisle and went right to our daughter’s flowers, she ran over to it and said “no kitty, these are Hailee’s flowers”. Everyone laughed and it may have been seen as something that went wrong, but looking back it is a great memory. The sea was our background and the Ferry was a unique wedding location. A learned lesson for me was planning your wedding by yourself using only online resources is not


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effective if you are unfamiliar with the area and cannot travel often. My Dad was absolutely fabulous! After we picked the Cape May – Lewes Ferry, we realized that included in the price, Karen Pugh, was an event coordinator who helped a lot with the day of arrangements. To keep to our theme, our favors were mini white pails with salt water taffy and bracelets with our names and wedding date engraved. Our cake was three tiered with three different flavors, white with fresh strawberries and butter cream, red velvet with cream cheese, and spice with cream cheese. Something for everyone. We had so much fun. Looking back I can honestly say I wouldn’t change a thing.


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MusicThe sound of romanceOn your wedding day, nothing sets the mood, stirs the emotions or touches the heart more than music. From the solemn, beautiful sounds of the ceremony, to the background melodies of the cocktail hour, to the lively dance tunes that energize the reception, music brings the romance to your day.4

Music makes a party!Nothing gets the guests energized like great music. Hire the best band or DJ you can afford. Book the music that makes people want to dance.

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MusicThe sound of romanceOn your wedding day, nothing sets the mood, stirs the emotions or touches the heart more than music. From the solemn, beautiful sounds of the ceremony, to the

background melodies of the cocktail hour, to the lively dance tunes that energize the reception, music brings

the romance to your day.4

Music makes a party!Nothing gets the guests energized like great music. Hire the best band or DJ you can afford. Book the music that makes people want to dance.

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The sound of romanceOn your wedding day, nothing sets the mood, stirs the emotions or touches the heart more than music. From the solemn, beautiful sounds of the ceremony, to the background melodies of the cocktail hour, to the lively dance tunes that energize the reception, music brings the romance to your day.


Couples traditionally engage disc jockeys for their ability to provide a wide variety of music at a reasonable price. They can play all of your favorite songs, performed by the original artists and, because DJs work with prerecorded music, your entertainment is continuous even during breaks.

A veteran wedding DJ not only plays the music, but also acts as an emcee for the event, smoothly introducing your wedding party, arranging to have champagne poured before the toast, announcing the cake-cutting and a myriad of other milestone moments throughout the reception. Needless to say, the DJ will be an integral part of your celebration, which is why you should take great care to hire a disk jockey with a personality and style you like. Decide in advance how much you would like your DJ to say and how interactive you would like him to be with the audience. Of course, much of this will depend on the type of celebration you are planning. An energetic, out-on-the-dance-floor all-night reception will require a different type of interaction than a sophisticated, more demure event. In either case, a disc jockey with an extensive repertoire and experience can tailor the presentation to the needs of the occasion.

The best idea is to arrange a meeting with prospective disc jockeys. Listen to their expertise on previous receptions. They may have some great ideas that you’ll want to incorporate into your affair. Ask about musical selections, old and new. Don’t be dismayed if they don’t have obscure songs, but gauge their willingness to track them down.

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sound entertainMentAlso arrange to see them perform. Once you’ve decided on a DJ service, be prepared to provide a list of songs you would, and would not, like played at your reception, as well as the song for your first dance. Keep in mind, while you may love jazz or alternative music, those types of music don’t always make great dance selections, especially for hours on end. Give your DJ the freedom to truly entertain your guests by mixing a few of your personal preferences with a balance of tried and true reception crowd pleasers. An experienced entertainer will know how to read the crowd and keep the party jumping, but only if you let them.

Should you plan on having your disc jockey emcee the reception, provide a schedule of events. If you are on a stringent time schedule, make sure you convey the importance of strict adherence. If there are any special introductions to be made, make sure you review the correct pronunciation of the names and relay what the person’s relationship is to the bride and groom.

After the first dance of the bride and groom, it is common to play something upbeat and celebrating. Light dance tunes are generally played through dinner so your guests can relax and easily converse.

While not required, providing refreshments for your entertainer is a great way to keep her happy and energetic while she is working hard to make your reception a dancing success.

Lastly, make sure the contract covers all of the bases: the day, date and time of the event; address of the site; number of hours covered; overtime cost; total cost; and payment arrangements. If you’re pleased with your DJ’s performance offer a tip at the end of the event that reflects your satisfaction. B


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On your parent’s wedding day, four out of five marriages were destined to last. Today, 50 percent of the unions we celebrate end sadly. Half of America’s children spend time in a single-parent household. Our modern age has complicated the process of blending two personalities into one family.

Your commitment won’t work without a willingness to grow. That’s because as your marriage takes on a life of its own, there are really three of you to contend with: you, your spouse and your union. You cannot change your spouse, but you can work on yourself and your partnership.

Putting forth a positive effort means playing by some important rules. Attitude defines the difference between an argument and a discussion. Refrain from using judgmental words like “always,” “should”

and “never.” Set goals for yourselves, and agree to meet them. Businesses need them, and so does a marriage. Financial goals are a definite must. Never forget that love is not only expressed by passion, but also as much by mouth and pen or gift and gesture as by thoughtfulness, respect, understanding and patience. Take time to listen. Never go to bed mad. Don’t stagnate. Continue to cultivate growth in all areas, including your marriage.

Pre-marital counseling may be available through your church or other religious group and in some religions it may even be a requirement. You can also seek the help of professionals. There is no shame in this as it’s better to know as much as you can about one another before the ceremony, so you can have a fulfilling life together. B

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Brides traditionally engage DJs to emcee their wedding reception while also providing a wide variety of music at the same time. But even if you book the Rolling Stones, they may not know New York, New York. A less obvious benefit of hiring an emcee is the personal touch he will impart to duties you won’t have to deal with.

A veteran wedding DJ will smoothly line up your wedding party and introduce them. He’ll arrange to have champagne poured before the toast and keep a jittery best man on an even and eloquent keel. He’ll emcee your cake-cutting and bouquet-throwing at the appropriate times. In short, he’ll keep the show running smoothly while you’re basking in the spotlight.

The key qualification is experience, not price. Most DJs cost less than the hors d’oeuvres, though they’re remembered far longer.

It’s not out of line to ask for references, though, he’ll certainly select satisfied clients. The best idea is to arrange a meeting. Talk your DJ through his conception of your reception and see how your ideas mesh. Ask about musical selections, old and new. Don’t be dismayed if he doesn’t have obscure songs, but gauge his willingness to track them down. Ask about lights and sound (the best systems sound superb at background volume). Most importantly, will he be a lump behind the turntables? Or will he be out front working hard, involving your guests in dancing after dinner? B

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Pack less so you can enjoy yourself more. Here are the five commandments for packing for your honeymoon.

1. Take half the clothes and twice the money.2. Mix and match clothes (forget about a pair of

shoes for every outfit).3. Learn to layer so that when the evening cools

off all you have to do is add a sweater over your existing skirt and blouse.

4. Do laundry at the hotel.5. Be culturally sensitive. Women have to cover

their shoulders in Italy before entering a church and in the Middle East remember miniskirts are out.

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CakesYoUR WeddInG CaKe: a sweet ending to a special dayIt’s the sweetest wedding task of them all – deciding on dessert for your big day. Tradition calls for a tiered cake with your plastic (un)likeness smacked on top, but brides and bakers are breaking cake molds to create funky and fresh options that add the icing to

your wedding. Take in all the options, work with a pro to make it custom and whatever you do, don’t miss out

on any tasting!4

Cake Flavor TipIf you decide on a basic tiered cake, use different flavors/fillings for each layer to appeal to more tastes.

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YOUR WEDDING CAKE: a sweet ending to a special dayThe sweetest wedding task is deciding on dessert for your big day. Tradition calls for a tiered cake with your plastic (un)likeness smacked on top, but brides and bakers are breaking cake molds to create funky and fresh options that add the icing to your wedding. Take in all the options, work with a pro to make it custom and whatever you do, don´t miss out on any tasting!


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Tradition surrounds the wedding cake, an ancient symbol of fertility and abundance. In Rome, during the first century, wedding cakes were usually made of wheat and were either thrown, crumbled or broken over the bride’s head in one of many symbolic gestures of fertility that were part of the marriage ceremony. Fortunately, today this tradition continues only in the form of throwing rice, birdseed or confetti at the newly married couple.

The number of well-wishers at the wedding of a frontier bride could be counted by measuring her cake. Each arriving guest added a layer with applesauce spread in between each one.

An old English wives tale says that if an unmarried guest places a piece of wedding cake under her pillow at night then her prospects of finding a partner are greatly increased. Bridesmaids who did the same would dream of their future husbands. Another cake-related tradition is to save the top layer for your first anniversary. Considering that after a year the cake’s flavor may leave something to be desired, many couples forgo freezing their cake and instead have a smaller version baked fresh for their first anniversary.

When you and your spouse cut the cake together you are sharing matrimonial sweetness in the same way the ancient Greeks did, while they also believed a sesame-seed cake helped couples multiply. B

sWeet traDitions

wedding cakes

Tradition surrounds the wedding cake, an ancient symbol of fertility and abundance. In Rome, during the first century, wedding cakes were usually made of wheat and were either thrown, crumbled or broken over the bride’s head in one of many symbolic gestures of fertility that were part of the marriage ceremony. Fortunately, today this tradition continues only in the form of throwing rice, birdseed or confetti at the newly married couple.

The number of well-wishers at the wedding of a frontier bride could be counted by measuring her cake. Each arriving guest added a layer with applesauce spread in between each one.

An old English wives tale says that if an unmarried guest places a piece of wedding cake under her pillow at night then her prospects of finding a partner are greatly increased. Bridesmaids who did the same would dream of their future husbands. Another cake-related tradition is to save the top layer for your first anniversary. Considering that after a year the cake’s flavor may leave something to be desired, many couples forgo freezing their cake and instead have a smaller version baked fresh for their first anniversary.

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Selecting a cake:ask the right questions• Do you specialize in any certain styles or flavors?

• Can you design a wedding or groom’s cake from a photograph or idea?

• Can you match the cake colors to fabric swatches or flowers?

• Can you create individual cakes to be used as wedding favors?

• Can you accommodate special dietary needs?

• Do you offer a tasting?

• How much time do you need to prepare the cake at the reception?

• Do you price by the slice or by the cake? Do you have a price list?• Will you charge for supports or bases on the cake? May I return them for a refund?



• Is a deposit required? If so, when and how much?

CakesSelecting a cake:ask the right questions•Doyouspecializeinanycertainstylesorflavors?•Canyoudesignaweddingorgroom’s

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thecakeatthereception?•Doyoupricebythesliceorbythecake?Doyouhaveapricelist?

•Willyouchargeforsupportsorbasesonthecake?MayIreturnthemforarefund?

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BASQUE WAISTFalls below the natural

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DROPPED WAIST

Falls several inches below natural waist.

EMPIRE WAIST

This high waist features a

cropped bodice just beneath the

bust line.

NATURAL WAIST

Falls at your actual waistline, slightly above

your belly button

BALLET LENGTH

Hemline falls just above the

ankles.

BOUFFANT-BALL GOWNVery full skirt

gathered at the waist, usually worn over a

crinoline slip.

FLOOR LENGTH

Hemline falls one-half inch to two inches from

the floor.

PEPLUMA short flounce or overskirt that is

attached at the waist.

MINIThis hemline

falls just above the knees.

STREET LENGTH

Hem falls just below the knee.

TEA LENGTHHemline falls

below the knee, usually 8-10

inches from the floor.

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Gowns6 easY sTepsto the gown of your dreamsEveryone knows they can’t try to upstage the bride on her wedding day, and that means one thing –you’ve got to make sure your dress is up for the

challenge! Some ladies have dreamt of their gown since before they can remember, but for others finding

the dress is a nightmare. Before you start looking here are some tips:4

Prepare to spend a little more. Remember that just because it’s a great price doesn’t mean it’s a great dress for you. And don’t forget to bring along a pad of paper and track styles, dress names and numbers.

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6 EASY STEPS to the gown of your dreamsEveryone knows they can´t try to upstage the bride on her wedding day, and that means one thing –you´ve got to make sure your dress is up for the challenge! Some ladies have dreamt of their gown since before they can remember, but for others finding the dress is a nightmare. Before you start looking here are some tips:

Gowns6 easY sTepsto the gown of your dreamsEveryone knows they can’t try to upstage the bride on her wedding day, and that means one thing –you’ve got to make sure your dress is up for the challenge! Some ladies have dreamt of their gown since before they can remember, but for others finding the dress is a nightmare. Before you start looking here

are some tips:4

Prepare to spend a little more. Remember that just because it’s a great price doesn’t mean it’s a great dress for you. And don’t forget to bring along a pad of paper and track styles, dress names and numbers.

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NeckliNe Types

BateauCurves downward slightly

below the collarbone to the edge of the shoulders.

HalterCollar wraps around

the neck, usually with a low-cut back.

IllusIon YokeTransparent fabric, lace or netting fitted at the

neckline, extending to the bust line.

JewelLike a t-shirt - a high,

rounded neckline usually falling above

the color bone.

oFF-tHe sHoulDerFrames the face, neck and

shoulders by falling just below the shoulders and

across the bustline.

PortraItAn off-the-shoulder style -

folds around the shoulders, like a fitted and structured shawl.

Queen anneHeart-shaped neckline in the front combined with a collar-like back.

saBrInaSimilar to a Bateau,

begins two inches in from each shoulder and curves gently downward

below the collarbone.

sCooPLow and rounded with

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sPaGHettI straPsThin straps - can be

straight across or shaped.

sQuare/CourtLow, like the scoop,

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straPlessNo straps - can be straight

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sweetHeartDips to a heart shape

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V-neCkDips to a “V” in the center.

weDDInG BanDHas a band that circles the neck.



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Michael and I met at work. We both work at the Gallery Mall in Baltimore. One morning when we were in the car Michael proposed. In the car! What a beautiful way to start a day. I wanted to find a place that was romantic and royal. That is how I felt planning our wedding. The Engineers Club was both of those for us. It was everything I desired in a venue. A special touch was when we exchanged our vows. They came straight from the heart. This was the beginning of forever and we let our hearts say it all. That was the best part of the day. Hearing those words and saying those words to one another. Our photographer, Trenique Artistry, was unbelievable. Trene captured all the special moments of our wedding day. Our theme was romantic, our décor was French and our favors were shot glasses. Now we can relive those memories in her beautiful work. At the beginning of the ceremony there was a small mix up with the seating. It is these small details that a good wedding planner will handle leaving you to enjoy your day with family and friends. If you don’t have a day of planner, get one. Now we are a blended family with our 3 children living the happily ever after.


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FlowersDon’t Limit Your Bouquets. Use your imagination and consider adding small branches of wild flowers that add bits of color and a touch of simpleness.

BRIdaL BLooMs: design a beautiful wedding with flowersWhen selecting flowers for your wedding, you will find there is an endless array of options. The romantic link between weddings and flowers dates back to

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BRIDAL BLOOMS: design a beautiful wedding with flowersWhen selecting flowers for your wedding, you will find there is an endless array of options. The romantic link between weddings and flowers dates back to ancient civilizations where garlands of flowers, leaves and vines were worn or carried by young brides to symbolize their beauty and innocence. Wedding flowers have since evolved from simple hand-held bouquets to vibrantly artistic creations used to set the mood and theme for the entire celebration.

FlowersDon’t Limit Your Bouquets. Use your imagination and consider adding small branches of wild flowers that add bits of color and a touch of simpleness.

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using live plantsMarriages may be “made in heaven,”

but most are based on compromise. So usually are your wedding plans. Perhaps the site you’ve chosen for your ceremony and reception does not quite measure up to expectations. Flowers, lighting and table settings help establish a warm, romantic feeling, but maybe you want more.

Many plants provide instant decoration for plain or drab rooms - the stately Ficus tree trimmed with small white lights can create an elegant wall treatment. The graceful Areca palm will form an excellent backdrop for photography and a Fern can be used in various applications: individually as a spotlight plant; in a basket holding a ficus tree; or as a leafy addition to any floral arrangements. Flowering plants, bromeliads, or exotic foliage plants provide unlimited possibilities. Just use your imagination.

To find a reputable plant company you can ask your florist or talk to friends who have rented plants or attended parties where the plants stood out.

When you call a plant company, ask about more than just prices. Is the delivery included? What is offered in way of baskets or other decorative containers? Can they show you pictures of other jobs they have already done? Can you see the actual plants you’ll be renting?

Most plant rental companies provide a free consultation and some even visit the wedding and reception sites if requested.

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Florists vary widely on the wedding day services they provide – some simply drop the flowers off, others spend quite a bit of time decorating your ceremony and reception sites. Be clear ahead of time about what is, and what isn’t included.

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•Canyouprovidefreshflowersforthecake?•HowfarinadvancemustIbookyourservices?•Whatisyourcancellationpolicy?

Selecting flowerS:ask the right questionsFlorists vary widely on the wedding day services they provide – some simply drop the flowers off, others spend quite a bit of time decorating your ceremony and reception sites. Be clear ahead of time about what is, and what isn’t included.

• What packages do you offer? What do they include?

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• Do you deliver the flowers? Is there a charge?

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• Do you rent or provide decorations and props?

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Bridal accessories are fun and easy items to shop for and they add a bit of personality to any wedding. From shoes and jewelry to toasting glasses and cake servers, accessories are important details on your wedding day.

As you begin planning the major aspects of your wedding, keep an eye out for special or unique items that will reflect your own personal style, hobbies or passions.

Though it may be tempting, avoid procrastinating on these seemingly simple purchases. Some selections may require special order, so be sure to allow several weeks for shipping.

From ScratchIf you’re creative and have the time,

handmade accessories are a wonderful addition to any wedding. A hand-sewn ring bearer pillow that matches the flower girlís basket is a lovely touch. Craft shops and fabric stores carry the necessary supplies to fashion the perfect accessories or enhance store-bought items.

Special SomethingsBridal accessories almost always

fulfill the “something old, something new, something borrowed something blue” requirement. Carrying your grandmother’s bible or prayer book as you walk down the aisle would be your “something old.”

Your “something new” is easy to achieve, taking into consideration your shoes, your gown or a lovely pair of pearl earrings that match your “something borrowed” pearl necklace.

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accessorize your dayHandkerchiefs, garters or lingerie with accent colors usually provide the “something blue.”

Accessory checklist

For the Bride• Garter• Handkerchief• Jewelry• KeepsakeBag• Shoes

For the Party• AisleRunner• CakeKnife• CakeServer• CakeTop• Cocktail Napkins (engraved with names anddate)

• Favors• GuestBookandPen• Matches(engravedwithnamesanddate)• ToastingGlasses• WeddingCameras(oneforeachtable)• WishingBubbles

Other Accessories• Attendant’sGifts• FlowerGirlBasket• PewBows• RingBearerPillow• UnityCandleandHolder

Many bridal salons carry limited selections of guest books, toasting glasses, cake knives and cake servers. For a more extensive selection of these items, visit a bridal store that specializes in bridal supplies and accessories.

Should you receive a wedding accessory as a shower or pre-wedding gift, make sure that you use it in the wedding. B


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• Use plastic sheets to cover questionable areas outdoors.

• Keep track of white beverage spills, such as white wines, champagne and soda. Left untreated, yellowing will occur.

• Consign your gown to the cleaners even if it seems in perfect shape after the wedding. Perspiration and other obscure stains will make their mark over time, and become embedded in a matter of weeks. Make sure the cleaner knows what caused any spots.

• Only mend tears when you’re sure the fabric can stand the strain.

• Store your gown carefully. Plastic bags seal in humidity and high temperatures, which cause mildew. Hangers stress sheer fabrics, such as lace, organza or marquisette.

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RingsThe CIRCLe oF LoVe: understanding the basicsIt’s amazing, the power of a piece of jewelry to convey so much meaning… Engagement rings and wedding bands represent the never-ending love you have for each other, and let the whole world know you are married! Besides the exquisite beauty of wedding rings, there is a lot to know about metals, diamonds, and the care involved. This “Ring Primer”

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THE CIRCLE OF LOVE: understanding the basicsWedding rings have long been a customary symbol of marriage. Your wedding rings are special because they say that even in your uniqueness you have chosen to be bonded, to allow the presence of another person to enhance who you are. These rings symbolize the vows you will take…circles without beginning or end…symbols of enduring love and a lifetime of friendship. These rings mark a long journey together of giving and receiving love, signifying to all the bond of marriage the two of you share.

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rings are forever

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You’ll find an unlimited selection of wedding rings; rings that match the bride’s engagement ring, matching rings for bride and groom, rings of yellow gold, white gold, combinations of golds, platinum rings, rings with stones, engraved or brightly polished, traditional, modern, wide or narrow.

Your choice will be determined by personal taste and budget. The sooner you start shopping, the more options you’ll have, so start shopping a minimum of six to eight weeks before your wedding. Get a feel for what’s available and what your money will buy at each shop. Also, with years of experience to call on, a good jeweler may have suggestions to help you get exactly what you’re looking for at the best price.

Some couples opt for having one-of-a-kind rings designed for them. Ask to see examples of the jeweler’s work before commissioning anything. Ensure that the work is of the caliber you desire and appropriate to your tastes before turning over a deposit. Having rings created for you can be rewarding, but it can be a nightmare if the jeweler is incompetent.

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From the start, our romance has been anything but boring and run-of-the-mill. Mark and I met on a dreary, rainy day in 2006, when he came into the company where I was working, to settle on the home he had just purchased. I immediately took notice of how attractive he was. All of us looked at each other, giggled and continued about our day. I got up from my desk and walked over to the Xerox machine. While standing at the copier, Mark walked by AGAIN. This time with his checkbook in hand, he approached me and said, “What’s your name? Should I make my check payable to you?” Mark left a hot pink Post-it on my computer screen with his phone number. The note read, “I would love to take you out to dinner to celebrate my new home.” Mark proposed to me in front of my family at a New Year’s Day celebration. Our décor featured an abundance of handpicked seashells from the Lewes shoreline, as well as white, teal, and turquoise draped tulle and bows. Our ceremony was held on the Finger Pier at the Cape May-Lewes Ferry terminal and our reception was on the M.V. Twin Capes and adjoining Lido deck and bar. We knew the views of the Delaware Bay and the sunset would provide a romantic and breathtaking backdrop for our reception. Our intent was to walk down the aisle to the theme song from Star Wars; however, Mother


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Nature had a different plan in store for us. Mark and I, along with our twenty-two person bridal party, walked down the pier without music, but with umbrellas in hand. Both of us had our hearts set on an outdoor ceremony, so all our guests sat outside in the rain under umbrellas while we were married by one of our best friends. It definitely was not what we had planned; but in the end, it helped make our ceremony an even more unique and wonderful experience. Our friend concluded the ceremony by saying, “May the force be with you,” and then we exited the pier. All of our guests in aisle seats saluted us by holding up green light sabers. While waiting to board the M.V. Twin Capes, we had a pre-boarding cocktail reception which was to take place out of doors at the On the Rocks Bar and Grill adjacent to the pier. The food display was spectacular and delicious. An hour later we boarded the vessel for what turned out to be a most memorable three hour cruise. It may have rained during the day, but by early evening the sky cleared, and a double rainbow presented itself just for us. Our romance began in the rain, and our wedding took place in rain. Some say that rain is a sign of good luck for a marriage. It is certainly a family tradition. My parents were married on a rainy evening and my sister and her husband married on a rainy day. And now Mark and I . . .


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You now have that dazzling smile that you have always wanted to make your wedding day absolutely perfect! Ivory may be a lovely color for your dress, but you want your teeth to be brighter than that. Teeth brightening done by a skilled dental team can produce a marvelous change that will last long after the champagne toast is given and the rose petals are tossed. Just think what a grand memory your photographs will make with your new bright dazzling smile. Make the day perfect with cosmetic whitening. Bblackdog.pro


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engraving memoriesEven the most favored wedding

guests won’t have memories as vivid as the wedding couple’s remembrance. However, there are warm ways to remind family and friends of the epic day you all shared. Engraved wedding accessories commemorate your happiness.

Let your imagination run down the list of festive wedding items. Any or all gifts can also be personalized and given away. Cake knives, servers, even toasting glasses are innovative alternatives to keepsakes, like matches and napkins. Or, you may wish to honor only special guests with an engraved remembrance.

Culinary keepsakes can include candy trays from the reception table, or individual candy packs full of mints, almonds and assorted sweets. Chocolate roses can rise out of personalized wrappings. A bubbly option is engraving small sparkling wines, or miniature liquor bottles, which you can buy by the case.

A lasting literary remembrance is a poem composed for the day, imprinted on scrolls, napkins or matchbooks. Satin rose buds full of rice or birdseed can be porcelain or ceramic, custom-fired with names and dates in gold. Your personal message may also be etched into glassware, brass, pewter or silver plating.

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TransportationGettinG there:Wedding Day transportationThe moments between the ceremony and the reception are giddy, exciting ones, and it’s only fitting to be whisked off as prince and princess in a carriage, or ride off into the sunset with your loved one. But those happy endings aren’t even practical. So even if the transportation between the ceremony and reception isn’t fit for a

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Need a limo?Know the busy seasons! If your wedding is around the holidays or prom time, be sure to book your transportation well in advance, five to six months before the Big Day.


GETTING THERE: Wedding Day TransportationWell-planned wedding day transportation is the key to making your day flow beautifully, elegantly and smoothly. Having these details arranged in advance means you can relax and enjoy the trip, with no worries about traffic, parking or that champagne cocktail you enjoyed. Your chariot awaits – in whatever form it may be!

TransportationGettinG there:Wedding Day transportationThe moments between the ceremony and the reception are giddy, exciting ones, and it’s only fitting to be whisked off as prince and princess in a carriage, or ride off into the sunset with your loved one. But those happy endings aren’t even practical. So even if the transportation between the ceremony and reception isn’t fit for a

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Imagine arriving and departing for your day’s events in grand style. An awesome stretch limousine pulls up; the chauffeur comes around, opens your door, offers his hand, and helps you gracefully enter and exit the carriage.

A limousine can transport you, your family or your wedding party from the start of the day to the end. It can pick you up at home, and then drive you to the church, the reception and even to the airport for your honeymoon. It leaves personal cars free to handle last minute errands and ensures that you and your gown arrive unruffled.

While limousines can be used to drive the wedding party to and from the reception, they can also be quite helpful in transporting out-of-town or elderly guests to the ceremony and reception.

They’ll have a very pleasant ride, too. Today’s state-of-the-art limousines come complete with all the comforts of home including televisions, bars, DVD players and many other goodies.

Check rates and find out exactly what the cost covers, the time allowed, the type of limousine and the amenities provided. Also determine if a fleet rate is available if you plan to use more than one limo. Discuss your needs with a service consultant at the limousine company, and plan to make your reservations at least four to six months ahead of time to ensure availability. B


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Most people think of sunshine when they picture a wedding day, but not every day fits that mold. Luckily, something as joyful as a wedding can be sunny even on the dreariest of days. As long as you take advantage of what your season has to offer, all four can provide beautiful accents to your big day.

Spring weddings are always popular, in part because of the parallels between new life blooming in the gardens and the new life of a married couple. Using flower bulbs instead of full-grown flowers also add to that feeling. For a spring-themed centerpiece that doubles as a favor, have multiple small, pastel-colored vases and encourage your guests to bring one home. Seeds and tiny monogrammed flowerpots are also a fun favor!

You could also try bringing a little Easter to your reception by having lilies as centerpieces or hiding wedding favors, especially if there will be children present.

For summer weddings, try a slightly more informal approach to your meal by

offering the spread in picnic baskets or garden-party style! Mini picnic baskets or personalized blankets could then be given as a favor. Also, if you want to use bright, bold colors in your flowers or decorations, summer is the best time to do it.

A fall wedding has a more rustic feeling to it. Warm reds, oranges and yellows are best for decorations, and don’t be afraid to ditch some of the flowers for tasteful wheat stalks or gourds among the arrangements. A fun favor could be making homemade cider or jams with your initials on the jar for your guests to enjoy.

Many couples shy away from winter weddings, but it can actually be one of the most intimate seasons for a wedding because it provides such respite from the bitter cold. Deep purples, forest greens and ruby reds are perfect to set a cozy tone, while icy blues and silver show off winter’s sparkle. Cinnamon-scented pinecones with some holly or giant poinsettias make tasteful centerpieces.

Instead of bubbling champagne for the toast, why not embrace winter and raise a mug of hot chocolate or egg nog? It’s delicious and comforting in the cold.

If there will be kids at the reception, set up a table to make their own sparkling snowflakes to sprinkle on tables as decoration or as a souvenir for the kids! As for their parents, send them home with coffee mugs, spiced tea, or wintry-scented candles.

It doesn’t have to be 70 and sunny for the perfect wedding as long as you use Mother Nature to your advantage! B

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Lighting is the most underrated part of planning a wedding today. Nothing sets the mood like a sparkling runway for your reception entrance, a dramatic backdrop to the cake and other focal points or a sensual blaze that falls on

your first dance. Details like bridesmaids’ shoes will go unnoticed, but the glow of your event will set the tone your guests will remember for years to come. Take this into consideration as you decide how to illuminate your wedding.

First, decide on the mood you want to convey at different points throughout your day. If your ceremony is at a charming church and your reception at an upscale venue, the lighting is going to be quite different. Even during the reception, there are different moments you’ll want lit differently. Perhaps you’d like a party-ready flashbulb entrance, or maybe something quieter and romantic like a twinkle-lit archway. Do you want sensual, candle-lit tables, or something more bold and dramatic during dinner like a crystal-draped chandelier? Consider the mood you want, then

work with a professional who will focus on practicalities such as making lighting affordable, photo-friendly, safe, easily-controlled and customized.

One popular new way to customize is emblazoning monogrammed spotlights on the wall or head tablecloth. Monograms can be as bold or subtle as you like, and look best when there is a sharp contrast, such as a dramatic cobalt blue against a dark wall.

In a venue with drab walls, utilize backdrops to transform the room. Drape mesh overlay that’s in your color scheme from the ceiling to the floor as if it were a tent, then use twinkle lights, striking spotlights, crystals or whimsical orbs to illuminate the backdrop and bring personality to the room.

If your venue doesn’t give you that much freedom with lighting, work with an expert to create a beautifully lit focal point you can add to the room. It could be spotlights on a stunning cake, a flirty archway entrance or dance floor cover or an eye-catching tree dazzled with crystals or small candles.

Candles are the most time-tested and romantic form of light. Use them with care. First, make sure they’re in fire-proof and child-friendly places. Then, the secret to candles is irregularity. Arrange different sizes and shapes along mismatched levels to add mystery and make the enlightened objects dance.

Whatever lighting you decide on, don’t underestimate the importance of the rays. They’ll be the backdrop of the pictures and memories you and your guests will remember as your perfect day. B

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the mAgiC ofCAndlelight

dramatic and romanticA dramatic addition to a late afternoon

or evening wedding is created with the romantic glow of candles. Candles can be lit as guests arrive, just before the mother of the bride is seated, or by honored guests and ushers during the ceremony. Bridesmaids can also carry candles, lit or unlit, along with their bouquets.

Some couples enhance their vows by lighting candles while they are at the altar, and by passing the flame between themselves, their families and the clergy. Check for regulations prohibiting candles at the wedding location of your choice.

Appropriate candles are long-burning as well as dripless, but the choice of color is yours. B


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gifts of hopea traditional bridal shower

The bridal shower is a celebrated tradition inviting you to enjoy a gesture from your friends while also putting you in the spotlight. The number of guests is up to the hostess, however select from those who know you well enough to also be at your wedding. It’s tasteful not to include any one guest at more than two parties where gifts are given. Otherwise, specifically tell friends that one gift will be plenty if they are ask to attend more than two bridal showers.

Shower themes range from traditional housewares, gourmet kitchen parties or personal showers that shout sex, fun and friendship, including laughs over the lingerie.

Expect the creative types to concoct poems or dishes to spice up the day. Most importantly, remember to keep a good sense of humor and enjoy the attention and thought that went into planning and coordinating your bridal shower.

Any theme involving clothing needs your size and color preference. It may be helpful to visit a lingerie store before hand, and try on several items to determine the most comfortable and flattering styles and sizes. You have the option of listing stores where your registry is on record.

At the engagement party the tradition-minded father announces the engagement with a toast, followed by the groom’s short speech of thanks. This celebration is normally attended by close family, friends, and the bridal party. Gifts should not be expected. The soon-to-be-married are also feted at parties by bridal attendants and groomsmen.

Have hostesses contact those on your guest list at least a few weeks in advance. Tradition suggests you express gratitude in writing to all who give you presents and parties. B


Laura & ScottJuly 24

Our mutual friend was celebrating a birthday at Maynard’s on Lake Minnetonka in Minnesota where I met Scott. After a firm handshake and hours of conversation I knew I had met the one. The rest, as they say, is history. Scott created a diversion giving me a beautiful necklace as an early Valentine’s Day gift. We then went to the Nicollet Island Inn where we had a delicious dinner, fantastic wine, and great conversation. Scott made friends with the bartender who helped him stick to his next surprise by feeding me more champagne. Walking out of the Nicollet Island Inn, Scott’s next surprise was a carriage ride around St. Anthony Main where we saw the beautiful historic mansions of Minneapolis. Freezing cold from the numbing chill of the February winds, a walk in the park was the next logical thing to do, of course. Snow up to our knees, we found a cozy park bench where Scott proceeded to tell the real story of why he bought me the necklace. Realizing what was going on, I dazed out and didn’t hear half of the beautiful words Scott had said, forcing him to propose a second time with me focusing on what he was saying.


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It was a small, intimate wedding with family and close friends. One of Scott’s best friends married us. We also had a guest book that was a tree and had everyone “leaf” their thumbprints and sign their names by the leaves on the tree. We married over a planned family vacation. We wanted an outdoor wedding but had to go to plan B because of heavy rain. In a way, this made it very special because we were supposed to take pictures together before the ceremony, but ended up not seeing each other until I walked down the aisle. The difficulty in having a destination wedding is that neither of us were there and we just had to trust that everything we chose was going to work out. We were extremely fortunate because we had amazing photographers, videographers, food, band, location, etc.! It was the beginning of a new beautiful chapter of our lives together. We were surrounded by the people we love and enjoyed every second of it.


BeautyDo a Test Run!Make sure you test out beauty products several times to make absolute sure that you’re not allergic!

The do’s and don’Ts of looking your bestAll eyes are upon you as you glide gracefully up the center aisle. Your handsome groom gazes at you with love and adoration. Everyone wants to take your

picture. Once you combine your special sense of style with a few tricks of the beauty trade, you’ll look your

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THE DO’S AND DON’TS of looking your bestAll eyes are upon you as you glide gracefully up the center aisle. Your handsome groom gazes at you with love and adoration. Everyone wants to take your picture. Once you combine your special sense of style with a few tricks of the beauty trade, you’ll look your absolute best.


Makeup, hair, nails… every blushing bride wants these to be in top form on the big day. We’ve done the research, reflected, and compiled our best tips to help you look completely fabulous for your wedding day!

What to DoNow is a great time to focus on healthy,

glowing skin. If you’re concerned about the health and appearance of your skin, then consider a visit to a dermatologist (for bigger problems) or an aesthetician (for minor issues.) Start six to 12 months before your wedding day so you have time to treat, heal and achieve good results.

Facials are a must for all skin types. Regular treatment results in refined pores, smoother facial lines, healed blemishes and a more radiant complexion.

When choosing your hairstyle consider your gown, the level of formality of your wedding, your personal style, your hair and your face shape. Generally speaking, the more elaborate the gown, the simpler your hair should be, or it all simply becomes “too much of a good thing.” Work with your hair stylist four to six weeks before the wedding to find the right style for you – and bring a photo of your gown with you!

Whether you use a pro for your makeup, have a friend do it or do it yourself, do a trial run before the wedding. In addition to feedback from close friends and/or family, take photos and evaluate those. Do you like what you see? Do you want to make any changes?

Have your eyebrows professionally shaped at least two weeks before the wedding. Touch up if needed before the wedding with a tweezers.

The Do’s anD Don’Ts

of looking your best

BeauTyDo use waterproof mascara and eye

makeup, just in case you shed a tear or two… And use primers underneath your foundation, lipstick and eye shadow, so that your makeup lasts longer.

Take good care of your skin everywhere! Body wraps detoxify, refresh and soften the skin using minerals or other natural substances. Body waxing is one of smoothest and longest lasting forms of hair removal.

What Not to DoDon’t alter your style too dramatically

for your wedding day look. You want to look like yourself – your best self – and “polished” enough to honor the fact that this is a very special occasion.

Avoid really trendy looks in makeup, nail color and hairstyle. 10 to 20 years from now, these styles will glaringly stand out and look distractingly outdated.

If you’re considering any drastic hair changes, do it a couple months before the wedding. This way, if you don’t like it, you have plenty of time to make changes.

Avoid facials for two or three days before your wedding, in case it causes any kind of undesirable reaction.

our fiNal, aND best, aDviceDO strongly consider using beauty

professionals for your wedding day hair, makeup and nails. This is one simple way to shorten the list of wedding-day worries! A true makeup artist will know trade secrets not only for fashioning a longer-lasting look, but also for accentuating your features. A great hair stylist can help you create a look that complements your facial features, headpiece and veil, and do it in a way designed to hold through the last dance. When you go pro, the end result is a relaxed, picture-perfect bride.

Finally, don’t forget your most beautiful accessory: your radiant, love-filled smile. B


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Where do brides get their special glow? Love is the answer, though the right makeup doesn’t hurt.

It’s natural to be nervous and excited on your wedding day. That’s why it is so important to determine the look you want well in advance and to have a makeup rehearsal. Most makeup artists recommend at least one consultation prior to your wedding day. If you plan to do your own makeup, then take time to practice and perfect your special look.

On your wedding day you will glow as on no other day. You won’t need strong colors to look sophisticated, but you will need the right colors. If you elect to use the services of a professional makeup consultant, he or she will select colors that will enhance your natural beauty and features. If you are

creating your own look, experiment with delicately blended sheer browns, pinks, purples and golds. Brides may also use enhancers such as extended lashes or liner to accentuate the eyes for photographs.

When determining your wedding day make up, there are several factors to take into consideration. Do you want a dramatically trendy look, or something timelessly romantic? Is your wedding during the day or in the evening? If it’s during the summer, will you have a tan? Is your dress white or ivory?

Consider whether you will wear your hair down or up and whether you will wear a hair ornament or headpiece. The color of your hair and the color of your skin are what make you unique - select makeup to accentuate your natural beauty. B

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celebration.

attenDant’s responsibilitythe maid/matron of honor

• Assist the bride with pre-wedding tasks, including making tiny favors out of birdseed with a smile, because that’s what she really wanted.

• Assist bride in setting a date to have bridesmaid’s dresses fitted and coordinate other bridesmaids to ensure they get to the proper location on time.

• Attend all pre-wedding parties and host a bridal shower with other bridesmaids, preferably one in keeping with the bride’s own taste.

• Arrange the bride’s veil and train before the grand walk down the aisle

• Hold the bride’s bouquet during the ring exchange.

• Hold the groom’s ring during the ceremony.

• Sign the marriage certificate as a witness.

• Stand next to the groom in the receiving line and sit to his left at the head table.

• May dance with the best man during the first dance.

• Help the bride bustle her train, remove her headpiece and change into going away outfit.

• Attend to the bride throughout the day, running errands and tying up loose ends, calming nerves and otherwise ensuring the success of the wedding celebration.

• May assume responsibility for transporting the bride’s gown home or to the cleaners.

• May assist the best man with transporting gifts to the bride and groom’s home. B

The first impressionYou’ve been planning your dream wedding for months, but for your guests, the invitation is their first glimpse of what’s to come. It provides a clue to the event, and the level of formality, along with some indication of your wedding style: Formal or informal? Modern or traditional? You’ll want an invite that matches… and so, let the search begin!

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Selecting ainvitationS:ask the right questions•MayIseesamplesofyourwork?

•Whatpackagesdoyouoffer?Whatdotheyinclude?

•Whatkindsofproductsdoyouoffer?

•Howlongwillittaketohaveeachorderprocessed?

•Willweseeaproofbeforetheinvitesareprinted?

•Doyouofferdiscountsifweorderotheritemsat thesametime,suchasthankyounotes?

•Doyouoffercustomdesigns?

•Doyouofferlabels?

•Canyoucreateaprogramfortheceremony?

•HowfarinadvancemustIbookyourservices?

•Whatisyourcancellationpolicy?

•Isadepositrequired?Ifso,whenandhowmuch?

•Areyouabletofillfutureorders,suchas monogrammedstationeryoradditionalthank younotes?

InvitationsSelecting invitationS:ask the right questions

•MayIseesamplesofyourwork?•Whatpackagesdoyouoffer?Whatdotheyinclude?•Whatkindsofproductsdoyouoffer?•Howlongwillittaketohaveeachorderprocessed?•Willweseeaproofbeforetheinvitesareprinted?•Doyouofferdiscountsifweorderotheritemsatthesametime,suchasthankyounotes?

•Doyouoffercustomdesigns?•Doyouofferlabels?•Canyoucreateaprogramfortheceremony?•HowfarinadvancemustIbookyourservices?•Whatisyourcancellationpolicy?•Isadepositrequired?Ifso,whenandhowmuch?•Areyouabletofillfutureorders,suchasmonogrammedstationeryoradditionalthankyounotes?


green WeDDingsconsidering a “GREEN” diamond?

Conflict diamonds are mined by military factions using slave labor under miserable conditions, often to help fund wars, typically in war-torn, Third World countries. The environmental impacts of diamond mining are hugely negative, producing great amounts of toxic air and water pollution, and leaving raw, gaping, giant holes in the earth where nothing can live and never be restored.

The alternativesNot all diamonds are conflict diamonds,

and there are mines that use progressive, eco-friendly mining techniques that protect land, water and wildlife. With a little research and discussion with your local jewelers, you can find these socially just and eco-friendly natural diamonds.

Reuse, reclaim, recycle! Buy a diamond ring that already exists or consider a family heirloom, or transfer an existing stone into your own setting.

Finally, your third option is to consider simulated diamonds. While methods have been developed to create synthetic diamonds, cost is still a deterring factor. Diamond simulants, which have a more complex chemical make up yet still possess many of the same characteristics as diamonds, are a great alternative at a fraction of the cost.

The ring that graces your finger for the rest of your life as an expression of your love and commitment should be beautiful, brilliant and durable. Fortunately, there are many ways to get just that. B

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You’ve been planning your dream wedding for months, but for your guests, the invitation is their first glimpse of what’s to come. It provides a clue to the event, and the level of formality, along with some indication of your wedding style. You’ll want an invite that matches… and so, let the search begin!

When to start - Like all wedding responsibilities, the earlier you start, the more time you have to search, thoroughly evaluate options, and handle any problems that arise. If possible, order the invitations and other wedding stationery six or more months before the wedding to give yourselves plenty of time to complete everything and leave breathing room for any unexpected problems, and mail the invitations six to eight weeks before the wedding. Let any out-of-town guests who would need to arrange flights and/or hotel rooms about the date as soon as you know it, either informally through conversation, or more formally with a save-the-date card mailed as early as possible.

All the parts - Wedding invitations are typically comprised of several components: There is the ceremony card announcing the details of the ceremony, the reception card with those details, the response card with its stamped, addressed return envelope, the map (optional), and the inner and outer envelopes. Some invitations combine these elements, such as including the reception information on the ceremony card, especially if it’s at the same place or immediately following. It’s also possible to simply eliminate some elements (such as the inner envelope), particularly for more informal styles.

Wedding invitations

the first impression

invitationsThe invitation wording - Traditionally,

whoever is officially hosting (read: paying for) the wedding is listed first on the invitations. Of course, you can work it out however you like with your families – this is where it would be very helpful to have an experienced professional to assist! Some couples today, who are paying for the majority of the expenses themselves, with help from their mixed and blended families, simply say “Mary Bride and John Groom, together with their families, request the honor of your presence at their marriage…” You could also do a search online to find invitation wording samples and discuss the options with your groom and respective families.

Assembling the pieces - The traditional way to put together an invite is as follows: start with the ceremony card on the bottom, put the reception card on top of it, and then put the response card with the unsealed return envelope and the map, if you’re using one, on the very top. Slide all items face up into the inner envelope. Do NOT seal the inner envelope, and slide it into the outer envelope with the addressee’s name facing the back flap so that it will be visible upon opening.

Addressing advice - Street names, cities and states should be written without any abbreviations. To indicate both parties of a married couple, use both “Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Green.” When addressing an unmarried couple living together, use each of their full names: “Mr. Ronald Green and Miss Angela Thomson.” If every member of a family is invited, write “Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Green and Family.” If only the older children are included, their names are written below the parents’: “Miss Erin Green.” Adult children no longer living with their parents should receive their own invite. B


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attenDant’s responsibilitythe best man

• Assist groom with wedding details such as accommodations for out-of-town groomsmen and ushers.

• See that the groom is properly attired and at the church or synagogue on time. Tie bowties, provide drinks, if applicable and otherwise support the to-be-wed.

• Give the minister a sealed envelope with payment (from the groom) immediately following the ceremony.

• Sign the marriage license as a witness.

• Hold the bride’s ring during the ceremony.

• Coordinate the ushers and make sure they are properly dressed and understand where to seat the guests.

• Sits to the bride’s right at the reception, providing charming conversation throughout.

• May dance with the maid/matron of honor during the first dance.

• Propose the first toast to the newlyweds.

• Hold luggage under lock and key until the bride and groom depart.

• Help the groom change into going away attire.

• Escort the bride and groom to their limousine or drive them to the hotel or airport.

• Return all formalwear rentals on time, and to the correct formalwear shop.

• Assist maid of honor in transporting gifts to the bride and groom’s home. B


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Bonjour! Bienvenue à Paris. What’s there to argue against a honeymoon in the world’s most romantic city? It’s images are iconic, but always associated with love - fireworks bursting above star-gazing young couples under the Eiffel Tower, lovebirds kissing upon returning from war, hands held through the twisting cobblestone lanes, and of course that breathy, passionate, ‘j’adore’ No other ‘I love you’ can compare. 4

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In fact, the destination may seem to cliché, too straight out of a romantic comedy. If that’s the case, avoid the touristy clumps and cheesy tours, take a bit of a baguette and honeymoon in epicenter of business, fashion, culture and entertainment.

Lay of the LandParis is located on the Seine River and

is quite different at various geographic points throughout the city. Since the city lays on water and was engaged in power struggles and battles throughout Europe’s tumultuous history, many of the bridges that connect the city have fascinating stories. At the very least, ruins of collapsed bridges or crumbled protective walls means a history lesson is around every corner. The Ile de la Cite, an island in the

center of Paris, is connected by multiple bridges to the rest of the city and houses old-world architecture wonders like the famous Notre-Dame cathedral.

things to do

Iconic ImagesWe’ve grown up being able to spot

the cultural and artistic wonders found in France – it will be a treat to see them in real life. But don’t just pass by and snap a picture – learn the history or spend an afternoon in the company of true beauty. Stop at a grocery store to get some bread, cheese and wine to leisurely enjoy a picnic lunch and watch the sun set in the grassy gardens surrounding the Eiffel Tower.

The Infamous Moulin Rouge


The Mona Lisa and the outside of its home, the Louvre, are visitor hotspots, but take a second to get to know the history of some of the rest of the artwork housed in the triangular walls, or pop down on a bench and people-watch the thousands of art-loving visitors. Wonder about the decades of craftsmen and laborers who put their sweat into building the notre-dame Cathedral Take a stroll through the posh, historic streets near st-germain-des-Pres and pop into a bookstore along the way.

Take in the MusicParis has centuries of experience with

entertainment. The jazz scene is alive and well, so ask around while you’re there for the best place to catch a live show. One traditional place, the Caveau de la huchette is tucked in a medieval cellar, and the au duc des Lombards has been frequented by all the greats. If cabaret is your thing, you’ve come to the right place, and if you think it isn’t, then you haven’t seen a Parisian show. For all the tacky, glitzy, flamboyant madness that will remind you of a vintage Toulouse-Lautrec poster, head to the infamous Moulin Rouge or Le Lido.

Shop!Who can come to Paris and resist the

shopping scene? It’s the fashion capital of the world, and the designer boutiques and effortless style bursting out of every passerby will be a constant reminder of that. But a honeymoon in Paris doesn’t have to mean dragging your significant other around to find the perfect Louis Vuitton bag – Parisian shops truly have something for everyone. For couples that share a love of reading, check out the cafes and bookshops where lonely, exiled American writers from the early 1900s called home. The presentation is half the fun, so spend a day winding in and out of avant-garde shops

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like L’Eclaireur or home stores like Merci. For a peek at anything and everything, pop into one of Paris’s flea markets like the Marche aux Puces de Clignacourt or Marche d’Aligre.

WheRe to stay

Hotel du Petit Moulin www.paris-hotel-petitmoulin.com

Unconventional, wacky and yet completely sophisticated and posh, the Hotel du Petit Moulin is consistently ranked among the best honeymoon destinations in the world. Besides offering more than enough modern amenities and a great location, this place will keep you guessing around every corner as antique chandeliers are partnered with heart-shaped mirrors on a bright red wall – somehow in a way that just works. Make sure to book way ahead of time.

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For typical Parisian luxury and the obligatory view of the Eiffel Tower, go no further than Hotel Plaza Athenee. You’ll get the old world charm and glamor without having to compromise on modern technology or amenities.

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An affordable yet pristine option, the Hotel Langlois is in a perfect location near restaurants and public transportation and is a comfortable spot to drop after a day of sightseeing and Parisian revelry. B

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the nuts & bolts of gift registriesPeople love to buy gifts for a couple starting out their life together, to celebrate this fabulous occasion and express their joy. While some guests will come up with their own creative gift idea, most people really appreciate having a gift registry to go to for ideas, so they can get you something they know you’ll love.



DivorceD parents

dealing with the situationIf your divorced parents are on good

terms, count your blessings. If they are not, or if their relationship is marginal, correct handling of these delicate matters can help avoid any unwanted tensions. There are several alternatives you should consider in planning your church wedding and reception arrangements to accommodate your divorced parents.

According to protocol, the parent with whom you have lived the longest issues the invitations. The other parent is usually not mentioned unless both parties agree to each of their names being represented. Protocol, however, does not always create good feelings. Try to include both parent’s names on the invitation.

When you’re introducing your parents to your future in-laws, it is usually proper to introduce the parent with whom you have lived the longest, then introduce your other parent shortly afterward. The bride’s father should always walk his daughter down the aisle, except under extenuating circumstances. If that is not possible, a substitute can stand in for the father. A brother, uncle or close family friend will be fine.

Special church seating arrangements can help smooth rough spots. The bride’s mother and her immediate family (parents, husband and children) are seated in the first row. The second row is left empty to afford a better view for the bride’s father, who, after giving her away, is seated with his immediate family in the third row. The same seating arrangement pertains to the groom’s family if they are divorced. The small amount of time and attention devoted to handling these matters will reward you with a day that is as free of tension as it can possibly be. B


Buying your first home can help you build a solid financial future. Your monthly rent payment is no longer going into someone else’s pocket. With each mortgage payment, you are buying into your future and building equity that you will be able to use later.

Your first home may not be your ideal home, but with property appreciation and the improvements you make, you may profit from the eventual sale of the home with money you can put toward the house of your dreams.

It’s easy to increase the value of your home simply by keeping the property up over the years that you own it. Homeowners are more apt to improve landscaping, perform home repairs, and generally be what’s called “house proud.” Because the home is taken care of over the years, the value of the property increases, and yours will, too.

There are many other pluses to home ownership. All interest paid on a mortgage is deductible on your income taxes. The property taxes you pay may be deducted, as well as what you spend for home improvement. The home you

own can be a haven for retirement years.

A home is an investment that helps stave off inflation. Homes do not appreciate equally, and some years add more value than others. Real estate has, historically speaking, kept pace with inflation, and often overtakes it.

Most young couples face the challenge of financing their first house. Many find the following list of options to be successful avenues available to them:

• Gifts-Afinancialgiftcanprovideanimmediatedownpayment;itmaybefromaninheritancethatparentsmayplantobestow,oragenerouspresentfromanotherrelative.

• Loans-Yourdownpaymentmaybesecuredbyprovidingcollateralorthecashequivalent(i.e.:acarorothervaluablepossession).

• Co-Investment -Parentscanaid inacquiringa first home by signing on as co-investors.Theyprovidethedownpaymentandyoumakethemonthlypaymentsasaformofrent.Bothparties share in the appreciation when thehouseissold.

• Outright Investment - Parents can buythe home and rent to the couple, with theunderstanding that the children may laterpurchaseitfromthem.

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• Ifyouaremovingintoanewhomeasyoustartyourlifetogether,makesureyourhomeowner’sand/or renter’s insurance policy providescoverageforyourhomeandcombinedassets.

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• Many automobile insurance policies provideemergency road service and, on new cars,multi-risk coverage;youmaywish to considerpurchasinganewpolicyifneitherofyoursoffersthese.Many insurance carriers offer a varietyofdiscountsformultiplecars,safetyandanti-theft features.Membersof certaingroupsarealsoeligiblefordiscounts.Besuretoaskaboutdiscountswhenyoucallforaratequotewithanewinsurancecarrieroryourcurrentinsurer.

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Do consider decorating chairs in a new way such as black, silver, white or traditional gold. Transform an ordinary room or site into a ballroom. Chair covers completely change the look of your reception.

When discussing photo packages, don’t forget black and white and sepia tones. This classic style of photography continues to gain in popularity.

Do remember that the hour of the ceremony is an indicator of the formality of the reception.

Do consider having your entire wedding at a full-service hotel. The convenience of having the ceremony, reception and guest lodging in one place is incomparable, especially for a complicated event.

To get your skin in shape for your wedding day, don’t forget to start six months prior to your wedding and practice make-up techniques.

When renting a stretch limo, do remember that it can usually seat up to 10 people, but fewer when the bride’s gown and train and the bridesmaid’s dresses are factored in to the equation.

Don’t forget that the best way to let people know where you are registered is to have family and friends spread the word. Although it’s impolite to mention the registry on wedding invitations, a hostess may do so on shower invitations.

Do select the ceremony and reception locations nine to 12 months before your wedding. If you’re getting married in popular months like May or June, select these locations as soon as possible.

Make finding the right caterer and baker a priority. Great food is critical to the wedding celebration. Interviews and tastings are a must.

Don’t waste time getting to your reception. Have photos of the wedding party taken before the ceremony.

Do reserve your photographer nine to 12 months before your wedding. Decide which shots you definitely want and which ones you can live without.

Don’t forget to send an invitation to your officiant and to all of your wedding party.

Do pick up your invitation envelopes as soon as possible so that you can begin addressing them.

Do consider having two bouquets, one to keep and one to throw.

Do remember to return rental items on time and undamaged.

Do check with your church or temple about their policies, especially regarding alcohol.

Do take advantage of Internet technology. Plan your wedding using search engines and e-mail to create your special celebration. There are several Internet sites dedicated to wedding planning that allow you to take advantage of the wealth of information at your fingertips. (Visit our website at www.premierbride.com, for more help). Coordinate with vendors, make and confirm reservations, select flowers and review menus online.

Don’t seat older guests near the band or the speakers as it may be hard for them to hear anything else.

Don’t forget to pamper yourself. Treat your mom and maids the day before the wedding with an afternoon at the spa. You’ll have the time of your life enjoying facials, massages, manicures and pedicures. It will make you feel more relaxed and beautiful.

Do remember your guests with small children. Instead of putting “no children” or “adults-only reception” on invitations, ask your reception site manager if there is a small room or play area near the festivities that you can rent. Then hire a professional babysitting service to take care of the kids. Parents will appreciate

your consideration and be able to relax and enjoy your reception knowing they are close to their children.

Do contact the church or synagogue where you will perform your ceremony and ask about any rules or guidelines regarding music. Some churches require that you use their organist.

Do remember when purchasing a gown to be realistic about your expectations for losing weight. A gown can always be taken in, but rarely can it be let out without leaving stitch marks for all to see.

Don’t forget to involve stepparents in your ceremony in some way, perhaps a reading during your ceremony or an invocation before dinner.

Do consider table visits during your reception. It is a grand display of appreciation and respect when the bride and groom spend a few moments visiting their guests at each table.

Looking for a gift for your wedding party? Do consider a monogrammed piece of estate silver, such as a flask for the groomsmen or make-up compacts for the maids.

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1SucceSS iS in the detailS. When, what, who, in what order...

Think through the evening and have a clear plan for the entire event. And then, clearly communicate this plan to all interested parties: your catering manager, the wedding party, parents, etc. Consider the schedule and details of events such as the following: cocktails, dinner, grand entrance, toasts, specialty dances and so on. The more you plan ahead, the more you can relax and go with the flow at your reception.

the muSic and entertainment iS the KeY to a good partY. Bad or inappropriate music and

entertainment can kill a party faster than anything else, so spend the time necessary to select a good band or DJ. Find someone who can match the style and tone of YOUR wedding, can ‘read’ the crowd and keep the guests happy, and will respect your wishes. Be clear and specific about any songs or events that you do NOT want at your wedding.

the caSe for Ymca hatS and the macarena...

So you may find the Chicken Dance and the Hokey Pokey and colorful maracas or other props to be ‘cheesy’ but you know what – many guests love them and the key to a good party is to appeal to a wide variety of tastes and wishes. Let your bandleader or DJ use their professional experience and skills to create a fun evening, based on the feedback they receive from some key people – your guests.

tipS for toaSting. A convenient time for toasts is just

after the first course is served. This gives the servers enough time to ensure that all guests have a drink (nice to have if you’re toasting!) and is still early enough in the evening that you’re likely to have everyone’s attention. Most couples start with the best man, though some start with the bride’s father, so choose the order that works for you and communicate it to all parties. Be sure to encourage any and all toasters to keep their words BRIEF (no more than a few minutes each) and discourage off-color jokes, too much personal information or ‘inside’ jokes, and any other inappropriate content. If you have any toasters you’re worried about, perhaps you could ask them to write out what they plan to say ahead of time and show it to you!

the firSt dance: “don’t wait forever to do it

and don’t do it forever.” A good time to do the first dance

(and other specialty dances) is just after dinner – to kick off the party portion of the evening and keep the energy going. If any song you’ve selected is over three minutes, you may want to have your bandleader shorten it up or have your

DJ fade it out after a few minutes... You’ll be surprised at how long even three minutes feels – to you and your guests – when you’re alone in the center of the dance floor with all eyes on you!

YummY food. Whatever food you serve doesn’t have

to be expensive or super fancy gourmet, but it should taste good. Enough said!

a waY to Keep ’em dancing… Ideally, it’s great if there is a bar

near the dance floor. People tend to congregate near the bar, and this way the non-dancers will still be close to the party people: the dancers. It’s also easier for guests to move seamlessly on and off the dance floor. You’ll find that the dance floor is more easily filled if it’s located near a bar!

focuS on Your gueStS. You and your groom are really the

hosts of this shindig… and it’s always good to be a gracious host. Take some time to envision the day from your guests’ point of view, and do whatever you can to make sure their experience is smooth, relaxing and fun. This will truly make it a wedding they’ll remember!

the bride and groom Set the mood.

Finally – the most important rule of all: the mood of the newlyweds (joyful, stressed, happy or unhappy) influences the entire wedding, and affects the mood of your guests. If you think you might be worried and stressed out about all of the endless details on your wedding day, then consider hiring a wedding coordinator – even if it’s just for the day of the wedding only. It is worth every single penny if it means you (and your guests) can actually ENJOY your wedding day! B

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The average wedding costs nearly $18,000. A large portion of that must be prepaid. So it may seem to be stating the obvious when we say it is important to protect yourself against fraud, business failures and even honest mistakes.

Attention to detail can save you thousands of dollars by preventing disasters before they happen. Brides and grooms who elect to plan the wedding on their own should pay special attention to the following:

CatererRequest a sampling of the items on your menu. Confirm in writing that the same chef will prepare the food for your reception. Determine any additional charges such as cake cutting or corkage fees before you sign the contract.

EntertainmentAsk if the musicians are used to performing together as a group. If you get the chance to hear them play live, do so. The contract should list the musicians by name, state the number of hours included in the price (one hour for cocktails and four for the reception is standard) and detail potential overtime charges.

PhotographerMeet in person with the photographer you’re considering to make sure that you are comfortable with him or her. Specify the name of the photographer whose work you viewed in the contract, and make sure that same photographer will shoot your wedding. Get the delivery date for proofs and finished photos in writing.

DressBuying a gown usually requires a minimum lead-time of six months and a 50 percent deposit. Confirm delivery for a few months prior to the wedding to allow for the unexpected. Use the manufacturer’s size chart when ordering to avoid unnecessary alteration charges. Remember that it is normally easier to alter a dress that is too big than one that is too small.

FlowersInform your florist of the time of day and location for the ceremony and reception, so they can recommend flowers that will last throughout the festivities. A week prior to the wedding, confirm delivery time. A friend or family member should check that the flowers delivered on the wedding day are fresh and as ordered.

InvitationsYour contract should state that you can review your invitation proof (an extra charge may apply), and that any printer’s mistakes will be corrected at no charge. Include the delivery date on your contract. Order invitations at least four to five months prior to the wedding to avoid rush-order mistakes. B

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We have all heard the saying “beauty is only skin deep”. It implies what you see on the surface is only part of the equation. The same is true in the wedding business. The photos you expect from your photographer or the music you discuss with your DJ is important, but only represents one level of service expectation. The products and service provided is important – so too is the manner in which they are delivered!

Romantic comedies and reality TV have conditioned us to think that weddings are this stressed-out event that tears people apart and reduces the strongest people to a fetal position. It doesn’t have to be that way. Look carefully at training, qualifications and talent and don’t be afraid to ask for an example of how well they work with other vendors. Look at how you will be treated as a customer, how quickly they return your phone calls and respond to your inquiries. Follow your instincts and select vendors who care as passionately about you and the success of your event as they do about their own vocation.

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Can you have a joy-filled wedding celebration and show your love for the planet, at the same time?

The locale - Choosing a location that’s close to where most of your guests live is an obvious, simple but effective way to limit unnecessary transportation, as is having the ceremony and reception in the same place. You may also wish to seek out sites that have made “going green” a priority, and are pro-active about reducing energy use and waste. Another green idea is to hold your ceremony in a location already dedicated to sustainability, such as parks, protected areas or museums. Finally, having an outdoor ceremony in a beautiful setting will remind you (and your guests) why you make environmentally responsible choices.

The food - Serve local, organic, seasonal cuisine, and include a vegetarian or vegan option. Ask your caterer about locally raised, organic meats and wild caught fish versus farmed. Before the wedding, research places to donate any leftover food, such as homeless shelters or soup kitchens.

The paper - Save trees by going high-tech: use a website to list directions, maps, accommodations and other details, and use email whenever possible. For the paper you do use, stick with 100% recycled and renewable cotton paper, and vegetable or soy inks, which use less energy to produce than petroleum-based inks.

The attire - Just say “NO!” to attire made in sweatshops and petroleum-based fabrics. Seek out wedding attire made with natural fabrics such as 100%

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planning an eco-friendly wedding

an eco-friendly weddingsilk or organically grown cotton, and hemp linen – which has come a long way since the gunny sack look. (For proof, visit the Hemp Weddings section of rawganique.com.) Another very green idea: recycle! Use your Mom’s wedding dress by investing a little time into alterations, or find a vintage dress in specialty stores or on eBay.

The gifts, favors, flowers - All those beautiful touches that make weddings special and unique can easily be turned green… and your first stop should be to idofoundation.org. Here you can include charitable donations on your gift registry, donate a percentage of gift registry sales to your favorite charity, and make a charitable donation in your guests’ honor in lieu of wedding favors. When it comes to your wedding flowers, find a floral designer that uses local, organically grown, seasonal flowers, and repurpose the ceremony flowers for the reception to make fewer flowers go farther. (This is also nice for your budget!) The day after the wedding, donate the floral arrangements to places such as nursing homes, hospice centers or hospitals, so others can enjoy nature’s beauty and all those gorgeous flowers don’t end up in the trash!

The honeymoon - Certainly, staying close to home avoids those gas-guzzling airplanes, but if travel is in your future consider a “green hotel” – environmentally-friendly properties. Start the search by visiting greenhotels.com. Another idea: consider ecotourism – socially responsible travel that focuses on conserving the environment and improving the well being of local people. Visit ecotourism.org for more information.

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Trenique Artistry ........................................................... 62

Trusted Exposure ......................................................... 66

Video Accord .................................................................. 69

Reception & Rehearsal Sites(See Banquet , Rehearsal, and Reception Facilities)

RegistrySimplicity Gourmet ..................................................169

RentalsEvent Pro Live ...............................................................145


Party Plus.........................................................................147

Select Event Rentals .................................................146

TransportationA Platinum Plus Limousines ................................136

An Extraordinar Limousine Inc. .......... 132 & 133

Bayside Limousine ....................................................134

Gene’s Limousine .......................................................135


Prime Transportation ...............................................137

Z Best Limousines, Inc. ...........................................138

Web SitesWedalert ..........................................................................177

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Wedding & Event Planners(See Coordinators)

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