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NONFICTION
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ON DOUCHEBAGSRobert Moor
“Now that we’ve infiltrated the mainstream, we have ample opportunity to mess with people… So far, we’ve done it in a classy way—we made music we like that’s weird, but it also got picked up on the radio…. There are so many clichés we can fall into. An ultimate goal [of ours] is not to become a douche bag.”
—Andrew VanWyngarden of MGMT, SPIN Magazine, Nov. 2008
I was 22 years old and about as stable as a three-legged
chair—sleep-deprived, underfed, plagued by night terrors from
the malaria medication—when I first learned that whiplashy
sting you feel when your self-image is radically altered in a
blink. Pierre and I were standing tenuously on the back bumper
of a motor-rickshaw as we tore down a dirt road studded with
skeletal cows, and Pierre said what he said, and I felt the funny
feeling. My head did not feel like it was spinning so much as
structurally reconfiguring itself from the inside out, recklessly,
with great speed and considerable damage, as it must feel to
undergo an Ovidian transformation. This happens to people
every day. The corporate employee of 42 years finds out that he
has become obsolete; the fashion model presses an index to the
corner of her eye, gingerly flattening her first crow’s foot and
wishing she’d finished high school. A soldier finds out the war
is over, a prisoner is released, a former president leaves office;
all three stare out a window and realize, with a growing sense
of dread, that they are no longer equipped for life back home.
In my case, I learned that I came off as a douchebag.
The smoldering, wasted landscape of Bihar rolled by. Pierre
blinked a few times, perhaps registering my wince with a feeling
of regret. Manifold connotations clicked through my head: a
rubber bulb with a hose attached; a guy I knew in high school
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Wag’s Revuewho nicknamed himself “The Hammer” and got laid off from
Bear Stearns; a summer’s breeze through feathered, shoulder-
length brown hair, and the words “Sometimes I just don’t feel
fresh, even after a shower”; snickering in sixth grade French
class; oddly, a tea bag soaked in vinegar; Jägermeister; toothy
smiles; Jimmy Fallon. I performed a quick lexical dissection.
Douchebag? Douche-bag? Douche bag? Sort of a douchebag.
A real douchebag. That fucking douchebag. The word began
to disintegrate. The closer I looked at it, the harder it was to
discern exactly what it meant.
At the time, Pierre and I were living in a monastery in northeast
India. Each year (the now-defunct) Antioch University took 20
students to the home of the Bodhi Tree to live amongst a handful
of Burmese monks, to study the Dharma, and to adhere to the five
precepts of a Buddhist pilgrim: no sexual acts, no intoxicants,
no lying, no stealing, and no killing living creatures. There
were no televisions or computers or even radios allowed in the
monastery (in fact, only rarely was there electricity), so when
we weren’t writing candlelit exegeses about the metaphysical
implications of Pratityasamutpada or eating or meditating or
sleeping, we resorted to other, increasingly outdated forms of
human entertainment: we played chess, we traded books, we
speculated about the sex lives of our professors, we crawled out
onto the ledge where we weren’t supposed to sit and dangled
our legs over the swampy vegetable patch, and most of all, we
talked.
A favorite topic of conversations was to recount our first
impressions as we first appeared to one another in the London
airport. But it quickly became clear that this was not always a
pleasant topic of discussion. In the hermetic environment of
the monastery, where there was so much talk of deconstructing
identity and fostering an understanding of no-self, old layers of
social identity had a tendency to flake and shed. With a shaved
head and more or less identical clothes, it was easy to forget who
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Wag’s Revueyou had been back home. Digging up those old social identities
too often felt like unearthing a shoebox full of embarrassing
middle school photographs.
It was clear that these first impressions were tricky things,
often false, but they could also be terrifically revealing. As
a cognitive process, snap judgments appear to be a primal
function of our lizard brains, an instantaneous sorting method
by which we weed out friend from foe. If we could look through
the human brain as if through a Terminator’s red-tinted gaze at
the exact moment it first encounters someone new, we might see
the mind’s eye highlight and zoom in on a number of visual cues
(anatomical, sartorial, behavioral), flit through a computation
as quick as neural lightning, and then display, in glowing boxy
letters, a pre-defined category into which the person should be
filed, and by which his future actions will be predicted.
Apparently, upon first laying eyes upon me, Pierre’s brain
flashed:
DOUCHEBAG (var.: FRATTY DOUCHEBAG)This is what stung.
“Fratty” was not a word I would normally use to define
myself. Back at home and at college, among my friends, if
anything I tottered toward the opposite end of the spectrum:
I was bookish, left-leaning, a pacifist. My friends and I were
not in fraternities. In fact we made fun of frat boys. And as for
“douchebag,” to my mind that just sounded like a slur. And yet,
to Pierre, a fair-minded person and a fellow liberal arts student,
as I materialized in the airport wearing a button-down shirt
and a (non-Castro, non-trucker, non-porkpie) hat, with short-
cropped hair and unexamined Midwestern sensibilities, the
visual calculus of my appearance equaled ‘fratty douchebag.’
Something did not fit. We had stumbled into a linguistic gap,
a divergence in perception, one signifier with split signifieds, a
symptom of what I will call the Chasm.
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�It is no secret that the structure of colloquial speech is far
less rigorous than that of the academe. Meanings of slang
terms fluctuate according to geographic locality and personal
preference, and only rarely does even a rough consensus form
around the definition of a given term. One needs only glance
inside the Urban Dictionary to find the myriad, haphazard and
often conflicting definitions we give to young words. However,
once every decade—due to some underlying social need for
a new way to name, differentiate, or disparage—a given term
suddenly jumps into sharp focus and is readable by all. Thus
we receive the Beatnik, the Hippie, the Punk. What was once
a put-down is sharpened into a full-bore social identity, and
sometimes—as in the case of the aforementioned—adopted and
celebrated by the once disparaged. I suspect this same process
of sharpening (if not the reclamation) is happening right now
with the word “douchebag” in our nation’s urban centers. I can
see it taking shape in smoke-filled mouths, rolling around on
tongues. The last flecks are being shaved from the mold; it is
readying itself for re-release.
The perplexing thing about the word “douchebag” is that
it refers to something specific that most of us know and can
point out when seen, and yet we have trouble making explicit.
(“You know one when you see one,” runs the tagline of Obvious
Douchebag, one of the many new douchebag-focused blogs
on the internet.) Our inability to form a working definition is
perplexing precisely because the word is so widely used. Once
you start listening for it, you will hear the word everywhere,
spoken with increasing frequency and ferocity. It has been
exploited of late to elicit cheap laughs—most notably by
comedy shows like The Daily Show and 30 Rock, those middle-
aged miners of youth slang—to the point where it now risks
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Wag’s Revuecollapse from hyperinflation. This phenomenon appears to be
systematic. As a particular epithet (“bitch,” “punk,” “idiot” and
to a more obvious degree, “fag” or the vague adjectival usage
of “gay”) gains social relevance by targeting and disparaging a
certain demographic, it is inevitably adopted into the popular
lexicon as a blanket insult. The epithet’s pointedness, precisely
the reason for its ascent, then becomes blunted through sloppy
or overzealous usage, and eventually the word grows stale, loses
favor, and fades into the background. Once irrelevant, the word
persists, fixed but distant, in the ever-growing catacombs of the
English language, to be excavated by future generations as the
need arises, but only rarely as it was originally intended.
�We all know where the epithet originates, and in part why it
was once so devastating; it refers to a soiled object, a private
shame. ‘Shithead,’ ‘motherfucker,’ ‘piss ant’; all appeal to us,
initially, on the literal level of their imagery. Perhaps just as
importantly, ‘douchebag’ is fun to say. It rolls lushly off the
tongue like a rush of water, with a big plosive burst at the end. It
is nigh onomatopoeic, near pornographic. Pronouncing it feels
like a release, with all the hearty thud of a kick in the ribs.
According to the Oxford English Dictionary, the term “douche
bag” was first used to refer to something other than a female
cleaning implement some time in the 1960’s, when it was used to
describe “an unattractive co-ed, or by extension, any individual
whom the speaker desires to deprecate.” Other sources imply
that the term originally indicated a woman of “loose moral
repute.” In Mary McCarthy’s The Group, set in 1933, the douche
is considered an effective contraceptive instrument, and so by
extension any woman who was found using one was thought
to be promiscuous. Knowing the way that social mores were
structured in that era, it is not so far of a leap from “loose” to
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Wag’s Revue“unattractive.” Where the term took a leap across the gender gap
from describing unattractive women to describing contemptible
men remains unknown.
Already we find the word slipping, morphing, its pleasant
mouth feel and nasty connotations tempting it into sentences
where it doesn’t belong. In the 1980s, the term suddenly became
popular among teens as a blanket insult—used for example to
disparage a teacher that one does not like—though it lacked any
attached cultural codes. (Unlike, say, the word “nerd”; there
was never a film called Revenge of the Douchebags, and could
not have been, for exactly this reason). It is perhaps out of a
sense of 80s-inspired nostalgia that the term was resurrected in
the early 2000s, along with various other appurtenances from
that bygone era.
In reviewing the earliest literature on douchebags from the
early 21st century, it becomes clear that the word was for a long
time used to describe a certain kind of man—gelled hair, fitted
baseball cap, multiple pastel polo shirts with popped collars
layered one atop another—who is stereotypically thought to
have originated in or around New Jersey, but who, sometime
around 2002, suddenly began popping up everywhere (perhaps
not coincidentally) just as the nation became familiar with the
notion of “metrosexuality.” At the time, there was a cultural
need to name and disparage these people, this aesthetic, and for
a period the word “douchebag” filled that void. The words “tool”
and the racial epithet “guido” now seem to have superseded
“douchebag” to describe a person this mien, at least in New
York, though that is not always true for all speakers. More
importantly, even though we lack a unanimously agreed-upon
name for them, their particular aesthetic has been ridiculed
to the point where it has faded from the public dialogue. (See:
“My New Haircut,” YouTube: June, 2007.) The result is that
few slang-savvy people today would describe a douchebag as a
greasy, Italianate, overtanned, testosterone-rich gym rat. We
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Wag’s Revueknow that kind of guy; he’s not a douchebag; he’s “something
else.”
Perhaps in an unconscious response of this shift in meaning,
there has been a rash of hip publications declaring the word
“dead,” among them Esquire, SF Weekly, and Gawker.com
(twice). Wrote one reader to the Gawker editors,
[the word “douchebag” has] been completely played out. the number of times i hear it now applied to any circumstance other than what i believe to have been its true intention is getting annoying. furthermore, i feel the douche’s themselves have co-opted the word and use it against hipsters and the like. people who aren’t particularly witty, or even funny, have begun throwing around the word douche (in my opinion denigrating the original beauty of what it represented).
Yet, despite all the ([sic]-riddled) clamoring about its demise,
the term persists, though often with increasingly bizarre
applications. In a September ’08 Radar magazine article also
titled “On Douchebags,” Lynn Harris made a valiant effort to
widen the term’s definition beyond the confines of guido-style,
but in implicating such figures as Roy Cohn, Henry VIII, and
Jacob (son of Isaac), she effectively exploded the term beyond
any usable proportions. So the question remains: What is a
douchebag? What in its “original beauty” so enamored us to its
use?
�The answer to our question lies in the thicket of popular
culture—specifically, in the structure within which the
mainstream culture and the era’s predominant counterculture
are formed and interact. More specifically, we must examine the
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Wag’s Revuepeculiar way that these two spheres of social influence always
seem to arise in a slightly staggered opposition to one another.
It would seem reasonable that in any given decade, there is a
mainstream culture and a predominant counterculture that
rise and fall concomitantly. But this isn’t how it seems to work.
Indeed, the rise of a new counterculture does tend to give
birth to a new kind of mainstream (a mainstream which either
incorporates or repudiates the defining ethos and aesthetic
of the counterculture), but the irony is that by the time that
mainstream is more or less fully formed, the counterculture to
which it is a response has already been gutted and replaced by
a new one (which is itself a reaction to the new mainstream). In
this way, we as a society define ourselves in overlapping waves,
always through opposition, but all too often those we’ve set our
sight on have already disappeared over the horizon.
America has always branded its outcasts: Greasers, beatniks,
anarchists. Mountain men. Cowpunchers. Witches. However, it
isn’t until the culture wars that began in the 1940’s, incubated
throughout the repressed
McCarthy era, and finally
exploded during the Vietnam
War that we see a particular
counterculture rise to a
position of power and vocality
from which it was able to
spin around the looking glass and brand the mainstream. In the
1940’s, these were the original “hipsters”—fiery bohemians and
blacks who were “hip” to jazz. The buttoned-up mainstream,
in this era, was branded as “square.” The counterculture
was able to sharpen its identity by explicitly opposing the
mainstream, and in being forced to craft a response to this
assault, the mainstream redefined its own mores. This (at once
mutualistic and antagonistic) form of cultural symbiosis was
most pronounced in the years that followed Vietnam: first the
‘Like it or not, we have entered the Age of the Hipster Mainstream.’
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Wag’s Revuehipsters (and later, the hippies) had their squares, then the
punks their preppies, the slackers their yuppies, and recently
the emo kids their fratboys. In this dynamic structure, where
the friction between the two opposing camps produces much
of the creative energy that drives our trends, I believe that the
hipster now finds his antipode in the douchebag.
I am confident this is true because I keep hearing the word
“douchebag” used by hipsters—in all the little farflung boho
corners of New York City: Williamsburg, Bushwick, Astoria—to
describe people who are unassumingly rooted in the realm of
the mainstream. Since returning from India, I myself have been
called a douchebag no less than six times by hipsters. (Once, in
print.) On one occasion I pressed for further explanation. I asked
a 19 year-old RISD student if I was acting like a douchebag. “No,
you’re nice enough,” she said. “But you’re wearing a collared
shirt, and loose jeans, and that’s what douchebags wear.”
Everyone knows this. “I bet you even have abs,” she said, with
a smirk.
This, then, is the new douchebag: collared shirt of any kind
(besides flannel), pants that don’t cling, physically fit. As the
prevailing style and ethos (post-modernism, hyperactive trend-
following, esotericism) of the hipsters gains visibility and begins
to shape the mainstream through fashion and advertising (just
as that of the hippies and punks and grunge rockers before
them), this particular image of the douchebag—an after-image of
the previous, now diminishing mainstream style—will develop
alongside. In point of fact, this process has already officially
begun. It occurred at roughly around 6 p.m. on September
the 6th, 2008, when Kanye West hung up his preppy gear and
chose instead to don a starched white dress shirt, top-button
buttoned, a David Byrne-esque gray flannel suit and oversized
sunglasses to perform songs off his newest album for the MTV
Music Video Awards. So goes Kanye, so goes the nation. Like it
or not, we have entered the Age of the Hipster Mainstream.
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Wag’s RevueAnd so our primary task in this essay becomes, paradoxically,
the simple aim of defining what exactly a hipster is and
what mainstream cultural image he is resisting. This task is
surprisingly difficult, and not (as it might at first appear) simply
because the term “douchebag” is inchoate and half-formed, or
an empty mask. After all, you know one when you see one. (You
just can’t describe what you’re seeing.) This issue—the difficulty
of constructing clear definitions and delineations—is at the very
heart of the problem, both in the way that the douchebag defines
himself and in the way that he is defined by his namers. Like the
hipster, he bristles at the mention of his name. Unlike a square
or a preppy, he finds no solace in shared identity, no strength in
numbers. And this is problematic. We are becoming afraid, all
of us, hipsters and douchebags alike, to peak around the easel of
cultural taxonomy and examine our caricatures.
�The douchebag can most succinctly be described as a posture
rather than a style. I say “posture” because it is deeper and more
functional than “style,” which connotes superficiality, and yet is
not purely behavioral or psychological, either. A posture is an
attitude made physical, and can be read in a glance, before the
subject even opens his mouth. Though television is chockablock
with douchebags and people calling each other douchebags,
and thus is a ripe hunting ground for examples, the douchebag
posture is for me perhaps best typified by Andy Bernard (as
played by Ed Helms) from the NBC version of The Office. You can
read him from his smirk—that a unique mixture of unflinching
entitlement, measured success, and undue sense of self-worth.
When he opens his mouth, his words only confirm what his
posture telegraphed. “I went to Cornell. Ever heard of it? Yeah,
I graduated in four years…”
But that’s just me. Someone else might say that Ryan is the
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Wag’s Revuebiggest douchebag on The Office, while someone else might
say it’s Michael. (The show, it turns out, is positively rife with
douches.) Part of what makes the show so successful is that
each character represents a different facet (indeed, archetype)
of the mainstream—the preppy mediocrity, the arrogant
20-something, the desperate corporate clown—which correlate
to figures in our lives. As to which of those people you perceive
as a douchebag, well, that depends on who you are. A true
hipster might look at The Office and declare that they are all
douchebags, none more than Jim, because he alone had the
potential to be something else. In other words, “douchebag”
is purely a subject-variable designation, but I hold that it
always retains a similar (if not identical) relationship to each
subject. Like shadows—all douchebags look different, but the
relationship between douchebag and the perceiving subject
they reflect is always the same.
In India, Pierre thought I was a douchebag because of my hat.
James, a rather insecure pseudo-hipster himself, at first glance
thought I was a hipster, because I was wearing a t-shirt from
American Apparel.
You think I am a douchebag for writing this. I think it actually
looks kind of pretentious (ergo, hipsterish).
This is how the Chasm begins to form.
�Last weekend I was walking down Bedford Avenue in
Williamsburg, what was once and to some degree still remains
a sort of Haight-Ashbury for hipsters, when a friend from out of
town started pointing at people and asking if they were hipsters.
“What about that guy?” he whispered. “Oh, what about her,
with the glasses?”
My roommates Jordan and Spiel patiently answered that yes,
the guy in the lumberjack print jacket was a hipster, and definitely
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well, it’s a little harder with girls, but she was probably just a
trendy Upper East Side high school girl slumming it for the day.
The out-of-towner, perplexed, finally broke down and asked,
“So what the fuck is a hipster, exactly?” Jordan and I, pensive
as ever, balked. Spiel, who was wearing a Wake Forest hoodie
and baggie jeans and who knows how to fix dirt bikes and has
absolutely no fucking clue who Nico is, and therefore by virtue
of distance sees these things a bit more clearly than the rest of
us, answered without hesitation:
“Skinny jeans, dude.”
While it seems simplistic, that is perhaps the clearest and most
elegant taxonomy that has ever been devised for identifying a
male hipster. (Identifying female hipsters, as was mentioned,
tends to be a bit more problematic, for various reasons that we
don’t need to go into here.) Every other physical characteristic
that we might elect as a telltale for the hipster male —the thick-
rimmed glasses, the faux-blue collar attire, the mustaches and
beards and shaggy hair, the eclectic musical tastes, the vintage
bikes—can be shed or altered as the need arises. (The adoption
of the fixed-gear bike as a hipper alternative to the traditional
racing bike a few years back is a great example of this.) The
skinny jeans, however, persist through the incarnations, but
only because a viable alternative does not yet exist. On this front,
the hipsters have unwittingly painted themselves into a corner;
anything looser than skin-tight is deemed mainstream, unhip,
douchey. What else is left for them to wear to cover their asses
in the wintertime? Parachute pants? The only other alternative,
the one they seem to have chosen, is to simply grow slimmer,
more rail-like legs, to allow a yet further slimming down of the
jeans, until, presumably, they wither to stems and altogether
disappear…
The problem, as you no doubt have noted, arises when non-
hipsters start wearing skinny jeans. In say three years, once
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Wag’s Revuemore or less everyone (save the diehard fratboy, who will be left
frozen in time like a curio in our collective cabinet of wonders,
along with the zoot and the disco fan and the head-banger) starts
wearing slimmer-cut jeans, how will we parse out the hipsters
from the rest of us? More importantly, how will the hipsters
parse themselves out? To put it another way, our problem is that
as the mainstream slowly assimilates and consumes the hipster
aesthetic, we necessarily lose sight of what a hipster really is.
As is evidenced by the above two paragraphs, a hipster is, by
design, easy to mock, easier to loathe, and yet very hard to pin
down. Because, unlike the hippies or the punks, the hipsters
lack a central storyline (a defining manifesto, a set of shared
moral values, a historical narrative), which we can seize upon
and use as a pigeonhole. This lack of storyline leads many to
mistakenly assert that the hipsters have no ethos, no guiding
light. This is wrong. But it’s exceedingly tricky to explain why
it’s wrong. In order to pinpoint a hardier defining characteristic
than “skinny jeans,” we must wade into some pretty murky,
mercurial depths; we must define that which willfully resists
definition.
�The first and most obvious reason why most people (including
many critics of the hipster movement) cannot properly grasp
the significance of this counterculture is because they fail to
follow its roots to their base—namely, in postmodernism.
For the phenomenon of hipsterism is, first and foremost,
both a symptom and a cultural iteration of postmodernist
developments in theory, literature, fashion, and art.
In his much-discussed article entitled “Hipster: The Dead End
of Western Civilization” in the July 2008 issue of Adbusters,
Douglas Haddow writes,
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Wag’s RevueAn artificial appropriation of different styles from different eras, the hipster represents the end of Western civilization — a culture lost in the superficiality of its past and unable to create any new meaning. Not only is it unsustainable, it is suicidal. While previous youth movements have challenged the dysfunction and decadence of their elders, today we have the “hipster” —a youth subculture that mirrors the doomed shallowness of mainstream society.
What Haddow’s thesis so plainly fails to take into account is
the fact that artificial appropriations, in a post-modern world,
are in fact a creation of something new and significant. He—like
the magazine for which he writes—too often falls into the trap
of pre-postmodern literalism, yearning to find some tangible
“meaning” (by which I think he means “philosophy” or “moral
agenda”) in the hipster movement, which he can then begin to
plug into his own social framework and criticize. But the hipster
movement has never really been about meaning. Jacques
Lacan laid a finger on the heart of postmodernism when he
famously elaborated upon Freud’s findings in psychoanalysis;
namely, that “truth manifests itself in the letter rather than
the spirit, that is, in the way things are actually said rather
than in their intended meaning.” In much the same way, the
hipster movement is more about the method and tone of
expression than the expressed meaning; as deconstructionists
emphasized the surface of language, hipsters celebrate the
surface of modern life. “Meaning” (in the way Haddow defines
it) has become a cliché, and beside the point. The political
causes, liberal social mores, and revolutionary mythos to
which previous countercultures subscribed have all been co-
opted by the mainstream, printed onto bumper stickers, used
to sell Priuses, parodied on South Park. In a perverse twist,
capitalism has managed to make personal “depth” appear
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Wag’s Revueshallow, and “shallowness,” somehow, deep. What hipsters
concern themselves with (in their literature, their music, their
fashion) are the ways that past phenomena can be clipped and
combined, snipped of their attached “meaning” but not of their
engrained aesthetic appeal, and in that way made shiny and
flat and cool. Cloud-like, without noumena, the true hipster is
immune to attack or parody. So in this sense, Haddow is dead-
on, but unwittingly so: hipsters are intentionally shallow; they
are intentionally doomed.
The definition of a hipster (like that of the douchebag) can best
be described as a posture (or, some might say, a pose), which is
a contradictory reading of the mainstream at all times and at
any moment. As far as I can tell, the most common symptom of
this posture is a distinct allergy to repetition and a revulsion for
cliché. Indeed, the primary process by which a hipster defines
himself is through labeling (and subsequently eschewing) other
things as clichéd, old, or played out. And so, the hipster finds
him or herself on the cutting edge of fashion, music, literature,
and film, precisely because he or she is a fan of all things that
resist the mainstream, more or less regardless of quality. If a
new movement is to emerge, it will be on the cusp, never in the
middle, and thus in the domain of the hipster. The flipside, of
course—and this is their curse—is that the moment that a given
trend catches on and becomes socially visible, it is assimilated
by the mainstream, and becomes unhip.
In his 1935 essay “The Work of Art in the Age of Mechanical
Reproduction,” Walter Benjamin foretold how mass production
would “emancipate the work of art from its parasitical
dependence on [bourgeois] ritual.” While he was prescient in
many of his predictions, he failed to envision the rapidity with
which capitalism and advertising would rush to fill the void left
behind by the loss of “aura” surrounding that antiquated mode
of production. These days our most visible and talked-about
aesthetic objets have become both symbols and products of
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Wag’s Revuemass production, stamped all over with logos: MacBook Airs,
Volkswagens, Calphalon pans, Pepsi cans, Nike kicks, the sleek
new interface of Google Chrome. Consequent to this rise in
design-capitalism was the co-opting of identities (particularly
youth identities) to brand and sell these items. The hipsters—
who have read Benjamin, as well as Derrida and Barthes and
Foucault and Bakhtin—are sharp to the “withering effects” of
mechanical reproduction, of commodification and advertising.
Moreover, they were born in the miasma of hyper-consumerism
(their first glimpse of life was the silvery glimmer off the logo on
their obstetrician’s Armani frames, the snowy cap of the Mont
Blanc pen tucked into his shirt pocket, and behind that, a poster
for Pfizer), and they grew up in an era that was, by any objective
measurement, exponentially more saturated with advertising
than any that had ever preceded it in the history of man. They’ve
watched closely as each previous counterculture was processed,
purchased, caricatured, and made into Halloween costumes—
the beat with his beret and bongos, the hippie with her tie-dyes,
rose-tinted glasses, and plastic oversized flower. It makes them
sick.
Corporate powers have already begun trying to capitalize
upon the hipster movement, with limited results. One need
only look at how long it took them to adopt the hipster’s love
of irony (an early, failed attempt at cultural resistance) and
deploy it for its own purposes: in the production of Burger
King advertisements, retro lunch boxes, trucker caps, and
graphic tees; or to surf the flashy new hipster-targeted website
of Colt 45 malt liquor, which invites burgeoning artists to “ink”
the design of their new can; or watch the online ads featuring
Paul “the Original Dollar Menunaire,” McDonald’s ironically
mustachioed, exceedingly flat-intoned cartoon spokesperson;
or walk inside an Urban Outfitters, just once, and really look
around. It will make you sick as well.
Hipsterism is in this sense a pure, almost enlightened
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counterculture always gets swallowed. So, in the only way they
know how, they turn off, tune out, rise above.
Of course there are other, less noble factors at play in the
recent move towards hipsterism: a thinly veiled vanity, the thrill
of keeping a secret
or knowing more
than your neighbor,
a desire to vindicate
or erase vestiges of
high school or middle
school awkwardness,
the sense of
community that
shared but esoteric interests can foster. But first and foremost,
I would argue that hipsterism is a natural and inevitable
backlash against the universalizing forces of capitalism and,
more specifically, advertising. The work of the market is to
widen, to broaden, to debase; to make a product available
(and appealing) to as many people as possible. The hipster is
the latest iteration of a long intellectual tradition which seeks
always to sharpen, to restrict, and to heighten, and which in the
process, invariably fetishes the obscure, the enigmatic, and the
absurd.
The hipster’s allergy to repetition and capitalist co-opting
might even be laudable, if it were not so manifestly hypocritical.
If, for example, the hipster movement had given birth to a
series of cottage industries, the flowering of individual style,
and a do-it-yourself philosophy of material production, if it
had in other words truly been what it always showed promise
to be—a trend without trends—then we might have seen the
birth of a sustainable response to the problems that fashion
and trend-ism engender. Instead the hipsters took an alternate
route; unwilling or unable to achieve an atomization and hyper-
‘It may very well be that hipsters are the
best-prepared group of people in
America for the looming economic
apocalypse.’
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creating a sartorial bricolage of fashions clipped from the pages
of history and trimmed to match. Certain trends—the scarves
and the oversized glasses, the infamous skinny jeans—caught
on, and in this way the image of the hipster started to develop
in the darkroom of our public consciousness. The 21st century
hipster, who understands this process on a molecular level
and whose hackles raise at the first whiff of it, is then forced to
switch up his or her style, to abandon his or her favorite artists,
and to denounce and cannibalize those who have yet failed to
adapt, labeling them, somewhat cleverly, as “hipsters.” The
hipsters are quick, you must give them that. Unfortunately, the
Age of Mechanical Reproduction is quicker, better financed,
and has been doing this for much, much longer. It will subsume
these new trends as quickly as the hipsters can create them, at
an ever-increasing rate, as long as the hipsters continue do so in
a collectivist manner.
�In recent months, a slew of eulogies have been published
declaring the death of the hipster. Some claim that growing
media awareness of the hipster aesthetic and lifestyle has
ensured its demise. However, as was addressed above, this does
not so much portend the death of the hipster movement as it
ensures the death of that particular incarnation and aesthetic.
Because of their uniquely amorphous and decentralized
outlook, hipsters can always shed their skins, to strip off their
tattered tights and toss out their non-prescription glasses and
slip into some new, less-easily codified disguise. The demise of
the hipster will not come at the surface, in the growing staleness
of their “look”; it will come in the failing of their modes of
operation and their impetus for rebellion.
Another, slightly more convincing argument says that the
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will melt away the angst and cynicism that defined the hipster
movement. This might be true. It certainly seems difficult to
maintain the same level of hostility towards the mainstream
when that mainstream has elected a president who is so clearly
aligned with the hipster political ethos (what little of it there is).
The problem is that, in order to assuage the hipster’s feeling of
unease and cynicism, Obama needs to reform not only all three
branches of government, but also the media, the advertising
industry and much of the business sector, which are not under
his control. In all likelihood the hipster movement will die of its
own attacks long before Obama or anyone else in government
is able to radically overhaul our current (cynicism-inducing)
system of consumption.
Finally, with an historic recession already underway and
a full-out Depression looming on the horizon, some claim
that an economic downturn might take the sexiness out of the
hipster lifestyle. Indeed, if one looks across nations and across
generations, it is difficult to find an economically hard-pressed
community who intentionally tries to look poor. Hippies and
backpackers are despised in India, because the locals see them
as they appear—dirty, sloppily dressed individuals who take
little care with their appearance. To this day it is exceedingly
rare to find a rich person in India who intentionally tries to
dress poor, much less one among the vast majority of the less
privileged. The logic then goes that, as the failing economy
drives America into a state of real and lasting destitution, ironic
approximations of poverty will suddenly lose their appeal. Of all
three major arguments for the demise of the hipster, this seems
the most convincing, but it too has its flaws. Because, although
hipsters may actually become poor in the years to come, they
still hail from a certain socioeconomic and cultural background
which in some ways immunizes them from the demoralizing
effects of poverty. They still have their college degrees, and
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to overt wealth and status. In fact, it may very well be that the
hipsters are the best-prepared group of people in America for
the looming economic apocalypse: as the rest of the country
suffers and scrounges and grows depressed, the hipsters will
flourish like drought-resistant ferns in the newfound paucity,
luxuriating in a truly bohemian and ascetic lifestyle. Having
practiced for this day for years, the hipster will finally find
him or herself living in his or her long-imagined dream, where
simulated pauperism has become real, where hardship is other
than self-imposed, where shopping at secondhand stores and
drinking cheap beer is a necessity rather than a choice, where
artists really starve.
�Heretofore, there has been a certain unspoken conceit to
this essay; namely that I, as someone who has been called a
douchebag, am somehow more knowledgeable or reliable a
source on this subject than say, a hipster. While a first person
perspective is necessary to convey the experience of being
called a douchebag, it is not necessarily best for conveying the
experience of actually being a douchebag. In fact, the great
majority of douchebag theory published on the internet has
been penned by professed fans of the word, those who apply it
liberally and with a certain sense of vindictive joy. The word,
like “hipster,” is one that is almost never reflexively applied. It
takes something extra, some outside and objective force, to jar
one into realizing that he is in fact a douchebag, and just exactly
what that term means.
“So I started Googling myself, you know,” says John Mayer,
to a TMZ cameraman, “And I had to kinda put it all together at
once to realize, at the end of it all, I’m kind of a douchebag.”
This last clause it not one that you hear very often. But what is
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he is a douchebag (he is, almost definitively), but rather that it
was only by viewing his atomized and refracted image via the
internet, among his fans and detractors alike, that he came to
realize this fact.
It took the internet to jar John Mayer into realizing that he is
a douchebag, because in some very real sense it was the internet
that made him a douchebag in the first place. Without surfing
the web (or watching MTV, or flipping through gossip rags),
John Mayer to himself is just one man. He is blind to his many
two-dimensional avatars running around LA pouting, smoking,
simpering, wearing sunglasses, going boogie boarding,
carrying the tote bags of his current celebrity girlfriend, eating
ice cream, flirting with Ellen, bar-hopping with other quasi-
celebrities, tearing down Rodeo Dr. in a vintage Land Rover,
glibly collecting speeding tickets. In fact, it is entirely possible
that John Mayer, due to the sheltered nature of the Hollywood
lifestyle and a natural human aversion to seeing oneself from a
hostile third person perspective, was one of the last people on
earth to know just how incredibly saturated the world is with
John Mayer.
One month after staring into our cultural lens and conceding
himself a douchebag, Mayer took to his blog to defend himself,
not by denying his label, but by disassembling it. (His task, one
might argue, is not all that different from that undertaken here.)
In his (admittedly, more ham-fisted) analysis, Mayer posits that
the epithet is launched out of jealousy, or a sense that fame has
been dealt to the undeserving.
“Is being a douchebag actually all about having a bigger smile
than someone else deems you deserve to in life?” he asks.
This question deserves asking, because many of the people
on the internet who are most frequently deemed douchebags
(Brody Jenner, Dane Cook, Kevin Federline) have accrued
a level of fame that far outstrips any real or perceived talent.
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Wag’s RevueAnd indeed, this must be part of the impetus to originally label
a person a douchebag. Fame is a social equivalency to ego, and
as has been stated before, unwarranted egotism is a telltale
characteristic of a true douchebag. (The reasons for this will be
addressed a bit later.) However, I would argue that something
else is at work in the labeling of douchebags, because this notion
of undeserved fame does not explain the widespread usage of the
term to describe thoroughly talented individuals (Sean Penn,
Bono, Paul Krugman), who are nevertheless over-exposed. Or
what of those other celebrities, who have gained a considerable
(but not tabloid-worthy) amount of fame with little-to-no visible
talent? Why is Dane Cook considered a douchebag but Larry the
Cable Guy merely a hack? And more importantly, why is fame
an indicator of douchiness at all? Whose decision is it to make
someone an object of public interest, the object, or the public?
In his blog post, Mayer launches a spirited defense of Pete
Wentz, the bass player for the band Fall Out Boy, who, according
to Google (via Mayer), has been called a douchebag over 11,000
times. However, from the start Mayer departs down the wrong
track, assuming that Wentz’s perceived shortcomings lie in his
music. If he had taken the time to closely read some of those
11,000 blog posts, Mayer would have found that the prevailing
criticisms center not around Wentz’s artistry but rather around
his hairstyle, his clothing, his wearing of eyeliner, his dating
of Ashlee Simpson, even his decision to have a child at such a
young age (which was widely regarded as a celebrity stunt, part
of a rash of celebrity pregnancies—what will one day be known
as the “babies-as-accessories boom” of the late aughts). Note
that the very language of these criticisms are structured around
and through the filter of gossip news. The central complaint is
that Wentz is both too affected and too common. Numerous
references are made to his shopping at Hot Topic, a popular teen
goth clothing store found in most American shopping malls.
What then is Wentz’s crime? It is that he dresses like someone
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Wag’s Revuethat we have met and, probably, disliked. He is both too visible
and too vulnerable, and for whatever reason, this combination
invites relentless attack.
This brings us to the central question of this essay: If the
hipster is in fact a creature who is first and foremost allergic to
repetition, what then is the douchebag? Answer: The douchebag
is exactly that— a repetition, a living cliché. If the hipster
celebrates obscurity and his image is a cultural obfuscation (a
fractured scattering of the light thrown off from past styles), the
douchebag’s crime is that he is, in a cultural sense, too legible.
Since celebrities are both shapers and reflections of the
mainstream—shaping, due to their enormous influence and
visibility; reflecting, because of stylists and personal shoppers
and PR managers and agents and focus group researchers
who are paid to maximize their public appeal—it is wholly
unsurprising that they are the people most often labeled as
douchebags. Celebrities are the most hyper-legible people on
the planet. The only ones who manage to escape the label are
those who manage to somehow obscure themselves, who shy
away from the public eye or surround themselves with mystery.
This creates a peculiarly disillusioning effect, where the more
one zooms in on the life of a famous person, indeed the more
human a celebrity appears, the more he or she diminishes
in our eyes. Scarlett Johansson appears on Letterman and
reveals herself to be just another jappy girl from Manhattan;
it comes out that Vin Diesel is a lifelong fan of Dungeons and
Dragons and has a dorky laugh. (This is phenomenon is true of
literary celebrities as well; I cannot think of a single author who
rose in my estimation after I glanced at his or her dust jacket
photo—with the twin exceptions of Joan Didion and Samuel
Beckett.) We don’t want our celebrities to be human, to have
depth and imperfections, those real, schlubby, pathetic, every
day imperfections that every real human being has; rather, we
prefer the cool, tragic flaws of the historically beautiful and
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While the rise of the hipsters cannot be blamed for this
phenomenon (the real has always disappointed in the face of the
imagined and unknown), it is a central tenet and core malady of
their lifestyle. Though the attraction to irony faded long ago, its
impetus did not; namely, the fact that hipsters find earnestness
unattractive. Countless times I have heard hipsters use the word
as an insult or a value judgment. (“I respect Conor Oberst, but
Christ, he has got to be the most earnest guy alive.”) Earnestness
is after all a kind of emotional legibility, a straightforward and
unadulterated display of one’s inner workings. It is also an
incredibly vulnerable and scary state of being, particularly to
one whose chief stance in life is defensive.
Perhaps this explains why hipsters are so drawn to illegible
fictions, obscure texts. Specifically, why they seem to flock
around those great name-droppers of the modern canon—
Borges, Rushdie, Murakami, Kundera, Coetzee, Sebald, and,
most recently, Bolaño. This name-dropping (which permeates
hipsters’ conversations, their music critiques, their blogs) is
symptomatic of a curious and perhaps detrimental attraction to
the unknown and the exotic, and aversion to the known. A page
studded with names that one only vaguely recognizes, obscure
poets and philosophers and painters, is illegible but attractive,
like a page of Sanskrit script; the known and great, on the other
hand, appear stale in comparison, shrug-inducing, the way we
react upon seeing Monet’s water lilies or watching the balcony
scene in Romeo and Juliet.
Hipsters are both incredibly competitive and monumentally
insecure; theirs is a restless reordering of the pyramid of
genius, and a continual reevaluation of where they fit into that
architecture. Everyone below is a douchebag, especially if they
have happened upon any success; everyone above is a genius,
except if they are tarnished by the stigma of being a genius that
everyone has read. The legible geniuses all fall beneath these
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remains a genius, because he is very hard to read. Pynchon,
Faulkner, Beckett, to some degree Wallace—geniuses, all.
Hemingway, in contrast, is a douchebag, as is Vonnegut and
Salinger and London and Twain and yes, Eggers. Anyone whose
prose is plainspoken and earnest and unadorned suffers, for the
basic crime of not talking over our heads, and not exasperating
(or, they might argue, elevating) us in the process.
�The question of legibility, or rather the phrasing of the
douchebag question in those terms, is quite attractive, not just
because it fits quite nicely into this essay, but moreover because
it can serve as a useful key for cracking the cipher of just exactly
why douchebags act the way they do.
The douchebag, above all else, seeks a kind of internal
legibility, or in simpler terms, normalcy. (And make no mistake,
legibility is a kind of textual normalcy; without the normative
rules of grammar and spelling, without common idioms and
known conceits, without overarching institutions like the
OED or the Académie Française to regulate and cement the
structures of language, written discourse would very quickly
vacillate towards illegibility, wobble towards nonsense, grow to
resemble the work of children, or madmen.) If you listen to his
judgments of others, the douchebag reveals that, above all else,
he strives just to be normal, to not be “weird”; in fact, to not
be labeled at all. Who strives for something so mundane? In a
culture where normalcy is as quicksilvery and fleeting as ours,
where trends seem to shift at an ever-increasing rate, and norms
are demolished and reconstructed yearly—in a culture such as
this, achieving a state of normalcy can be a kind of triumph, like
remaining atop a spinning log amidst whitewater whirls. The
hipster, meanwhile, deftly throws pebbles at the douchebag
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cigarette and smirking at the douche’s pathetic effort.
So where the hipster veers away from the mainstream, the
douchebag veers toward it; that is just his way. He yearns
more than anything for a stable, non-shifting center, where he
can comfortably reside without receiving derision or ridicule.
When he succeeds in this task, he is free of stigma, not invisible
so much as omnipresent. For that moment he is structurally
centralized, an every-widening nucleus, invisible to himself but
projected everywhere he looks. He fits in. And yet the center
shifts, inevitably it shifts, and with it shifts popular taste. The
douchebag shifts with it, but glacially, he is too slow, too rigid.
Against his best instincts, he goes out and buys a pink polo
shirt, because that’s where the mainstream has shifted (as he
has divined from television and movies, pop stars in music
videos, models on billboards for Ralph Lauren). And, to his
amazement, for a short while his pink shirt receives newfound
attention from the opposite sex. For that brief moment, he is
again well dressed, well adjusted, normal; a figurehead on the
bow of the mainstream. But that moment passes, and soon he
finds himself being called a douchebag once again.
In order to not be labeled, one must now trade in his jeans for
new, skinnier jeans, his hats for new, more eccentric hats. But
because of the rapid rate at which hipsters adapt and reinvent
themselves, these too he will have to change in less than a year’s
time, lest he again be called a douchebag. There is no semblance
of a stable mainstream. The douchebag, only wanting stable
ground upon which to stand, must leap from style to style,
playing a game he never wished to play in order to attain a
normalcy that never seems to come. The hipster, not wanting
the mainstream to catch onto his style, keeps changing, and
dragging the mainstream behind at a quickening clip. The cycle
is vicious: the douchebag will always be called a douchebag; the
hipster, always a hipster.
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Wag’s RevueThe famous douchebag arrogance comes with the false
assumption that normalcy has been achieved. The douchebag
who considers himself “relatively normal” thinks he is speaking
from a centralized location, a place of authority. To the outside
observer, however, he simply looks mediocre and smug.
Although that mediocrity is sometimes genuine and innate, as
natural as having a funny nose or crooked teeth, oftentimes it is
an act of almost gracious restraint, a self-humbling, a dumbing-
down of one’s persona in order to not appear arrogant or
pretentious. I should know, I did this for years. The problem is
that this act of humbling rarely coincides with actual humility.
And indeed, why should the douchebag be humble? He is at the
center and apex of all things. The average American douchebag
is a model citizen of our society: masculine, unaffected, well-
rounded, concerned with his physical health, moral (but not
puritanical or prude), virile without being sleazy, funny without
being clever or snide; he is at all times a faithful consumer, an
eager participant and a contributor to society. He buys what
the mainstream tells him to buy; he listens skeptically to the
current hits and
reverently to the
hits of the past. In
all respects he is the
Hegelian synthesis
of the sixties culture
war: taking a hit off his bong during the timeouts in the Packers
game, he keeps his eyes on a flashing advertisement for the
Marines. If he is high (or poor) enough, who knows, he might
just enlist. He is everything he has been taught to be; he does
everything society asks of him. And for all of this effort, he
assumes that he will be granted a slight, unspoken modicum of
respect and admiration.
This respect—respect predicated upon normalcy rather
than superiority—is exactly what the hipster withholds.
‘The Jonas Brothers have already started wearing keffiyehs.’
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each year. Already, we can see social norms drifting towards
those of the hipster. Just as the stain of twee, glum nerdiness,
which spilled over from the emo movement, is slowly leeching
out of the hipster aesthetic and being replaced by a hardier,
woodsier tone, so too is the spirit of the frat boy fading from the
mainstream, and in its place appears the douche in the skinny
jeans.
Undoubtedly, decades or years or perhaps even mere months
from now, these mentions of specific fashions will look painfully
outdated, as frivolous as the 19th century concern over the trend
towards increasingly outlandish collars, or a conservative
bemoaning JFK’s scandalous decision to forego a hat when
stepping out of the oval office. But the unspoken philosophical
underpinnings behind the fashion shifts will remain relevant
and worth discussing. The problem with this fashion shift is that
hipsterism was never designed to be a mainstream movement;
in fact quite the opposite, it is functionally incompatible
with the mainstream and structurally dependent upon that
incompatibility. Its integration into the mainstream would,
in all likelihood, result in a kind of cultural schizophrenia.
Without a postmodern philosophical backing and resistance to
capitalism, hipsterism quickly devolves into just what it always
appeared to be to the uninitiated: a shallow, meaningless, vain,
hyper-consumerist, self-hating and poisonous system of living.
The most obvious flaw of the hipster posture has always
been a peculiar and nagging sense of inauthenticity, a self-
consciousness and insecurity, which draws them like moths to
the seemingly solid and unpretentious aesthetics of the blue-
collar and urban poor. When the hipster aesthetic infiltrates the
mainstream, this duplicity becomes refracted and magnified.
For a visual explanation, a ghost of douchebags future as it
were, turn on MTV’s The Real World: Brooklyn, get real close
to your television, and stare into the blank visage of Chet, the
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glasses and faux-hawk and v-neck t-shirt. Look into those blank,
blinking, wide-set eyes and behold the conflict and inconsistency
that lies therein, and you will see where we are headed in the
years to come.
�The Chasm exists because our culture is in a state of flux. We
are in the process of reevaluating our norms, and as soon as
this process is complete, the Chasm will close again and our
judgments of other people will firm up. It is not necessarily a
bad thing that the same person will appear to be a hipster to one
person, a douchebag to another, and something else entirely to
himself. It merely means that our definition of “normalcy” is
momentarily in question. Like hermit crabs, we are in the process
of sloughing off one aesthetic and adopting another. In this
case, the mainstream is picking up the style that the hipsters are
leaving behind. I imagine a similar thing must have happened in
the mid-1970s, when the symbols of the hippies (the shaggy hair
and mustaches) began bleeding over into mainstream culture,
or in the mid 1990s when the mainstream swallowed the Seattle
grunge movement. The inaccuracy of labels at these points of
transition highlights how very superficial and unimportant they
ultimately are. And yet we still must live in a world where these
labels are the basis of snap judgments, and those judgments the
preliminary basis of friendship.
At this point in an essay, the Greifian move (which is to
say the sincere, neo-intellectual move) would be to give some
pithy, modest proposal that could conceivably remove us from
this mainstream thrust towards superficiality and historical
derivativeness, since I fear that they will lead to those other
hallmarks of hipsterism—namely, quasi-nihilism and a creeping
feeling of inauthenticity. And so I give this humble plea to those
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reaction to rather than an imitation of the hipster aesthetic.
But somehow this does not seem likely to happen. The
wheels are already in motion, the Jonas Brothers have already
started wearing keffiyehs, and more and more the people on
my television resemble the people I thought were hipsters six
months or a year ago. Douchebags have never been good at
cultural rebellion anyway, and there is no reason to think they
will start now.
Perhaps the only solution, then, lies in appealing to the other
side. If the hipsters could craft a style that was truly impervious
to the co-opting influence of the mainstream, then the well
would run dry as it were, and the mainstream would be forced
to redefine itself on its own terms. One possible way to achieve
this solution has already been suggested, which is to opt for a
movement based upon purely personalized expressions of style.
The DIY (do-it-yourself) movement is already picking up steam
in many parts of the States. Its incarnations are wide-ranging,
from DIY fashion websites and one-of-a-kind jewelry to ultra
small-scale farming (less pretentiously known as “gardening”)
and the newly formed Church of Craft. A movement
composed purely of individual styles (with their only defining
characteristic being the mode of production), would be equally
as resistant to the commodifying effects of capitalism as the
hipster’s current bricolage style, and it would be even harder
to replicate for economic gain. However, the shift to a purely
DIY aesthetic would take an enormous investment of personal
time and possibly money, and moreover, it just might not look
that good. There’s a reason we allow specialists to manufacture
our clothes, because they have devoted their lives to the study of
design. That’s what the division of labor is all about: it frees us
to live our lives while maximizing the quality of our purchased
goods.
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Wag’s RevueThe only other option then—and I propose this purely for the
good of the hipster, to save them from their feelings of cultural
persecution—is a willful laying down of arms. If hipsters truly
wish to live a life free of the debasing influence of the mainstream
and its pathetic approximations of their meticulously curated
style and interests, maybe they will need to try a new tactic: to
pick one style and stick with it, to opt for classic timelessness
over a kind of protean freshness, and to, in essence, grow stale.
(One might also say, grow up.) Just like the hippies and proto-
hipsters before them, the hipsters must allow themselves to be
swallowed by the mainstream, to stand up in its full light and be
passed through its machinations and emerge on the other side,
naked and legible to the world, open to ridicule but free from
self-consciousness—to in effect, become douche bags. Christ-
like, they must sacrifice of themselves so that the rest might find
some cultural redemption, and they might find some lasting
peace. Indeed, with their beards and long hair and wasted,
sunken physiques, many of them already look the part. Now all
they must do is raise their arms, hang their heads, and wait for
the spear that will set them free.
But then again, this would spell death for the hipster movement
as we know it. In fact, one might argue that this whole essay has
been a trap, baited with promised enlightenment, camouflaged
in academic jargon, poisoned with injurious advice. Or, even
more precisely, maybe it is a snapshot of that which demands
fervently not to be photographed—like the pygmy deep in the
jungle suddenly brought to light, given universal visibility in a
flash but robbed of its soul.
Revenge of the douchebags, indeed.
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Wag’s RevueTHE WEEDS
Eve Hamilton
Some waiters are serving life sentences. Everyone knows
who’s hurting more than they are, everyone knows who’s going
to break next. Serving, drinking, serving, drinking. When
someone falls off the wagon, they might show up anyway, they
might stumble through their side work and hope the manager
doesn’t notice their quivering hands. Of course, managers can
fall off too.
The day I walked from campus looking for a job, George
was in his first week as general manager and three days into a
bender that didn’t stop to sleep. He lifted his damp cheek from
the marble countertop, clutched my résumé but didn’t read
it, and hired me even though I’d never waitressed before. My
first night, the owner—a calm, giant man with a braid down
his back—sent George home to sleep off the booze. One waiter,
Billy, made sure I was doing alright because I probably looked
as lost as I felt. He recited an autobiographical limerick: “There
once was a man from Pawtucket…” and I laughed.
Kate lit a menthol in the parking lot behind the restaurant.
Exhaling into the late summer air, she scoffed, “Billy? He’s a
cokehead and he has a kid. Stay away from that, sweetheart.”
When the night’s done and the people are gone, the rules
change, the music comes on, uniforms fall off, bottles are
momentarily pilfered from behind the bar while the GM is
downstairs swearing at the cooks and sliding his fingers down
rows of numbers on credit card print outs. One waiter, Steven,
passed us all shots of Jack—me, Billy, Chah-lie the Portuguese,
bobble-headed baby-faced Jonah and little Max the busser with
dark circles under his eyes. We clocked out. We made it to Hot
Club down on the water, where it smells like fish and brown
liquor. Billy offered me a ride home and I accepted.
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I awoke and passed my eyes over his body. His skin was
summer-tanned and taut. He had clean features and hair so
blonde it was nearly invisible. His eyes were slate blue, mythic,
the sort of eyes everyone notices. (“Have you ever looked into
his eyes, it was like the first time I heard the Beatles,” Steven
joked, quoting Superbad.)
Murphy’s Pub down near the Dunkin’ Donuts center right
before last call looks like a waitering convention: the Cheesecake
Factory crew in all-white, staffs from Federal Hill with black
ties, us in white button-downs and jeans. Waiters make good
customers: we don’t ask for extra bread, we order another
round, we tip 20%. With the waiters, I wore my accent a little
differently, laughed along when they complained about how
kids from over at the college don’t tip well. We don’t tip well, I
realized.
Billy kept his hand tight on my thigh. “I hate that, when
people say I’m a cokehead,” he said, “I had a phase when I did a
lot of drugs, when I didn’t care about anything. But until three
months ago, I was going to meetings everyday, working out,
taking the EMT course. People talk, but they don’t know what
they’re saying.” He said he was going to be a firefighter soon, so
I told my cautious, well-brought-up friends that I was dating a
firefighter.
When he’d pull up to my apartment to pick me up, he’d turn
on his emergency lights and lean on the horn. I’d come out and
he’d be holding the passenger door ajar for me, yelling “Get in
the cah!” He owned a few dozen pairs of Nikes that he kept in
their original boxes, only wearing them when we went to dinner
or movies and being careful not to scratch them. He insisted
on paying, always had a few hundred in twenties folded in his
pocket. Once, as we were crossing a puddle-strewn parking
lot, he thrust his arm in front me holding me back, and mimed
throwing his jacket over the water so I could safely cross. It was
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we made love, he’d shake my hand and introduce himself: “Hi,
I’m Bill.”
But the bouncers and spinners at clubs and pool halls called
him “Crypto.” One of the grill chefs at work, (“Matt, call me
Splat”) had known Bill since kindergarten and called him
Crypto too. It was a nom de plume, a tagger’s alias.
Billy drove me into the cuts so I could see his murals. Alleys
and lots lined in chainlink, underneath freeways and bridges.
He told me how difficult tagging is, being scared, being up high,
only getting one try, trying not to get caught. He told me how
to steal twelve cans of paint at once. We drove the streets and
he pointed out the murals and told me the stories of the street
artists who’d been there, telling the histories of control and loss,
reading runes of an English dialect people like me don’t read.
He showed me his portfolio, polaroids of the letters C-R-Y-P-
T-O sprayed twenty-feet tall on the sides of dozens of boxcars
and overpasses. The snapshots were ordered chronologically: he
grew from a tough adolescent to a handsome twenty-something,
then his hairline receded slightly. A photo of his little girl fell
out at the end, onto the hardwood floor. I didn’t want to snoop.
I put it back in the album.
He is an artist, I told myself.
I told Steven everything. He lived a few doors down from me,
worked lunch and brunch with me. He’d puff-puff the hollowed
filter of a Parliament Light and light it. He was a sweet, self-
proclaimed wop with a chinstrap beard. He behaved more
like a mayor than a waiter. He spoke in catch-phrases, shook
hands, asked folks how they were doing tonight. He was deep
into a quarter-life breakdown, had moved back to Providence
and taken a waitering job to prove he was worth less than his
mechanical engineering degree, which he had decided would
never be used. He carried valium on his key-ring, but never took
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want to know how slowly, or quickly, time was passing. He
called me “doll,” and confirmed that “Bill-boy is a good guy.” I
was more comfortable around Steven than Billy.
There was a girl in Italy who Steven was in love with. She was
going to come back for Christmas, he said, and then he’d tell her
how much he loved her.
In Cranston, at 3 A.M., I recorded back-up vocals for one
of Tako’s hip-hop tracks. Encased in a padded booth and
headphones, I riffed “I just can’t get over you” over and over.
Tako was Portuguese, Native American and Puerto Rican, his
head of cornrows rocked with religious fervor when he mixed,
his fingers flying over knobs. He pulled my voice onto a screen
and dissected it, strained it, made it into something I’m not.
Singing back into the booth, my voice sounded as if I belonged
to that world. Billy sat in the lounge, sketching out the insignia
he planned to tag on the studio wall for Tako. They picked a date
when he would come over and paint it, plans they had made
before and broken. The basement studio was buried in the
concrete of what had once been a mill. I sat at a dying upright
piano and pressed on the keys. Dust and silverfish stirred in its
guts.
We climbed from the basement and Billy pulled his low-
riding Honda onto I-95. Ninety, one-hundred, one-hundred-
ten. I clutched the seatbelt across my torso, and didn’t say a
word. I saw oncoming bends of the road like tidal waves, calm
at a distance, crushing at approach.
We got to my place and he said he should probably just drop
me off. I wanted to argue with him, convince him to spend the
night with me.
He used my bathroom, came out clutching a plastic bag of
powder.
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Wag’s Revue“Brunch is hell,” Steven said, stamping out the first cigarette
of the morning. I was still up when the birds rose at dawn, lying
in bed, yelling at Billy in my mind. I finally fell asleep around
six and dreamed him back into the bathroom, dreamed that
bag swirling down the toilet. I dreamed him back across the
puddle with his jacket thrown across, I dreamed him shaking
my hand after making love. I dreamed him into my bed on that
first morning, tracing my eyes along his summer-tanned skin.
“You in the weeds? You weeded?” the waiters asked. It’s a
term that only waiters know and one they don’t use unless they
have to.
The weeds are when you feel your hands scooping ice into a
pitcher but your body has forgotten that it belongs to you and
you don’t even know where you’re supposed to walk with the
pitcher you’ve just filled because instead you’re remembering
that the gorgonzola was supposed to be on the side for 73 and
that bald guy wanted a spoon, and as you cross the dining room
you can feel the eyes of every person who wants something
from you that you cannot possibly give them—to just get some
refills for the kids, to tell you the chicken is undercooked, to ask
whether the mussel preparation with saffron is gluten free—and
just as you are about to put that fifteen person order into the
computer a bottle of ketchup explodes red across the tiles and
the chef points out that you are retarded and a credit card stripe
goes dull and somebody asks if you can break a hundred and
your manager circles like a vulture above a rotting corpse and
you fantasize about ripping off your fucking apron and walking
out the door, perhaps into oncoming traffic, because there is no
conceivable way that anyone could save you from the awfulness
that is this job.
“Like death, the weeds must ultimately be faced alone,”
Steven said. I suppose it is like what someone must feel as their
mortality swirls inside an erring vehicle, or a body of water
sucks them under, or, crouched in a bathroom stall, they wish
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mixer, he’s a dealer. And he’s not just a waiter or an artist he’s—
“What are you doing?” Billy called and asked.
“Reading a book.”
“You’re wicked smart.”
Billy first took me to his house in the dead of the night.
He’d said he had two roommates, but by roommates he meant
parents. In the big box windows facing the street his mother
had constructed an elaborate scene with miniature trick-or-
treaters and papier-mâché jack-o-lanterns that flickered with
electric bulbs all night long. He had regular Coca-Cola in the
fridge, which he’d bought just for me. He, like most every Rhode
Islander I’ve ever known, only drank Diet. And, in the morning
he warmed my clothing in the dryer, to protect my skin against
the cold air in his childhood room.
Nights became this, whispering beneath the drone of his
parents’ snores. We’d stop at a Sinclair gas station on the way to
Pawtucket the bucket and he’d buy Diet Coke or yellow Vitamin
Waters, explaining, “These yellow ones have caffeine, the others
don’t.” He’d buy microwavable Tostitos cheese with Doritos, or
Cheez-Its. He’d have Lost, Mad Men, The Office, or It’s Always
Sunny in Philadelphia recorded. There were two lace-doily-
draped sofas, but we’d share one, pelvis pressed to pelvis, brain
dead. We’d watch until five or six. I’d think about how I had
class at 10:30, but wouldn’t mention it to him, because another
episode meant another hour with his body laughing under mine.
“My mom made all the curtains,” he told me. They matched
the lampshades. She was once almost Miss Rhode Island, but
his father had not let her compete. For weeks I didn’t meet his
parents, but smelled their menthols and knew the sounds of
their sleeping.
When we ran out of new episodes, it’d be the Food Network,
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Wag’s Revuewhich taught us about mirepoix, the French holy trinity. I told
him that cilantro and coriander are the same, that what they call
a burgundy is basically pinot noir. Once, in front of a table of six,
he asked me in a quasi-theatrical waiterly-voice, “You’d agree
that the Le Grand Pinot Noir would be an acceptable substitute
for a burgundy?” It was if he’d explained to the customers that
we were sleeping together.
And one night, I was on, working the booths in the back,
and Billy walked in with his little girl. Word in the restaurant
spread that Billy was there with his daughter, and I watched
them walk through and sit in my section. I ran downstairs and
outside because I wanted to tell someone that I was terrified.
But instead I filled a water pitcher and walked over and said hi
to them, wearing a voice that was both waitress and coworker,
girlfriend and adult around child. She wore a small pink coat,
which he took off tenderly and set on the booth alongside her.
He ordered her salad with chicken fingers, cut up her food into
small bites, told her to sit up straight. They both colored on the
white paper laid across the tablecloth. I watched them from the
back, didn’t want to stand next to them and interrupt father-
daughter time. They only got three nights a week. He tagged
C-R-Y-P-T-O over and over on the table, and she scribbled.
“Luna, say hello,” he told her, and I don’t believe she said
anything back. She was shy. She was beautiful.
“I’ve been an insta-daddy once too,” Steven told me over a
pitcher at Minerva’s (not a great place, but Steven liked to go
there to sweetly accost the girl who took phone orders, his
attention rousing her customer-less nights. “How’s my favorite
Portuguese lady?” he’d ask. She was square-nosed but otherwise
not unattractive. She would blush). His tone hinted at the fact
that he sympathized with me, but he spoke as if becoming an
insta-parent is a phase everyone goes through, and I needed to
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His ex in Georgia had two daughters. He referred to her as
“the best lay I ever had.” He always gave titles to the girls he’d
had: there was “the most beautiful girl in the world,” “the only
girl I ever loved,” “the best girl I’ll ever get.” He talked about
the girl in Italy every day, referred to her as “the girl I’m gonna
marry.” Sometimes I thought about how the girl in Italy maybe
didn’t exist.
Luna, Billy and I went to Wal-Mart so I could buy white button
downs from the little boy’s section, size 16 for $15. White shirts
quickly soak up wine, aioli and ink; we all went through them
like toilet paper. Luna and I strolled the aisles together, she
slipped her tiny hand in mine.
One morning I realized that during the night she’d climbed
into our bed.
The Minerva’s waitress insisted she was hardly Portuguese;
the furthest she’d been away from Rhode Island was Virginia,
once. Steven dreamed of Italy. Billy had taken exactly two
flights in his life — one to Vegas, for his honeymoon, and one
back. Luna had a t-shirt that said Las Vegas. The shirt bothered
me. The timeline was never clear to me, but for three months
he and his ex-wife had been married. I knew, too, that has wife
had been a stripper. It seemed unlikely now that he’d ever take
a flight again, “because of the baby.” He always referred to Luna
as “the baby,” even though she was almost four.
Luna danced with silly rolling eyes to songs in her head. She
was proud of her innie belly-button and ran room to room
before bath time. She demanded we watch her talent shows,
that we play grocery store, that she have one gumball now and
one gumball later. She had long mermaid locks and her eyes
pooled with tears when he brushed them.
“Daddy, excuse me,” she’d scream over and over if he and I
tried to hold a conversation while driving. Sometimes he’d reply
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(“Oh I’m sorry, Luna, I forgot you’re the only person in the car”),
sometimes there’d be a note of real anger in his voice (“Will
you hold on a minute?”). She always wanted the music louder.
She didn’t mind his hip-hop, but she preferred her sing-along
CD. We drove in his hot little sports car: twenty-seven-year-old
father, twenty-year-old girlfriend, and three-year-old daughter,
busting the speakers with: Dinah won’t you blow, Dinah won’t
you blow, Dinah won’t you blow your horn—
For three days Billy’s parents went out of town and I saw his
house during daylight. We rose with Luna jumping on the bed,
made Folgers and eggs downstairs. When he poured her milk
instead of juice she sobbed. She finished her fit and he ironed
while she and I watched Curious George. He pulled her little
jeans onto her and chided her for getting big. Every time he
dropped her at his ex-wife’s mother’s house for the remainder of
the week she cried hysterically, grabbed his knees. Sometimes I
felt she was jealous of me. Other times I realized that there was
no way he would ever love any girl as much as he loved her.
“Cocaine is a marvelous drug,” Steven said, “But I can’t touch
the stuff.” It was because of the panic attacks, same reason he
never worked nights. I got used to them. Every once in a while
we’d be out somewhere when he’d suddenly turn to me and ask
if we could get out of here, his face pale and voice low and shaky,
the valium in the key ring rattling around. We’d leave together
and I was his friend.
I came to Steven upset when Billy disappeared. Stopped
answering my calls, stopped calling me back. Every minute I
would invent another reason to call him, to see if he answered
this time. What was the word Rhode Islanders use for submarine
sandwich?
“What’d you expect?” he tried to sound tough, but I knew
he was sympathetic. “You’re young,” he finally said. He called
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staring down thirty like it’s a barrel of a gun,” he’d say. He pissed
on someone’s stoop. He broke his empty beer bottle against a
bus stop. He held my hand and swung it back and forth as we
went running to the next bar.
With as little warning as when he’d left, Billy showed up
again, mumbling something about his phone battery, a stray
wandering out of a wild stint in the woodwork. His eyes were
small and dark. He laced up some fresh Nikes, held open the
door for me, bought me a nice Chinese dinner at a restaurant in
Massachusetts that advertised its fresh sushi on late night TV.
He was back but I’d caught worry. Whenever I suspected
that he wasn’t calling me back, my thoughts got angry. I’d scrub
Luna’s magic marker tattoos from my legs in the shower, take
the graffiti picture of my name he’d done off my wall and hide it
in my bottom drawer. I’d delete his number, knowing I’d get it
back when he called.
His mother’s front windows were lined with pilgrim figurines,
turkeys, and cornucopias of ears of corn and squash weaved
from raffia. Luna was still talking about Halloween. She didn’t
realize it was over, because no one had taken her trick-or-
treating.
The easiest way to get Luna to go somewhere was to race. Luna
always won the races and Billy always got dead last, panting
and collapsing in pantomimed face-plants. We put on jackets
and raced through the crisp brown leaves at Slater Park Zoo.
Fanny the elephant had spent thirty years of her life chained to
a barn there. Billy remembered Fanny, remembered boy scouts,
remembered his brother-in-law who was fatally stabbed at a bar
down the street. The plastic tunnels electrified all of our blonde
hair. I wondered if the low-talking thirty-something mothers
with state-of-the-art strollers and protective sunglasses thought
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Did Billy look old enough, mature enough to have kids?
Because we always exchanged the same stories twice, Steven
told me about how he was an insta-daddy in Georgia again in
the back of his Turismo. He’d bought the Turismo off this kid
Barnabe who parked it in the lot behind the restaurant, paid
$700 cash for it, which meant he’d given up medical insurance
for the rest of the year. It was low-riding, maroon inside and
out. Steven owned four cars, but only drove one of them. The
Ford was the everyday car, the Rabbit was for summers, the
Camry sat in his grandparent’s driveway on Federal Hill and the
Turismo was his point of vanity.
A couple of drinks and we’d go out to the Turismo, turn on
eighties rock radio, light cigarettes. “I could do anything to this
car,” he’d brag, “I could take a dump in it, I could light it on
fire. Nobody would care because it’s mine. I’d say to them, ‘do
sumfin ‘bout it!’”
He could do anything in the Turismo except drive it. It had
no plates or insurance; it sat in a lot shielded by bushes. “Apra
il libro,” Steven said, as he propped the trunk open with a
tree branch. He was taking Italian classes so he could woo the
girl he was going to marry, but the only phrase he could ever
remember was “Open the book.” Tracks of snow melted across
the warming glass. We laid in the back and fantasized about
driving to Savannah, to San Francisco, to somewhere. Steven
spent most of his time planning escape routes. All the waiters
did. Wiping down hundreds of pieces of hot wet silverware
they’d discuss how much they owed, how long it was going to
take, where they were going to go when they got free.
I flew home for Thanksgiving. Billy called me after I’d landed.
I was in the car with my father on 580. The City glistened over
the Bay’s late autumn mists. “Rice-A-Roni, the San Francisco
treat…” Billy sang into the phone. At home, I spent a lot of time
standing in the bathroom, running bathwater. I went to my
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the firefighter was. I said he was fine.
“No hair!” Billy yelled from his window as I stood outside TF
Green Airport, breathing into the collar of my thin coat.
Billy’s mother had four kinds of store-bought pies congealing
in the fridge, and instant mashed potatoes stirred with peppered
ground beef. He nuked bowl after bowl as he talked, his eyes
were small and dark. He said he’d slept through Thanksgiving.
“If somebody wants me to take an eight table section, I will. If I
have a bag of blow, I’ll finish it, even if I don’t want it.” He said.
“I just get bored, I’m just never content with anything.” We all
think such conditions are unique to ourselves, I wanted to say.
“I’m gonna go visit Bill and Bob,” he told me, euphemistic AA
lingo for climbing back on the wagon. “Hi my name is Billy and
I-I-I-m baaaack,” he said chuckling.
He stroked my skin, looked at photos of my childhood home,
my dog, my family. He paused at the snapshot of an incarnadine
sunset over my grandfather’s porch at the lake. I told him about
the slopes, the cabin, the water so cold you couldn’t breathe. I
said he could fly out for Christmas, if he wanted. I told him I had
a free ticket he could use.
I pictured explaining to my parents, or to anyone but Steven,
what exactly Billy was. I remembered standing outside some
dealer’s house at four in the morning while Billy threatened
to kill him. I remembered Luna dropping four nickels into a
porcelain piggy bank and saying wishes, “For Chuck-e-Cheese,
for Daddy to kiss Mommy…”
He was going to visit Bill and Bob. He didn’t have a problem
with coke, just coke when he was drunk, so he was going to just
give up drinking. He was going to just give up brown liquor,
because brown liquor made him violent. He was just going out
after work, but just for a nightcap. He was going to a sick show
this weekend, could I take his Saturday night shift? If he saved
an extra two-hundred a month he could get a studio apartment.
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Wag’s RevueHis parents liked having him and Luna there. He was going
to have enough money to start trying to get a firefighting job,
maybe June. Maybe next year. He always gained a little weight
in winter.
The windows had angels. The Food Network told us everything
there is to know about struffoli, a fried Italian holiday treat
neither of us had ever tasted. He molded his body into the sofa,
didn’t bother with Luna, let her bother me. For the first time,
I mentioned to one of my friends at Brown that I was dating a
coke addict with a kid.
Steven wrapped his big hairy body around me. His boa
constrictor’s cage lamp lit his room up red. “You know when
you’re surfing, and you’re tired, and you just get that one last
dinky wave, and ride it all the way to the edge? That’s what you
need to do,” he said. Steven was counting down the days until
the girl in Italy flew to him. He trimmed his chinstrap beard.
“How’s my favorite Portuguese lady?” Steven said, and
the Minerva’s girl blushed, wished us a happy New Year. She
grabbed us a pitcher before we could even ask for it. “You are
an angel, how do you always know what I want?” Steven said
happily and turned to me with a look of blank sadness: “She
didn’t come home for Christmas. Or at least I didn’t hear from
her. I sent her flowers but she didn’t call.” I told him I had
thought that might happen all along. He looked at me with the
same stupid eyes I’d looked at him with for so many months,
and said, “Really?”
We finished our drinks and then two more and flick-flicked
our Parliament Lights. We were sopped in feeling like victims,
of getting what we deserved, of having known better. Outside,
Providence spit out whatever kind of weather it wanted, rain
or ice, sleet or slush, and the sun gave up and set in the early
afternoon.
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