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Someone with a non-winning script is a middle of the roader. He plods along from day to day, not making any big winds but not making any big losses either. He doesn’t take risk. This kind of script pattern is often called banal.
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Non Winning
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Prepared By Manu Melwin JoyResearch Scholar
School of Management StudiesCUSAT, Kerala, India.Phone – 9744551114
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Non Winning Script
• Someone with a non-winning script is a middle of the roader.
• He plods along from day to day, not making any big winds but not making any big losses either.
• He doesn’t take risk. This kind of script pattern is often called banal.
Non Winning Script• At work, a non-winner will
not become the boss. He will not be fired either.
• Instead, he will likely serve out his working years, be awarded a marble clock, and go into quiet retirement.
• He may sit in his rocking chair reflecting : “ I could have been the boss if only I did been the right place at the right time. Ah, well, I didn’t do so bad, I suppose.”
Winners, Losers and non winners• Berne suggested that you
could tell a winner from a loser by asking him what he would do if he lost.
• He said a winner knows but doesn’t talk about it.
• A loser doesn’t know and all he talk about is winning : ‘When I make my first million…’.
• He stakes everything on one option and that is how he loses.
Winners, Losers and non winners• A winner always has
additional options, and that is how he wins. If one thing doesn’t work out, he does something else until he is successful.
• A non-winner sometimes wins and sometime loses, but never very big in either direction, because he doesn’t take risks.
• He plays it safe, and that is how he remains a non-winner.
Thank You
Other TA topics available on slideshare1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607.
2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological-games-people-play.
3. Structural Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/the-ego-state-model.4. What is TA? - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/what-ta-is5. Cycles of Development -
http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of-developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis.
6. Stages of Cure - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stages-of-cure.7. Transactions - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/transactions-33677298.8. Time Structuring - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/time-structuring.9. Life Position - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/life-position.10. Autonomy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/autonomy-33690557. 11. Structural Pathology - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/structural-pathology.12. Game Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/game-analysis-33725636.13. Integrated Adult - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/integrated-adult.14. Stroke Economy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stroke-economy-33826702.
