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Crisis Management
Divorce
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Characteristics of Abusers Jealous, short tempered Reacts physically Raised in abusive environment Macho Type May/may not batter kids Have the right to beat others Think victims need abuse
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Characteristics of the Abused Raised in abusive
environment Low self-esteem, insecure Isolated Doesn't want to fail Fear of leaving/ or others
getting hurt
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The Violence Cycle Works like this:
– 1-Tension Building – 2-Battering Incident
– 3-Honeymoon Phase
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Mild Moderate Severe Fatal – shoving punching weapon threat strangle – pushing kicking battering stabbing – slapping choking stomping shooting
Abuse Continuum
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Violence
Why would someone stay in
an abusive relationship????
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Violence Financial Dependence Social Implications Fear
Belief he/she is cause of violence
Belief everyone acts that way
Feelings of incompetence
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Divorce
Factors Leading To:
– Lack of love
– Lack of
communication
– Lack of respect
– Finances
– Substance Abuse
– Sexual Infidelity
– Selfishness
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Problems with Divorce
Divorce hurts you
Divorce hurts those
around you
Single life is not all
that great!
Staying married is
better for you!!!
– Health, financial,
children, family, etc.
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Coping with Divorce
Shock and numbness
– Denial
Reality
– Deep sadness, sense
of loss, anxiety,
depression
Recovery
– Loss is final,
adjustments are made
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Adjusting to Divorce
Self-Concept
– Depreciated self-
value
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Adjusting to Divorce
School Performance
– Academics drop in
males
– Truancies, absences
increase
– Parents assist less
– Emotional problems
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Adjusting to Divorce
Peer Relationships
– Less sociable
– Less participation
– More hostile
– Delinquent act-
females
– Dating:
• More difficult-females
• Premarital sex
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Adjusting to Divorce
Children's Needs
– Understanding why it
happened
– Not their fault
– Help to deal with
loss, anger, guilt
– Accept permanence
– Take a chance on
love in the future
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Age Effects
Preschoolers
(2-5 years)
– Major theme
• Fear of Abandonment
– Symptoms
• Sleep disturbance
– What to do
• Explain that custodial
parent will always
return
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Age Effects Young Childhood
(5-9 years)
– Major theme
• Fear of being displaced
and grief
– Symptoms
• School difficulties, fear
of being replaced, fear
for well-being of absent
parent
– What to do
• Have contact with
absent parent, okay to
grieve, stress not cause
of divorce
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Age Effects
Older Children
(9-12 years)
– Major theme
• Acting out
– Symptoms
• Fighting with parent,
spying for other parent
– What to do
• Be patient & loving,
cope with your own
feelings, expect some
physical complaints
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Age Effects Adolescence:
– Major theme
• Fear of own relationship
failures
– Symptoms
• Independence,
promiscuous behavior,
confusion of right/wrong
regarding divorce
– What to do
• Continual contact and
communication,
discussions on lasting
relationships,
encouragement
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Crisis Management
The Grieving Process
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Reactions to Death
Physical Reactions:
– numbness, unfeeling, pain, tightness in the
throat, disinterest in eating, can’t sleep,
tired
Emotional Reactions:
– stabbing pain, sudden anger, sense of
unfairness, feeling of relief, guilt, anger,
hostility, fear, anxiety
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Mourning Process
Shock:
– Time between time
of death and the time
the final
arrangements are
made for the body
– Denial
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Mourning Process
Intense Pain and
Feelings of Loss
– 2-3 months after
death
– Withdrawal from
world
– Restless sleep
– Weight loss
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Mourning Process
Resolution:
– Starts living a normal
life again
– Eating and sleeping
habits return
– Memories of
deceased bring joy
and pleasure rather
than the pain of grief
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Major Stage in Dying
Clinical Death
– Heart and lungs cease to function
Brain Death
– Lack of oxygen to brain cells
Cellular Death
– When oxygen in the tissue and organs is
depleted and all functions slowly cease
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Death and Grieving Vocabulary
Match the death and grieving terms with
the correct definitions.
How many can you do?
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Obituary
Create
your own
obituary!!!