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What’s Inside: Page 2 Message from Cantor Schloss Shabbat Experince Page 3 Ansin Religious School News Mitzvah Day Page 4 & 5 Sisterhood Brotherhood Sisterhood Concert Page 6 Pizza in the Hut Facebook Brookline Networking Group Page 7 Tributes Page 8-9 Circle of Giving Yizkor Elohim Illness? Hospitalization? Birth? Simcha? Please let us know... 617.277.6610 100 Blessings a Day Rabbi John Franken diversity. It makes us a richer, stronger, and, not least, a more interesting community. I particularly wish to invite you to celebrate with our entire community at Shabbat services on November 13 as we welcome Emily Fuchs into the Jewish people and (formally) into our congregation. Emily is one of several conversion students with whom I am working, and anyone interested in doing the same is most welcome to contact me! The President of the Union Reform Judaism, Rabbi Eric Yoffie, once said: “If there is anything at all that Reform Jews do, it is to create an inclusive spiritual home for all those who seek the solace of our sanctuaries. And if this Movement does not extend support to all . . . then we have no right to call ourselves Reform Jews.” For all of us equally are entitled to recite the blessing: Baruch Ata Adonai Eloheinu Melech Ha’Olam She’asani b’Tzalmo. Praised are You O Eternal our God, Master of the Universe, Who has made me in Your image.” The American Jewish family is no longer invariably white, Ashkenazi, and married with two or three kids and a stay-at-home mom. Within just one or two generations, the sociology of American Jewry has been transformed to the point that today we see working mothers, biracial couples, b’nai mitzvah of African, Hispanic or Asian ancestry, gay and lesbian couples, intermarried couples, and many Jews by choice. This is as it should be. Diversity among us is almost as old a phenomenon as uniformity. The Torah teaches that even when we left Egypt, we did so as an erev rav – a mixed multitude” which consisted of different races, cultures and nationalities marching together. Moses himself was married to a dark-skinned, Cushite woman. The acceptance into Jewish life of those who come from backgrounds different from our own is therefore, I would suggest, nothing less than a religious obligation. Even so, it is all too easy to fall into the trap of judging others according to old stereotypes and subjective standards. All too easily we can forget that many of our opinions merely reflect tastes and conditioning which we acquired over time. We forget that those attitudes can fool us into treating them as objective truths. Sometimes the results are innocuous. Other times they can cause pain. Once Rabbi Elazar set off on a journey and came upon a man who greeted him. The rabbi replied, “How ugly you are! Is everyone in this town as ugly as you?” The man thought for a moment and answered, “I do not know, but go and tell the Craftsman who created me.” Deeply ashamed, the rabbi got off his donkey and bowed low seeking forgiveness. (Talmud, Ta’anit 20a- b.) Rabbi Elazar’s example should be a lesson for all of us, individually and as a community. Even as we at Temple Ohabei Shalom take justifiable pride in being an open, warm, inclusive and welcoming community, so let us always embrace each other and celebrate our Progressive in attitude yet traditional in practice, Temple Ohabei Shalom is an inclusive Reform Jewish community committed to nurturing, sustaining, and touching Jewish lives through joyful worship, life long-learning, and repair of the world in word and deed. October 2009/Tishrei-Cheshvan 5770 Tidings Temple Ohabei Shalom - Judaism in Motion Join us in Israel: December 20 - January 3! Jerusalem. The Dead Sea. The Ramon Crater. The Galilee. Haifa. Tel Aviv. It's all there! Join us for the trip of a lifetime as immerse ourselves in the history and contemporary reality of modern Israel! For more information, please visit our website, ohabei.org, or contact Keshet Israel or Rabbi Franken. Friends and family of members are welcome to participate. The registration deadline is now Oct. 10.

Transcript of October 2009 Tidings Newsletter, Temple Ohabei Shalom

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What’s Inside: Page 2 • Message from Cantor

Schloss • Shabbat Experince Page 3 • Ansin Religious School

News • Mitzvah Day Page 4 & 5 • Sisterhood • Brotherhood • Sisterhood Concert Page 6 • Pizza in the Hut • Facebook • Brookline Networking

Group Page 7 • Tributes Page 8-9 • Circle of Giving • Yizkor Elohim

Illness? Hospitalization?

Birth? Simcha?

Please let us know...

617.277.6610

100 Blessings a Day Rabbi John Franken

diversity. It makes us a richer, stronger, and, not least, a more interesting community. I particularly wish to invite you to celebrate with our entire community at Shabbat services on November 13 as we welcome Emily Fuchs into the Jewish people and (formally) into our congregation. Emily is one of several conversion students with whom I am working, and anyone interested in doing the same is most welcome to contact me!

The President of the Union Reform

Judaism, Rabbi Eric Yoffie, once said: “If there is anything at all that Reform Jews do, it is to create an inclusive spiritual home for all those who seek the solace of our sanctuaries. And if this Movement does not extend support to all . . . then we have no right to call ourselves Reform Jews.” For all of us equally are entitled to recite the blessing: Baruch Ata Adonai Eloheinu Melech Ha’Olam She’asani b’Tzalmo. Praised are You O Eternal our God, Master of the Universe, Who has made me in Your image.”

The American Jewish family is no longer invariably white, Ashkenazi, and married with two or three kids and a stay-at-home mom. Within just one or two generations, the sociology of American Jewry has been transformed to the point that today we see working mothers, biracial couples, b’nai mitzvah of African, Hispanic or Asian ancestry, gay and lesbian couples, intermarried couples, and many Jews by choice.

This is as it should be. Diversity among us is

almost as old a phenomenon as uniformity. The Torah teaches that even when we left Egypt, we did so as an “erev rav – a mixed multitude” which consisted of different races, cultures and nationalities marching together. Moses himself was married to a dark-skinned, Cushite woman. The acceptance into Jewish life of those who come from backgrounds different from our own is therefore, I would suggest, nothing less than a religious obligation.

Even so, it is all too easy to fall into the trap of judging others according to old stereotypes and subjective standards. All too easily we can forget that many of our opinions merely reflect tastes and conditioning which we acquired over time. We forget that those attitudes can fool us into treating them as objective truths. Sometimes the results are innocuous. Other times they can cause pain.

Once Rabbi Elazar set off on a journey and came upon a man who greeted him. The rabbi replied, “How ugly you are! Is everyone in this town as ugly as you?” The man thought for a moment and answered, “I do not know, but go and tell the Craftsman who created me.” Deeply ashamed, the rabbi got off his donkey and bowed low seeking forgiveness. (Talmud, Ta’anit 20a-b.)

Rabbi Elazar’s example should be a lesson for all of us, individually and as a community. Even as we at Temple Ohabei Shalom take justifiable pride in being an open, warm, inclusive and welcoming community, so let us always embrace each other and celebrate our

Progressive in attitude yet traditional in practice, Temple Ohabei Shalom is an inclusive Reform Jewish community committed to nurturing, sustaining, and touching Jewish lives through joyful worship, life

long-learning, and repair of the world in word and deed.

October 2009/Tishrei-Cheshvan 5770

Tidings Temple Ohabei Shalom - Judaism in Motion

Join us in Israel: December 20 - January 3! Jerusalem. The Dead Sea. The Ramon Crater. The Galilee. Haifa. Tel Aviv. It's all there! Join us for the trip of a lifetime as immerse ourselves in the history and contemporary reality of modern Israel! For more information, please visit our website, ohabei.org, or contact Keshet Israel or Rabbi Franken. Friends and family of members are welcome to participate. The registration deadline is now Oct. 10.

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Worship

Cantor Randall Schloss

One of the most beautiful aspects of Judaism for me is its wealth of tradition. Despite the oft-heard request to sing the “traditional” tune for a given piece of liturgy, there is no such thing. Due to the worldwide, thousands-of-years-old Jewish experience, our ritual traditions are rich and varied. And in no synagogue is this diversity more evident than here at Temple Ohabei Shalom. Our newly adopted mission statement reads: Progressive in attitude yet traditional in practice, Temple Ohabei Shalom is an inclusive Reform Jewish community committed to nurturing, sustaining, and touching Jewish lives through joyful worship, life long learning, and repair of the world in word and deed. How better to express the apparent paradox of “progressive” and “traditional” than through contemporary experiences that draw on myriad traditions.

And our liturgy and rituals are themselves drawn from combinations of experiences. The Jewish year moves from liturgical remnants of Temple sacrifice, to festivals recognizing the natural world in which we live and its agricultural bounty, to services of repentance and reflection. None of these modes of worship is more particularly “traditional” or authentic than another. Similarly, when I present music for worship, I try to incorporate many versions of what might be termed “traditional” as well as “progressive” elements. I mix the meditative with the celebratory and the inspirational, the new with the old, and the East with the West. Musical selections during a worship service can be a little bit like what people say about the weather here in Boston: Wait five minutes… it will change.

I encourage all of you, in this New Year 5770, to try to broaden your Jewish experience. If you are one who comes to services as an observer or a more passive participant, try singing along and join in the creation of our community experience. If you are one who loves to sing along, try simply listening every now and then; our ears and brains can be as powerful as our voices. If you are primarily involved in our community through committees or volunteerism, try adding worship services or educational opportunities to your Synagogue experience. Or if you are mostly a regular service attendee, join a committee or volunteer. Your synagogue needs you in many ways.

In this New Year, may we all enjoy and be fulfilled by the tapestry of experiences that our traditions and our synagogue can offer.

Shabbat at Temple Ohabei Shalom Unique Shabbat Experiences for Everyone!

Tot Shabbat First Friday of the month (through June), 5:45pm Join Rabbi Franken and Cantor Schloss as they bring the Shabbat experience alive for the youngest participants in our community. Evening will include activities, music, dancing, and optional dinner for all participants. Shabbat Rishon First Friday of the month (through June), 7:30pm service An opportunity for special programs and a discussions with scholars and local dignitaries. A dessert oneg always follows! Judaism in Motion Usually the third Friday of the month (please check the website and monthly Tidings for most up to date information), 6:00pm Too often we think of Jewish worship as a series of ordinary acts: responsive readings, standing, sitting, listening, etc. During our Judaism in Motion services in particular, we bring worship to life, combining lively music, spiritual texts and other media to create a holistic, vibrant Shabbat experience for our entire congregation. A Shabbat dinner is offered after services for the entire community. Shabbat Mishpacha (Family Shabbat Celebrations) Join our community for blessings, singing, and stories. Come celebrate and create a memorable and meaningful Shabbat experience for families with children of all ages. Shabbat B’yachad First Saturday morning of each month, 9:30am-12:30pm An opportunity for ARS families to come together to celebrate Shabbat. The morning will include a unique worship service with our Clergy and engaging programming. The morning will conclude with a community kiddush allowing us to experience the true meaning of Shabbat: a festive meal with family and friends. Friday Night Lights: Conversations to Set Your Mind Aglow Shabbat evenings highlighting speakers from our congregation with dinner and roundtable discussion. Please see the Tidings calendar as well as our online calendar at www.ohabei.org for the most up to date information!

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Mitzvah Day 2009 November 8th, starting at 9:00 am. Please join us for our 3rd Annual TOS Mitzvah Day on Sunday, November 8th, starting at 9:00 am. Last year we had over 200 congregants of all ages participating, including kids, teens, families, and seniors. Please come back and bring a friend or two, or come for the first time. Mitzvah Day participants from last year said that they: -felt good about the community service they did. -had fun working with others towards a common goal. -enjoyed hanging out with old friends and meeting new ones. -appreciated being part of an intergenerational project. Mitzvah Day is not just for kids! We need adult participation and leadership in our service projects. Please consider serving as a co-captain for one of our projects. We can help you figure out which project would best suit your interests. You can choose an in-house service project to join, or leave TOS to do a project based in the community. Stay tuned for our list of projects –popular projects from last year will be back, along with some exciting additions! Want to get involved? Become a project captain. (contact Susan Zeiger for more information, [email protected] or call 617 354-8438) Encourage a friend or neighbor to join you for this special day! Mitzvah Day Co-Chairs Debbie Klein, [email protected] Milly Krakow, [email protected] Susan Zeiger, [email protected]

No School October 10 - 12 Columbus Day Weekend Community-Wide Programs Erev Simchat Torah Service and Consecration Friday, October 9, 6:00 PM Join the congregation as our Kindergarten and new students celebrate the beginning of their Jewish Education and Grade 3 students are called to the bimah to receive their first study Torah from the ARS. ARS Back to School Nights Come and meet the teachers and learn about our new classroom curriculum. Dinner will be served on both evenings. Jr. Chai & High School Monday, October 5, 6:00 – 8:30 pm Grades K - 6 Tuesday, October 27, 5:45 – 7:00 pm Join us for Shabbat B’yachad Saturday, October 3, 2009 An opportunity for ARS families to come together to celebrate Shabbat. The morning will include a unique worship service with our clergy and engaging programming. The morning will conclude with a festival meal with family and friends allowing us to experience the true meaning of Shabbat. 9:30 am – 10:10 am Family Shabbat Service with Rabbi Franken and Cantor Schloss

10:15 am – 12:15 pm Family Programming

12: 15 pm Community Kiddush

Important ARS Dates: Mark Your Calendars!

Ansin Religious School & Community Mitzvah Day

Mazel Tov to our Bar Mitzvah!

Joshua Schegolev October 3, 2009

For his Mitzvah Project, Josh chose to support Grassroot Soccer (GRS). GRS trains African soccer stars, coaches, teachers, and peer educators in the world’s most HIV-affected countries to deliver an interactive

HIV prevention and life skills curriculum to youth. This organization uses the power of soccer in the fight against HIV and AIDS. As an avid and competitive soccer player for the past 8 years, Josh is excited and honored to support this vital cause.

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The Officers and Executive Board of the Brotherhood extends their heartfelt condolences to Spence & Eddie Gould for the sudden passing of Betsy Gould. Her memory will always be a blessing to all of those who knew her.

Our October event will be the Installation Ceremony for the 2009-2010 slate of officers. Please add to your calendar on Thursday, October 15th at 6:30 pm, when John Shalett, newly elected North American President of Men of Reform Judaism (MRJ), will preside over the installation activities. He will bring greetings from the MRJ National Board and discuss the significance and impact of the Jewish Chautauqua Society and its educational programs. This program is open to the entire community however reservations are required to attend the dinner reception which will immediately follow the Installation Ceremony. Please RSVP by Thursday, October 8, 2009, by either calling Jerry at 617-731-5736, or by emailing [email protected].

Our November event will take place on Tuesday, November 17, 2009, at 6:30 PM. This is a Annual Sisterhood Pot Luck Supper and Movie Night with Brotherhood. The Sisterhood will bring main courses. The Brotherhood will bring dessert and popcorn. The movie is titled Arranged, and concerns arranged marriages. This movie should prove to be an enjoyable event with the Sisterhood and will also prove to be informative. Please RSVP by either calling Jerry at 617-731-5736 or by emailing [email protected].

The following is an open letter to all the Men of the Congregation, our current and past brothers and the Jewish men of the Greater Boston Community from Howard Koor, VP of Membership:

I am writing you to consider getting involved with our Brotherhood, which is the Men’s Club at Temple Ohabei Shalom.

We have monthly meetings, usually with a guest speaker, dinner is served and there is time to schmooze. I have been in the Brotherhood about 10 years and it has enriched my life and connection to our Temple immensely. I know people that I did not know before and just as importantly, they know me.

I enjoy our meetings. I get to see old friends and meet new ones. I don't have to impress anyone with my job title or business success. I just get to relate to people that I truly enjoy spending time with.

In addition to an increased connection to our Temple, being in the Brotherhood helps serve the greater good of Ohabei Shalom. Our annual Breakfast with the Brothers is a big hit and raises funds we contribute back to the Temple.

I know many of you are involved with various Ohabei Shalom activities now, but I encourage you to give us a chance this year and see if your participation enhances your life as it has mine.

Please feel free to call Howard at 617-257-3868 for more information.

As always, the Brotherhood wishes to thank everyone who has remembered to bring in or mail in there stamped Butcherie receipts. Please continue to support this vital program.

Sisterhood News

Auxiliaries

Brotherhood News Jonathan Atkins & Louis Goldman Zita Samuels

It is with great sadness that we mourn the passing of our beloved sister and past president Betsy Gould. Her achievements and dedication went far beyond Sisterhood to the entire synagogue community of Ohabei Shalom. As a Sisterhood president Betsy led us for four years with wisdom and dedication, spending countless hours organizing events and programming, always thinking of the greater good of the Sisterhood and the temple. After her presidency she continued to sit on the Sisterhood Board as an active participant, helped with our events, and wrote the monthly article for Tidings. She also served on the TOS Board of Trustees.

For the past twelve years Betsy chaired the Mitzvah Committee. In that role she organized mitzvah visits to temple shut-ins – bringing them gifts and cheer. She sent Chanukah and Pesach packages to college students away from home to enable them to celebrate these important Jewish holidays. In addition she spearheaded the annual toy drive that brought gifts and vitamins to children who are patients at the Boston Medical Center Grow Clinic.

We plan to dedicate our Sisterhood Concert to Betsy. It will take place on Sunday, October 25 at 3 PM. We will be entertained by our own mistress of song, Estelle Katz, who will present an exciting program that will include American standards as well as Hebrew and Yiddish favorites. Please come; help us raise funds for synagogue activities and Sisterhood programs; and especially to hear Estelle and honor Betsy. Tickets in advance are $15 ($5 for children under 12); they will be $18 at the door. Please make checks for concert tickets payable to Sisterhood, mark concert in the memo and mail to TOS. Indicate how many tickets you are ordering for adults and children. Advance tickets will be held at the door.

We have established the Betsy Gould Mitzvah Fund through the Sisterhood to honor Betsy and to fund the continuation of her work on Mitzvah Projects (twice yearly mitzvah visits to shut-ins; Pesach and Chanukah packages to college students; and the Toy Drive for the Grow Clinic). Please mail any donations c/o Sisterhood, TOS, 1187 Beacon St. Brookline, MA 02446. Make checks payable to Sisterhood and mark Betsy Gould Mitzvah Fund in the memo.

For your advance calendar, there will be a Sisterhood-Brotherhood Pot Luck Supper and Movie Night on Tuesday, November 17, 6:30 PM. We plan to show the movie Arranged, an engaging film about two young teachers in Brooklyn, an Orthodox Jew and a Muslim, who discover they have a shared expectation of entering into arranged marriages.

Finally, please remember to send in your Sisterhood dues payment if you have not yet done so. If you did not receive the mailing, please let me know and I will send you another (617-277-3653 or [email protected]). Many thanks for your support of Sisterhood.

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Join the TOS Group on Facebook! Search “Temple Ohabei Shalom” and click “Join this group.” See photos from recent events, connect with other members, past and present, get notices on TOS programs, and more! If you have suggestions on expanding our group, please e-mail [email protected]. See you online!

Community

Diane K. Trust Center “Challah Days”!

The Diane K. Trust Center for Early Education of Tem-ple Ohabei Shalom is pleased to announce the beginning of its “Challah Days” program. Families enrolled in the center and Congregants will have the opportunity to pre-order a delicious challah, freshly baked by Jason Kriger, and have it labeled and waiting for them on Friday morn-ings in the synagogue foyer or at the Center. The pro-ceeds of this program provide challah for the Center’s special Shabbat celebrations and support and enhance the programs of the Center as well. Order forms are available in both the Temple and Early Childhood Center offices and delivery will begin October 16. Thank you for your participation and bete’avon!

Brookline Networking Group (BrNG) meetings are open to everyone in Brookline and outlying communities. Join us to learn job search and business networking skills, hear expert presentations including how to become a consultant, the steps needed to build one’s own business, finding the hidden job market, and other timely topics. When: Third Tuesday of every month, from 7 to 9 PM Next meeting October 20 Where: Temple Ohabei Shalom, 1187 Beacon Street, Brookline. LinkedIN Group site: Brookline Networking Group (BrNG). To receive ongoing information about this group please send an email to BrooklineNetworking­[email protected] or visit our website,

JOIN US FOR PIZZA IN THE HUT AS WE WELCOME SHABBAT!

Friday, October 2 Tot Shabbat 5:45 PM Community Pizza Dinner 6:30 PM Shabbat Rishon Service 7:30 PM Come spend the holiday with your Ohabei Shalom Family! There is no charge for dinner, but an RSVP is required, 617-277-6610. We hope to see you there!

Bylaws Task Force

Current revisions of the Temple Ohabei Shalom Bylaws can be viewed online at www.ohabei.org. Revisions will be presented for approval at a Congregational Meeting to be scheduled for this fall.

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Tributes Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Dick & Carol Daynard Dick & Carol Daynard Judith Sharlin & Hillel Todres Irene & Barry Gilbert

Betsy Gould Mitzvah Fund Ita Wiener Zita Samuels Elaine Cohen Estelle Katz Amy Hozid Julie Boris Judith Halper Margie Kahn Dottie Berman Sisterhood

Flower Fund Judith Halper

General Fund Dorothy Berman Shirley Spero Harvey & Rhonda Solomon Gert Goldberg R.K. Shelley Schwartz R.K. Shelley Schwartz Olga Lev Brotherhood of TOS Ed & Marjorie Kahn Spence, Betsy & Eddie Gould Estelle Katz Daniel & Eva Deykin Richard Oshry Larry & Denise Green John & Beth Gamel Michael Weintraub & Diane Rosen Doris Zich Bernard Plovnick Elaine Cohen David & Gladys Chleck Shari Lisann & Chip Shore Shari Lisann & Chip Shore

Alice Tumarkin R.K. Shelley Schwartz

Minyan Fund Aileen B. Cabitt Alan & Pamela Lipsitz Ms. Esther P. Gorfine

In Memory of Lawrence Franken Sarah Gopen Weintraub In Appreciation of Rabbi Franken’s comfort and kindness Rabbi Franken’s officiating the wedding of Joshua and Karina Stavitsky Gilbert

In Memory of Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould Betsy Gould

In Memory of Beatrice E. Halper

In Memory of Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Sarah Gopen Weintraub Rose Gould Genya & Isaak Lisitsa Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Rose Gould Family members listed on TOS tributes Larry Franken Rose Gould

In Appreciation of Prayers for her sister Esther Goldberg Recent Honors

In Memory of Roger James Cabitt Clara Balkan Abraham Pasarevsky

Mr. & Mrs. Stuart Kimball Mrs. Elaine Rosen Sandra Borns Selma Gordon Carl Ostroff Judith Palefsky Richard & Roslyn Wennett David Pearlman Zita Samuels Diane & Fred Berk June Hurwitz Dr. Bernard Kliman Raymond Mannos Richard Oshry Susan Liberman Bernice Wyzanski Pauline Rhodes Doris Zich Jessica Shoher Corinne Gilbert Louis Burke Ita N. Weiner Harold & Sylvia Koritz Elinor Goldman Osa Kamp Osa Kamp Lillian Zabarsky Carol Ann Friedman Ann Fries Shirley Spero Margie Birnbaim Phyllis Ruskin Dana Myron Wasserman Galina Friedman Herbert & Hanna Bloom Zeiger Barry & Mimi Follick Standley & Adele Brown Judith Halper Seymour Saslaw Emiliya Emilfaro Eugene & Eva Duetsch Donald Levine Selma Bengis Betsy & Spence Gould Saul & Doris Feldman Edwin Lewis & Resa Lewis Arovas Jon Rotenberg

Music & Worship Fund R.K. Shelley Schwartz

Prayer Book Fund Michael Weintraub & Diane Rosen Esther Strachman R.K. Shelley Schwartz

Samuel P. Kimball Richard S. Rosen Sam Solotkin M. Paul Gordon Martha Ostroff Robert Rideman Natalie Wennett Matilda Pearlman Rose Gould Lesser Jerome Brown Benjamin Alberg Samuel Rice & David Kliman Paul Mannos Rose Gould Anna Lasner Liberman William J. Wyzanski Frank I. Rhodes Arthur Zich Jeanne B. Shoher George Ellis Charles Burke Mark Keller Sarah Gregloit Justin D. Goldman Berta Von Bargen Heidi Kamp Rifka Finer Sam Finkelstein Harry Shaffer Molly Sheiman Arthur Zich & Sydney Birn-baum Charles Dana Sarah Z. Wasserman Yanina Arouis Bernard Bloom our loved ones Ethel Kozol Shapiro Beatrice E. Halper Sylvia Glick Fanya Cherkassky George Balash Rose Levin Rose Gould Gert Goldberg Larry Franken Shepard & Ida Lewis Fay Rotenberg

In Honor of Cantor Randall M. Schloss

In Honor of The Marriage of Elena Brachtel & Simon Singer Rachel Dresner The Trust Center for Early Education

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Yizkor Elohim

Bertha Jackson Bertram Nachman Bessie R. Schwartz * Bessie Semlock * Bessie Slosberg * Betty Goldberg Bruce Gordon Cantor Alfred Rosbash Celia B. Foster Celia S. Berlin * Claire Green Cohen Clara Papp * Cornelius K. Helpern * Daniel A. Myerberg * Daniel Todres David Gould * David M. Horblit * David Melnick David Miller David Morningstar * Deborah Kravitz Deborah Sitkoff Diana Gordon * Doris Jacobs Dorothy Braunstein Dorothy R. Zakon * Dr. Samuel Lopatin Edward B. Bernhardt * Edward Sisson * Elaine Frank Halpern Elaine Walker Eleanor Robbie" Laskey" * Elise Marmorek Elliot Minkin Elsa Leeser Elsie Nachinoff Enid L. Snyder * Erich Lebach Ernest Kahn

Aaron Fialkow Aaron Jacob Oppenheim Aaron Rosenstein Abbott M. Ruby * Abraham Bloom Abraham Katz Abraham Kurinsky Abraham M. Lubell * Adolph Aronson Albert A. Ginzberg * Albert Bretman Albert Widoff Alfred Halpern Alice Rogers * Amelia Fishel Ann Sweet * Anna Weiss * Anna Yona Anne Carmen Segal * Annette H. Rosen * Annie Barron Ullian * Annie Caro Annie Dunn Archie H. Silver Armin Adrian * Arnold Grandberg Arnold Silin * Aurelia M. Fuchs Barbara Anitra Macey * Barnett Samuels * Beatrice R. Levine Brezniak * Belle Burke Belle Hacker Benjamin A. Trustman * Benjamin H. Lazarus Benjamin Pearl * Bernard Gilbert Bernard M. Wollenberg Bernice Kaufman

We extend our deepest sympathy to their families. Those listed below are recorded in our Book of Remembrance,

windows, or on memorial plaques. An asterisk indicates that the plaque will be illuminated during the Shabbat of yahrzeit.

Betsy Gould, wife of Spencer Gould, mother to Edward Gould Rose Gould, mother of Spencer Gould Leonard Benfeld, uncle of Beth & Nadine Braunstein The Circle of Giving

5770 The Circle of Giving provides for consistency in our funding and gives everyone the opportunity to join in supporting our community above and beyond the annual membership commitment. We cannot place a price on the spirit and warmth of our community. The circle is made whole when you participate every year. Join us this year as we strive for 100% congregant participation in our annual appeal. In a bountiful show of support, every elected Officer and Trustee of Temple Ohabei Shalom has made an advance pledge toward our annual appeal.

George Bazer ● Danit Ben-Ari & Tom Marton ● Cherise & Bob Bransfield ● Jesse Cochin & Alice

Newton ● Len Davidson & Laurie Katzman ● Steven Davis ● Dick & Carol Daynard ● Dan & Eva Deykin ●

Saul & Doris Feldman ● Louis Goldman ● Doug & Toni Gordon ● Spencer & Betsy (k z) Gould ● Larry &

Denise Green ● Arnie & Tracy Greenfield ● Bill & Marcia Harris ● Ed & Betsy Jacobs ● Ed & Margie

Kahn ● Jonathan Kaufman & Barbara Howard ● Stan Keizer ● Hana Kolton-Patsouris & Peter Patsouris ●

Dan Krueger ● Ellen Mosner & Howard Koor ● Josh & Tanya Paris ● Zita Samuels ● Adrienne Shishko & Joel Sklar ● Chip Shore & Shari Lisann ● Simon Singer &

Elena Brachtel ● Cathryn Stein & David Seldin ● Ronny Sydney ● Kathy Thorp & Josh Shmikler ●

Cassandra Warshowsky & Jeff Colt ● Michael Weintraub & Diane Rosen

Add your name to our growing list of generous givers. Your gift is critical to keeping TOS a warm and vibrant

community.

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Esther Brecher Esther Eppie Smith * Esther Park Woolf Esther Salomon * Etta Freedman * Etta Sheinwald Eugene R. Eisenberg Evelyn A. Bleich Evelyn Galer Evelyn Gold Evelyn Goldberg Fannie Bickwid Fannie Hurwitz Florence Blinn Florence M. Rhodes * Frances Cohen Jacobs * Frances Koller Frank Rosoff * Freda Small Fredric Ellis Cohn Freida F. Raphael * Fritze M. Nelson George Taylor George Woron Gertrude Valentine Wyner Gilbert Shmikler Godfrey M. Hyams Goldie Karmelin * Goldye Schwartz * Goodwin Bloomberg Grace Lopatin Hannah Levy Harold Ansin Harold C. Kagan * Harold I. Shulman * Harold M. Shoher Harriet P. Levine * Harris Gorfinkle * Harry D. Zabarsky Harry Lipson * Harry Schertzer Harry Sharaf * Hasia Resnik Herbert P. Freedman * Herman Albertson * Hiram J. Levi Hope Goldstein Hyman DuKaten Hyman Portnoy Hyman S. Levy * Ida Brooks * Ida Darish * Ida Esther Glotzer *

Ida Halperin Ida Weilheimer Idah Gelber Irving A. Levy Irving Glickman * Isaac Madow Isador Levine Isadore Albert Peake Isadore Slotnick * Isidor Linsky * Israel Gordon * Jacob Bickwid Jacob H. Levine * Jacob Nathan * Jacob P. Wachtel * Jacob Uhr * Jacob Wolf James Berns * Jane Smith-Hutton * Jeanette Hannah Gunsenhiser * Jennie Gordon Jennie Lipof Jennie Raphael Jerry Glauber * Jesse A. Rubin * Joe Officer John D. Marks Jonathan A. Odence * Joseph Cochin Joseph Falkson * Joseph M. Cobe Joseph M. Gordon Joseph M. Koufman * Joseph M. Kritzer Joseph Rubin Joseph Silin Joseph Young Judith Mulman Julia M. Trustman * Kalman Finer * Kalman Shpekton Karen Koritz Estock Katie Bertha Harris Kenneth Sisson * Lauren Michelle Edwards Lena Anthony Wax Lena Barnet Nathan * Leonard S. Koffman Leonard Smokler * Leopold Stern * Lester Levin Levy Herman Lillian Rice

Louis B. Fox * Louis Burkhardt Louis Gordon Louis I. Silverman * Mann Prager Margaret Wyner Maria Lopez Marilyn Francer Mary Kalisky Mary Slater Matilda B. Linsky * Max Olansky * Meg Vanderwal Mildred S. Landay * Milton Lewenberg Mina Esther Simons Minna Simpson * Minnie Weiner Morris Diamond Morris Greenhood * Morris I. Scolnick Morris S. Silverman * Morris Strecker Moses Dubinsky Myrtle Klain Naomi Gordon Nat Aronowitz Nathan Cohen Nathan P. Harris * Nathan Rosen * Nathan Yarrin Nathaniel Gordon Newton D. Anthony * Paul Hoffman * Pauline A. Dobkin * Pauline B. Kotzen * Pauline B. Lubell * Pauline Kachelnik Pauline Mann Pauline Raphael Pessie Trustman * Philip Berler * Philip Prager Phillip Stahl Philmore Gilbert Phyllis S. Greene Rachael Bornstein Rachel Mordecai * Rachel Nelson Rae Levine Rebecca Hyman Seidler * Regina L. Fleisher * Richard A. Harris * Richard A. Haskell *

Richard Faber Richard M. Levine * Robert W. Cobe * Rona J. Winer Rose Barber Rose DuKaten Rose M. Broomfield * Ruth Birnbach Ruth Brans Ruth Pearl Hiller Ruth S. Goldenberg Ruth Tirk * S. Rachel Dangel * Sadie A. Ross Sadie E. Ginsburg Samuel Berger Samuel Goldenberg Samuel H. Knopf * Samuel Halper * Samuel Heiderman Samuel Hurwitz * Samuel Katz Samuel Klain Samuel Pardo * Samuel Peckerman Sandra Rowe Block * Sarah Lass Sarah Lowenberg * Selig Simons * Selma Herberta Goldman * Selma K. Lewenberg * Shmul Dukach Simon Barnard Simon K. Cohen Sol Kahn Solon Lopatin Sophia Raphael Stephen M. Hootstein Thelma Himmel Thomas C. Martin Vera Marshall William B. Sedlis * Wolf Berk Yefim Segal Yoseph Subary

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October Calendar

Leadership Staff and Executive Board John A. Franken, Rabbi

Randall M. Schloss, Cantor Emily G. Lipof, Rabbi Emerita

Steven Davis, Executive Director Shari A. Churwin, Education Director

Karen Glansberg, Director of Early Education Kate Mikesh, Dir. Informal Education

David Sparr, Music Director

Jesse Cochin, President Arnie Greenfield, Vice President

Cathryn Stein, Vice President Michael Weintraub, Vice President

Ronny Sydney, Vice President Martin Shore, Assistant Treasurer

Daniel W. Krueger, Recording Secretary

New Daily Worship Service Schedule

Monday - Thursday: 8 am & 6pm Friday: 8 am Sunday and legal holidays: 9:00 am & 6pm Please note there is no Saturday Daily Worship Service at 6pm.

There are openings for new leaders. If this interests you, contact Ita N. Wiener at 617-734-7137 or Spencer Gould at 781-329-7439. Thank you!

October Candle Lighting Times

2 - 6:07p.m. 9 - 5:55 p.m.

16 - 5:44 p.m. 23 - 5:33 p.m. 30 - 5:23 p.m.

2 5:45pm Tot Shabbat 6:30pm Pizza in the Hut (RSVP required) 7:30pm Shabbat Rishon - Sukkot 3 9:30am ARS Shabbat B’Yachad 10:30am Shabbat Service Bar Mitzvah Joshua Schegolev 5 6:00pm Junior Chai & High School Back to School Night 6 3:30pm Ansin Religious School 9 6:00pm Simchat Torah & Consecration Service 10 10:30am Shabbat Services 12 Columbus Day - Office Closed, no Junior Chai or High School 13 3:30pm Ansin Religious School 7:00pm Board of Trustees Meeting 15 6:30pm Brotherhood Installation 16 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Services 17 9:00am Adult B’nei Mitzvah Class 9:30am Shabbat School 10:30am Shabbat Services 19 6:00pm Junior Chai & High School 20 3:30pm Ansin Religious School 23 6:00pm Judaism in Motion Shabbat Service

7:15pm Congregational Shabbat Dinner 24 9:00am Adult B’nei Mitzvah Class 9:30am Shabbat School 10:30am Shabbat Services Bat Mitzvah Zoe Leibovitch 25 3:00pm Sisterhood Concert 26 6:00pm Junior Chai & High School 27 3:30pm Ansin Religious School Back to School Night 6:30pm Executive Board Meeting 30 6:00pm Erev Shabbat Services 31 9:00am Adult B’nei Mitvzah Class 9:30am Shabbat School 10:30am Shabbat Services November 2 6:00pm Junior Chai & High School 3 3:30pm Ansin Religious School 6 5:45pm Tot Shabbat 6:30pm Shabbat Dinner 7:30pm Shabbat Rishon 7 9:00am Adult B’nei Mitzvah Class 10:30am Shabbat Services