Nano Satellite Separation Experiment Using a P-POD Deployment Mechanism
Pre Deployment Separation Brief
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Pre-Deployment Pre-Deployment Separation BriefingSeparation Briefing
CH(CPT) Keith J. AndrewsCH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews
TF-Ram ChaplainTF-Ram Chaplain
www.chaplainandrews.comwww.chaplainandrews.com
PurposePurpose
Highlight common Highlight common problems that occur as problems that occur as a result of separation a result of separation and address and address recommendations recommendations
to resolve these to resolve these problems before and problems before and when they occur.when they occur.
ExpectationsExpectations
Single SoldierSingle SoldierYou experience the You experience the same emotions and same emotions and relationship stresses relationship stresses of deployment. of deployment.
Deployments can be just Deployments can be just as demanding for the as demanding for the
single military member.single military member.
You have an additional You have an additional burden of finding a burden of finding a reliable individual to reliable individual to handle your personal handle your personal affairs during your affairs during your absence.absence.
Separation RealitySeparation Reality
Separation Separation is a processis a process
Anxiety is Anxiety is normalnormal
Change Will Change Will OccurOccur
Understanding YourselfUnderstanding Yourself
• Focused on the mission Focused on the mission
• Develop lasting Develop lasting friendships friendships
• Experience varying levels Experience varying levels of stressof stress
• Feel concerned and Feel concerned and disconnected from your disconnected from your familyfamily
During the deployment you will be:During the deployment you will be:During the deployment you will be:During the deployment you will be:
Understanding YourselfUnderstanding YourselfUpon Returning Home, You May:Upon Returning Home, You May:
•Find your whole family Find your whole family routine is changedroutine is changed•Be stand-offish from Be stand-offish from those you care aboutthose you care about•Not want to talk about Not want to talk about your deploymentyour deployment•Anxious about intimacy Anxious about intimacy •Feel hurt when your Feel hurt when your children are afraid of youchildren are afraid of you
Understanding Your SpouseUnderstanding Your Spouse
During deployment, your spouse may have:During deployment, your spouse may have:
•Experienced changesExperienced changes•Felt stressed or overwhelmedFelt stressed or overwhelmed•Assumed added Assumed added responsibilitiesresponsibilities•Experienced a temporary Experienced a temporary relocationrelocation•Become involved in different Become involved in different activities and friendsactivities and friends
The Emotional Cycle of Deployment:The Emotional Cycle of Deployment:A Military Family PerspectiveA Military Family Perspective
Adapted from Article Published in the Apr-Jun 2001 edition of U.S. Army Medical Department Journal.Time Adjusted from Six Month Model to 15 Month Model
Pre-DeploymentPre-Deployment
•Anticipation of lossAnticipation of loss•Denial Denial •Train-up/long hours away Train-up/long hours away •Getting affairs in order Getting affairs in order •Mental/physical distance Mental/physical distance •ArgumentsArguments
Time frame: months priorTime frame: months prior
DeploymentDeployment
• Mixed emotions/relief Mixed emotions/relief • Disoriented/overwhelmed Disoriented/overwhelmed • Numb, sad, alone Numb, sad, alone • Sleep difficulty Sleep difficulty • Security issuesSecurity issues
Time frame: first monthTime frame: first month
Sustainment Sustainment
• New routines established New routines established • New sources of support New sources of support • Feel more in control Feel more in control • Independence Independence • Confidence ("I can do this")Confidence ("I can do this")
Time frame: months 2 thru 12Time frame: months 2 thru 12
Re-DeploymentRe-Deployment
Time frame: months 12 thru 15Time frame: months 12 thru 15
•Anticipation Excitement Anticipation Excitement •Apprehension Apprehension •Burst of energy/"nesting" Burst of energy/"nesting" •Difficulty making Difficulty making decisionsdecisions
Post-DeploymentPost-Deployment
Time frame: 3 to 6 months afterTime frame: 3 to 6 months after
• Honeymoon period Honeymoon period • Loss of independence Loss of independence • Need for "own" space Need for "own" space • Renegotiating routines Renegotiating routines • Reintegrating into familyReintegrating into family
Deployment CycleDeployment Cycle
DeploymentDeployment
Pre-deploymentPre-deployment
SustainmentSustainment
RedeploymentRedeployment
Post-DeploymentPost-Deployment
Planning For SuccessPlanning For Success
Two Key Two Key StatementsStatements
for Separationfor Separation
Plan AheadPlan Ahead
Communicate Communicate ExpectationsExpectations
Obstacles To SuccessObstacles To Success
AlcoholAlcohol
CriticismsCriticisms
Avoid the “Who Had It Worse” GameAvoid the “Who Had It Worse” Game
Unresolved IssuesUnresolved Issues
Unrealistic ExpectationsUnrealistic Expectations
• How both of you feel, How both of you feel, • What you worry about, What you worry about, • How to handle How to handle
emergenciesemergencies• Repair problemsRepair problems• What you think needs to What you think needs to
be done around the be done around the househouse
Discuss with your spouse the deploymentDiscuss with your spouse the deployment
Discuss these things BEFORE you Discuss these things BEFORE you depart on a deployment.depart on a deployment.
Develop a Communication PlanDevelop a Communication Plan
LettersLettersInternetInternetE-mailE-mailPhonePhoneAmerican Red CrossAmerican Red Cross
Separating from your SpouseSeparating from your Spouse
• Be honest. Be honest. • Talk about your Talk about your
anxieties. anxieties. • Anticipate Mood Anticipate Mood
swingsswings
Understand that No amount of planning or talking Understand that No amount of planning or talking prepares you for the moment of departure.prepares you for the moment of departure.
ChildrenChildren• Anticipate the problems and Anticipate the problems and
discuss them with the entire discuss them with the entire family.family.
• Focus on successes; limit Focus on successes; limit criticismcriticism
• Take personal time with each Take personal time with each childchild
• Talk to your children before the Talk to your children before the deployment begins.deployment begins.
• Plan for CommunicatingPlan for Communicating• Help Children to plan for the Help Children to plan for the
departuredeparture
Online Resource Online Resource withwith
Parent/Child VideoParent/Child VideoParents VideoParents Video
http://www.sesameworkshop.org/tlc/http://www.sesameworkshop.org/tlc/
Helping Children CopeHelping Children Cope With DeploymentWith Deployment
You can get help and support!You can get help and support!
For the SpouseFor the Spouse• Other family members Other family members
• FriendsFriends
• FRGFRG
• Rear DetactmentRear Detactment
• ChaplainsChaplains
• Church communityChurch community
• Counseling servicesCounseling services
For the SoldierFor the Soldier• Battle BuddyBattle Buddy
• Other soldiersOther soldiers
• FriendsFriends
• Other family members Other family members
• ChaplainsChaplains
• Chain of commandChain of command
• Counseling ServicesCounseling Services
You can get help and support!You can get help and support!
Military One SourceMilitary One Sourcewww.militaryonesource.comwww.militaryonesource.com
My Army Life TooMy Army Life Toohttp://www.myarmylifetoo.comhttp://www.myarmylifetoo.com
Army vFRGArmy vFRGhttps://www.armyfrg.orghttps://www.armyfrg.org
Online ResourcesOnline Resources
ReferencesReferencesThe Emotional Cycle of Deployment: A Military Family Perspective:
U.S. Army Medical Department Journal. Apr-Jun 2001by LTC Simon H. Pincus, USA, MC, COL Robert House, USAR, MC, LTC (P) Joseph Christenson, USA, MC, and CAPT Lawrence E. Adler, MC, USNR-R
One Day Redeployment Marriage Workshop. CH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews, 1-101 AVN. 2006.
Strengthening Marriages. 501st Special Troops Battalion,101st Airborne Division. CH(MAJ) Matthew Wysocki.
Improving Communication. PowerPoint Presentation.
Anger Management: A Solution Focused Approach. PowerPoint Presentation.
Strong Bonds: For the 101st Airborne Division and their loved ones. Copyright © PREP Educational Products, Inc. 2007.
PREP: The Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program. Copyright © PREP Educational Products, Inc. 1997
Chaplain’s Mid-Tour Brief. CH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews, 1-101 AVN. 2006.
Battlemind Training--Preparing for War: What Soldiers Should Know and Do. Walter Reed Army Institute of Research, U.S. Army Medical Research and Materiel Command. 2008.
Staying in Touch With Your Military Spouse. By Sheri & Bob Stritof. http://marriage.about.com/od/militarymarriages/qt/milstayintouch.htm
USAA Deployment Guide. The USAA Educational Foundation. 2005.
Pictures from www.defenselink.mil/photos/, www.mnf-iraq.com,, www.minnesotanationalguard.org/, picasaweb.google.com
Pre-Deployment Pre-Deployment Separation BriefingSeparation Briefing
CH(CPT) Keith J. AndrewsCH(CPT) Keith J. Andrews
TF-Ram ChaplainTF-Ram Chaplain
www.chaplainandrews.comwww.chaplainandrews.com