Our Parents

Jul 27, 2008 1Author: G. NATARAJAN, Trainer.

Many of us say – Our parents could have been different ( like our friends Parents), and scold God.

We scold God, why you put up me in this family?, and ask him, why not some other family.

God didn’t Chose our parents or other way round.

We ourselves, according to our personality we have matched (chose) each other, at the time of birth.

So It is we who have selected our parents at the time of birth.


4 yrs – My daddy can do anything. 5 yrs – My daddy know a lot. 6 yrs – My dad is smarter than your dad. 8 yrs – My dad doesn’t know exactly everything 10 yrs – In the olden days, when my dad grew up,

things were sure different. 12 yrs – Oh, well, naturally, Dad Doesn’t know

any thing about that. He is too old to remember his childhood.

14 yrs – Don’t pay any attention to my dad. He is so old fashioned.


21 yrs – Him! My lord, he’s hopelessly out of date.

25 yrs – Dad Knows about it, but then he should, because he has been around so long.

30 yrs – May be we should ask dad what he thinks. After all he’s had a lot of experience.

35 yrs – I’m not going to do a single thing until I talk to dad.

40 yrs – I wonder how dad would have handled it. He was so wise. Jul 27, 2008 4Author: G. NATARAJAN, Trainer.

Matha, Pitha, Guru, Thaivam. Parents come first

Any person’s life – Parents play an important role.

We are shaped consciously or unconsciously by the upbringing by our parents.


Our parents have gone through trying times to make us what we are.

Sometimes, we are aware of what they are going through but most of the times they suffer silently.

As children, we take their support and contribution for granted. Jul 27, 2008 6Author: G. NATARAJAN, Trainer.

Our Parents are also human being.

They are not perfect.

Even we are not perfect.

So, it is natural that, they would also have done some mistakes. Unknowingly.

Because of that we cannot cut the relation.


There are only 2 ways to repay them, for their sufferings in bringing up

3.Looking after them on their 2nd Childhood days.

5.By Getting Good Name for ourselves.


Siblings – Brothers & Sisters. Sometimes cousins take up this role. We see them as our competitors & some

times we become possessive about our parents.


They teach us to share things.

They teach us how to overcome possessiveness.

Siblings teach us Kindness & caring

They teach us about Fairness and Cooperation. Team building starts here.

This is a real time and effective training.Jul 27, 2008 11Author: G. NATARAJAN, Trainer.

Our Parents

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