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Not Without Her - Communal Harmony i

NFCHMonograph

13Not Without Her

Communal Harmony

Edited by:

Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi

National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi

Not Without Her - Communal Harmony i

NFCHMonograph

13Not Without Her

Communal Harmony

Edited by:

Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi

National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi

Not Without Her - Communal Harmony i

NFCHMonograph

13Not Without Her

Communal Harmony

Edited by:

Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi

National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi

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Not Without HerCommunal Harmony

National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi

2015

Not Without Her - Communal Harmony ii

Not Without HerCommunal Harmony

National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi

2015

Not Without Her - Communal Harmony ii

Not Without HerCommunal Harmony

National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi

2015

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Not Without HerCommunal Harmony

Edited by:

Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi

Published by:

National Foundation for Communal Harmony (NFCH)9th Floor, ‘C’ Wing, Lok Nayak BhawanKhan Market, New Delhi-110 003

© 2015, National Foundation for Communal Harmony (NFCH)

‘Any part of this publicationmay be reproduced or utilized in any form

or by any means with due acknowledgement to NFCH’

Edition 2015

ISBN- 978-81-887772-14-8

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Foreword

It gives me immense pleasure to present you with a set of essays authoredby officers of All India and Group ‘A’ Services undergoing their FoundationCourses at Lal Bahadur Shastri National Academy of Administration, Mussoorie(LBSNAA); RCVP NORONHA Academy of Administration and Management,Bhopal; and National Academy of Direct Taxes, Nagpur in collaboration with theNational Foundation for Communal Harmony (NFCH). These essays presentedin the form of monographs are result of the annual essay competition organizedby the Foundation for officers undergoing training at these Institutions.

The theme of “Not Without Her Communal Harmony ” is very importantbecause of its inherent worth and value as also because the world celebrated thecentenary of the International Women’s Day recently.

The noted researcher and author Gabriel Dietrich notes in his book “SomeReflections on Women’s Movement in India: Religion, Ecology and development”that “communal confrontations are normally engineered by men. Women areoften the primary victims, having to bear the brunt of communal violence”. If thisis true then it is women who suffer as women, as wives, as mothers, asdaughters and in capacity of numerous other societal roles that they play. Theythen have the capacity to reverse the process through their varied roles.

If a child has not known violence in the family, he will not be violent ordisruptive as a grown up. It is the responsibility not only of women but indeed ofthe whole family to create a conducive and peaceful atmosphere at homeparticularly while bringing up children. It can be argued that even if children arebrought up in a peaceful, soothing and harmonious atmosphere at home, later onin life when faced with crisis situations they might change and become violent,brutal, vicious and intemperate. In recent times, Japan is a living example ofpeaceful and disciplined behavior this was witnessed during the recentFukushine catastrophe which was followed by the earthquake and the tsunami.The Japanese people remained calm and peaceful inspite of being struck bysuch a colossal disaster and unforeseen calamity.

Mothers can play a pivotal role through lullabies, stories and by settingliving examples of peace and harmony in their families. These days most womencontribute in myriad ways to economic and social growth and development of thecountry and community. As teachers, they can make an enormous difference andcontribute immensely in instilling the ideals and principles of peaceful co-existence, mutual respect, unity, amity and concord through their teachings,guidance and encouragement. As Colman McCarthy has written:

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“Unless we teach our children peace, somebody else will teach themviolence”.

Woman as a mother is the first teacher of human beings; through her love,care, warmth and affection, she can teach peace before someone else leadsthem on to anti-social, violent and destructive paths.

I would like to express my deep appreciation and gratitude to the officerswho in spite of their busy schedule have taken out the time to write these essayscovering various dimensions of the topic. It is a momentous service to society.

We have tried our best to edit the essays; still errors may remain for whichwe express our deep regret. The responsibility for opinions expressed in theessays rests solely with the contributors and the views expressed therein do notnecessarily reflect that of the Foundation.

(Ashok Sajjanhar)Secretary

NFCH

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From the Editors’ Desk

The basic idea of democracy is to have a government, which canembody the aspirations of all the different sections of the society and solicittheir contributions in building the character of the state. Women constitutenearly half of the population of the nation and in the task of building thenation as was envisaged by its founding fathers, the role of women cancertainly not be ignored. When India was born as an independent nation in1947, many intellectuals around the world speculated, how long thisdemocracy would survive. Many are still surprised and astonished on as tohow this nation despite the various internecine wars and bloody conflictshas survived. The reason it has survived is perhaps hidden in the simplefact that we have had women of quality and caliber in this nation, who haveworked - at times in the foreground and at other times behind the curtains -to provide the nation with the critical adhesive in form of talent and moralforce, with which the nation now ventures and ushers ahead to become oneof the superpowers of the world. Indeed, a salute to all such women ismore than required and much overdue.

“The Role of Women in fostering Communal Harmony and NationalIntegration” was a monograph that we at the National Foundation forCommunal Harmony had been planning for a long period. It was born out ofthe realization that the movement of women empowerment has gonebeyond the level of sensitization. It was felt that in the post-modern world,women empowerment has ushered into the phase that not only a sense ofequality needs to be instilled in the minds of the women, but it is also muchrequired that women take up active roles in leading the society byvigorously steering the direction in which the civilization progresses. Afterall, the nation has been able to produce a woman President, Prime Minister,Supreme Court Judge and women achievers of the highest echelons invarious fields such as sports, business, academics, social development,science and civil services. However, it was felt that the country is yet tounderstand the role of women in bringing about macro-level social changesin the nation.

“Could women influence a macro-level social changes in the nation ina concerted manner?” “If yes, then How?” Such questions led us to ponderupon the question of the role of women in bringing about communalharmony and fostering national integration in India. In order to understandthe answers to these questions, we decided to solicit the views in thisregard, of none other than a group of one of the brightest minds in thenation who have the responsibility to administer future policies that willdefine the character of this country – the members of the Indian civilservices. Hence, students of the various civil service academies were

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invited to share their views on the subject of “Role of Women in fosteringCommunal Harmony & National Integration”.

In the process of compiling these essays, it was the pleasure of theeditorial group to reflect upon the views expressed by the young generationof civil servants in India - which have been summarized briefly in thefollowing paragraphs. Indeed the perspectives gathered in this monographwere heartening as well as enlightening. The editorial board was pleased toobserve that the civil servants of this nation were free from any religious orcommunal bigotry and that they form a progressive group of people who arefirstly optimistic regarding the future of the nation and are more importantlyalready drawing up plans to improve the state of harmony and peace in thenation.

One of the key arguments made by most of the contributors of thismonograph was that leadership is perhaps one major area wherein Indianeeds more women to come forward and take on the reigns. There is aneed for women leadership to become a rule rather than an exception insolving critical issues such as the prevalent disharmony in the society forthe simple reason that firstly, women provide the sort of leadership for thenation that no one else can. An interesting finding in this regard has beenthat for the competency “Practicing Self Development”, which measures theextent to which people ask for feedback and make changes based on thatfeedback, women tend to perform better with the advancement of theircareers while men tend to become more closed to feedback and to beingcorrected1. As a result, women improve as leaders over time and tend torectify their mistakes, which over a long period of time gives them an edgeand builds them into seasoned leaders.

To emphasize the role of women in the public sphere variousexamples and cases have been discussed by the writers, of women whohave proved their mettle in high achievement as well as by display ofsuperior leadership qualities. However, there is also cognition of thepresence of a “glass ceiling” that restricts the progress of women in theprofessional sphere. While increasingly one sees women leaders rising upthe ladder, the presence of a glass ceiling is certainly not ignorable. TheIndira Gandhi(s) and Indira Nooyi(s) of India are certainly exceptions ratherthan the rule. Nevertheless, a commitment to break such a glass ceiling inpractice has echoed in almost all of the articles.

Another aspect that resonated in most of the articles is the role ofwomen in nurturing and psychologically conditioning the future generations.

1 Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/study-women-are-better-leaders-2014-1#ixzz3XQ4Vz5wJ

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Apart from a few commentators who considered household work by womena ‘chore’, a vast majority of the writers gave emphasis on the naturalnurturing ability of the woman and its role in producing tolerant attitudes inthe future generations. Consequently, it has also been concluded in most ofthe articles in this monograph that women are the prime victims ofcommunal disharmony and never the perpetuators of the same. Such aconclusion is also supported, by theories such as that of a “youth bulge”presented by Gunnar Heinsohn (2003), that presents the argument that anexcess in especially young adult male population predictably leads to socialunrest, war and terrorism. Various developed nations have begun toformulate their international policies based on this theory and hence, thearguments made in the articles in the present monograph, that women arenot active perpetuators of communal differences, may not be far from thetruth.

One factor that is somewhat wanting in the contributions of thismonograph is that while there is a definite focus on arguing the competenceof women in bringing about communal harmony, only a few of the writershave touched upon a concrete program on as to “how” women can bringabout communal harmony. Perhaps if such a contribution was solicited fromprospective legislators, this aspect would have received more focus.Nevertheless, the lack of focus is majority of the articles on this aspect ismade up for in the concrete strategies laid out in a select few articles in thismonograph, which indeed explore this facet in immense depth. Apart fromdiscussing the role of the women in conditioning the minds of the futuregenerations as mothers and teachers, many contributors have discussed atlength specific strategies such as the organization of women in Self-Help-Groups, through NGOs and through concerted public participation informing as well as influencing policies. More importantly, a remarkableunderstanding of policy administration and execution has beendemonstrated in the articles which gives one an assurance that the civilservants of the nation are exceedingly competent to create a healthierfuture for the nation, fueled by the ardour of service to the nation, they aredetermined to deliver a better tomorrow as they communicate that “there ishope!”

As far as possible, a conscious attempt has been made by the editorsto select articles in such a manner that all the perspectives voiced by thedifferent contributors are taken into account. However, the editorial board,though unwillingly, has had to select only a select few articles for publicationowing to the scarcity of space and the consideration to avoid repetitivenessas far as possible. Yet it would only be pertinent to state that the criterion forthe selection of articles was less the accuracy or sophistication of language,but quality of thought reflected in the article and the depth as well as width

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of ground covered in the matter of the article. Nevertheless, the editors arethankful beyond measure to all the contributors who expressed theirvaluable perspectives on the issue of “Women and Communal Harmony”.

Finally, a note on the title of the monograph is appropriate here. Themonograph was planned to be titled simply as “Women and CommunalHarmony” or the “Role of Women in fostering Communal Harmony andNational Integration”; but Shah Faesal’s article “Not Without Her” capturedthe minds of the editors as it embodied the spirit behind which thismonograph was commissioned. It is the spirit that communicates the strongmessage that communal harmony and national integration shall not prevailand cannot prevail in the nation without the participation of the woman.“Proactive directors”, not “reactive managers” or “victims”, is the label that isrequired to be taken up by the female populace of this nation and this is themessage with which the editors would gladly like to present this monographto the readers.

Dr. Rekha DwivediArpit Chaturvedi

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Arise then …..Women of this day!Arise, all women who have hearts!Whether your baptism is of water or of tears!

Say firmly:"We will not have questions answered by irrelevant agencies;Our husbands will not come to us, reeking with carnage,For caresses and applause.Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearnAll that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience.We, the women of one country,Will be too tender of those of another countryTo allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs."

Let women now leave all that may be left of homeFor a great and earnest day of counsel.Let them then solemnly take counsel with each other as to the meansWhereby the great human family can live in peace….Each bearing after their own time the sacred impress, not of CaesarBut of God.In the name of womanhood and of humanity, I earnestly askThat a general congress of women without limit of nationalityMay be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenientAnd at the earliest period consistent with its objects,To promote the alliance of the different nationalities,The amicable settlement of international questions,The great and general interests of peace.”

- by Julia Ward Howe

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“Peace begins with a smile”

- Mother Teresa

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Contributors Title PageNo.

1. Shah Faesal, IAS Not without her 1-6

2. Rashmiti Panda, IAS Women are the symbol of kindness 7-16

3. Anurag Chaudhary, IAS The hand that rocks the cradle saves the world 17-23

4. Suman Rawat, IAS Need to realize the role of women in maintainingCommunal Harmony

24-31

5. Durga Sakthi Nagpal, IAS Power of women is unlimited 32-39

6. Pawan Kumar Konda, IAAS Women are equal partner in the growth of a nation 40-48

7. Arunima Sharma, ICCES Women is the builder and moulder of a nation’sdestiny

49-55

8. Arun Thomas Kalathikal K.,IRAS

What a woman thinks essentially a nation thinks 56-58

9. Upasna Paul, IRS Women bring all kinds of harmony in the society 59-65

10. Satyarth Aniruddha Pankaj,IPS

Women carves nation or community at home 66-69

11. gjh’k panj, IPS naxksa ds f[kykQ gj efgyk dks ,dtqV gksuk pkfg, 70-78

12. jktho jatu, IAS Hkkjrh; ukfj;k¡ LoHkko ls gh R;kxoku ,oa /kS;Z’khy gksrh gSa 79-83

13. lqjsUnz dqekj >k, IPS efgyk;sa lkekftd ,oa jk"Vªh; iqufuZekZ.k dh lz"Vk 84-92

14. ftrsUnz dqekj lksuh] IAS ukjh gh lkEiznkf;d ln~Hkko dh lPph fgrS"kh gS 93-99

15. HkkLdj yk{kkdkj] IAS efgyk /kEe egkik= 100-105

16. EkksgEen ;qlwQ dqjS’kh] IPS jk"Vª dh ,drk rFkk v[kaMrk efgykvksa ds lg;ksx ds fcuklaHko ugha gS

106-110

17. t; izdk’k ekS;Z jk"Vª dh ,drk ,oa v[k.Mrk efgykvksa ds lg;ksx ds fcuklEHko ugha

111-114

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Not Without Her

Shah Faesal

An important aspect of the gender-equality discourse is the advocacy

for enlargement of woman's role in every sphere of life. And as gender

equality becomes the rallying cry, more and more logic is poured into the

proposition that including women would not just serve the feminist objectives

but also add great vigor to our worldly and spiritual pursuits.

Before commenting on the role of women in promoting national

integration and communal harmony, two important things need to be taken

into consideration. One, we cannot deny the fact that the prevailing social,

economic and political circumstances the world over have made it inevitable

that more and more women come on the fore and make difference by their

contributions. Secondly, the role-played by women in strengthening the

bonds of national unity and peace building has assumed such significance

that reaching out to them has become unavoidable.

Parallel to the emergence of nation-states and rise of communalism,

growing relevance of socio-political imperatives like communal harmony and

national integration is axiomatic. In fact, we do not perhaps need to sail far

back into the history for fishing the names of famous-women who have

worked towards these imperatives, as is often done by the amateur essayist!

My focus shall primarily be the specific vulnerabilities as well as the

"comparative advantage" that women have compared to men in dealing with

communal clashes or other forms of violent conflict and furthering national

unity.

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It is a truism that women are the worst sufferers in all kinds of wars and

violence. Their victimization is both direct as well as indirect as they occupy

a pivotal position in the family structure. She suffers as a woman, as a wife,

as a mother, as a daughter and in the capacity of numerous other societal roles

that she plays. Noted researcher and author Gabriele Dietrich notes in his

book, "Some Reflections on the Women's Movement in India: Religion,

Ecology, and Development", that, “communal confrontations are normally

engineered by men. Women are often the primary victims, having to bear the brunt

of the communal violence, whether it is rape or loss of male members of the family.

On the whole women have rarely been active in communal riots and have a clear

interest in avoiding them". These observations are also seconded by the

findings of a study by USAID in Rwanda, Cambodia, Guatemala, EI

Salvador, Georgia, and Bosnia and Herzegovina. The study concludes that

there are five major impacts of intrastate conflict on women and gender

relations:

1) Violence against civilians, of which 95% is female;

2) Internal displacement, of which 90% is women and children;

3) Redefinition of female identities in the society, both as victims and as

perpetrators;

4) Increased poverty and starvation, as result of targeted destruction of civilian

property; and

5) Communal violence leading to lasting bitterness, anger and hatred. Being

an important stakeholder, every woman is thus naturally placed in a position

to suffer but also contribute towards alleviation of others' suffering.

I admit that it is not fair and scientific to type-cast men or women and

attribute certain traits or roles to them based on the traditional understanding.

But I have very little hesitation to assert that the war and violence has

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historically been associated with a perverse idea of masculinity and manhood.

On the contrary, women have not just acted as powerful buffers against the

belligerent tendencies of men but also catalyzed binding and reconciliation

between groups and communities.

As a mother who is responsible for upbringing of the child, every

woman ensures that a deep imprint of the societal value system on the

understanding of the child. It is in fact at this level perhaps where she is most

effective in propagating a society's idea of right and wrong, peace and

violence or unity and disintegration. Proper nurture and right education

enhances the possibility that the individual would add value to the society.

At the same time, in our culture the idea of nation as Maatra- Bhoomi

or motherland is in itself a pointer to the relationship between women and

national integration. A feeling of holiness that we associate with the soil of

our country on one hand and the slogan of Vande Mataram on the other, for

us a woman symbolizes the wholesome and complete notion of a compact

nation. Beauty is more about the whole than about fragments. Nothing but a

woman can be the best representation of that love and beauty which both

mother and motherland stand for. Nationalism is in fact an unconscious

projection of this very sentiment that makes "mother" the first word in our

childhood vocabulary.

Somewhere above I had made a mention of women being natural

"buffers" in a society. Their very presence in fact counts. They primarily give

an emotional perspective to functioning of a society. Building healthy

relationships between families and groups is largely dependent on the kind 'of

emotional inputs that come from the women, although I do not mean to say

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that "emotion" is a preserve of women or that men are bereft of it.

Literature, both of English and various Indian languages offers us many

interesting insights. Two points are particularly important. One, that if we have

to look at the novels on the horrors of partition, both male and female authors

have drawn a near parallel between tragedy of the times and personal tragedy

of women. Partition had both the elements of fission, a nation breaking into

two and extreme human tragedy due to displacement and communal violence.

Secondly, women-writers like Amrita Pritam, Asmat Chugtai chose women as

their central characters while narrating the evil consequences of partition. It is

this women-connection perhaps that has made it easier on us to imagine the

pitfalls of violence and strife. This contribution of women may not be obvious

but is certainly worth taking note.

In the similar vein, women have put in their share of efforts towards the

cause of national integration and communal harmony in other diverse ways

too. In the field of spirituality, a personality like Mata Amritanandmai who is

venerated across the length and breadth of the country is in herself a symbol of

national unity. Her message of love has been effective in bridging the

important north-south divide in the country. P T Usha, the Iron Lady of India

had similar impact on our understanding of the idea of India. Names like Anita

Desai, Arundhati Rai, Jhumpa Lahiri have time and again been giving us the

reasons to take pride on our Indian, identity. This emotion transcends all other

narrow loyalties that we usually have, those of region, religion, caste and

language etc. Barkha Dutt is also a story herself.

Then we cannot forget the women of courage and substance,like, Mohini

Giri, Teesta Stelvad, Madhu Kishwarwho have put their lives at stake for

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upholding the values of tolerance and brotherhood. Their role in post-riots

rehabilitation of victims of violence and championing the rights of women

across communities is truly exemplary. Likewise, singers like M S

Subbhalaxmi and Lata Mangeshkar have for decades been spreading the

message of compassion and stitching the nation into one whole.

Off-late the growing phenomenon of women self-help groups is

becoming the cause of a major change in the communities. Since most of these

SHGs are organized only around economic considerations irrespective of the

background of participants, SHGs are also emerging as institutional models; of

peaceful coexistence. Women in this manner are leading a slow revolution at

the grass-roots level in' creating a common ground and strengthening the forces

of cohesion.

My own experience during a Certificate Course in Conflict

Transformation for SAARC Emerging Youth Leaders, conducted last year in

Nepal by SIT Graduate Institute USA, is worth sharing as well. My interaction

with a significant number of women participants from across the SAARC

States was enough to conclude that across the region women are leading the

march for non-violence and peaceful existence. Mossarat Qadeem, member of

the Paiman Trust Pakistan has been active in North Waziristan for more than a

decade to create an alternative discourse to religious extremism and violence.

Sumshot Khullar from Manipur, a social activist working in the field of

education has taken to spreading the message of peace and national integration

through schools. Chhaya Sharma, head of an NGO in Nepal has been actively

pursuing the agenda of peace-building in the post conflict Nepal particularly

in wake re-integration of Maoists in Nepali mainstream. Similarly Kyatri

from Sri Lanka shared her own experience of working with communities in

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post-LTTE period, experiences that were quite encouraging.

Just a few days back Government of India appointed Prof. Radha

Kumar as one of the interlocutors on Kashmir. It is in itself an

acknowledgement of the new set of possibilities that a woman brings to the

table during the course of negotiations and reconciliation. These talks being

an important attempt towards the emotional integration of the Valley with

rest of the country.

It would be worthwhile to conclude with the thought that women are

by default well-suited to further the cause of communal harmony and

national integration. They are the binding threads between families and

communities and the spring of emotional cohesion. It is high time that the

phrase, "not without her" gets embedded into our commonsense and we

capitalize on the great interest and commitment that they have towards this

cause.

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Women the symbolism of kindness

RASHMITA PANDA

The original sin in the Garden of Eden's was that of woman's. She tasted the

forbidden fruit and tempted Adam to do so and has been suffering since then. In

genesis the Lord says," I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain

you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will

rule over thee". And since then woman is suffering...

This has been the description of woman in our religious mythology. Male

dominance not only has been a reality but has been institutionalized through our

epics, mores, morals and civilizations. When Sant Tulsi Das writes,

"Dholak, Gawar, Sudra, Pashu, Nari;Ye sab hai tadan ka adhiakri"

It means the great saint does not perceive woman in proper manner.

Examples abound from Manusmriti to the various Islamic scriptures, woman has

been a subdued species and male dominance is perceived as something of a great

glory and the "thing to be" for the smooth running of society. This skewed

projection of woman has dented the self-confidence of the fairer sex so much so

that it has been many centuries that woman has accepted domestic chore as her

fate. But the last fifty years has seen many woman right movements and many

allied events that has really put woman in a position to take important role in

things that are more important that the mere house hold chore. In the present

context of woman rights movements and the insurgent woman race, the present

topic of role of woman in national integration and communal harmony seems

pertinent.

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The present topic hover around four key words: Role, woman, National

integration and communal harmony. Let’s define each of the terms before

proceeding further. "Role" means some act or to take some action. "Woman" is the

symbolic representation of a certain section of the society. "National integration"

means the unification of diversified elements in a multi-cultural country like India.

And “communal harmony" refers to the harmonious and friendly relationship

between various religious communities. Though the definitions seem to be very

simplified ones, the existential connotations are very important. Here the word role

signifies to take some action; which indirectly means a certain group (stake holder)

has some action to perform, which is indispensable. It also hints to the fact that,

the particular group has been unable to perform that particular indispensable act till

now and its need has been felt more than anything before. "Woman" signifies a

certain in fact a major chunk of the society. This also means, woman has been a

neglected part of society which is basically male dominated. This also refers to the

call to a resurgent woman movement and their ever important role outside the

domestic stead. "National integration" has a contextual importance in the sense

that today our country has been facing a lot of secessionist movements. Though

there are not separatist in nature like the khalistan movement of yesteryears, still

lot of blood has been spilled on the Telengana movement and on the Kashmir

issue. India is basically a cultural pot-pourri. Various regions with various

languages and various cultures constitute what we call as Bharat. But in today's

world when expectations of different regions rise, there are chances of differences

between regions and that puts nation-hood into peril. So rebuilding and

refurbishing 'national integration' is the need of the hour for our country. Finally

“communal harmony" too has contextual significance because India is a country of

many religions. And there are as many incidents of communal tensions as there are

religions. The barbaric murder of Graham Steins or the Gujarat Riots or the stray

incidents of killing, communal tension has been wide spread in India. So

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"communal harmony" needs to be targeted by every level to make the Indian

society a thriving and living society. The present topic says Woman has a role to

play in building national integration and communal harmony. This signifies, the

topic establishes the fact that one should have an analysis in the following

directions:

1. What has been the role of woman as of now when concerned with the issues

of national integration and communal harmony?

2. What are the factors that prevented the woman to take active part in them?

3. Historical precedence of great women taking active part in those important

issues

4. What can be expected of today's woman with regard to these two issues?

Besides describing above four issues, it may be useful to describe the

importance of national integration and communal harmony in brief. A nation is a

country with a unified social and political structure. A nation denotes a body of

people who have a feeling of oneness. This feeling of oneness is built on the basis

of common culture. And this feeling of oneness binds them together into a nation.

This feeling of oneness is called the national integration. We may have different

languages, different cultures and different life styles, but we identify with a single

flag, a single national anthem and single nationality called Indian. This unity in all

diversity is the characteristics of our national brotherhood otherwise known as

national integration.

Historically, the whole of India has never been a nation. The first attempt

towards national integration was done by King Ashoka, when he militarily

conquered the most part of India and tried to establish a common rule, common

religious procedure (tolerance specific) all over his kingdom. Here point to be

noted that, mere military victory does not build nation hood. Military victory

should be followed by the unification of cultures, customs and hearts of all those

who come together. And it is this aspect where the later rulers have failed. Even

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during Mughal time there is no nation hood, because the conquest of India was

primarily by military and secondly the administrative system of Mughals were

more helpful for creating small fiefs inside the empire, thereby causing regional

localized powerhouses which during the time of later Mughals acted as splinter

groups. The second attempt to build a nation out of a society was undertaken by

Sri Shankaracharya when he embarked on a journey for the religious unification of

the country. He has opened the Maths at four corners of India e.g. puri in the east,

Jyotirmath in the north, Dwaraka in the West and Sringeri in the east. This

provided a new way of unifying the country and there by strengthening national

integration. Then on 1947 August is" when we got independence we tried to

strengthen our national integration but various problems have made it difficult to

achieve it. The problem of partition, followed by North- south divide, anti-Hindi

campaign, the cessationist demands etc have made national integration a difficult

thing to achieve. However, we have thrived for half a century in a very peaceful

way. The nation building is in the process. In this process of nation building

woman should play the equal role that man should play.

"Communal harmony is the basic building block of our country" so says the

Dr. Manmohan Singh. India is a land of various religious communities. Nation will

progress if there is friendly and co-operative relation between the various religious

communities. Unfortunately we have seen many instances of communal violence

in past few years. Sometimes they put a question mark on the democratic set up of

the country itself. Not only these events are a waste of human and material

resources, but also dent the reputation of the country in the world forum. The later

has a huge amount of economic and trade related repercussions. So under these

circumstances, building good will among the various communities and creating a

sense of mutual respect among them for harmonious and friendly co- existence is

the paramount need of the hour today. Hence building communal harmony in India

is one of the most important issues that need to be catered to.

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Now let’s examine the issues that we have already pointed out.

What has been the role of woman as of now when concerned with the issues ofnational integration and communal harmony?

India has been a male dominated society. The woman in India finds her

place basically in the domestic stead. Though the situation has changed a lot in the

past few years especially after the woman rights movement of late seventies, the

basic cultural acceptance to woman as equal to man has not been achieved. The

glaring example is the delay in acceptance of the woman's bill by the parliament.

Not only this, many incidences, like dowry death, murder in suspicion of witch

craft, rape, gang rape etc, domestic violence etc are the examples that show, Indian

society still has to go a long way in accepting woman as equal to man in all

respects.

The women of India are so engrossed in the domestic activities that, an

average woman hardly knows anything about issues like national integration and

communal harmony. Secondly, the level of education and awareness is very less

amongst women, especially those in the villages. Thirdly, there is less opportunity

and less scope for woman for self realization. Even today, girls are made to drop

out from school, so that the son can go to school. The fourth reason is prevalent

poverty and population pressure. Finally, the culture is not very accommodative to

it. Despite the fact, we can't say the woman had showed great examples in building

up national integration; there are some examples of great social workers like Tulsi

Munda, Medha Patkar etc and Sarala Devi, Rama Devi Malati Chowdhury etc

have dedicated their lives for building a new nation. So woman representation in

such activities though very negligible, there are still examples that woman leaders

have done a lot of things which had wider impacts in building a nation.

What are the factors that prevented the woman to take active part in them?

There are many factors that have prevented the woman to take part in

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national issues like national integration and communal harmony. Some of the

factors are poverty, illiteracy, lack of awareness etc. Besides, male dominance and

low level of cultural capital amongst woman is also a reason for the lower

participation of woman in nation building activities. There is another issue that

plagues the woman folk of this country. Despite the reservation in the grass root

politics, woman empowerment has been very little achieved. Many PRI bodies

which have woman reserved for the sarapanch are basically run by the male

members of the elected representative. The proxy rule by male members of the

elected representative makes grass root woman empowerment a farce. Besides the

above reasons, many cultural and social inhibitions prevent woman to come to the

front to take part actively in greater issues like 'national integration and building

communal harmony' that our society faces.

Historical precedence of great women taking active part in those importantissues

All the time we talk about cultural and social inhibitions of woman to come

outside the household and take part in greater social causes. But this does not

mean, we don't have any examples of woman leaders who have made exemplary

contributions to greater social causes, be it national integration or fighting with

social evils.

What can be expected of today's woman with regard to these two issues?

Communal harmony and national integration may look like very high

flowing words but they are very practical in nature and achieving unity and

harmony and upholding the secular values are not mere academic questions only,

rather they are essential for the very survival of the country. The task of achieving

integration and communal harmony is not the task of the government only; it is the

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responsibility of every citizen of the country. Women constitute almost 50 percent

of the population and hence the role of woman in achieving them cannot be

ignored. Their participation in building national integration is as vital as their male

counterpart and the government.

Let's examine how women can contribute to building national integration

and communal harmony. The role of woman can be broadly classifiedinto:

1. Cultural perspective2. Social perspective3. Valuational perspective

1. Cultural perspective

In Indian social fabric the women are the real custodians of cultural under-

current. Hence it may be viewed that they can play an important role, from cultural

angle, to building and upholding national integration. The primary role of woman

is that of a mother. As a mother she can transfer the high morals of unity, universal

brotherhood to her children. It is a wide known fact that what a child learns in his

early days puts a lasting impression on his mind. So in this manner primary

socialization can be helpful in building good citizen of future with outlook

conducive for the building ideal social fabric. Napoleon has remarked, "The hand

that rocks the cradle rules the world". So the role of a mother in the early

socialization of children is indispensable. Many great man including Jawaharlal

Nehru, Mahatma Gandhi have acknowledged the primary education they received

from their mothers that had helped them to become man of high morals.

2. Social perspective

Family is the basic unit of Indian society. It is most widely recognized that

the family is the miniature of society. Thus, the values promoted and nurtured in

the familial setting are reflected in the society. If the family disintegrates, society

also disintegrates. Integration of the society and integration of the family are

interdependent. One cannot exist without the other. It will not be an over statement

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if we say the integration of society is rooted in the integration of the family.

Woman in the family as a mother symbolizes unity and harmony. She can bridge

the gap between children and society. She can inculcate social values like mutual

adjustment, mutual respect, mutual dependence, mutual understanding, mutual

tolerance and brotherhood, self sacrifice, love and affection. These are not

basically the cultural traits but behavioral elements that are necessary to build a

healthy society.

3. Woman as the home maker:

The role of woman as the home maker can never be over emphasized. In a

joint household, the onus is on the woman to care for all, without any partiality.

For example, while serving food, a proper decorum is followed in traditional

families. This shows respect, protocol, avoidance, caring, mutual understanding

etc. These small values are essential in building a good and vibrant social life.

Society is nothing but one big family. So as the woman is the house maker, she

can be a good society builder too.

4. Woman: the symbolism of kindness

Basically the women folk are kind hearted. The society has many problems

which needs a sympathetic look to resolve them. Man may be very strong decision

makers and ruthless while implementing a decision, but it is the woman who can

view any issue in a sympathetic manner through heart and soul. For example, a

woman social worker can better understand the plight of a riot victim than her

male counterpart. And national integration is such a theme that cannot be

exogenously imposed upon. It should come from within. It should ring at the heart

first. To make it happen, we need to build awareness. Woman can play a major

role in building this awareness. Woman has an uncanny ability to relate practical

aspects to ideals. This can make them a better social awareness creator.

Secondly, as said earlier, almost 50% of the population is woman in our

country. National integration is not gender specific. So when we talk about

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national integration or communal harmony we cannot ignore the woman populace.

Andin a male dominated society like ours, who can better understand the plight of

woman, than woman herself? So in this regard also the role of woman is very

important.

From the above discussions it is clear that the role of woman in building a

healthy society with communal harmony and national integrity is essential. But

how this can be achieved when the condition of woman in India is too deplorable?

The only answer to it is empowerment of woman with all respects. Empowerment

means: economic empowerment, political empowerment and social empowerment.

Economic empowerment is the corner stone of any real empowerment of

woman. It can be exogenously imparted. Many government policies like

MNREGA, NRLEM (SGSY) has helped lots of woman in villages to become self

sufficient to some extent. Various skill building measures by government has also

helped woman to become self sufficient. However economic self sufficiency will

really usher when the co-operative movement and self help group movement

makes real inroads in the rural woman.

Economic empowerment gives way to political empowerment. Today, more

than before, woman are politically aware. Various legislations like the reservation

in PRI bodies have helped to build woman leaders. Thanks to the relentless work

of many social workers and NGOs, women are being aware of their rights and they

are politically channelized. When there is political mobilization there will be

greater participation of woman in the society which is different and outside the

house hold. Like economic empowerment, political empowerment also can be

imparted exogenously.

However, the most important thing is social empowerment. It means being

aware, being proactive, having self realization, having been self confident and

conscious. This can happen thorough education. This can’t be externally induced;

it has to come from within. When women become empowered economically,

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politically and socially we can say they are truly empowered. A truly empowered

woman has the self knowledge and self esteem to take decision that has wide

spread focus and importance.

India has been picturized as the "mother India". The very Indianess is

womanhood divinized. Long lost has been the race that we call as the woman. Let

them allow to take the onus of building the national integrity and harmonious

relation between the various religious communities. In Sanskrit there is an apt

statement:

"Yatra narjyastu pujyante, Ramante tatra Devata"

Wherever women are worshipped, the Gods reside. Let the woman walk

shoulder in shoulder with man to spread national integrity and communal

harmony.

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The hand that rocks the cradle saves the world

ANURAG CHAUDHARY

“The hand that rocks the cradle saves the world….”

After years of struggle and hard work, India is finally on the threshold of an

economic take-off and a global presence. The world looks at India with admiration

because this is the only developing country that has pursued development within

the framework of a democracy – a pluralistic, secular democracy. In this context it

is very essential to maintain Communal Harmony and National Integration. And

among many other stakeholders role of women is very important. Therefore it is

imperative to discuss about Role of Women in creating Communal Harmony &

National Integration.

The disruption of Communal harmony and National Integration depends on

many factors. The division can express itself along religious, economic, political,

caste or colour lines. Whatever be the form, insecurity is perhaps the major cause

of individual and social dissensions. Mahatma Gandhi famously remarked that a

person who is integrated and sure of himself fears none and consequently provokes

no fear.

The solution to impediments to National Integration and Communal

Harmony involves two aspects, material and cognitive. Material aspect can be

taken care of by providing redressal to their physical, material and economic

problems. However the cognitive aspect requires greater attention as it is the major

cause of insecurity and conflict. And this requires both emphasis on awareness,

education and movement towards eradication of divisive forces.

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Initial Socialisation

An important part of a person’s personality is shaped during his childhood.

Here role of mother in shaping up a child’s personality is very important. The

process of raising the child, instilling basic values and approach towards life is

largely shaped by the mothering role. In order to have basic values like rationality,

humanism and tolerance since the birth of an individual, the role of women as

mother assumes significance.

There is no surprise that all important personalities like Mahatma Gandhi,

Martin Luther King have been to a large degree influenced by their mothers. This

way it just shows the power behind the role of women in bringing about a change

and shift from the divisive lines. The religious and moral instructions, through

fostering common values if given properly to the children in the family, can play a

vital role in bringing about national integration. It is wrong to conceive, that

religion can’t ever play a positive role in national integration. What is viewed here

is that the imparting of religious values is not done in the right way.

Capacity Building and participation

Recently a study by Jyothi S. Nair covered serious communal conflict in

Marad in Kerala. This study seeks to analyze how far the mobilization of women

through Self Help Groups (SHGs) has withstood the turbulences of communalism

in Marad. The major finding of this paper is that social capital is an effective

instrument for maintaining communal harmony. The author suggests that the civil

society and Local Self Government Institutions should join hands together for

encouraging the women to form SHGs which are inter-religious in nature to build a

harmonious society.

However there are many problems like women who constitute nearly 50% of

the population are poorly represented in legislatures. There were many more

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outstanding women leaders and workers in the Congress party at all levels during

the freedom movement than there are at present in all parties put together. But as

politics became more centralized as well as criminalized, thus undermining all

other institutions of civil society, women were pushed out of leadership positions

to function on the margins, usually relegated to the domain of social work at the

local level. Even that tradition eroded from the 1970’ onwards.

Given these problems of representation in our parliamentary democracy, we

need to evolve methods to enhance women’s representation, promote equitable

representation and encourage honest dealings across groups and in coalitions. We

also need to promote an electoral system which penalizes local electoral

malpractices and gives incentive for broadening of appeal across groups. Let us

closely examine some of the reform proposals.

Persuasive and Cultural Role

Gandhi had visualized a great role for women in eradicating the evil of

communalism. His appeal to women was to refuse to cook, and to starve

themselves in protest so long as their men “do not wash their hand of these dirty

communal squabbles’. Gandhi’s appeal reached women everywhere in India. He

expected great things from them in the areas of work concerning purity of life,

removal of untouchability, propagation of Khadi Communal harmony and

Swadeshi. His logic was simple: “If Kaikeyi could obtain all that she wanted from

Dashrath by dint of Duragraha, what could they not achieve with the help of

Satyagraha?”

Social Capital

There is a need to understand the social mobilization of women through

SHGs. And the social capital created by them act as an alternative in ensuring

communal harmony. The women constitute half of the population. They along with

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their numbers and network of relationships can play a very important role to

mobilize people and thereafter channelize their energies to counter the divisive

forces that threaten to disrupt communal harmony and National Integration.

Women’s Movements

Even before the independence there have been movements of women which

have vociferously worked towards cause of women. Also they worked hard to

promote harmony in the society. The social reformers like Pandita Rambai or

leaders like Sarojini Naidu have championed the cause of peace and non-violence.

There have been many instances when these women reformers went through

difficult times to make their point and if needed, resorted to agitation and

picketing.

Gandhi had tremendous faith in women’s inherent capacity for non-violence.

His experience of participation by women in politics from his days in South Africa

till the end of his life bears testimony to the fact that they never failed his

expectations. With Gandhi’s inspiration, they took the struggle right into their

homes and raised it to a moral level. Women organized public meetings, sold

Khadi and prescribed literature, started picketing shops of liquor and foreign

goods, prepared contraband salt, and came forward to face all sorts of atrocities,

including inhuman treatment by police officers and imprisonment. They came

forward to give all that they had – their wealth and strength, their jewellery and

belongings, their skills and labour- all with sacrifices for this unusual and

unprecedented struggle.

Historical Contexts

History is full of many examples where women have played a pivotal role to

bring about peace and harmony. The story of Rani Karnavati sending Rakhi to

Mughal Emperor Humayun is well known. Here the latter saved the honour of the

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Rani Karnavati. Apart from this many kings like Akbar have entered into marital

alliances with women from other religion to have balance in society.

Modern Day Roles

Today women in increasing number are occupying key roles like

administrators, Police Officers, Politicians, Social Activists which are key roles in

society that help in maintaining communal harmony and National Integration.

Today women officers like Kiran Bedi, activists like Medha Patekar, Arundhati

Roy, Teesta Setalvad, politicians like Brinda Karat, Mayawati and Sonia Gandhi

hold very important positions and have played a key role in ensuring peace and

stability and if needed bringing culprits to justice.

Teesta Setalvad has led a crusade against the rioters in Gujarat and

elsewhere, similarly police officers like Kiran Bedi have tacked many such

instances, and politicians like Sonia Gandhi, Mamta Banerji and Brinda Karat have

ensured that the epidemic of violence and hatred is ended.

Recently women are joining army and Para-military forces in large numbers.

This will go a long way in ensuing the cause for communal harmony and National

Integration.

A tough road ahead

Recently there have been many instances where peace and harmony has

been broken. There is a rise of religious right, fundamentalist forces, left violence,

caste violence and honour killings. And most importantly they affect women more

adversely as they are more vulnerable to them.

The recent killing in Haryana, Western Uttar Pradesh, some parts of Punjab

and Haryana show the low status of women. Similarly there is concern about very

low awareness and literacy levels among many vulnerable sections of women. Like

tribal’s, SCs and STs. Further there is absence of mobilization in women especially

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in BIMARU states. For example absence of real participation in politics especially

at Panchayat level.

The signs of Hope

However, there are many signs of hope, with demands for increasing

representation of women in legislatures, in services, in armed forces and other

important roles. Today’s women are more confident and aware and this wave is

getting broader day by day. With this, the journey of bringing peace, communal

harmony and National Integration is still going on. And with this it is increasing

hope that the increasing role of women reinforces India’s pluralistic and secular

credentials and result in development of spirit of tolerance.

Finally

We may be able to control the divisive forces and reduce tensions to an

extent through law and force. It is, however, wrong to view that these potential

dangers can ever be eliminated. For countering these evil forces, we will have to

energies our efforts and women who constitute almost half of the population can

really play a predominant role in building up character and fostering common

values in the children at home. Here, there is a need for voluntary women’s

organizations who can educate the society by organizing demonstrations, informal

classroom lectures, picture-shows, plays and so on.

The participation of these organizations can make an attempt to transform

the people’s attitudes through a process of mutual love and understanding and by

taking positive steps towards channelizing the energies. A continuous process of

the development of character is a requisite to a sound growth of national

integration. All the inventions of law will be frustrated if they are not accompanied

by people of sound character and judgment.

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The task of fulfilling unity and harmony cannot be sole responsibility of the

government, but more than anything else it is the people who have to safeguard of

interests of the nation as well as their own. Women constitute almost fifty percent

of total population. Therefore, it should be recognized that women cannot be

ignored, their participation in building up national integration is as much vital as

that of the government.

The unity and integration achieved can in turn contribute its own share to the

peace and well-being of the whole humanity. This is not a far-fetching idea, but

can be made into reality if we have will-power and wisdom.

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There is an urgent need to realize the role of women in maintainingCommunal Harmony and National Integration

SUMAN RAWAT

"Consider the flowers in the garden: though differing in theirkind, color, form and shape, yet...this diversity increaseth itscharm, and addeth to their beauty."

-Bahallulah, founder of Bahai

Communal harmony is not just an indispensable element for an effective

national integration but also is a quintessential of a healthy society. Though the

diversity of our land has added flavor to the country called India, it has also

created fissures in the form of various malaises like communal disharmony. The

debilitating effects of communal disharmony, has infested our nation time and

again and has revisited with greater force each time. It not only paralyzes the entire

system, but at the same. time reigns in conflicts that get deeply entrenched in the

minds of men and scars their souls. The question of communal harmony has thus

acquired exceeding importance today and evokes a unilateral acceptance. A sense

of communal harmony can only be sought accepted, when there is a realization. on

the part of every man of an underlining and abiding commonality over and above

the diversity that differentiates.

National Foundation for Communal Harmony with its motto of "We all are

one, We are all Indians", attempts to furnish that element of commonality that is

expected to act as a binding force against the divisive forces. Its main objectives

are to provide rehabilitation to the victims of communal, caste and ethnic violence.

It also promotes communal harmony, fraternity and national integration.

Communal harmony can’t be achieved unless the sense of underlying

commonality is shared by mankind as a whole: and that means accepted by men

and women alike. It's been for centuries that the women had been bearing the

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unnoticed brunt of the communal violence which has witnessed active

participation of the men. Under the fold of communal suffering women find their

share aggravated with issues pertaining to domestic violence, their already scant

rights eroded. Communal violence also puts at stake social equity and justice and

in some sense eclipses the social awakening essential for national integration.

While the attempts of some men in maintaining and upholding communal

harmony can’t be underscored, there is an urgent need to realize the role of women

in maintaining communal harmony and in turn, the national integration. Women

with the catching themes of women empowerment have a larger and eloquent role

to play in the dynamics of the society. Thus it wouldn't be a futile exercise to

evaluate arid appreciate the role of women in maintaining this critical balance that

is the need of the society. Towards this we need to first appreciate what is that role

that is wanting from the side of women in achieving this aim, and how this role is

of indispensable importance vis-a-vis men. However, this cannot be done

singularly without exploring the theme of communal violence, how it ensues and

the remedial measures for the same.

The recent Ayodhya verdict was mired with a fear of erupting communal

violence. There was an intermittent threat that the verdict might take the two

communities by storm and communal violence will once again raise its ugly head

and spread its dangerous tentacles. However, the efforts and wisdom of some

noble elements of the country was successful in ensuring that the communal

harmony was not toppled and the verdict doesn’t affect the sensitive relation

between the communities. Towards this, a remarkable role was played by women,

which found mention in the leading newspapers and a million hearts.

Calling for peace and communal harmony ahead of the Ayodhya verdict,

women from different parts of the country came together for a day-long

programme of symbolic cultural activities under the banner of “Hum Aman” here

on Thursday.

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The event was organized by the Act Now for Harmony and Democracy

(ANHAD). Explaining the rationale of the programme, ANHAD member

Shabnam Hasmi said: “this gathering of women artists and performers is a

response to the agenda of hatred and violence which is being spread in the run-up

to the Ayodhya verdict”.

“The need for political participation of women is also being reinforced

through the event. Women are the worst sufferers of many conflicts but they do

understand the meaning of lasting peace and communal harmony.”

- The Hindu, Friday, September 24, 2010

This is only one of the many eloquent role that women have been playing in

maintaining communal harmony and national integration; there are a million silent

roles that a women plays to uphold these values on everyday basis. These silent

roles stand in need of recognition as well as encouragement to bring about an order

of peace and harmony. The mental and physical contact of women to the society

and thus to a country is profound but unaccounted.

Woman is endowed with certain natural traits of love, affection,

benevolence, adjustability, adaptability, integrity and forgivingness. She is an

embodiment of tolerance and empathy. She has, since centuries, been catering to

the evolution of family and larger life without expecting any returns. Every now

and then, rising from the domestic drudgery, she has registered her contribution in

many spheres like political, national, economic, and social. However, this

remained without an expectation of any returns. It is these qualities of women that

the society can capitalize upon in order to usher a new era marked by a meaningful

unity, integrity and harmony. In context specifically of communal harmony, her

role can be enhanced by doubling these natural potencies of her with adequate

empowerment and push that she essentially need.

To understand how a woman will be able to contribute, and to appreciate

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how she has been contributing to maintaining communal harmony, let us examine

why there is an urgent need for communal harmony and why there has been this

chain of persistent communal hatred.

It is a known fact that women have better informal relations and grapevine

contacts. When a case of communal harmony is registered, the women are seen

only behind the doors, with a suppressed voice. Given a chance of a more positive

role, they might perhaps be able to neutralize the aftermath or even the occurrence

of the communal violence by engaging in a fruitful dialogue with their male

counterparts, who might be the active participants of the actual crime. Even by the

conventional wisdom if she is allowed to be truly duty bound to her husband, she

can make a considerable difference in the approach of her husband post

sensitization against such violence. Women have played significant roles in

various movements of importance like the national movements, the environmental

movements (chipko movements et' al), animal rights campaigns, drug de-addiction

campaigns, self help group movements etc. The kind of pressure that women

groups can exert can have same force that Gandhi had in terms of the Indian

National movement. Their soft power cannot be underestimated and devalued.

Now let's extrapolate the various roles that women are capable of playing

and see how they can be utilized to bring about communal harmony and national

integration:

Traditional role of women: traditionally the role of women is confined to the

domestic drudgery. However, it's a significant role if is evaluated in right light. As

a homemaker, and with powerful education, women can bring about a significant

change in the .attitude of the family members towards the issue. It is however

important, pertaining to this, that her voice at home does carry an essential and

well deserved weightage. Even in utterly communal homes, women can play a

major role in sensitizing her children to steer clear of such detrimental attitude

and minimize the contribution of such families to further grievous communal

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harms (be in words or actions)

Political role: politically women in most part of the world don't have' an equal

share as far as their rights and duties are concerned. If accorded the right element

4 equality in the political sphere, women can bring about a revolutionary change

in the way our political decisions are taken. Their inherent traits and tastes for

tolerance and benevolence, can make communal hatred, perhaps a thing of past.

Women have already been playing a significant role of bringing about integration

and harmony through PRl's and the same would be evident if similar opportunities

will be given to them in other spheres.

Economic role: it is a recognized fact that despite having no real income of their

own, in most cases, women have still been great financial managers at home. This

economic acumen that comes naturally to them can be extended and honed to

avert communal arson and disintegrating tendencies. She can be trained to guide

and ensure that resources available or going in the use of these negative intentions

can be choked and invested in right direction.

Role in education and social Development: Women can emerge as victories

votaries and champions of the right education and social development in most

cases aren’t they already are?). Education is a powerful and a catalytic factor that

has ensured improvement in the life of women as well as society. Many

researches show a positive correlation between educational enrolment rates of

girls and GNP per capital (Karl, 1995). The accessibility of education to women

has been successful to nurturing the very social fabric of our society. Communal

harmony especially has received a definitive boost with the participation of more

educated women in the civil society movements.“AMAN KI ASHA”, a campaign

to usher a new harmonious understanding between India and Pakistan has a major

contribution from the educated women from both sides of the border. Educated

women in engage in a positive dialogues regarding these sensitive issues while

many might not find time to hold it any important on the face of entrenched

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communal hatred.

Role in work-force participation: as we also noted above in the Hindu news

report, women can play a crucial role in neutralizing communal hatred by their

active workforce participation. More interaction among women via work force

participation has a clearly positive advantage of bringing them near to the issues

and their seeking of remedial measures. When women work together, their sense

of maturity in most cases is better than their male counterparts. Their presence

today in various sectors, have witnessed efforts to bring about more tolerant and

affectionate environment. When they are at helm of affairs, their policies appear

to be more inclusive, caring and thus beneficial.

Role in art and culture: art and culture are absolutely incomplete without

women. At the same time art and culture are the most potent forms to bring about

a common understanding of communal harmony. These two ingredients when

coupled produce a most potent form of weapon against communal hatred. Various

art and culture festivals have been used through ages to maintain and showcase

the importance of harmony and national integration. Women thorough history and

in current times are playing a significant role to share this awareness of the

importance of these principles through their various art forms. Festivals like

ANANYA (Delhi) etc., are extensively been used by women to explain the subtle

nuances of the harmonious existence through expressive fields.

Role in Media: women are actively been ‘used’ in media campaigns towards

various ends. Though this has always been perceived as derogatory and also of

pejorative value by the feminists, however, if we look at the other side of the coin,

it emerges that in all these efforts lies a common understanding of the strength of

a woman as pertains her appeal to the masses. This can actually be exploited

positively in active campaigns for communal harmony and national integration.

Certainly women are ‘seen more’ if not ‘heard more’. And if this aspect can be

utilized for a positive purpose, what harm can it possibly incur, which can be

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worse than communal violence. Definitely this argument is at the cost of

displeasing many feminists, Kantians and Gandhians. However its value can be

appreciated from a utilitarian perspective.

Mahatma Gandhi in his book, “Way to Communal Harmony “outlines

several causes of communal disturbances like ‘specific or immediate cause’s,

‘psychology of fear’, ‘distrust’, tiredness of non-violence’, ‘propaganda of

vilification’, ‘the third party’ etc. Observing all these causes closely, one can

easily notice that there is not even one of these factors, which cannot be

successfully dealt by women barring the specific or the most immediate cause

(which is extreme).Women can negotiate the psychology of fear, create conditions

to neutralize distrust and bring about conditions of love and trust, can be active

champions of non-violence (rather they already are in themselves, but need to

extend their boughs), can curb attempts of vilification, and can also engage in

active dialogue with the third party interferences.

Gandhi in the same book also outlines certain measures to bring about

communal harmony. He talks about, ‘common interests’, ‘arbitration: key to

solution’, ‘mutual tolerance’, ‘the unitary method’, ‘pacts’, ‘inter-dining and

intermarriages’, ‘oneness of costume’, ‘the vow of unity’, ‘the meaning of unity’,

‘work of unity’ etc. Even in these, women can play a pivotal role. The notion of

common interest cannot be better explained but at home. Though we have various

organizations that uphold the values of commonality, a person who receives ‘such

values’ at home, seems to appreciate it better, and in this role of women is

indispensable.

Women are not only potent but convincing arbitrators. In many walks of life

they have proved this forte of theirs and this can be significantly obtained in the

sphere of maintaining communal harmony, if called for. As far as- mutual

tolerance is concerned, this is a trait which, as we already observed, comes

naturally; to a women. This natural disposition, if finds congenial support at the

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desired platforms can certainly pull in communal harmony and national

integration. The unitary methods and pacts will be more inclusive and

comprehensive if negotiated by women. Inter-dining is not so much of an issue in

the current scenario as it might be at Gandhi’s time. However, there might be

certain communities where it is still a taboo, and women with their informal

grapevine communication networks can certainly tackle these obstacles and bring

about more cohesive and harmonious social order. With more and more education

and emancipation, women are now able to marry in other castes and communities,

acting as a bridge between two cultures and communities. Such family bonds, ones

formed and accepted can become the strength to join two communities and work

out their dynamics in positive synergy. Women have been cornerstone of

maintaining customs and values of the society. These values can be synchronized

consciously towards the aim of achieving national integration and communal

harmony.

Thus the role of women in maintaining communal harmony and national

integration cannot be underestimated, There is an urgent need to acknowledge

and encourage this role in order to usher an era marked by harmonious existence

between various communities, religions and nations.

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The Power of Women is Unlimited

Durga Sakthi Nagpal

Since the evolution of mankind, creating communal harmony and

national integration has been at the core of all societies and civilizations.

Most civilizations have had within their fold people belonging to different

religions and sects and yet largely been living in harmony. It is also a fact of

history that many conflicts within given societies and different nations have

been fueled and fought on communal and religious differences. In the midst

of the history of conflict, harmony and peace, scale weighs much heavily

allthe side of the latter. It is because man by nature, as Aristotle said, is a

social animal. Without the collective cooperation, man can neither survive,

not can he enrich his personal growth and continue to contribute to larger

social good. The larger social and overall development of a nation can only

flow from a peaceful, healthy, and mutually respecting society and its

different constituents. As it is often said, that national development and

national integration require preexistence of social peace and harmony. It

would be seen that most developed societies which have emerged as

integrated units enjoy better contribute to overall prosperity and development

of the societies.

It is, however, unfortunate that Nobel concepts and goals of social harmony,

of secularism, and wholesome inclusive growth of a nation as an integrated

unit, frequently get mined into political controversies, in diverse, developing

societies like India.

Communal harmony, in simple terms, can be thought of existence of peace

among different communities. Peace does not mean mere absence of conflict.

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It means the mutual coexistence of varying thoughts, beliefs and ideologies.

In this perspective, it is to be kept in mind that conflict does not only come

from artificial border and stereotypes created between man to man, but from

within our minds.

National integration, on other hand, is a larger goal usually thought in terms of

social, educational and psychological well being among various communities.

It becomes achievable through the medium of communal harmony, especially

in societies that are multicultural, multi linguistic and diverse. It has been long

realized that achieving this larger goal is not possible with the efforts of a

single community or nation. It is an endeavor that requires multi pronged

approach scaling from individual measures to collective wisdom to global

efforts.

There are indeed large number of factors that influence the process of

communal harmony and national integration as essential ingredients in the

growth of a successful and prosperous nation. The present essay plays a

central focus on the role of women in this process. However, this focused

attention on women does not exclude importance of other equal and even

more important factors.

Women, traditionally seen to be the weaker sex, and left subservient, secluded

and uneducated, have in the past been at the receiving end of communal tensions

and threats to national integrity. However, with the turn of the century, the

greater role of women in contributing to the larger goal developing and

sustaining peace, communal harmony and national integration is being

acknowledged, appreciated and fruitfully realized. Women are now more

articulate, educated, and active in professions and public life. Quoting from

the Bible, Josephine St. Pierre Ruffin describes woman's movement as “a

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movement that is led and directed by women for the good of women and men,

for the benefit of all humanity. It means women coming to the front, willing to

join any others in the same work and inviting others to join us." It further

needs to be underlined that the entire humanity bears responsibility for

furthering these goals.

Mrs. India Gandhi, late Prime Minister of India, while addressing in, a

women's college in Delhi, had cited a Sanskrit saying, "Women is the home,

and home is the basis of society. If home is inadequate either materially or

psychologically, then that country cannot have harmony. And any nation

which does not have harmony cannot grow in any direction at all."

A woman, with her innate nature as mother and socio-biological make up,

can and do contribute in more meaningful and concrete terms to promote

communal harmony. Yet it has been seen that women are the worst sufferers

of any form of violence. With their limitations of restricted mobility and

preconceived cultural notions causing them perennial hurt, no one can

w1derstand better than the real meaning of lasting harmony and integrity.

And when enterprising and caring women get actively involved in

community work, the result is a set of values of assimilation, tradition,

revival and reform, and creative cultural process which work as a great force

for social change and national integration. Their motivation vis-a-vis men

comes from' the fact that their consciousness is shaped by their experiences

with the society and the strong desire to secure more inclusive future for

their family and children by combating discrimination.

Role of women in creating communal harmony can be seen as an extension

of her role as a family member. Just like she binds the members of the family

together, she does so outside home. Working in factories, unions, jails,

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schools, banks, hospitals, etc, a woman strengthens integration and

interdependence of community institutions. In traditional, developing

societies, where the woman is expected to leave her paternal home after

marriage and adopt the nomenclatures, values and lifestyle of her in-laws,

she the natural skill and ability to shoulder the responsibility of maintaining

peace. She automatically develops among her students the patience and

sensitivity to appreciate and live together the differences in the society.

Women also play a definite role in breaking of prejudices and stereotypes_

that greatly hamper national integrity. It is seen and widely recognized that a

woman naturally mingles with women folk, unbattered by the issues of their

skin color and socioeconomic status. By demonstrating that she, irrespective

of her religion, region, language or caste, has an equal role in development

and access to physical and economic resources, she is slowly wiping out the

lines that demarcate communities. Women are playing an invisible as well as

a visible role in preventing societies from being fragmented into narrow

domestic walls.

Women-based international organizations such a UNIFEM (United Nations

Development Fund for Women) and Oxfam International are playing a

consistent role in ending discriminations and prejudices to humanitarian

emergency in Pakistan. It worked to ensure that gender were fully integrated

into relief and recovery operations in Pakistan, following the floods that have

affected the lives and livelihoods of millions of people.

India, often described as Bharat Mata, embodies the spirit of womanhood in

true terms. Being a land of numerous religions and traditions, it continues to

thrive with minimal, otherwise inevitable, conflicts. With increasing pace,

this is being attributed to the reservoir of talent existing in half the humanity

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i.e. the role of women at all levels. As early as the British rule in India

witnessed emerging unity among Hindu, Muslim and Christian women

fighting against sati, purdah, polygamy, child marriage, female foeticide and

advocating setting up of schools, orphanages and widows' homes. Their

movement resulted in. greater harmony irrespective of caste, class religion. It

heralded a process of liberalism in religions and paved the way for the

making of a nation.

A prominent is being played by Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs)

and Self-Help Groups (SHGs). A shining example is the NGO SEW A (Self

Employed Women's Association in Gujarat. It has been actively involved in

maintaining communal harmony by providing opportunities of employment,

social interaction and 'full livelihood' among women in the poverty stricken,

caste and religious driven districts of Gujarat. Such endeavors have helped

creating sense of equality and dignity of woman labor in traditional

communities - which have for long perpetuated gender barriers and

prejudices to the detriment of national integration. The SEW A movement

has fast gathered momentum and spread to various districts of the country,

thereby promoting spirit of national integration. Also, massive participation

of women in social audit of National Rural Employment Guarantee Scheme

(NREGS) led. By Aruna Roy has lent new meaning to the entire program.

From being a uni-dimensional employment and livelihood generation

program, it has gained multiple dimensions under the leadership of women

ensuring greater overall productivity, peace, health, gender respect, family

and communal harmony etc. Similarly, other- movements and SHGs like

Chuppi Todo-Break Silence, which is a mobile literacy campaign run by

women in Jharkhand is empowering tribal communities and bringing them to

mainstream by spreading awareness on their rights and providing means to

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get them enforced, thus embarking on a vital process of the nation's survival,

growth and advancement.

It may appear amusing how a local, concerted effort by women to stop liquor

sale in certain rural setting of India became harbinger of lasting social

changes. The male members, husband, son, brothers and other seniors, in a

village of Rajasthan were addicted to alcohol consumption. The women folk

decided to fight this menace by ‘gheraoing' shops, thereby ensuring their

closure. The Movement inspired more women, other areas. Thus awakened

women in an effort to save their families brought about long term changes in

male dominant social psyche, great familial and communal harmony, and

unity of purpose in the women coming from different sects and sections.

In a recent crucial national context of growing tension in the country due to

the anticipated Ram Janambhommi-Babri Masjid judgment, women artists

from various traditions and professions got together at a public event by the

name Ham Aman (we Peace) in Delhi to say that they peace and harmony.

Another example is the special women team sent by India so Sri Lanka after

the recent military action against the LTTE that had resulted in displacement

of lakhs of innocent people. The Indian women team has been credited with

very positive efforts in the arduous task of reconstruction, resettlement and

rehabilitation of the displaced communities.

It may be important to cite from a work which though relates to an

international context but where woman's sufferings and the constructive role

would appear quite similar to developing societies like India's, A study titled

"if It Wasn't for the Women ……." on the role of African American Women

in community work and social change by Chery! Townsend Gilkes,highlights

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the incredible role of women. It describes how the African American women

challenge oppressive structures and racist practices, such as salaries not at par

with whites, poor quality of education in schools, belittling their communities

powerless and disadvantaged. They then create, maintain and strengthen

positive, democratic institutions and organizations that specialized in

problems of job training, city services, welfare rights, public education, etc.

Women thus led protests, learnt and taught work skills, and also how to

organize and lead. According to Gilkes, “they work for the community that

they themselves re-create and sustain, a mutually reinforcing process"

This debate also needs to raise the problems that women face while fulfilling

their direct and indirect role in creating communal harmony and national

integration. They have to confront negative politics at all levels. They also

face difficulty in mobilizing large number of people. Further, poverty and

economic dependence restricts women's proactive participation in public and

community life. This problem gets accentuated due to lack of adequate

personal liberty and restricted social participation.

Role of women in creating communal and national can be effectively utilized

only by developing inter-gender and intra-gender equality and justice. Their

political participation is a vital means towards this end. In fact, the recently

passed Women Reservation Bill in India seeks to institutionalise participation

of women in the political process of the nation. It is a positive leap forward

that would ensure that women have a say as well as control over the smooth

co-existence of different communities by addressing their concerns and

fulfilling genuine demands. Also, educated women should come out of their

comfort zones and take an even more effective lead, particularly in countries

like India wherein present times, there is a crying need to foster the spirit of

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societal consciousness and national integration.

Further, the lifestyle standards and status of women including their economic

independence need to be drastically improved so they can come to the

forefront and play the role that no one can perform better than them. Further,

the unsung heroines and their mission need to be institutionalized and

appropriately rewarded. There need to be appropriate forums to provide

voice, choice, information and political representation to women specifically.

The power of women is practically unlimited and in their hands lies the

redemption of communal harmony and national integration. It needs to be

fruitfully channelized to multiply its impact dramatically. Quoting Mohandas

K. Gandhi, "To me the female sex is not the weaker sex. It is the nobler of the

two; for it is even today the embodiment of sacrifice, silent suffering

humility, faith and knowledge." Gandhi ji also believed that the capability of

women in enduring endless suffering is also her biggest strength to carry on

non-violent crusade in the cause of societal peace and national unity. The

struggle for communal harmony and national integration is never unending

crisis in countries like India or elsewhere. And the struggle on part of women

in this behalf carries on as ever before. Women like Marie Curie, Mother

Teresa, India Gandhi and Aung Sang Su kyi may be amongst the reinforce

the message of women's powerful role in promoting societal harmony and

peace within and amongst nations.

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Women are equal partner in growth of progress

Pawan Kumar Konda

It has been well said by Mahatma Gandhi, 'Women can play a very

important role in establishing peace ... because they are by nature endowed

with the quality of forgiveness.' Women are equal partners in the growth and

progress of all countries and being endowed with patience and dedication to hearth

and nation, to an uncommon degree, they must be drawn into any scheme which

singularly arms to bring the benefits of communal harmony and national

integration to the nation as a whole. Women are not only associated with their

homes as mothers and wives, but also as companions to men in economic

activities (particularly rural and agricultural India). Therefore, the strong ties and

bonds of familial affection towards their family make them the pivot upon which

the success of communal harmony and national integration can be sustained amidst

the rigours of existence in today's harsh and highly competitive world.

Communal Harmony and National Integration are those essential

requirements of every civilized and multi-cultural society, which nurture human

peace and prosperity by acting as bulwarks against destabilizing and socially

debilitating forces. Communal Harmony and National Integration have been

associated with the national ethos for a very long time and have made India the

epitome of socio-cultural tranquility in the world. Communal Harmony and

National Integration are indispensable because when they are sacrificed, liberty

and the freedom of life are brushed aside, with the result that disequilibrium is

created and the whole fabric of society collapses.

The topic can be divided into two parts - one, dealing with women and their

role in creating communal harmony; two, dealing with their role in upholding

national integration.

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Communal harmony is that vital prerequisite of social peace and tranquility

which binds people from all communities and faiths in an atmosphere of mutual

trust and respect. India's brand of communal harmony has been worthy of

emulation because the trials and tribulations of our ancient, medieval and modern

past reveal that in the steady stream of human migration to and from India, it was a

cultural commingling that happened. But the glittering episodes of cultural

assimilation have not been able to conceal the darker side to the religious facade of

the nation. Instances of communal disharmony after independence have shown that

certain vested interests and destabilizing forces have been working, much to the

chagrin of the government and civil society at large.

A cursory glance at photographs or videos of areas disturbed by communal

violence reveals the paramount role played by men in this regard. Women are

generally not observed protesting in communally disturbed areas streets and are

hardly associated with activities that symbolize communal strife and tension. It is

pertinent to recall the famous statement from the UNESCO several years ago,

'Since war began in the minds of men, it is in the very same minds of men that

the defense of peace should be constructed.' So, women, who are partners of

men in all aspects of familial and social existence, have a sterling contribution

towards upholding communal harmony.

Dr Nirmala Despande and her voyage to establish communal harmony

Dr Nirrnala Deshpande remains a shining example of devotion and

dedication to the cause of strengthening communal harmony and national

integration. A Gandhian disciple by belief and a patriotic citizen by activity, she

has played a pivotal role in establishing several organizations to fight the evils of

communalism and disintegration and divisiveness. During the tumultuous eighties

of the previous century, when Punjab was being engulfed by the burning embers

of militancy and communal rage, she successfully organized massive Peace

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Marches, wherein thousands of peace-loving activists participated enthusiastically

in aiding local people to maintain communal harmony. Further, through her

organizations, Akhil Bharat Rachanatmak Samaj &Association of Peoples of

Asia, she has successfully established amicable relations with neighbours, most

importantly with Pakistan. She was also instrumental in organizing the 'Indo-Pak

Amity Meet' in 1996, which was attended by academics, artists, social activists

and journalists from both. the countries. The very next year, she led the Indian

delegation to Karachi, Pakistan in 1997 for a similar meet.

How women can sustain communal harmony

1. Women should clearly underscore their disaffection towards communal

conflict by stating in clear and obvious terms that they will non-cooperate-

with their men- folk, if they clandestinely or overtly participate in

communal rioting, arson, loot or otherwise. This will have the necessary

psychological impact as men cannot lead a familial and social existence

without the help of their wives/mothers/sisters/daughters, as the case may be

2. Peace is not born but made, and the true essence and spirit of Indian culture,

if instilled in children by mothers, through responsible upbringing and

socialization, will create a future array of responsible and freedom-loving

libertarians who pay obeisance to all faiths. History IS witness to the great

role played by great mothers in nurturing the minds of children, little by

little, with ideas of national unity and integrity. During early childhood, if

each child is imbued with an assortment of songs, stories, proverbs and

sayings by the mother or women of the house and these are conveyed at the

fireplace or after the evening meals, there is an electrifying effect, which

will sow seeds of harmony and respect for one another. These songs, stories,

proverbs and sayings which contain simple messages and are filled with

morality make great citizens. Some of the greatest personalities like

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Mahatma Gandhi, Akbar and Shivaji have been inspired and molded

because of the unparallel influence and moral contribution of their mothers.

These stories songs and proverbs not only project to the children the

expectations - and hopes of the family and community at large, but also

enable children to demonstrate solidarity with and consideration for others,

social responsibility honesty in thought and dedication to the motherland,

and moreover, faith and compassion through inner strength and self-control.

3. Women should also play an active role in creating communal harmony by

becoming members of Peace Societies - which contain representatives of

different faiths- and are established for the purpose of arranging regular

consultations and informal discussions to sort out communal tangles. They

should, as a matter of right, demand representation as members of these

societies. The process of ushering social change in the desired direction does

not stop with merely becoming members, but actively arranging to conduct

seminars and conferences so that these societies not only serve the

exemplary purpose for which they were formed, but also achieve a holistic

dialogue among various faiths and communities. Further, by being such

members, they can reveal the undercover strategies' planned by their deviant

men-folk and alert the community about any impending communal flare-up

4. Women can also create communal harmony by spreading the message of

communal harmony through the press and electronic media. Women who

intend to play socially conscious roles in society and those who have the

power of the pen or the gift of the gab can make efforts to highlight the

urgent need to uphold harmony. Those associated with the free electronic

press can provide visual evidence of the dangers of communal disharmony

and thus create the desired impact. This will go a long way in popularizing

the importance of communal harmony

5. Educated women can take up the cause of unlettered women-folk by

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preparing skits and short plays depicting the contours of communal

harmony. By displaying placards and singing songs, they can reach the rural

masses and create multiplier benefits. This will prove beneficial by limiting

the horrors of communal conflict in urban India and rural India in particular

6. A few enterprising women can help to heal the wounds of communal

harmony by helping to establish community kitchens in areas affected by

communal violence. This aspect pertains to the role played by women after

the crisis has actually erupted.

7. Women have a special role to play as supporters of law-enforcing agencies

in their own little way. A few women who are imbued with feelings of

social responsibility can inform the police about the possible eruption of

communal violence in any part of the surrounding area/vicinity. Even the

.police should provide adequate monetary incentives to those individuals

who part with information crucial to the maintenance of communal

harmony.

8. Women representatives of various local bodies have an excellent

opportunity to press forward the need to maintain communal harmony.

Since Indian women are slowly beginning to make the positive and desired

transformation from 1/3rd to ½ the governing strength of local bodies, they can

ensure that resolutions and motions are passed in favour of taking specific

steps to ensure communal harmony. From just being active supporters of

harmony to being responsible for the well-being of women and men in the

community, these elected women representatives can allocate at least a

miniscule portion of the budget towards bolstering communal harmony.

9. Women teachers have the unique capacity to drive home the necessity to

espouse and encourage creation of communal harmony. Since a well-

informed atmosphere may not be available to most mothers due to financial

insecurity and lack of decision-making power, women teachers can make

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the required difference. They could inform their principals and in turn the

district education officers to permit one class on communal sensitization

once a month beginning· at the 6thclass level. This will strengthen unity and

engender fraternity among students of all faiths and communities.

10. Amidst all this, it is to be remembered that women advocates and legal

practitioners can take up cases relating to atrocities committed on hapless

victims of communal clashes. Women can forcefully argue for the

preservation of harmony and restore normalcy in the lives of those

displaced. They can even undertake bi- monthly surprise visits to camps set

up specifically for the purpose of addressing the necessities of those

shattered by the stains of communal horror.

Organizations in the Kashmir Valley - Role of HELP - an example

Human Efforts for Love and Peace (HELP) Foundation is an NGO working

under the stewardship of Nighat Shafi Pandit, a woman, of strong determination; is

another hope in the trouble-torn Kashmir. The Foundation has been working

tirelessly with rural communities, in communal conflict affected areas of Kashmir,

to educate children orphaned due to conflict and to rehabilitate widows affected in

the violent incidents. With Hindu as well as Muslims affected by the conflicts.

If these points described above pertain to the role of women can decisively

play in bringing about communal harmony, the following will explain and

elucidate their role in creating and emboldening national integration.

Contours of national integration

National integration is the fundamental bedrock of the Indian civilization, an

intangible feature which enmeshes all communities of India and sets them on the

path of national strengthening and its accompanying growth and development.

National integration is therefore, that complex entity which makes India united. To

put it simply, it is that characteristic which has made India stand firm during the 64

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years that have gone by, wherein we have observed that nations surrounding us

have either abandoned their original constitutional structure or ideals or have

modified them to suit the clamour of parties contending for state power and

hegemony.

How women can create and embolden national integration

1. Women should actively participate m the political system and bring about a

change m the dynamics of national integration. For years before and after

independence, men have held controls over the levers of power and

governance, with the result politics has got regionalized to an extreme

extent. Thankfully, we are not witness to any persistent demands for

breaking away from India's political fabric and women can assist by

reducing the tenor and tone of regional politics. Women can become good

ambassadors of political integration and can take a cue from former

President Dr A P J Abdul Kalam who believed that all parties should

actively unite after elections and work for good governance.

2. Those women who have remained out of the boundaries of democracy have

to enthusiastically participate in adult education programs. These will aid in

dispelling outmoded and antediluvian cultural modes and achieve faster

national integration. It is heartening to note in this regard that women have _

proved better and more eager to learn from adult education programs than

men and the numbers display the trends.

3. Women have a special role to play in national integration by bridging the

rural- urban divide in India. Women activists at the forefront of improving

rural India should, alongside men, visit rural areas and supplement

government efforts in this regard. It is commonplace to find that reports of

government committees present a macro view of rural India because the

sheer enormity and massiveness of India are too daunting a task for any

committee. So, women can conduct bi-annual or annual surveys and present

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their conclusions to the government for better implementation of policies.

4. Women have to continue to join the economic mainstream in large numbers.

Employment opportunities and the migration to urban areas have not

brought any substantial change in status of household women. By breaking

traditional and conservative barriers imposed by a male-chauvinist society,

they need to compete with men in getting hold of urban jobs. They should

not lose any opportunity to come of the local and regional limitations and

must partake of employment opportunities in towns and cities so that there is

better economic integration, reduction of income inequalities and this leads

to national integration.

5. Educated and highly informed women, who are in the civil and

administrative services, have a better chance of integrating other women in

the national mainstream. Better participation of women, in all competitive

exams geared to provide employment under the state, over the years has

helped to achieve national integration, as women administrators, who are

considered more patient, have lent a helping hand to the downtrodden

through the administrative structure.

6. With active government funding to NGOs, women have to enable exchange

of cultural ideas across different parts of the country. People from different

states should know and understand the cultural diversity of the country and

exchange programs by various NGOs can bring about greater cultural

assimilation and hence national integration.

7. Women can assist in bolstering national integration by receiving inputs from

the Institute of National Integration at Pune, which has been designing new

methods to achieve national integration.

8. Women should lend active support to the members of the National

Integration Council, which IS the nodal organization for preparing

guidelines, schemes and programs to promote national integration. Women

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should lend suggestions and support to this Council so that the process of

achieving national integration does not remain an unfinished agenda.

9. If all this is on one side of coin, the role of women in creating national

integration through under the umbrella of Self-Help Groups IS on the other

side.

It is apt to remember Gandhiji who said, "Whenever you do something,

recall the face of the poorest and weakest man and ask yourself if the step you have

taken is going to be of any use to him, will he gain anything by it, in other words,

will it lead to Swaraj for the hungry and spiritually starving millions. Then .you

will find yourself and your doubts melting away". Thus, the common man is the

pivot upon which India lives and survives and women have an immense role to

play in realizing the India as envisioned by Mahatma Gandhi. Since India is our

mother, whatever befalls her befalls us, as we know that “it is not she who belongs

to us, but we who belong to her”. Pandit Nehru aptly described this in the

Discovery of India that “Bharat Mata is not the land and soil of India, but the very

people”.

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Women are the builder and molders of a nation’s destiny

ANURIMA SHARMA

INTRODUCTION

It is impossible not to be astonished by India. Nowhere on Earth does humanity

present itself in such a dizzying, creative burst of cultures and religions, races and

tongues. Enriched by successive waves of migration and marauders from distant

lands, every one of them left an indelible imprint which was absorbed into the

Indian way of life. Every aspect of the country presents itself on a massive,

exaggerated scale, worthy in comparison only to the superlative mountains that

overshadow it. It is this variety which provides a breathtaking ensemble for

experiences that is uniquely Indian. Perhaps the only thing more difficult than to

be indifferent to India would be to describe or understand India completely. There

are perhaps very few nations in the world with the enormous variety that India has

to offer. Modern day India represents the largest democracy in the world with a

seamless picture of unity in diversity unparalleled anywhere else. (A Rough Guide

to India, travel book)

India has many races, nationalities, castes, sub-castes and communities but

as far as the heart of India is concerned, it is one. It is true that societies that have

been integrated into bonds of unity have always enjoyed peace, stability,

prosperity and permanence. And those torn by mutual disruptive tendencies

among various sections of the society have always been short lived and become

non- existent. The national integration is the process of uniting different people

from all walks of life into a single whole. The most serious problem being faced

by India in present circumstances is how to develop an atmosphere of national

consciousness among so varied a people. Indians already have suffered for long

periods, the pangs of enslavement and servitude. There has been a lack of national

consciousness among the people.

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Our country is also known for its different cultures and religions and also, a

sense of unity among the citizens. In our country, people belonging to various

religions live in harmony, but there are occasions when the communal fabric gets

disturbed, often on trivial Issues.

Today's requirement is to create a social and religious climate in the country

wherein it may be possible for all citizens, irrespective of religions and caste

differences or social distinctions, to live a life of peace and tranquility, devoted to

a common purpose of building up a strong, prosperous and forward looking

society. This unity and integration achieved can in turn contribute its own share of

the peace and well being of the whole humanity. This is not a far fetching idea,

but can be made into a reality if we have will power and wisdom.

The task of fulfilling unity and harmony cannot be the sole responsibility of

the government, but more than anything else it is the people who have to

safeguard the interests of the nation as well as their own. Women constitute

almost fifty percent of the total population. Therefore, it should be recognized that

women cannot be ignored; their participation in building up national integration

and communal harmony is as much vital as that of the government.

CHANGING STATUS OF \VOMEN IN INDIA

"Woman is the builder and moulder of a nation's destiny, though delicate and soft

as lily, she has a heart, stronger and bolder than that of man, she is the supreme

inspiration for man's onward march.”

Women constitute approximately 40% population of a nation. If she is given

the task for the development of the country she can make a wonder. She is more

dedicated, hardworking, sincere, devoted to the cause than one could imagine. The

status of women in India has been subject to many great changes over the past few

millennia. From equal status with men in ancient time through the low points of

the medieval period, to the promotion of equal rights by many reformers, the

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history of women in India has been eventful. In modem India, women have

adorned high offices in India including that of the President, Prime minister,

Speaker of the Lok Sabha, Leader of Opposition, etc.

Women in India are beginning to follow the direction that the women of the

Western world took more than eighty years ago; demanding treatment as human

equals. Women are striving to be independent on the equal level of men. The

additional complexities that the women of India must also challenge are the caste

system,' the heavy religious customs, older and more traditional roles of the sexes,

as well as the even stronger power that men hold in India. The status was at one

time accepted, but with the Western women's revolution and perception, the role is

slowly succeeding in its development through both independent groups of women

and national and worldwide organizations based on the goal of gaining equality.

They have all accomplished much. The configuration of a woman's identity

consists of the expectations that society places on her. Such expectations are more

today then what were there before because of her increased role in the present

society. In the light of this we need to analyze her role towards promoting

communal harmony and national integration.

Role towards Communal Harmony and National Integration

Role of women in domestic affairs and looking after the family's day to day

work is apparent and well known. But the role of women towards national

integration and communal harmony is rather of recent origin. Ever since the

development of the philosophy of humanism in which every individual is entitled

to dignity, the role of women in nation building has increased. India has produced

women of eminence who played a key role in national building. Important thing to

note is that women since ages are playing their part towards national integration

and communal harmony, covertly though.

In the Indian situation, women are the real custodians of cultural traditions.

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Hence, it may be viewed that they can play a significant role in contributing a lot

to the national integration and communal harmony. In our social setup, when the

husband leaves home, it is the woman who remains at home for most of the day

and discharges different roles. Of all her roles the role of mother is vital, her role

as a mother is much more strenuous and demanding than any other role that she

plays. As a mother, her task is vulnerable and onerous in the upbringing of her

children. She can alone create an atmosphere and climate in the house in which

values, both moral and spiritual, can be inculcated in the children who are citizens

of tomorrow.

Family is the basic unit of society. It is most widely recognized that the

family is the miniature of the society. Thus, the values promoted and nurtured are

best reflected broadly in the society. If the family disintegrates, the society also

will get disintegrated. Integration of the society and of the family is interrelated

and interdependent. One cannot exist without the other. We may rightly say that

the integration of the society is rooted in the integration of family. Woman in the

family as a mother symbolizing unity and harmony, she can bridge the gap

between society and children. She can inculcate and promote social values such as

mutual adjustment, mutual respect, mutual dependence, mutual understanding,

mutual tolerance and brotherhood, self sacrifice, love and affection. The loss of

these principles or their mismanagement, or their wrong propagation in the family,

in schools and colleges is the cause for losing our national spirit, violence and

hatred.

India is a land of a variety of religions characterized socio-cultural

heterogeneity. Resultantly, we have many local variations in behaviour. Religion

in its narrow sense is not a unifying force; it cannot be a cementing factor in our

heritage, in our social living and in our future development. The religious and

moral instructions through fostering common values if given properly to the

children in the family can play a vital role in bringing about national integration. It

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is wrong to conceive that religion cannot ever play a positive role in national

integration. What is viewed here is the imparting of religious values is not done in

the right way. The important thing to note here is that the first lessons of religion,

taught to any individual are not from any religious head man or guruji but by

his/her mother. Thus again highlighting the important role of women in national

integration and communal harmony.

We have a vast subcontinent as a geographical entity, inhabited by people of

different cultures, histories, languages and with different ways of living. The

factor was recognized in our national struggle. In the post independence period,

we resorted to the formation of linguistic states, under the stress of various

political and old historical urges. We have adopted a unified political system

working under a changing Constitution infused with a determined will to keep the

nation strong under ordinary and extraordinary circumstances. The country is in

the process of transition from the old to the new ways of development through

liberalization of economic policies. As a result, the values are also subjected to a

change. Regionalism, communalism, casteism and fundamentalism have become

potent dangers to the federal unity of the country, We may be able to contain them

and reduce tensions to an extent through law and force, It is, however, wrong to

view that these potential dangers can ever be eliminated. For countering these evil

forces, we will have to energise our efforts and women who constitute almost half

of the population can really playa predominant role in building up character and

fostering common values in the children at home. Here, there is a need for

voluntary women's organisations who can also educate the society by organising

demonstrations, informal classroom lectures, picture- shows, plays and so on. The

participation of these organisations can make an attempt to transform the people's

attitudes through a process of mutual love and understanding and by taking

positive steps towards channelizing the energies. A continuous process of the

development of character is a requisite to a sound growth of national integration.

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All the inventions of law are frustrated if they are not accompanied by people of

sound character and judgments.

The case of 'Social Capital and Social Mobilization of Women in Marad'

towards a serious communal conflict in Kerala is an excellent example of role of

women in promoting communal harmony. The case highlights how far the

mobilization of women through Self Help Groups (SHGs) has withstood the

turbulences of communalism in Marad. Moreover, the social mobilization of

women through SHGs, and the social capital created by them act as an alternative

in ensuring communal harmony. The major finding of this case was that social

capital is an effective instrument for maintaining communal harmony. The civil

society and Local Self Government Institutions should join hands together for

encouraging the women to form SHGs which are inter-religious in nature to build

a harmonious society.

CONCLUSION

Our country is known for its different cultures and religions and for a sense

of unity among the citizens. In our country, people belonging to various religions

live in harmony, but there are occasions when the communal fabric gets disturbed,

often on trivial issues. It is the responsibility of all sections of society to ensure

peace and goodwill so that all round development of the country takes places

rapidly. The women have a role to play in promotion of communal harmony and

national integration and here it wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say that this role is

even greater than their male counterparts. She is undoubtedly the first teacher of

an individual, whose words leave an indelible mark on the mindset of an

individual and shape his/her conscience. Moreover, women of today are also

finding themselves at prominent decision-making posts; they have made strong

inroads into various careers and vocations. So to say, that her role is limited to be

in the background and shape the conscience of the coming generations is only an

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understatement.

Men should realize the power of women, and women should also realize

their power too, what they can do for them, for their family, for their nation. They

are the building blocks of nation building, In the words of Martin Luther King, "A

mother's place is inside her home, but she should also make certain, she gets

outside that home enough to help worthwhile crusades and actively mould the

country her children will live in.” She therefore holds a key position and her role

in shaping the fate of the nation must be recognised and respected.

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What a woman thinks essentially a nation thinks

ARUN THOMAS KALATHIKAL

National integration and communal harmony are the twin pillars on which

rests the future of our country. Integrating people of different faith, belief,

cultures, region, language and interweaving them into the larger concept of a

nation "India" is the prerequisite for the nation to tread the path of development -

social, political, economic and cultural. The level of commitment towards these

twin ideals shows the maturity of a nation as a long-standing democracy with

modern values of equality, liberty, tolerance, and peaceful co-existence. Women

with their multiple roles as a homemaker and as a breadwinner have a wider reach

and role to contribute to the society owing to their closer interactions with the

social fabric - both within the family and in the professional sphere.

National integration can be defined as a feeling of oneness amongst the

people bound by a specified territory. Communal harmony means communicating

love and peace between the various communities and curbing any swirl of

prejudice that could hamper their peaceful coexistence. The concepts of liberty

fraternity, nationalism, secularism, tolerance, sacrifice, unity are the founding

stones of every progressive nation. Regional and linguistic divides, fanaticism,

casteism, communalism etc. are the major threats to the integrity and harmony not

only of India but also for any nation.

Women in India, especially in the pre-19th century period, were traditionally

bound to the shackles of the patriarchs and were hardly provided any

opportunities to develop or use their potential for self-advancement. No modem

ideas could seep through them due to lack of exposure and education that was

forced upon them by the society. Hence, their contribution to the integrity was

earlier limited and indirect. Even then, there were women of great standards and

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charisma, but their number and reach were limited. Rani Lakshmibai, Razia

Sultana were rare cases of women who could carve out a place for' themselves in

the annals of history. Most of the contributions of the women of the pre-19th

century period was indirect, and they were intentionally directed towards

maintaining the so called stability of the society paradoxically by limiting their

social interactions with their outlets merely being fairs, festivals and other

community or social activities.

During the first half of the 20th century, a strong wave of nationalism swept

the whole country and this wave had enough strength to pull the Indian women

out of the shackles. This period is marked by an increasing level of political

activity towards the struggle for freedom. Post 1885, apparently after the

formation of the Indian National Congress, and its activities, a gradual political

awakening of the women ensued. With the homecoming of Mohandas

Karamchand Gandhi, the role of women towards the nationalism and integrity

was stressed for the first time. Mahatma Gandhi could be rightly called as the

liberator of Indian women with his swadeshi and non-cooperation movement,

which installed that fire into the Indian womanhood that could melt the iron

fetters of oppressions. Swadeshi movement saw a new trend wherein, women for

the first time actively endorsed the cause of national integration and communal

harmony. They publicly raised the slogans of nationalism and freedom,

participated in picketing shops, burning foreign goods. They fought shoulder to

shoulder with the men and played a major role in imparting political awakening in

the masses to integrate them into the larger concept of a “nation” irrespective of

all differences.

Sarojini Naidu, Aruna Asaf Ali, Kasthoorba Gandhi etc became champions

of nationalism. These women also became an integral part of the processions,

dharnas and meetings organized during the freedom struggle. The voice of these

enlightened women penetrated deeper into the minds of other women, especially

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those who were still confined to the four walls of the family. Women in the

struggle for independence played critical roles by acting as messengers and

organizing community based initiatives.

After independence, the spread of equal opportunities in especially in the

domain of education reduced the regional and linguistic barriers and put women

on to the path of development. A dynamic shift in the society took place after the

education of the women. Women took up myriad professions like medicine and

health care, teaching, media and journalism, arts and science and-literature, public

administration, entrepreneurship, defense services, politics etc… The "faire sex"

being known to possess sensibility and sensitivity in the right proportion brought

in a humane touch to whatever profession they took up. The doctors and nurses

took up the cause of the poor and the needy with empathy, lending a patient ear to

their miseries. We could see women volunteering to serve from the far off

unreachable tribal tracts to the community health centers with passion.

There is a great potential within the Indian women, who deserves appreciation for

their consistent efforts towards national integration and harmony. We can be rest

assured that a country where the "fairer sex" is so enlightened and progressive

would leave no stone unturned in shouldering the responsibility of nation building

along with their male counterparts.

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The role of women in the society is the most importantin bringing about all kinds of harmony

Upasna Paul

The most important element that determines the development of any nation

is harmonious living. ‘Harmony’ the term connotes many different aspects. India

being a country of diverse cultures faces the biggest challenge of maintaining this

communal harmony, which would lead to national integration. The concept of

national integration is being misunderstood in the modern times. In today's society

rather than accepting everyone to be alike we must learn to respect and appreciate

our differences. Therefore, Multiculturalism emerges as an

important concept as it represents the recognition and acceptance of human

diversity and acts as a medium to maintain integrity among the citizens of a nation

and even the world.

We are a pluralistic society, with different beliefs, faiths, languages, dress

codes, food habits and what not. How will harmony among these varied groups be

ensured? There can be harmony only if we appreciate the plurality. All the citizens

of the country share the responsibility of maintaining the communal harmony and

strive for national integration. The role of women could not be neglected in this

aspect. History bears witness to the might of women. She symbolizes strength,

endurance and courage. Women thus have a great role to play in soldering

communal harmony in the society. But their participation in the process is

dependent on the value that society holds for them.

During the prehistoric times i.e. Indus valley civilization period women

were given the position of respect and equality. They had equal say in household

matters. The Mother Goddess worship during that period emphasizes on the fact

that women were given respectable position in society. Then during Early Vedic

times also position of women was not too bad as historical sources of the times

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reveal. She was entitled to the ancestral property and had equal say in family

matters. No cases of female infanticide have been mentioned in the scriptures and

on the other hand it has been mentioned that the birth of a girl child was welcomed

in the family. Many slokas in Rig Veda had been written by women which

highlights the point that during early Vedic period women were entitled to higher

education as well.

But same was not the case during later Vedic period where the condition of

women started deteriorating. Her birth was looked down upon and much of her

educational rights were taken away. Still as a mother, she commanded great

respect. As we go down the historical lane we find that the plight of women started

declining gradually during the Maurayan and finally during the Gupta period.

During the medieval history period (c. 9th century to 15th century A.D.) the

position of women in society deteriorated to the greatest extent. She was seen

more as a liability in the family who was supposed to be protected all the time.

The same resulted in increased number of cases of female infanticide and sati.

Many evils like purdah system, Polygamy was widely practiced among Hindu

kings, sexual exploitation of women in name of devadasis, jauhar (voluntary

immolation of wives and daughters of defeated kings) etc crept in the society

which gave a major setback to the women of that age. She enclosed herself in shell

and all avenues of education, knowledge were closed for her. She existed now

solely for carrying on the family lineage subordinated to her husband forever.

Even in those of social backwardness times, there were few women who

were smart and brave enough to showcase the world, their political skills. Some of

them were, Razia Sultana, only woman to have ever ruled Delhi; Durgavati, the

queen of Gond who ruled for 50 years; Jijabai, mother of great Shivaji; Nur jahan,

wife of Jahangir; Chand Bibi who defended against the mighty Akbar.

The winds of change blew during later ages when due to western education,

many women attained education. With the help of many reformers like Raja Ram

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Mohan Roy, Ishwar Chandra. Vivekananda, Ambedkar, Vireshlingam Panthulu,

etc the position of Women was reclaimed to some extent. The ill practices like

Sati, Polygamy were drastically reduced. Breaking away the chains of destitution

and submissiveness many young ladies came to the forefront and participated in

the freedomstruggle in large numbers. National movements like non cooperation

and civil disobedience saw participation of women in large numbers. Many

women boycotted the western articles and donated their valuable ornaments to the

cause of freedom struggle. Contributions made in the freedom struggle by great

leaders like Sarojini Naidu, Beena Das, Sucheta Kriplani are invaluable.

Some of the Annie Besant's political achievements were "Presidentship of

INC" and "Home Rule league". Her Home league movement acted as a strong

foundation for Gandhiji to start his passive resistance movement. Sarojini Naidu

served as the first woman president of INC and she actively involved in Bose's

Indian national army. The roles of Aruna Asaf Ali and Sucheta Kriplani in Quit

India movement cannot be forgotten. Sucheta also became the first woman CM of

independent India.

The role of the woman in society is the most important in bringing about all

kinds of harmony. As a nurturer she is responsible for giving values and morals to

her children. A responsible mother, sister, daughter and a wife can bring about

change in the society. It is a well established fact that parenting and early

childhood experiences are most important in moulding the personality of the child.

The right set of values if given right at the doorstep of life can help in creating

responsible citizens. Prejudiced minds and faulty notions about other religions are

the major cause of communal tensions. Another is the fact that ignorant and

illiterate people fall into the trap of politicians who play the caste card well.

Therefore the role of an educated mother cannot be negated. An educated mother

would be clear as to what her child will look upto. Other than taking proper care of

the child in physical terms she would also make it sure that mental status of the

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child is also updated.

Family is the first informal institution of learning and mother is the first

teacher of any child. Therefore responsible nurturing mothering can create the

class of much sought after citizens who care for India's progress. Swami

Vivekananda believed that women as a class as much more dedicated and cohesive

group as compared to men. If given a platform and opportunity they can achieve

the desired result in an efficient way in lesser time. The recent survey conducted in

India in March 2010 corroborates to the fact that women are found to be less

corrupt and more responsible than men in the political domain.

To have an understanding as to what can we do to bring about communal

harmony it is imperative to know the hurdles faced by the society to bring about

this harmony. The single most important factor is the prejudices prevalent in the

society which could be linguistic, gender based or regional. It is manifested

through anti locution, avoidance, discrimination, physical attack, extermination,

competition or exploitation. The conditions which are responsible for transforming

social conflict into violence and intergroup riots are many. It is seen that relative

deprivation is high amongst the minority groups, Legitimacy of government is

low, all the channels of communication are blocked and high insecurity is seen

amongst minority groups which make them vulnerable to fall prey of antisocial

elements. Our society fosters the beliefs and traditions sanctioning violence. E.g.

organizations like bajrang dal and SIMI exist. The instruments of violence are

readily available in the society which ultimately leads aggression to become a

learned behaviour.

Other hurdles in the way of communal harmony and national integration are

evils like politicization of caste and religion, low educational level of people in

general, feeling of relative deprivation and faulty child rearing practices. In India

secularism concept has been more in nature of harsh reality imposed on the

backward society marked by deep religious divisions in its attempt to nurture a

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nation state. Because of this grafting of secularism on Indian society which is

deeply religious it is often been questioned whether India can be both democratic

and secular. Therefore, women as teachers and nurturers have a big role to play in

nullifying wrong concepts and mould the prejudiced thinking of society. As

journalists and editors also women can bring about a lot of awareness in the

public. It could be taken up by them as social cause and right spirit to instill the

feeling of nationalism amongst the masses.

The National Integration Council (NIC), chaired by the Prime Minister, at

present has 147 members, including Union Ministers, Leader of the Opposition in

the Lok Sabha and Rajya Sabha and all Chief Ministers. The Council also includes

leaders of national and regional political parties, chairpersons of National

Commissions, media persons, public figures, business leaders and representatives

of women's organisations. Here the role of women should be emphasized in a

larger sense. Famous women from various fields having expertise in their

respective fields could be included as members of this council.

Institutions like the Panchayati Raj have come a long way in bringing about

awareness amongst women in regard to their rights and has provided them an

opportunity to work at the grass root level. At the very beginning, antisocial

activities could be controlled through a good grievance redressal system and

an effective implementation policy. 33% reservation provided for women can

strengthen their economic condition as well as social standing that may provide

them chance to contribute in bringing about national integration. The problem of

'pradhan pati" had been complained in this system but the recent survey conducted

by Times of India in Jan-Feb 2010 has shown that panchayati raj system deserves

to be called as success owning to the amount of awareness being created among

women and the society.

Currently we have some good woman leaders like Sonia Gandhi,

Jayalalitha, Mamta Banerjee, Chhavi Rajawat etc.; still the representation of

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women as a whole remains meager. We can proudly say that the "President of our

country" was a woman, the Speaker of the house was a woman but surely, we

cannot be proud of just 9% representation of woman in Indian parliament. When

we compare this value with some of the developed countries like Germany, UK,

France, US, Japan etc, we stand nowhere. For example, Germany has 32 % of

women in their parliament, which is a great feat despite the fact that Germany

does not have any reservation as such for women.

Women have great potential as leaders. In addition to the steps taken by the

government, the political parties both local and national also should encourage

women to join politics. Only if given an appropriate responsibility and opportunity

women could contribute in maintaining and promoting the integrity of the nation.

By organizing in self-help-groups and by being the part of nonprofit organizations

women can spread the message of communal harmony in a very impactful way.

India as a country has a huge responsibility of creating the right atmosphere where

women folk can make their maximum contribution towards those aspects in.

society which only they can handle best. Communal harmony and national

integration are one of these aspects.

During communal riots taking place anywhere in India, it is commonly seen

that women are the most vulnerable preys to the injustice. The same has been

witnessed during Godhra riots, Sahranpur riots, Kandhamal riots and Mumbai

riots. Women are the ones who have to bear the maximum brunt. Therefore,

women are more receptive to the need for maintaining communal harmony and

they tend to understand the pros and cons of the whole situation in a more

balanced way. The Communal Violence (Prevention, Control and Rehabilitation

of Victims) Act, 2005 constituted by the government which extends to all the

states of the country except Jammu and Kashmir needs to be stringently applied

and culprits need to be booked on time.

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Women in India are beginning to follow the direction that the women of the

Western world took more than eighty years ago; demanding treatment as human

equals. But it is becoming more and more evident that as the revolution ages that

Indian women may have to adapt to different roles in the society making their

contribution in national development.

India has different complications and different set of problems which need

to be dealt in specialized ways. In terms of contribution to the society by women,

the key targets remain similar i.e. improvement of health care, education and job

opportunities in order to gain equality amongst all sections in the various settings

of public society, the workplace, the school yard and - possibly the most

fundamental setting of all - the home. Women are striving to be independent on the

equal level of men. The additional complexities that the women of India need, to

attain the goal of communal harmony and national integration are that they must

also challenge the caste system, the heavy religious customs, older and more

traditional roles of the sexes, as well as the even stronger power that the communal

forces hold in India.

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Contemplations: Woman carves the nation

Satyarth Aniruddha Pankaj

If we want to understand the role of women in national integration and

communal harmony we need to travel in our history, memory, narratives and need

to observe our society and even economy. We 'need to understand the complexities

of our times too. We have progressed in time, through centuries we have become

matured in different aspects and definitely yet need to be in so many ways. In the

course of this journey role of women has substantially changed in almost every

walk of life. So apart from past phenomena in the context of prevalent modernity

and post modernity, at different stages, we need to understand nature of women,

formation of nations and their disintegration, question of identity of communities

and moreover interplays of all these mentioned factors.

Contemplating over this issue so many questions arise automatically. The

first and foremost question is that what is so distinctive of women that we need to

underline its role in national integration? Then what are the issues and

contradictions that disintegrate a nation? How a nation binds together all its

communities with differing characteristics? Once again it comes in mind how the

contradictions of a nation and clashes of communities can be solved by women,

the so called weaker sex? Questions are so many and so forth. Let’s look for the

answers.

Woman is the magnificent creation of god, a multi faceted personality with

the power of benevolence, adjustability, integrity and tolerance. She is companion

of man, gifted with equal mental faculty, a protector and provider, the embodiment

of love and affection. The role given to women in a society is a measuring rod and

true index of its civilization and cultural attainment. Woman is mother of all

human being. In this comprehensive sense she is a nation builder and primary

basis of community. Almost every culture in world has attributed high moral,

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social and emotional values to women. Women have been considered softer in

India and other parts of the world. Attributes like compassion, love and care are

primarily feminine attributes but we all know what a sigh of relief to humanity

they confer upon. In a deeper and broader sense these are the attributes which

compel us to underline the role of women in national integration and communal

harmony. Not only these softer attributes alone, but there are other factors also

which are responsible for underscoring the role of women in foresaid context.

A woman as an identity doesn’t know the boundaries of nations and

communities. They share a common ground of feminity. Across the world their

sorrows and happiness has common characteristics. In this sense philosophically

speaking women has interpreted the world categorically different from male. This

interpretation is less complex and conflicting. They are more concerned with the

basic human nature and that is intrinsic goodness. Only on the basis of this

goodness one can expect disintegrating nations to integrate and clashing

communities to live harmoniously.

Our age is an age or extremes in which clashes of civilizations are taking

place in more than one way. Disintegration of values to nations, conflicts from

inward to communities are quite evident in our times. Hunger of mundane power

has been evolved as a mass paranoia. Despite professing for globalization we have

become more parochial and narrow. Definitely distance between America and

Afghanistan has shrunk but distances between these two nations in terms of

mutual faith and harmony has a decreasing index only. Can we say that more than

eight percent average growth rate in economic terms has made India a more

integrated nation with harmonious atmosphere prevailing amongst its

communities? In fact no nation can claim that without a sense of harmony

amongst its communities it can boast of being a strong nation. Because all its

growth will be of no productive and developmental use until it is internally

integrated. Metaphorically speaking a person with emotional insecurities and

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inward conflicts can’t be said to be healthy just because s/he is getting package of

millions dollars.

Before analyzing the basic nature of women, I mean the feminity. Which is

the basis of ideals of humanity and which have always saved humanity from

existential disasters; we need to discuss the idea of women in our histories and

national narratives.

Unfortunately history never spared women. They were the unvoiced

population conquered with the kingdoms and then assaulted and raped. In this

sense women are essentially concerned with histories of nations. In this kind of

making of histories of nation’s women saw a lot of violence, oppression, cruelty,

brutality. They were the weaker sex, and an avoidable population for the

powerful. Impact of such atrocities over the female psyche manifested in various

ways; they became more harmonious, they started believing in interdependence

and flexibility, they tried to imbibe positive, non-violent and harmony oriented

values in their coming generations. They were the victims of all male history.

They claimed downed the anger of male mass unconscious throughout the

generations. And thus brought societies, in their way, to harmony. And I strongly

propose to consider it not only from the point of view of weaker sex syndrome but

from the insight of emotional intelligence. The 'work ideally suited to her natural

talent is of educating the illiterate masses. The education of children mainly

depends upon her. Women have the quality to instruct, as well as please; teach as

well as amuse. By virtue of their natural quality of persuasion, tact, sympathy and

love they make better human beings which our nation requires in ever-increasing

number.

Woman by nature is a peace maker. She is blessed with the tact and skill to

convince and drive the argument in her favor. In judicial and executive posts she is

more objective, unbiased and unprejudiced than man. In the field of international

politics and diplomacy she has already lifted the image of our country. Diplomacy

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is her latent quality. Politeness of appearance closely guards her strong and bold

heart. She has a commanding personality which I grimly solemn. It is rightly

remarked, there is in every true woman s heart a spark of heavenly tire which lies

dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity but which kindles up and beams and

blazes in the dark hour of adversity. Thus, her services are more urgently required

in building up national integrity in the field of politics and diplomacy.

In fact there are so many examples like M.S. Subhalaxmi and Lata ji as

singers, P.T. Usha and Mary Mari Kom as players, Amrita Pritam and

Mahashweta Devi as writers, Shabana Azmi as actor all contributed in direct

integration of this nation. They brought harmony between north-south, east-west

communities.

Nowadays women are working as self-help groups and enterprising various

economic activities. This new avatar of women is in a sense bringing positivity to

the society and by the sheer presence of such positivity and avenues to come out of

miseries life in society is being more harmonious. People are following them as

examples of prosperity and moving on their footprints. Moreover, these activities

themselves bring stability and peace in the region concerned.

Concluding we can say that woman is the first teacher of the child, lovely

companion of him/her for maximum time, and home maker, hence basically she is

carving a nation or a community in her home. In this sense her role becomes more

influential and powerful. Apart from these her basic nature of harmony, love and

peace does significantly to the national integration and communal harmony.

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naxksa ds f[kykQ gj efgyk dks ,d&tqV gksuk pkfg,

&gjh’k panj

ckcjh efLtn vkSj jketUe Hkwfe fookn dh ppkZ vc /khjs&/khjs de gksus yxh gS]

tSls&tSls ;g ppkZ de gksrh tk jgh gS] oSls&oSls gh os reke vk'kadk,a fueZwy gksrh tk

jgh gSaa ftUgksaus flrEcj ds vafre 10 fnuksa esa ns'k dks 1992 ds njokts ij ykdj [kM+k dj

fn;k Fkk] ij og njoktk ugha [kqyk] 'kk;n [kqyuk Hkh ugha pkfg, FkkA 18&20 lky ckn

ds le; esa dqN QdZ gksuk gh pkfg,A

flrEcj dk vafre lIrkg chr tkus ij lpeqp ;g eglwl gqvk fd ge 20oha lnh

dk vafre n’kd gh ugha 21oha lnh dk igyk n’kd Hkh yxHkx ikj dj pqds gSaA gekjs

fy, ;g lkspuk t:jh gks ldrk gS D;ksafd os ifjfLFkfr;ka 2010 esa mRiUu ugha gqbZ tks

1990 ds n’kd esa dbZ ckj mRiUu gqbaZ vkSj gksrs&gksrs cpha\ bl lanHkZ esa lekt’kkfL=;ksa

dk fo’ys"k.k dqN Hkh dgs] ,d vke vkneh dh rjg eSa ;gka dqN igyqvksa dh ppkZ d:axkA

ftu fnuksa naxksa ds Mj ls mÙkj izns’k dks ,d vkehZ dSai esa rCnhy dj fn;k x;k

Fkk] mUgha fnuksa jsfM;ks ij v;ks/;k dh ,d vKkr Lo;a lsfodk dk lk{kkRdkj lquok;k x;k]

mlus tks dgk] gkykafd os ckrsa fcYdqy u;h ugha Fkh] ij ,slh t:j Fkha fd vki lqudj

pkSad ldrs gSa] ml lekt lsfodk us bl ckr ij ckj&ckj tksj fn;k fd] Þnaxk flQZ

efgykvksa ds fy, gksrk gS vkSj blhfy, naxksa ds f[kykQ gj ,d efgyk dks ,dtqV gksuk

pkfg,Aß

esjs eu esa lglk ;g loky mB [kM+k gqvk fd ;fn lpeqp ml lekt lsfodk dh

bPNk iwjh gks lds rks D;k ;g jk"Vªh; ,drk dk ,d etcwr igyw ugha gksxk\ jk"Vªh;

,drk rFkk lkEiznkf;d fodkl ds lkSgknZz esa efgyk,a lokZf/kd ;ksxnku ns ldrh gSa] bl

ckr dks fl) djus ds fy, fdlh 'kks/k dh vko’;drk ugha gSA eSa Hkkjr tSls ns’k ds lanHkZ

esa ;g ckr nkos ls dg ldrk gw¡] ij bl ckr ij ppkZ tjk #ddj d:¡xk] igys gesa

jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oe~ lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz ds lelkef;d vFkZ dh ppkZ djuh iM+sxhA

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jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ls vfHkizk;&

ifjfLFkfr;ka cnyrh gS rks le; cnyrk gS vkSj le; ds lkFk&lkFk dbZ 'kCn viuk

vFkZ cny ysrs gSaA vkt ls 50 lky igys ;fn ge Hkkjr ds fy, jk"Vª vFkok jkT;ksa ds

fy, jk"Vªh; ,drk tSls 'kCn dk iz;ksx djrs Fks] rks mldk vFkZ ogh ugha Fkk] tks vkt gks

x;k gSA vkt ge ;fn vius ns’kokfl;ksa ls jk"Vªh; ,drk cuk, jgus dk vuqjks/k djrs gSa

rks gekjs vuqjks/k esa osLVbaMht ;k nf{k.k vÝhdk esa jgus okyk og Hkkjrh; Hkh 'kkfey gksrk

gS] ftudh ihf<+;k¡ 200&250 o"kZ iwoZ Hkkjro"kZ dks NksM+dj tk pqdh gSaA ;gh ugha vkt

jk"Vªh; ,drk dk vFkZ ;g Hkh ugha gksrk fd ge rks ,d jgas] ij ,drk dh rkdr ls nwljs

jk"Vª ds ukxfjdksa dks rksM+rs&QksM+rs jgsaA

tc ge vkt ds ifjizs{; esa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dh ppkZ djrs gSa rks gekjk rkRi;Z

;g ugha gksrk fd ,d Åij cSBk jgs vkSj nwljk lkSgknzZ ds uke ij uhps iM+k jgsA Li"V gh

ek/ko lnkflo xksyoydj ds lafo/kku esa jk"Vªh; ,drk ;k lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dk tks

iSekuk gS og gekjs dke dk ugha gSA

vkt ge jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ tSls 'kCnksa dk iz;ksx dsoy viuh

etcwrh ds fy, gh ugha djrs] cfYd gekjk ;g iz;kl jgrk gS fd xSj jk"Vªh; Hkh tc

gekjs jk"Vª dks viuk le>us yxsa rHkh gekjs fy, bu 'kCnksa dk lgh vFkZ fl) gksxkA

efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk&

efgyk,¡ fo’o dh tula[;k dk vk/kk fgLlk gS] ;g ckr u tkus fdruh ckj dgh

x;h gSA ;g okD; bruh ckj nksgjk;k x;k gS fd lquus ij vc vtuch tSlk yxrk gS]

;wjksi esa Ýkalhlh Økafr ds dqN o"kksZ a ckn eSjh mYlVu Øk¶V us 'kk;n igyh ckj bl ckr

dks rhozrk ds lkFk mBk;k Fkk] rc ls vc rd 200 ls vf/kd lky chr pqds gSa] bl chp

;g vo/kkj.kk] vkt tksjksa ls fodflr gks jgh gS] fd ,d L=h dks i<+k, tkus dk vFkZ ,d

ifjokj dks i<+k;k tkuk gksrk gS] rc D;k ;g ckr jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz

ds lanHkZ esa lkFkZd ugha gS\ eSa viuh ppkZ dk vkjEHk blh fcUnq ls djuk pkgw¡xkA

ifjokj vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk ds chp laca/k rFkk L=h&

ifjokj jk"Vª dh y?kqÙke bdkbZ gSA gj O;fDr vius vk/ks laLdkjksa dk vtZu ifjokj

esa djrk gSA ;g loky fd ifjokj esa L=h dh fLFkfr D;k gS] t:jh gksrs gq, Hkh gekjs fy,

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FkksM+s de egRo dk gSA gekjs fy, t:jh flQZ ;g tkuuk gks ldrk gS fd ifjokj esa L=h

dk egRo Hkys gh de gks ij D;k og Hkkoh ih<+h esa viuk dqN LoHkko lqjf{kr j[k NksM+rh

gS\

;gk¡ ;g dguk t:jh gks tkrk gS fd fL=;ksa dh Hkwfedk] tks os dj jgh gSa] ogk¡ rd

lhfer ugha gSA cgqr dqN ,slk gS tks os dj ldrh gSa vkSj ogk¡ Hkh muds egRo dks

Lohdkj djuk gksxkA ;g L=h ds Åij fuHkZj djrk gS fd og c<+rs cPps dks Qwy fxuuk

fl[kk, ;k cUnwd dh xksfy;k¡ pykukA ifjokj esa O;fDr lgu’khyrk lh[krk gSA HkkbZpkjs

dk igyk ikB mls ifjokj esa mldh ekrk }kjk i<+k;k tkrk gSA

;gk¡ ;g Hkh ladsr dj nsuk vko’;d gS fd bl lanHkZ esa eSa iq#"k oxZ dh mis{kk

ugha djuk pkgrkA oLrqr% lPpkbZ ;gh gS fd ifjokj esa ftruk le; iq#"k O;rhr djrk gS

mlls dgha vf/kd le; L=h vkt Hkh ifjokj dh ns[kHkky esa [kpZ djrh gSA ,d L=h pkgs

rks og c<+rs cPps ds eu esa mu laLdkjksa dks tUe ns ldrh gS tks Hkfo"; esa jk"Vªh; ,drk

dk etcwr dop fl) gksA

euksfo’ys"kdksa dk ;g ekuuk fcYdqy Bhd gS fd O;fDr dh izd`fr yxHkx

vifjorZu’khy gSA izd`fr ls rkRi;Z O;fDr ds ml ewy LoHkko ls gS tks mlds vkjafHkd

thou esa fodflr gksrk gS rFkk Hkfo"; esa Hkh cpk jgrk gSA bl LoHkko esa ;fn lfg".kqrk

vkSj HkkbZpkjs dk ikB 'kkfey gks rks D;k og ifjofrZr gks ldsxkA

ifjokj vkt Hkh Hkkjr esa ,d n`<+ bdkbZ gSA vr% ifjokj ds Lrj ij ;fn O;fDr

g¡luk cksyuk] gj rjg ds R;kSgkj ,d lkFk eukuk] vkfn lh[ks rks fQj LkkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz

dk fodkl Hkyk D;ksa u gksxkA

,d L=h dk LoHkko&

ySafxd foe’kZ dh vo/kkj.kkvksa ,oe~ euksfo’ys"k.kokn ds fl)karksa ij ;fn /;ku fn;k

tk, rks ;g Li"V gksxk fd L=h dk LoHkko iq#"k ds LoHkko dh rqyuk esa de fgald gksrk

gSA blds ihNs dkSu ls dkjd ftEesnkj gSa] ;gk¡ ;g ppkZ vko’;d ugha gSA loky bl ckr

dk gS fd D;k L=h ds ml LoHkko dk mi;ksx ldkjkRed <ax ls ugha fd;k tk ldrkA

fleksu n cqvkj (simon de BEAUVOIR) us viuh iqLrd ^n lsdsaM lsDl* esa ;g izekf.kr

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fd;k fd fdl izdkj c<+rh vk;q ds iq#"k esa fgalk vkSj Øwjrk rFkk c<+rh vk;q dh L=h esa

vfgalk o dkseyrk dk fodkl gksrk gSA

jk"Vªh; ,drk ds n`f"Vdks.k ls gekjs fy, ;g igyw cgqr egRoiw.kZ gSA ;g Bhd gS

fd vkt ge vfgalk dh ckr varjkZ"Vªh; ifjizs{; esa ml rjg ugha dj ldrs ij bruk

Li"V gS fd lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz ds fodkl esa vfgalk ds egRo dks udkjk ugha tk ldrkA

'kks"k.k dh ihM+k&

eSaus igys dgk gS fd lkEiznkf;drk dk f’kdkj fdlh Hkh /keZ esa lcls igys L=h dks

gksuk iM+rk gSA vr% ;gh ihM+k ;fn fL=;ksa ds eu esa fdlh rjg fodflr gks rks ge

lkEiznkf;drk dks cM+s iSekus ij jksd ldrs gSaA

dbZ o"kZ iwoZ ef.kiqj esa Hkkjrh; lsuk ds ccZj vR;kpkjksa ds fo:) ef.kiqj dh

vkfnoklh fL=;ksa us j{kkcU/ku ds fnu lM+dksa ij uXu izn’kZu fd;kA ;g ?kVuk Hkkjrh;

yksdra= ds bfrgkl dk cgqr dkyk ij egRoiw.kZ i`"B gSA fL=;ksa us ftl lkgl ls Hkkjrh;

lsuk dk izfrjks/k fd;k mlh lkgl ds lkFk ;fn lkEiznkf;d rkdrksa dk fojks/k djsa rks

jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fuekZ.k esa vR;ar egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA

izR;sd L=h de ls de vius lacaf/k;ksa rd viuh j{kk ds uke ij fgalk u djus dk

ncko Mky ldrh gSA gkykafd ;g ckr lquus esa dqN vthc yxsxh ij ckr ;gh gS fd

fL=;ka vius Åij fd, tk jgs vR;kpkjksa ds uke ij Hkh cgqr ls iq#"kksa ds eu esa

lkEiznkf;drk fojks/kh Hkkouk,a mRiUu dj ldrh gSaA dqy feykdj L=h dk lkgl yksxksa

dks ;g izsj.kk ns ldrk gS fd os jk"Vª dh ,drk dks cuk, j[kus ds fy, ;Fkk laHko iz;Ru

djsaA

/keZ] jk"Vª vkSj L=h&

jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lanHkZ esa /keZ ij ppkZ djuk [krjs dh ?kaVh tSlk yxrk gSA vc

;g ekuk tkus yxk gS fd O;fDr vxj /kkfeZd gS rks lkEiznkf;d vo’; gksxkA cqf)thoh

oxZ dh ckr u djsa rks de ls de lekt dk 60 Qhlnh fgLlk rks ;gh ekurk gSA ij

okLro esa Hkkjr esa /keZ dh tM+sa bruh xgjh gSa vkSj bruh dksey Hkh fd ;fn muesa dqN

dkV&NkaV gks rks ge jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fy, /kkfeZdrk dh ,d u;h tehu rS;kj dj ldrs

gSaA

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bl lanHkZ esa eSa R;kSgkjksa dk mYys[k djuk pkgw¡xk] [kklrkSj ij mu R;kSgkjksa dk tks

/keZ ds uke ij euk, tkrs gSaA ;g ,d L=h ij fuHkZj djrk gS fd og R;kSgkj ds fnu

vkus okys rFkkdfFkr xSj /kkfeZd O;fDr ds lkFk fdl rjg dk crkZo djsA ,d L=h dh

lfg".kqrk vkxarqd ds iwjs ifjokj dks lfg".kq cukus esa ;ksx ns ldrh gSA ;gh ugha R;kSgkjksa

ds volj ij gksus okys tqywlksa bR;kfn dh O;oLFkk Hkh vizR;{k <ax ls fL=;ksa dks gh djuh

iM+rh gSA vr% os ogk¡ Hkh ;RuiwoZd ,sls dk;ZØe [kklrkSj ls ukVd&ukSVadh bR;kfn ;k

yksdxhrksa ds ek/;e ls jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oe~ lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa dqN ;ksx vo’; ns

ldrh gSA

gkykafd ;g lc 'kgjh leqnk; ds lanHkZ esa cgqr de lkFkZd gS] ij blds ckotwn

Hkh ge ;g dgsaxs fd jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lanHkZ esa gj og dke lkFkZd gS tks lfg".kqrk dk

fodkl djsA

fookg& ifjokj] /keZ bR;kfn dh ppkZ ds ckn fookg dh ppkZ djuk vR;Ur vko’;d

gksxkA ;g Hkkjr tSls ns’k ds fy, lq[kn fLFkfr gS fd xr dbZ o"kksZa esa gekjs ;gka

vUrjkZ"Vªh; ,oe~ var% /kkfeZd fookgksa dh la[;k yxkrkj c<+h gSA lkEiznkf;drk dk vFkZ

dsoy xSj /kkfeZdksa ls gh tqM+k gqvk ugha gS] lkEiznkf;drk dk lcls [krjukd igyw tkfr

izFkk ls lEc) gSA tc ge Hkkjr tSls ns’k ds fy, lsD;wyj 'kCn dk iz;ksx djrs gSa rks

bldk ,d vFkZ tkfr fujis{k Hkh gksrk gSA ge tkfr fujis{k gq, cxSj iaFk fujis{k ugha gks

ldrsA

eq>s yxrk gS fd vUrZtkrh; fookg og ek/;e gS ftlls tkfrxr ca/kuksa dks Hkyh

Hkk¡fr rksM+k tk ldrk gSA dguk u gksxk fd vUrZtkrh; fookg tSlh izFkk dk izpyu L=h

ds lkgl ds cxSj vlaHko gSA bl rjg ;fn ns[kk tk, rks vUrZtkrh; fookgksa ds ek/;e ls

ge ,drk ,oe~ lkSgknZ ds ewy vFkZ rd igq¡p ldrs gSaA

;fn ns[kk tk, rks uxjh; ,oa egkuxjh; {ks=ksa esas detksj gksrh tkfr izFkk ,oe~

c<+rh jk"Vªh; ,drk ds ihNs fookg izFkk esa cnyko dh fu.kkZ;d Hkwfedk gSA bl fu.kkZ;d

Hkwfedk esa L=h dh fdruh Hkwfedk gS ;g crkuk 'kk;n vlaHko gSA

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efgykvksa ds iz;Ru

geus jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds fodkl esa efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk ls

lEc) ftu igyqvksa dh ppkZ dh gS] og egt vVdyckth ugha gSA fujarj c<+rh lk{kjrk]

jktuhfrd lfØ;rk] lkekftd tkx#drk] vkfFkZd vkRefuHkZjrk bl ckr dk izek.k gS fd

fL=;ksa us vc rd tks fd;k gS] Hkfo"; esa os mlls vf/kd djus dh {kerk j[krh gSaA {kerk

okys igyw dh ppkZ ge Åij dj pqds gSa ;gka ge jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lanHkZ esa vc rd fd,

x, efgykvksa ds iz;Ruksa dh ppkZ djsaxsA

bl lanHkZ esa ge ,sfrgkfld ifjizs{; dk lgkjk ysrs gq, lkekftd vkfFkZd rFkk

jktuSfrd lanHkksZa esa efgykvksa ds ;ksxnku dh ppkZ dj ldrs gSaA ;gk¡ ;g Li"V dj nsuk

vko’;d gS fd ;g ppkZ izk;% mUgha fL=;ksa ls lEc) gS ftUgksaus lgh ek;us esa tehuh Lrj

ij vke vkneh ds fgr esa dk;Z fd;k gSA nwljh ckr ;g fd jk"Vªh; ,drk dk vFkZ ;g Hkh

gS fd ge ihfM+r turk dh djkg dks eglwl djrs gq, mldh leL;kvksa ds lek/kku dk

;Ru djsaA vr% ;fn ,d vkneh Hkw[ks dks jksVh f[kykrk gS rks mldk jk"Vªh; ,drk esa mruk

gh ;ksxnku le>uk pkfg,] ftruk dh Hkkjrh; lsuk ;k iqfyl ds vf/kdkjh dkA efgykvksa

ds iz;Ru ij ppkZ djrs le; ge bUgha eqÌksa dks /;ku esa j[ksaxsA

lkekftd ifjizs{;&

jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lkekftd igyw dh ppkZ 'kq: djrs gh gekjs lkeus lcls igyk

loky tkx#drk dk gksrk gS vkSj ;gh og {ks= gS ftl {ks= esa efgykvksa us lokZf/kd dke

fd;kA if’pe caxky tSls jkT; esa egk’osrk nsoh us fiNM+s gq, yksxksa ds gd esa tks yM+kbZ

yM+h gS] mls Hkqyk;k ugha tk ldrkA O;fDr dks tc rd mlds gd u feys] rc rd og

jk"Vª ds vFkZ ls vifjfpr jgsxkA egk’osrk nsoh tSlh efgykvksa us ;gh dk;Z djus dh

dksf’k’k dh gSA

nwljk mnkgj.k mÙkj izns’k ds cqUnsy[k.M dk gS] tgk¡ efgykvksa us laxfBr gksdj

^[kcj ygfj;k* tSls lekpkj i= dk vkjaHk fd;kA ;g lekpkj i= bruk yksdfiz; gqvk

fd ;qusLdks tSlh laLFkk us bls iqjLd`r fd;kA Li"V gS fd ,sls bykdksa rd jk"Vªh; ;kstuk

dh lwpuk,a igq¡pkuk ,slk dk;Z ugha gS fd bls ge pqVdh ctkrs gh vatke ns ldsA fdj.k

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csnh tSlh efgyk,a vkdk’kok.kh rFkk Lo;alsoh laxBuksa ls tqM+dj tks dk;Z dj jgh gSa] og

vfoLej.kh; gSA

jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lkekftd ifjizs{; ds nwljs igyw dk laca/k fganw /keZ ds brj yksxksa

ls gSA 21oha lnh esa ?kVh xqtjkr dh lkEiznkf;d ?kVuk,a] 21oha lnh esa vc rd dk lcls

nq%[kn igyw gSA ge ^rhLrk lhryokM+* tSlh efgyk ds ;ksxnku dks dSls Hkwy ldrs gSa

ftlus ml vYila[;d leqnk; ds leFkZu dk chM+k mBk;k] ftls vfgUnw gksus ds dkj.k

vlfg".kq Hkh ekuk tk jgk FkkA dguk u gksxk fd ,sls leFkZdksa ds vHkko esa ge jk"Vª ds

fy, vfgUnw rcdksa ds leFkZu ls oafpr gh jgsaxsA

jk"Vªh; ,drk dk vFkZ dsoy ,d jk"Vª dh ,drk ls gh ugha gS] bl ckr dks vusd

efgykvksa us vius izR;uksa ls izekf.kr fd;k gSA igys ^,suh cslsUV* o ^enj Vsjslk* tSlh

efgykvksa us ;g lkfcr fd;k fd jk"Vª ;k jk"Vªh;rk ,d ekufld vo/kkj.kk gSA bu

efgykvksa us mu rcdksa ds fy, dke fd;k ftuds fy, fganqLrku ds rFkkdfFkr jk"Vªlsoh Hkh

rc rd dqN djus esa v{ke jgs FksA

?kjsyw fgalk fganqLrkuh fookg O;oLFkk dh lcls nq[kn igyw jgh gSA vkt t:jr

bl ckr dh ugha gS fd blds fojks/k esa cgqr ls dkuwu cuk fn, tk,¡] tks vc rd ?kjsyw

fgalk ds fojks/k esa cuk, x, gSaA vusd xSj&ljdkjh] lkekftd laxBuksa us bl {ks= esa

vHkwriwoZ dk;Z fd;k gSA ^fdj.k csnh* tSlh efgyk,a vc rd vufxur efgykvksa ds

vf/kdkjksa dh yM+kbZ yM+ pqdh gSa vkSj yM+ Hkh jgh gSaA vk’p;Z rks rc gksrk gS tc

xSj&lekt lsoh laxBuksa us ?kjsyw fgalk vf/kfu;e esa iq#"kksa ds vf/kdkjksa dk Hkh leFkZu

fd;kA bu efgykvksa us fgalk dks ,d i{k ls ugha cfYd mldks fgalk dh rjg ns[kkA

vr% jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lkekftd igyw dks fodflr djus esa efgykvksa us vc rd

tks dk;Z fd, gSa mls ns[krs gq, ge tkx#d Hkfo"; esa ,d iw.kZ tkx#d lekt dh dYiuk

dj ldrs gSaA

vkfFkZd ifjizs{;& vkfFkZd le`f)] ,drk rFkk lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds fodkl dh lokZf/kd

egRoiw.kZ 'krZ gSA vc rd ds tks vkadM+s miyC/k gSa mudks ns[krs gq, ;g lgtrk ls dgk

tk ldrk gS fd naxkbZ;ksa ,oa vkradokfn;ksa dk laca/k vf/kdk’kar% fuEu rcdksa ls jgk gSA

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vr% t:jr bl ckr dh gS fd jk"Vªksa dks vkfFkZd n`f"V ls ;FkklaHko le`) cuk;k tk,]

rkfd vFkZ ds ykyp esa dksbZ O;fDr ,sls lekt fojks/kh dk;ksZa dh vksj u eqM+sA

bl {ks= esa efgykvksa us dbZ rjg ds iz;Ru fd, gSaA mÙkj izns’k] fcgkj] iatkc o

gfj;k.kk tSls jkT;ksa esa fL=;ksa us Lo;a lgk;rk lewg cukdj xjhch ls Åij mBus dk

iz;Ru fd;kA ,sls lewg yxkrkj fodflr gks jgs gSaA blds vfrfjDr dqVhj m|ksxksa ds {ks=

esa cukjl o vktex<+ ds vklikl ds lkM+h m|ksx dh tks fLFkfr gS og izk;% efgykvksa ds

dkj.k gh gSA

blds vfrfjDr Hkkjr ds nf{k.kh jkT;ksa esa rFkk if’peh mÙkj izns’k o gfj;k.kk esa

efgykvksa us d`f"k ds {ks= esa egRoiw.kZ dk;Z fd, gaSA buesa ls dqN efgyk,a vc bruh l{ke

gSa fd vusd ifjokjksa dks jkstxkj ns ldrh gaSA mÙkjksÙkj le`) gksrs Hkkjr ds fuekZ.k esa D;k

;g de egRoiw.kZ ;ksxnku gS \

jktuhfrd ifjizs{; & jk"Vªh; ,drk ds jktuhfrd igyw dh ppkZ vkjaHk djrs le; Hkh ;g

nksgjk nsuk vko’;d gksxk fd jktuhfrd lfØ;rk ls vf/kd egRoiw.kZ gS] jktuSfrd

tkx#drkA jktuSfrd tkx#drk dh c<+ksrjh esa vc rd ftu fL=;ksa us egRoiw.kZ dk;Z

fd;k gS] muesa v#.kk jkW; dk uke lcls igys ysuk pkfg,A mUgksaus lwpuk dk vf/kdkj

tSls egRoiw.kZ fo"k; ij tks cgqvk;keh iz;Ru fd;s og vR;ar ljkguh; gSaA ;g vf/kfu;e

jk"Vªh; ,drk ds izlkj esa egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrk gS] D;ksafd ,drk ds fy, usr`Ro ij

Hkjkslk djuk vko’;d gS vkSj Hkjksls ds fy, usr`Ro o tulkekU; ds chp ikjnf’kZrk vo’;

gksuh pkfg,A tkuus dk vf/kdkj tulkekU; vkSj usr`Ro ds chp ikjnf’kZrk cuk, j[kus dh

,slh gh dksf’k’k gSA

vusd lfØ; jktuhfrKksa us Hkh jktuhfrd tkx#drk ds izlkj esa egRoiw.kZ dk;Z

fd;k gSA ge ns[krs gSa fd vkt dbZ izns’kksa esa rFkk jk"Vªh; Lrj ij efgyk,a lfØ;

jktuhfr esa 'kh"kZLFk gaSA tc ;s fL=;ka tu lkekU; ds chp tkdj muls lh/kk laokn

LFkkfir djrh gSa] rc dqN yksxksa esa mu tSlk cuuk rFkk dqN esa mu ij Hkjkslk djus dh

Hkkouk ,d lkFk mRiUu gksrh gSA

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ukSdj’kkgh og egRoiw.kZ {ks= gS tks jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oe~ lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds

fodkl esa egRoiw.kZ ;ksxnku ns ldrk gSA ^fdj.k csnh* dh ppkZ ge Åij dj pqds gSaA

muds vfrfjDr vusd ,slh fL=;ka gSa ftUgksaus bl {ks= esa tkdj tulkekU; ds gd dh

yM+kbZ yM+h gSA ;gh ugha lhek lqj{kk cy esa efgykvksa ds izos’k ds ihNs Hkh bu lQy

ukSdj’kkg fL=;ksa dh gh Hkwfedk gSA

la{ksi esa jktuhfrd tkx#drk ,oa jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fodkl esa tks vc rd laHko

Fkk] 'kk;n mruk gh fd;k tk jgk gSA

ewY;kadu&

geus jk"Vªh; ,drk rFkk lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds fodkl esa fL=;ksa ds ;ksxnku dh tks

ppkZ dh gS] og ppkZ dk pedrk gqvk igyw gSA dgus dks ;g Hkh dgk tk ldrk gS ¼vkSj

dqN yksx dgrs Hkh gSa½ fd fL=;ksa dh fLFkfr igys ls vf/kd n;uh; gks x;h gSA vr% os

,sls {ks=ksa esa yxHkx ux.; gaSA esjs fopkj esa ;g dguk le; ls ihNs ykSVus dh rjg gS

vkSj ge tkurs gSa fd bfrgkl dHkh ykSVrk ughaA

ge dg ldrs gSa fd ;fn L=h lk{kjrk nj vkSj rsth ls c<+s] ikfjokfjd ca/ku dqN

f’kfFky gks ldsa] iq#"k viuk opZLo dqN de djsa vkSj fL=;ksa dks muds lHkh dkuwuh

vf/kdkj ns fn, tk,a rc ge lpeqp ,d lQy ,oe~ l’kDr jk"Vª dk fuekZ.k dj ldsaxsA

,slk jk"Vª tgka izoklh Hkh vius ns’k dh rjg jg ldsaA

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Hkkjrh; ukfj;k¡ R;kx’khy ,oa /kS;Zoku gksrh gSa

&jktho jatu

Hkkjr lkekfld laLd`fr dk izfrfuf/kRo LFky gSA bl lekfldrk dh lokZf/kd

egRoiw.kZ fo’ks"krk bldh lkekftd lajpuk gS] vkSj Hkkjrh; ukfj;ka bl lkekftd lajpuk

dk ,d egRoiw.kZ Hkkx gaSA ;g lajpuk thoar xfr’khy ,oa jpukRed gSA Hkkjr dh laLd`fr

bl lajpuk ls vfHkUu :i ls tqM+h gS vkSj fofo/krk bl laLd`fr dh lcls cM+h fo’ks"krk

gSA oLrqr% fofo/k laiznk; Hkkjr dh laLd`fr dk fgLlk gaS] ijarq ftl rjg Hkkjr dh

laLd`fr fpjdkfyd v{kq..k ,oa thoar jgh gS& ;g rHkh laHko gS] tc lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko

lPpkbZ ds :i esa dk;e jgk gksA lkaiznkf;d lg vfLrRo dh bl ,sfrgkfld dgkuh esa

Hkkjrh; ukfj;ksa dh egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk jgh gSA

bl Hkwfedk dh i`"BHkwfe esa dqN egRoiw.kZ iz’uksa ij fopkj djuk t:jh gSA ,d

egRoiw.kZ iz’u laiznk; ,oa lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dks le>uk gSA lkFk gh gesa lkaiznkf;drk

ds Øfed fodkl inkuqØe dks Hkh tkuuk gksxkA blh rjg jk"Vªh;rk ,oa jk"Vªh; ,drk ds

varlZaca/kksa dh [kkst Hkh visf{kr gksxhA lokZf/kd izklafxd iz’u ftldh [kkst tkjh gS og gS

buds fy, ukjh gh D;ksa \

bl vkf[kjh iz’u dk tckc lcls igys fn;k tkuk visf{kr gksxk vkSj blds tckc

gsrq ukfj;ksa dh lkekftd&euksoSKkfud n'kk dh tkudkjh t:jh gSA bl lanHkZ esa lokZf/kd

igyh egRoiw.kZ ckr ;g gS fd ukfj;ka LoHkko ls gh 'kkar vkSj fLFkj fpÙk okyh gksrh gSaA

muesa lkekftd lfg".kqrk dk Lrj Hkh Å¡pk gksrk gSA blh dh cnkSyr lekt dks le>us

dk utfj;k T;knk laosnu'khy ,oa tkx:d izd`fr dk gksrk gSA bl laca/k esa ukscy

iqjLdkj fotsrk izks- veZR; lsu us vius dY;k.kdkjh vFkZ’kkL= esa ukfj;ksa ds LoHkko vkSj

R;kx Hkko dks cryk;k gSA muds vuqlkj ?kj&ifjokj esa idk gqvk Hkkstu lcls igys ?kj

dk iz/kku iq#"k [kkrk gS] fQj cPps [kkrs gSa] vkSj lcls var esa cpk [kkuk ukjh [kkrh gSA

vxj [kkuk ugha cprk gS] rks lkekU;r% mls Hkw[kk gh jguk iM+rk gSA

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blh rjg tokgjyky usg# fo’ofo|ky; ds ^Ldwy vkWQ lks’ky LVMht* ds vuqlkj

Hkkjrh; ukfj;ka LoHkko ls gh R;kx’khy ,oa /kS;Zoku gksrh gSA blh dh otg ls mudks

dqiks"k.k dk f’kdkj gksuk iM+rk gSA

/keZ okLro esa ,d thou 'kSyh gS] vkSj /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk thou dk izokg gS] mRizsjd

gS] Lusgd gSA ;gh otg gS fd ifjokj] /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk ls ifjp; dh igyh lh<+h gS vkSj

pwafd ukjh ifjokj uked bdkbZ dh /kqjh gS( blfy, ukjh gh ifjokj dh lkaiznkf;d

ekufldrk dh daqth gSA nwljs 'kCnksa esa ifjokj dh /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk] ukjh dh lksp ls

lekurk j[krh gSA bruk gh ugha bl lksp dk lh/kk izHkko ?kj ds cPpksa ij iM+rk gSA vr%

vxyh ih<+h dh /kkfeZd lksp Hkh ukjh dh O;fDrxr lksp ,oa psruk ls lh/kh izHkkfor gksrh

gSA

blh rjg ukjh dh lksp dk izHkko ,drk ds fuekZ.k] blds lao)Zu vkSj ifj"dj.k

ij iM+rk gS vkSj bldh 'kq:vkr ?kj&ifjokj ls gh gksrh gSA mnkgj.k ds fy, ?kj esa

ctrk gqvk jsfM;ks] Vh-oh- pSuy vFkok laxhr ml ?kj dh lksp dk izfrfuf/kRo djrs gSaA

fdlh ifjokj esa bldh 'kq:vkr Hktu ls gks ldrh gS rks fdlh esa xkyh&xykSt vFkok

jksus&/kksus lsA

Hkkjr ds ;qok vkn’kZ Lokeh foosdkuan ds vuqlkj gekjh lksp dk lh/kk izHkko gekjs

fnu&izfrfnu ds fØ;kdykiksa ij iM+rk gS vkSj izR;sd lksp ,oa fØ;kdyki dh gekjs

efLr"d ij ,d ydhj ¼ykbZu vkQW ,D’ku½ f[kaprh gSA bldk izHkko gekjh vknr vkSj

gekjs pfj= ij iM+rk gS vkSj iqu% jk"Vªh; pfj= ,sls gh O;fDrxr pfj=ksa dk ;ksx gSA

Hkkjr dh /kkfeZd&lkaLd`frd fofo/krk dh >yd gesa fofHkUu izkarksa ,oa voljksa ij

euk;s tkus okys ioZ&R;ksgkjksa ,oa jhfr&fjoktksa esa feyrh gSA Hkkjrh; lekt dh LokHkkfod

izd`fr ;g jgh gS fd ge u flQZ vius /keZ fo’ks"k ls tqM+s ioZ&R;kSgkj eukrs gSa] cfYd

nwljs /keksZa ls tqM+s ioZ&R;kSgkjksa dk vknj Hkh djrs gSa] ijarq iqu% bl izd`fr dk ewy dkj.k

gekjs lekt dh ukfj;ksa dh lksp ,oa mudk LoHkko gSA

blh rjg jhfr&fjoktksa dk vuqikyu djuk vFkok u djuk ?kj dh vkSjrksa dk dke

gksrk gSA yacs le; rd ,d lkFk vkl&iM+ksl esa jgdj jhfr&fjoktksa dk vknku&iznku Hkh

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gqvk gSA mnkgj.k ds fy, vkt dbZ Hkkjrh; eqfLye fL=;ka flanwj yxkrh gSa] tks blh

vknku&iznku dk izfrQy gSA

blh rjg iwtk&ikB esa ukfj;ksa dh vfHk#fp T;knk gksrh gS vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk dk

blls cM+k mnkgj.k D;k gks ldrk gS fd laiw.kZ mÙkj&Hkkjr ds eafnjksa ,oa unh&?kkVksa ij

dsjy ds ukfj;y QksM+s tkrs gSa vkSj ,slk foxr dqN o"kksZa ls ugha cfYd lfn;ksa ls gksrk jgk

gSA

orZeku le; esa ge mnkjhdj.k&futhdj.k ,oa oS’ohdj.k ds ;qx esa jg jgs gSaA ,sls

esa izokl ds vk;ke T;knk foLr`r gksrs tk jgs gSaA ,sls esa [kkldj ukfj;ksa dk fookg&izsfjr

izokl T;knk gqvk gSA ;s izokl ns’kO;kih gSa& var%izknsf’kd ,oa varjizknsf’kdA ijarq ,sls

fookgksa dh lQyrk ewy :i ls ukfj;ksa ij gksrh gS( D;ksafd LFkkukarj.k mUgha dk gksrk gSA

iqu% fookg ds Hkh dbZ uohu :i mHkjs gSa ftuesa vartkZrh; fookg( varlkaZEiznkf;d fookg

vkfn egRoiw.kZ gSaA lkFk gh fyo&bu&fjys’kuf’ki Hkh cM+s 'kgjksa dh lPpkbZ cudj mHkjs

gSaA ;s fookg varjlkaLd`frd izd`fr ds gSa vr% jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fy, budh lQyrk t:jh

gS] D;ksafd ,sls fookgksa ,oa laca/kksa dk izHkko nwljksa ij Hkh iM+rk gS vkSj os Hkh ldkjkRed

vFkok udkjkRed :i ls izHkkfor gksrs gSaA vr% ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk varlkaZEiznkf;d leUo;

,oa jk"Vªh; ,drk esa O;kid gksrh gSA

blh rjg dbZ udkjkRed O;kf/k;ka lekt ,oa jk"Vª dks xgjkbZ ls izHkkfor djrh gSaA

tSls& Hkz"Vkpkj] ywVekj] fL=;ksa ,oa cPpksa ls fgalk vkfnA budk Lrj ftruk gh T;knk

gksxk lekt ,oa jk"Vª mruk gh fodsanzhd`r cy eglwl djsxk] tks varr% mudks fo[kafMr

dj ldrk gSA ukfj;ksa ds lkekftd&euksoSKkfud fo’ys"k.k ls irk pyrk gS fd os ,slh

udkjkRed O;kf/k;ksa dks u rks T;knk ilan djrh gSa] u gh buesa 'kkfey gksrh gSaA

lkFk gh lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, uSfrd ewY;ksa dh t:jr gksrh gSA ukfj;ka lkekU;

:Ik ls uSfrd ewY;ksa ,oa igyqvksa ls T;knk tqM+h gksrh gSA vr% /kkfeZd ln~Hkko ,oa jk"Vªh;

,drk ds fy, ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk egRoiw.kZ gks tkrh gSA

iqu% forj.kewyd U;k; lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, dsanzh; Hkwfedk j[krs gSaA ge vleku

U;k; okys jk"Vª dks yacs le; rd ,dhd`r ugha j[k ldrsA bl U;k; esa lkekftd]

vkfFkZd ,oa jktuhfrd U;k; 'kkfey gSA pwafd ukfj;ka yacs le; ls forj.kewyd U;k; ls

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oafpr jgh gaS] vr% ,d rks gesa muds /kS;Z ,oa lkgl dh iz’kalk djuh pkfg,] ftlus yacs

le; ls jk"Vª dh ,drk dh vfHko`f) dk Hkh iz;kl fd;kA

Hkkjr ,d d`f"k iz/kku ns’k gS] ftlesa ns’k dh nks&frgkbZ tula[;k izR;{k vFkok

vizR;{k :Ik ls tqM+h gSA bl tula[;k dk ,d cM+k Hkkx Hkkjrh; ukfj;ksa dk gSA orZeku

le; esa m|ksx ,oa lsok {ks= dh Hkwfedk rsth ls c<+h gS vkSj lkFk esa ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk Hkh

buesa rsth ls c<+h gSA vFkZO;oLFkk esa mudh c<+rh Hkkxhnkjh us dbZ ifjfLFkfr;ksa ,oa vk;keksa

dks tUe fn;k gSA bldh ifj.kfr ;g gqbZ gS fd ukfj;ksa dh xR;kRedrk c<+h gS] vr%

lkaLd`frd ,oa varjlkaLd`frd leUo; c<+k gS( ukfj;ksa dh igpku dk;e gqbZ ,oa muds

fu.kZ;ksa dks lekt ,oa jk"Vª esa txg feyh gSA buls /kkfeZd ln~Hkko ds lkFk gh jk"Vªh;

,drk Hkh c<+h gSA

,d LoLFk ns’k esa gh LoLFk lksp dk fuokl laHko gSA /kkfeZd ln~Hkko ,oa jk"Vªh;

,drk ,slh gh LoLFk lksp dk ifjpk;d gSA ijarq jk"Vª LoLFk gks blds fy, dbZ vo;oksa

dh t:jr gksrh gSA buesa lkekftd vf/klajpuk tSls& f’k{kk] LokLF;] iks"k.k vkfn dk

O;kid egRo gSA blh rjg HkkSfrd vf/klajpuk tSls& lM+d] jsy] ikbZi ykbu] ÅtkZ vkfn

dh Hkh t:jr gksrh gSA [kkldj lkekftd vf/klajpuk ds fuekZ.k esa ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk

O;kid gksrh gSA ;gh otg gS fd izkFkfed f’k{kk( LokLF; ifj;kstukvksa vkfn esa ukfj;ksa dh

Hkwfedk dks ljdkj us Hkh Lohdkj fd;k gSA tSls& vkaxuckM+h dsanz] vk’kk dh fu;qfDr

vkfnA

jktuSfrd fodsanzhdj.k gekjs ns’k dh ,d egRoiw.kZ yksdfiz; ekax jgh gS( ftls 73osa

,oa 74osa lafo/kku la’kks/ku ds }kjk laLFkkxr :Ik fn;k x;k gSA blus laiw.kZ ns’k esa iapk;rksa

dks ,d leku :Ik iznku fd;k gSA lkFk gh efgykvksa ds ,d&frgkbZ vkj{k.k us iapk;rksa esa

efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk c<+k nh gSA bl Hkwfedk dk izfrQy ;g gqvk fd iapk;rksa esa tkfrxr

foHkktu] /kkfeZd foHkktu ,oa dbZ vU; foHkktudkjh 'kfDr;ksa ij vadq’k yxk gSA dkyok

iapk;r ¼vka/kz izns’k½ dh Qkfrek ch dks dkSu ugha tkurk] ftlus viuh bPNk’kfDr ls u

flQZ iapk;r dk dk;kdYi fd;k] cfYd la;qDr jk"Vª ds eap ij lEekfur gqbZA ;g

vk’p;Z gS fd Qkfrek fuj{kj FkhA

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Hkkjr ds le`) yacs bfrgkl esa ge izkphu dky ls gh dbZ mnkgj.k ns[krs gSa] ftuesa

efgykvksa us lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, viuk ;ksxnku fn;k gSA oSfnd dky esa ge fo’pqyk

vkSj dfiyk tSlh fonq"kh fL=;ksa dk ;ksxnku ns[krs gSaA Hkkjr laxzke esa ge iqu% ,sls

mnkgj.k ns[krs gSaA >kalh dh jkuh y{ehckbZ( jkuh xkSfMUY;q( izseyrk vkfn ,sls gh egRoiw.kZ

mnkgj.k gSa ftudk uke ge vkt Hkh lekt ,oa jk"Vª dh ,drk ,oa v[kaMrk ds fy, ysrs

gSaA

oLrqr% ukfj;k¡ gekjh tula[;k dk vk/kk Hkkx gSA blfy, eksVs rkSj ij gekjh vk/kh

lksp] gekjs vk/ks fopkj] gekjs vk/ks larks"k ,oa gekjs lekt vkSj jk"Vª dk vk/kk HkkX; mu

ij fuHkZj gSA mudk ;gh LokHkkfod vk/kk Hkkx gekjs lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, egRoiw.kZ gSA

ijarq iqu% 'ks"k vk/kh tula[;k dks izHkkfor ,oa izsfjr djus esa Hkh ukfj;ksa dh egRoiw.kZ

Hkwfedk gSA fuf’pr :Ik ls ijns ds ihNs ds fopkj ijns ds ckgj ds uk;d ds fy,

egRoiw.kZ mRizsjd gksrs gSaA oLrqr% gekjh laLd`fr dks ;gh fof’k"V cukrk gS vkSj ;gh

fof’k"Vrk bls lekfldrk iznku djrh gS] ftlesa lc dqN ipkus ,oa Lokaxhd`r djus dh

{kerk gSA ;gh otg gS fd /kkfeZd ln~Hkko vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa v[kaMrk tSls rRo

fpjdky ls blds vo;o cus jgs gSaA

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efgyk;sa lkekftd ,oa jk"Vªh; iqufuZekZ.k dh lz"Vk

&lqjsUnz dqekj >k

fdlh Hkh jk"Vª dh [kq’kgkyh esa efgykvksa dk izR;{k ;k vizR;{k :i ls ;ksxnku

mYys[kuh; gksrk gSA ;g rF; loZfofnr gS fd efgykvksa dh dk;Z{kerk fdlh Hkh ek;us esa

iq#"kksa ls de ugha gksrhA ,slk os fl) Hkh dj pqdh gSa fd ,d lcy jk"Vª ds fuekZ.k esa

mudh Hkwfedk egRoiw.kZ gS] ysfdu ;s lkjh ckrsa ml rF; ij fuHkZj djrha gSa fd gekjk jk"Vª

vkSj lekt efgykvksa dks dkSu&lk LFkku nsrk gSA ;fn lekt ikjEifjd :f<+;ksa ds ca/ku esa

tdM+ dj mUgsa vius izkIr vf/kdkjksa ls oafpr j[krk gS rFkk lkekftd] vkfFkZd ,oa

jktuhfrd izfØ;k esa mudh Hkkxhnkjh dks vLohdkj djrk gS] rks fuf’pr :i ls bldk

lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fodkl ij izfrdwy vlj iM+sxkA blds foijhr ;fn lekt esa mUgsa

iq#"kksa ds leku vf/kdkj fn, tk,a] lekt esa mudh Hkwfedk dks egÙkk nh tk,] muesa f’k{kk

dk izlkj gksrk jgs rFkk izR;sd {ks= esa mudh lfØ;rk cuh jgs] rks jk"Vª vo’; fodkl ds

y{; dks izkIr djus esa vxzlj jgsxkA

Hkkjr ,d fo’kky Hkw&Hkkx okyk ns’k gS] tgk¡ fofHkUu tkfr] /keZ] Hkk"kk ,oa laLd`fr

ds yksx ,d lkFk jgrs gSaA bu fofo/krkvksa dh otg ls gh Hkkjr cgqlaLd`frokn dh ,d

,slh felky cu x;k gS] tgk¡ gj dqN nwjh ij lQj djus ds ckn cksfy;k¡ rFkk lkaLd`frd

izFkk,a cny tkrh gSaA bu fofo/krkvksa ds ckotwn ge vkt Hkh dqN vioknksa dks NksM+ dj]

dne ls dne feykdj py jgs gSaA bl jk"Vªh; leUo; ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ds fy,

ge lHkh dks viuh&viuh Hkwfedk fuHkkuh gksrh gSA blesa ftruh Hkwfedk iq#"kksa dh gS]

mruh gh Hkwfedk efgykvksa dh Hkh gSA

LkkEiznkf;drk ,d ,slh ekufldrk gS ftlesa dksbZ O;fDr ;k lewg [kqn dks ;k vius

lEiznk; ds yksxksa dks vU; lEiznk; ls Js"B ekurk gS rFkk vU; lEiznk; ls lacaf/kr yksxksa

dks viuk izfr}U}h ;k viuk 'k=q ekurk gSA ,slh fLFkfr esa dbZ ckj nks lEiznk;ksa ds chp

dqN eqÌksa ij la?k"kZ gks tkrk gSA ,sls la?k"kZ dk izHkko lokZf/kd efgykvksa dks gh >syuk gksrk

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gSA ;g ckr Hkh r; gS fd efgyk,a ,sls la?k"kZ esa 'kkfey ugha gksrha ;k muds 'kkfey gksus

dk izfr’kr ux.; gSA fQj Hkh lcls vf/kd izHkkfor os gh gksrh gSaA bldk dkj.k ;g gS

fd os bldk u dsoy izR;{k cfYd ijks{k :i ls Hkh f’kdkj gksrh gSaA ,sls esa vkrrk;h >q.M

efgykvksa dks viuk f’kdkj cukus dh dksf’k’k djrs gaS] ftlls os 'kkjhfjd ,oa ekufld

nksuksa gh :i ls izHkkfor gksrh gSaA ;fn iq#"kksa dks Hkh fu’kkuk cuk;k tk,] rc Hkh os vizR;{k

:iksa ls izHkkfor gksrh gh gSA ,slk blfy, D;ksafd ukjh l’kfDrdj.k ds bl ;qx esa Hkh

cgqla[;d efgyk,a fdlh u fdlh iq#"k ij gh ¼pkgs og mudk firk gks] ifr gks ;k iq=

gks½ fuHkZj gSaA ,sls esa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa efgykvksa dk nkf;Ro vkSj Hkh c<+ tkrk gSA

Hkkjr esa fofHkUu vkUnksyuksa ds lkFk&lkFk ukjhoknh vkUnksyu us Hkh viuk LFkku ,oa

viuh igpku lqfuf’pr dh gSA ;|fi efgykvksa us Lora=rk vkanksyu ls ysdj lHkh

ikjaifjd ,oa uo lkekftd vkanksyuksa esa viuh lfØ; Hkwfedk fuHkkbZ gS] ijUrq blls vyx

gV dj Hkh mUgksaus ,d ,slk eap rS;kj fd;k] ftlesa lHkh ukfj;ka viuh tkfr] {ks= ,oa

lEiznk; dks Hkwy dj viuh leL;kvksa ds lek/kku ds fy, ,d lkFk vkxs vk;ha gSaA dksbZ

Hkh leL;k vyx&vyx efgykvksa dks] vyx&vyx le; esa] vyx&vyx :iksa esa izHkkfor

djrh gSA blh vk/kkj ij ?ku’;ke 'kkg us viuh iqLrd ^lks’ky ewoesaV bu bafM;k* esa

ukjh&vkanksyu dh ppkZ djrs gq, fy[kk gS fd naxk gks ;k dksbZ vU; eqÌk ukjh dh igpku

ges’kk gh viuh tkfr] {ks= ;k lEiznk; dh igpku ls vyx jgh gSA bl izdkj

lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa ukjh dh Hkwfedk iq#"kksa ls Hkh vf/kd egRoiw.kZ izrhr gksrh gSA enj

Vsjslk ,d ,slk uke gS ftlus viuh lsok ek= ls lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dks c<+kok fn;kA

mUgksaus viuh lsok esa u {ks= ns[kk] u jax] u Hkk"kk] u tkfr vkSj u gh /keZA os lHkh yksxksa

dks viuh lsok eqDr&gLr yqVkrh jghaA mUgsa ds uD’ks dne ij flLVj fueZyk Hkh py jgh

gSa vkSj yksxksa dh lsok esa yxh gSaA fFk;kslksfQdy lkslkbVh ls tqM+h ,uh csls.V us Hkh Hkkjr

esa lkEiznkf;d ,oa jk"Vªh; cU/kqRo LFkkfir djus ds fy, fo’ks"k iz;kl fd,] ftldk Hkkjrh;

Lora=rk vkanksyu esa fo’ks"k ;ksxnku jgkA

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Hkkjr tSls fo’kky jk"Vª esa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ds lkFk&lkFk jk"Vªh; leUo; Hkh

vR;Ur egRoiw.kZ gSA ;fn v[k.M Hkkjrh; Lo:i dks cuk, j[kuk gS] rks Hkkjr ds lHkh

jkT;ksa ,oa dsUnz 'kkflr izns’kksa esa Hkkjr ds izfr jk"Vªh;rk ,oa jk"Vªh; leUo; dks cuk,

j[kuk vko’;d gSA vkt blesa fofHkUu jktuhfrd usr`Ro viuh&viuh Hkwfedk fuHkk jgs gSa]

ftlesa Hkkjr ds nks lcls egRoiw.kZ nyksa dkaxzsl o Hkktik ds egRoiw.kZ inksa ij efgyk,a gh

fojkteku gSaA dkaxzsl v/;{kk ,oa laizx la;ksftdk lksfu;k xka/kh ,oa Hkktik dh us=h o

yksd lHkk esa foi{k dh usrk lq"kek Lojkt jk"Vªh; Lrj ij egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk jgh gSaA

;fn Lora=rk ls igys dh fLFkfr esa pysa] rc Hkh efgykvksa us viuh mi;ksxh Hkwfedk

fl) dh gSaA ckr pkgs vktknh dh tax yM+ jgs fganqLrku dh gks ;k vktkn Hkkjr dh&

efgykvksa dk ;ksxnku Hkqyk;k ugha tk ldrkA dqN dj fn[kkus dk tTck ml le; Hkh

muds eu esa Fkk] tc os ?kj dh pkjnhokjh esa ltkdj j[ks tkus okys lkeku dh rjg FkhaA

rc Hkh mUgksaus pkS[kV ls ckgj vkdj viuh 'kfDr nqfu;k dks crkbZA dksey eu dh n`<+rk

vkSj vlhfer {kerk,a rc [kqydj lkeus vkbZa] tc bUgksaus ns’k esa gh ugha fons’kksa esa Hkh

viuh izfrHkk dk yksgk euok;kA 1947 esa ns’k dh igyh efgyk jkT;iky ¼mÙkj izns’k½ pquh

xbaZ] ^ljksftuh uk;Mw* ns’k dh jk"Vªh; jktuhfr esa egRoiw.kZ ;ksxnku ds fy, lnk ;kn j[kh

tk,axhA 1925 esa mUgsa Hkkjrh; jk"Vªh; dk¡xzsl dk v/;{k cuk;k x;kA ^ljksftuh uk;Mw* dh

lfØ;rk us efgykvksa ds fy, jktuhfr esa vge~ LFkku cuk fn;kA vktknh ds fy, gq,

vkanksyu esa lfØ; jgha ljksftuh uk;Mw us nkaMh ;k=k esa egkRek xka/kh ds dne ls dne

feyk,A blh izdkj fot;y{eh iafMr] ,uh csls.V tSlh efgykvksa us Hkkjrh; jk"Vªh; cU/kqRo

ds fy, fo’ks"k ;ksxnku fn;kA fot;y{eh iafMr us rks ns’k ds lkFk&lkFk fons’kksa esa la;qDr

jk"Vª la?k rd Hkkjr dk ijpe ygjk;k gS rFkk mUgksaus la;qDr jk"Vª egklHkk dh izFke

efgyk v/;{k ¼1953½ gksus dk xkSjo izkIr fd;kA ,uh csls.V us Hkh /kkfeZd leUo; ds

lkFk&lkFk jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa fo’o cU/kqRo ds fy, fo’ks"k iz;kl fd,A Hkkjrh; Lora=rk

vkUnksyuksa esa Hkh mudk ;ksxnku vrqyuh; gSA mUgksaus yksxksa dks viuh Lora=rk ,oa

xfjeke; thou ds izfr tkx#d fd;k( rkfd yksx lEefyr :i ls vius vf/kdkj ds fy,

yM+ ldsaA

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Lora=rk mijkUr Hkh es/kk ikVdj] fdj.k csnh] efYydk lkjkHkkbZ] flLVj fueZyk]

egk’osrk nsoh] v#a/krh jkW;] 'kckuk vkt+eh vkfn gfLr;k¡ vius&vius Lrj ls vius dk;ksZa

}kjk Hkkjr esa jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ykus ds iz;kl djrh jgh gSaA es/kk

ikVdj ueZnk cpkvks vkUnksyu ds ek/;e ls xjhc fdlkuksa ds vf/kdkj ds fy, yM+ jgh gSa

rkfd muds iquokZl dks lqfuf’pr fd;k tk ldsA blds vykok iwjs ns’k esa fofHkUu LFkyksa

ij gks jgs yksxksa ds vf/kdkj ds guu ds fojks/kksa dks leFkZu Hkh nsrh jgh gSaA blh izdkj

fdj.k csnh vius dk;Zdky ds nkSjku o vodk’k izkfIr ds ckn Hkh vius

lsQjbfUM;kMkWVdkWe ds ek/;e ls yksxksa dss chp tkudkjh o tkx#drk ykus ds dk;Z esa

tqVh gSA u`R;kaxuk o lektlsoh efYydk lkjkHkkbZ lekt ds cnyko ykus ds fy, izfrc)

gSA ysf[kdk ,oa lekt lsfodk egk’osrk nsoh vius ys[kksa ,oa dk;ksZa ds ek/;e ls fiNM+s

rcdksa ds mRFkku ,oa mueas leUo; ykus ds iz;kl esa tqVh gSaA blh izdkj ysf[kdk ,oa

lks’ky ,fDVfoLV v:a/krh jkW; tgk¡ ,d vksj ueZnk cpkvksa vkanksyu ls tqM+h gSa] ogha ,UVh

U;wfDy;j ewoesaV ls Hkh tqM+h gqbZ gSa vkSj ns’k esa 'kkfUr O;oLFkk ds fy, iz;kljr izrhr

gksrh gSaA

dsoy ;s cM+h gfLr;ka gh ugha] cfYd Hkkjr dh gj ,d efgyk Hkkjrh; jk"Vªh;

leUo; ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz esa egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gS vkSj dekscsl fuHkk jgh

gSA os u dsoy csVh ds :i esa vius firk dks] cgu ds :i esa vius HkkbZ;ksa dks] iRuh ds

:i esa vius ifr dks] nksLr ds :i esa vius nksLrksa dks] ek¡ ds :i esa vius iq=ksa dks]

v/;kfidk ds :i esa vius fo|kfFkZ;ksa dks ,oa jktusrk ds :i esa iwjs ns’kokfl;ksa dks jk"Vªh;

leUo; ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz ds fy, izsfjr dj ldrh gSa] cfYd ,d efgyk] ,d

ukxfjd ds :i esa lekt esa lfØ; Hkwfedk fuHkkrs gq, tkfr] /keZ vkSj {ks= dk Hksn feVkdj

vkilh leUo; ds fy, vxz.kh Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA

Hkkjr esa efgykvksa dks nsoh ds :i esa iwtk tkrk gS] fdUrq pkjnhokjh esa cUn dj

nsoh ds :i esa iwtus ls leL;k dk lek/kku ugha gks ldrkA dsoy efgyk fnol lekjksg

euk ysus ls efgykvksa dk fodkl ugha gksxkA efgykvksa dh f’k{kk] vkfFkZd] lkekftd ,oa

jktuSfrd {ks= esa viuh Hkkxhnkjh lqfu’pr djuh gksxhA efgykvksa dks dsoy x`g Lrj ij

fu.kZ; vkSj fuekZ.k esa Hkkxhnkjh izkIr dj ysuk Hkh i;kZIr ugha gSA mUgsa jk"Vªh; ,oa

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vUrjkZ"Vªh; Lrj ij Hkh fu.kZ; vkSj fuekZ.k esa Hkkx ysuk gksxkA efgykvksa dks gj {ks= esa

iq#"kksa ds leku Hkkxhnkjh lqfuf’pr djuh gksxhA vU;Fkk vkxs Hkh fdlh ?kj esa yM+dh ds

tUe ysus ls ekre gh euk;k tk,xk vkSj iwjs ?kj ij cks> le>k tk,xkA efgyk,a Hkh

iq#"kksa ds leku gh {kerkoku gaS] ,slk efgykvksa us igys gh fl) dj fn;k gSA Hkkjr dh

dYiuk pkoyk us og dke dj fn[kk;k] tks dbZ iq#"k oSKkfudksa dk liuk jgk gSA fdj.k

csnh dk ekuuk gS fd efgykvksa ds vfHkHkkod efgykvksa dh lqj{kk dh ckr djrs gSa] tcfd

vkt os vU; yksxksa dks lqj{kk iznku dj jgh gSaA efgykvksa dh Hkkxhnkjh dks ge ftruh

tYnh Lohdkj dj ysaxs] jk"Vª fuekZ.k esa ge mruh gh rsth ls fodkl dj ldsaxsA jk"Vª dh

vk/kh vkcknh dh mis{kk dj ge fodflr jk"Vª ugha cu ldrsA

usrkvksa ds u;s oxZ ds :i esa efgyk,a lekt esa ifjorZudkjh Hkwfedk c[kwch fuHkk

ldrh gSa] c’krsZ os iz’kkld] O;kolkf;d izcU/ku vkSj O;fDrxr laca/kksa esa izpfyr xyr

xfrfof/k;ksa ds izfr lrdZ jgsa vkSj mUgsa O;fDrxr o lkewfgd :i ls vLohdkj djus dk

ladYi ysaA rHkh efgyk,a u;s Hkkjr ds fuekZ.k esa mRizsjd dh viuh Hkwfedk fuHkk ldsaxhA

,slk djus ls mUgsa Hkh ?kjkas] vkl&iM+ksl] fcjknjh] dk;ZLFkyksa vkSj dqy feykdj iwjs lekt

esa csgrj usr`Ro izkIr gks ldsxkA

efgykvksa ls lacaf/kr eqÌs dsoy efgykvksa ls lacaf/kr ugha gSa] ;g rks iwjs jk"Vª] iwjs

lekt ls lacaf/kr gSA tgka ,d vksj efgykvksa ds mRFkku ,oa dY;k.k esa iwjs jk"Vª ,oa

lekt dh Hkwfedk t:jh gS] ogha efgykvksa ds dY;k.k ls iwjs lekt ,oa jk"Vª dk mRFkku

,oa dY;k.k lqfuf’pr gks ldrk gSA gekjs lekt esa vHkh Hkh ,sls dÍjiaFkh ,oa ijEijkoknh

rRo gSa tks efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk dks pkjnhokjh ds vUnj lhfer dj nsuk pkgrs gSaA

efgykvksa dks lEifÙk ds vf/kdkj ls Hkh oafpr j[kuk pkgrs gSa vkSj dqy feykdj ;g pkgrs

gSa fd efgyk,a iq#"kksa ij fuHkZj vkSj mudh nklh cudj jgsaA og iq=h ds :i esa vius firk

ij vkfJr jgsA fQj iRuh ds :i esa ifr ij vkSj vUrr% ek¡ ds :i esa cPpksa ij vkfJr

jgsA fu%lansg ,sls rRo Hkh efgykvksa dh {kerkvksa ls voxr gks x, gSa vkSj mUgsa viuk

vklu Mksyrk gqvk ut+j vk jgk gS] ijUrq vc muds fojks/k ds ckotwn efgykvksa dh xfr

#dus okyh ughaA ;g t:j gS fd ;fn tu leFkZu efgykvksa ds i{k esa gks] rks mudh

j¶rkj rst t:j gks ldrh gSA

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vkt efgyk,a Hkkjr ds jk"Vªh; leUo; esa ftruh Hkwfedk fuHkk jgha gSa os ljkguh;

gS] fdUrq i;kZIr ughaA mUgsa viuh {kerk ds vuq:i izn’kZu djuk gksxkA Hkkjrh; efgykvksa

esa {kerk ,oa laHkkouk,¡ vikj gSa] ijUrq mls lkeus ykus dh vko’;drk gSA 19osa dkeu

osYFk [ksyksa esa Hkh Hkkjrh; efgykvksa us indksa dh ckSNkj dj [ksy {ks= esa viuh Hkwfedk dks

iq#"kksa ls csgrj fl) fd;k gSA mu izfrHkkvksa dks lkeus ykus esa ljdkj ,oa lekt dks

lk>k Hkwfedk fuHkkuh gksxhA xks/kjk tSls naxs esa mUgsa viuk f’kdkj cukdj viuh gSokfu;r

fn[kkus ls mudk eukscy rksM+k ugha tk ldrkA fu%lansg efgykvkas dh 'kkfUr] izse rFkk

leUo; dk izrhd Hkh os [kqn gh gSaA bl ckr ls badkj ugha fd;k tk ldrk fd iq#"k ,oa

ukjh ,d xkM+h ds nks ifg, gSa vkSj ;g xkM+h fdlh ,d ifg, ds u gksus ij py ugha

ldrhA ;gka rd fd ,d ifg;s ds et+cwr rFkk nwljs ds detksj gksus ls Hkh rkyesy ds

vHkko esa xkM+h vkxs ugha tk ldrhA nksuksa gh ifg;ksa dh leku Hkwfedk gksuh pkfg,A mlh

izdkj gekjk ns’k ,d xkM+h ds leku gS ftldh vk/kh vkcknh dh mis{kk dh tk,] rks ns’k

:ih xkM+h Hkh Bhd ls ugha py ldrhA vr% ;g vko’;d gS fd Hkkjrh; efgykvksa dh

orZeku Hkwfedk dks vkSj vf/kd izksRlkgu fn;k tk,] rkfd efgykvksa dh csgrj Hkkxhnkjh

lqfuf’pr dh tk ldsA

efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk esa o`f) ds fy, vko’;d gS fd efgykvksa ds l’kfDrdj.k dks

c<+kok fn;k tk,A efgyk l’kfDrdj.k dks ikap Lrjksa esa foHkkftr djds ns[kk tk ldrk

gS&

dY;k.kdkjh dk;ZØe& efgykvksa ds dY;k.k dk vFkZ gS muds lkekftd vkSj vkfFkZd Lrj

esa lq/kkj djuk] efgykvksa ds LokLF; ls lacaf/kr leL;kvksa dks nwj djuk] iks"kd rRoksa ds

Lrj dks c<+kuk rFkk mudh lqj{kk o vk; dks c<+kukA

lalk/kuksa dh igq¡p& efgyk l’kfDrdj.k dk nwljk Lrj gS] lalk/kuksa vkSj lsokvksa rd

efgykvksa dh igq¡pA efgykvksa dks vius Lrj esa lq/kkj djus ds fy, vius dk;ksZa vkSj

laxBuksa }kjk lalk/kuksa vkSj lsokvksa esa viuh igq¡p dks c<+kok nsuk gksxkA ljdkjh dk;ZØeksa

dks efgykvksa rd igqapkuk gksxk vkSj efgykvksa dks vkxs c<+dj vius gd ds fy, yM+uk

gksxkA

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psruk vkSj tkx#drk& efgykvksa esa psruk ;k tkx:drk ykuk og izfØ;k gS ftlesa

efgykvksa dks laxfBr djds mUgsa izsfjr djuk gSA tks Hkh HksnHkko c<+rk tk jgk gS] mUgsa nwj

djus ds fy, la?k"kZ djsa] efgykvksa esa f’k{kk dk izlkj gksA mUgsa dEI;wVj] izksxzkfeax]

vk;qfoZKku ,oa rduhdh {ks= esa Hkh izf’kf{kr djuk gksxkA ^[kqn dks l{ke ,oa tkx:d

cukdj vius gd dh yM+kbZ csgrj yM+h tk ldrh gSA

xfr’khyrk& xfr’khyrk l’kfDrdj.k dk ,d egÙoiw.kZ igyw gS] ftlesa efgyk,a ,d

O;kid efgyk vkanksyu ls vius dks tksM+rh gS rFkk vius mUu;u ds O;kid la?k"kZ dk vax

curh gSaA Hkkjr esa vk/kqfud ;qx esa efgykvksa dh lkewfgd jktuhfrd ,drk o Hkkxhnkjh

dh 'kq:vkr 1920 ds n’kd esa ekuh tk ldrh gSA deyk nsoh pÍksik/;k; dh v/;{krk esa

vf[ky Hkkjrh; efgyk lEesyu dh LFkkiuk 1924 esa dh xbZ FkhA efgykvksa us vlg;ksx

vkanksyu ¼1920½] lfou; voKk vkanksyu ¼1930½ rFkk Hkkjr NksM+ks vkanksyu ¼1942½ esa

c<+&p<+ dj fgLlk fy;k FkkA 19oha 'krkCnh ds lekt lq/kkj vkanksyu ds }kjk efgykvksa

dks izHkkfor djus okyh dqjhfr;ksa tSls& vf’k{kk] cky fookg] lrh izFkk] fo/kokvksa dk

mRihM+u] inkZ izFkk vkfn dks lekIr djus dk iz;kl fd;k x;kA blh dk ifj.kke Fkk fd

20oha 'krkCnh esa efgykvksa es jktuhfrd xfr’khyrk dk vkjaHk gqvkA

vktknh ds ckn Hkkjr esa u, lafo/kku }kjk efgykvksa dks lekurk] Lora=rk vkSj

U;k; ds vf/kdkj iznku fd, x,A efgykvksa dh f’k{kk rFkk tkx:drk esa o`f) gqbZ rFkk

de ls de uxjh; {ks=ksa esa efgyk,a fo’o Lrj ij efgyk vkanksyu dh j.kuhfr dks le>us

esa vkxs c<+hA vkt ns’k esa efgyk xfr’khyrk dks izHkkoh cukus ds fy, efgykvksa ds dbZ

NksVs cM+s laxBu gSa rFkk ns’k ds fofHkUu {ks=ksa esa efgykvksas us vius ljksdkj ls lacaf/kr

fofHkUu eqÌksa tSls efgyk mRihM+u] eg¡xkbZ] i;kZoj.k dh j{kk] 'kjkc canh] efgyk vkj{k.k dh

ek¡x vkfn ds fy, la?k"kZjr gSaA i;kZoj.k ls lacaf/kr fpidks vkUnksyu eq[;r% efgyk 'kfDr

ij vk/kkfjr vkanksyu gSA es/kk ikVsdj }kjk lapkfyr ^ueZnk cpkvks vkanksyu* rFkk byk HkÍ

}kjk lapkfyr ÞlsYQ bEIyk;M oweu ,lksfl,’kuß ¼lsok½ efgyk xfr’khyrk ds Js"B

mnkgj.k gSaA ljdkj }kjk xzkeh.k {ks=ksa esa xfBr Lo;a lgk;rk lewg efgykvksa esa

vkRefuHkZjrk o laxBu dh Hkkouk dk fodkl dj jgs gSaA blh izdkj ns’k ds izR;sd cM+s

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jktuhfrd ny us efgykvksa ds fy, vyx laxBu ;k mi laxBu Hkh cuk, gSa] fQj Hkh

xfr’khyrk dh n`f"V ls xzkeh.k {ks= esa efgykvksa dks laxfBr fd, tkus dh vR;f/kd

vko’;drk gSA

fu;a=.k& l’kfDrdj.k dk og Lrj gS tc efgykvksa dks fu.kZ;] fuekZ.k vkSj lalk/kuksa dks

izkIr djus esa iq#"kksa ds leku vf/kdkj izkIr gksrs gaSA ;g ukjh l’kfDrdj.k dk vkf[kjh

Lrj gS] ;g efgykvksa dks lkekftd] vkfFkZd] jktuhfrd vkfn izR;sd {ks= esa fu.kZ;&fuekZ.k

dh 'kfDr nsrk gSA Lora=rk ds ckn ns’k esa efgykvksa ds l’kfDrdj.k dh fn’kk esa dsUnz

ljdkj }kjk le;&le; ij iz;kl fd, tkrs jgs gSaA lafo/kku ds vuqPNsn 40 esa fn;s x,

funsZ’kksa ds vuqikyu esa laln }kjk 73oka ,oa 74oka lafo/kku la’kks/ku }kjk xzke iapk;rksa rFkk

uxjikfydkvksa esa Øe’k% vuqPNsn 243 ¼?k½ rFkk ¼u½ }kjk vkjf{kr rFkk vukjf{kr oxZ dh

efgykvksa ds vkj{k.k ds fy, izLrko j[kk x;k gSA jkT; lHkk esa bls eatwj Hkh dj fy;k

x;k gS] ijarq vHkh yksd lHkk esa ;g izLrko ikl gksuk ckdh gSA

vkt fofHkUu {ks=ksa esa efgykvksa ds ;ksxnku dks vis{kkd`r fo’ks"k igpku fey jgh gSA

m|ksx] O;kikj ,oa vU; {ks=ksa esa efgykvksa dh Hkkxhnkjh ,oa rjDdh ds jkLrs c<+rs tk jgs

gSaA Hkkjrh; lekt esa efgykvksa dh fLFkfr esa dkQh mrkj&p<+ko vk, gSaA ,d le; Fkk]

tc efgykvksa dks tfVy ckSf)d {kerk okys dk;ksZa esa iq#"kksa ds cjkcj ekuk tkrk Fkk] ijUrq

vkt og dbZ ek;us esa os muls Hkh vkxs fudy pqdh gSaA

jktuhfrd {ks= esa csgrj Hkkxhnkjh ds fy, iapk;r Lrj ij vkj{k.k dh O;oLFkk

izkjaHk dh tk pqdh gS vkSj lkFk gh dbZ losZ ds ek/;e ls ;g rF; Hkh mHkj dj lkeus

vk;s gSa fd efgyk,a iapk;r Lrj ij vius dÙkZO;ksa ds izfr vf/kd tkx:d ,oa dÙkZO;fu"B

gSaA os vius dk;ksZa dks le; ij djuk ilUn djrha gSaA izkjaHk esa efgykvksa ij de vDy

,oa iq#"kksa ij vkfJr gksus dk vkjksi yxk;k x;k Fkk] fdUrq /khjs&/khjs efgyk,a csgrj

iapk;r iz/kku cudj lkeus vk jgh gSaA yksdlHkk ,oa fo/kku lHkk Lrj ij Hkh vkj{k.k fn,

tkus dh izfØ;k py jgh gSA KkrO; gks fd vHkh rd Hkkjrh; jktuhfr esa Hkh efgykvksa dh

mifLFkfr larks"ktud ugha jgh gSA efgykvksa ds vkj{k.k laca/kh ekeys ij lHkh ny ,der

gksrs gq, Hkh mlds fo/ks;d ij dksbZ u dksbZ vlgefr vo’; trkrs gSaA ;g vlgefr ml

fo/ks;d dks ikfjr gksus ls jksd nsrh gSA efgykvksa dks viuh fLFkfr esa lq/kkj ds fy, csgrj

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,oa O;kid Hkkxhnkjh lqfuf’pr djuh gksxhA lHkh efgykvksa dks nyxr] tkfrxr ,oa

lkEiznkf;d Hkkoukvksa ls Åij mBdj vkilh leUo; cukrs gq, vkxs vkuk gksxk] rkfd os

jk"Vªh; ,oa vUrjkZ"Vªh; Lrj ij viuh mRd`"V Hkwfedk r; dj ldsaA jk"Vªh; leUo; ,oa

lkaEiznkf;d lkSgknZ dks fodflr djus dh vlhe {kerk dks ns[krs gq, gh egkREkk xka/kh us

efgykvksa dks Hkh] vius fofHkUu lekt lq/kkj laca/kh dk;ZØeksa ,oa vkanksyuksa dk vfHkUu

dk;ZdÙkkZ cuk;k FkkA Lokeh foosdkuan efgykvksa dks lkekftd ,oa jk"Vªh; iqufuZekZ.k dk

l`"Vk ekurs FksA orZeku dky o Hkfo"; esa Hkh lkiaznkf;d lkSgknZ dks fodflr dj jk"Vªh;

leUo; dh Hkkouk dks lqn`<+ djus esa efgyk,¡ vrqyuh; ;ksxnku nsrh jgasxhA

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ukjh gh lkEiznkf;d ln~Hkko,oa ,dhdj.k dh lPph fgrS"kh gSA

&ftrsUnz dqekj lksuh

vJqvksa dks u;u esa fNikrh jgh]nnZ ihdj lnk eqLdqjkrh jgh]

nqxkZ] ljLorh dh izfrewfrZ cudj]izse lkxj /kjk ij cjlkrh jghA

Hkkjrh laLd`fr dk ewyeU= ^v;a fut ijksosfr x.kuk y?kq psrlke~ mnkj pfjrkuke~

rq olq/kSo dqVqEcde~* ekuk x;k gSA fo'o dks tc ge ,d ifjokj ds :Ik esa ekurs gSa rks

ge lc blh ,d bdkbZ ds Lrj ij ,d lekt dk fuekZ.k dj jgs gksrs gSaA ,d ?kj dk

gksuk iwjs fo’o ds fy, egÙoiw.kZ gSA ,d ?kj dk dsUnz fcUnq ek¡ gksrh gS vkSj ?kj dk lkjk

i;kZoj.k] lkjs laosnu] lkjs ljksdkjksa dh fuekZrk gksrh gSA vkt Hkkjrh; ?kjksa esa ,drk dk

tks lw= ge ns[krs gSa ml dh fuekZrk ek¡ gh rks gSA eryc L=h gh ifjokj dks ,d lw= esa

fijksus esa l{ke gSA ukjh bZ’oj dh loZJs"B d`fr gSA ukjh dks ifjHkkf"kr djus dk eryc

gok dks eqB~Bh esa cka/kus ds leku gSA ifr ds fy, 'khy] cPpksa ds fy, eerk] cqtqxks± ds

fy, lEeku] lekt ds fy, pfj= vkSj ifjokj ds fy, /kqjh cuus okyh bZ’oj dh loZJs"B

d`fr dk uke gh ukjh gSA ukjh gh ,slh 'kfDr gS tks ifjokj] lekt vkSj jk"Vª dks ,dhd`r

djrh gSA fdlh Hkh egku dk;Z dh 'kq#vkr ckgj ls Fkksi dj ugha gksrh gSA mnkgj.kr%

vaMs dks ckgj ls rksM+dj ge pwts dks iSnk ugha dj ldrs gSa D;ksafd ,slk djus ls vaMk VwV

tkrk gSA vaMs ls ,d u;k thou rHkh 'kq# gks ldrk gS tc og vUnj ls ckgj dh vksj

nokc iM+us ls QwVrk gS vkSj ,slk rHkh gksrk gS tc pwtk vUnj ls tksj yxkrk gSA cl

blh rjg fdlh Hkh jk"Vǻ dk ,dhdj.k] mldh 'kkafr vkSj veu] lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk

fuekZ.k dkxtksa ij fy[kdj fQj 'kkld ds }kjk iztk ij Fkksidj ugha fd;k tk ldrk gSA

bldk fuekZ.k vkSj fodkl rks ns’k ds gj ?kj ds vUnj ls izLQqfVr gksrk gS vkSj ge tkurs

gSa fd ?kj ds vUnj ;g dke flQZ vkSj flQZ ,d ukjh ls gh 'kq# gks ldrk gSA viuh

dks[k ls l`f"V pykus okyh ukjh ds ckjs esa bfrgkl ds iUus VVksys tk,¡ rks ge ik;saxs fd

;qxksa&;qxksa ls ukjh lkaiznkf;d lkSgknZz vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k dh tuuh jgh gSA oSfnd dky

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esa eS=s;h] iq"ik tSlh fonq"kh ukfj;ka vius Kku ds cycwrs ij ln~Hkko vkSj olq/kSo dqVqEcde~

dh ckr djrh FkhaA MkW- cnzh izlkn iapksyh us viuh jpuk ^/kzqoJh* esa ,sfrgkfld ik= /kqzoJh

;k /kwLlh dk o.kZu djrs gq, crk;k gS fd dfyax ujs’k] [kkjosy dh iRuh] /kwLlh iq#"k os’k

esa lsuk esa 'kkfey gqbaZ vkSj ;eu vkØe.kdkjh nses=s; ls vius ns’k dh j{kk ds fy, yM+haA

blh rjg Hkkjr dh izFke eqfLye efgyk 'kkfldk jft;k lqYrkuk us vius Lrj ij vius

lkezkT; dks ,dhd`r vkSj v[kaM j[kus dk iz;kl fd;k FkkA ;gk¡ jkuh gkM+k dk ftØ djuk

Hkh t:jh gksxk ftlds ifr us ;q) ij tkrs oDr izse fu’kkuh ekaxh rks uo C;kgrk jkuh us

;g lkspdj viuk lj dkVdj ns fn;k fd dgha ;q) esa mlds ifr dk /;ku mlesa gh uk

jgs vkSj vxj ,slk gqvk rks os ;q) esa csgrjhu j.kdkS’ky ugha fn[kk ik;saxs ftldk ifj.kke

mudh fj;klr dh gkj gks ldrh gS vkSj viuh fj;klr dh v[k.Mrk dks cjdjkj j[kus

ds fy, mlds lj dk dksbZ eksy ugha gSA

flQZ bruk gh ugha vxj ge ukjh dh jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa

Hkwfedk dks foLr`r :Ik ls le>uk pkgsa rks ge ukjh thou ds fofHkUu i{kksa dks ns[kdj

vklkuh ls le> ldrs gSaA

loZizFke ge vxj lkekftd ljapuk dh ckr djsa rks ik;saxs fd vkerkSj ij vkneh

thfodksiktZu ds fy, ?kj ls lqcg ckgj fudyrk gS vkSj nsj 'kke dks ?kj ykSVrk gS] ,slh

fLFkfr esa vkSjr gh gS tks cfgeqZ[kh gksrh gS] ftldk lkekftd lEidZ l?ku gksrk gS vkSj

O;ogkj esa dkseyrk gksrh gS] lcls igys vius iM+kslh ds lkFk pkgs og fdlh Hkh tkfr ;k

/keZ dk gks] mlls laidZ cukrh gSA ijLij ?kjksa esa vkuk & tkuk 'kq# gksrk gS vkSj ;g

lkSgknzZ QyhHkwr gksrk gSA bls ,d xqtjkr naxksa ij vk/kkfjr fQYe ^fQjkd* ds mnkgj.k ls

Li"V fd;k tk ldrk gS ftlesa eqfLye efgyk dh fgUnw lgsyh gh naxksa ds nkSjku varr

mldh tku cpkrh gS vkSj mldh lcls lPph vkSj utnhdh lgsyh fl) gksrh gSA Hkkjr

xk¡oksa dk ns’k gS vkSj xk¡oksa eas iM+kslhiu vkSjrksa ds cycwrs ij gh iyrk&c<+rk gS jke ds

?kj ij nqxkZ v"Veh dh iwfM+;ka vkSj [khj rFkk fnokyh dh feBkbZ tc chp dh nhokj ds

ikj lyhe ds ?kj tkrh gS vkSj lyhe ds ?kj ls bZn dh flob;ka tc jke ds ?kj eas vkrh

gSa rks lkEiznkf;drk nwj&nwj rd utj ugha vkrh gS vkSj ,slk jke ;k lyhe ds iz;klksa ls

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ugha cfYd buds ?kjksa dks pykus okyh vkSjrksa ds ijLij O;ogkj ls gh laHko gksrk gS fQj

pkgs ml ?kj dh ekyfdu lhrk gks ;k #[klkuk ;k ijethr dkSj gks ;k dksbZ vkSj] D;k

QdZ iM+rk gSA ikl&iM+ksl dk ;g ln~Hkko tc iwjs ns’k esa gksrk gS rks veu dh c;kj esa

ns’k v[kaM jgrk gSA

lkaLd`frd :Ik ls ukjh dh jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko esa Hkwfedk ns[ksa

rks ik;saxs fd vkSjrsa dqucs vkSj ifjos’k esa 'kknh&fookg dh jLeksa] fjoktksa] yksx xhrksa]

ijEijkvksa dkss eu&efLr"d esa cSBk ysrh gSa vkSj ;gh otg gS fd lkaLd`frd :Ik ls fofHkUu

lEiznk;ksa dk feyki vkSjrksa dh otg ls gh gksrk gS fQj pkgs oks ^cuM+k* gks] ^<ksyd* gks]

^vjsfcd esganh* gks ;k fQj dqN vkSj] bu lc dk QSyko fdlh lEiznk;] /keZ] {ks= dk /;ku

j[ks fcuk u tkus dgka ls dgka rd ig¡qp tkrk gSA

uSfrd #Ik ls ns[ksa rks izse] I;kj] R;kx] leiZ.k] oQ+k vkfn ewY; lc ukfj;k¡ vius

vUnj vkRelkr fd;s gq, gSA cPps ds ckyeu ij nknh&ukuh dh cks/kijd dgkfu;ksa dk

vlj muds /kkfeZd :Ik ls lfg".kq gksus esa izdV gksrk gSA ek¡ dh yksfj;ka vkSj Lusgiw.kZ lh[k

bruk laLdkjoku cukrh gSa fd og flQZ bruk lh[krk gS fd gj fdlh ds [kwu dk jax

yky gksrk gS vkSj esjk ns’k esjh eka dh rjg gh gSA eka dh lh[k tc cPPks dks dqN ;aw

le>k, rks cPps fdl rjg vkSj D;ksadj fdlh dk [kwu cgk;saxs&

v’k+Qkd dh cdjh]rkjksa ds uhps ls vkdj]

pj tkrh gSguqeku ds [ksr dh ?kklA

vkSjbl ij ls lqjs’k ds ikys gq, dcwrj]

eafnj ds vk¡xu lspqXxk pqxdj]

mM+dj rkjksa ds ikj]oqtw okyh txg ls]ih ysrs gSa ikuh]fdruk vPNk gS]

ydhjksa esa Qals] vkSj [kwu ls rj]vkneh dh rqyuk esa cdjh ;k dcwrj gksukA

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eka dh lh[k dk vlj thtkckbZ ds }kjk f’kokth esa vkSj iqryhckbZ ds }kjk xka/kh esafdruk vk;k gS] bls crkus dh t:jr gh ugha gSA blhfy, rks efgykvksa ds fy, dgk x;kgS&

fj’rs gSa lHkh LokFkZ ds] dqN vkSj D;k dgsa]ij mez Hkj fj’rksa dks fuHkkrh gSa ukfj;ka]ns nsdj ,d&,d cwan] vius [kwu dh]

balku ds ru&eu dks] balku cukrh gaS ukfj;kaA

gdhdr gS fd nqfu;k esa vxj dksbZ iq#"k ukjh ds xq.k viuk ys rks og nsork cu

tkrk gS vkSj vxj ukjh dHkh iq#"kksa ds xq.k viuk, rks og os’;k vkSj dqyVk cu tkrh gSA

blh otg ls rks cM+s fo’okl ds lkFk dgk tk ldrk gS fd nqfu;k es dHkh Hkh dksbZ Hkh

vuSfrd dk;Z vkSjrksa ds }kjk ugha gksrk gSA bfrgkl ds leLr ;q)ksa vkSj cckZfn;ksa esa igyk

vkSj vafre gkFk iq#"kksa dk gh gksrk gSA fdlh ns’k ij geyk djds mlds VqdM+s&VqdM+s

djus okys ;k fQj /keZ dh dV~Vj vka/kh esa [kwu cgkus okys iq#"k gh gksrs gSaA dHkh fdlh us

ugha lquk fd Qyka & Qyka vkSjr us pkdw ekjk ;k /kkfeZd dV~Vjrk ls efLtn ;k eafnj

rksM+ MkykA ge nqfu;k esa fdruh efgyk vkradokfn;ksa ls ;k muds [krjukd dkeksa ls

okfdQ gSaA tokc gS fdlh ls Hkh ughaA bldh ;gh otg gS fd vkSjrsa lgu’khy gksrh gSa]

n;k o izse dh ewjr gksrh gSaA bZ’oj us mudk ân; dsoy izse ls Hkjk gS vkSj izse dsoy

tksM+uk fl[kkrk gS] rksM+uk ughaA L=ha dks pwafd vk/kh nqfu;k dk ntkZ fn;k x;k gS rks

nqfu;k esa gksus okys gj deZ eas mldh vk/kh Hkkxhnkjh lqfuf’pr gS] exj lkaiznkf;d ruko

QSykus esa mldh Hkkxhnkjh drbZ ugha gSA blfy, bl ekeys esa dgk tk ldrk gS fd

efgyk lkEiznkf;d ,drk dh lcls cM+h iSjksdkj gSa

'kS{kf.kd :Ik ls ns[ksa rks ukjh us f’k{kk izkIr dj mldk mi;ksx lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko

vkSj jk"Vª fuekZ.k esa gh fd;k gSA ,d cPps dh igyh ikB’kkyk mldh eka dh xksn gksrh gS

vkSj f’kf{kr eka vius cPps dk fdruk fodkl dj ldrh gS] ;g lgt gh lkspk tk ldrk

gSA cPps xhyh feV~Vh dh rjg gksrs gSaA cpiu esa bu ij dqN Hkh vkSj dSlk Hkh fy[kks]

lcdqN Ni tkrk gSA bl xhyh feV~Vh ds lw[kus ds ckn ;kuh cPpksa ds cM+s gksus ds ckn

ge fy[ks gq, dks feVk ugha ldrs gSa vkSj ,d eka vius cPPks ds dksey ân; ij lnSo

vPNk gh vafdr djrh gSA

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flQZ bruk gh ugha vk/;kfRed vkSj HkfDr Hkko ls vksr&izksr ukfj;ksa us bl /kjrh

ij pSu&veu dk tks lUns’k fn;k gS mldk fo’o lnk _.kh jgsxkA vk/kqfud ;qx esa tgka

lkaiznkf;d ,drk dk loky gS ogka efgyk larksa dh Hkwfedk Hkh de ugha gSA ftuds thou

n’kZu us Hkkjr dks fo’o xq# dgykus dk gdnkj cuk;k gSA HkfDrdky esa vusd HkDr

dof;f=;ka gqbZ ftUgksaus lkEiznkf;d ,drk gh ugha] L=h&iq#"k ds ,dhdj.k ij Hkh cy

fn;kA dUuM+ dfof;=h uhyEek bl fopkj dks LFkkfir djus okyh l’kDr jpukdkj gSaA

blh rjg dchj ls Hkh igys d’ehj dh fL=;ka us vkMacjksa ,oa lEiznk;okn dk ?kksj fojks/k

fd;kA yYys’ojh ;k yYyk nSn ¼1320&1392½ us Jhdkar uke ds czkgkz.k ls v/;kRe Kku

fy;k rks lEiznk; ds vkMEcjksa ls ijs jgrs gq, njos’k lS¸;n vyh genkuh ds lkFk veu

izse dh f’k{kk dk ikB yksxksa dks i<+k;kA

Qwypanzk }kjk yYys’ojh dh dqN dforkvksa dk vuqokn fd;k x;k gS tks muds

lkaiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dks fl) djrk gS&

izse dh vks[kyh esa ân; dwVk]izd`fr ifo= dh iou lsAtyk;h] Hkwuh] Lo;a pwlh]'kadj ik;k mlh lsAA

dUuM+ dh ,d vkSj dof;=h cksUrk nsoh us czkgkz.k ,oa vUR; oxZ esa Hksn dh Hkkouk

dk tedj fojks/k fd;kA ekuo ek= esa lekurk dh Hkkouk dk izlkj djus okyh vU;

dof;f=;ksa esa lgtks ckbZ dk uke izeq[krk ls fy;k tkrk gSA mUgksaus tkfr ds dkj.k fdlh

dks Åapk o uhpk ekuus okyksa dks QVdkjk&

lhl dku eq[k ukfldkÅaps&Åaps BkaoAlgtks uhps dkj.kslc dksbZ iwts ikaoAA

jktLFkku esa rkt uked ,d HkDr dof;=h gksus dk mYys[k feyrk gS ftlus

eqfLye gksrs gq, Hkh Jhd`".k dh vkjk/kuk dhA mudh iafDr;k¡ gSa*

lquks fnu tkuh esjs fny dh dgkuhrqe nlr gh fcdkuh] cnukeh Hkh lgwaxh eSa

nso iwtk Bkuh] eSa fuekt gwa Hkqykuh]rts dyek&dqjku rqgkMs rsjh lwjr iS]

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uUn ds dqekj dqjckj rsjh lwjr iS]gksa rks rqjdkuh] iSa fgUnqvkuh OgSa jgwaxh eSaA

bu HkDr dof;f=;ksa us lxq.k&fuxqZ.k rFkk f’ko d`".k&jke Hksn dks u ekurs gq,

vkjk/kuk ij cy fn;kA ehjk] ,d izfl) d`".k HkDr] ,d vR;ar Å¡ps jktiwr dqy dh csVh

vkSj cgw Fkh exj blds ckotwn Hkh uhph tkfr jSnkl ds lkfuè; esa d`".k HkfDr esa yhu

jghaA bl izdkj bUgsa lkEiznkf;d ,drk rFkk jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k dh felky ds rkSj ij ns[kk

tkuk pkfg,A egkjk"Vª dh cfguk ckbZ tks ,d czkãz.kh Fkh] us viuk xq#] ,d uhph tkfr

ds lar rqdkjke dks cuk;k vkSj Å¡p&uhp o lkaiznkf;d HksnHkko dks njfudkj dj fn;kA

efgykvksa us lnk gh ;g fl) fd;k gS&

ikuh vkSj ilhus esa cM+k varj gksrk gS]iRFkj vkSj uxhus esa Hkh cM+k varj gksrk gS]eqnZk ?kfM+;ksa dh rjg lkal ysus okyksa]lkal ysus esa vkSj thus esa cM+k varj gksrk gSA

izFke Loa=rk laxzke esa jkuh y{eh ckbZ] csxe gtjr egy] pk¡n chch vkfn us ns’k

dh v[k.Mrk dh j{kk ds fy, izk.kksa dh ckth yxk nhA fot; y{eh iafMr] dLrwjck]

,uhcslsaV] ljksftuh uk;Mw vkfn us Lora=rk laxzke esa c<+&p<+dj Hkkx fy;k rkfd ns’k dh

vktknh lqfuf’pr dh tk ldsA vktknh ds nhokuksa dk tc Hkh uke fy;k tkrk gS rks mu

ekrkvksa dk uke Hkys gh bfrgkl dh dye ls u fy[kk x;k gks ftuds cPpksa us xqeuke

:Ik ls ns’k dh v[kaMrk ds fy, viuh tku dqckZu dj nh] exj bl ns’k dh feV~Vh dk

gj d.k lk{kh gS vkSj gj t+jkZ lyke djrk gS ,slh ekarkvksa dks ftUgksaus vius cPpksa dks

lnSo izse vkSj ns’k ds fy, cfynku gks tkus dk ikB i<+k;kA vktknh ds ckn bafnjk th

dk uke fy;k tk ldrk gS ftUgksaus jk"Vª dh lqj{kk ds eísutj rRdkyhu ifjfLFkfr;ksa esa

l[r fu.kZ; ysdj caxykns’k dh eqfDr esa egrh Hkwfedk fuHkk;hA ,d ukjh fdl rjg ls

fdlh Hkh lEiznk; esa <y ldrh gS bldk lcls cM+k mnkgj.k lksfu;k xka/kh dk fn;k tk

ldrk gS ftUgksaus vius vki dks bl ns’k dh ijEijkvksa esa <kyus dk lQy iz;kl fd;k

gSA

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/kkfeZd] U;k;] iz’kklu vkSj jktuhfrd {ks= esa efgykvksa us viuk opZLo LFkkfir

fd;k gS vkSj os gj txg veu&pSu vkSj HkkbZpkjs dh felky dk;e djrh fn[kkbZ nsrh gSaA

tgka rd U;k; dk loky gS rks U;k;ky;ksa esa U;k; dh nsoh ds :Ik esa ,d efgyk gh rks

izfrLFkkfir gS] eryc lcdks leku :Ik ls U;k; iznku djus esa ,d efgyk gh iw.kZr;k

l{ke gSA oSf’od fygkt ls ckr djsa rks vkax lku lw ph ¼E;kaekj½] oaxkjh eFkkbZ ¼dsU;k½]

Mksfjl ysfLlax ¼fczVsu½] ,atsyk edsZy ¼teZuh½ vkfn us vius&vius {ks= esa vius ns’k vkSj

ekuork ds fy, csgrjhu dke fd;s gSaA

jktuhfrd :Ik ls efgykvksa dh vPNh mifLFkfr dk gksuk jk"Vªfgr esa gksrk gS

D;ksafd dksbZ Hkh efgyk jktuhfrd /ku cy dk iz;ksx ugha djrh vkSj u gh og ekbd

Qsaduk tkurh gS- blhfy, ,d 'kkar vkSj mTToy jktuhfrd Nfo ds fy, gj ns’k esa

efgykvksa ds izfrfuf/kRo dks c<+kus dh ckr dh tk jgh gSA fLFkj vkSj LoPN jktuhfr ls u

dsoy van:uh rkSj ij lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko jgrk gS cfYd ckgjh rkSj ij jk"Vª dh v[kaMrk

Hkh lqjf{kr jgrh gSA

fu"d"kZr% dgk tk ldrk gS fd ,d ukjh vius uSfrd ewY;ksa vkSj lfg".kqrk ds

cycwrs ij lnSo gh lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dks cukdj j[krh gSA blds ihNs ;g rdZ Hkh gS

fd mls fdlh Hkh lkaiznkf;d naxkas] oSeuL; ;k jk"Vª ds foHkktu ls dqN ugha feyrk gSA

gj ejus okyk mldk ;k rks csVk gksrk gS ;k HkkbZ ;k ifr ;k firk 'kkjhfjd vkSj ekufld

:Ik ls gj ckj ukjh gh gj vkØe.k dk igyk f’kdkj curh gS & blfy, ukjh dHkh Hkh

fdlh dk [kwu ugha cgkrh gSA og rks veu & pSu dh mikfldk gSA oSf’od ifjn`’; esa

mldk gj dne blh 'kkafr dh vksj gksrk gSA blfy, rks dgk tkrk gS fd ^;= uk;ZLrq

iwT;Urs] je;ars r= nsork* lPps vFkks± esa ukjh gh lkaiznkf;d lkSgknzZ vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k

dh lPph fgrS"kh gS] varr ,d iafDr ds lkFk&

iwjh tehu nsa rks vkSj ckr gS]ge ¼iq#"k½ ukfj;ksa dk tjk lk lkFk nsa rks vkSj ckr gS]py rks ysrs gSa yksx ,d ik¡o ij]ij nwljk ik¡o Hkh lkFk ns rks vkSj ckr gSA

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efgyk /kEe egkik=

& HkkLdj yk{kkdkj

;s nkx nkx mtkyk] ;s 'kc xt+hnk lgj;s oks 'kgj rks ugha] ftldk bUrtkj Fkk eq>sA

& ^^QS+t+**

^fu;fr ds lkFk le>kSrk* djrs oDr bl ns’k ds d.kZ/kkjksa us lkspk Fkk fd ;g eqYd

vius vrhr ls lh[k ysrs gq;s lejlrk vkSj lkSgknzZ dh ,d ,slh felky cusxk ftls

nqfu;k Hkj esa vkn’kZ ekuk tk;sxk vkSj vuqdj.k fd;k tk,xkA D;k ge mu vk’kkvksa vkSj

vis{kkvksa ij [kjs mrj lds\ ;g iz’u gekjs le; ds lcls cM+s ;{k iz’uksa esa ls ,d gSA

vkSj blh ds lkFk tqM+rk gS lekt esa lkSgknzZ vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k dk eqíkA ;g flQ+Z ,d

:ekuh fopkj ugha ftlesa flQ+Z bZn dh floS;k¡ vkSj fnokyh dh feBkbZ dk vkReeqX/kdkjh

xq.kxku gks cfYd ;g gekjs lekt vkSj le; dh egrh vko’;drk Hkh gSA

lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dk vFkZ flQ+Z naxksa vkSj /kkfeZd minzoksa ls jfgr lekt ugha

cfYd lekt+ ds fHkUu&fHkUu /kkfeZd lewgksa eas vkilh le> vkSj fo’okl dk gksuk gSA

lkEiznkf;d ekul vusd fo/oald vkSj ccZj d`R;ksa dh i`"BHkwfe rks rS;kj djrk gh gS lkFk

gh vusd vizfrxkeh ,oa vizfrØkE; ifj.kkeksa dks Hkh tUe nsrk gSA foxr n’kdksa esa ;g

leL;k vkSj fodjky gqbZ gS ftlesa u,&u, isap tqM+rs x, gSaA esjh le> ls] lkEiznkf;drk

,d ?kVuk iz/kku ugha] fopkj iz/kku lehdj.k gS ftldk gy flQ+Z lkekftd lkSgknzZ esa

fNik gSA

ewy iz’u ;g gS fd vkf[kj D;ksa lkekftd lkSgknzZ t+:jh gS vkSj mlesa Hkh

lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ gh D;ksa\ bldk mÙkj fNik gS Hkkjr dh cgqHkk"kh vkSj cgq/kkfeZd laLd`fr

ds oSfo/; esa ftls ,d vksj gesa cpk, Hkh j[kuk gS vkSj lkFk gh buds la’ys"k ls fodkl ds

u;s vk;ke Hkh Nwus gSaA bu laLd`fr;ksa vkSj lEiznk;ksa esa esy vkSj vkilh le> ds fcuk

Hkkjr flQ+Z ,d HkwHkkx esa cny tk,xk bldk jk"VªRo [kRe gks tk,xkA gkykafd ;g lgh gS

fd cgqr gn rd geus viuh bl lk¡>h laLd`fr dks cuk, j[kk gSA izlax pkgs mLrkn

fcfLeYykg [kku ds ladV ekspu efUnj esa 'kgukbZ ctkus dk gks ;k eksgjZe ds rc#Zd ds

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fy;s vk¡py ilkjrh fgUnw efgykvksa dkA ;g lejl laLd`fr vius fojkV ia[k QSykrh

ut+j vkrh gS] ysfdu D;k okdbZ lc dqN Bhd gS\ cjcl gh esjk /;ku tkrk gS dqN fnu

igys vk;s v;ks/;k eqís ds Q+Slys ij] bl ?kM+h esa lkjs ns’k esa lqj{kk dh vpwd rS;kfj;ksa

ijA ,slk yxk fd lkjk ns’k ,d Nkouh esa rCnhy gks x;k gSA ladsr Li"V gS lekt esa

lc dqN viuh /kqjh ij ugha gSA dgha dqN veaxy vfu"Vdkjh t:j gSA ;g ns’k vc Hkh

eqEcbZ ce /kekdksa] xqtjkr naxksa vkSj eqEcbZ ij vkradh geys dks vius eu efLr"d ls

foLe`r ugha dj ldk gS vkSj ml ij /khes fdUrq fujUrj c<+ jgs lkEiznkf;d /kzqohdj.k dk

t+gj tks gj 'kgj dks ck:n ds <sj ij /kdsyus dk dke dj jgk gSA

t+jk fopkj dhft;s fd ml jk"Vª dk ,dhdj.k D;k et+cwr jg ik,xk ftlesa /keZ dsvk/kkj ij ,d foHkktu gks pqdk gks vkSj fujUrj {ks=h;rkoknh i``Fkdrkokn flj mBk jgkgksA

^^Mksyh nqYgu dgkjksa esa] lwjt pank rkjksa esaxkao xyh xfy;kjksa esa] ?kkVh vkSj iBkjksa esa

/khjs /khjs Hkksyh turk gS] cfygkjh et+gc dh,slk u gks ns’k tyk ns] ;s fpaxkjh et+gc dh**

,d {k.k ds fy;s mu dkj.kksa dh iM+rky djsa tks fujUrj v’kksd] vdcj vkSj tSuqy

vkcsnhu ds bl ns’k dks lkEiznkf;d >a>kokrksa esa /kdsyus dh ps"Vk dj jgs gSa\

lEHkor % lcls izeq[k gS jktuhfrd usr`Ro }kjk vius pqukoh vkSj jktuhfrd fgrksa

dks loksZifj j[kus dh ekufldrkA jktuhfr tks okLro esa fgrksa dk la?k"kZ gS ftlus

fl)kUrksa ds la?k"kZ dk ckuk igu j[kk gSA

/kkfeZd vkradokn vkSj /keZxazFkksa dh xyr O;k[;k;sa] futh fgrksa dks /kkfeZd fgrksa dk ckuk

iguk nsuk vkSj /kkfeZd leqnk;ksa esa t+ehuh Lrj ij lEokn dh deh dqN ,sls vU; izeq[k

dkj.k gSaA ,d vksj lekt ds /kkfeZd vYila[;d oxks± esa vU;k; vkSj xSj vkuqikfrd

fodkl dh Hkkouk gS rks nwljh vksj cgqla[;dksa dks yxrk gS fd oksV cSad ds fy;s

vYila[;dksa dk rq"Vhdj.k fd;k tk jgk gSA ,slh le> ,d lrr ?k"kZ.k dks tUe ns jgh

gS ftlds Q+y dVq gh gksaxsA

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cgjgky dkj.kksa ij dkxt+ dkyk djus ds ctk; csgrj gS fd buds fuokjd mik;ksa

ij fopkj fd;k tk,A okLro esa bu lcds ewy esa gS lkekftd lejlrk vkSj lkSgknzZ dk

{kj.kA lkekftd lkSgknZz ,d ,slk lehdj.k gS ftlesa fujUrj izsj.kk vkSj fnzf"Vdj.k

vko’;d gS vkSj lkFk gh ;g /;ku cuk;s j[kuk Hkh t:jh gS fd blesa lekt ds reke

rcdksa dk leqfpr ;ksxnku gksA

blh izdkj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k Hkh dksbZ vyx&vyx ladYiuk ugha vfirq lkekftd

lkSgknzZ dk ,d izfrQy gSA bl ifjizs{; esa lekt ds ipkl izfr’kr fgLls ;kfu efgykvksa

dk ;ksxnku] u flQZ egRoiw.kZ eqíksa ij mHkjrk gS cfYd vU; oxks± ds fy;s izsj.kklzksr ,oa

fnXn’kZd dk Hkh dk;Z djrk gSA

;g ,d ekuk gqvk rF; gS fd efgyk,a vf/kd lEosnu’khy gksrh gSa vkSj mudk

usr`Ro Hkh lkekftd eqíksa ij csgrj idM+ j[krk gSA ;g usr`Ro pkgs iz’kklu ds Lrj ij gks

vFkok jktuhfrd Lrj ij] vf/kd lEosnu’khy gksrk gS D;ksafd muesa mnkj psruk vkSj

ekuoh; xq.k {kqnz lkEiznkf;d fgrksa dh HksaV ugha Pk<+ ikrsA vr% efgykvksa dh ,d egRoiw.kZ

Hkwfedk mHkjrh gS iz’kklu vkSj jktuhfr ds {ks= esaA gekjs lkeus bfUnjk xk¡/kh vkSj

ljksftuh uk;Mw ds nSnhI;eku mnkgj.k gSaA

{kqnz pqukoh fgrksa ds ctk; lekt dh Hkkoh ihf<+;ksa dk iFk izn’kZu ,d efgyk csgrj

rjhds ls dj ldrh gSA ;fn efgyk jktusrk vius iq#"k jktusrkvksa ljh[ks gFkdaMs u

viuk,a rks jktuhfr rks csgrj gksxh gh] jk"Vªh; lqn`<+hdj.k Hkh gksxkA u flQZ jk"Vªh; Lrj

ij cfYd iapk;r Lrj ij efgyk,a viuh lk[k ,oa izHkko dk bLrseky /kek±s esa vkilh

le> c<+kus vkSj lkSgknzZ vfHko`f) ds fy;s dj ldrh gSa tks ,d nh?kZdkfyd j.kuhfr fl)

gksxhA

efgyk,a csgrj iz’kkld lkfcr gksrh gSa vkSj bl Hkwfedk dks lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ

vfHko)Zu ds fy;s cgqr csgrj rjhds ls bLrseky dj ldrh gSaA ljdkjh dke dkt esa

lEosnuk vkSj mnkÙkrk dk lEesyu lekt esa U;k; vkSj lerk dh Hkkouk c<+krk gS vkSj

bldk izfrQyu lekt ds oxks± esa vkilh lfg".kqrk ds :Ik esa fn[kkbZ nsrk gSA <kbZ gt+kj

lky igys lezkV v’kksd us Hkh vius ,d f’kykys[k esa viuh iztk esa ^leok;* ,oa

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^euksxqfÙk ¼/kkfeZd lkSgknzZ½ c<+kus ij cy fn;k vkSj mlus blds fy;s efgyk vf/kdkfj;ksa dh

fu;qfDr Hkh ^efgyk /kEe egkek=* ds uke ls dhA ;g nq[kn gS fd dfri; vf/kdkjh x.k

lkEiznkf;d /kzqohdj.k dks u flQZ c<+kok nsrs gSa cfYd Lo;a Hkh mlesa 'kkfey gksrs gSaA

efgyk iz’kkld ;g lqfuf’pr djsa fd jkt&dkt esa yksd&ykt cuh jgs vkSj lekt ds

fdlh /kkfeZd leqnk; esa vyxko dh Hkkouk tUe u ys ldsA

fdUrq ,d blls cM+k {ks= gS ftlesa efgykvksa dks dksbZ izfrLFkkfir ugha dj ldrk

vkSj og gS ekr`Ro dkA ifjokj lekt dh /kqjh gS vkSj bl ukfHkd esa cPps ds fy;s ek¡ izFke

xq# gksrh gS vkSj ek¡ dh ftEesnkjh curh gS fd viuh lUrkuksa dks cpiu ls gh laLdkj ds

:Ik esa lfg".kqrk vkSj lkekftd lekurk ds fo"k; esa lgh tkudkjh ns] mls vU; /kkfeZd

leqnk;ksa ds ckjs esa vf/kd tkx#d vkSj lEosnu’khy cuk;sA /kkfeZd lkSgknzZ dk ,d cM+k

'k=q gS gekjs fnyks&fnekx+ esa cus gq, ikjEifjd fp= ftuesa O;fDr dks ,d bdkbZ u

ekudj mlds ckjs esa le> mlds /keZ ds vk/kkj ij cukbZ tkrh gSA eqfLye gS rks xUnk

gksxk] fgUnw gSa rks <kasxh gksxk oxSjgA bu Nn~e fo’ks"k.kksa ls cky eu dks eqfDr fnykdj mls

Lora= fpUru ds fy, flQZ ek¡ gh rS;kj dj ldrh gSA

d’ehj dk vkradokn gks ;k eqEcbZ naxs] buds ewy esa vius /keZ dks nwljs ls csgrj

le>us ds vfrfjDr vkSj dksbZ eukso`fÙk ugha gks ldrh gSA vkSj bl [kjirokj dh lQkbZ

ifjokj ds Hkhrj gh dh tk ldrh gSA egkRek xka/kh dgrs Fks fd ;q) gekjs euksa esa iSnk

gksrs gSa vkSj gesa mUgsa ogha lekIr djuk gksxkA eu ds ;q) flQZ ifjokj esa ek¡ lekIr dj

ldrh gSA gekjs lkeus xka/khth dk gh mnkgj.k gS] os viuh vkRedFkk esa bldk mYys[k

djrs gSa fd fdl izdkj mudh ek¡ us mUgsa cpiu esa tSu ,oa eqfLye /keks± ds izfr lfg".kqrk

vkSj ln~Hkko tkx`r djus esa enn dhA ;g Hkkouk jk"Vªh; ,sD; ds fuekZ.k dk ewy rRo gS

tks fofHkUu leqnk;ksa] {ks=h; oSfo/;ksa vkSj tkfrxr Hksnksa dks rksM+rs gq, ,d lejl lekt dh

uhao Mkyrh gSA

efgykvksa ds foLrkj dh ifjf/k flQZ ifjokj rd lekIr ugha gksrhA mudh

lkekftd iw¡th Hkh iq#"kksa ls vf/kd O;kid vkSj lqn`<+ gksrh gSaA iwjh nqfu;k¡ esa py jgs Lo;a

lgk;rk lewg vkUnksyuksa ds ewy esa ;gh lkekftd cU/k gSaA ;s os eap gSa tgk¡ efgyk,a

,d= gksrh gSa vkSj vius vkfFkZd rFkk lkekftd l’kfDrdj.k dh vksj l/ks gq, dne c<+krh

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gSaA buesa /keZ vkSj tkfr dh nhokjsa ^vkSjriu* ds lkeus VwVrh tkrh gSaA ,sls eapksa dk

bLrseky lkekftd ln~Hkko vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lao/kZu ds fy;s cgqr lkFkZd :Ik ls

fd;k tk ldrk gSA

lkekftd nk;jksa dk foLrkj vUrtkZrh;+ fookgksa ds ek/;e ls Hkh gksrk gSA ,slh

fookgksa dh Øe’k% c<+rh lkekftd Lohd`fr esa efgykvksa dh cM+h Hkwfedk gSA ,d f’kf{kr

vkSj tkx:d efgyk u flQZ vius ifjokj ds cfYd lekt ds vusd vaxksa ij cM+k izHkko

Mkyus dh {kerk j[krh gSA t:jr gS bl {kerk dks igpkuus dh vkSj mldk bLrseky

ldkjkRed :Ik ls djus dhA

izk;% lEiznk;ks us efgykvksa dks mudk leqfpr izns; ugha fn;k gS vkSj /keZ/oth

/kkfeZd usrk] mysek vkfn oSlh gh fLFkfr fujUrj cuk, j[kuk pkgrs gSaA KkrO; gS fd ;s gh

os yksx Hkh gSa tks /keZ dks vius /kkjnkj vkSt+kj dh rjg bLrseky djrs vk;s gSa vkSj fofHkUu

lEiznk;ksa ds vkilh lEokn dks vizR;{k :Ik ls jksdrs gSaA efgyk,¡ bu /kkfeZd usrkvksa dh

vogsyuk djrs gq, /keks± esa vkilh lEokn dks c<+kok ns ldrh gSa tks efgyk eqfDr dh

fn’kk esa Hkh egRoiw.kZ dne gksxkA

lkekftd ln~Hkko esa fxjkoV ls iSnk gksus okyh lkEiznkf;d dVqrk ftldh ifj.kfr

izk;% naxksa esa gksrh gS] mldk lcls cM+k nq"izHkko lekt ds lcls fupys vkSj de+tksj rcdksa

ij gh iM+rk gSA gkf’k;s ds ;s lewg fjD’kk pykus okys] lCt+h dk Bsyk yxkus okys vkSj

et+nwjh dj ds isV ikyus okys lkekftd vkSj vkfFkZd nksuksa gh n`f"V ls uktqd gksrs gSaA

vkSj lcls c<+dj ;g fd bu oxks± dh efgyk,sa vksj Hkh cnrj gkykr esa gSaA

,d mez xqt+j tkrh gS] vkf’k;k¡ cukus esa]rqEkdks dqN ugha gksrk] cfLr;k¡ tykus esa

vkSj ml ij rqjkZ ;g fd lkEiznkf;drk dks jk"Vªh;rk ls Hkh tksM+us ds iz;kl gksrs

gSaA ,sls esa Hkh ?kj ds Hkhrj vkSj lekt esa ckgj nksuksa gh ekspk±s ij efgykvksa dk lkFkZd

;ksxnku okafNr gSA

;g fopkj.kh; gS fd vkt rd gq, lSdM+ksa vkSj gt+kjksa naxksa esa ,d Hkh mnkgj.k ,slk

ugha feyrk ftlesa efgyk,a ryokj ;k ykBh ys dj lM+dksa ij [kwu [kjkck djus fudyh

gksaA ;g foMacuk gh dgh tkuh pkfg;s fd lkEiznkf;d dVqrk ds tUe esa rks lcls de

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fdUrq ifj.kkeksa esa lokZf/kd f?kukSus vijk/k bu efgykvksa dks gh >syus gksrs gSaA ysfdu

lEosnuk dh n`f"V ls] nwjnf’kZrk dh n`f"V ls vkSj lekt dh le> dh n`f"V ls efgyk,a

bl leL;k ds funku esa lEHkor% iq#"kksa dh vis{kk csgrj Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA

vkt lekt dh vis{kk,a vkSj jk"Vªh; vfuok;Zrk,a vkcknh ds 50 izfr’kr Hkkx dk

ekSu ugha eq[kj ;ksxnku pkgrh gSaA gj {ks= bl ;q) dh j.kHkwfe gS pkgs og ifjokj esa

ckyeu dks laLdkj nsus dk Øe gks ;k iz’kklu esa U;k; vkSj lerkiw.kZ iz’kklu pykus dk]

pkgs og iapk;r esa lHkh leqnk;ksa dks mfpr lEeku vkSj laj{k.k dk izlax gks ;k efgykvksa

ds izxfr’khy eapksa dk] lc txgksa ij efgykvksa dk ;ksxnku u flQ+Z lEHko gS cfYd le;

dh ekax Hkh rkfd lekt esa ln~Hkko vkSj lkSgknzZ jg lds vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lqn`<+

gks dj mHkj ldsA ;g lgh gS fd gkykr dfBu gSa fdUrq u rks fujk’k gksus dk dkj.k gS u

gh mnklA fo’okl dhft, bl ns’k dh efgyk,a viuh egrh Hkwfedk fuHkkus esa leFkZ Hkh gSa

vkSj bPNqd HkhA

vkt dh jkr cgqr xeZ gok pyrh gS]vkt dh jkr u Q+qVikFk is uhan vk,xh]lc mBsa eSa mBw¡] eSa Hkh mBw¡ rqe Hkh mBks]dksbZ f[kM+dh blh nhokj esa [kqy tk,xhA

& dSQ+h vkt+eh

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ukjh izkFkfed&lkekthdj.k dh vk/kkj f’kyk gS

& eksgEen ;wlqQ dqjs’kh

^^ohj iq#"k ;fn Hkh# gksa]rks eq>dks ns ojnku l[khAvcyk;sa mB iM+s ns’k esa]djsa ;q) ?keklku l[khAianzg dksfV vlg;ksfxfu;k¡ngyk nsa czgekaM l[khAHkkjr y{eh ykSVkus dks]jp nsa yadk dkaM l[khA

Jherh lqHknzk dqekjh pkSgku dh ;g iafDr;k¡ lgt gh ukjh&’kfDr dh mn~?kks"k.kk

djrh izrhr gksrh gSa fd ukjh* jk"Vª&fuekZ.k* ds izR;sd ?kVd dks u dsoy fn’kk&funsZf’kr

dj ldrh gS oju~ fu.kkZ;d Hkwfedk Hkh fuHkk ldrh gSA Hkkjr esa ^jk"Vª* ds izfr ukjh ds

blh n`f"Vdks.k ds pyrs bls ^Hkkjr&ekrk* dk ntkZ iznku fd;k x;k gS vkSj blds gj ,d

ukxfjd ds euksefLr"d esa ,d ^ek¡* ds :Ik esa jk"Vª ds izfr izse] J)k] leiZ.k vkSj loZLo

U;kSNkoj dj nsus dk Hkko ek= gh mUgsa ^,drk dh Hkkouk* ls vkg~ykfnr djrk gSA jk"Vª

fuekZ.k esa ukjh dh egrh Hkwfedk dks n`f"Vxr j[krs gq, gh dgk x;k gS&

^^;= uk;ZLrq iwT;Urs]jeUrs r= nsorkA

vFkkZr~ tgka ukjh dh iwtk gksrh gS] ogka nsork fuokl djrs gSaA oLrqr% ^Hkkjr ekrk*

'kCn ls gh jk"Vªh;&,drk o lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknzZ esa ukjh dh Hkwfedk izfrfcafcr gks tkrh gSA

Hkkjrh; Lok/khurk&vkanksyu ds nkSjku ;g ^oans ekrje~* dk mn~?kks"k ek= gh Fkk ftlus u

gesa fczfV’k&vU;k; o xqykeh ls vktknh iznku dh oju~ gesa ^,drk ds lw=* esa Hkh fijks;k

ftlls ge feytqydj la?k"kZ dj ldsA vkt Hkh ^oansekrje~* dk mn~?kks"k ek= gh gjsd

Hkkjroklh dks >d>ksj dj jk"Vª ds fy, dqN Hkh U;kSNkoj djus ds fy, lgt gh rS;kj

dj nsrk gSA oSls Hkh ukjh u dsoy iq#"k dh v/kk±fxuh gS oju~ ;g fdlh jk"Vª dh izR;sd

xfrfof/k esa LokHkkfod rkSj ij viuh fof’kf"V vkSj egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk jgh gSA ,sls esa

jk"Vªh;&,drk o lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ Hkh ukjh ls vNwrk ugha gSA

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,d ek¡ ds :Ik esa ukjh lekt esa ^izkFkfed&lkekthdj.k* dh vk/kkjf’kyk gSA f’k’kq

tc ek¡ dh xksn esa] mlds vkWpy ds lk;s esa iyrk gS] rks ekrk gh loZizFke mls thou ls

lk{kkRdkj djkrh gS] ogh mldks lqlaLd`r djrh gS vkSj mls gWluk] cksyuk o pyuk

fl[kkrh gSA og vius jDr o nqX/k ls mls iksf"kr dj vkdkj gh ugha oju~ laLdkj Hkh

iznku djrh gSA izR;sd ckyd esa ckY;dky ds nkSjku gh fofHkUu izdkj ds xq.k] lksap]

n`f"Vdks.k o vfHkxeksa dk fodkl gksrk gSA izR;sd ek¡ bl izdkj ckyd ds fy, izFke

vk/kkjHkwr ikB~’kkyk dh Hkk¡fr dk;Z djrh gSA

ek¡ dh nh gqbZ ^lh[k* vkSj mlds }kjk ckyd esa jk"Vª o lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko ds izfr

fodflr fd;k x;k n`f"Vdks.k] ml ckyd ds Hkkoh iq#"k ukxfjd cu tkus ij mlds laiw.kZ

thoudky esa mlds }kjk lapkfyr jk"Vª dh fofHkUu xfrfof/k;ksa esa izfrfcafcr gksrk gSA

fofHkUu jk"Vªksa ds fofHkUu fo}kuksa o izfrf"Br gfLr;ksa us Hkh vius O;fDrRo ds fodkl o

jk"Vª ds izfr muds ;ksxnku esa ek¡ dh Hkwfedk dks ekuk gSA xka/kh th o dyke nksuksa us gh

^ekW rq>s lyke* dgk gSA buds vykok fo’o ds ftrus Hkh egkiq#"k gq, gSa vkSj fofHkUu jk"Vª

ftuds _.kh gSa os lc Hkh eerk Kku ds fpj _.kh gSaA bfrgkl lk{kh gS fd f’kokth dk

egku O;fDrRo ekrk thtk ckbZ ds gkFkksa gh fufeZr gqvk FkkA ouokfluh lhrk us vHkkoksa eas

Hkh ^yo&dq’k* ds O;fDrRo dks bruk laokjk fd egk&/kuq/kZj ^y{e.k* Hkh mu ij ikj ugha

ik lds FksA fofHkUu lekt’kkfL=;ksa o ekuo’kkfL=;ksa us Hkh vius 'kks/k ls ;gh fu"d"kZ

fudkyk gS fd izk;% ^lkaiznkf;drk* o vyxkookn ds cht ^cky&eu* esa

izkFkfed&lkekthdj.k ds nkSjku gh fijks;s tkrs gSA cpiu esa gh ckyd dks fdlh tkfr ;k

/keZ&fo’ks"k ds izfr ?k`.kk ds Hkko] NqvkNwr ds Hkko ;k fdlh laLd`fr&fo’ks"k ds xq.k ;k

voxq.kksa ls ifjpr djk;k tkrk gSA

orZeku esa f’k{kk dk rsth ls futhdj.k gksrk tk jgk gSA gekjs ns’k esa ;=&r=

loZ= izkbZosV&Ldwyksa dh ck<+ lh vk xbZ gSA izk;% izkFkfed f’k{kk iznku djus okys

futh&Ldwy cgqrk;r esa gSa] bu Ldwyksa esa izk;% f’kf{kdkvksa dh ekWx jgrh gS] D;ksafd ;g

rF; vc lkekftd :Ik ls ekU; gks pqdk gS fd ulZjh&Lrj o izkbejh Lrj dh f’k{kk

ukjh&eerk ds lkfUu/; esa gh nh tk ldrh gSA vr% ckyeu esa jk"Vªh;&,drk o

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lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ dh Hkkouk dk lapkj djuk bUgha f’kf{kdkvksa ds o’khHkwr gS] os pkgsa rks

bUgsa rFkkdfFkr fczrkuh ekufldrk okyk Hkkoh ^^itYM&flVhtu** cuk nsa ;k jk"Vª ds

fodkl ds fy, gqadkj Hkjus okyk Kkuh Hkkjrh; ukxfjdA os pkgsa rks bUgsa xka/kh] usg:]

bafnjk] dyke ;k iVsy cuk nsa ;k pkgsa rks ekuork dks ywVus okys lkaiznkf;d :Ik ls

fgald euq";] naxk izseh jk{kl] cykRdkjksa ls vkg~ykfnr gksus okys ekuork ij dyad:Ikh

^vekuq"k&euq";*A

ukjh us tc&tc vkxs c<+dj ^lkSgknzZ fufeZr djus dk iz;kl fd;k gS rc&rc jk"Vª

dh ,drk dks c<+kus okyh o lkaiznkf;drk dks 'kkfey djus okyh fLFkfr;k¡ cuh gSaa fpRrkSM+

dh fgUnw egkjkuh }kjk foifRr esa eqlyeku 'kkld dks Hksth xbZ ^jk[kh* bfrgkl esa mRd`"V

mnkgj.kksa esa ls ,d gS] ftlds o’khHkwr gksdj gqek;wW us mldh enn ds fy, viuh leLr

'kfDr >ksad nh FkhA vdcj ds le; eqxy&lkezkT; dkQh laxfBr o 'kfDr’kkyh Fkk

D;ksafd mldh ^oSokfgd&uhfr* varj&/keZ fookg ij voyafcr FkhA jktiwr fgUnw ukfj;ksa ds

eqxy&oa’k esa izos’k dj tkus ls dkQh gn rd ml le; Hkkjr esa xaxk&tequk laLd`fr*

dk fodkl gqvkA vdcj&tks/kk dh dgkfu;kW Hkkjr esa vc rd izfl) gSA dqN fo}kuksa us

vdcj ds lkezkT; ds foLrkj o mlds lkaiznkf;d&lfg".kq gksus esa mudh fgUnw ifRu;ksa dh

Hkwfedk dks ekuk gS] tcfd vkSjaxtsc ds ^lkaiznkf;d* gksus ds ihNs mUgksaus ekuk gS fd

laHkor;k mUgsa ,slh ukjh dk lkfUu/; ugha feyk] tks muesa ^lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ* ds cht

fijksrhA

,d eqlyeku efgyk] fdlh fgUnw HkkbZ dh cgu cudj mldk fny thr ldrh gS]

mls lkaiznkf;d :Ik ls lfg".kq cukus ds mRizsjd dh Hkkafr dk;Z dj ldrh gSA ,d fgUnw

ek¡ fdlh eqlyeku ds csVs dks xksn ysdj mldk ikyu&iks"k.k dj ldrh gS] og mls ,sls

laLdkj ns ldrh gS tks mls lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkkouk dk ^elhgk* cuk ldrs gSaA

^^u gks oru esa dHkh /keZ dh fgalk];fn xhrk i<+s lqcgks&lqcg dgd’kkaA

vkSj u gks dHkh vktkn d’ehj dh ea’kk]vxj fny ls fn[k tk;s ^pjkjs 'kjhQ* ij pknj p<+krh fu’kkA

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fofHkUu jk"Vª&foHkktu vFkok lkaiznkf;d naxkas ds nkSjku izk;% lokZf/kd ihM+k ukjh dks

gh >syuh iM+h gSA bu naxksa ds nkSjku lSdM+ks efgykvksa dks lkewfgd cykRdkj] gR;k o

vieku dk f’kdkj gksuk iM+k gS&pkgs og ^^dkSlj gR;kdkaM** gks ;k ^^tkfgjk 'ks[k dkaM**A

,sls esa ukjh dks ;g le>uk vR;ko’;d gS fd og bu naxksa dks jksdus esa viuh iwjh rkdr

yxk nsaA og vius ifr] csVs ;k HkkbZ dks le>k ldrh gSa fd muds }kjk fd;s x;s nq"d`R;ksa

ds Hkkxh os Lo;a gks ldrs gSaA naxksa ds nkSjku mudh choh] cgu ;k ek¡ Hkh ^f’kdkj* gks

ldrh gSa] vr% os dHkh Hkh lkaiznkf;d mUekn ds Hkkxh u cusaA dbZ txg efgykvksa us Lo;a

vkxs vkdj lkaiznkf;d naxksa dks jksdk gSA ;fn naxs ds nkSjku ,d eqlyeku ek¡ vius fganw

csVs ls ;k ,d fgUnw cgu vius eqlyeku HkkbZ ls vkxs vkdj vihy djs fd mls

lkaiznkf;d fgalk ds nkSjku loZizFke eq>s gh ekjuk gksxk] rks ;g laHko gS fd dgha mlds

ân; esa mifLFkr izse dk Hkko] Øwjrk ij gkoh gksdj laHkkfor lkaiznkf;d fgalk dh vfXu

dks cq>k ldsA

uDlyokn ds fo#) vkanksyu ^lyok&tqM+e* ds vlQy gksus ds ihNs dkj.k Hkh

ukjh lgHkkfxrk dks udkjuk o mldk vieku jgk gSA ^fdj.k csnh* tSlh efgyk iqfyl

vf/kdkfj;ksa us jk"Vªh; ,drk o lkaiznkf;drk ds neu esa viuk egrh ;ksxnku fn;k gSA

Hkkjr dh gtkjksa ekrk,¡ lSfudksa ds :Ik esa vius liwrksa dks lhek ij Hkstrh jgh gaS] rkfd

ns’k v[k.M o v{kq.; cuk jgsA fofHkUu lkaiznkf;d naxksa ds nkSjku fdruh ekrkvksa us vius

liwrksa dks [kksdj bl fgalk dks jksdus esa enn dh gSA ;fn yksx ;g le> ysa fd ijeohj

pØ fotsrk estj lkseukFk 'kekZ o vCnqy gehn ds 'kghn gksus dk nnZ nksukas dh ekrkvksa ds

fy, leku gS rks jk"Vªh; ,drk o lkaiznkf;d lkSgknZ dk iz’u Lor% gh vn`’; gks tk;sxkA

ns’k esa fofHkUu eapksa ls ^leku&ukxfjd lafgrk dh ekax le; le; ij mBrh jgrh

gS D;ksafd dqNsd yksxksa dk ekuuk gS fd jk"Vªh; ,drk o lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ ds fy,

^O;fDrxr dkuwu* ds LFkku ij leku ukxfjd lafgrk ykxw fd;s tkus dh vko’;drk gSA

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lgHkkfxrk nj mldh lcyrk dks de djus ds fy, i;kZIr gSA vkt Hkh ;kSu fgalk]

cykRdkj] Hkwz.k gR;k] ngst gR;k] dk;ZLFky 'kks"k.k tSls vusdksa jk{kl mlds le{k [kM+s gSa]

tks mldh jk"Vª&fuekZ.k esa mldh Hkwfedk dks le;&le; ij lhfer dj nsrs gSaA ,sls esa

mls tkx:d gksdj] lcyk dk :Ik /kj dj lkeus vkuk gh gksxk] rHkh og jk"Vªh; ,drk o

lkaiznkf;d lkSgknZ dks cuk;s j[kus esa viuh 'kr izfr’kr Hkwfedk fuHkk ik,xhA

t; fgUn!

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jk"Vª dh ,drk ,oa v[k.Mrk efgykvksa ds lg;ksx ds fcuk lEHko ughA

& t; izdk’k ekS;Z

jk"Vª ,d o`gn ladYiuk gS] ftlds fofHkUu ewrZ rFkk vewZr vo;o gksrs gSaA fdlh

etcwr jk"Vª ds fy;s mlds ewrZ vkSj vewZr vo;oksa esa larqyu vko’;d gSA ;g rc rd

laHko ugha gS tc rd vk/kh nqfu;k ¼efgyk lekt½ dh Hkkxhnkjh u gksA okLro esa jk"Vª dh

rqyuk ,d tfVy ;a= ls dh tk ldrh gS ftlds nks ifg;s gSa tks bls vk/kkj nsrs gSa blesa

ls ,d ifg;k iq#"k gS rks nwljk efgyk ;fn blesa ls ,d Hkh ifg;k Fke tk; rks jk"Vªh;

,drk v[kaMrk vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dks [krjk gks tkrk gSA ;gh dkj.k gS fd jk"Vªh;

,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko c<+kus esa efgykvksa dh vge~ Hkwfedk gksrh gSA

blds igys fd jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko c<+kus esa efgykvksa dh

Hkwfedk ij izdk’k Mkyk tk;sA la{ksi esa ;g fopkj djuk visf{kr gksxk fd jk"Vªh; ,drk

vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk vFkZ Li"V dj fy;k tk;sA jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k ls rkRi;Z&jk"Vª

ds ewZr vkSj vewZr vo;oksa ds chp larqyu gksA lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk rkRi;Z gS&fofHkUu

tkfr] /keZ] laiznk; rFkk Hkk"kk lewgksa ds chp ln~Hkko dh Hkkouk gksA pawfd fdlh Hkh jk"Vª

dh tula[;k dk yxHkx vk/ks fgLls dk izfrfuf/kRo efgyk,¡ djrh gSa vr% jk"Vª dh ,drk

rFkk va[kMrk dh dYiuk efgykvksa ds fcuk ugha dh tk ldrh gSA

jk"Vª O;fDr] ifjokjksa rFkk lektksa dk laxBu gSA ifjokj dk dsUnz fcUnq efgyk;sa

gksrh gSA efgyk,a tSlh f’k{kk vius ifjokj ds cPPkksa dks nsrh gSa] oSls gh ifjokj ds laLdkj

curs gaS] ifjokj ds laLdkj tSls gksrs gSa] oSls gh laLdkj lektksa ds rFkk jk"Vªksa ds gksrs gaSA

vr% ifjokj ftls O;kogkfjd thou dh vk/kkjf’kyk ekuk tkrk gS efgykvksa ds dsUnz esa

vkrk gSA vr% jk"Vª fuek.kZ esa efgykvksa dh izR;{k Hkkxhnkjh gks tkrh gSA vr% efgyk;sa insZ

ds ihNs vR;ar egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkkrh gS] ftldk lkjk Js; nqHkkZZX; ls iq#"k ys ysus dh

dksf’k’k djrk gSA og ,slk iznf’kZr djrk gS ekuks jFk dk ogh lkjFkh gks] ogh /kqjh gks] ogh

mls vkdkj nsrk gks] ogh jFk dk mís’; gksA

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bZ’oj us ,d ,sls fo’o dh jpuk dh gS] ftldk izR;sd d.k fof’k"V gS] vn~Hkqr gS]

dgha Hkh iqujko`fÙk ugha gS] lkFk gh vusdrk esa ,drk dk vn~Hkqr leUo; gS] ftlls fofHkUu

oxZ lewgksa dh jpuk dh gSA blh vusdrk esa ,drk gSA vc iz’u gS efgyk izd`fr D;k gS\

efgyk izd`fr dh fof’k"Vrk gS n;k] d#.kk] izse] lfg".kqrk bR;kfnA okLro esa efgyk izd`fr

dh ;gh fof’k"Vrk mls iq#"k ls vyx djrh gS] okLro esa efgyk izd`fr dh blh fof’k"Vrk

ds dkj.k fofHkUu ifjokjksa esa ,d etcwr laxBu cu tkrk gSA

efgykvksa ds vanj leUo; dh fdruh vn~Hkqr {kerk gS bldk loZJs"B iznZ’ku

ekrkvkas }kjk] ifjokj ds ykyu&ikyu esa ns[kk tkrk gS efgyk;sa ,d vn~Hkqr iz’kkld dh

Hkkafr] lerk] Lora=rk] U;k;ewyd lekt dh uhao j[krh gSa] tgk¡ izR;sd lnL; dh t:jr

dk /;ku j[krh gaSA bl izdkj lerk ewyd lekt dh uhao j[k nh tkrh gSA ysfdu budh

vn~Hkqr {kerk dk ykHk iq#"k iz/kku ekufldrk okyk lekt jk"Vª ds Lrj ij ugha mBk ik

jgk gS D;ksafd og efgyk 'kfDr dks ?kj dh pkjnhokjh esa dSn dj j[kuk pkgrk gSA ;fn

efgyk;sa ifjokj ds vanj vn~Hkqr {kerk dk izn’kZu dj ldrh gSa rks jk"Vªh; Lrj ij D;ksa

ugha\

efgyk izd`fr dk nwljk ln~xq.k gksrk gS& /kkfeZdrkA efgyk;sa O;ogkj ds Lrj ij

iq#"kksa ls vf/kd /kkfeZd gksrh gSA ifjokj ds Lrj ij efgyk;sa gh /kkfeZdrk dk ikB vius

cPPkksa dks i<k+rh gSaA ;fn efgyk vius cPpksa dks vius /keZ ls izse djuk rFkk nwljs /keksZa ls

?k`.kk djuk fl[kkrh gS rks u;h ih<+h dêj gksxh vkSj ;fn ekrk vius cPpksa dks lHkh /kek±s

ds izfr n;k] izse d#.kk dk Hkko fl[kkrh gS rks cPpk /kkfeZd :Ik ls lfg".kq gksxkA bl

izdkj ge ns[k ldrs gS efgyk;sa /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk rFkk loZ/keZ leUo; esa Hkh egRoiw.kZ

Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA

izkphu Hkkjrh; bfrgkl esa ns’k dh ,drk vkSj v[kaMrk dks dk;e j[kus esa mnkgj.kksa

dh deh ugha gSA ekS;Z jktoa’k dsa laLFkkid panzxqIr dk fookg] lsY;wdl jktoa’k dh dU;k

ls gqvkA mijksDr mnkgj.k ds ckn] eu esa iz’u mB ldrk gS fd jktdU;k ds fookg dk

jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k rFkk lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko ij D;k izHkko iM+ ldrk gS\ izHkko xgjk gS bl

fookg ds ckn pUnzxqIr vkSj lsY;wdl ds ;q) dh reke laHkkouk;sa lekIr gks xbZaA pUnzxqIr

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vkSj lsY;wdl nksuksa us fe=rk ds uke ij fo’kky lkezkT;ksa dh LFkkiuk dh] ckr ;gha ij

vkdj lekIr ugha gksrh gS] oju~ lkaLd`fr leUo; dh bl ijaijk ij efgykoknh fpard

vk{ksi yxk ldrh gSa fd] ;gka ij efgykvksa dks eksgjk cuk fn;k x;kA bl vk{ksi ls iwjh

rjg cpuk eqf’dy gh gS] ysfdu ;g Hkh lp gS] vkf[kj og efgyk 'kfDr Fkh ftlds

dkj.k foHkUu jk"Vªksa ds e/; lkaLd`frd vknku&iznku gks ldkA

e/;dkyhu Hkkjr esa bldk vn~Hkqr mnkgj.k vdcj ds dky esa ns[kus dks feyrk gS

tcfd vdcj vkSj txr xksalkbZ dk fookg gqvkA ftls vdcj ds dky esa vdcj &

tks/kkckbZ fookg dgrs gSaA ;gka ij tks/kkckbZ ds O;fDRo ds etcwr i{k dks ns[k ldrs gSa fd

tks/kkckbZ us fookg ds ckn Hkh viuk /keZ ifjorZu ugha fd;k lkFk gh jktegy ds vanj

xaxk&tequh lfEefyr laLd`fr dks c<+kok nsrh jghsaA fuf’pr rkSj ij vdcj dh /kkfeZd

lfg".kqrk dks blus izHkkfor fd;k gksxkA D;ksafd ;g vdcj dh eq[; csxeksa esa FkhA

e/dkyhu Hkkjr esa vU; egku ukjh 'kfDr;ksa esa jkuh nqxkZorh] uwjtgka rFkk eqerkt egy

dk uke fy;k tk ldrk gSA ftUgksaus jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkaiznkf;d ,drk cuk;s j[kus esa

enn dhA

1857 ds fonzksg ds le; jkuh y{ehokbZ rFkk csxe gtjr egy dk ;ksxnku

vfoLej.kh; jgk gSA jkuh y{ehckbZ us vaxzsth gqdqer dks Lohdkj djus ds ctk; ;q) esa

izk.k R;kxuk vf/kd Js"Vdj le>k] csxe gtjr egy us y[kuÅ esa vius usr`Ro dk

mnkgj.k izLrqr fd;kA mlh izdkj lkekftd rFkk /kkfeZd lq/kkj vkanksyu esa iafMrk jekckbZ

dk ;ksxnku vfoLej.kh; jgk gSA e/;dkyhu HkfDr vkanksyu eas ehjkckbZ dk egRoiw.kZ

;ksxnku jgk gSA

xka/kh ;qx esa Lora=rk la?k"kZ esa efgykvksa dk ;ksxnku vius mPpre f’k[kj ij ig¡aqp

x;k FkkA vlg;ksx ,oa lfou; voKk vkanksyu esa os ?kj dh pkjnkokjh yk?k¡dj lh/ks

vkanhsyu esa dwn iM+ha ftlesa dLrwjck xka/kh] lqpsrk d`ikykuh] ljkstuhuk;Mw dk egRoiw.kZ

;ksxnku jgkA 1905&1942 rd efgykvksa us mxzokn ls ysdj ØkfUrdkjh vkardokn esa [kqy

dj fgLlk fy;k ftlesa yfrdk?kks"k] m"kk esgrk dk ;ksxnku vfoLej.kh; jgk gSA vktknh

ds ckn lafo/kku fuek.kZ rFkk uoxf.kr ljdkj esa Hkh budh Hkkxhnkjh ls jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k

esa lgk;rk feyhA lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko cukus esa ,uhoslsaV dh gkse:y yhx dk egRoiw.kZ

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;ksxnku gSaA oslsaV us 1916 dkeufoy esa fy[kk] ßjktuhfrd vkt+knh thrus ds fy, igys

t#jh gS] izR;sd Hkkjrh; lkaLd`frd ln~Hkko dk;e j[ksAÞ blh dkj.k ,uhoslsaV dh yhx dk

ukjk Fkk& ^^Lo’kklu ,oa lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko lkFk**

vktknh ds ckn jk"Vª fuekZ.k rFkk lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk;e j[kus esa

lqpsrkd`ikykuh] ljkstuh uk;Mw rFkk jktdqekjh ve`rk izhre dkSj dk vR;ar egRoiw.kZ

;ksxnku jgk gSA Hkkjr dh izFke efgyk iz/kku ea=h us jk"Vªh; ,drk dh LFkkiuk ds fy,

Hkh"e iz;kl fd;s muds iz;klksa ls jtokM+ksa ds fo’ks"kkf/kdkj ;qDr fizoh ilZ dh lekfIr gqbZ]

Hkk"kk&fookn ij f=Lrjh;Hkk"kk dk QkeZwyk ykxw gqvkA iwohZ ikfdLrku us ikfdLrku ds

ukikd ealwcksa dks /oLr dj fn;kA bl izdkj Hkkjr dh iwoZ iz/kkuea=h bafnjk xka/kh th us

vius dke ls vk;ju ysMh dk uke dek;kA okyhoqM esa Hkh efgykvksa us n’kdksa ls vius

vfHku; ds ek/;e ls dsoy ukjh’kfDrdj.k dks gh ugha c<+k;k oju~ lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko

dk;e j[kus esa enn dhA

bl izdkj ge ns[krs gS fd efgykvksa dks ftruk volj feyk mldk mUgkasus mi;ksx

dj jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj v[kaMrk dks cuk;s j[kus esa enn dhA lkFk gh ;g Hkh mruk gh

lp gS fd mldks ftruk ekSdk feyuk pkfg, Fkk mruk ekSdk ugha fey ldk gSA vr%

jk"Vª fuekZ.k esa budh Hkkxhnkjh dks O;kid cukus ds fy, f’k{kk LokLF; iz’kklu] jktuhfr]

vFkZO;oLFkk rFkk lekt esa leku volj miyC/k djkus dh t:jr gSA rHkh dksbZ jk"Vª

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Sl. No. Contributors1. Shri Shah Faesal, IAS

Sogam Lolab KupwaraSrinagar-193223Jammu & Kashmir

2. Ms. Rashmita Panda, IASAkshaya Kumar Panda,Retd. Chief Engineer,At Bateswar, Post Sunhat,Baleswar Distt,Baleswar-756002 Orissa

3. Shri Anurag Chaudhary, IASS/o Ram Karan ChaudharyVillage-Parsia Tehsil-RudhauliDistt-Basti-272150 U.P.

4. Ms.Suman Rawat, IASVillage Makuri; PO Tikochi(Arakot);Tehsil Mori(Purola);Dist. Uttarkashi-249185Uttarakhand

5. Ms. Durga Sakthi Nagpal, IASB5 Police StationDelhi Cantt., Delhi-110010

6. Shri Pawan Kumar Konda, IAAS64-2-36, Annamma ColonyShriharipuramVishakhapatnam-530 011

7. Ms. Arunima Sharma, ICCES156, Sharda ViharNear New High CourtCity Centre, Gwalior (MP)

8. Shri Arun Thomas Kalathikal K.,IRAS

9. Ms. Upasna Paul, IRSC/o Shri Satnam SinghB-2, 2378,Vasant Kunj, New Delhi

10. Satyarth Aniruddha Pankaj, IPSHouse No.45 A,Phase- One,Aashiyana Nagar,Patna- 800025, Bihar

11. Shri Harish Chander, IPSJ.N-208, Outram Line,Opposite 1980, Kingsway Camp,G T B Nagar,Delhi- 110009

12. Kumar Rajeev Ranjan, IASVill;+Post+Block-Simri,Buxar 828125Bihar

13. Shri Surendra Kumar Jha, IPSVillage-Barsam, Post-Bheja,Thana-Bheja,Dist-Madhubani 847408Bihar

14. Shri Jitendra Kumar Soni IASNear Old Radhaswami SatsangBhawan,Rawatsar,Distt- Hanumangarh-335524Rajasthan

15. Shri Bhaskar Lakshakar, IASJawahar Colony,Old Shivpuri 473551Madhya Pradesh

16. Mohammed Yusuf Qureshi, IPSHouse No. 75 Bajrang Gali #1Joura-476221Madhya Pradesh

17. Shri Jai Prakash MauryaIndira Nagar PO LailunjaRaigarh496113 Chattisgarh

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