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REPEATED INCIDENTS

BULLYING AND POWER

MAKES SOMEONE SAD OR AFRAID

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RELATIONAL AGGRESSION

RUMORS

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CYBER-BULLYING e-mail, blogs, Facebook

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EVERYTHING IS PUBLIC

THE INTERNET

CAN’T CONTROL WHO SAVES OR FORWARDS YOUR PHOTOS,

VIDEO, TEXTS, EMAILS OR POSTS

APPS. | EASY ACCESS

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PRIVACY SETTINGS

THINK BEFORE YOU POST

PHOTOS/VIDEOS/INFO.

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PHOTOS OR VIDEOS

SEND OR FORWARDING INAPPROPRIATE

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YES!ARE STUDENTS GETTING INTO TROUBLE?

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BEING SAFE IN THE DIGITAL WORLD

DON’T RESPOND

REPORT ABUSE

TALK TO SOMEONE

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REMEMBER…

RESPECT YOURSELF AND OTHERSWILL RESPECT YOU!

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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

RESPECT AND

A healthy relationship requires trust and honesty—asking someone to send a naked or inappropriate photo as a sign of “trust” is not healthy!

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AND DISRESPECT

INAPPROPRIATE PHOTOS

• If a relationship ends, one person may spread the existing photos to other people to get back at the person who ended the relationship, or to blackmail the person who is trying to end the relationship.

• Someone may try to use cell phone contact to control the person they like and keep constant tabs on where they are, who they are with—this is not healthy or safe!

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TEXTS OR REQUESTS FOR PHOTOS

RESPONDING TO INAPPROPRIATE

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TRY A SERIOUS RESPONSE

• Stress your discomfort: “I’m way too uncomfortable

doing that.”• Emphasize feelings: “If you

really cared for me, you wouldn’t ask me to do that.”

• Change the subject: “Um let’s do something else, ok?”

• Call them out: “Nope, not gonna do anything illegal just to excite you.”

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TRY A FUNNY RESPONSE

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TRY A FUNNY RESPONSE

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PLACES TO GET HELP

www.athinline.comwww.thatsnotcool.comwww.Loveisrespect.orgwww.marccenter.webs.comwww.eyesonbullying.orgwww.commonsensemedia.orgwww.netsmartz/sexting

DOVE, local domestic violence agency www.dovema.org

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QUESTIONS?