Position 3 : Blamer (Mini Script)Transactional Analysis

Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy

Assistant ProfessorIlahia School of Management Studies

Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114

Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com

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Position 3 : BlamerSuppose that as a child, I

decided I was more

comfortable blaming

others for not – Ok

occurrences than blaming

myself. In that case, I may

rapidly shift to the third

position on the

miniscript, the blamer.

Position 3 : Blamer

Here, my life position is “

I am OK, you are not OK”.

I will experience a racket

feeling that fits with this

blaming life position.

Position 3 : Blamer

For example, as I stumble

over my words during the

party conversation, I may

feel irritated with the

others in the group

because they don’t seem

to have understood me.

Position 3 : Blamer

When Taibi Kahler first

drew the miniscript,

he called this third

position “Vengeful

child”.

Position 3 : Blamer

However, the I+U- life position

may be expressed functionally

from negative controlling

parent as well as from

negative adaptive child, so we

think that Kahler’s revised

name “Blamer” is more

appropriate.

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