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REVISION
How to take the lead ?
How to break the ice ?
How to maintain a conversation ?
Tips for tip-top listening.
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Chapter 7 : Prevent Pauses with Preparation
1. Don’t Let Old Acquaintances Be Forgotten. -- nature of the occasion and people
• Bring me up to date on …..• What has your year been ?• What’s new with the family ?
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2. Getting a History Lesson -- background & history of the people
• What got you interested in…… ?• What brought you to location ?• Who gave you the idea for this
business ?
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3. Ask “Interview” Questions --- person, event , situation
• What do you enjoy most about this time of the year ?
• What got you involved in this organisation/event ?
• What has been your most important work experience ?
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4. Nonverbal Part of the Conversation
-- pay attention to the speaker -- ask appropriate questions -- pay attention to body language
5. Ordinary People
-- common topics eg bills, kids, hobbies, vacations -- extraordinary experience
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6. Limelight Etiquette
-- public venue -- easy, positive, light information -- off-limit subjects
Eg. Vacation• Something about yourself• Offer new topic• Others can share experiences
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7. Speak No Evil
• Personal misfortunes, particularly current ones
• Controversial subjects• Gossip • Anything negative
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8. Sincere & Perfect Compliment
(a) appearance, eg. hairstyle, clothing, jewelry
• What an unusual tie. VS• That’s a great tie. Its unusual
design really sets it apart. I always enjoy it when men make fashion statements with their ties.
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8. Sincere & Perfect Compliment
(b) possessions eg. home, new car, cup
• This is a great cup of coffee. VS• I love the richness of
Indonesian Sumantra, and this is a great-size mug.
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8. Sincere & Perfect Compliment
(c) behaviours
• I appreciate how organized you are for our meetings. It makes it easy to get the work done.
• It must have taken a lot of courage to change careers during your peak success. I really admire that.
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9. FORM
(a) Family
• Tell me about your family. Does everyone live in the area ?
• What do you like best about being a father or mother ?
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9. FORM
(b) Occupation
• What got you into your current job/business ?
• What are some of the toughest challenges in your field ?
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9. FORM
(c ) Recreation
• How do you spend your leisure time ?
• What’s been your favourite vacation ?
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9. FORM
(d) Miscellaneous
• Have you seen any good movies lately ?
• What do you thing about the economy ?
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Chapter 8 : Conversational Killers
1. The Interrogator -- Ask open ended questions
2. The Braggart -- Redirect the conversation
3. The One-Upper -- Tough to topple
4. The Monopolizer -- surrender if boss, client, mother-in-law -- for host, invite guest into the dialogue
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Chapter 8 : Conversational Killers
5. The Interrupter -- Exit immediately -- Change the uncomfortable topic right away
6. The Poor Sport -- Answer a closed –ended questions as if had been open-ended
7. The Know-It-All -- What is your opinion ?
8. The Advisor -- Listen , empathy, compassion