Non Verbal Communication

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Scenario 1 – You are sitting in front of an interview panel with arms crossed.

So far you have not been asked a single question, however, your crossed arms

have spoken louder than the words.

 Tip 1 – Never keep your arms crossed especially during formal one-on-one

meetings. It suggests you are not open to feedback and could also suggest that

 you are trying to dominate the situation.

Scenario 2 – You are giving a presentation to a group of 20 people. You keep

 your gaze fixed at the centre of the class / room through the presentation –

 your gaze has spoken louder than your words.

 Tip 2 – Your gaze at one person should not be more than 4 - 5 seconds while

delivering a presentation / communicating with a large group unless you are

addressing an individual.

Scenario 1 and 2 clearly demonstrate the importance of Non Verbal

Communication.

 What is Non Verbal Communication?

It is communication of feelings, emotions, attitudes, and thoughts through

 body movements / gestures / eye contact, etc.

 Thecomponents of Non Verbal Communication are:

Kinesics: It is the study of facial expressions, postures & gestures. Did

 you know that while in Argentina to raise a fist in the air with knuckles

pointing outwards expresses victory, in Lebanon, raising a closed fist is

considered rude?

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Oculesics: It is the study of the role of eye contact in non-verbal

communication. Did you know that in the first 90 sec - 4 min you decide

that you are interested in someone or not. Studies reveal that 50% of this

first impression comes from non-verbal communication which includes

oculesics. Only 7% of comes from words - that we actually say.

Haptics: It is the study of touching. Did you know that acceptable level

of touching vary from one culture to another? In Thailand, touching

someone's head may be considered as rude.

Proxemics: It is the study of measurable distance between people as

they interact. Did you know that the amount of personal space when

having an informal conversation should vary between 18 inches - 4 feet

 while, the personal distance needed when speaking to a crowd of people

should be around 10-12 feet?

Chronemics: It is the study of use of time in non-verbal communication.

Have you ever observed that while AN employee will not worry about

running a few minutes late to meet a colleague, a manager who has a

meeting with the CEO, a late arrival will be considered as a nonverbal

cue that he / she does not give adequate respect to his superior?

Paralinguistics: It is the study of variations in pitch, speed, volume, and

pauses to convey meaning. Interestingly, when the speaker is making a

presentation and is looking for a response, he will pause. However, when

no response is desired, he will talk faster with minimal pause.

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Physical Appearance: Your physical appearance always contributes

towards how people perceive you. Neatly combed hair, ironed clothes and

a lively smile will always carry more weight than words.