Notes Day Game Programme From a to z

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Day Game

Particularits du Day Game :

Niveau dnergie normale

Contrainte de temps lgitimeKino avec des particularits

Aboutit sur une fixation de date

Modle en Day Game

Pre-opener pour la mettre dans un mode social => Qualification => Instant date => #numclose

Indirect

Pre-opener + teasing -> opener -> qualification (attract) -> Instant date -> rapport -> TB

Direct

Opener -> qualification (attract) -> instant date -> rapport -> TB

Peut tre fair en 30 secondes

2 points de repre dans ton Game :

-la qualification : le SOI dclenche le buyer choice

- linstant date

Si tu as les 2, tu es sr que la nana te kiffe.

Confort social->

Question sociale

Rend la nana confortable dans le fait de te parler. Une question base sur la manire de communiqu dont elle a dj lhabitude. Doit tre dutilit situationnelle Conduit la qualification Le confort social nest pas de lattraction. Attraction just allows you access to her. Exemples:

Dis-moi, tu sais o est la rue X ?Tu sais comment cuisiner a ?Tu sais o est la banque ?

Qualification

Qualification = compliment Devrait tre sur un intrt lgitime que tu as pour elle Conduit une instant date Exemple :

o Qui es-tu et quest-ce qui te diffrencie des autres nanas ?

Instant Date

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nstant date, cest simplement aller dans un autre endroit avec elle Le mouvement est le test ultime dattraction Cela cres une dynamique on est ensemble au lieu de on vient juste de se rencontrer Conduit au #close et TB Exemples

o " Jai vraiment envie daller prendre une bouteille deau la boulangerie !


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Teasing

Playful Banter, witty Prliminaires Verbals Surnoms Il y a des frames lintrieure Conduit aux jeux de rles

Frames

Cest le sens sous-jacent de lintraction. Contrler activement la frame : tu fais quelque chose Contrler passivement la frame : les choses arrivent sans que personne ne fasse quoi que ce soit

Jeu de rle

Etablit des rles qui sont fun et avec lesquelles tu peux dlirer Permet de prendre la distance et de lobjectivit de la situation actuelle CF sex and the city Exemples

o Assistante personnelleo Past Adventures Projectiono Future Adventures Projection

Push/Pull and Seesaws

Send mixed signals and unpredictability

Very attractive Must balance the seesaw between too nice and too mean

Classic example:o "I can already tell that you and I are not going to get along:

Challenges

Cest important parce quen tant quhumains on rpond au challenge Exemples

o Combat de pouceo Tu devais rendre tes parents fouo Je mange les petites filles comme toi

Teasing with Framing

Prend la forme de tease en un petit mot Exemples:

o Oh mon dieu, tu es troublanteo Tu es une bad girl

Openers

Utiliser aprs les questions socials et le teasing pour commencer une conversation intressante Le but dun opener est juste de lancer une conversation Peut tre un opener dopinion, ou un opener dobservation, ou un opener direct. Il y a une chelle de risque/rcompense


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Opinion Openers

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Faible sur une chelle des risques et des recompenses. 1 : la question 2 : la rponse

3 : La raison pour laquelle tu lui poses la question (grounding) 4 : note humoristique (tease sur sa rponse) Exemples:

o Combien de temps tu prends pour te prparer ?

Observational Openers

Fait une observation sur une nana ou utilise une routine Fort sur lchelle des risques Exemples o Routine des bagues

Peut juste tre un cold reading

Direct Openers vs. Indirect Openers

Direct Openers Indirect Openers

Forces you out of your comfort zone Stays in comfort zone

Girl may reject youGirl is rejecting the approach,

Has its own place not you Has its own place

Direct Openers

Commencer une conversation avec lattente de faire sa connaissance. Une bonne approche directe est le fait de dmontrer la nana que tu es un homme fort qui na pas perde se rendre vulnrable devant une nana Lapproche te concerne plus quelle Framing : Tu es le type de mec qui approche les nanas qui lattirent Srieux, congruent, engager, honnte Forces la nana faire directement un choix Exemples

oHey, je tai vu et je tai trouv adorable, alors a ma donn envie de venir te parler !\

Indirect Openers

Pas forcment intress par son avis, juste lavis des femmes Plyful, marrant, social, fun Prend plus de temps que lapproche direct Exemples

o Opinion openerso Observational openers

30 Secondes Phones number closes

- 1 : Dclaration passive (Dis-moi, je sais que cest trs alatoire)- 2: Opener direct (Mais, on vient juste de se croiser et je savais que si je ne viens pas me prsenter jallais le

regretter tout le restant de la journe. Moi cest Jacques-Marie.)- 3 : Elle devrait recevoir un choque motionnel- 4 : Grosse Qualification ( Enchant de te rencontrer X, et quest ce qui te rend spcial ?)- 5 : Prendre le numro- Exemple


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o Jai juste une minute parce que je dois rejoindre un ami, donc voila ce quon va faire : on va faire unchange de contact tlphonique, et si on sadore au tlphone, peut tre quon pourra se revoir plutard.

Les cls de lapproche directe

Engagement : Tu veux tre engag dans le moment et dans ce que tu dis Intensit motionnelle : embrasse ta nervosit Honntet : a aide de faire a sur les nanas avec lesquelles tu es compatible Une frame de screening : lui montrer que la beaut ne suffit pas Exemples : et quest-ce qui te rend spciale ? tre indpendant du rsultat ; tu nessayes pas de forcer quelque chose, tu nes pas needy. Tu es justeentrain de travailler sur tes comptences sociales.

Qualification

The Yes Ladder

Outil des vendeurs et du marketing

Plus quelquun dit oui, et plus cette personne est susceptible de dire oui dans le future Fait la accepter de petite chose dabord (small hoops) Fait la complier et sinvestir dans lintraction Construit du compliance momentum

Hoop Theory

3 niveaux de questions pour la qualification Small hoops, medium hoops, large hoops

Small Hoops

Small hoops sont des strotypes fminins positifs pour lesquelles toutes les femmes diraient oui. Ce sont des questions dont la rponse est souvent oui ou non De petites choses qui crent du momuntum Exemples :

o Es-tu aventurire ?

o Je pari que tu es aventurire.

Medium Hoops

Medium hoops ne sont pas des questions dont la rponse peut tre oui ou non Il y a une chance quelle te donne une rponse la con Elle doit penser la rponse( montre de linvestissement) Exemples :

o "What do you like to do for fun?"o "What do you want to be when you grow up?" ,

La partie la plus importante du PU

On veut la faire dmontrer de la valeur et la rcompenseravec des signes dintrtsLa qualification ne se termine jamais. Tu dois lui donnerdes raisons de pourquoi tu laimes.Ce nest pas louche de draguer des nanas de manire nonphysiqueBait, Hokk, Reel, Release, RapportDevrait prendre 25 minutes ou moins


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o "What are you passionate about?"o "What do you do when you're not out here hitting on guys in the street?"

Large Hoops

2 small hoops plus 2 medium hoops = 1large hoop

La fait se qualifier ouvertement Elle sait quelle doit se qualifier pour que linteraction continue Exemples :

o "What do you have going for you more than your looks?"o "What's your best quality?" "Why are you special?"

Bait, Hook, Reel, Release, Rapport

Processus dutlisiation des small hoops, medium hoops et large hoops Bait : une question

Hook : rponse Reel : un compliment (pourquoi tu aimes sa rponses) Release : relche seulement si cest ncessaire Relche lorsque la nana devient un tout petit peu inconfortable Cre du rapport en posant des questions qui tintressent vraiment

Day Game Attraction 2 types: Grounding/Storytelling et Cold Reads

Cold Reads

Cold reads are truisms that make you seem prophetic Shallow cold read: "I bet you were the mean girl in high school" Deeper cold read: "I have an intuition about you: you're lonely." Cold reads work because they allow you to show understanding, they set Frames and they pace Reference Completely Cold by Kenton Knepper for process Cold reads should build from 4pacing statements and 1 leading statement to 1 pacing statement and 4leading statements

Warm Reads

Warm reading is when the girl is giving you some clues to what's happening Stripper warm read: "Fractured sexual identity." ,

Consult horoscopes, tarot cards and psychics for more examples of warm r eads

Grounding

Grounding demonstrates who you are as a person-and where that came from.Explains why you're acting the way you act an8why you're talking about what you're talking about


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Examples: "I'm a writer so I'm arrogant enough to believe that everyone should listen to me." "I grew up with three sisters so I've seen how guys mess up all the time, and I understand how women process

information different from men."

Storytelling


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Storytelling is unavoidableNotes:

Storytelling should be nirty, teasing, and funny The bar is really not that high; just be interesting enough Storytelling should take 30 to 90 seconds.

Be aware of the conversational flow; make sure it's balancedStorytelling Basics

The ending of your story is the most important part. Don't leave them asking "What happened next?" The content of the story should be detailed and should use language that is emotional, not logical(sensory words, feeling words) Good characters make a good story even when there's no plot Create unanswered questions. This way you won't be bragging when you answer them. Use transitions to get into your story (no tranSition, phrasal transition, observation transition) Check in to make sure the girl is still interested and is paying attention: "You've been there, right?"

Instant Dates

Instant dates shift the dynamic into an "us" situation instead of a "we just met" dynamic. Get to the instant date ASAP. Practice cooling off from nighttime approaches. Set aschedule, stick to it, and reward yourself or discipline yourself. Pick appropriate locations: bookstores, coffee shops, malls all have built-in instant Date locations

Good instant dates are close by and safe. DO NOT ask her to get

Setting up date

Setting up adate is more than getting the phone number

Make it for aspecific time and location Build it up; oversell the date before you set it Tum the phrase "I want to take you with me," instead of just "Want to come?"

Phone Game


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Phone game can make or break you

Notes:

It will take about 30 minutes of phone game to make adate Ping her number within 2-4 hours of meeting to see if it's a good number Ping with a text message: "Hey (pet name). Do you speak text? (your name' Call her the next day and leave a hook message if possible: "The funniest thing happenedto me today and it reminded me of you. Call me back." Use time constraints, even if you go over them Have an interesting conversation, not the same one she hears every time Hang up first. Maintain that small amount of social power Strive for moving up the intimacy scale (from most intimate to least: In Person -Phone -Texting -Facebook -Email)

Phone Game

Tactics

Lay back and talk about your exciting week until she asks "What are you doing tonight?" Combat flakes by calling them out initially ("I know what that means, I'll just invitesomeone else) Combat flakes by flaking first: Call her on the day as she requested and tell her you'reslammed at work, but to make it up to her you want to take her to dinner the next night.

Locations: Coffee Shops

The hottest girls frequent coffee shops near universities and downtown shopping centers The best time to meet women at coffee shops is between 8:00am and 10:00am on theweekdays and between 5:00pm and 7:00 pm in the middle of the week

Bring a laptop, a book, some kind of relevant prop that she can "watch" for you

Coffee Shop Techniques

Seated sets o "I'm going to get another cup. Can you watch my stuff and beat up anybody who tries tosteal itT o Cell phone opener, wait for her to eavesdrop o Opinion or observational opener while seated near her. After a few back and forths, joinher at her table.

Walking/Waiting setsNotes:

o Sit in the flow of traffic and ask for a girl's opinion loudly. Push the chair near you outto the girl in question so she feels pressure to sit down.

Location: The Gym

Gym game uses either the slow track or the fast track The slow track is when you go to the gym at the same time, see the same people, slowlybuild rapport with them and then go for the date The fast track is when you pick up a girl at the gym the first time you see her

Because everyone is exercising, you'll be talking in short bursts and for shorter times overa long period of time


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The Gym: Slow Track

Make sure the girl is by the equipment, not the free weights or cardio Pre-opener: "Hey, can I work inT Teasing, changing weights to heavier for her Conversation and rapport leads to getting the number and setting the date

The Gym: Fast Track

This approach resulted in same day lays for 16 consecutive weeks Same location and pre-opener: "Hey, can I work inT Tease and flirt, then take a break

When she moves to the next station, continue with same track of pre-opener: "What, did you copy my workout routine tonight?" After a little while say "Hey, have you done your cardio yet?" This creates a positional movement that can lead to an instant date or adate. Example: The Breakfast Club date

Location: Malls

Three types of sets: In store, seated, walking and working Best time: 5:00pm to 7:00pm on Wednesdays and all day on the weekends Built in instant date at the food court. In store sets: "I have to buy something for my sister and I like your style. What should I get her?" Seated sets: Cell phone opener, direct opener Walking sets: Go direct and try for the instant date Working dates: Get her from work mode into talk mode

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