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www.TappingPeakPerformance.com 1 Bill Harris with Dawson Church Secret of the World’s Happiest Man Dawson: Bill Harris is the founder of Centerpointe Research Institute and creator of the worldfamous Holosync brain entrainment system. Bill started Centerpointe in 1989 with borrowed recording equipment set up on his kitchen table. Today, over two million people in 193 countries have used Holosync to improve their lives and Bill has become one of the bestknown personalgrowth teachers in the world. He is a longtime student of contemporary psychology, Eastern philosophy, the physical sciences, the evolution of nonlinear systems, as in chaos theory, and the wide effects of neurotechnologies on evolution, change, and healing. He trained in Ericksonian hypnotherapy and is certified in neuro linguistic programming (NLP). Bill is a frequent speaker at scientific and transformational forums across the U.S. and around the world. Welcome, Bill, to this next program in the Peak Performance series. I know that our listeners will be as fascinated by your story as I was. I’m curious as to how you came to develop Holosync, what got you into this technology, and how you then developed it from that point on. Bill: First of all, I really appreciate the invitation to share this information with all of your people. I have to compliment you on what a great job you’re doing on getting all kinds of useful information out to people, so kudos to you about that. I grew up a pretty unhappy individual. I had kind of a broken home, and various things we won’t go into happened. I was a very angry person, I was depressed a lot, I drove people away from me, and I was alternately charming and extremely difficult. My theory was that this was everybody else’s fault. At 33, I had a hittingbottom moment in which I suddenly realized that it wasn’t everybody else’s fault. It was my fault. You can’t get your act together as long as you think everything outside of you is causing it. It’s amazing to me how many people resist that insight. In fact, we have something that we teach people here at Centerpointe that we call the buyin principle. Until you buy in to it, you can’t really change anything in your life. This is the buyin principle: “Somehow, even if I can’t see how yet, I am creating how I feel, how I behave, which people and situations I’m attracted to or attract to me, and what the things that happen around me mean or the meanings of the events and experiences I have in my life.”

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Bill  Harris  with  Dawson  Church  

Secret  of  the  World’s  Happiest  Man  

 

 

Dawson:  Bill  Harris   is  the  founder  of  Centerpointe  Research  Institute  and  creator  of  the  world-­‐famous  Holosync   brain   entrainment   system.   Bill   started   Centerpointe   in   1989   with   borrowed   recording  equipment   set   up   on   his   kitchen   table.   Today,   over   two   million   people   in   193   countries   have   used  Holosync  to  improve  their  lives  and  Bill  has  become  one  of  the  best-­‐known  personal-­‐growth  teachers  in  the  world.  

He   is   a   long-­‐time   student  of   contemporary  psychology,   Eastern  philosophy,   the  physical   sciences,   the  evolution   of   nonlinear   systems,   as   in   chaos   theory,   and   the   wide   effects   of   neurotechnologies   on  evolution,   change,   and   healing.   He   trained   in   Ericksonian   hypnotherapy   and   is   certified   in   neuro-­‐linguistic  programming  (NLP).  Bill  is  a  frequent  speaker  at  scientific  and  transformational  forums  across  the  U.S.  and  around  the  world.    

Welcome,  Bill,  to  this  next  program  in  the  Peak  Performance  series.  I  know  that  our  listeners  will  be  as  fascinated  by  your  story  as   I  was.   I’m  curious  as   to  how  you  came  to  develop  Holosync,  what  got  you  into  this  technology,  and  how  you  then  developed  it  from  that  point  on.  

Bill:  First  of  all,  I  really  appreciate  the  invitation  to  share  this  information  with  all  of  your  people.  I  have  to   compliment  you  on  what  a  great   job  you’re  doing  on  getting  all   kinds  of  useful   information  out   to  people,  so  kudos  to  you  about  that.  

I  grew  up  a  pretty  unhappy  individual.  I  had  kind  of  a  broken  home,  and  various  things  we  won’t  go  into  happened.   I  was  a  very  angry  person,   I  was  depressed  a   lot,   I  drove  people  away   from  me,  and   I  was  alternately  charming  and  extremely  difficult.  My  theory  was  that  this  was  everybody  else’s  fault.  

At  33,  I  had  a  hitting-­‐bottom  moment  in  which  I  suddenly  realized  that  it  wasn’t  everybody  else’s  fault.  It  was  my  fault.  You  can’t  get  your  act  together  as  long  as  you  think  everything  outside  of  you  is  causing  it.    

It’s  amazing  to  me  how  many  people  resist  that  insight.  In  fact,  we  have  something  that  we  teach  people  here   at   Centerpointe   that  we   call   the   buy-­‐in   principle.   Until   you   buy   in   to   it,   you   can’t   really   change  anything  in  your  life.    

This  is  the  buy-­‐in  principle:  “Somehow,  even  if  I  can’t  see  how  yet,  I  am  creating  how  I  feel,  how  I  behave,  which  people  and  situations  I’m  attracted  to  or  attract  to  me,  and  what  the  things  that  happen  around  me  mean  or  the  meanings  of  the  events  and  experiences  I  have  in  my  life.”  

 

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I’m  getting  ahead  of  myself   in   this   story.  When   I  was  19,   I  became   interested   in  meditation  because   I  was   so   unhappy.   Somebody   said   it   would   help,   so   I   learned   how   to   meditate.   I   was   a   disciplined  meditator   for   the  next  16  years.   It  wasn’t   that  nothing  changed.   I   certainly   improved  because  of   that,  but  when  I  got  into  my  mid-­‐30s,  I  was  still  a  pretty  unhappy,  difficult  person.  

As   I   said,   when   I   was   33,   I   had   the   revelation   that   it   wasn’t   everybody   else’s   fault   and   that   it   was  something  I  was  doing.  That  set  me  on  a  personal-­‐growth  search  to  figure  out  what  it  was.  I  remember  asking   a   therapist   I   went   to   early   on,   “How   long   will   this   take   for  me   to   straighten   this   out?”   I   was  thinking  a  couple  of  months  or  so.  He  said,  “At  least  seven  years.”  

Dawson:  Not  a  very  encouraging  prognosis.  

Bill:  That  was  31  years  ago.  I’m  still  working  on  it,  quite  frankly,  although  I  would  say  that  over  the  next  10   years,   I   probably   handled   about   90%  of   it.   I   don’t   think   you   ever   get   finished  with   this   process   of  refinding  yourself,  getting  your  act  together,  or  whatever  you  want  to  call  it.  

In   the   mid-­‐1980s   when   I   was   in   my   mid-­‐30s,   I   stumbled   upon   a   couple   of   pieces   of   research   that  changed   everything   for   me.   One   of   them   was   research   that   had   been   done   at   the   world-­‐famous  Menninger  Clinic.  The  Transcendental  Meditation  (TM)  people  had  done  some  similar  studies   in  which  they  measured   the   electrical   brain-­‐wave   patterns   of   people   as   they  meditated.   I   found   the   research  fascinating  because  I  was  meditating,  for  one  thing.  Meditators  were  making  alpha  brain-­‐wave  patterns,  that   is,   slower   brain-­‐wave   patterns,   and   certain   benefits   such   as   improved   mental   abilities   and   the  ability  to  be  calmer  were  associated  with  these  brain-­‐wave  patterns.  

Then  I  ran  across  an  obscure  article  in  a  scientific  journal.  I  had  taken  all  of  these  premed  sciences  when  I  was   in  school.   I  was  somewhat  of  a  science  geek  and  very   interested  in  finding  out  how  things  work.  The   article   was   by   a   researcher   at   Mount   Sinai   Medical   Center   in   New   York   who   described   a  characteristic  of  the  brain  when  it  was  presented  with  certain  pure  sine  wave  tones  delivered  through  headphones,   playing   certain   tones   in   one   ear   and   certain   other   tones   in   the   other   ear.   Two   little  organelles   in  the  brain  called  the  olivary  nuclei,  which  have  something  to  do  with  auditory  processing,  would  communicate  with  each  other.  Their  communication  changed  the  electrical  brain-­‐wave  patterns.  Using  this  approach,  you  could  create  different  brain-­‐wave  patterns  in  a  person’s  brain.  

I  thought,  “Wow,  I  know  brain-­‐wave  patterns  of  meditation,  so  could  I  create  those  brain-­‐wave  patterns  using  this  method?  What  would  that  be  like?”    

At   the   time,   I  was   a   graduate   student   in  music   at   the  University   of   Portland,   so   I  wandered   into   the  engineering  lab  and  borrowed  some  equipment  that  I  didn’t  know  how  to  use.  I  talked  the  head  of  the  department  into  lending  me  some  equipment  and  then  I  bought  some  other  equipment.    

I   don’t   even   remember  how   I   found   it,   but   I   remember   that   I   bought  equipment  out  of   a   catalog   for  television   repairmen   that   allowed   me   to   measure   sine   wave   tones   accurately.   I   put   all   of   this   stuff  together  in  my  basement  and  I  started  making  cassette  tapes  because  this  was  before  CDs.    

When  I  had  the  technology  together,  a  couple  of  other  friends  and  I  started  listening  to  the  tapes.  The  first  time  we  did  it,  I  remember  we  listened  to  something  for  about  30  minutes.  We  were  sitting  cross-­‐legged  on  the  floor  facing  each  other,  and  we  opened  our  eyes  and  looked  at  each  other.  We  were  very  high  because  we  had  been  in  a  very  deep  meditative  state  from  this.  

We  looked  at  each  other  and  I  don’t  remember  who  said  it,  but  somebody  said,  “Are  you  feeling  what  I’m  feeling?”  It  blew  our  minds.  We  were  experienced  meditators  and  we  knew  what  deep  meditation  

 

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felt  like,  but  instead  of  having  a  glimpse  of  it  for  a  few  seconds  at  a  time,  we  had  just  entered  into  this  complete  other  place.  We  thought,  “Wow,  this  is  amazing.”  

We  began  experimenting  with   it,   trying  different  things  and  different  frequencies.  The  experience  was  mind   blowing,   but  what   started   to   happen   as  months   and   even   a   couple   of   years   went   by  was   even  more  amazing.  

I  had  been  almost  constantly  angry  in  one  way  or  another  for  the  first  35  years  of  my  life,  and  the  anger  just  sort  of  drained  out  of  me.  People  who  hadn’t  seen  me  for  a  while  would  say  when  they  ran  into  me,  “Wow,  you  seem  so  mellow.”  Nobody  had  ever   told  me   I  was  mellow.  They  would  say,  “You  seem  so  intense.”  Now   they  were   starting   to   say   other   things   about  me,   and   I  was   starting   to   get   along  with  people.    

I  was  a  musician  and  a  composer  at  the  time,  and  I  started  to  notice  that  I  was  way  more  creative,  that  my  music  got  better,  that  I  was  more  creative  in  other  ways,  that  my  mind  seemed  clearer,  and  that  all  the   emotional   problems   I   had   like   the   depression,   for   instance,   cleared   up.   I   just   stopped   being  depressed.  All  of  these  things  happened  to  me  and  I  was  able  to  enter  quite  easily  into  a  flow  state  and  be  fully  absorbed  in  what  I  was  doing  and  stay  focused.  All  of  this  started  to  happen.  

Over   the   four   years   that  we  were   experimenting  with   this,  we   gradually   through  word  of  mouth  had  about  150  people  using  this  technology,  which  I  began  to  call  Holosync.  That  is  our  registered  trademark  name  for  the  technology  now.  I  kept  refining  it  and  making  little  tweaks  to  it.  

At   a   certain   point,   some   of   the   other   people   who   were   using   it   said,   “You   really   need   to   create   a  structured  way  to  use  this,  make  this  available  to  people  and  start  a  business.”    

At  the  time,  I  was  living  at  about  $30,000  a  year,  which  was  more  money  in  the  1980s  than  it  is  now  in  spending   power.   My   vision   was,   “If   I   could   make   another   $30,000   a   year,   that   would   double   my  income.”  That  was  the  extent  of  my  vision.    

Today   we’ve   had   approximately   two   million   people   in   193   countries   use   this,   and   now   it’s   been  endorsed   by   famous   doctors   and   therapists.   Because   of   this,   I’ve   spoken   at   the   United   Nations   and  shared  the  stage  with  the  Dalai  Lama,  Stephen  Covey,  and  Jack  Canfield.  

Holosync  has  taken  the  personal-­‐growth  world  by  storm,  so  to  speak,  because  it  does  so  many  things  to  change  your  brain   to  allow  you   to   live  a  more  high-­‐performance   life  or   to   live  with  more  whole-­‐brain  functioning.  It  also  modulates  your  emotions  so  you  reduce  the  stimulation  of  your  sympathetic  nervous  system,   which   is   the   fight-­‐or-­‐flight   response,   and   increase   the   stimulation   of   your   parasympathetic  nervous   system.  Herbert  Benson  at  Harvard  published  a  book   in  1975  called  The  Relaxation  Response  about  methods   of   stimulating   the   parasympathetic   nervous   system.   Holosync   certainly   does   that,   so  you’re  calmer.  The  blood  goes  to  your  brain  instead  of  to  your  extremities,  which  is  where  it  goes  during  the   sympathetic   system   response   to   enable   you   to   run   or   fight.   Holosync   increases   your   intelligence,  problem-­‐solving  abilities,  pattern  recognition,  and  creativity.  

Dawson:  Bill,  give  us  a  quick  recap.  What  are  the  brain  frequencies  you’re  aiming  at?  

Bill:   This   is   the   little   cook’s   tour  of   brain-­‐wave  patterns  or  what   I   often   call   Brain-­‐wave  Patterns   101.  Most  people  are  operating  in  what’s  called  a  beta  brain-­‐wave  pattern.  There  are  different  conventions  of  naming  these,  so  not  everybody  agrees  on  the  exact  frequency  range  of  each  one.  Beta  is  about  13  or  14  cycles  per  second  up  to  around  20  cycles  per  second.  That’s  where  most  people  are  hanging  out  most  of  the  time.  When  you’re   just  doing  your  daily  thing,  going  about  your  business,  thinking,  strategizing,  figuring  out  what  to  do,  and  so  on,  in  most  cases,  that’s  the  beta  brain-­‐wave  pattern.  At  the  higher  end  

 

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of  beta,  people  kind  of  feel  on  edge.  They  feel  a  little  dis-­‐ease.  They  feel  anxious,  unsettled,  or  cranky.  When  you  get  down  to  the  lower  end  of  beta,  you  can  concentrate  better  and  you’re  more  functional.  

If  your  brain-­‐wave  patterns  slow  more,  you  get  into  the  alpha  range,  which  is  between  about  eight  and  12   or   13   cycles   per   second,   depending   on   who   you   ask.   Alpha   is   the   brain-­‐wave   pattern   that   most  people  are  in  when  they  do  meditation,  whether  Transcendental  Meditation,  watching  your  breath  go  in  and  out,  or  just  simple  meditation.  People  get  so  they  can  make  even  slower  brain-­‐wave  patterns  if  they  meditate  for  eight  hours  a  day  for  many  years  and  that  sort  of  thing.  They  can  go  slower  than  that,  but  most  meditation  is  happening  in  alpha.    

Alpha  is  the  brain-­‐wave  pattern  of  enhanced  learning  or  what  some  people  call  super  learning,  which  is  based   on   the  work   of  Georgi   Lozanov,   a   European   specialist.   He   found   that  when   people  were   in   an  alpha  state,  they  could  learn  faster,  remember  more,  and  retain  it  longer.  He  called  this  super  learning.  It’s   a   brain-­‐wave   pattern   of   super   learning,   and   it’s   a   brain-­‐wave   pattern   of   enhanced   memory   and  enhanced  focus  and  concentration.  For  any  kind  of  detail  work,  you  can  do  it  better  in  an  alpha  state.    

When  you’re  watching  TV  or  at  the  movies  and  you’re  totally  absorbed,  you  sort  of   forget  about  your  surroundings.  That   is  an  alpha  state.  Alpha   is  also  the  brain-­‐wave  pattern  of   joy  and  happiness.  When  you   feel   really   good,   your   brain   produces   certain   neurochemicals   that   cause   you   to   feel   great.  More  serotonin  is  produced  in  the  brain.  

If  the  brain-­‐wave  patterns  slow  even  more,  you  go  into  a  theta  brain-­‐wave  pattern,  which  most  people  experience  as  the  brain-­‐wave  pattern  of  dreaming  sleep  or  REM  (rapid  eye  movement)  sleep.  Also,  when  people  meditate  very  deeply  and  begin  to  have  visionary  experiences  that  are  similar  to  dreams,  except  they  are  not  asleep,  that’s  a  theta  brain-­‐wave  pattern.  

Some  other  patterns  of  super  learning  happen  in  theta.  Assigning  things  to  long-­‐term  memory  happens  in  theta.    

Thomas  Edison  was  famous  for  “power  naps.”  When  he  had  a  problem  he  was  trying  to  solve  in  one  of  his   inventions,  he  would  sit   in  a  swivel  chair   in  his  office,  which  had  a  concrete  floor,  and  hold  a   large  ball  bearing   in  his  hand.  Then  he  would  drift   into  a  power  nap,  which   is   in   the   theta   state.  He  would  finally  get  to  the  state  where  his  hand  would  open  and  the  ball  bearing  would  fall  out  of  his  hand,  hit  the  floor,  and  wake  him  up,  and  he  would  often  have  the  solution  to  his  problem.  

Some  people  would  describe  the  theta  state  as  having  more  contact  with  the  unconscious  mind.  Theta  also  has  a  remarkable  characteristic  in  that  it  is  the  brain-­‐wave  pattern  of  what  scientists  call  integrative  experiences.  The  integrative  experience  is  where  you  suddenly  have  an  “aha,”  where  you  see  yourself,  a  problem,  or  a  situation  in  a  completely  new  way.  Many  people  have  had  this  experience,  where  it  seems  to   come   out   of   the   blue,   like   if   your   marriage   is   troubled   and   suddenly   you   have   this   aha   and   you  understand  what’s  going  on  and  what  to  do.  

Dawson:   It’s   a   leap   from   Point   A   to   Point   B   without   going   through   a   lot   of   intermediate   space   in  between.  Look  at  the  story  of  how  Einstein  came  up  with  his  general  theory  of  relativity.  His  son-­‐in-­‐law  describes   how   Einstein   went   to   bed   one   night   in   a   state   of   complete   despair   and   frustration   at   his  inability   to   complete   his   equations.   He  woke   up   the   next   day   with   an   enormous   “Aha!”   and   he   had  figured  it  out.  

Bill:  That’s  right.  A  lot  of  integrative  experiences  have  to  do  with  making  a  developmental  leap  in  which  your   perspective  widens   suddenly.   For   instance,   some   people   don’t   really   see   how   they   affect   other  

 

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people.  They  are  more  self-­‐focused.  Then  suddenly  something  happens  and  they  realize  why  their  life  is  not  going  well.  

This  is  what  happened  to  me  after  I  decided  it  wasn’t  everybody  else’s  fault.  You  begin  to  see  the  other  person’s   perspective   and   how   your   perspective   can   take   into   account   both   perspectives.   How   to   do  things,  how  to  get  along  with  people,  how  to  cooperate  with   them,  and  how  to   figure  something  out  suddenly  makes  sense  and   it  didn’t   the  moment  before.   It’s  a  real   leap  and  reorganization  at  a  higher  level.  There  are  many  things  about  theta.  I  could  go  on  about  theta  for  a  long  time.  

Even  slower   than   theta   is   the  delta  brain-­‐wave  pattern,  which   is   the  brain-­‐wave  pattern  of  dreamless  sleep.   Interestingly,   quite   a   few   people   who   have   used   Holosync   have   achieved   waking   delta,   which  means  that  their  brains  are  making  a  little  bit  of  alpha  at  the  same  time  as  lots  of  delta  waves  because  the  people  are  not  completely  asleep.  Usually,  when  you’re  making  delta  waves,  you  are  gone.    

Something   in   the  background  governs  autonomic  processes,   so  people  are  making  brain  waves  all   the  time.   People   make   mostly   beta   and   delta   and   not   too   much   alpha   and   theta.   If   the   delta   is   your  unconscious  mind  and  the  beta  is  your  conscious  mind,  theta  and  alpha  are  the  bridge  between  the  two.  When   people   learned   to  make  more   alpha   and   theta,   suddenly   they   gained   contact  with  what   some  people  in  a  mystical  sense  called  the  field  of  all  intelligence.  They  begin  to  know  just  what  to  do  in  any  situation.  It’s  a  kind  of  super  awareness.  

Delta   is   the  brain-­‐wave  pattern  of   kundalini   awakenings.   In   Eastern  philosophy,   there’s   energy   at   the  base   of   the   spine   and   it   goes   up   through   the   chakras.   I   think   there   are   probably  more   sophisticated  models   than   this   ancient   kundalini   model.   It’s   a   beautiful   metaphor,   at   the   very   least,   but   scientists  know  more  about  what’s  happening   there.   It’s  a   spiritual  awakening   to  be  able   to  make   lots  of  delta.  Also,  experts  in  this  have  told  me  that  the  people  they  studied  who  were  making  lots  of  waking  delta—and  I  found  this  out  because  I  was  one  of  them—are  very  persuasive  and  make  really  good  leaders;  they  have  a  certain  leadership  charisma  about  them.  

There  is  one  other  brain-­‐wave  pattern  that  is  very  interesting.  It’s   interesting  for  a  number  of  reasons.  One  is  that  it’s  a  faster  brain-­‐wave  pattern  than  beta.  It’s  called  gamma.  In  2005  I  read  an  article  about  Richard  Davidson   and   some   other   people   doing   brain   scans   on   Tibetan  monks  who  were   around   the  Dalai  Lama.  They   found  a   lot  of   things   that   they  were  doing   in   their  brains,  but  one  of   them  was  that  they  were  making  lots  of  gamma  brain  waves.  Those  brain  waves  were  associated  with  compassion  and  loving-­‐kindness,  and  these  people  had  been  doing  up  to  50,000  hours  of  Buddhist  meditation  designed  to  create  compassion  and  loving-­‐kindness.  

At  any  rate,  those  are  the  brain-­‐wave  patterns  that  I  think  are  really  important  to  this  discussion.  When  people  use  Holosync,  we’re  taking  them  from  the  high  end  of  alpha  gradually  down  through  alpha,  down  through  theta,  and  then  down  into  a  deeper  part  of  delta.  

Every  day  your  brain  is  learning  how  to  make  these  brain-­‐wave  patterns.  You’re  making  all  of  these  brain  chemicals,   neurochemicals,   and   hormones   that   are   very   healthful.   They   cause   you   to   have   more  awareness,  more  mental  clarity,  and  more  creativity.    

The  other  thing  that  happens  is  that  a  person’s  threshold  for  what  they  can  handle  coming  at  them  from  life  goes  higher  and  higher   so   that  people   feel  good  more  and  more  often.  Things   like  anger,  anxiety,  depression,  confusion,  bad  habits,  and  addiction  just  fall  away.  

I’ll  stop  now  so  you  can  make  your  comments.  Where  I’m  going  is  to  talk  about  awareness  because  after  all   these   years,   what   I   really   think   is   happening   is   that   Holosync   makes   you   more   aware,   as   does  

 

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traditional  meditation.  It   just  takes  30  or  40  years  to  do  it.  There  are  certain  things  that  happen  in  the  brain   that   correspond   to   this   awareness.   I   don’t   mean   awareness   in   a   fluffy   sense   the   way   a   lot   of  people  use  that  word.  

Dawson:   Let’s   talk  about   that.  How  do  you  see  awareness?  What  happens  when  you  are   in  an  aware  state  and  how  can  you  induce  those  states?  You  explained  what’s  happening  in  the  brain  in  that  state.  Go  ahead  and  describe  the  shift   from  being  relatively  unaware  to  becoming  aware,  how  it   feels,  what  you  do,  and  how  you  act  when  that  transition  occurs.  

Bill:   There   are   a   number   of   ways   to   explain   this.   First,   I’ll   give   a   short   one   from   the   perspective   of  cognitive  psychology,  which  would  say   that   there’s  a  whole  group  of   internal   cognitive  processes   that  people   are   doing   all   the   time.   In   order   to   understand  what   you   and   I   are   saying,   people   have   to   run  these   processes   constantly.   It’s   how   you  make   sense   of   and   interact  with   your  world.   The   processes  include   things   like   making   internal   representations   to   yourself.   That   would   be   internal   pictures   and  internal   representations   of   all   kinds   of   kinesthetic   things,   such   as   touch,   pressure,   temperature,   and  balance,  along  with  taste  and  smell,  and  then  internal  dialog  where  you’re  talking  to  yourself.    

There   are   six   modalities   that   are   used   to   create   your   beliefs   and   values,   which   are   really   what’s  important  to  you.  These  internal  representations  are  strung  together  in  little  sequences  called  strategies  that  are  triggered  by  something  that  you  see,  hear,  touch,  and  so  forth.  Then  they  run  through  three  or  four  steps.  It  ends  in  some  kind  of  feeling,  behavior,  or  decision  that  you  make.    

I  could  go  on  for  hours  about  all  this  stuff,  how  it  works  and  how  when  you  become  aware  of  it  and  can  see  yourself  doing  it,  all  kinds  of  good  things  happen.  At  any  rate,  these  processes  are  going  on  outside  your  awareness,  which  is  a  good  thing  because  they  are  complex.  If  you  had  to  think  your  way  through  them,  you’d  have  to  figure  out  what  a  door  is  each  time  you  came  to  a  door  before  you  could  figure  out  how  to  open  it  and  get  through  it.  All  this  stuff   is  happening  on  autopilot,  which  is  good  as  long  as  it’s  operating  in  a  functional  way.  

I’m  just  giving  an  overview  of  this.  What  happens  is  that  we’re  all  traumatized  by  life.  Things  happen  in  life  that  are  not  what  we  want.  Some  people  have  a  lot  of  trauma.  Some  people  have  just  a  little  bit.  The  more  we’re   traumatized   in   a   certain  area  of   life,   the  more   these  automatic  processes   in   that   area  go  sideways.  They  become  more  about  avoiding  danger  than  getting  what  we  want.  

Most  people  who  have  been  around  the  block  know  that  when  you  focus  on  what  you  don’t  want,  you  tend  to  get  it.  In  addition  to  that,  you  feel  bad.  When  you  focus  on  what  you  want,  you  also  tend  to  get  it.  You  figure  out  how  to  get  it  and  you  feel  good.  

When  people  have  had  a  lot  of  trauma  or  even  a  medium  amount  of  trauma  or  any  amount  of  trauma,  to  that  extent  they’re  going  to  focus  on  avoiding  getting  more  of  it.  They  figure  out  unconsciously  how  to  attract  or  create  more  of  it.  

Here’s  my  elevator  speech,  Dawson.  I  have  this  tool  called  Holosync  that  creates  tremendous  amounts  of   awareness.   Then   I   show   people  where   to   direct   that   awareness   to   create   the   greatest   amount   of  choice   about   how   they   feel,   how   they   behave,   which   people   and   situations   they   attract   or   become  attracted  to,  and  what  the  things  that  are  happening  in  their  lives  mean.  

When  there  has  been  trauma  and  the  autopilot  stuff  is  creating  what  you  don’t  want,  I  have  found  that  the   only  way   out   of   that   is   to   learn   how   to   be   aware   enough   to   see   how   you’re   creating   it.   The   big  takeaway  from  this  whole  conversation  is  that  awareness  creates  choice.  

 

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If   you   have   choice,   you’ll   always   choose   what   serves   you.   If   something   is   going   on   outside   your  awareness,  it  isn’t  a  choice.  That’s  great  when  it  works,  but  when  there  are  areas  where  it  doesn’t  work  and  where  you’re  somehow  not  able  to  have  great  relationships  with  people,  follow  through  and  create  the  company  you  wanted  to  create,  achieve  the  goal  you  wanted,  your  emotional  health  is  bad  so  you’re  unhappy   a   lot,   or   whatever   the   area   of   life   is   that   is   not   working,   you’re   doing   that   outside   your  awareness.  

You  have  first  to  gain  enough  awareness,  which   isn’t  that  easy.  At   least,   it  wasn’t  until  Holosync  came  along.  Then  you  have  to  learn  how  to  observe  how  you’re  creating  these  things  as  you  do  them.  

Dawson:  Once  you  have  a  choice,  you  can  choose  what  kind  of   frame  to  hold   it   in,  so  the  event   itself  may  not  change,  but  the  meaning  you  ascribe  to  it  can  change  completely.  

Bill:  That’s  exactly  right.  The  thing  is  that  you  can  keep  doing  something  that  doesn’t  serve  you  and  do  it  with  awareness.  Almost  everybody  has  things  that  they  keep  doing  over  and  over  that  don’t  end  well.  They  keep  getting  involved  with  the  same  kind  of  romantic  partner  and  having  the  same  issues  and  the  same  fights,  but  they  keep  doing  it.  They  keep  getting  involved  in  the  same  bad  professional  situations  or  whatever  it  is.    

You  mentioned  Einstein.  He  was  famous  for  saying  that  the  definition  of  insanity  is  continuing  to  do  the  same   thing   over   and   over   and   hoping   for   a   different   result.   The   reason  we   do   that   is   because  we’re  doing  that  outside  our  awareness.  I  believe  that  the  secret  to  having  a  well-­‐lived  life  is   increasing  your  awareness  because  all  of   the   things  we’re  struggling  with  begin   to   fall   into  place   the  more  aware  you  become.  

Dawson:  These  states  of  flow  and  awareness  of  consciousness  take  experienced  meditators  a  long  time  to  achieve.  They  can  achieve  these  states,  but  it  might  take  them  five,  10,  15,  or  20  years  of  practice  to  learn  to   induce  them  reliably,  on  demand.  Your  focus  here  has  been  to  train  us  to  induce  those  states  really  quickly.  

Bill:  Yes.  Here’s  an  interesting  way  to  look  at  this.  I  told  you  about  the  gamma  waves  and  these  monks  around  the  Dalai  Lama.  The  most  experienced  of  them  was  a  Frenchman  named  Matthieu  Ricard  and  he  was  said  to  have  meditated  for  50,000  hours.    

He’s   also  been  described   in   the  media   as   the  world’s   happiest  man.   I   don’t   know   if   he   is   the  world’s  happiest  man,  but  he’s  probably  right  up  there  if  he  isn’t.    

I  said,  “I  wonder  how  long  that  would  take  to  do  that?”  I  took  the  50,000  hours  and  I  said,  “Let’s  say  it  took   30   years   to   do   that.   How   many   hours   a   day   would   he   have   had   to   meditate?”   Without   going  through  the  process  of  how  I  figured  that  out,  it  turned  out  to  be  about  4  hours  and  34  minutes  a  day  for  30  years.  I  thought,  “Wow!  Who  is  willing  to  do  that?”  

It’s  not  very  many  people,  unless  you’re  a  monk  or  something   like  he   is.  There  were  also  people  with  him  that  had  only  done  10,000  hours.  That  wouldn’t  be  quite  as  much,  but  it  was  still  over  an  hour  a  day  for  30  years.  If  you  did  it  in  fewer  years,  it  would  be  even  more.  

The  interesting  thing  about  Holosync  is  that  even  the  first  time  you  use  it,  it  takes  you  into  these  brain-­‐wave   patterns   that   take   these   advanced  meditators   decades   to   learn   to   produce   reliably.   You  make  them  every   time.   It   immediately   begins   to   create   new  neural   connections   between   the   left   and   right  side   of   your   brain.   I   also   suspect   that   it’s   creating   new   neural   connections   between   your   amygdala,  which   is   responsible   for   a   lot   of   emotional   reactivity,   and   the   frontal   part   of   your   brain,   which   is  responsible  for  executive  control  over  things.  

 

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Dawson:   If  you   look  at   the  brain  signaling  patterns  of  people  who  have  a  hair-­‐trigger  stress   response,  what  you’ll  see  is  that  the  signals  are  going  straight  from  the  amygdala  into  the  hind  brain  and  the  spinal  column.   With   people   who   have   learned   to   master   their   stress   response,   the   signal   goes   from   the  midbrain,   the  emotional  brain,   to  the  forebrain,   the   frontal   lobes,  where   it’s   interpreted  and  assessed  first.  Only  if  it’s  a  real  threat  does  it  get  sent  to  that  hind  brain  and  that  autonomic  nervous  system.  That  is  a  crucial  aspect  of  emotional  regulation.  

Bill:   That   is   exactly  what   the   scientists   have   found.   Long-­‐term  meditators   are   better   able   to   regulate  things  like  reward  anticipation,  decision  making,  empathy,  impulse  control,  and  emotional  control.  More  neurons  are  turned  over  to  that  in  the  frontal  part  of  the  brain.  There’s  more  gray  matter  created  in  the  frontal  part  of   the  brain,  and  there’s  also  more  what   they  call  white  matter,  which   is   the  connections  between  the  gray  matter  and  the  neurons.  All  of  this  research  leads  to  something  I’ve  been  saying  for  a  long  time,  which  is  that  meditation  creates  awareness  and  awareness  creates  choice.    

Choice  is  what  gives  you  control  over  how  you  feel  and  behave,  which  people  and  situations  you  attract  and  become  attracted  to,  and  what  meanings  you  assign  to  what’s  happening  in  your  life.    

Most  people  don’t  stop  to  think  that  all  meaning  is  added  from  the  outside.  If  you  look  around  wherever  you’re   sitting,   nothing   out   there  means   anything   intrinsically.   One   of   the   great   things   about   being   a  human  being  is  that  we  add  all  the  meaning.  

Unfortunately,   some  people  are  adding  meaning   that  makes   them  unhappy.   Somebody  may   frown  at  you  and  one  person  might   say,   “I  wonder  what’s  bothering   them.”  The  other  person   thinks,   “Nobody  likes  me.”  

The  adding  of  meaning  is  something  that  is  also  on  autopilot.  The  more  trauma  we  had,  the  more  likely  we’re  going   to  add  a  meaning   that   says,   “I   can’t  do   that.   I’m  not  good  enough.  Nobody   likes  me,”  or  something  that  is  somehow  self-­‐sabotaging  or  limiting.  

Dawson:  The  most  dramatic  example  I  ever  heard  of  that  phenomenon  was  from  one  of  my  friends  who  used  to  volunteer  at  San  Quentin  State  Prison.  He  volunteered  on  the  unit  that  handled  prisoners  who  were   either   in   for   life   without   parole   or   were   on   death   row.   One   young   man   was   in   prison   for   life  without  parole.  He  had  killed  his  wife.  She  had  been  having  an  affair  with  another  man  and  he  said,  “I  found   them   in   bed   together,   so   I   killed   them.”   In   his   mind,   it   was   just   a   straight   cause-­‐and-­‐effect  relationship.  

It  was  the  same  thing   in  the  prison.  He  was  known  for  violent  behavior.  The  volunteer  said,  “Why  did  you  hit   the  other  prisoner?”  This  guy  said,   “Because  he   insulted  me.”  He  had  all  of   these  straight-­‐line  connections  in  his  head,  up  to  and  including  murder.  “This  means  that,  therefore  I  do  that.”  

After  our  volunteer  had  worked  with  him  for  a  while,  it  suddenly  dawned  on  the  prisoner  that  he  had  a  choice.  He  learned  to  regulate  his  emotions  and  he  then  realized,  “When  the  guy  insults  me,  I  don’t  have  to  hit  him.  I  have  option  B,  C,  D,  and  E.  I  can  walk  away,  I  can  call  the  guard,  or  I  can  talk  to  my  friend.”  He  realized  he  had  all  kinds  of  choices.  

Before,  his  life  had  had  this  series  of  meanings.  He  described  the  events  that  had  led  him  to  murder  and  prison.  After  he   learned  emotional   regulation,   suddenly  a  whole  spectrum  of   responses  opened  up   to  him   that  were  based  on  not   assigning   the   same  meaning   to  events   that  had   led   to  him  being   violent  before.  

Bill:  That’s  a  great  illustration  of  that  principle.  The  whole  point  is  that  we  assign  meanings  automatically  and  we’re  doing   it  all   the  time.  There’s  a  knock  on  the  door  and  we  assign  a  meaning  to   it.  Your  boss  

 

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comes  into  your  office  cubicle  and  you  assign  a  meaning  to  it  before  anything  happens.  It  goes  on  and  on.  

If   you   can   see  how  you  assign  meanings  and   see   the   consequences  of   the  meanings,   just   seeing  how  you’re  doing  it  implies  that  you’re  realizing,  “I’m  doing  this,”  rather  than  that  the  meanings  are  intrinsic  in  whatever   is  going  on.  That   is  a  huge   leap  for  people.  When  you  see  how  you  do   it  and  you  see  the  consequences  as  they’re  happening,  if  they  aren’t  resourceful  and  if  they  don’t  serve  you,  then  you  just  can’t  keep  doing  them.    

The   long   and   short   of   this   is   that   the  more   awareness   you  have,   the  more   likely   you   are   to   begin   to  regulate  everything  in  your  life  in  a  way  that  serves  you  and,  if  you’re  developmentally  advanced  enough,  also  serves  everyone  else.  

If  someone  is  at  a  development  level  where  they’re  thinking  mostly  of  themselves  because  they  need  to  at   that   developmental   level,   then   they  will   be   thinking  mostly   about,   “What   serves  me?”  At   a   higher  developmental   level,  we  begin   to   think  more   about  other  people   and  what   serves   everyone,   not   just  ourselves.   To   me,   this   is   a   beautiful   model   because   it   explains   a   tremendous   amount   about   human  behavior.  There’s  one  other  little  piece  that  I  could  add.  There’s  a  certain  way  that  you  become  aware  of  certain  basic   things   about  how   the  universe  works   at   the  most   fundamental   level   that   you  may  have  been  swimming  upstream  against.  I  could  say  a  little  bit  about  that,  but  that’s  another  whole  thing.  We  could   also   talk   about   awareness   in   a  more   transcendent   sense,   but   that,   too,   is   a  whole   other   topic,  probably  for  another  time.  

I’ve   been   talking  mostly   about   how   you   feel   and   behave,  which   people   and   situations   you   attract   or  become   attracted   to,   and  what   things  mean,  which   covers   a   lot   of   territory.   The   reason   I   talk   about  those  four  things  is  because,  quite  a  number  of  years  ago,  I  realized  that  there  were  a  lot  of  things  in  this  life   that   human   beings   do   not   have   a   choice   about   and   can’t   have   a   choice   about.  We   don’t   have   a  choice,  for  instance,  about  the  fact  that  everything  in  the  universe  is  impermanent  and  eventually  ends,  falls   apart,   dies,   or   disappears.   A   certain   amount   of   human   suffering   is   about   the   fact   that   we   get  attached  to  things  and  then  they  end.    

On  the  other  hand,  there  are  whole  spiritual  movements  where  adherents  try  to  be  non-­‐attached,  but  the  whole  joy  of  life  is  in  being  attached  to  things.  If  you  were  not  attached  to  your  children  or  to  what  you  do  with  your  time,  then  it’s  just  boring  and  dry.    

Humans  are  in  a  double  bind  because  if  you  are  attached,  suffering  happens.  I  don’t  think  it’s  possible,  but  if  you  can  figure  out  how  not  to  be  attached,  then  what’s  the  point?  There’s  no  juice  in  life.  

The  other  thing  that  awareness  does  is  that   it  regulates  this  so  that  you  are  attached  enough  to  enjoy  things,  which  is  what  that  flow  state  is  part  of,  but  you’re  not  so  attached  that  you’re  demanding  that  things  you  have  no  control  over  be  the  way  you  want  them  to  be.    

Of  course,  we  don’t  have  control  over  how  other  people  behave.  We  can  influence  them.  We  don’t  have  control  over  things  like  the  weather,  the  sun,  or  the  fact  that  we  need  air,  water,  and  certain  things  or  we   die   fairly   quickly.   There’s   a   whole   bunch   of   physical   things   in   the   universe   that   we   don’t   have   a  choice  about.  I  just  take  all  of  those  things  and  say  to  the  degree  that  we  can  influence  them,  let’s  try  to  influence  them.  The  ones  we  can’t  influence,  like  the  famous  Serenity  Prayer,  let’s  just  let  them  be  okay  and  develop  our  awareness  to  the  point  where  we  have  choice  about  the  things  we  could  have  a  choice  about,   like  how  you  feel  and  behave,  which  people  and  situations  you  attract  or  become  attracted  to,  and  what  meanings  you  assign  to  what  happens.    

 

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Dawson:   There   are   all   these   choice   points.   Awareness   then   gives   us   the   ability   to  make   choices   that  serve  us,  move  our  lives  forward,  and  liberate  us  from  those  kinds  of  unconscious  reactions  that  until  we  become  aware  of  them  we  may  think  are  just  part  of  the  way  the  world  is  but  in  reality  are  part  of  the  way  we  are.  This  is  really  a  remarkable  conversation,  Bill.  

Stepping  out  of  an  entrenched  worldview  that  way  is  crucial  to  personal  change.  If  you’re  stuck  in  that  worldview,  then  all  you  see  is  the  limited  palette  of  options  that  you  have  always  seen  from  within  that  worldview.  When  you’re  able  to  detach,  have  an  awareness,  and  bring  consciousness  to  your  existence  and  circumstances,  then  suddenly  you  open  up  a  huge  realm  of  choices  and  possibilities  you  never  saw  when  you  were  stuck  in  that  automatic  state.  This  is  really  powerful.    

Even  being  aware  that  you  have  this  awareness  and  these  choices  is  a  very  potent  way  to  live  your  life  and  to  approach  your  situation.  

Bill:  I  like  the  way  you  said  “step  out  of  your  current  perspective,”  because  that’s  exactly  what  happens.  People  will  often  speak  of  this  as  developing  something  that  some  people  call  the  witness.  It’s  this  other  part  of  you  whose  only  job  is  to  watch.  It  doesn’t  really  even  comment  on  anything.  It  doesn’t  have  an  opinion.  It  just  watches  with  curiosity  to  see  what’s  happening.    

To  the  degree  that  you  watch,  because  it’s  a  spectrum,  you  know  just  what  to  do.  If  you’ve  ever  known  someone  who  just  seemed  to  know  what  to  do,  that  is  a  side  effect  of  being  more  aware.  That  person  sees  things  from  a  broader  perspective  or  from  a  higher  spot  on  the  mountain,  you  might  say.  

It’s  about  developing  that  ability  to  have  a  part  of  you  that’s  just  watching.  Another  part  of  you  could  be  completely  caught  up  and  involved  and  everything,  because  if  you’re  not  involved  then  it’s  no  fun,  but  another  part  is  just  watching.  That’s  what  happens  when  people  listen  to  Holosync  and  make  that  a  daily  practice.  They  develop  that.  

We  estimate,  based  on  28  years  of  doing  this,   that  Holosync  creates  the  kind  of  awareness  that  those  Tibetan   Buddhist   monks   were   showing   in   their   brains,   but   about   eight   times   faster   than   traditional  methods.  

Dawson:   That’s   right.   Those   states   can  be  attained  with  practice,   but   that   is   long  and  hard  and  most  people  who  start  that  kind  of  meditation  practice  give  up.  It’s  just  too  long  and  too  hard.  

Bill:  Yes,  that’s  the  problem.  Most  people  that  have  learned  a  little  bit  about  meditation  probably  know  they  ought  to  be  doing  it.  It  has  all  kinds  of  physical  and  mental  health  benefits.  It  lowers  stress.  Stress  causes  all  kinds  of  diseases  and  worsens  diseases  that  it  didn’t  cause.  There  are  all  kinds  of  reasons  to  meditate,  with   awareness  being   the   greatest   of   them.   It   is   so  difficult,   though,   especially   for   the   first  several  years,  that  most  people  can’t  do  it.    

Who  has   the   time  to  meditate   four  and  a  half  hours  a  day?  You  want   to   take  your  daughter   to  ballet  practice,  go  to  the  movies,  watch  Breaking  Bad  on  TV,  and  earn  a  living.  The  great  thing  about  Holosync  is   that   you   can   live   your   regular   life   and   also   gain   this   kind  of   awareness   and  have   all   these   amazing  things  happen.  I  have  over  20  interviews  with  people  who  were  either  finished  with  this  program,  which  you  do  for  about  10  years,  or  were  toward  the  end.    All  of  them  said,  in  one  way  or  another,  “Life  still  has  all  kinds  of  challenges”—that’s  all   the  stuff   I   said  you  don’t  have  any  choice  about—“but   the  way  that  I  interact  with  those  challenges  has  completely  changed.”    

A  very  good  friend  of  mine  is  a  well-­‐known  Zen  master  named  Genpo  Roshi.  He  did  it  the  hard  way.  He  actually  uses  Holosync  now,  by   the  way.  He   loves  Holosync.  He’s  one  of   those  people  who  are   totally  comfortable   in  their  own  skin  and  when  challenges  come  along,  he  just  knows  what  to  do.  He  doesn’t  

 

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freak  out  about  all  the  stuff  that  most  humans  freak  out  about.  He  just  takes  it  in  stride  and  deals  with  it.  There  are  some  things  that  there’s  nothing  you  can  do  about.  

Dawson:  If  you’re  going  to  be  a  leader  in  your  family,  on  your  team,  at  your  workplace,  at  your  church,  or  in  your  social  group,  then  it’s  really  important  to  be  able  to  step  out  of  that  reactive  mode  and  have  the  option  of  making  creative  decisions.  Some  people  get  so  hooked  into  the  stressed  brain  state  that  their  options  narrow  down  to  just  the  most  simple  and  basic  subset  of  those  choices.  The  people  who  have  developed  the  ability  to  stay  connected  with  the  larger  picture  are  those  who  can  lead  and  bring  some  common  sense   to   the  debate.  They  can  perhaps  point  out  other  more  creative  options   that  are  not  present  when  you’re   stuck   in   that   reactive  mode   that  only  gives  you   the  options  you  were   raised  with.    

Stepping   out   of   the   reactive   mode   dramatically   enhances   our   ability   to   find   and   develop   our   peak  potentials.  

Bill:   That’s   right.   Researchers   have   done   SPEC   scans   and   PET   scans   on   the   brains   of   people  who   are  meditating   and   people  who   aren’t  meditating.  When   someone   is   in   that  more   reactive   fight-­‐or-­‐flight  state,   the   parts   of   the   brain   that   are   involved   in   awareness   have   very   little   blood   flow   to   them,   so  they’re  not  very  active.  It’s  no  wonder  those  people  can’t  problem  solve,  be  creative,  or  figure  out  the  most   resourceful   thing   to   do.   When   you   increase   parasympathetic   nervous   system   response   so   the  blood  is  going  to  your  brain  rather  than  to  your  muscles  for  fight  or  flight,  that’s  when  you  become  more  intelligent,  more  creative,  calmer,  wiser,  and  more  knowledgeable.  

A   lot   of   people   put   the   Dalai   Lama   and   people   like   him   on   a   pedestal.   Certainly   there   are   plenty   of  reasons  to  honor  the  Dalai  Lama.  However,  instead  of  thinking,  “That  would  be  impossible  for  me  to  be  that   kind   of   a   person,”   do   Holosync   or   decide   to   meditate   in   the   way   those   guys   have.   This   is   not  something  unattainable.  It’s  been  difficult  to  attain  for  quite  a  few  thousand  years,  but  now,  because  of  modern  brain  science  and  technologies  like  Holosync,  it  is  not  something  that  is  that  difficult  to  achieve.  

Dawson:  You’ve  had  this  amazing  25-­‐year-­‐plus  odyssey  of  discovering  these  technologies,  doing   it   the  hard  way,  and  learning  how  to  induce  them  in  ways  that  are  so  much  easier  and  mechanical.  You  put  the  headset  on,  listen  to  the  tracks,  and  you  go  there.  It’s  very  powerful.  You’ve  built  this  huge  business  and  you’ve  helped  many  people  learn.  

I’m  curious  about  what  your  own   leading  or  cutting  edge   is,  where  you’re  working  on  yourself,  where  you’re  working  on  your  life,  what  your  creative  challenges  are,  and  where  you  see  yourself  going  next.  

Bill:  On  a  personal  level,  the  things  that  we  are  most  traumatized  about  are  the  most  difficult  to  uproot,  you  might   say.   I   used   to  be   so  difficult   to  get  along  with.  Now   the  only  people   I  have   trouble  getting  along  with  are  people  that  remind  me  strongly  of  my  mother,  who  did  a  lot  of  things  to  traumatize  me.  I’m  at   the  point  where   I   see  myself  doing   it  and   I   can  catch  myself.  There’s  a  progression  of  how  you  figure   one   of   these   things   out.   At   first,   you   realize   well   after   the   fact   that   you  misbehaved,   created  crappy  feelings  in  yourself,  and  so  on.  Then  you  begin  to  notice  it  while  you’re  in  it.  You  notice  it  after  it’s  been  created  but  while  you’re  still  in  the  middle  of  it.  Then  you  begin  to  notice  it  right  when  you’re  first  creating  it.  You  notice  it  coming  on  and  you  are  aware  enough  to  not  do  what  you  would  ordinarily  do  to  make  it  happen.  

I’m  getting  to  the  beginning  of  the  noticing  it  place  with  that  one  last  thing.  Very  few  other  things  really  get  to  me  anymore.  I  still  have  stuff  that  is  challenging  to  me.  I’m  still  working  on  it.  At  least  I  have  the  tools.    

 

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There  is  a  whole  course  I  teach  on  going  through  what  I  call  your  internal  map  of  reality.  It’s  this  whole  sequence  of  cognitive  things  you  do.  I  teach  people  how  to  pay  attention  and  observe  each  one  of  those  things.  

People  pretty  much  have  to  be  using  Holosync  to  do  this  because   it   takes  more  awareness   than  most  people  have.  You  look  at  each  one  of  these  things  one  at  a  time  and  practice  watching  them  until  very  little  can  happen  inside  of  you  that  is  creating  those  four  things  that  I  kept  talking  about,  how  you  feel,  how  you  behave,  and  so  on.  It’s  like  a  big  neon  sign  flashes  at  you  when  you  start  to  create  one  of  those  things  in  a  dysfunctional  way,  which  usually  stops  you  from  doing  it.  

Dawson:   It   reminds   me   of   a   great   analogy   about   marriage.   You   realize   maybe   a   day   later,   “I   really  screwed  up  there.”  Then  you  get  to  the  point  where  you  realize  it  an  hour  or  two  later.  You’re  bringing  your  attention  closer  to  the  moment  of  impact.  Maybe  you  realize  just  after  you  do  it.  In  my  marriage,  I  call  it  that  bone-­‐headed  thing.  You  realize  you  did  a  bone-­‐headed  thing  just  minutes  afterward.  The  next  step,  of  course,  is  to  be  able  to  project  into  the  future  and  realize  you’re  about  to  do  the  bone-­‐headed  thing  and  stop  yourself.  

Bill:   Exactly.   The  more  we’re   traumatized,   the  more  we   have   this   underlying   sense   that   this   is   really  potentially  dangerous,  which  causes  us  to  focus  on  what  we  don’t  want,  which  then  causes  us  to  figure  out   unconsciously   how   to   get   more   of   it.   Then   we   get   exactly   what   we   don’t   want   with   our   wives,  husbands,  or  whomever.    

There  are  very   few  things   in   the  way  we  create  our   lives   that  aren’t   traced  back  to  awareness.   In  any  situation   I  want  to  master,   I   look  for  the  most  fundamental  thing  or  things  to  this.  Once  you  have  the  most   fundamental   thing  mastered,   the  other  stuff   falls   into  place.  When  people  are   trying   to  become  successful,   for   instance,   they’re  often  caught  up   in   the  process.  They’re  caught  up   in   the   to-­‐do   items.  They’re  caught  up  in  the  tactics  such  as  how  to  create  a  web  page,  how  to  make  the  web  page  convert  better,  or  these  sorts  of  things.  There’s  a  place  for  that,  but  if  you  can’t  get  yourself  to  take  the  action  you  need  to  take,  what  good  is  knowing  that  stuff?  

If  you  can’t  get  yourself  to  persevere  when  you  do  something  that  doesn’t  work,  then  what’s  the  good  of   that?  Awareness   is   so   fundamental.   It’s  usually  a  big   surprise   to  people.  They  say,   “My  god,   I   can’t  believe  all  these  things  in  my  life  that  I’ve  been  trying  to  do  something  about  forever  are  now  clearing  up.   I   really   didn’t   do   anything   about   them   like   I   thought   I  would   have   to   do.   I   just   solved   them   in   a  different  way  and  they  cleared  up.”  

Dawson:   What   a   potent   vision   that   is,   that   bringing   awareness   to   a   troubling   part   of   our   lives   or  behaviors  can  start  to  shift  it.  That  is  really  powerful.    

Bill,  I  am  so  grateful  to  you.  I  see  the  man,  the  human  being,  the  humanitarian,  and  the  passion  you  have  for  helping  other  people  and  for  sharing.  I  am  just  so  grateful  that  you  have  devoted  yourself  to  bringing  this  magic  to  people.  

You’ve   created   a   successful   company.   You’ve   managed   a   big   team.   You’ve   now   reached   millions   of  people.  I  feel  your  heart.  I  feel  the  being  that  has  this  great  purpose,  and  I  so  admire  and  respect  that  being.  I’m  so  grateful  to  you  for  sharing  both  your  heart  and  your  amazing  vision  with  us  today.  

Bill:   I   really  appreciate  the   invitation.  Don’t  put  me  on  a  pedestal  because   I  was  once  a  nothing  going  nowhere  fast.  What  changed  that  was  that  I  stumbled  onto  something  that,  without  even  knowing  what  was  happening,  made  me  more  aware.  

 

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Everyone  has  a  purpose  inside  of  them.  In  some  cases  it’s  really  big  and  in  other  cases  it’s  not  as  big,  but  everyone  has  a  purpose  inside  of  them.    

That’s  one  of  the  overarching  things  that  Holosync  does.  It  helps  people  become  aware  enough  to  see  what  their  life  can  truly  be  about.  That’s  probably  the  most  wonderful  thing  that  happens  when  people  become  more  aware.  

Dawson:   It’s  a   tragedy  when  people   live   their  whole   lives  and  never  unlock   that  potential.   I   know  my  passion   in  doing   this  series   is   to  give  people   the   tools   to  unlock   their  potential.  Why   live  a   fraction  of  what  you  could  be  when  there  is  magic  inside  of  you?  

Who  knows  what  creativity  or  what  kind  of  gifts  you  could  bring  to  yourself,  the  world,  your  family,  or  your  community  when  you   learn  to  unlock  them  rather   than  having  them  all   tied  up   in   those  reactive  states  of  limited  vision?    

It  is  such  a  huge  force  for  change  when  people  learn  to  dump  those  old  visions  of  self  and  old  limitations  and  live  from  their  core,  passion,  and  purpose  and  start  to  carry  that  to  the  world  outside  of  them  in  a  powerful  way  as  well.  Thanks,  Bill!