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Not Without Her - Communal Harmony i
NFCHMonograph
13Not Without Her
Communal Harmony
Edited by:
Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi
National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi
Not Without Her - Communal Harmony i
NFCHMonograph
13Not Without Her
Communal Harmony
Edited by:
Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi
National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi
Not Without Her - Communal Harmony i
NFCHMonograph
13Not Without Her
Communal Harmony
Edited by:
Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi
National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi
Not Without Her - Communal Harmony ii
Not Without HerCommunal Harmony
National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi
2015
Not Without Her - Communal Harmony ii
Not Without HerCommunal Harmony
National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi
2015
Not Without Her - Communal Harmony ii
Not Without HerCommunal Harmony
National Foundation for Communal HarmonyNew Delhi
2015
Not Without Her - Communal Harmony iii
Not Without HerCommunal Harmony
Edited by:
Dr. Rekha DwivediMr. Arpit Chaturvedi
Published by:
National Foundation for Communal Harmony (NFCH)9th Floor, ‘C’ Wing, Lok Nayak BhawanKhan Market, New Delhi-110 003
© 2015, National Foundation for Communal Harmony (NFCH)
‘Any part of this publicationmay be reproduced or utilized in any form
or by any means with due acknowledgement to NFCH’
Edition 2015
ISBN- 978-81-887772-14-8
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Foreword
It gives me immense pleasure to present you with a set of essays authoredby officers of All India and Group ‘A’ Services undergoing their FoundationCourses at Lal Bahadur Shastri National Academy of Administration, Mussoorie(LBSNAA); RCVP NORONHA Academy of Administration and Management,Bhopal; and National Academy of Direct Taxes, Nagpur in collaboration with theNational Foundation for Communal Harmony (NFCH). These essays presentedin the form of monographs are result of the annual essay competition organizedby the Foundation for officers undergoing training at these Institutions.
The theme of “Not Without Her Communal Harmony ” is very importantbecause of its inherent worth and value as also because the world celebrated thecentenary of the International Women’s Day recently.
The noted researcher and author Gabriel Dietrich notes in his book “SomeReflections on Women’s Movement in India: Religion, Ecology and development”that “communal confrontations are normally engineered by men. Women areoften the primary victims, having to bear the brunt of communal violence”. If thisis true then it is women who suffer as women, as wives, as mothers, asdaughters and in capacity of numerous other societal roles that they play. Theythen have the capacity to reverse the process through their varied roles.
If a child has not known violence in the family, he will not be violent ordisruptive as a grown up. It is the responsibility not only of women but indeed ofthe whole family to create a conducive and peaceful atmosphere at homeparticularly while bringing up children. It can be argued that even if children arebrought up in a peaceful, soothing and harmonious atmosphere at home, later onin life when faced with crisis situations they might change and become violent,brutal, vicious and intemperate. In recent times, Japan is a living example ofpeaceful and disciplined behavior this was witnessed during the recentFukushine catastrophe which was followed by the earthquake and the tsunami.The Japanese people remained calm and peaceful inspite of being struck bysuch a colossal disaster and unforeseen calamity.
Mothers can play a pivotal role through lullabies, stories and by settingliving examples of peace and harmony in their families. These days most womencontribute in myriad ways to economic and social growth and development of thecountry and community. As teachers, they can make an enormous difference andcontribute immensely in instilling the ideals and principles of peaceful co-existence, mutual respect, unity, amity and concord through their teachings,guidance and encouragement. As Colman McCarthy has written:
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“Unless we teach our children peace, somebody else will teach themviolence”.
Woman as a mother is the first teacher of human beings; through her love,care, warmth and affection, she can teach peace before someone else leadsthem on to anti-social, violent and destructive paths.
I would like to express my deep appreciation and gratitude to the officerswho in spite of their busy schedule have taken out the time to write these essayscovering various dimensions of the topic. It is a momentous service to society.
We have tried our best to edit the essays; still errors may remain for whichwe express our deep regret. The responsibility for opinions expressed in theessays rests solely with the contributors and the views expressed therein do notnecessarily reflect that of the Foundation.
(Ashok Sajjanhar)Secretary
NFCH
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From the Editors’ Desk
The basic idea of democracy is to have a government, which canembody the aspirations of all the different sections of the society and solicittheir contributions in building the character of the state. Women constitutenearly half of the population of the nation and in the task of building thenation as was envisaged by its founding fathers, the role of women cancertainly not be ignored. When India was born as an independent nation in1947, many intellectuals around the world speculated, how long thisdemocracy would survive. Many are still surprised and astonished on as tohow this nation despite the various internecine wars and bloody conflictshas survived. The reason it has survived is perhaps hidden in the simplefact that we have had women of quality and caliber in this nation, who haveworked - at times in the foreground and at other times behind the curtains -to provide the nation with the critical adhesive in form of talent and moralforce, with which the nation now ventures and ushers ahead to become oneof the superpowers of the world. Indeed, a salute to all such women ismore than required and much overdue.
“The Role of Women in fostering Communal Harmony and NationalIntegration” was a monograph that we at the National Foundation forCommunal Harmony had been planning for a long period. It was born out ofthe realization that the movement of women empowerment has gonebeyond the level of sensitization. It was felt that in the post-modern world,women empowerment has ushered into the phase that not only a sense ofequality needs to be instilled in the minds of the women, but it is also muchrequired that women take up active roles in leading the society byvigorously steering the direction in which the civilization progresses. Afterall, the nation has been able to produce a woman President, Prime Minister,Supreme Court Judge and women achievers of the highest echelons invarious fields such as sports, business, academics, social development,science and civil services. However, it was felt that the country is yet tounderstand the role of women in bringing about macro-level social changesin the nation.
“Could women influence a macro-level social changes in the nation ina concerted manner?” “If yes, then How?” Such questions led us to ponderupon the question of the role of women in bringing about communalharmony and fostering national integration in India. In order to understandthe answers to these questions, we decided to solicit the views in thisregard, of none other than a group of one of the brightest minds in thenation who have the responsibility to administer future policies that willdefine the character of this country – the members of the Indian civilservices. Hence, students of the various civil service academies were
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invited to share their views on the subject of “Role of Women in fosteringCommunal Harmony & National Integration”.
In the process of compiling these essays, it was the pleasure of theeditorial group to reflect upon the views expressed by the young generationof civil servants in India - which have been summarized briefly in thefollowing paragraphs. Indeed the perspectives gathered in this monographwere heartening as well as enlightening. The editorial board was pleased toobserve that the civil servants of this nation were free from any religious orcommunal bigotry and that they form a progressive group of people who arefirstly optimistic regarding the future of the nation and are more importantlyalready drawing up plans to improve the state of harmony and peace in thenation.
One of the key arguments made by most of the contributors of thismonograph was that leadership is perhaps one major area wherein Indianeeds more women to come forward and take on the reigns. There is aneed for women leadership to become a rule rather than an exception insolving critical issues such as the prevalent disharmony in the society forthe simple reason that firstly, women provide the sort of leadership for thenation that no one else can. An interesting finding in this regard has beenthat for the competency “Practicing Self Development”, which measures theextent to which people ask for feedback and make changes based on thatfeedback, women tend to perform better with the advancement of theircareers while men tend to become more closed to feedback and to beingcorrected1. As a result, women improve as leaders over time and tend torectify their mistakes, which over a long period of time gives them an edgeand builds them into seasoned leaders.
To emphasize the role of women in the public sphere variousexamples and cases have been discussed by the writers, of women whohave proved their mettle in high achievement as well as by display ofsuperior leadership qualities. However, there is also cognition of thepresence of a “glass ceiling” that restricts the progress of women in theprofessional sphere. While increasingly one sees women leaders rising upthe ladder, the presence of a glass ceiling is certainly not ignorable. TheIndira Gandhi(s) and Indira Nooyi(s) of India are certainly exceptions ratherthan the rule. Nevertheless, a commitment to break such a glass ceiling inpractice has echoed in almost all of the articles.
Another aspect that resonated in most of the articles is the role ofwomen in nurturing and psychologically conditioning the future generations.
1 Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/study-women-are-better-leaders-2014-1#ixzz3XQ4Vz5wJ
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Apart from a few commentators who considered household work by womena ‘chore’, a vast majority of the writers gave emphasis on the naturalnurturing ability of the woman and its role in producing tolerant attitudes inthe future generations. Consequently, it has also been concluded in most ofthe articles in this monograph that women are the prime victims ofcommunal disharmony and never the perpetuators of the same. Such aconclusion is also supported, by theories such as that of a “youth bulge”presented by Gunnar Heinsohn (2003), that presents the argument that anexcess in especially young adult male population predictably leads to socialunrest, war and terrorism. Various developed nations have begun toformulate their international policies based on this theory and hence, thearguments made in the articles in the present monograph, that women arenot active perpetuators of communal differences, may not be far from thetruth.
One factor that is somewhat wanting in the contributions of thismonograph is that while there is a definite focus on arguing the competenceof women in bringing about communal harmony, only a few of the writershave touched upon a concrete program on as to “how” women can bringabout communal harmony. Perhaps if such a contribution was solicited fromprospective legislators, this aspect would have received more focus.Nevertheless, the lack of focus is majority of the articles on this aspect ismade up for in the concrete strategies laid out in a select few articles in thismonograph, which indeed explore this facet in immense depth. Apart fromdiscussing the role of the women in conditioning the minds of the futuregenerations as mothers and teachers, many contributors have discussed atlength specific strategies such as the organization of women in Self-Help-Groups, through NGOs and through concerted public participation informing as well as influencing policies. More importantly, a remarkableunderstanding of policy administration and execution has beendemonstrated in the articles which gives one an assurance that the civilservants of the nation are exceedingly competent to create a healthierfuture for the nation, fueled by the ardour of service to the nation, they aredetermined to deliver a better tomorrow as they communicate that “there ishope!”
As far as possible, a conscious attempt has been made by the editorsto select articles in such a manner that all the perspectives voiced by thedifferent contributors are taken into account. However, the editorial board,though unwillingly, has had to select only a select few articles for publicationowing to the scarcity of space and the consideration to avoid repetitivenessas far as possible. Yet it would only be pertinent to state that the criterion forthe selection of articles was less the accuracy or sophistication of language,but quality of thought reflected in the article and the depth as well as width
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of ground covered in the matter of the article. Nevertheless, the editors arethankful beyond measure to all the contributors who expressed theirvaluable perspectives on the issue of “Women and Communal Harmony”.
Finally, a note on the title of the monograph is appropriate here. Themonograph was planned to be titled simply as “Women and CommunalHarmony” or the “Role of Women in fostering Communal Harmony andNational Integration”; but Shah Faesal’s article “Not Without Her” capturedthe minds of the editors as it embodied the spirit behind which thismonograph was commissioned. It is the spirit that communicates the strongmessage that communal harmony and national integration shall not prevailand cannot prevail in the nation without the participation of the woman.“Proactive directors”, not “reactive managers” or “victims”, is the label that isrequired to be taken up by the female populace of this nation and this is themessage with which the editors would gladly like to present this monographto the readers.
Dr. Rekha DwivediArpit Chaturvedi
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Arise then …..Women of this day!Arise, all women who have hearts!Whether your baptism is of water or of tears!
Say firmly:"We will not have questions answered by irrelevant agencies;Our husbands will not come to us, reeking with carnage,For caresses and applause.Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearnAll that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience.We, the women of one country,Will be too tender of those of another countryTo allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs."
Let women now leave all that may be left of homeFor a great and earnest day of counsel.Let them then solemnly take counsel with each other as to the meansWhereby the great human family can live in peace….Each bearing after their own time the sacred impress, not of CaesarBut of God.In the name of womanhood and of humanity, I earnestly askThat a general congress of women without limit of nationalityMay be appointed and held at some place deemed most convenientAnd at the earliest period consistent with its objects,To promote the alliance of the different nationalities,The amicable settlement of international questions,The great and general interests of peace.”
- by Julia Ward Howe
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“Peace begins with a smile”
- Mother Teresa
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Sl.No.
Contributors Title PageNo.
1. Shah Faesal, IAS Not without her 1-6
2. Rashmiti Panda, IAS Women are the symbol of kindness 7-16
3. Anurag Chaudhary, IAS The hand that rocks the cradle saves the world 17-23
4. Suman Rawat, IAS Need to realize the role of women in maintainingCommunal Harmony
24-31
5. Durga Sakthi Nagpal, IAS Power of women is unlimited 32-39
6. Pawan Kumar Konda, IAAS Women are equal partner in the growth of a nation 40-48
7. Arunima Sharma, ICCES Women is the builder and moulder of a nation’sdestiny
49-55
8. Arun Thomas Kalathikal K.,IRAS
What a woman thinks essentially a nation thinks 56-58
9. Upasna Paul, IRS Women bring all kinds of harmony in the society 59-65
10. Satyarth Aniruddha Pankaj,IPS
Women carves nation or community at home 66-69
11. gjh’k panj, IPS naxksa ds f[kykQ gj efgyk dks ,dtqV gksuk pkfg, 70-78
12. jktho jatu, IAS Hkkjrh; ukfj;k¡ LoHkko ls gh R;kxoku ,oa /kS;Z’khy gksrh gSa 79-83
13. lqjsUnz dqekj >k, IPS efgyk;sa lkekftd ,oa jk"Vªh; iqufuZekZ.k dh lz"Vk 84-92
14. ftrsUnz dqekj lksuh] IAS ukjh gh lkEiznkf;d ln~Hkko dh lPph fgrS"kh gS 93-99
15. HkkLdj yk{kkdkj] IAS efgyk /kEe egkik= 100-105
16. EkksgEen ;qlwQ dqjS’kh] IPS jk"Vª dh ,drk rFkk v[kaMrk efgykvksa ds lg;ksx ds fcuklaHko ugha gS
106-110
17. t; izdk’k ekS;Z jk"Vª dh ,drk ,oa v[k.Mrk efgykvksa ds lg;ksx ds fcuklEHko ugha
111-114
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Not Without Her
Shah Faesal
An important aspect of the gender-equality discourse is the advocacy
for enlargement of woman's role in every sphere of life. And as gender
equality becomes the rallying cry, more and more logic is poured into the
proposition that including women would not just serve the feminist objectives
but also add great vigor to our worldly and spiritual pursuits.
Before commenting on the role of women in promoting national
integration and communal harmony, two important things need to be taken
into consideration. One, we cannot deny the fact that the prevailing social,
economic and political circumstances the world over have made it inevitable
that more and more women come on the fore and make difference by their
contributions. Secondly, the role-played by women in strengthening the
bonds of national unity and peace building has assumed such significance
that reaching out to them has become unavoidable.
Parallel to the emergence of nation-states and rise of communalism,
growing relevance of socio-political imperatives like communal harmony and
national integration is axiomatic. In fact, we do not perhaps need to sail far
back into the history for fishing the names of famous-women who have
worked towards these imperatives, as is often done by the amateur essayist!
My focus shall primarily be the specific vulnerabilities as well as the
"comparative advantage" that women have compared to men in dealing with
communal clashes or other forms of violent conflict and furthering national
unity.
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It is a truism that women are the worst sufferers in all kinds of wars and
violence. Their victimization is both direct as well as indirect as they occupy
a pivotal position in the family structure. She suffers as a woman, as a wife,
as a mother, as a daughter and in the capacity of numerous other societal roles
that she plays. Noted researcher and author Gabriele Dietrich notes in his
book, "Some Reflections on the Women's Movement in India: Religion,
Ecology, and Development", that, “communal confrontations are normally
engineered by men. Women are often the primary victims, having to bear the brunt
of the communal violence, whether it is rape or loss of male members of the family.
On the whole women have rarely been active in communal riots and have a clear
interest in avoiding them". These observations are also seconded by the
findings of a study by USAID in Rwanda, Cambodia, Guatemala, EI
Salvador, Georgia, and Bosnia and Herzegovina. The study concludes that
there are five major impacts of intrastate conflict on women and gender
relations:
1) Violence against civilians, of which 95% is female;
2) Internal displacement, of which 90% is women and children;
3) Redefinition of female identities in the society, both as victims and as
perpetrators;
4) Increased poverty and starvation, as result of targeted destruction of civilian
property; and
5) Communal violence leading to lasting bitterness, anger and hatred. Being
an important stakeholder, every woman is thus naturally placed in a position
to suffer but also contribute towards alleviation of others' suffering.
I admit that it is not fair and scientific to type-cast men or women and
attribute certain traits or roles to them based on the traditional understanding.
But I have very little hesitation to assert that the war and violence has
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historically been associated with a perverse idea of masculinity and manhood.
On the contrary, women have not just acted as powerful buffers against the
belligerent tendencies of men but also catalyzed binding and reconciliation
between groups and communities.
As a mother who is responsible for upbringing of the child, every
woman ensures that a deep imprint of the societal value system on the
understanding of the child. It is in fact at this level perhaps where she is most
effective in propagating a society's idea of right and wrong, peace and
violence or unity and disintegration. Proper nurture and right education
enhances the possibility that the individual would add value to the society.
At the same time, in our culture the idea of nation as Maatra- Bhoomi
or motherland is in itself a pointer to the relationship between women and
national integration. A feeling of holiness that we associate with the soil of
our country on one hand and the slogan of Vande Mataram on the other, for
us a woman symbolizes the wholesome and complete notion of a compact
nation. Beauty is more about the whole than about fragments. Nothing but a
woman can be the best representation of that love and beauty which both
mother and motherland stand for. Nationalism is in fact an unconscious
projection of this very sentiment that makes "mother" the first word in our
childhood vocabulary.
Somewhere above I had made a mention of women being natural
"buffers" in a society. Their very presence in fact counts. They primarily give
an emotional perspective to functioning of a society. Building healthy
relationships between families and groups is largely dependent on the kind 'of
emotional inputs that come from the women, although I do not mean to say
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that "emotion" is a preserve of women or that men are bereft of it.
Literature, both of English and various Indian languages offers us many
interesting insights. Two points are particularly important. One, that if we have
to look at the novels on the horrors of partition, both male and female authors
have drawn a near parallel between tragedy of the times and personal tragedy
of women. Partition had both the elements of fission, a nation breaking into
two and extreme human tragedy due to displacement and communal violence.
Secondly, women-writers like Amrita Pritam, Asmat Chugtai chose women as
their central characters while narrating the evil consequences of partition. It is
this women-connection perhaps that has made it easier on us to imagine the
pitfalls of violence and strife. This contribution of women may not be obvious
but is certainly worth taking note.
In the similar vein, women have put in their share of efforts towards the
cause of national integration and communal harmony in other diverse ways
too. In the field of spirituality, a personality like Mata Amritanandmai who is
venerated across the length and breadth of the country is in herself a symbol of
national unity. Her message of love has been effective in bridging the
important north-south divide in the country. P T Usha, the Iron Lady of India
had similar impact on our understanding of the idea of India. Names like Anita
Desai, Arundhati Rai, Jhumpa Lahiri have time and again been giving us the
reasons to take pride on our Indian, identity. This emotion transcends all other
narrow loyalties that we usually have, those of region, religion, caste and
language etc. Barkha Dutt is also a story herself.
Then we cannot forget the women of courage and substance,like, Mohini
Giri, Teesta Stelvad, Madhu Kishwarwho have put their lives at stake for
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upholding the values of tolerance and brotherhood. Their role in post-riots
rehabilitation of victims of violence and championing the rights of women
across communities is truly exemplary. Likewise, singers like M S
Subbhalaxmi and Lata Mangeshkar have for decades been spreading the
message of compassion and stitching the nation into one whole.
Off-late the growing phenomenon of women self-help groups is
becoming the cause of a major change in the communities. Since most of these
SHGs are organized only around economic considerations irrespective of the
background of participants, SHGs are also emerging as institutional models; of
peaceful coexistence. Women in this manner are leading a slow revolution at
the grass-roots level in' creating a common ground and strengthening the forces
of cohesion.
My own experience during a Certificate Course in Conflict
Transformation for SAARC Emerging Youth Leaders, conducted last year in
Nepal by SIT Graduate Institute USA, is worth sharing as well. My interaction
with a significant number of women participants from across the SAARC
States was enough to conclude that across the region women are leading the
march for non-violence and peaceful existence. Mossarat Qadeem, member of
the Paiman Trust Pakistan has been active in North Waziristan for more than a
decade to create an alternative discourse to religious extremism and violence.
Sumshot Khullar from Manipur, a social activist working in the field of
education has taken to spreading the message of peace and national integration
through schools. Chhaya Sharma, head of an NGO in Nepal has been actively
pursuing the agenda of peace-building in the post conflict Nepal particularly
in wake re-integration of Maoists in Nepali mainstream. Similarly Kyatri
from Sri Lanka shared her own experience of working with communities in
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post-LTTE period, experiences that were quite encouraging.
Just a few days back Government of India appointed Prof. Radha
Kumar as one of the interlocutors on Kashmir. It is in itself an
acknowledgement of the new set of possibilities that a woman brings to the
table during the course of negotiations and reconciliation. These talks being
an important attempt towards the emotional integration of the Valley with
rest of the country.
It would be worthwhile to conclude with the thought that women are
by default well-suited to further the cause of communal harmony and
national integration. They are the binding threads between families and
communities and the spring of emotional cohesion. It is high time that the
phrase, "not without her" gets embedded into our commonsense and we
capitalize on the great interest and commitment that they have towards this
cause.
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Women the symbolism of kindness
RASHMITA PANDA
The original sin in the Garden of Eden's was that of woman's. She tasted the
forbidden fruit and tempted Adam to do so and has been suffering since then. In
genesis the Lord says," I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain
you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will
rule over thee". And since then woman is suffering...
This has been the description of woman in our religious mythology. Male
dominance not only has been a reality but has been institutionalized through our
epics, mores, morals and civilizations. When Sant Tulsi Das writes,
"Dholak, Gawar, Sudra, Pashu, Nari;Ye sab hai tadan ka adhiakri"
It means the great saint does not perceive woman in proper manner.
Examples abound from Manusmriti to the various Islamic scriptures, woman has
been a subdued species and male dominance is perceived as something of a great
glory and the "thing to be" for the smooth running of society. This skewed
projection of woman has dented the self-confidence of the fairer sex so much so
that it has been many centuries that woman has accepted domestic chore as her
fate. But the last fifty years has seen many woman right movements and many
allied events that has really put woman in a position to take important role in
things that are more important that the mere house hold chore. In the present
context of woman rights movements and the insurgent woman race, the present
topic of role of woman in national integration and communal harmony seems
pertinent.
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The present topic hover around four key words: Role, woman, National
integration and communal harmony. Let’s define each of the terms before
proceeding further. "Role" means some act or to take some action. "Woman" is the
symbolic representation of a certain section of the society. "National integration"
means the unification of diversified elements in a multi-cultural country like India.
And “communal harmony" refers to the harmonious and friendly relationship
between various religious communities. Though the definitions seem to be very
simplified ones, the existential connotations are very important. Here the word role
signifies to take some action; which indirectly means a certain group (stake holder)
has some action to perform, which is indispensable. It also hints to the fact that,
the particular group has been unable to perform that particular indispensable act till
now and its need has been felt more than anything before. "Woman" signifies a
certain in fact a major chunk of the society. This also means, woman has been a
neglected part of society which is basically male dominated. This also refers to the
call to a resurgent woman movement and their ever important role outside the
domestic stead. "National integration" has a contextual importance in the sense
that today our country has been facing a lot of secessionist movements. Though
there are not separatist in nature like the khalistan movement of yesteryears, still
lot of blood has been spilled on the Telengana movement and on the Kashmir
issue. India is basically a cultural pot-pourri. Various regions with various
languages and various cultures constitute what we call as Bharat. But in today's
world when expectations of different regions rise, there are chances of differences
between regions and that puts nation-hood into peril. So rebuilding and
refurbishing 'national integration' is the need of the hour for our country. Finally
“communal harmony" too has contextual significance because India is a country of
many religions. And there are as many incidents of communal tensions as there are
religions. The barbaric murder of Graham Steins or the Gujarat Riots or the stray
incidents of killing, communal tension has been wide spread in India. So
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"communal harmony" needs to be targeted by every level to make the Indian
society a thriving and living society. The present topic says Woman has a role to
play in building national integration and communal harmony. This signifies, the
topic establishes the fact that one should have an analysis in the following
directions:
1. What has been the role of woman as of now when concerned with the issues
of national integration and communal harmony?
2. What are the factors that prevented the woman to take active part in them?
3. Historical precedence of great women taking active part in those important
issues
4. What can be expected of today's woman with regard to these two issues?
Besides describing above four issues, it may be useful to describe the
importance of national integration and communal harmony in brief. A nation is a
country with a unified social and political structure. A nation denotes a body of
people who have a feeling of oneness. This feeling of oneness is built on the basis
of common culture. And this feeling of oneness binds them together into a nation.
This feeling of oneness is called the national integration. We may have different
languages, different cultures and different life styles, but we identify with a single
flag, a single national anthem and single nationality called Indian. This unity in all
diversity is the characteristics of our national brotherhood otherwise known as
national integration.
Historically, the whole of India has never been a nation. The first attempt
towards national integration was done by King Ashoka, when he militarily
conquered the most part of India and tried to establish a common rule, common
religious procedure (tolerance specific) all over his kingdom. Here point to be
noted that, mere military victory does not build nation hood. Military victory
should be followed by the unification of cultures, customs and hearts of all those
who come together. And it is this aspect where the later rulers have failed. Even
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during Mughal time there is no nation hood, because the conquest of India was
primarily by military and secondly the administrative system of Mughals were
more helpful for creating small fiefs inside the empire, thereby causing regional
localized powerhouses which during the time of later Mughals acted as splinter
groups. The second attempt to build a nation out of a society was undertaken by
Sri Shankaracharya when he embarked on a journey for the religious unification of
the country. He has opened the Maths at four corners of India e.g. puri in the east,
Jyotirmath in the north, Dwaraka in the West and Sringeri in the east. This
provided a new way of unifying the country and there by strengthening national
integration. Then on 1947 August is" when we got independence we tried to
strengthen our national integration but various problems have made it difficult to
achieve it. The problem of partition, followed by North- south divide, anti-Hindi
campaign, the cessationist demands etc have made national integration a difficult
thing to achieve. However, we have thrived for half a century in a very peaceful
way. The nation building is in the process. In this process of nation building
woman should play the equal role that man should play.
"Communal harmony is the basic building block of our country" so says the
Dr. Manmohan Singh. India is a land of various religious communities. Nation will
progress if there is friendly and co-operative relation between the various religious
communities. Unfortunately we have seen many instances of communal violence
in past few years. Sometimes they put a question mark on the democratic set up of
the country itself. Not only these events are a waste of human and material
resources, but also dent the reputation of the country in the world forum. The later
has a huge amount of economic and trade related repercussions. So under these
circumstances, building good will among the various communities and creating a
sense of mutual respect among them for harmonious and friendly co- existence is
the paramount need of the hour today. Hence building communal harmony in India
is one of the most important issues that need to be catered to.
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Now let’s examine the issues that we have already pointed out.
What has been the role of woman as of now when concerned with the issues ofnational integration and communal harmony?
India has been a male dominated society. The woman in India finds her
place basically in the domestic stead. Though the situation has changed a lot in the
past few years especially after the woman rights movement of late seventies, the
basic cultural acceptance to woman as equal to man has not been achieved. The
glaring example is the delay in acceptance of the woman's bill by the parliament.
Not only this, many incidences, like dowry death, murder in suspicion of witch
craft, rape, gang rape etc, domestic violence etc are the examples that show, Indian
society still has to go a long way in accepting woman as equal to man in all
respects.
The women of India are so engrossed in the domestic activities that, an
average woman hardly knows anything about issues like national integration and
communal harmony. Secondly, the level of education and awareness is very less
amongst women, especially those in the villages. Thirdly, there is less opportunity
and less scope for woman for self realization. Even today, girls are made to drop
out from school, so that the son can go to school. The fourth reason is prevalent
poverty and population pressure. Finally, the culture is not very accommodative to
it. Despite the fact, we can't say the woman had showed great examples in building
up national integration; there are some examples of great social workers like Tulsi
Munda, Medha Patkar etc and Sarala Devi, Rama Devi Malati Chowdhury etc
have dedicated their lives for building a new nation. So woman representation in
such activities though very negligible, there are still examples that woman leaders
have done a lot of things which had wider impacts in building a nation.
What are the factors that prevented the woman to take active part in them?
There are many factors that have prevented the woman to take part in
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national issues like national integration and communal harmony. Some of the
factors are poverty, illiteracy, lack of awareness etc. Besides, male dominance and
low level of cultural capital amongst woman is also a reason for the lower
participation of woman in nation building activities. There is another issue that
plagues the woman folk of this country. Despite the reservation in the grass root
politics, woman empowerment has been very little achieved. Many PRI bodies
which have woman reserved for the sarapanch are basically run by the male
members of the elected representative. The proxy rule by male members of the
elected representative makes grass root woman empowerment a farce. Besides the
above reasons, many cultural and social inhibitions prevent woman to come to the
front to take part actively in greater issues like 'national integration and building
communal harmony' that our society faces.
Historical precedence of great women taking active part in those importantissues
All the time we talk about cultural and social inhibitions of woman to come
outside the household and take part in greater social causes. But this does not
mean, we don't have any examples of woman leaders who have made exemplary
contributions to greater social causes, be it national integration or fighting with
social evils.
What can be expected of today's woman with regard to these two issues?
Communal harmony and national integration may look like very high
flowing words but they are very practical in nature and achieving unity and
harmony and upholding the secular values are not mere academic questions only,
rather they are essential for the very survival of the country. The task of achieving
integration and communal harmony is not the task of the government only; it is the
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responsibility of every citizen of the country. Women constitute almost 50 percent
of the population and hence the role of woman in achieving them cannot be
ignored. Their participation in building national integration is as vital as their male
counterpart and the government.
Let's examine how women can contribute to building national integration
and communal harmony. The role of woman can be broadly classifiedinto:
1. Cultural perspective2. Social perspective3. Valuational perspective
1. Cultural perspective
In Indian social fabric the women are the real custodians of cultural under-
current. Hence it may be viewed that they can play an important role, from cultural
angle, to building and upholding national integration. The primary role of woman
is that of a mother. As a mother she can transfer the high morals of unity, universal
brotherhood to her children. It is a wide known fact that what a child learns in his
early days puts a lasting impression on his mind. So in this manner primary
socialization can be helpful in building good citizen of future with outlook
conducive for the building ideal social fabric. Napoleon has remarked, "The hand
that rocks the cradle rules the world". So the role of a mother in the early
socialization of children is indispensable. Many great man including Jawaharlal
Nehru, Mahatma Gandhi have acknowledged the primary education they received
from their mothers that had helped them to become man of high morals.
2. Social perspective
Family is the basic unit of Indian society. It is most widely recognized that
the family is the miniature of society. Thus, the values promoted and nurtured in
the familial setting are reflected in the society. If the family disintegrates, society
also disintegrates. Integration of the society and integration of the family are
interdependent. One cannot exist without the other. It will not be an over statement
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if we say the integration of society is rooted in the integration of the family.
Woman in the family as a mother symbolizes unity and harmony. She can bridge
the gap between children and society. She can inculcate social values like mutual
adjustment, mutual respect, mutual dependence, mutual understanding, mutual
tolerance and brotherhood, self sacrifice, love and affection. These are not
basically the cultural traits but behavioral elements that are necessary to build a
healthy society.
3. Woman as the home maker:
The role of woman as the home maker can never be over emphasized. In a
joint household, the onus is on the woman to care for all, without any partiality.
For example, while serving food, a proper decorum is followed in traditional
families. This shows respect, protocol, avoidance, caring, mutual understanding
etc. These small values are essential in building a good and vibrant social life.
Society is nothing but one big family. So as the woman is the house maker, she
can be a good society builder too.
4. Woman: the symbolism of kindness
Basically the women folk are kind hearted. The society has many problems
which needs a sympathetic look to resolve them. Man may be very strong decision
makers and ruthless while implementing a decision, but it is the woman who can
view any issue in a sympathetic manner through heart and soul. For example, a
woman social worker can better understand the plight of a riot victim than her
male counterpart. And national integration is such a theme that cannot be
exogenously imposed upon. It should come from within. It should ring at the heart
first. To make it happen, we need to build awareness. Woman can play a major
role in building this awareness. Woman has an uncanny ability to relate practical
aspects to ideals. This can make them a better social awareness creator.
Secondly, as said earlier, almost 50% of the population is woman in our
country. National integration is not gender specific. So when we talk about
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national integration or communal harmony we cannot ignore the woman populace.
Andin a male dominated society like ours, who can better understand the plight of
woman, than woman herself? So in this regard also the role of woman is very
important.
From the above discussions it is clear that the role of woman in building a
healthy society with communal harmony and national integrity is essential. But
how this can be achieved when the condition of woman in India is too deplorable?
The only answer to it is empowerment of woman with all respects. Empowerment
means: economic empowerment, political empowerment and social empowerment.
Economic empowerment is the corner stone of any real empowerment of
woman. It can be exogenously imparted. Many government policies like
MNREGA, NRLEM (SGSY) has helped lots of woman in villages to become self
sufficient to some extent. Various skill building measures by government has also
helped woman to become self sufficient. However economic self sufficiency will
really usher when the co-operative movement and self help group movement
makes real inroads in the rural woman.
Economic empowerment gives way to political empowerment. Today, more
than before, woman are politically aware. Various legislations like the reservation
in PRI bodies have helped to build woman leaders. Thanks to the relentless work
of many social workers and NGOs, women are being aware of their rights and they
are politically channelized. When there is political mobilization there will be
greater participation of woman in the society which is different and outside the
house hold. Like economic empowerment, political empowerment also can be
imparted exogenously.
However, the most important thing is social empowerment. It means being
aware, being proactive, having self realization, having been self confident and
conscious. This can happen thorough education. This can’t be externally induced;
it has to come from within. When women become empowered economically,
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politically and socially we can say they are truly empowered. A truly empowered
woman has the self knowledge and self esteem to take decision that has wide
spread focus and importance.
India has been picturized as the "mother India". The very Indianess is
womanhood divinized. Long lost has been the race that we call as the woman. Let
them allow to take the onus of building the national integrity and harmonious
relation between the various religious communities. In Sanskrit there is an apt
statement:
"Yatra narjyastu pujyante, Ramante tatra Devata"
Wherever women are worshipped, the Gods reside. Let the woman walk
shoulder in shoulder with man to spread national integrity and communal
harmony.
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The hand that rocks the cradle saves the world
ANURAG CHAUDHARY
“The hand that rocks the cradle saves the world….”
After years of struggle and hard work, India is finally on the threshold of an
economic take-off and a global presence. The world looks at India with admiration
because this is the only developing country that has pursued development within
the framework of a democracy – a pluralistic, secular democracy. In this context it
is very essential to maintain Communal Harmony and National Integration. And
among many other stakeholders role of women is very important. Therefore it is
imperative to discuss about Role of Women in creating Communal Harmony &
National Integration.
The disruption of Communal harmony and National Integration depends on
many factors. The division can express itself along religious, economic, political,
caste or colour lines. Whatever be the form, insecurity is perhaps the major cause
of individual and social dissensions. Mahatma Gandhi famously remarked that a
person who is integrated and sure of himself fears none and consequently provokes
no fear.
The solution to impediments to National Integration and Communal
Harmony involves two aspects, material and cognitive. Material aspect can be
taken care of by providing redressal to their physical, material and economic
problems. However the cognitive aspect requires greater attention as it is the major
cause of insecurity and conflict. And this requires both emphasis on awareness,
education and movement towards eradication of divisive forces.
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Initial Socialisation
An important part of a person’s personality is shaped during his childhood.
Here role of mother in shaping up a child’s personality is very important. The
process of raising the child, instilling basic values and approach towards life is
largely shaped by the mothering role. In order to have basic values like rationality,
humanism and tolerance since the birth of an individual, the role of women as
mother assumes significance.
There is no surprise that all important personalities like Mahatma Gandhi,
Martin Luther King have been to a large degree influenced by their mothers. This
way it just shows the power behind the role of women in bringing about a change
and shift from the divisive lines. The religious and moral instructions, through
fostering common values if given properly to the children in the family, can play a
vital role in bringing about national integration. It is wrong to conceive, that
religion can’t ever play a positive role in national integration. What is viewed here
is that the imparting of religious values is not done in the right way.
Capacity Building and participation
Recently a study by Jyothi S. Nair covered serious communal conflict in
Marad in Kerala. This study seeks to analyze how far the mobilization of women
through Self Help Groups (SHGs) has withstood the turbulences of communalism
in Marad. The major finding of this paper is that social capital is an effective
instrument for maintaining communal harmony. The author suggests that the civil
society and Local Self Government Institutions should join hands together for
encouraging the women to form SHGs which are inter-religious in nature to build a
harmonious society.
However there are many problems like women who constitute nearly 50% of
the population are poorly represented in legislatures. There were many more
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outstanding women leaders and workers in the Congress party at all levels during
the freedom movement than there are at present in all parties put together. But as
politics became more centralized as well as criminalized, thus undermining all
other institutions of civil society, women were pushed out of leadership positions
to function on the margins, usually relegated to the domain of social work at the
local level. Even that tradition eroded from the 1970’ onwards.
Given these problems of representation in our parliamentary democracy, we
need to evolve methods to enhance women’s representation, promote equitable
representation and encourage honest dealings across groups and in coalitions. We
also need to promote an electoral system which penalizes local electoral
malpractices and gives incentive for broadening of appeal across groups. Let us
closely examine some of the reform proposals.
Persuasive and Cultural Role
Gandhi had visualized a great role for women in eradicating the evil of
communalism. His appeal to women was to refuse to cook, and to starve
themselves in protest so long as their men “do not wash their hand of these dirty
communal squabbles’. Gandhi’s appeal reached women everywhere in India. He
expected great things from them in the areas of work concerning purity of life,
removal of untouchability, propagation of Khadi Communal harmony and
Swadeshi. His logic was simple: “If Kaikeyi could obtain all that she wanted from
Dashrath by dint of Duragraha, what could they not achieve with the help of
Satyagraha?”
Social Capital
There is a need to understand the social mobilization of women through
SHGs. And the social capital created by them act as an alternative in ensuring
communal harmony. The women constitute half of the population. They along with
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their numbers and network of relationships can play a very important role to
mobilize people and thereafter channelize their energies to counter the divisive
forces that threaten to disrupt communal harmony and National Integration.
Women’s Movements
Even before the independence there have been movements of women which
have vociferously worked towards cause of women. Also they worked hard to
promote harmony in the society. The social reformers like Pandita Rambai or
leaders like Sarojini Naidu have championed the cause of peace and non-violence.
There have been many instances when these women reformers went through
difficult times to make their point and if needed, resorted to agitation and
picketing.
Gandhi had tremendous faith in women’s inherent capacity for non-violence.
His experience of participation by women in politics from his days in South Africa
till the end of his life bears testimony to the fact that they never failed his
expectations. With Gandhi’s inspiration, they took the struggle right into their
homes and raised it to a moral level. Women organized public meetings, sold
Khadi and prescribed literature, started picketing shops of liquor and foreign
goods, prepared contraband salt, and came forward to face all sorts of atrocities,
including inhuman treatment by police officers and imprisonment. They came
forward to give all that they had – their wealth and strength, their jewellery and
belongings, their skills and labour- all with sacrifices for this unusual and
unprecedented struggle.
Historical Contexts
History is full of many examples where women have played a pivotal role to
bring about peace and harmony. The story of Rani Karnavati sending Rakhi to
Mughal Emperor Humayun is well known. Here the latter saved the honour of the
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Rani Karnavati. Apart from this many kings like Akbar have entered into marital
alliances with women from other religion to have balance in society.
Modern Day Roles
Today women in increasing number are occupying key roles like
administrators, Police Officers, Politicians, Social Activists which are key roles in
society that help in maintaining communal harmony and National Integration.
Today women officers like Kiran Bedi, activists like Medha Patekar, Arundhati
Roy, Teesta Setalvad, politicians like Brinda Karat, Mayawati and Sonia Gandhi
hold very important positions and have played a key role in ensuring peace and
stability and if needed bringing culprits to justice.
Teesta Setalvad has led a crusade against the rioters in Gujarat and
elsewhere, similarly police officers like Kiran Bedi have tacked many such
instances, and politicians like Sonia Gandhi, Mamta Banerji and Brinda Karat have
ensured that the epidemic of violence and hatred is ended.
Recently women are joining army and Para-military forces in large numbers.
This will go a long way in ensuing the cause for communal harmony and National
Integration.
A tough road ahead
Recently there have been many instances where peace and harmony has
been broken. There is a rise of religious right, fundamentalist forces, left violence,
caste violence and honour killings. And most importantly they affect women more
adversely as they are more vulnerable to them.
The recent killing in Haryana, Western Uttar Pradesh, some parts of Punjab
and Haryana show the low status of women. Similarly there is concern about very
low awareness and literacy levels among many vulnerable sections of women. Like
tribal’s, SCs and STs. Further there is absence of mobilization in women especially
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in BIMARU states. For example absence of real participation in politics especially
at Panchayat level.
The signs of Hope
However, there are many signs of hope, with demands for increasing
representation of women in legislatures, in services, in armed forces and other
important roles. Today’s women are more confident and aware and this wave is
getting broader day by day. With this, the journey of bringing peace, communal
harmony and National Integration is still going on. And with this it is increasing
hope that the increasing role of women reinforces India’s pluralistic and secular
credentials and result in development of spirit of tolerance.
Finally
We may be able to control the divisive forces and reduce tensions to an
extent through law and force. It is, however, wrong to view that these potential
dangers can ever be eliminated. For countering these evil forces, we will have to
energies our efforts and women who constitute almost half of the population can
really play a predominant role in building up character and fostering common
values in the children at home. Here, there is a need for voluntary women’s
organizations who can educate the society by organizing demonstrations, informal
classroom lectures, picture-shows, plays and so on.
The participation of these organizations can make an attempt to transform
the people’s attitudes through a process of mutual love and understanding and by
taking positive steps towards channelizing the energies. A continuous process of
the development of character is a requisite to a sound growth of national
integration. All the inventions of law will be frustrated if they are not accompanied
by people of sound character and judgment.
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The task of fulfilling unity and harmony cannot be sole responsibility of the
government, but more than anything else it is the people who have to safeguard of
interests of the nation as well as their own. Women constitute almost fifty percent
of total population. Therefore, it should be recognized that women cannot be
ignored, their participation in building up national integration is as much vital as
that of the government.
The unity and integration achieved can in turn contribute its own share to the
peace and well-being of the whole humanity. This is not a far-fetching idea, but
can be made into reality if we have will-power and wisdom.
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There is an urgent need to realize the role of women in maintainingCommunal Harmony and National Integration
SUMAN RAWAT
"Consider the flowers in the garden: though differing in theirkind, color, form and shape, yet...this diversity increaseth itscharm, and addeth to their beauty."
-Bahallulah, founder of Bahai
Communal harmony is not just an indispensable element for an effective
national integration but also is a quintessential of a healthy society. Though the
diversity of our land has added flavor to the country called India, it has also
created fissures in the form of various malaises like communal disharmony. The
debilitating effects of communal disharmony, has infested our nation time and
again and has revisited with greater force each time. It not only paralyzes the entire
system, but at the same. time reigns in conflicts that get deeply entrenched in the
minds of men and scars their souls. The question of communal harmony has thus
acquired exceeding importance today and evokes a unilateral acceptance. A sense
of communal harmony can only be sought accepted, when there is a realization. on
the part of every man of an underlining and abiding commonality over and above
the diversity that differentiates.
National Foundation for Communal Harmony with its motto of "We all are
one, We are all Indians", attempts to furnish that element of commonality that is
expected to act as a binding force against the divisive forces. Its main objectives
are to provide rehabilitation to the victims of communal, caste and ethnic violence.
It also promotes communal harmony, fraternity and national integration.
Communal harmony can’t be achieved unless the sense of underlying
commonality is shared by mankind as a whole: and that means accepted by men
and women alike. It's been for centuries that the women had been bearing the
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unnoticed brunt of the communal violence which has witnessed active
participation of the men. Under the fold of communal suffering women find their
share aggravated with issues pertaining to domestic violence, their already scant
rights eroded. Communal violence also puts at stake social equity and justice and
in some sense eclipses the social awakening essential for national integration.
While the attempts of some men in maintaining and upholding communal
harmony can’t be underscored, there is an urgent need to realize the role of women
in maintaining communal harmony and in turn, the national integration. Women
with the catching themes of women empowerment have a larger and eloquent role
to play in the dynamics of the society. Thus it wouldn't be a futile exercise to
evaluate arid appreciate the role of women in maintaining this critical balance that
is the need of the society. Towards this we need to first appreciate what is that role
that is wanting from the side of women in achieving this aim, and how this role is
of indispensable importance vis-a-vis men. However, this cannot be done
singularly without exploring the theme of communal violence, how it ensues and
the remedial measures for the same.
The recent Ayodhya verdict was mired with a fear of erupting communal
violence. There was an intermittent threat that the verdict might take the two
communities by storm and communal violence will once again raise its ugly head
and spread its dangerous tentacles. However, the efforts and wisdom of some
noble elements of the country was successful in ensuring that the communal
harmony was not toppled and the verdict doesn’t affect the sensitive relation
between the communities. Towards this, a remarkable role was played by women,
which found mention in the leading newspapers and a million hearts.
Calling for peace and communal harmony ahead of the Ayodhya verdict,
women from different parts of the country came together for a day-long
programme of symbolic cultural activities under the banner of “Hum Aman” here
on Thursday.
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The event was organized by the Act Now for Harmony and Democracy
(ANHAD). Explaining the rationale of the programme, ANHAD member
Shabnam Hasmi said: “this gathering of women artists and performers is a
response to the agenda of hatred and violence which is being spread in the run-up
to the Ayodhya verdict”.
“The need for political participation of women is also being reinforced
through the event. Women are the worst sufferers of many conflicts but they do
understand the meaning of lasting peace and communal harmony.”
- The Hindu, Friday, September 24, 2010
This is only one of the many eloquent role that women have been playing in
maintaining communal harmony and national integration; there are a million silent
roles that a women plays to uphold these values on everyday basis. These silent
roles stand in need of recognition as well as encouragement to bring about an order
of peace and harmony. The mental and physical contact of women to the society
and thus to a country is profound but unaccounted.
Woman is endowed with certain natural traits of love, affection,
benevolence, adjustability, adaptability, integrity and forgivingness. She is an
embodiment of tolerance and empathy. She has, since centuries, been catering to
the evolution of family and larger life without expecting any returns. Every now
and then, rising from the domestic drudgery, she has registered her contribution in
many spheres like political, national, economic, and social. However, this
remained without an expectation of any returns. It is these qualities of women that
the society can capitalize upon in order to usher a new era marked by a meaningful
unity, integrity and harmony. In context specifically of communal harmony, her
role can be enhanced by doubling these natural potencies of her with adequate
empowerment and push that she essentially need.
To understand how a woman will be able to contribute, and to appreciate
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how she has been contributing to maintaining communal harmony, let us examine
why there is an urgent need for communal harmony and why there has been this
chain of persistent communal hatred.
It is a known fact that women have better informal relations and grapevine
contacts. When a case of communal harmony is registered, the women are seen
only behind the doors, with a suppressed voice. Given a chance of a more positive
role, they might perhaps be able to neutralize the aftermath or even the occurrence
of the communal violence by engaging in a fruitful dialogue with their male
counterparts, who might be the active participants of the actual crime. Even by the
conventional wisdom if she is allowed to be truly duty bound to her husband, she
can make a considerable difference in the approach of her husband post
sensitization against such violence. Women have played significant roles in
various movements of importance like the national movements, the environmental
movements (chipko movements et' al), animal rights campaigns, drug de-addiction
campaigns, self help group movements etc. The kind of pressure that women
groups can exert can have same force that Gandhi had in terms of the Indian
National movement. Their soft power cannot be underestimated and devalued.
Now let's extrapolate the various roles that women are capable of playing
and see how they can be utilized to bring about communal harmony and national
integration:
Traditional role of women: traditionally the role of women is confined to the
domestic drudgery. However, it's a significant role if is evaluated in right light. As
a homemaker, and with powerful education, women can bring about a significant
change in the .attitude of the family members towards the issue. It is however
important, pertaining to this, that her voice at home does carry an essential and
well deserved weightage. Even in utterly communal homes, women can play a
major role in sensitizing her children to steer clear of such detrimental attitude
and minimize the contribution of such families to further grievous communal
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harms (be in words or actions)
Political role: politically women in most part of the world don't have' an equal
share as far as their rights and duties are concerned. If accorded the right element
4 equality in the political sphere, women can bring about a revolutionary change
in the way our political decisions are taken. Their inherent traits and tastes for
tolerance and benevolence, can make communal hatred, perhaps a thing of past.
Women have already been playing a significant role of bringing about integration
and harmony through PRl's and the same would be evident if similar opportunities
will be given to them in other spheres.
Economic role: it is a recognized fact that despite having no real income of their
own, in most cases, women have still been great financial managers at home. This
economic acumen that comes naturally to them can be extended and honed to
avert communal arson and disintegrating tendencies. She can be trained to guide
and ensure that resources available or going in the use of these negative intentions
can be choked and invested in right direction.
Role in education and social Development: Women can emerge as victories
votaries and champions of the right education and social development in most
cases aren’t they already are?). Education is a powerful and a catalytic factor that
has ensured improvement in the life of women as well as society. Many
researches show a positive correlation between educational enrolment rates of
girls and GNP per capital (Karl, 1995). The accessibility of education to women
has been successful to nurturing the very social fabric of our society. Communal
harmony especially has received a definitive boost with the participation of more
educated women in the civil society movements.“AMAN KI ASHA”, a campaign
to usher a new harmonious understanding between India and Pakistan has a major
contribution from the educated women from both sides of the border. Educated
women in engage in a positive dialogues regarding these sensitive issues while
many might not find time to hold it any important on the face of entrenched
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communal hatred.
Role in work-force participation: as we also noted above in the Hindu news
report, women can play a crucial role in neutralizing communal hatred by their
active workforce participation. More interaction among women via work force
participation has a clearly positive advantage of bringing them near to the issues
and their seeking of remedial measures. When women work together, their sense
of maturity in most cases is better than their male counterparts. Their presence
today in various sectors, have witnessed efforts to bring about more tolerant and
affectionate environment. When they are at helm of affairs, their policies appear
to be more inclusive, caring and thus beneficial.
Role in art and culture: art and culture are absolutely incomplete without
women. At the same time art and culture are the most potent forms to bring about
a common understanding of communal harmony. These two ingredients when
coupled produce a most potent form of weapon against communal hatred. Various
art and culture festivals have been used through ages to maintain and showcase
the importance of harmony and national integration. Women thorough history and
in current times are playing a significant role to share this awareness of the
importance of these principles through their various art forms. Festivals like
ANANYA (Delhi) etc., are extensively been used by women to explain the subtle
nuances of the harmonious existence through expressive fields.
Role in Media: women are actively been ‘used’ in media campaigns towards
various ends. Though this has always been perceived as derogatory and also of
pejorative value by the feminists, however, if we look at the other side of the coin,
it emerges that in all these efforts lies a common understanding of the strength of
a woman as pertains her appeal to the masses. This can actually be exploited
positively in active campaigns for communal harmony and national integration.
Certainly women are ‘seen more’ if not ‘heard more’. And if this aspect can be
utilized for a positive purpose, what harm can it possibly incur, which can be
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worse than communal violence. Definitely this argument is at the cost of
displeasing many feminists, Kantians and Gandhians. However its value can be
appreciated from a utilitarian perspective.
Mahatma Gandhi in his book, “Way to Communal Harmony “outlines
several causes of communal disturbances like ‘specific or immediate cause’s,
‘psychology of fear’, ‘distrust’, tiredness of non-violence’, ‘propaganda of
vilification’, ‘the third party’ etc. Observing all these causes closely, one can
easily notice that there is not even one of these factors, which cannot be
successfully dealt by women barring the specific or the most immediate cause
(which is extreme).Women can negotiate the psychology of fear, create conditions
to neutralize distrust and bring about conditions of love and trust, can be active
champions of non-violence (rather they already are in themselves, but need to
extend their boughs), can curb attempts of vilification, and can also engage in
active dialogue with the third party interferences.
Gandhi in the same book also outlines certain measures to bring about
communal harmony. He talks about, ‘common interests’, ‘arbitration: key to
solution’, ‘mutual tolerance’, ‘the unitary method’, ‘pacts’, ‘inter-dining and
intermarriages’, ‘oneness of costume’, ‘the vow of unity’, ‘the meaning of unity’,
‘work of unity’ etc. Even in these, women can play a pivotal role. The notion of
common interest cannot be better explained but at home. Though we have various
organizations that uphold the values of commonality, a person who receives ‘such
values’ at home, seems to appreciate it better, and in this role of women is
indispensable.
Women are not only potent but convincing arbitrators. In many walks of life
they have proved this forte of theirs and this can be significantly obtained in the
sphere of maintaining communal harmony, if called for. As far as- mutual
tolerance is concerned, this is a trait which, as we already observed, comes
naturally; to a women. This natural disposition, if finds congenial support at the
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desired platforms can certainly pull in communal harmony and national
integration. The unitary methods and pacts will be more inclusive and
comprehensive if negotiated by women. Inter-dining is not so much of an issue in
the current scenario as it might be at Gandhi’s time. However, there might be
certain communities where it is still a taboo, and women with their informal
grapevine communication networks can certainly tackle these obstacles and bring
about more cohesive and harmonious social order. With more and more education
and emancipation, women are now able to marry in other castes and communities,
acting as a bridge between two cultures and communities. Such family bonds, ones
formed and accepted can become the strength to join two communities and work
out their dynamics in positive synergy. Women have been cornerstone of
maintaining customs and values of the society. These values can be synchronized
consciously towards the aim of achieving national integration and communal
harmony.
Thus the role of women in maintaining communal harmony and national
integration cannot be underestimated, There is an urgent need to acknowledge
and encourage this role in order to usher an era marked by harmonious existence
between various communities, religions and nations.
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The Power of Women is Unlimited
Durga Sakthi Nagpal
Since the evolution of mankind, creating communal harmony and
national integration has been at the core of all societies and civilizations.
Most civilizations have had within their fold people belonging to different
religions and sects and yet largely been living in harmony. It is also a fact of
history that many conflicts within given societies and different nations have
been fueled and fought on communal and religious differences. In the midst
of the history of conflict, harmony and peace, scale weighs much heavily
allthe side of the latter. It is because man by nature, as Aristotle said, is a
social animal. Without the collective cooperation, man can neither survive,
not can he enrich his personal growth and continue to contribute to larger
social good. The larger social and overall development of a nation can only
flow from a peaceful, healthy, and mutually respecting society and its
different constituents. As it is often said, that national development and
national integration require preexistence of social peace and harmony. It
would be seen that most developed societies which have emerged as
integrated units enjoy better contribute to overall prosperity and development
of the societies.
It is, however, unfortunate that Nobel concepts and goals of social harmony,
of secularism, and wholesome inclusive growth of a nation as an integrated
unit, frequently get mined into political controversies, in diverse, developing
societies like India.
Communal harmony, in simple terms, can be thought of existence of peace
among different communities. Peace does not mean mere absence of conflict.
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It means the mutual coexistence of varying thoughts, beliefs and ideologies.
In this perspective, it is to be kept in mind that conflict does not only come
from artificial border and stereotypes created between man to man, but from
within our minds.
National integration, on other hand, is a larger goal usually thought in terms of
social, educational and psychological well being among various communities.
It becomes achievable through the medium of communal harmony, especially
in societies that are multicultural, multi linguistic and diverse. It has been long
realized that achieving this larger goal is not possible with the efforts of a
single community or nation. It is an endeavor that requires multi pronged
approach scaling from individual measures to collective wisdom to global
efforts.
There are indeed large number of factors that influence the process of
communal harmony and national integration as essential ingredients in the
growth of a successful and prosperous nation. The present essay plays a
central focus on the role of women in this process. However, this focused
attention on women does not exclude importance of other equal and even
more important factors.
Women, traditionally seen to be the weaker sex, and left subservient, secluded
and uneducated, have in the past been at the receiving end of communal tensions
and threats to national integrity. However, with the turn of the century, the
greater role of women in contributing to the larger goal developing and
sustaining peace, communal harmony and national integration is being
acknowledged, appreciated and fruitfully realized. Women are now more
articulate, educated, and active in professions and public life. Quoting from
the Bible, Josephine St. Pierre Ruffin describes woman's movement as “a
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movement that is led and directed by women for the good of women and men,
for the benefit of all humanity. It means women coming to the front, willing to
join any others in the same work and inviting others to join us." It further
needs to be underlined that the entire humanity bears responsibility for
furthering these goals.
Mrs. India Gandhi, late Prime Minister of India, while addressing in, a
women's college in Delhi, had cited a Sanskrit saying, "Women is the home,
and home is the basis of society. If home is inadequate either materially or
psychologically, then that country cannot have harmony. And any nation
which does not have harmony cannot grow in any direction at all."
A woman, with her innate nature as mother and socio-biological make up,
can and do contribute in more meaningful and concrete terms to promote
communal harmony. Yet it has been seen that women are the worst sufferers
of any form of violence. With their limitations of restricted mobility and
preconceived cultural notions causing them perennial hurt, no one can
w1derstand better than the real meaning of lasting harmony and integrity.
And when enterprising and caring women get actively involved in
community work, the result is a set of values of assimilation, tradition,
revival and reform, and creative cultural process which work as a great force
for social change and national integration. Their motivation vis-a-vis men
comes from' the fact that their consciousness is shaped by their experiences
with the society and the strong desire to secure more inclusive future for
their family and children by combating discrimination.
Role of women in creating communal harmony can be seen as an extension
of her role as a family member. Just like she binds the members of the family
together, she does so outside home. Working in factories, unions, jails,
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schools, banks, hospitals, etc, a woman strengthens integration and
interdependence of community institutions. In traditional, developing
societies, where the woman is expected to leave her paternal home after
marriage and adopt the nomenclatures, values and lifestyle of her in-laws,
she the natural skill and ability to shoulder the responsibility of maintaining
peace. She automatically develops among her students the patience and
sensitivity to appreciate and live together the differences in the society.
Women also play a definite role in breaking of prejudices and stereotypes_
that greatly hamper national integrity. It is seen and widely recognized that a
woman naturally mingles with women folk, unbattered by the issues of their
skin color and socioeconomic status. By demonstrating that she, irrespective
of her religion, region, language or caste, has an equal role in development
and access to physical and economic resources, she is slowly wiping out the
lines that demarcate communities. Women are playing an invisible as well as
a visible role in preventing societies from being fragmented into narrow
domestic walls.
Women-based international organizations such a UNIFEM (United Nations
Development Fund for Women) and Oxfam International are playing a
consistent role in ending discriminations and prejudices to humanitarian
emergency in Pakistan. It worked to ensure that gender were fully integrated
into relief and recovery operations in Pakistan, following the floods that have
affected the lives and livelihoods of millions of people.
India, often described as Bharat Mata, embodies the spirit of womanhood in
true terms. Being a land of numerous religions and traditions, it continues to
thrive with minimal, otherwise inevitable, conflicts. With increasing pace,
this is being attributed to the reservoir of talent existing in half the humanity
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i.e. the role of women at all levels. As early as the British rule in India
witnessed emerging unity among Hindu, Muslim and Christian women
fighting against sati, purdah, polygamy, child marriage, female foeticide and
advocating setting up of schools, orphanages and widows' homes. Their
movement resulted in. greater harmony irrespective of caste, class religion. It
heralded a process of liberalism in religions and paved the way for the
making of a nation.
A prominent is being played by Non-Governmental Organisations (NGOs)
and Self-Help Groups (SHGs). A shining example is the NGO SEW A (Self
Employed Women's Association in Gujarat. It has been actively involved in
maintaining communal harmony by providing opportunities of employment,
social interaction and 'full livelihood' among women in the poverty stricken,
caste and religious driven districts of Gujarat. Such endeavors have helped
creating sense of equality and dignity of woman labor in traditional
communities - which have for long perpetuated gender barriers and
prejudices to the detriment of national integration. The SEW A movement
has fast gathered momentum and spread to various districts of the country,
thereby promoting spirit of national integration. Also, massive participation
of women in social audit of National Rural Employment Guarantee Scheme
(NREGS) led. By Aruna Roy has lent new meaning to the entire program.
From being a uni-dimensional employment and livelihood generation
program, it has gained multiple dimensions under the leadership of women
ensuring greater overall productivity, peace, health, gender respect, family
and communal harmony etc. Similarly, other- movements and SHGs like
Chuppi Todo-Break Silence, which is a mobile literacy campaign run by
women in Jharkhand is empowering tribal communities and bringing them to
mainstream by spreading awareness on their rights and providing means to
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get them enforced, thus embarking on a vital process of the nation's survival,
growth and advancement.
It may appear amusing how a local, concerted effort by women to stop liquor
sale in certain rural setting of India became harbinger of lasting social
changes. The male members, husband, son, brothers and other seniors, in a
village of Rajasthan were addicted to alcohol consumption. The women folk
decided to fight this menace by ‘gheraoing' shops, thereby ensuring their
closure. The Movement inspired more women, other areas. Thus awakened
women in an effort to save their families brought about long term changes in
male dominant social psyche, great familial and communal harmony, and
unity of purpose in the women coming from different sects and sections.
In a recent crucial national context of growing tension in the country due to
the anticipated Ram Janambhommi-Babri Masjid judgment, women artists
from various traditions and professions got together at a public event by the
name Ham Aman (we Peace) in Delhi to say that they peace and harmony.
Another example is the special women team sent by India so Sri Lanka after
the recent military action against the LTTE that had resulted in displacement
of lakhs of innocent people. The Indian women team has been credited with
very positive efforts in the arduous task of reconstruction, resettlement and
rehabilitation of the displaced communities.
It may be important to cite from a work which though relates to an
international context but where woman's sufferings and the constructive role
would appear quite similar to developing societies like India's, A study titled
"if It Wasn't for the Women ……." on the role of African American Women
in community work and social change by Chery! Townsend Gilkes,highlights
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the incredible role of women. It describes how the African American women
challenge oppressive structures and racist practices, such as salaries not at par
with whites, poor quality of education in schools, belittling their communities
powerless and disadvantaged. They then create, maintain and strengthen
positive, democratic institutions and organizations that specialized in
problems of job training, city services, welfare rights, public education, etc.
Women thus led protests, learnt and taught work skills, and also how to
organize and lead. According to Gilkes, “they work for the community that
they themselves re-create and sustain, a mutually reinforcing process"
This debate also needs to raise the problems that women face while fulfilling
their direct and indirect role in creating communal harmony and national
integration. They have to confront negative politics at all levels. They also
face difficulty in mobilizing large number of people. Further, poverty and
economic dependence restricts women's proactive participation in public and
community life. This problem gets accentuated due to lack of adequate
personal liberty and restricted social participation.
Role of women in creating communal and national can be effectively utilized
only by developing inter-gender and intra-gender equality and justice. Their
political participation is a vital means towards this end. In fact, the recently
passed Women Reservation Bill in India seeks to institutionalise participation
of women in the political process of the nation. It is a positive leap forward
that would ensure that women have a say as well as control over the smooth
co-existence of different communities by addressing their concerns and
fulfilling genuine demands. Also, educated women should come out of their
comfort zones and take an even more effective lead, particularly in countries
like India wherein present times, there is a crying need to foster the spirit of
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societal consciousness and national integration.
Further, the lifestyle standards and status of women including their economic
independence need to be drastically improved so they can come to the
forefront and play the role that no one can perform better than them. Further,
the unsung heroines and their mission need to be institutionalized and
appropriately rewarded. There need to be appropriate forums to provide
voice, choice, information and political representation to women specifically.
The power of women is practically unlimited and in their hands lies the
redemption of communal harmony and national integration. It needs to be
fruitfully channelized to multiply its impact dramatically. Quoting Mohandas
K. Gandhi, "To me the female sex is not the weaker sex. It is the nobler of the
two; for it is even today the embodiment of sacrifice, silent suffering
humility, faith and knowledge." Gandhi ji also believed that the capability of
women in enduring endless suffering is also her biggest strength to carry on
non-violent crusade in the cause of societal peace and national unity. The
struggle for communal harmony and national integration is never unending
crisis in countries like India or elsewhere. And the struggle on part of women
in this behalf carries on as ever before. Women like Marie Curie, Mother
Teresa, India Gandhi and Aung Sang Su kyi may be amongst the reinforce
the message of women's powerful role in promoting societal harmony and
peace within and amongst nations.
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Women are equal partner in growth of progress
Pawan Kumar Konda
It has been well said by Mahatma Gandhi, 'Women can play a very
important role in establishing peace ... because they are by nature endowed
with the quality of forgiveness.' Women are equal partners in the growth and
progress of all countries and being endowed with patience and dedication to hearth
and nation, to an uncommon degree, they must be drawn into any scheme which
singularly arms to bring the benefits of communal harmony and national
integration to the nation as a whole. Women are not only associated with their
homes as mothers and wives, but also as companions to men in economic
activities (particularly rural and agricultural India). Therefore, the strong ties and
bonds of familial affection towards their family make them the pivot upon which
the success of communal harmony and national integration can be sustained amidst
the rigours of existence in today's harsh and highly competitive world.
Communal Harmony and National Integration are those essential
requirements of every civilized and multi-cultural society, which nurture human
peace and prosperity by acting as bulwarks against destabilizing and socially
debilitating forces. Communal Harmony and National Integration have been
associated with the national ethos for a very long time and have made India the
epitome of socio-cultural tranquility in the world. Communal Harmony and
National Integration are indispensable because when they are sacrificed, liberty
and the freedom of life are brushed aside, with the result that disequilibrium is
created and the whole fabric of society collapses.
The topic can be divided into two parts - one, dealing with women and their
role in creating communal harmony; two, dealing with their role in upholding
national integration.
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Communal harmony is that vital prerequisite of social peace and tranquility
which binds people from all communities and faiths in an atmosphere of mutual
trust and respect. India's brand of communal harmony has been worthy of
emulation because the trials and tribulations of our ancient, medieval and modern
past reveal that in the steady stream of human migration to and from India, it was a
cultural commingling that happened. But the glittering episodes of cultural
assimilation have not been able to conceal the darker side to the religious facade of
the nation. Instances of communal disharmony after independence have shown that
certain vested interests and destabilizing forces have been working, much to the
chagrin of the government and civil society at large.
A cursory glance at photographs or videos of areas disturbed by communal
violence reveals the paramount role played by men in this regard. Women are
generally not observed protesting in communally disturbed areas streets and are
hardly associated with activities that symbolize communal strife and tension. It is
pertinent to recall the famous statement from the UNESCO several years ago,
'Since war began in the minds of men, it is in the very same minds of men that
the defense of peace should be constructed.' So, women, who are partners of
men in all aspects of familial and social existence, have a sterling contribution
towards upholding communal harmony.
Dr Nirmala Despande and her voyage to establish communal harmony
Dr Nirrnala Deshpande remains a shining example of devotion and
dedication to the cause of strengthening communal harmony and national
integration. A Gandhian disciple by belief and a patriotic citizen by activity, she
has played a pivotal role in establishing several organizations to fight the evils of
communalism and disintegration and divisiveness. During the tumultuous eighties
of the previous century, when Punjab was being engulfed by the burning embers
of militancy and communal rage, she successfully organized massive Peace
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Marches, wherein thousands of peace-loving activists participated enthusiastically
in aiding local people to maintain communal harmony. Further, through her
organizations, Akhil Bharat Rachanatmak Samaj &Association of Peoples of
Asia, she has successfully established amicable relations with neighbours, most
importantly with Pakistan. She was also instrumental in organizing the 'Indo-Pak
Amity Meet' in 1996, which was attended by academics, artists, social activists
and journalists from both. the countries. The very next year, she led the Indian
delegation to Karachi, Pakistan in 1997 for a similar meet.
How women can sustain communal harmony
1. Women should clearly underscore their disaffection towards communal
conflict by stating in clear and obvious terms that they will non-cooperate-
with their men- folk, if they clandestinely or overtly participate in
communal rioting, arson, loot or otherwise. This will have the necessary
psychological impact as men cannot lead a familial and social existence
without the help of their wives/mothers/sisters/daughters, as the case may be
2. Peace is not born but made, and the true essence and spirit of Indian culture,
if instilled in children by mothers, through responsible upbringing and
socialization, will create a future array of responsible and freedom-loving
libertarians who pay obeisance to all faiths. History IS witness to the great
role played by great mothers in nurturing the minds of children, little by
little, with ideas of national unity and integrity. During early childhood, if
each child is imbued with an assortment of songs, stories, proverbs and
sayings by the mother or women of the house and these are conveyed at the
fireplace or after the evening meals, there is an electrifying effect, which
will sow seeds of harmony and respect for one another. These songs, stories,
proverbs and sayings which contain simple messages and are filled with
morality make great citizens. Some of the greatest personalities like
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Mahatma Gandhi, Akbar and Shivaji have been inspired and molded
because of the unparallel influence and moral contribution of their mothers.
These stories songs and proverbs not only project to the children the
expectations - and hopes of the family and community at large, but also
enable children to demonstrate solidarity with and consideration for others,
social responsibility honesty in thought and dedication to the motherland,
and moreover, faith and compassion through inner strength and self-control.
3. Women should also play an active role in creating communal harmony by
becoming members of Peace Societies - which contain representatives of
different faiths- and are established for the purpose of arranging regular
consultations and informal discussions to sort out communal tangles. They
should, as a matter of right, demand representation as members of these
societies. The process of ushering social change in the desired direction does
not stop with merely becoming members, but actively arranging to conduct
seminars and conferences so that these societies not only serve the
exemplary purpose for which they were formed, but also achieve a holistic
dialogue among various faiths and communities. Further, by being such
members, they can reveal the undercover strategies' planned by their deviant
men-folk and alert the community about any impending communal flare-up
4. Women can also create communal harmony by spreading the message of
communal harmony through the press and electronic media. Women who
intend to play socially conscious roles in society and those who have the
power of the pen or the gift of the gab can make efforts to highlight the
urgent need to uphold harmony. Those associated with the free electronic
press can provide visual evidence of the dangers of communal disharmony
and thus create the desired impact. This will go a long way in popularizing
the importance of communal harmony
5. Educated women can take up the cause of unlettered women-folk by
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preparing skits and short plays depicting the contours of communal
harmony. By displaying placards and singing songs, they can reach the rural
masses and create multiplier benefits. This will prove beneficial by limiting
the horrors of communal conflict in urban India and rural India in particular
6. A few enterprising women can help to heal the wounds of communal
harmony by helping to establish community kitchens in areas affected by
communal violence. This aspect pertains to the role played by women after
the crisis has actually erupted.
7. Women have a special role to play as supporters of law-enforcing agencies
in their own little way. A few women who are imbued with feelings of
social responsibility can inform the police about the possible eruption of
communal violence in any part of the surrounding area/vicinity. Even the
.police should provide adequate monetary incentives to those individuals
who part with information crucial to the maintenance of communal
harmony.
8. Women representatives of various local bodies have an excellent
opportunity to press forward the need to maintain communal harmony.
Since Indian women are slowly beginning to make the positive and desired
transformation from 1/3rd to ½ the governing strength of local bodies, they can
ensure that resolutions and motions are passed in favour of taking specific
steps to ensure communal harmony. From just being active supporters of
harmony to being responsible for the well-being of women and men in the
community, these elected women representatives can allocate at least a
miniscule portion of the budget towards bolstering communal harmony.
9. Women teachers have the unique capacity to drive home the necessity to
espouse and encourage creation of communal harmony. Since a well-
informed atmosphere may not be available to most mothers due to financial
insecurity and lack of decision-making power, women teachers can make
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the required difference. They could inform their principals and in turn the
district education officers to permit one class on communal sensitization
once a month beginning· at the 6thclass level. This will strengthen unity and
engender fraternity among students of all faiths and communities.
10. Amidst all this, it is to be remembered that women advocates and legal
practitioners can take up cases relating to atrocities committed on hapless
victims of communal clashes. Women can forcefully argue for the
preservation of harmony and restore normalcy in the lives of those
displaced. They can even undertake bi- monthly surprise visits to camps set
up specifically for the purpose of addressing the necessities of those
shattered by the stains of communal horror.
Organizations in the Kashmir Valley - Role of HELP - an example
Human Efforts for Love and Peace (HELP) Foundation is an NGO working
under the stewardship of Nighat Shafi Pandit, a woman, of strong determination; is
another hope in the trouble-torn Kashmir. The Foundation has been working
tirelessly with rural communities, in communal conflict affected areas of Kashmir,
to educate children orphaned due to conflict and to rehabilitate widows affected in
the violent incidents. With Hindu as well as Muslims affected by the conflicts.
If these points described above pertain to the role of women can decisively
play in bringing about communal harmony, the following will explain and
elucidate their role in creating and emboldening national integration.
Contours of national integration
National integration is the fundamental bedrock of the Indian civilization, an
intangible feature which enmeshes all communities of India and sets them on the
path of national strengthening and its accompanying growth and development.
National integration is therefore, that complex entity which makes India united. To
put it simply, it is that characteristic which has made India stand firm during the 64
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years that have gone by, wherein we have observed that nations surrounding us
have either abandoned their original constitutional structure or ideals or have
modified them to suit the clamour of parties contending for state power and
hegemony.
How women can create and embolden national integration
1. Women should actively participate m the political system and bring about a
change m the dynamics of national integration. For years before and after
independence, men have held controls over the levers of power and
governance, with the result politics has got regionalized to an extreme
extent. Thankfully, we are not witness to any persistent demands for
breaking away from India's political fabric and women can assist by
reducing the tenor and tone of regional politics. Women can become good
ambassadors of political integration and can take a cue from former
President Dr A P J Abdul Kalam who believed that all parties should
actively unite after elections and work for good governance.
2. Those women who have remained out of the boundaries of democracy have
to enthusiastically participate in adult education programs. These will aid in
dispelling outmoded and antediluvian cultural modes and achieve faster
national integration. It is heartening to note in this regard that women have _
proved better and more eager to learn from adult education programs than
men and the numbers display the trends.
3. Women have a special role to play in national integration by bridging the
rural- urban divide in India. Women activists at the forefront of improving
rural India should, alongside men, visit rural areas and supplement
government efforts in this regard. It is commonplace to find that reports of
government committees present a macro view of rural India because the
sheer enormity and massiveness of India are too daunting a task for any
committee. So, women can conduct bi-annual or annual surveys and present
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their conclusions to the government for better implementation of policies.
4. Women have to continue to join the economic mainstream in large numbers.
Employment opportunities and the migration to urban areas have not
brought any substantial change in status of household women. By breaking
traditional and conservative barriers imposed by a male-chauvinist society,
they need to compete with men in getting hold of urban jobs. They should
not lose any opportunity to come of the local and regional limitations and
must partake of employment opportunities in towns and cities so that there is
better economic integration, reduction of income inequalities and this leads
to national integration.
5. Educated and highly informed women, who are in the civil and
administrative services, have a better chance of integrating other women in
the national mainstream. Better participation of women, in all competitive
exams geared to provide employment under the state, over the years has
helped to achieve national integration, as women administrators, who are
considered more patient, have lent a helping hand to the downtrodden
through the administrative structure.
6. With active government funding to NGOs, women have to enable exchange
of cultural ideas across different parts of the country. People from different
states should know and understand the cultural diversity of the country and
exchange programs by various NGOs can bring about greater cultural
assimilation and hence national integration.
7. Women can assist in bolstering national integration by receiving inputs from
the Institute of National Integration at Pune, which has been designing new
methods to achieve national integration.
8. Women should lend active support to the members of the National
Integration Council, which IS the nodal organization for preparing
guidelines, schemes and programs to promote national integration. Women
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should lend suggestions and support to this Council so that the process of
achieving national integration does not remain an unfinished agenda.
9. If all this is on one side of coin, the role of women in creating national
integration through under the umbrella of Self-Help Groups IS on the other
side.
It is apt to remember Gandhiji who said, "Whenever you do something,
recall the face of the poorest and weakest man and ask yourself if the step you have
taken is going to be of any use to him, will he gain anything by it, in other words,
will it lead to Swaraj for the hungry and spiritually starving millions. Then .you
will find yourself and your doubts melting away". Thus, the common man is the
pivot upon which India lives and survives and women have an immense role to
play in realizing the India as envisioned by Mahatma Gandhi. Since India is our
mother, whatever befalls her befalls us, as we know that “it is not she who belongs
to us, but we who belong to her”. Pandit Nehru aptly described this in the
Discovery of India that “Bharat Mata is not the land and soil of India, but the very
people”.
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Women are the builder and molders of a nation’s destiny
ANURIMA SHARMA
INTRODUCTION
It is impossible not to be astonished by India. Nowhere on Earth does humanity
present itself in such a dizzying, creative burst of cultures and religions, races and
tongues. Enriched by successive waves of migration and marauders from distant
lands, every one of them left an indelible imprint which was absorbed into the
Indian way of life. Every aspect of the country presents itself on a massive,
exaggerated scale, worthy in comparison only to the superlative mountains that
overshadow it. It is this variety which provides a breathtaking ensemble for
experiences that is uniquely Indian. Perhaps the only thing more difficult than to
be indifferent to India would be to describe or understand India completely. There
are perhaps very few nations in the world with the enormous variety that India has
to offer. Modern day India represents the largest democracy in the world with a
seamless picture of unity in diversity unparalleled anywhere else. (A Rough Guide
to India, travel book)
India has many races, nationalities, castes, sub-castes and communities but
as far as the heart of India is concerned, it is one. It is true that societies that have
been integrated into bonds of unity have always enjoyed peace, stability,
prosperity and permanence. And those torn by mutual disruptive tendencies
among various sections of the society have always been short lived and become
non- existent. The national integration is the process of uniting different people
from all walks of life into a single whole. The most serious problem being faced
by India in present circumstances is how to develop an atmosphere of national
consciousness among so varied a people. Indians already have suffered for long
periods, the pangs of enslavement and servitude. There has been a lack of national
consciousness among the people.
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Our country is also known for its different cultures and religions and also, a
sense of unity among the citizens. In our country, people belonging to various
religions live in harmony, but there are occasions when the communal fabric gets
disturbed, often on trivial Issues.
Today's requirement is to create a social and religious climate in the country
wherein it may be possible for all citizens, irrespective of religions and caste
differences or social distinctions, to live a life of peace and tranquility, devoted to
a common purpose of building up a strong, prosperous and forward looking
society. This unity and integration achieved can in turn contribute its own share of
the peace and well being of the whole humanity. This is not a far fetching idea,
but can be made into a reality if we have will power and wisdom.
The task of fulfilling unity and harmony cannot be the sole responsibility of
the government, but more than anything else it is the people who have to
safeguard the interests of the nation as well as their own. Women constitute
almost fifty percent of the total population. Therefore, it should be recognized that
women cannot be ignored; their participation in building up national integration
and communal harmony is as much vital as that of the government.
CHANGING STATUS OF \VOMEN IN INDIA
"Woman is the builder and moulder of a nation's destiny, though delicate and soft
as lily, she has a heart, stronger and bolder than that of man, she is the supreme
inspiration for man's onward march.”
Women constitute approximately 40% population of a nation. If she is given
the task for the development of the country she can make a wonder. She is more
dedicated, hardworking, sincere, devoted to the cause than one could imagine. The
status of women in India has been subject to many great changes over the past few
millennia. From equal status with men in ancient time through the low points of
the medieval period, to the promotion of equal rights by many reformers, the
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history of women in India has been eventful. In modem India, women have
adorned high offices in India including that of the President, Prime minister,
Speaker of the Lok Sabha, Leader of Opposition, etc.
Women in India are beginning to follow the direction that the women of the
Western world took more than eighty years ago; demanding treatment as human
equals. Women are striving to be independent on the equal level of men. The
additional complexities that the women of India must also challenge are the caste
system,' the heavy religious customs, older and more traditional roles of the sexes,
as well as the even stronger power that men hold in India. The status was at one
time accepted, but with the Western women's revolution and perception, the role is
slowly succeeding in its development through both independent groups of women
and national and worldwide organizations based on the goal of gaining equality.
They have all accomplished much. The configuration of a woman's identity
consists of the expectations that society places on her. Such expectations are more
today then what were there before because of her increased role in the present
society. In the light of this we need to analyze her role towards promoting
communal harmony and national integration.
Role towards Communal Harmony and National Integration
Role of women in domestic affairs and looking after the family's day to day
work is apparent and well known. But the role of women towards national
integration and communal harmony is rather of recent origin. Ever since the
development of the philosophy of humanism in which every individual is entitled
to dignity, the role of women in nation building has increased. India has produced
women of eminence who played a key role in national building. Important thing to
note is that women since ages are playing their part towards national integration
and communal harmony, covertly though.
In the Indian situation, women are the real custodians of cultural traditions.
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Hence, it may be viewed that they can play a significant role in contributing a lot
to the national integration and communal harmony. In our social setup, when the
husband leaves home, it is the woman who remains at home for most of the day
and discharges different roles. Of all her roles the role of mother is vital, her role
as a mother is much more strenuous and demanding than any other role that she
plays. As a mother, her task is vulnerable and onerous in the upbringing of her
children. She can alone create an atmosphere and climate in the house in which
values, both moral and spiritual, can be inculcated in the children who are citizens
of tomorrow.
Family is the basic unit of society. It is most widely recognized that the
family is the miniature of the society. Thus, the values promoted and nurtured are
best reflected broadly in the society. If the family disintegrates, the society also
will get disintegrated. Integration of the society and of the family is interrelated
and interdependent. One cannot exist without the other. We may rightly say that
the integration of the society is rooted in the integration of family. Woman in the
family as a mother symbolizing unity and harmony, she can bridge the gap
between society and children. She can inculcate and promote social values such as
mutual adjustment, mutual respect, mutual dependence, mutual understanding,
mutual tolerance and brotherhood, self sacrifice, love and affection. The loss of
these principles or their mismanagement, or their wrong propagation in the family,
in schools and colleges is the cause for losing our national spirit, violence and
hatred.
India is a land of a variety of religions characterized socio-cultural
heterogeneity. Resultantly, we have many local variations in behaviour. Religion
in its narrow sense is not a unifying force; it cannot be a cementing factor in our
heritage, in our social living and in our future development. The religious and
moral instructions through fostering common values if given properly to the
children in the family can play a vital role in bringing about national integration. It
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is wrong to conceive that religion cannot ever play a positive role in national
integration. What is viewed here is the imparting of religious values is not done in
the right way. The important thing to note here is that the first lessons of religion,
taught to any individual are not from any religious head man or guruji but by
his/her mother. Thus again highlighting the important role of women in national
integration and communal harmony.
We have a vast subcontinent as a geographical entity, inhabited by people of
different cultures, histories, languages and with different ways of living. The
factor was recognized in our national struggle. In the post independence period,
we resorted to the formation of linguistic states, under the stress of various
political and old historical urges. We have adopted a unified political system
working under a changing Constitution infused with a determined will to keep the
nation strong under ordinary and extraordinary circumstances. The country is in
the process of transition from the old to the new ways of development through
liberalization of economic policies. As a result, the values are also subjected to a
change. Regionalism, communalism, casteism and fundamentalism have become
potent dangers to the federal unity of the country, We may be able to contain them
and reduce tensions to an extent through law and force, It is, however, wrong to
view that these potential dangers can ever be eliminated. For countering these evil
forces, we will have to energise our efforts and women who constitute almost half
of the population can really playa predominant role in building up character and
fostering common values in the children at home. Here, there is a need for
voluntary women's organisations who can also educate the society by organising
demonstrations, informal classroom lectures, picture- shows, plays and so on. The
participation of these organisations can make an attempt to transform the people's
attitudes through a process of mutual love and understanding and by taking
positive steps towards channelizing the energies. A continuous process of the
development of character is a requisite to a sound growth of national integration.
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All the inventions of law are frustrated if they are not accompanied by people of
sound character and judgments.
The case of 'Social Capital and Social Mobilization of Women in Marad'
towards a serious communal conflict in Kerala is an excellent example of role of
women in promoting communal harmony. The case highlights how far the
mobilization of women through Self Help Groups (SHGs) has withstood the
turbulences of communalism in Marad. Moreover, the social mobilization of
women through SHGs, and the social capital created by them act as an alternative
in ensuring communal harmony. The major finding of this case was that social
capital is an effective instrument for maintaining communal harmony. The civil
society and Local Self Government Institutions should join hands together for
encouraging the women to form SHGs which are inter-religious in nature to build
a harmonious society.
CONCLUSION
Our country is known for its different cultures and religions and for a sense
of unity among the citizens. In our country, people belonging to various religions
live in harmony, but there are occasions when the communal fabric gets disturbed,
often on trivial issues. It is the responsibility of all sections of society to ensure
peace and goodwill so that all round development of the country takes places
rapidly. The women have a role to play in promotion of communal harmony and
national integration and here it wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say that this role is
even greater than their male counterparts. She is undoubtedly the first teacher of
an individual, whose words leave an indelible mark on the mindset of an
individual and shape his/her conscience. Moreover, women of today are also
finding themselves at prominent decision-making posts; they have made strong
inroads into various careers and vocations. So to say, that her role is limited to be
in the background and shape the conscience of the coming generations is only an
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understatement.
Men should realize the power of women, and women should also realize
their power too, what they can do for them, for their family, for their nation. They
are the building blocks of nation building, In the words of Martin Luther King, "A
mother's place is inside her home, but she should also make certain, she gets
outside that home enough to help worthwhile crusades and actively mould the
country her children will live in.” She therefore holds a key position and her role
in shaping the fate of the nation must be recognised and respected.
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What a woman thinks essentially a nation thinks
ARUN THOMAS KALATHIKAL
National integration and communal harmony are the twin pillars on which
rests the future of our country. Integrating people of different faith, belief,
cultures, region, language and interweaving them into the larger concept of a
nation "India" is the prerequisite for the nation to tread the path of development -
social, political, economic and cultural. The level of commitment towards these
twin ideals shows the maturity of a nation as a long-standing democracy with
modern values of equality, liberty, tolerance, and peaceful co-existence. Women
with their multiple roles as a homemaker and as a breadwinner have a wider reach
and role to contribute to the society owing to their closer interactions with the
social fabric - both within the family and in the professional sphere.
National integration can be defined as a feeling of oneness amongst the
people bound by a specified territory. Communal harmony means communicating
love and peace between the various communities and curbing any swirl of
prejudice that could hamper their peaceful coexistence. The concepts of liberty
fraternity, nationalism, secularism, tolerance, sacrifice, unity are the founding
stones of every progressive nation. Regional and linguistic divides, fanaticism,
casteism, communalism etc. are the major threats to the integrity and harmony not
only of India but also for any nation.
Women in India, especially in the pre-19th century period, were traditionally
bound to the shackles of the patriarchs and were hardly provided any
opportunities to develop or use their potential for self-advancement. No modem
ideas could seep through them due to lack of exposure and education that was
forced upon them by the society. Hence, their contribution to the integrity was
earlier limited and indirect. Even then, there were women of great standards and
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charisma, but their number and reach were limited. Rani Lakshmibai, Razia
Sultana were rare cases of women who could carve out a place for' themselves in
the annals of history. Most of the contributions of the women of the pre-19th
century period was indirect, and they were intentionally directed towards
maintaining the so called stability of the society paradoxically by limiting their
social interactions with their outlets merely being fairs, festivals and other
community or social activities.
During the first half of the 20th century, a strong wave of nationalism swept
the whole country and this wave had enough strength to pull the Indian women
out of the shackles. This period is marked by an increasing level of political
activity towards the struggle for freedom. Post 1885, apparently after the
formation of the Indian National Congress, and its activities, a gradual political
awakening of the women ensued. With the homecoming of Mohandas
Karamchand Gandhi, the role of women towards the nationalism and integrity
was stressed for the first time. Mahatma Gandhi could be rightly called as the
liberator of Indian women with his swadeshi and non-cooperation movement,
which installed that fire into the Indian womanhood that could melt the iron
fetters of oppressions. Swadeshi movement saw a new trend wherein, women for
the first time actively endorsed the cause of national integration and communal
harmony. They publicly raised the slogans of nationalism and freedom,
participated in picketing shops, burning foreign goods. They fought shoulder to
shoulder with the men and played a major role in imparting political awakening in
the masses to integrate them into the larger concept of a “nation” irrespective of
all differences.
Sarojini Naidu, Aruna Asaf Ali, Kasthoorba Gandhi etc became champions
of nationalism. These women also became an integral part of the processions,
dharnas and meetings organized during the freedom struggle. The voice of these
enlightened women penetrated deeper into the minds of other women, especially
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those who were still confined to the four walls of the family. Women in the
struggle for independence played critical roles by acting as messengers and
organizing community based initiatives.
After independence, the spread of equal opportunities in especially in the
domain of education reduced the regional and linguistic barriers and put women
on to the path of development. A dynamic shift in the society took place after the
education of the women. Women took up myriad professions like medicine and
health care, teaching, media and journalism, arts and science and-literature, public
administration, entrepreneurship, defense services, politics etc… The "faire sex"
being known to possess sensibility and sensitivity in the right proportion brought
in a humane touch to whatever profession they took up. The doctors and nurses
took up the cause of the poor and the needy with empathy, lending a patient ear to
their miseries. We could see women volunteering to serve from the far off
unreachable tribal tracts to the community health centers with passion.
There is a great potential within the Indian women, who deserves appreciation for
their consistent efforts towards national integration and harmony. We can be rest
assured that a country where the "fairer sex" is so enlightened and progressive
would leave no stone unturned in shouldering the responsibility of nation building
along with their male counterparts.
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The role of women in the society is the most importantin bringing about all kinds of harmony
Upasna Paul
The most important element that determines the development of any nation
is harmonious living. ‘Harmony’ the term connotes many different aspects. India
being a country of diverse cultures faces the biggest challenge of maintaining this
communal harmony, which would lead to national integration. The concept of
national integration is being misunderstood in the modern times. In today's society
rather than accepting everyone to be alike we must learn to respect and appreciate
our differences. Therefore, Multiculturalism emerges as an
important concept as it represents the recognition and acceptance of human
diversity and acts as a medium to maintain integrity among the citizens of a nation
and even the world.
We are a pluralistic society, with different beliefs, faiths, languages, dress
codes, food habits and what not. How will harmony among these varied groups be
ensured? There can be harmony only if we appreciate the plurality. All the citizens
of the country share the responsibility of maintaining the communal harmony and
strive for national integration. The role of women could not be neglected in this
aspect. History bears witness to the might of women. She symbolizes strength,
endurance and courage. Women thus have a great role to play in soldering
communal harmony in the society. But their participation in the process is
dependent on the value that society holds for them.
During the prehistoric times i.e. Indus valley civilization period women
were given the position of respect and equality. They had equal say in household
matters. The Mother Goddess worship during that period emphasizes on the fact
that women were given respectable position in society. Then during Early Vedic
times also position of women was not too bad as historical sources of the times
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reveal. She was entitled to the ancestral property and had equal say in family
matters. No cases of female infanticide have been mentioned in the scriptures and
on the other hand it has been mentioned that the birth of a girl child was welcomed
in the family. Many slokas in Rig Veda had been written by women which
highlights the point that during early Vedic period women were entitled to higher
education as well.
But same was not the case during later Vedic period where the condition of
women started deteriorating. Her birth was looked down upon and much of her
educational rights were taken away. Still as a mother, she commanded great
respect. As we go down the historical lane we find that the plight of women started
declining gradually during the Maurayan and finally during the Gupta period.
During the medieval history period (c. 9th century to 15th century A.D.) the
position of women in society deteriorated to the greatest extent. She was seen
more as a liability in the family who was supposed to be protected all the time.
The same resulted in increased number of cases of female infanticide and sati.
Many evils like purdah system, Polygamy was widely practiced among Hindu
kings, sexual exploitation of women in name of devadasis, jauhar (voluntary
immolation of wives and daughters of defeated kings) etc crept in the society
which gave a major setback to the women of that age. She enclosed herself in shell
and all avenues of education, knowledge were closed for her. She existed now
solely for carrying on the family lineage subordinated to her husband forever.
Even in those of social backwardness times, there were few women who
were smart and brave enough to showcase the world, their political skills. Some of
them were, Razia Sultana, only woman to have ever ruled Delhi; Durgavati, the
queen of Gond who ruled for 50 years; Jijabai, mother of great Shivaji; Nur jahan,
wife of Jahangir; Chand Bibi who defended against the mighty Akbar.
The winds of change blew during later ages when due to western education,
many women attained education. With the help of many reformers like Raja Ram
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Mohan Roy, Ishwar Chandra. Vivekananda, Ambedkar, Vireshlingam Panthulu,
etc the position of Women was reclaimed to some extent. The ill practices like
Sati, Polygamy were drastically reduced. Breaking away the chains of destitution
and submissiveness many young ladies came to the forefront and participated in
the freedomstruggle in large numbers. National movements like non cooperation
and civil disobedience saw participation of women in large numbers. Many
women boycotted the western articles and donated their valuable ornaments to the
cause of freedom struggle. Contributions made in the freedom struggle by great
leaders like Sarojini Naidu, Beena Das, Sucheta Kriplani are invaluable.
Some of the Annie Besant's political achievements were "Presidentship of
INC" and "Home Rule league". Her Home league movement acted as a strong
foundation for Gandhiji to start his passive resistance movement. Sarojini Naidu
served as the first woman president of INC and she actively involved in Bose's
Indian national army. The roles of Aruna Asaf Ali and Sucheta Kriplani in Quit
India movement cannot be forgotten. Sucheta also became the first woman CM of
independent India.
The role of the woman in society is the most important in bringing about all
kinds of harmony. As a nurturer she is responsible for giving values and morals to
her children. A responsible mother, sister, daughter and a wife can bring about
change in the society. It is a well established fact that parenting and early
childhood experiences are most important in moulding the personality of the child.
The right set of values if given right at the doorstep of life can help in creating
responsible citizens. Prejudiced minds and faulty notions about other religions are
the major cause of communal tensions. Another is the fact that ignorant and
illiterate people fall into the trap of politicians who play the caste card well.
Therefore the role of an educated mother cannot be negated. An educated mother
would be clear as to what her child will look upto. Other than taking proper care of
the child in physical terms she would also make it sure that mental status of the
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child is also updated.
Family is the first informal institution of learning and mother is the first
teacher of any child. Therefore responsible nurturing mothering can create the
class of much sought after citizens who care for India's progress. Swami
Vivekananda believed that women as a class as much more dedicated and cohesive
group as compared to men. If given a platform and opportunity they can achieve
the desired result in an efficient way in lesser time. The recent survey conducted in
India in March 2010 corroborates to the fact that women are found to be less
corrupt and more responsible than men in the political domain.
To have an understanding as to what can we do to bring about communal
harmony it is imperative to know the hurdles faced by the society to bring about
this harmony. The single most important factor is the prejudices prevalent in the
society which could be linguistic, gender based or regional. It is manifested
through anti locution, avoidance, discrimination, physical attack, extermination,
competition or exploitation. The conditions which are responsible for transforming
social conflict into violence and intergroup riots are many. It is seen that relative
deprivation is high amongst the minority groups, Legitimacy of government is
low, all the channels of communication are blocked and high insecurity is seen
amongst minority groups which make them vulnerable to fall prey of antisocial
elements. Our society fosters the beliefs and traditions sanctioning violence. E.g.
organizations like bajrang dal and SIMI exist. The instruments of violence are
readily available in the society which ultimately leads aggression to become a
learned behaviour.
Other hurdles in the way of communal harmony and national integration are
evils like politicization of caste and religion, low educational level of people in
general, feeling of relative deprivation and faulty child rearing practices. In India
secularism concept has been more in nature of harsh reality imposed on the
backward society marked by deep religious divisions in its attempt to nurture a
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nation state. Because of this grafting of secularism on Indian society which is
deeply religious it is often been questioned whether India can be both democratic
and secular. Therefore, women as teachers and nurturers have a big role to play in
nullifying wrong concepts and mould the prejudiced thinking of society. As
journalists and editors also women can bring about a lot of awareness in the
public. It could be taken up by them as social cause and right spirit to instill the
feeling of nationalism amongst the masses.
The National Integration Council (NIC), chaired by the Prime Minister, at
present has 147 members, including Union Ministers, Leader of the Opposition in
the Lok Sabha and Rajya Sabha and all Chief Ministers. The Council also includes
leaders of national and regional political parties, chairpersons of National
Commissions, media persons, public figures, business leaders and representatives
of women's organisations. Here the role of women should be emphasized in a
larger sense. Famous women from various fields having expertise in their
respective fields could be included as members of this council.
Institutions like the Panchayati Raj have come a long way in bringing about
awareness amongst women in regard to their rights and has provided them an
opportunity to work at the grass root level. At the very beginning, antisocial
activities could be controlled through a good grievance redressal system and
an effective implementation policy. 33% reservation provided for women can
strengthen their economic condition as well as social standing that may provide
them chance to contribute in bringing about national integration. The problem of
'pradhan pati" had been complained in this system but the recent survey conducted
by Times of India in Jan-Feb 2010 has shown that panchayati raj system deserves
to be called as success owning to the amount of awareness being created among
women and the society.
Currently we have some good woman leaders like Sonia Gandhi,
Jayalalitha, Mamta Banerjee, Chhavi Rajawat etc.; still the representation of
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women as a whole remains meager. We can proudly say that the "President of our
country" was a woman, the Speaker of the house was a woman but surely, we
cannot be proud of just 9% representation of woman in Indian parliament. When
we compare this value with some of the developed countries like Germany, UK,
France, US, Japan etc, we stand nowhere. For example, Germany has 32 % of
women in their parliament, which is a great feat despite the fact that Germany
does not have any reservation as such for women.
Women have great potential as leaders. In addition to the steps taken by the
government, the political parties both local and national also should encourage
women to join politics. Only if given an appropriate responsibility and opportunity
women could contribute in maintaining and promoting the integrity of the nation.
By organizing in self-help-groups and by being the part of nonprofit organizations
women can spread the message of communal harmony in a very impactful way.
India as a country has a huge responsibility of creating the right atmosphere where
women folk can make their maximum contribution towards those aspects in.
society which only they can handle best. Communal harmony and national
integration are one of these aspects.
During communal riots taking place anywhere in India, it is commonly seen
that women are the most vulnerable preys to the injustice. The same has been
witnessed during Godhra riots, Sahranpur riots, Kandhamal riots and Mumbai
riots. Women are the ones who have to bear the maximum brunt. Therefore,
women are more receptive to the need for maintaining communal harmony and
they tend to understand the pros and cons of the whole situation in a more
balanced way. The Communal Violence (Prevention, Control and Rehabilitation
of Victims) Act, 2005 constituted by the government which extends to all the
states of the country except Jammu and Kashmir needs to be stringently applied
and culprits need to be booked on time.
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Women in India are beginning to follow the direction that the women of the
Western world took more than eighty years ago; demanding treatment as human
equals. But it is becoming more and more evident that as the revolution ages that
Indian women may have to adapt to different roles in the society making their
contribution in national development.
India has different complications and different set of problems which need
to be dealt in specialized ways. In terms of contribution to the society by women,
the key targets remain similar i.e. improvement of health care, education and job
opportunities in order to gain equality amongst all sections in the various settings
of public society, the workplace, the school yard and - possibly the most
fundamental setting of all - the home. Women are striving to be independent on the
equal level of men. The additional complexities that the women of India need, to
attain the goal of communal harmony and national integration are that they must
also challenge the caste system, the heavy religious customs, older and more
traditional roles of the sexes, as well as the even stronger power that the communal
forces hold in India.
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Contemplations: Woman carves the nation
Satyarth Aniruddha Pankaj
If we want to understand the role of women in national integration and
communal harmony we need to travel in our history, memory, narratives and need
to observe our society and even economy. We 'need to understand the complexities
of our times too. We have progressed in time, through centuries we have become
matured in different aspects and definitely yet need to be in so many ways. In the
course of this journey role of women has substantially changed in almost every
walk of life. So apart from past phenomena in the context of prevalent modernity
and post modernity, at different stages, we need to understand nature of women,
formation of nations and their disintegration, question of identity of communities
and moreover interplays of all these mentioned factors.
Contemplating over this issue so many questions arise automatically. The
first and foremost question is that what is so distinctive of women that we need to
underline its role in national integration? Then what are the issues and
contradictions that disintegrate a nation? How a nation binds together all its
communities with differing characteristics? Once again it comes in mind how the
contradictions of a nation and clashes of communities can be solved by women,
the so called weaker sex? Questions are so many and so forth. Let’s look for the
answers.
Woman is the magnificent creation of god, a multi faceted personality with
the power of benevolence, adjustability, integrity and tolerance. She is companion
of man, gifted with equal mental faculty, a protector and provider, the embodiment
of love and affection. The role given to women in a society is a measuring rod and
true index of its civilization and cultural attainment. Woman is mother of all
human being. In this comprehensive sense she is a nation builder and primary
basis of community. Almost every culture in world has attributed high moral,
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social and emotional values to women. Women have been considered softer in
India and other parts of the world. Attributes like compassion, love and care are
primarily feminine attributes but we all know what a sigh of relief to humanity
they confer upon. In a deeper and broader sense these are the attributes which
compel us to underline the role of women in national integration and communal
harmony. Not only these softer attributes alone, but there are other factors also
which are responsible for underscoring the role of women in foresaid context.
A woman as an identity doesn’t know the boundaries of nations and
communities. They share a common ground of feminity. Across the world their
sorrows and happiness has common characteristics. In this sense philosophically
speaking women has interpreted the world categorically different from male. This
interpretation is less complex and conflicting. They are more concerned with the
basic human nature and that is intrinsic goodness. Only on the basis of this
goodness one can expect disintegrating nations to integrate and clashing
communities to live harmoniously.
Our age is an age or extremes in which clashes of civilizations are taking
place in more than one way. Disintegration of values to nations, conflicts from
inward to communities are quite evident in our times. Hunger of mundane power
has been evolved as a mass paranoia. Despite professing for globalization we have
become more parochial and narrow. Definitely distance between America and
Afghanistan has shrunk but distances between these two nations in terms of
mutual faith and harmony has a decreasing index only. Can we say that more than
eight percent average growth rate in economic terms has made India a more
integrated nation with harmonious atmosphere prevailing amongst its
communities? In fact no nation can claim that without a sense of harmony
amongst its communities it can boast of being a strong nation. Because all its
growth will be of no productive and developmental use until it is internally
integrated. Metaphorically speaking a person with emotional insecurities and
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inward conflicts can’t be said to be healthy just because s/he is getting package of
millions dollars.
Before analyzing the basic nature of women, I mean the feminity. Which is
the basis of ideals of humanity and which have always saved humanity from
existential disasters; we need to discuss the idea of women in our histories and
national narratives.
Unfortunately history never spared women. They were the unvoiced
population conquered with the kingdoms and then assaulted and raped. In this
sense women are essentially concerned with histories of nations. In this kind of
making of histories of nation’s women saw a lot of violence, oppression, cruelty,
brutality. They were the weaker sex, and an avoidable population for the
powerful. Impact of such atrocities over the female psyche manifested in various
ways; they became more harmonious, they started believing in interdependence
and flexibility, they tried to imbibe positive, non-violent and harmony oriented
values in their coming generations. They were the victims of all male history.
They claimed downed the anger of male mass unconscious throughout the
generations. And thus brought societies, in their way, to harmony. And I strongly
propose to consider it not only from the point of view of weaker sex syndrome but
from the insight of emotional intelligence. The 'work ideally suited to her natural
talent is of educating the illiterate masses. The education of children mainly
depends upon her. Women have the quality to instruct, as well as please; teach as
well as amuse. By virtue of their natural quality of persuasion, tact, sympathy and
love they make better human beings which our nation requires in ever-increasing
number.
Woman by nature is a peace maker. She is blessed with the tact and skill to
convince and drive the argument in her favor. In judicial and executive posts she is
more objective, unbiased and unprejudiced than man. In the field of international
politics and diplomacy she has already lifted the image of our country. Diplomacy
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is her latent quality. Politeness of appearance closely guards her strong and bold
heart. She has a commanding personality which I grimly solemn. It is rightly
remarked, there is in every true woman s heart a spark of heavenly tire which lies
dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity but which kindles up and beams and
blazes in the dark hour of adversity. Thus, her services are more urgently required
in building up national integrity in the field of politics and diplomacy.
In fact there are so many examples like M.S. Subhalaxmi and Lata ji as
singers, P.T. Usha and Mary Mari Kom as players, Amrita Pritam and
Mahashweta Devi as writers, Shabana Azmi as actor all contributed in direct
integration of this nation. They brought harmony between north-south, east-west
communities.
Nowadays women are working as self-help groups and enterprising various
economic activities. This new avatar of women is in a sense bringing positivity to
the society and by the sheer presence of such positivity and avenues to come out of
miseries life in society is being more harmonious. People are following them as
examples of prosperity and moving on their footprints. Moreover, these activities
themselves bring stability and peace in the region concerned.
Concluding we can say that woman is the first teacher of the child, lovely
companion of him/her for maximum time, and home maker, hence basically she is
carving a nation or a community in her home. In this sense her role becomes more
influential and powerful. Apart from these her basic nature of harmony, love and
peace does significantly to the national integration and communal harmony.
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naxksa ds f[kykQ gj efgyk dks ,d&tqV gksuk pkfg,
&gjh’k panj
ckcjh efLtn vkSj jketUe Hkwfe fookn dh ppkZ vc /khjs&/khjs de gksus yxh gS]
tSls&tSls ;g ppkZ de gksrh tk jgh gS] oSls&oSls gh os reke vk'kadk,a fueZwy gksrh tk
jgh gSaa ftUgksaus flrEcj ds vafre 10 fnuksa esa ns'k dks 1992 ds njokts ij ykdj [kM+k dj
fn;k Fkk] ij og njoktk ugha [kqyk] 'kk;n [kqyuk Hkh ugha pkfg, FkkA 18&20 lky ckn
ds le; esa dqN QdZ gksuk gh pkfg,A
flrEcj dk vafre lIrkg chr tkus ij lpeqp ;g eglwl gqvk fd ge 20oha lnh
dk vafre n’kd gh ugha 21oha lnh dk igyk n’kd Hkh yxHkx ikj dj pqds gSaA gekjs
fy, ;g lkspuk t:jh gks ldrk gS D;ksafd os ifjfLFkfr;ka 2010 esa mRiUu ugha gqbZ tks
1990 ds n’kd esa dbZ ckj mRiUu gqbaZ vkSj gksrs&gksrs cpha\ bl lanHkZ esa lekt’kkfL=;ksa
dk fo’ys"k.k dqN Hkh dgs] ,d vke vkneh dh rjg eSa ;gka dqN igyqvksa dh ppkZ d:axkA
ftu fnuksa naxksa ds Mj ls mÙkj izns’k dks ,d vkehZ dSai esa rCnhy dj fn;k x;k
Fkk] mUgha fnuksa jsfM;ks ij v;ks/;k dh ,d vKkr Lo;a lsfodk dk lk{kkRdkj lquok;k x;k]
mlus tks dgk] gkykafd os ckrsa fcYdqy u;h ugha Fkh] ij ,slh t:j Fkha fd vki lqudj
pkSad ldrs gSa] ml lekt lsfodk us bl ckr ij ckj&ckj tksj fn;k fd] Þnaxk flQZ
efgykvksa ds fy, gksrk gS vkSj blhfy, naxksa ds f[kykQ gj ,d efgyk dks ,dtqV gksuk
pkfg,Aß
esjs eu esa lglk ;g loky mB [kM+k gqvk fd ;fn lpeqp ml lekt lsfodk dh
bPNk iwjh gks lds rks D;k ;g jk"Vªh; ,drk dk ,d etcwr igyw ugha gksxk\ jk"Vªh;
,drk rFkk lkEiznkf;d fodkl ds lkSgknZz esa efgyk,a lokZf/kd ;ksxnku ns ldrh gSa] bl
ckr dks fl) djus ds fy, fdlh 'kks/k dh vko’;drk ugha gSA eSa Hkkjr tSls ns’k ds lanHkZ
esa ;g ckr nkos ls dg ldrk gw¡] ij bl ckr ij ppkZ tjk #ddj d:¡xk] igys gesa
jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oe~ lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz ds lelkef;d vFkZ dh ppkZ djuh iM+sxhA
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jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ls vfHkizk;&
ifjfLFkfr;ka cnyrh gS rks le; cnyrk gS vkSj le; ds lkFk&lkFk dbZ 'kCn viuk
vFkZ cny ysrs gSaA vkt ls 50 lky igys ;fn ge Hkkjr ds fy, jk"Vª vFkok jkT;ksa ds
fy, jk"Vªh; ,drk tSls 'kCn dk iz;ksx djrs Fks] rks mldk vFkZ ogh ugha Fkk] tks vkt gks
x;k gSA vkt ge ;fn vius ns’kokfl;ksa ls jk"Vªh; ,drk cuk, jgus dk vuqjks/k djrs gSa
rks gekjs vuqjks/k esa osLVbaMht ;k nf{k.k vÝhdk esa jgus okyk og Hkkjrh; Hkh 'kkfey gksrk
gS] ftudh ihf<+;k¡ 200&250 o"kZ iwoZ Hkkjro"kZ dks NksM+dj tk pqdh gSaA ;gh ugha vkt
jk"Vªh; ,drk dk vFkZ ;g Hkh ugha gksrk fd ge rks ,d jgas] ij ,drk dh rkdr ls nwljs
jk"Vª ds ukxfjdksa dks rksM+rs&QksM+rs jgsaA
tc ge vkt ds ifjizs{; esa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dh ppkZ djrs gSa rks gekjk rkRi;Z
;g ugha gksrk fd ,d Åij cSBk jgs vkSj nwljk lkSgknzZ ds uke ij uhps iM+k jgsA Li"V gh
ek/ko lnkflo xksyoydj ds lafo/kku esa jk"Vªh; ,drk ;k lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dk tks
iSekuk gS og gekjs dke dk ugha gSA
vkt ge jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ tSls 'kCnksa dk iz;ksx dsoy viuh
etcwrh ds fy, gh ugha djrs] cfYd gekjk ;g iz;kl jgrk gS fd xSj jk"Vªh; Hkh tc
gekjs jk"Vª dks viuk le>us yxsa rHkh gekjs fy, bu 'kCnksa dk lgh vFkZ fl) gksxkA
efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk&
efgyk,¡ fo’o dh tula[;k dk vk/kk fgLlk gS] ;g ckr u tkus fdruh ckj dgh
x;h gSA ;g okD; bruh ckj nksgjk;k x;k gS fd lquus ij vc vtuch tSlk yxrk gS]
;wjksi esa Ýkalhlh Økafr ds dqN o"kksZ a ckn eSjh mYlVu Øk¶V us 'kk;n igyh ckj bl ckr
dks rhozrk ds lkFk mBk;k Fkk] rc ls vc rd 200 ls vf/kd lky chr pqds gSa] bl chp
;g vo/kkj.kk] vkt tksjksa ls fodflr gks jgh gS] fd ,d L=h dks i<+k, tkus dk vFkZ ,d
ifjokj dks i<+k;k tkuk gksrk gS] rc D;k ;g ckr jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz
ds lanHkZ esa lkFkZd ugha gS\ eSa viuh ppkZ dk vkjEHk blh fcUnq ls djuk pkgw¡xkA
ifjokj vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk ds chp laca/k rFkk L=h&
ifjokj jk"Vª dh y?kqÙke bdkbZ gSA gj O;fDr vius vk/ks laLdkjksa dk vtZu ifjokj
esa djrk gSA ;g loky fd ifjokj esa L=h dh fLFkfr D;k gS] t:jh gksrs gq, Hkh gekjs fy,
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FkksM+s de egRo dk gSA gekjs fy, t:jh flQZ ;g tkuuk gks ldrk gS fd ifjokj esa L=h
dk egRo Hkys gh de gks ij D;k og Hkkoh ih<+h esa viuk dqN LoHkko lqjf{kr j[k NksM+rh
gS\
;gk¡ ;g dguk t:jh gks tkrk gS fd fL=;ksa dh Hkwfedk] tks os dj jgh gSa] ogk¡ rd
lhfer ugha gSA cgqr dqN ,slk gS tks os dj ldrh gSa vkSj ogk¡ Hkh muds egRo dks
Lohdkj djuk gksxkA ;g L=h ds Åij fuHkZj djrk gS fd og c<+rs cPps dks Qwy fxuuk
fl[kk, ;k cUnwd dh xksfy;k¡ pykukA ifjokj esa O;fDr lgu’khyrk lh[krk gSA HkkbZpkjs
dk igyk ikB mls ifjokj esa mldh ekrk }kjk i<+k;k tkrk gSA
;gk¡ ;g Hkh ladsr dj nsuk vko’;d gS fd bl lanHkZ esa eSa iq#"k oxZ dh mis{kk
ugha djuk pkgrkA oLrqr% lPpkbZ ;gh gS fd ifjokj esa ftruk le; iq#"k O;rhr djrk gS
mlls dgha vf/kd le; L=h vkt Hkh ifjokj dh ns[kHkky esa [kpZ djrh gSA ,d L=h pkgs
rks og c<+rs cPps ds eu esa mu laLdkjksa dks tUe ns ldrh gS tks Hkfo"; esa jk"Vªh; ,drk
dk etcwr dop fl) gksA
euksfo’ys"kdksa dk ;g ekuuk fcYdqy Bhd gS fd O;fDr dh izd`fr yxHkx
vifjorZu’khy gSA izd`fr ls rkRi;Z O;fDr ds ml ewy LoHkko ls gS tks mlds vkjafHkd
thou esa fodflr gksrk gS rFkk Hkfo"; esa Hkh cpk jgrk gSA bl LoHkko esa ;fn lfg".kqrk
vkSj HkkbZpkjs dk ikB 'kkfey gks rks D;k og ifjofrZr gks ldsxkA
ifjokj vkt Hkh Hkkjr esa ,d n`<+ bdkbZ gSA vr% ifjokj ds Lrj ij ;fn O;fDr
g¡luk cksyuk] gj rjg ds R;kSgkj ,d lkFk eukuk] vkfn lh[ks rks fQj LkkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz
dk fodkl Hkyk D;ksa u gksxkA
,d L=h dk LoHkko&
ySafxd foe’kZ dh vo/kkj.kkvksa ,oe~ euksfo’ys"k.kokn ds fl)karksa ij ;fn /;ku fn;k
tk, rks ;g Li"V gksxk fd L=h dk LoHkko iq#"k ds LoHkko dh rqyuk esa de fgald gksrk
gSA blds ihNs dkSu ls dkjd ftEesnkj gSa] ;gk¡ ;g ppkZ vko’;d ugha gSA loky bl ckr
dk gS fd D;k L=h ds ml LoHkko dk mi;ksx ldkjkRed <ax ls ugha fd;k tk ldrkA
fleksu n cqvkj (simon de BEAUVOIR) us viuh iqLrd ^n lsdsaM lsDl* esa ;g izekf.kr
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fd;k fd fdl izdkj c<+rh vk;q ds iq#"k esa fgalk vkSj Øwjrk rFkk c<+rh vk;q dh L=h esa
vfgalk o dkseyrk dk fodkl gksrk gSA
jk"Vªh; ,drk ds n`f"Vdks.k ls gekjs fy, ;g igyw cgqr egRoiw.kZ gSA ;g Bhd gS
fd vkt ge vfgalk dh ckr varjkZ"Vªh; ifjizs{; esa ml rjg ugha dj ldrs ij bruk
Li"V gS fd lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz ds fodkl esa vfgalk ds egRo dks udkjk ugha tk ldrkA
'kks"k.k dh ihM+k&
eSaus igys dgk gS fd lkEiznkf;drk dk f’kdkj fdlh Hkh /keZ esa lcls igys L=h dks
gksuk iM+rk gSA vr% ;gh ihM+k ;fn fL=;ksa ds eu esa fdlh rjg fodflr gks rks ge
lkEiznkf;drk dks cM+s iSekus ij jksd ldrs gSaA
dbZ o"kZ iwoZ ef.kiqj esa Hkkjrh; lsuk ds ccZj vR;kpkjksa ds fo:) ef.kiqj dh
vkfnoklh fL=;ksa us j{kkcU/ku ds fnu lM+dksa ij uXu izn’kZu fd;kA ;g ?kVuk Hkkjrh;
yksdra= ds bfrgkl dk cgqr dkyk ij egRoiw.kZ i`"B gSA fL=;ksa us ftl lkgl ls Hkkjrh;
lsuk dk izfrjks/k fd;k mlh lkgl ds lkFk ;fn lkEiznkf;d rkdrksa dk fojks/k djsa rks
jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fuekZ.k esa vR;ar egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA
izR;sd L=h de ls de vius lacaf/k;ksa rd viuh j{kk ds uke ij fgalk u djus dk
ncko Mky ldrh gSA gkykafd ;g ckr lquus esa dqN vthc yxsxh ij ckr ;gh gS fd
fL=;ka vius Åij fd, tk jgs vR;kpkjksa ds uke ij Hkh cgqr ls iq#"kksa ds eu esa
lkEiznkf;drk fojks/kh Hkkouk,a mRiUu dj ldrh gSaA dqy feykdj L=h dk lkgl yksxksa
dks ;g izsj.kk ns ldrk gS fd os jk"Vª dh ,drk dks cuk, j[kus ds fy, ;Fkk laHko iz;Ru
djsaA
/keZ] jk"Vª vkSj L=h&
jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lanHkZ esa /keZ ij ppkZ djuk [krjs dh ?kaVh tSlk yxrk gSA vc
;g ekuk tkus yxk gS fd O;fDr vxj /kkfeZd gS rks lkEiznkf;d vo’; gksxkA cqf)thoh
oxZ dh ckr u djsa rks de ls de lekt dk 60 Qhlnh fgLlk rks ;gh ekurk gSA ij
okLro esa Hkkjr esa /keZ dh tM+sa bruh xgjh gSa vkSj bruh dksey Hkh fd ;fn muesa dqN
dkV&NkaV gks rks ge jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fy, /kkfeZdrk dh ,d u;h tehu rS;kj dj ldrs
gSaA
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bl lanHkZ esa eSa R;kSgkjksa dk mYys[k djuk pkgw¡xk] [kklrkSj ij mu R;kSgkjksa dk tks
/keZ ds uke ij euk, tkrs gSaA ;g ,d L=h ij fuHkZj djrk gS fd og R;kSgkj ds fnu
vkus okys rFkkdfFkr xSj /kkfeZd O;fDr ds lkFk fdl rjg dk crkZo djsA ,d L=h dh
lfg".kqrk vkxarqd ds iwjs ifjokj dks lfg".kq cukus esa ;ksx ns ldrh gSA ;gh ugha R;kSgkjksa
ds volj ij gksus okys tqywlksa bR;kfn dh O;oLFkk Hkh vizR;{k <ax ls fL=;ksa dks gh djuh
iM+rh gSA vr% os ogk¡ Hkh ;RuiwoZd ,sls dk;ZØe [kklrkSj ls ukVd&ukSVadh bR;kfn ;k
yksdxhrksa ds ek/;e ls jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oe~ lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa dqN ;ksx vo’; ns
ldrh gSA
gkykafd ;g lc 'kgjh leqnk; ds lanHkZ esa cgqr de lkFkZd gS] ij blds ckotwn
Hkh ge ;g dgsaxs fd jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lanHkZ esa gj og dke lkFkZd gS tks lfg".kqrk dk
fodkl djsA
fookg& ifjokj] /keZ bR;kfn dh ppkZ ds ckn fookg dh ppkZ djuk vR;Ur vko’;d
gksxkA ;g Hkkjr tSls ns’k ds fy, lq[kn fLFkfr gS fd xr dbZ o"kksZa esa gekjs ;gka
vUrjkZ"Vªh; ,oe~ var% /kkfeZd fookgksa dh la[;k yxkrkj c<+h gSA lkEiznkf;drk dk vFkZ
dsoy xSj /kkfeZdksa ls gh tqM+k gqvk ugha gS] lkEiznkf;drk dk lcls [krjukd igyw tkfr
izFkk ls lEc) gSA tc ge Hkkjr tSls ns’k ds fy, lsD;wyj 'kCn dk iz;ksx djrs gSa rks
bldk ,d vFkZ tkfr fujis{k Hkh gksrk gSA ge tkfr fujis{k gq, cxSj iaFk fujis{k ugha gks
ldrsA
eq>s yxrk gS fd vUrZtkrh; fookg og ek/;e gS ftlls tkfrxr ca/kuksa dks Hkyh
Hkk¡fr rksM+k tk ldrk gSA dguk u gksxk fd vUrZtkrh; fookg tSlh izFkk dk izpyu L=h
ds lkgl ds cxSj vlaHko gSA bl rjg ;fn ns[kk tk, rks vUrZtkrh; fookgksa ds ek/;e ls
ge ,drk ,oe~ lkSgknZ ds ewy vFkZ rd igq¡p ldrs gSaA
;fn ns[kk tk, rks uxjh; ,oa egkuxjh; {ks=ksa esas detksj gksrh tkfr izFkk ,oe~
c<+rh jk"Vªh; ,drk ds ihNs fookg izFkk esa cnyko dh fu.kkZ;d Hkwfedk gSA bl fu.kkZ;d
Hkwfedk esa L=h dh fdruh Hkwfedk gS ;g crkuk 'kk;n vlaHko gSA
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efgykvksa ds iz;Ru
geus jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds fodkl esa efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk ls
lEc) ftu igyqvksa dh ppkZ dh gS] og egt vVdyckth ugha gSA fujarj c<+rh lk{kjrk]
jktuhfrd lfØ;rk] lkekftd tkx#drk] vkfFkZd vkRefuHkZjrk bl ckr dk izek.k gS fd
fL=;ksa us vc rd tks fd;k gS] Hkfo"; esa os mlls vf/kd djus dh {kerk j[krh gSaA {kerk
okys igyw dh ppkZ ge Åij dj pqds gSa ;gka ge jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lanHkZ esa vc rd fd,
x, efgykvksa ds iz;Ruksa dh ppkZ djsaxsA
bl lanHkZ esa ge ,sfrgkfld ifjizs{; dk lgkjk ysrs gq, lkekftd vkfFkZd rFkk
jktuSfrd lanHkksZa esa efgykvksa ds ;ksxnku dh ppkZ dj ldrs gSaA ;gk¡ ;g Li"V dj nsuk
vko’;d gS fd ;g ppkZ izk;% mUgha fL=;ksa ls lEc) gS ftUgksaus lgh ek;us esa tehuh Lrj
ij vke vkneh ds fgr esa dk;Z fd;k gSA nwljh ckr ;g fd jk"Vªh; ,drk dk vFkZ ;g Hkh
gS fd ge ihfM+r turk dh djkg dks eglwl djrs gq, mldh leL;kvksa ds lek/kku dk
;Ru djsaA vr% ;fn ,d vkneh Hkw[ks dks jksVh f[kykrk gS rks mldk jk"Vªh; ,drk esa mruk
gh ;ksxnku le>uk pkfg,] ftruk dh Hkkjrh; lsuk ;k iqfyl ds vf/kdkjh dkA efgykvksa
ds iz;Ru ij ppkZ djrs le; ge bUgha eqÌksa dks /;ku esa j[ksaxsA
lkekftd ifjizs{;&
jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lkekftd igyw dh ppkZ 'kq: djrs gh gekjs lkeus lcls igyk
loky tkx#drk dk gksrk gS vkSj ;gh og {ks= gS ftl {ks= esa efgykvksa us lokZf/kd dke
fd;kA if’pe caxky tSls jkT; esa egk’osrk nsoh us fiNM+s gq, yksxksa ds gd esa tks yM+kbZ
yM+h gS] mls Hkqyk;k ugha tk ldrkA O;fDr dks tc rd mlds gd u feys] rc rd og
jk"Vª ds vFkZ ls vifjfpr jgsxkA egk’osrk nsoh tSlh efgykvksa us ;gh dk;Z djus dh
dksf’k’k dh gSA
nwljk mnkgj.k mÙkj izns’k ds cqUnsy[k.M dk gS] tgk¡ efgykvksa us laxfBr gksdj
^[kcj ygfj;k* tSls lekpkj i= dk vkjaHk fd;kA ;g lekpkj i= bruk yksdfiz; gqvk
fd ;qusLdks tSlh laLFkk us bls iqjLd`r fd;kA Li"V gS fd ,sls bykdksa rd jk"Vªh; ;kstuk
dh lwpuk,a igq¡pkuk ,slk dk;Z ugha gS fd bls ge pqVdh ctkrs gh vatke ns ldsA fdj.k
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csnh tSlh efgyk,a vkdk’kok.kh rFkk Lo;alsoh laxBuksa ls tqM+dj tks dk;Z dj jgh gSa] og
vfoLej.kh; gSA
jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lkekftd ifjizs{; ds nwljs igyw dk laca/k fganw /keZ ds brj yksxksa
ls gSA 21oha lnh esa ?kVh xqtjkr dh lkEiznkf;d ?kVuk,a] 21oha lnh esa vc rd dk lcls
nq%[kn igyw gSA ge ^rhLrk lhryokM+* tSlh efgyk ds ;ksxnku dks dSls Hkwy ldrs gSa
ftlus ml vYila[;d leqnk; ds leFkZu dk chM+k mBk;k] ftls vfgUnw gksus ds dkj.k
vlfg".kq Hkh ekuk tk jgk FkkA dguk u gksxk fd ,sls leFkZdksa ds vHkko esa ge jk"Vª ds
fy, vfgUnw rcdksa ds leFkZu ls oafpr gh jgsaxsA
jk"Vªh; ,drk dk vFkZ dsoy ,d jk"Vª dh ,drk ls gh ugha gS] bl ckr dks vusd
efgykvksa us vius izR;uksa ls izekf.kr fd;k gSA igys ^,suh cslsUV* o ^enj Vsjslk* tSlh
efgykvksa us ;g lkfcr fd;k fd jk"Vª ;k jk"Vªh;rk ,d ekufld vo/kkj.kk gSA bu
efgykvksa us mu rcdksa ds fy, dke fd;k ftuds fy, fganqLrku ds rFkkdfFkr jk"Vªlsoh Hkh
rc rd dqN djus esa v{ke jgs FksA
?kjsyw fgalk fganqLrkuh fookg O;oLFkk dh lcls nq[kn igyw jgh gSA vkt t:jr
bl ckr dh ugha gS fd blds fojks/k esa cgqr ls dkuwu cuk fn, tk,¡] tks vc rd ?kjsyw
fgalk ds fojks/k esa cuk, x, gSaA vusd xSj&ljdkjh] lkekftd laxBuksa us bl {ks= esa
vHkwriwoZ dk;Z fd;k gSA ^fdj.k csnh* tSlh efgyk,a vc rd vufxur efgykvksa ds
vf/kdkjksa dh yM+kbZ yM+ pqdh gSa vkSj yM+ Hkh jgh gSaA vk’p;Z rks rc gksrk gS tc
xSj&lekt lsoh laxBuksa us ?kjsyw fgalk vf/kfu;e esa iq#"kksa ds vf/kdkjksa dk Hkh leFkZu
fd;kA bu efgykvksa us fgalk dks ,d i{k ls ugha cfYd mldks fgalk dh rjg ns[kkA
vr% jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lkekftd igyw dks fodflr djus esa efgykvksa us vc rd
tks dk;Z fd, gSa mls ns[krs gq, ge tkx#d Hkfo"; esa ,d iw.kZ tkx#d lekt dh dYiuk
dj ldrs gSaA
vkfFkZd ifjizs{;& vkfFkZd le`f)] ,drk rFkk lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds fodkl dh lokZf/kd
egRoiw.kZ 'krZ gSA vc rd ds tks vkadM+s miyC/k gSa mudks ns[krs gq, ;g lgtrk ls dgk
tk ldrk gS fd naxkbZ;ksa ,oa vkradokfn;ksa dk laca/k vf/kdk’kar% fuEu rcdksa ls jgk gSA
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vr% t:jr bl ckr dh gS fd jk"Vªksa dks vkfFkZd n`f"V ls ;FkklaHko le`) cuk;k tk,]
rkfd vFkZ ds ykyp esa dksbZ O;fDr ,sls lekt fojks/kh dk;ksZa dh vksj u eqM+sA
bl {ks= esa efgykvksa us dbZ rjg ds iz;Ru fd, gSaA mÙkj izns’k] fcgkj] iatkc o
gfj;k.kk tSls jkT;ksa esa fL=;ksa us Lo;a lgk;rk lewg cukdj xjhch ls Åij mBus dk
iz;Ru fd;kA ,sls lewg yxkrkj fodflr gks jgs gSaA blds vfrfjDr dqVhj m|ksxksa ds {ks=
esa cukjl o vktex<+ ds vklikl ds lkM+h m|ksx dh tks fLFkfr gS og izk;% efgykvksa ds
dkj.k gh gSA
blds vfrfjDr Hkkjr ds nf{k.kh jkT;ksa esa rFkk if’peh mÙkj izns’k o gfj;k.kk esa
efgykvksa us d`f"k ds {ks= esa egRoiw.kZ dk;Z fd, gaSA buesa ls dqN efgyk,a vc bruh l{ke
gSa fd vusd ifjokjksa dks jkstxkj ns ldrh gaSA mÙkjksÙkj le`) gksrs Hkkjr ds fuekZ.k esa D;k
;g de egRoiw.kZ ;ksxnku gS \
jktuhfrd ifjizs{; & jk"Vªh; ,drk ds jktuhfrd igyw dh ppkZ vkjaHk djrs le; Hkh ;g
nksgjk nsuk vko’;d gksxk fd jktuhfrd lfØ;rk ls vf/kd egRoiw.kZ gS] jktuSfrd
tkx#drkA jktuSfrd tkx#drk dh c<+ksrjh esa vc rd ftu fL=;ksa us egRoiw.kZ dk;Z
fd;k gS] muesa v#.kk jkW; dk uke lcls igys ysuk pkfg,A mUgksaus lwpuk dk vf/kdkj
tSls egRoiw.kZ fo"k; ij tks cgqvk;keh iz;Ru fd;s og vR;ar ljkguh; gSaA ;g vf/kfu;e
jk"Vªh; ,drk ds izlkj esa egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrk gS] D;ksafd ,drk ds fy, usr`Ro ij
Hkjkslk djuk vko’;d gS vkSj Hkjksls ds fy, usr`Ro o tulkekU; ds chp ikjnf’kZrk vo’;
gksuh pkfg,A tkuus dk vf/kdkj tulkekU; vkSj usr`Ro ds chp ikjnf’kZrk cuk, j[kus dh
,slh gh dksf’k’k gSA
vusd lfØ; jktuhfrKksa us Hkh jktuhfrd tkx#drk ds izlkj esa egRoiw.kZ dk;Z
fd;k gSA ge ns[krs gSa fd vkt dbZ izns’kksa esa rFkk jk"Vªh; Lrj ij efgyk,a lfØ;
jktuhfr esa 'kh"kZLFk gaSA tc ;s fL=;ka tu lkekU; ds chp tkdj muls lh/kk laokn
LFkkfir djrh gSa] rc dqN yksxksa esa mu tSlk cuuk rFkk dqN esa mu ij Hkjkslk djus dh
Hkkouk ,d lkFk mRiUu gksrh gSA
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ukSdj’kkgh og egRoiw.kZ {ks= gS tks jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oe~ lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds
fodkl esa egRoiw.kZ ;ksxnku ns ldrk gSA ^fdj.k csnh* dh ppkZ ge Åij dj pqds gSaA
muds vfrfjDr vusd ,slh fL=;ka gSa ftUgksaus bl {ks= esa tkdj tulkekU; ds gd dh
yM+kbZ yM+h gSA ;gh ugha lhek lqj{kk cy esa efgykvksa ds izos’k ds ihNs Hkh bu lQy
ukSdj’kkg fL=;ksa dh gh Hkwfedk gSA
la{ksi esa jktuhfrd tkx#drk ,oa jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fodkl esa tks vc rd laHko
Fkk] 'kk;n mruk gh fd;k tk jgk gSA
ewY;kadu&
geus jk"Vªh; ,drk rFkk lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZ ds fodkl esa fL=;ksa ds ;ksxnku dh tks
ppkZ dh gS] og ppkZ dk pedrk gqvk igyw gSA dgus dks ;g Hkh dgk tk ldrk gS ¼vkSj
dqN yksx dgrs Hkh gSa½ fd fL=;ksa dh fLFkfr igys ls vf/kd n;uh; gks x;h gSA vr% os
,sls {ks=ksa esa yxHkx ux.; gaSA esjs fopkj esa ;g dguk le; ls ihNs ykSVus dh rjg gS
vkSj ge tkurs gSa fd bfrgkl dHkh ykSVrk ughaA
ge dg ldrs gSa fd ;fn L=h lk{kjrk nj vkSj rsth ls c<+s] ikfjokfjd ca/ku dqN
f’kfFky gks ldsa] iq#"k viuk opZLo dqN de djsa vkSj fL=;ksa dks muds lHkh dkuwuh
vf/kdkj ns fn, tk,a rc ge lpeqp ,d lQy ,oe~ l’kDr jk"Vª dk fuekZ.k dj ldsaxsA
,slk jk"Vª tgka izoklh Hkh vius ns’k dh rjg jg ldsaA
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Hkkjrh; ukfj;k¡ R;kx’khy ,oa /kS;Zoku gksrh gSa
&jktho jatu
Hkkjr lkekfld laLd`fr dk izfrfuf/kRo LFky gSA bl lekfldrk dh lokZf/kd
egRoiw.kZ fo’ks"krk bldh lkekftd lajpuk gS] vkSj Hkkjrh; ukfj;ka bl lkekftd lajpuk
dk ,d egRoiw.kZ Hkkx gaSA ;g lajpuk thoar xfr’khy ,oa jpukRed gSA Hkkjr dh laLd`fr
bl lajpuk ls vfHkUu :i ls tqM+h gS vkSj fofo/krk bl laLd`fr dh lcls cM+h fo’ks"krk
gSA oLrqr% fofo/k laiznk; Hkkjr dh laLd`fr dk fgLlk gaS] ijarq ftl rjg Hkkjr dh
laLd`fr fpjdkfyd v{kq..k ,oa thoar jgh gS& ;g rHkh laHko gS] tc lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko
lPpkbZ ds :i esa dk;e jgk gksA lkaiznkf;d lg vfLrRo dh bl ,sfrgkfld dgkuh esa
Hkkjrh; ukfj;ksa dh egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk jgh gSA
bl Hkwfedk dh i`"BHkwfe esa dqN egRoiw.kZ iz’uksa ij fopkj djuk t:jh gSA ,d
egRoiw.kZ iz’u laiznk; ,oa lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dks le>uk gSA lkFk gh gesa lkaiznkf;drk
ds Øfed fodkl inkuqØe dks Hkh tkuuk gksxkA blh rjg jk"Vªh;rk ,oa jk"Vªh; ,drk ds
varlZaca/kksa dh [kkst Hkh visf{kr gksxhA lokZf/kd izklafxd iz’u ftldh [kkst tkjh gS og gS
buds fy, ukjh gh D;ksa \
bl vkf[kjh iz’u dk tckc lcls igys fn;k tkuk visf{kr gksxk vkSj blds tckc
gsrq ukfj;ksa dh lkekftd&euksoSKkfud n'kk dh tkudkjh t:jh gSA bl lanHkZ esa lokZf/kd
igyh egRoiw.kZ ckr ;g gS fd ukfj;ka LoHkko ls gh 'kkar vkSj fLFkj fpÙk okyh gksrh gSaA
muesa lkekftd lfg".kqrk dk Lrj Hkh Å¡pk gksrk gSA blh dh cnkSyr lekt dks le>us
dk utfj;k T;knk laosnu'khy ,oa tkx:d izd`fr dk gksrk gSA bl laca/k esa ukscy
iqjLdkj fotsrk izks- veZR; lsu us vius dY;k.kdkjh vFkZ’kkL= esa ukfj;ksa ds LoHkko vkSj
R;kx Hkko dks cryk;k gSA muds vuqlkj ?kj&ifjokj esa idk gqvk Hkkstu lcls igys ?kj
dk iz/kku iq#"k [kkrk gS] fQj cPps [kkrs gSa] vkSj lcls var esa cpk [kkuk ukjh [kkrh gSA
vxj [kkuk ugha cprk gS] rks lkekU;r% mls Hkw[kk gh jguk iM+rk gSA
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blh rjg tokgjyky usg# fo’ofo|ky; ds ^Ldwy vkWQ lks’ky LVMht* ds vuqlkj
Hkkjrh; ukfj;ka LoHkko ls gh R;kx’khy ,oa /kS;Zoku gksrh gSA blh dh otg ls mudks
dqiks"k.k dk f’kdkj gksuk iM+rk gSA
/keZ okLro esa ,d thou 'kSyh gS] vkSj /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk thou dk izokg gS] mRizsjd
gS] Lusgd gSA ;gh otg gS fd ifjokj] /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk ls ifjp; dh igyh lh<+h gS vkSj
pwafd ukjh ifjokj uked bdkbZ dh /kqjh gS( blfy, ukjh gh ifjokj dh lkaiznkf;d
ekufldrk dh daqth gSA nwljs 'kCnksa esa ifjokj dh /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk] ukjh dh lksp ls
lekurk j[krh gSA bruk gh ugha bl lksp dk lh/kk izHkko ?kj ds cPpksa ij iM+rk gSA vr%
vxyh ih<+h dh /kkfeZd lksp Hkh ukjh dh O;fDrxr lksp ,oa psruk ls lh/kh izHkkfor gksrh
gSA
blh rjg ukjh dh lksp dk izHkko ,drk ds fuekZ.k] blds lao)Zu vkSj ifj"dj.k
ij iM+rk gS vkSj bldh 'kq:vkr ?kj&ifjokj ls gh gksrh gSA mnkgj.k ds fy, ?kj esa
ctrk gqvk jsfM;ks] Vh-oh- pSuy vFkok laxhr ml ?kj dh lksp dk izfrfuf/kRo djrs gSaA
fdlh ifjokj esa bldh 'kq:vkr Hktu ls gks ldrh gS rks fdlh esa xkyh&xykSt vFkok
jksus&/kksus lsA
Hkkjr ds ;qok vkn’kZ Lokeh foosdkuan ds vuqlkj gekjh lksp dk lh/kk izHkko gekjs
fnu&izfrfnu ds fØ;kdykiksa ij iM+rk gS vkSj izR;sd lksp ,oa fØ;kdyki dh gekjs
efLr"d ij ,d ydhj ¼ykbZu vkQW ,D’ku½ f[kaprh gSA bldk izHkko gekjh vknr vkSj
gekjs pfj= ij iM+rk gS vkSj iqu% jk"Vªh; pfj= ,sls gh O;fDrxr pfj=ksa dk ;ksx gSA
Hkkjr dh /kkfeZd&lkaLd`frd fofo/krk dh >yd gesa fofHkUu izkarksa ,oa voljksa ij
euk;s tkus okys ioZ&R;ksgkjksa ,oa jhfr&fjoktksa esa feyrh gSA Hkkjrh; lekt dh LokHkkfod
izd`fr ;g jgh gS fd ge u flQZ vius /keZ fo’ks"k ls tqM+s ioZ&R;kSgkj eukrs gSa] cfYd
nwljs /keksZa ls tqM+s ioZ&R;kSgkjksa dk vknj Hkh djrs gSa] ijarq iqu% bl izd`fr dk ewy dkj.k
gekjs lekt dh ukfj;ksa dh lksp ,oa mudk LoHkko gSA
blh rjg jhfr&fjoktksa dk vuqikyu djuk vFkok u djuk ?kj dh vkSjrksa dk dke
gksrk gSA yacs le; rd ,d lkFk vkl&iM+ksl esa jgdj jhfr&fjoktksa dk vknku&iznku Hkh
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gqvk gSA mnkgj.k ds fy, vkt dbZ Hkkjrh; eqfLye fL=;ka flanwj yxkrh gSa] tks blh
vknku&iznku dk izfrQy gSA
blh rjg iwtk&ikB esa ukfj;ksa dh vfHk#fp T;knk gksrh gS vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk dk
blls cM+k mnkgj.k D;k gks ldrk gS fd laiw.kZ mÙkj&Hkkjr ds eafnjksa ,oa unh&?kkVksa ij
dsjy ds ukfj;y QksM+s tkrs gSa vkSj ,slk foxr dqN o"kksZa ls ugha cfYd lfn;ksa ls gksrk jgk
gSA
orZeku le; esa ge mnkjhdj.k&futhdj.k ,oa oS’ohdj.k ds ;qx esa jg jgs gSaA ,sls
esa izokl ds vk;ke T;knk foLr`r gksrs tk jgs gSaA ,sls esa [kkldj ukfj;ksa dk fookg&izsfjr
izokl T;knk gqvk gSA ;s izokl ns’kO;kih gSa& var%izknsf’kd ,oa varjizknsf’kdA ijarq ,sls
fookgksa dh lQyrk ewy :i ls ukfj;ksa ij gksrh gS( D;ksafd LFkkukarj.k mUgha dk gksrk gSA
iqu% fookg ds Hkh dbZ uohu :i mHkjs gSa ftuesa vartkZrh; fookg( varlkaZEiznkf;d fookg
vkfn egRoiw.kZ gSaA lkFk gh fyo&bu&fjys’kuf’ki Hkh cM+s 'kgjksa dh lPpkbZ cudj mHkjs
gSaA ;s fookg varjlkaLd`frd izd`fr ds gSa vr% jk"Vªh; ,drk ds fy, budh lQyrk t:jh
gS] D;ksafd ,sls fookgksa ,oa laca/kksa dk izHkko nwljksa ij Hkh iM+rk gS vkSj os Hkh ldkjkRed
vFkok udkjkRed :i ls izHkkfor gksrs gSaA vr% ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk varlkaZEiznkf;d leUo;
,oa jk"Vªh; ,drk esa O;kid gksrh gSA
blh rjg dbZ udkjkRed O;kf/k;ka lekt ,oa jk"Vª dks xgjkbZ ls izHkkfor djrh gSaA
tSls& Hkz"Vkpkj] ywVekj] fL=;ksa ,oa cPpksa ls fgalk vkfnA budk Lrj ftruk gh T;knk
gksxk lekt ,oa jk"Vª mruk gh fodsanzhd`r cy eglwl djsxk] tks varr% mudks fo[kafMr
dj ldrk gSA ukfj;ksa ds lkekftd&euksoSKkfud fo’ys"k.k ls irk pyrk gS fd os ,slh
udkjkRed O;kf/k;ksa dks u rks T;knk ilan djrh gSa] u gh buesa 'kkfey gksrh gSaA
lkFk gh lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, uSfrd ewY;ksa dh t:jr gksrh gSA ukfj;ka lkekU;
:Ik ls uSfrd ewY;ksa ,oa igyqvksa ls T;knk tqM+h gksrh gSA vr% /kkfeZd ln~Hkko ,oa jk"Vªh;
,drk ds fy, ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk egRoiw.kZ gks tkrh gSA
iqu% forj.kewyd U;k; lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, dsanzh; Hkwfedk j[krs gSaA ge vleku
U;k; okys jk"Vª dks yacs le; rd ,dhd`r ugha j[k ldrsA bl U;k; esa lkekftd]
vkfFkZd ,oa jktuhfrd U;k; 'kkfey gSA pwafd ukfj;ka yacs le; ls forj.kewyd U;k; ls
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oafpr jgh gaS] vr% ,d rks gesa muds /kS;Z ,oa lkgl dh iz’kalk djuh pkfg,] ftlus yacs
le; ls jk"Vª dh ,drk dh vfHko`f) dk Hkh iz;kl fd;kA
Hkkjr ,d d`f"k iz/kku ns’k gS] ftlesa ns’k dh nks&frgkbZ tula[;k izR;{k vFkok
vizR;{k :Ik ls tqM+h gSA bl tula[;k dk ,d cM+k Hkkx Hkkjrh; ukfj;ksa dk gSA orZeku
le; esa m|ksx ,oa lsok {ks= dh Hkwfedk rsth ls c<+h gS vkSj lkFk esa ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk Hkh
buesa rsth ls c<+h gSA vFkZO;oLFkk esa mudh c<+rh Hkkxhnkjh us dbZ ifjfLFkfr;ksa ,oa vk;keksa
dks tUe fn;k gSA bldh ifj.kfr ;g gqbZ gS fd ukfj;ksa dh xR;kRedrk c<+h gS] vr%
lkaLd`frd ,oa varjlkaLd`frd leUo; c<+k gS( ukfj;ksa dh igpku dk;e gqbZ ,oa muds
fu.kZ;ksa dks lekt ,oa jk"Vª esa txg feyh gSA buls /kkfeZd ln~Hkko ds lkFk gh jk"Vªh;
,drk Hkh c<+h gSA
,d LoLFk ns’k esa gh LoLFk lksp dk fuokl laHko gSA /kkfeZd ln~Hkko ,oa jk"Vªh;
,drk ,slh gh LoLFk lksp dk ifjpk;d gSA ijarq jk"Vª LoLFk gks blds fy, dbZ vo;oksa
dh t:jr gksrh gSA buesa lkekftd vf/klajpuk tSls& f’k{kk] LokLF;] iks"k.k vkfn dk
O;kid egRo gSA blh rjg HkkSfrd vf/klajpuk tSls& lM+d] jsy] ikbZi ykbu] ÅtkZ vkfn
dh Hkh t:jr gksrh gSA [kkldj lkekftd vf/klajpuk ds fuekZ.k esa ukfj;ksa dh Hkwfedk
O;kid gksrh gSA ;gh otg gS fd izkFkfed f’k{kk( LokLF; ifj;kstukvksa vkfn esa ukfj;ksa dh
Hkwfedk dks ljdkj us Hkh Lohdkj fd;k gSA tSls& vkaxuckM+h dsanz] vk’kk dh fu;qfDr
vkfnA
jktuSfrd fodsanzhdj.k gekjs ns’k dh ,d egRoiw.kZ yksdfiz; ekax jgh gS( ftls 73osa
,oa 74osa lafo/kku la’kks/ku ds }kjk laLFkkxr :Ik fn;k x;k gSA blus laiw.kZ ns’k esa iapk;rksa
dks ,d leku :Ik iznku fd;k gSA lkFk gh efgykvksa ds ,d&frgkbZ vkj{k.k us iapk;rksa esa
efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk c<+k nh gSA bl Hkwfedk dk izfrQy ;g gqvk fd iapk;rksa esa tkfrxr
foHkktu] /kkfeZd foHkktu ,oa dbZ vU; foHkktudkjh 'kfDr;ksa ij vadq’k yxk gSA dkyok
iapk;r ¼vka/kz izns’k½ dh Qkfrek ch dks dkSu ugha tkurk] ftlus viuh bPNk’kfDr ls u
flQZ iapk;r dk dk;kdYi fd;k] cfYd la;qDr jk"Vª ds eap ij lEekfur gqbZA ;g
vk’p;Z gS fd Qkfrek fuj{kj FkhA
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Hkkjr ds le`) yacs bfrgkl esa ge izkphu dky ls gh dbZ mnkgj.k ns[krs gSa] ftuesa
efgykvksa us lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, viuk ;ksxnku fn;k gSA oSfnd dky esa ge fo’pqyk
vkSj dfiyk tSlh fonq"kh fL=;ksa dk ;ksxnku ns[krs gSaA Hkkjr laxzke esa ge iqu% ,sls
mnkgj.k ns[krs gSaA >kalh dh jkuh y{ehckbZ( jkuh xkSfMUY;q( izseyrk vkfn ,sls gh egRoiw.kZ
mnkgj.k gSa ftudk uke ge vkt Hkh lekt ,oa jk"Vª dh ,drk ,oa v[kaMrk ds fy, ysrs
gSaA
oLrqr% ukfj;k¡ gekjh tula[;k dk vk/kk Hkkx gSA blfy, eksVs rkSj ij gekjh vk/kh
lksp] gekjs vk/ks fopkj] gekjs vk/ks larks"k ,oa gekjs lekt vkSj jk"Vª dk vk/kk HkkX; mu
ij fuHkZj gSA mudk ;gh LokHkkfod vk/kk Hkkx gekjs lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fy, egRoiw.kZ gSA
ijarq iqu% 'ks"k vk/kh tula[;k dks izHkkfor ,oa izsfjr djus esa Hkh ukfj;ksa dh egRoiw.kZ
Hkwfedk gSA fuf’pr :Ik ls ijns ds ihNs ds fopkj ijns ds ckgj ds uk;d ds fy,
egRoiw.kZ mRizsjd gksrs gSaA oLrqr% gekjh laLd`fr dks ;gh fof’k"V cukrk gS vkSj ;gh
fof’k"Vrk bls lekfldrk iznku djrh gS] ftlesa lc dqN ipkus ,oa Lokaxhd`r djus dh
{kerk gSA ;gh otg gS fd /kkfeZd ln~Hkko vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa v[kaMrk tSls rRo
fpjdky ls blds vo;o cus jgs gSaA
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efgyk;sa lkekftd ,oa jk"Vªh; iqufuZekZ.k dh lz"Vk
&lqjsUnz dqekj >k
fdlh Hkh jk"Vª dh [kq’kgkyh esa efgykvksa dk izR;{k ;k vizR;{k :i ls ;ksxnku
mYys[kuh; gksrk gSA ;g rF; loZfofnr gS fd efgykvksa dh dk;Z{kerk fdlh Hkh ek;us esa
iq#"kksa ls de ugha gksrhA ,slk os fl) Hkh dj pqdh gSa fd ,d lcy jk"Vª ds fuekZ.k esa
mudh Hkwfedk egRoiw.kZ gS] ysfdu ;s lkjh ckrsa ml rF; ij fuHkZj djrha gSa fd gekjk jk"Vª
vkSj lekt efgykvksa dks dkSu&lk LFkku nsrk gSA ;fn lekt ikjEifjd :f<+;ksa ds ca/ku esa
tdM+ dj mUgsa vius izkIr vf/kdkjksa ls oafpr j[krk gS rFkk lkekftd] vkfFkZd ,oa
jktuhfrd izfØ;k esa mudh Hkkxhnkjh dks vLohdkj djrk gS] rks fuf’pr :i ls bldk
lekt ,oa jk"Vª ds fodkl ij izfrdwy vlj iM+sxkA blds foijhr ;fn lekt esa mUgsa
iq#"kksa ds leku vf/kdkj fn, tk,a] lekt esa mudh Hkwfedk dks egÙkk nh tk,] muesa f’k{kk
dk izlkj gksrk jgs rFkk izR;sd {ks= esa mudh lfØ;rk cuh jgs] rks jk"Vª vo’; fodkl ds
y{; dks izkIr djus esa vxzlj jgsxkA
Hkkjr ,d fo’kky Hkw&Hkkx okyk ns’k gS] tgk¡ fofHkUu tkfr] /keZ] Hkk"kk ,oa laLd`fr
ds yksx ,d lkFk jgrs gSaA bu fofo/krkvksa dh otg ls gh Hkkjr cgqlaLd`frokn dh ,d
,slh felky cu x;k gS] tgk¡ gj dqN nwjh ij lQj djus ds ckn cksfy;k¡ rFkk lkaLd`frd
izFkk,a cny tkrh gSaA bu fofo/krkvksa ds ckotwn ge vkt Hkh dqN vioknksa dks NksM+ dj]
dne ls dne feykdj py jgs gSaA bl jk"Vªh; leUo; ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ds fy,
ge lHkh dks viuh&viuh Hkwfedk fuHkkuh gksrh gSA blesa ftruh Hkwfedk iq#"kksa dh gS]
mruh gh Hkwfedk efgykvksa dh Hkh gSA
LkkEiznkf;drk ,d ,slh ekufldrk gS ftlesa dksbZ O;fDr ;k lewg [kqn dks ;k vius
lEiznk; ds yksxksa dks vU; lEiznk; ls Js"B ekurk gS rFkk vU; lEiznk; ls lacaf/kr yksxksa
dks viuk izfr}U}h ;k viuk 'k=q ekurk gSA ,slh fLFkfr esa dbZ ckj nks lEiznk;ksa ds chp
dqN eqÌksa ij la?k"kZ gks tkrk gSA ,sls la?k"kZ dk izHkko lokZf/kd efgykvksa dks gh >syuk gksrk
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gSA ;g ckr Hkh r; gS fd efgyk,a ,sls la?k"kZ esa 'kkfey ugha gksrha ;k muds 'kkfey gksus
dk izfr’kr ux.; gSA fQj Hkh lcls vf/kd izHkkfor os gh gksrh gSaA bldk dkj.k ;g gS
fd os bldk u dsoy izR;{k cfYd ijks{k :i ls Hkh f’kdkj gksrh gSaA ,sls esa vkrrk;h >q.M
efgykvksa dks viuk f’kdkj cukus dh dksf’k’k djrs gaS] ftlls os 'kkjhfjd ,oa ekufld
nksuksa gh :i ls izHkkfor gksrh gSaA ;fn iq#"kksa dks Hkh fu’kkuk cuk;k tk,] rc Hkh os vizR;{k
:iksa ls izHkkfor gksrh gh gSA ,slk blfy, D;ksafd ukjh l’kfDrdj.k ds bl ;qx esa Hkh
cgqla[;d efgyk,a fdlh u fdlh iq#"k ij gh ¼pkgs og mudk firk gks] ifr gks ;k iq=
gks½ fuHkZj gSaA ,sls esa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa efgykvksa dk nkf;Ro vkSj Hkh c<+ tkrk gSA
Hkkjr esa fofHkUu vkUnksyuksa ds lkFk&lkFk ukjhoknh vkUnksyu us Hkh viuk LFkku ,oa
viuh igpku lqfuf’pr dh gSA ;|fi efgykvksa us Lora=rk vkanksyu ls ysdj lHkh
ikjaifjd ,oa uo lkekftd vkanksyuksa esa viuh lfØ; Hkwfedk fuHkkbZ gS] ijUrq blls vyx
gV dj Hkh mUgksaus ,d ,slk eap rS;kj fd;k] ftlesa lHkh ukfj;ka viuh tkfr] {ks= ,oa
lEiznk; dks Hkwy dj viuh leL;kvksa ds lek/kku ds fy, ,d lkFk vkxs vk;ha gSaA dksbZ
Hkh leL;k vyx&vyx efgykvksa dks] vyx&vyx le; esa] vyx&vyx :iksa esa izHkkfor
djrh gSA blh vk/kkj ij ?ku’;ke 'kkg us viuh iqLrd ^lks’ky ewoesaV bu bafM;k* esa
ukjh&vkanksyu dh ppkZ djrs gq, fy[kk gS fd naxk gks ;k dksbZ vU; eqÌk ukjh dh igpku
ges’kk gh viuh tkfr] {ks= ;k lEiznk; dh igpku ls vyx jgh gSA bl izdkj
lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa ukjh dh Hkwfedk iq#"kksa ls Hkh vf/kd egRoiw.kZ izrhr gksrh gSA enj
Vsjslk ,d ,slk uke gS ftlus viuh lsok ek= ls lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dks c<+kok fn;kA
mUgksaus viuh lsok esa u {ks= ns[kk] u jax] u Hkk"kk] u tkfr vkSj u gh /keZA os lHkh yksxksa
dks viuh lsok eqDr&gLr yqVkrh jghaA mUgsa ds uD’ks dne ij flLVj fueZyk Hkh py jgh
gSa vkSj yksxksa dh lsok esa yxh gSaA fFk;kslksfQdy lkslkbVh ls tqM+h ,uh csls.V us Hkh Hkkjr
esa lkEiznkf;d ,oa jk"Vªh; cU/kqRo LFkkfir djus ds fy, fo’ks"k iz;kl fd,] ftldk Hkkjrh;
Lora=rk vkanksyu esa fo’ks"k ;ksxnku jgkA
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Hkkjr tSls fo’kky jk"Vª esa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ds lkFk&lkFk jk"Vªh; leUo; Hkh
vR;Ur egRoiw.kZ gSA ;fn v[k.M Hkkjrh; Lo:i dks cuk, j[kuk gS] rks Hkkjr ds lHkh
jkT;ksa ,oa dsUnz 'kkflr izns’kksa esa Hkkjr ds izfr jk"Vªh;rk ,oa jk"Vªh; leUo; dks cuk,
j[kuk vko’;d gSA vkt blesa fofHkUu jktuhfrd usr`Ro viuh&viuh Hkwfedk fuHkk jgs gSa]
ftlesa Hkkjr ds nks lcls egRoiw.kZ nyksa dkaxzsl o Hkktik ds egRoiw.kZ inksa ij efgyk,a gh
fojkteku gSaA dkaxzsl v/;{kk ,oa laizx la;ksftdk lksfu;k xka/kh ,oa Hkktik dh us=h o
yksd lHkk esa foi{k dh usrk lq"kek Lojkt jk"Vªh; Lrj ij egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk jgh gSaA
;fn Lora=rk ls igys dh fLFkfr esa pysa] rc Hkh efgykvksa us viuh mi;ksxh Hkwfedk
fl) dh gSaA ckr pkgs vktknh dh tax yM+ jgs fganqLrku dh gks ;k vktkn Hkkjr dh&
efgykvksa dk ;ksxnku Hkqyk;k ugha tk ldrkA dqN dj fn[kkus dk tTck ml le; Hkh
muds eu esa Fkk] tc os ?kj dh pkjnhokjh esa ltkdj j[ks tkus okys lkeku dh rjg FkhaA
rc Hkh mUgksaus pkS[kV ls ckgj vkdj viuh 'kfDr nqfu;k dks crkbZA dksey eu dh n`<+rk
vkSj vlhfer {kerk,a rc [kqydj lkeus vkbZa] tc bUgksaus ns’k esa gh ugha fons’kksa esa Hkh
viuh izfrHkk dk yksgk euok;kA 1947 esa ns’k dh igyh efgyk jkT;iky ¼mÙkj izns’k½ pquh
xbaZ] ^ljksftuh uk;Mw* ns’k dh jk"Vªh; jktuhfr esa egRoiw.kZ ;ksxnku ds fy, lnk ;kn j[kh
tk,axhA 1925 esa mUgsa Hkkjrh; jk"Vªh; dk¡xzsl dk v/;{k cuk;k x;kA ^ljksftuh uk;Mw* dh
lfØ;rk us efgykvksa ds fy, jktuhfr esa vge~ LFkku cuk fn;kA vktknh ds fy, gq,
vkanksyu esa lfØ; jgha ljksftuh uk;Mw us nkaMh ;k=k esa egkRek xka/kh ds dne ls dne
feyk,A blh izdkj fot;y{eh iafMr] ,uh csls.V tSlh efgykvksa us Hkkjrh; jk"Vªh; cU/kqRo
ds fy, fo’ks"k ;ksxnku fn;kA fot;y{eh iafMr us rks ns’k ds lkFk&lkFk fons’kksa esa la;qDr
jk"Vª la?k rd Hkkjr dk ijpe ygjk;k gS rFkk mUgksaus la;qDr jk"Vª egklHkk dh izFke
efgyk v/;{k ¼1953½ gksus dk xkSjo izkIr fd;kA ,uh csls.V us Hkh /kkfeZd leUo; ds
lkFk&lkFk jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa fo’o cU/kqRo ds fy, fo’ks"k iz;kl fd,A Hkkjrh; Lora=rk
vkUnksyuksa esa Hkh mudk ;ksxnku vrqyuh; gSA mUgksaus yksxksa dks viuh Lora=rk ,oa
xfjeke; thou ds izfr tkx#d fd;k( rkfd yksx lEefyr :i ls vius vf/kdkj ds fy,
yM+ ldsaA
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Lora=rk mijkUr Hkh es/kk ikVdj] fdj.k csnh] efYydk lkjkHkkbZ] flLVj fueZyk]
egk’osrk nsoh] v#a/krh jkW;] 'kckuk vkt+eh vkfn gfLr;k¡ vius&vius Lrj ls vius dk;ksZa
}kjk Hkkjr esa jk"Vªh; ,drk ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ ykus ds iz;kl djrh jgh gSaA es/kk
ikVdj ueZnk cpkvks vkUnksyu ds ek/;e ls xjhc fdlkuksa ds vf/kdkj ds fy, yM+ jgh gSa
rkfd muds iquokZl dks lqfuf’pr fd;k tk ldsA blds vykok iwjs ns’k esa fofHkUu LFkyksa
ij gks jgs yksxksa ds vf/kdkj ds guu ds fojks/kksa dks leFkZu Hkh nsrh jgh gSaA blh izdkj
fdj.k csnh vius dk;Zdky ds nkSjku o vodk’k izkfIr ds ckn Hkh vius
lsQjbfUM;kMkWVdkWe ds ek/;e ls yksxksa dss chp tkudkjh o tkx#drk ykus ds dk;Z esa
tqVh gSA u`R;kaxuk o lektlsoh efYydk lkjkHkkbZ lekt ds cnyko ykus ds fy, izfrc)
gSA ysf[kdk ,oa lekt lsfodk egk’osrk nsoh vius ys[kksa ,oa dk;ksZa ds ek/;e ls fiNM+s
rcdksa ds mRFkku ,oa mueas leUo; ykus ds iz;kl esa tqVh gSaA blh izdkj ysf[kdk ,oa
lks’ky ,fDVfoLV v:a/krh jkW; tgk¡ ,d vksj ueZnk cpkvksa vkanksyu ls tqM+h gSa] ogha ,UVh
U;wfDy;j ewoesaV ls Hkh tqM+h gqbZ gSa vkSj ns’k esa 'kkfUr O;oLFkk ds fy, iz;kljr izrhr
gksrh gSaA
dsoy ;s cM+h gfLr;ka gh ugha] cfYd Hkkjr dh gj ,d efgyk Hkkjrh; jk"Vªh;
leUo; ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz esa egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gS vkSj dekscsl fuHkk jgh
gSA os u dsoy csVh ds :i esa vius firk dks] cgu ds :i esa vius HkkbZ;ksa dks] iRuh ds
:i esa vius ifr dks] nksLr ds :i esa vius nksLrksa dks] ek¡ ds :i esa vius iq=ksa dks]
v/;kfidk ds :i esa vius fo|kfFkZ;ksa dks ,oa jktusrk ds :i esa iwjs ns’kokfl;ksa dks jk"Vªh;
leUo; ,oa lkEiznkf;d lkSgknZz ds fy, izsfjr dj ldrh gSa] cfYd ,d efgyk] ,d
ukxfjd ds :i esa lekt esa lfØ; Hkwfedk fuHkkrs gq, tkfr] /keZ vkSj {ks= dk Hksn feVkdj
vkilh leUo; ds fy, vxz.kh Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA
Hkkjr esa efgykvksa dks nsoh ds :i esa iwtk tkrk gS] fdUrq pkjnhokjh esa cUn dj
nsoh ds :i esa iwtus ls leL;k dk lek/kku ugha gks ldrkA dsoy efgyk fnol lekjksg
euk ysus ls efgykvksa dk fodkl ugha gksxkA efgykvksa dh f’k{kk] vkfFkZd] lkekftd ,oa
jktuSfrd {ks= esa viuh Hkkxhnkjh lqfu’pr djuh gksxhA efgykvksa dks dsoy x`g Lrj ij
fu.kZ; vkSj fuekZ.k esa Hkkxhnkjh izkIr dj ysuk Hkh i;kZIr ugha gSA mUgsa jk"Vªh; ,oa
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vUrjkZ"Vªh; Lrj ij Hkh fu.kZ; vkSj fuekZ.k esa Hkkx ysuk gksxkA efgykvksa dks gj {ks= esa
iq#"kksa ds leku Hkkxhnkjh lqfuf’pr djuh gksxhA vU;Fkk vkxs Hkh fdlh ?kj esa yM+dh ds
tUe ysus ls ekre gh euk;k tk,xk vkSj iwjs ?kj ij cks> le>k tk,xkA efgyk,a Hkh
iq#"kksa ds leku gh {kerkoku gaS] ,slk efgykvksa us igys gh fl) dj fn;k gSA Hkkjr dh
dYiuk pkoyk us og dke dj fn[kk;k] tks dbZ iq#"k oSKkfudksa dk liuk jgk gSA fdj.k
csnh dk ekuuk gS fd efgykvksa ds vfHkHkkod efgykvksa dh lqj{kk dh ckr djrs gSa] tcfd
vkt os vU; yksxksa dks lqj{kk iznku dj jgh gSaA efgykvksa dh Hkkxhnkjh dks ge ftruh
tYnh Lohdkj dj ysaxs] jk"Vª fuekZ.k esa ge mruh gh rsth ls fodkl dj ldsaxsA jk"Vª dh
vk/kh vkcknh dh mis{kk dj ge fodflr jk"Vª ugha cu ldrsA
usrkvksa ds u;s oxZ ds :i esa efgyk,a lekt esa ifjorZudkjh Hkwfedk c[kwch fuHkk
ldrh gSa] c’krsZ os iz’kkld] O;kolkf;d izcU/ku vkSj O;fDrxr laca/kksa esa izpfyr xyr
xfrfof/k;ksa ds izfr lrdZ jgsa vkSj mUgsa O;fDrxr o lkewfgd :i ls vLohdkj djus dk
ladYi ysaA rHkh efgyk,a u;s Hkkjr ds fuekZ.k esa mRizsjd dh viuh Hkwfedk fuHkk ldsaxhA
,slk djus ls mUgsa Hkh ?kjkas] vkl&iM+ksl] fcjknjh] dk;ZLFkyksa vkSj dqy feykdj iwjs lekt
esa csgrj usr`Ro izkIr gks ldsxkA
efgykvksa ls lacaf/kr eqÌs dsoy efgykvksa ls lacaf/kr ugha gSa] ;g rks iwjs jk"Vª] iwjs
lekt ls lacaf/kr gSA tgka ,d vksj efgykvksa ds mRFkku ,oa dY;k.k esa iwjs jk"Vª ,oa
lekt dh Hkwfedk t:jh gS] ogha efgykvksa ds dY;k.k ls iwjs lekt ,oa jk"Vª dk mRFkku
,oa dY;k.k lqfuf’pr gks ldrk gSA gekjs lekt esa vHkh Hkh ,sls dÍjiaFkh ,oa ijEijkoknh
rRo gSa tks efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk dks pkjnhokjh ds vUnj lhfer dj nsuk pkgrs gSaA
efgykvksa dks lEifÙk ds vf/kdkj ls Hkh oafpr j[kuk pkgrs gSa vkSj dqy feykdj ;g pkgrs
gSa fd efgyk,a iq#"kksa ij fuHkZj vkSj mudh nklh cudj jgsaA og iq=h ds :i esa vius firk
ij vkfJr jgsA fQj iRuh ds :i esa ifr ij vkSj vUrr% ek¡ ds :i esa cPpksa ij vkfJr
jgsA fu%lansg ,sls rRo Hkh efgykvksa dh {kerkvksa ls voxr gks x, gSa vkSj mUgsa viuk
vklu Mksyrk gqvk ut+j vk jgk gS] ijUrq vc muds fojks/k ds ckotwn efgykvksa dh xfr
#dus okyh ughaA ;g t:j gS fd ;fn tu leFkZu efgykvksa ds i{k esa gks] rks mudh
j¶rkj rst t:j gks ldrh gSA
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vkt efgyk,a Hkkjr ds jk"Vªh; leUo; esa ftruh Hkwfedk fuHkk jgha gSa os ljkguh;
gS] fdUrq i;kZIr ughaA mUgsa viuh {kerk ds vuq:i izn’kZu djuk gksxkA Hkkjrh; efgykvksa
esa {kerk ,oa laHkkouk,¡ vikj gSa] ijUrq mls lkeus ykus dh vko’;drk gSA 19osa dkeu
osYFk [ksyksa esa Hkh Hkkjrh; efgykvksa us indksa dh ckSNkj dj [ksy {ks= esa viuh Hkwfedk dks
iq#"kksa ls csgrj fl) fd;k gSA mu izfrHkkvksa dks lkeus ykus esa ljdkj ,oa lekt dks
lk>k Hkwfedk fuHkkuh gksxhA xks/kjk tSls naxs esa mUgsa viuk f’kdkj cukdj viuh gSokfu;r
fn[kkus ls mudk eukscy rksM+k ugha tk ldrkA fu%lansg efgykvkas dh 'kkfUr] izse rFkk
leUo; dk izrhd Hkh os [kqn gh gSaA bl ckr ls badkj ugha fd;k tk ldrk fd iq#"k ,oa
ukjh ,d xkM+h ds nks ifg, gSa vkSj ;g xkM+h fdlh ,d ifg, ds u gksus ij py ugha
ldrhA ;gka rd fd ,d ifg;s ds et+cwr rFkk nwljs ds detksj gksus ls Hkh rkyesy ds
vHkko esa xkM+h vkxs ugha tk ldrhA nksuksa gh ifg;ksa dh leku Hkwfedk gksuh pkfg,A mlh
izdkj gekjk ns’k ,d xkM+h ds leku gS ftldh vk/kh vkcknh dh mis{kk dh tk,] rks ns’k
:ih xkM+h Hkh Bhd ls ugha py ldrhA vr% ;g vko’;d gS fd Hkkjrh; efgykvksa dh
orZeku Hkwfedk dks vkSj vf/kd izksRlkgu fn;k tk,] rkfd efgykvksa dh csgrj Hkkxhnkjh
lqfuf’pr dh tk ldsA
efgykvksa dh Hkwfedk esa o`f) ds fy, vko’;d gS fd efgykvksa ds l’kfDrdj.k dks
c<+kok fn;k tk,A efgyk l’kfDrdj.k dks ikap Lrjksa esa foHkkftr djds ns[kk tk ldrk
gS&
dY;k.kdkjh dk;ZØe& efgykvksa ds dY;k.k dk vFkZ gS muds lkekftd vkSj vkfFkZd Lrj
esa lq/kkj djuk] efgykvksa ds LokLF; ls lacaf/kr leL;kvksa dks nwj djuk] iks"kd rRoksa ds
Lrj dks c<+kuk rFkk mudh lqj{kk o vk; dks c<+kukA
lalk/kuksa dh igq¡p& efgyk l’kfDrdj.k dk nwljk Lrj gS] lalk/kuksa vkSj lsokvksa rd
efgykvksa dh igq¡pA efgykvksa dks vius Lrj esa lq/kkj djus ds fy, vius dk;ksZa vkSj
laxBuksa }kjk lalk/kuksa vkSj lsokvksa esa viuh igq¡p dks c<+kok nsuk gksxkA ljdkjh dk;ZØeksa
dks efgykvksa rd igqapkuk gksxk vkSj efgykvksa dks vkxs c<+dj vius gd ds fy, yM+uk
gksxkA
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psruk vkSj tkx#drk& efgykvksa esa psruk ;k tkx:drk ykuk og izfØ;k gS ftlesa
efgykvksa dks laxfBr djds mUgsa izsfjr djuk gSA tks Hkh HksnHkko c<+rk tk jgk gS] mUgsa nwj
djus ds fy, la?k"kZ djsa] efgykvksa esa f’k{kk dk izlkj gksA mUgsa dEI;wVj] izksxzkfeax]
vk;qfoZKku ,oa rduhdh {ks= esa Hkh izf’kf{kr djuk gksxkA ^[kqn dks l{ke ,oa tkx:d
cukdj vius gd dh yM+kbZ csgrj yM+h tk ldrh gSA
xfr’khyrk& xfr’khyrk l’kfDrdj.k dk ,d egÙoiw.kZ igyw gS] ftlesa efgyk,a ,d
O;kid efgyk vkanksyu ls vius dks tksM+rh gS rFkk vius mUu;u ds O;kid la?k"kZ dk vax
curh gSaA Hkkjr esa vk/kqfud ;qx esa efgykvksa dh lkewfgd jktuhfrd ,drk o Hkkxhnkjh
dh 'kq:vkr 1920 ds n’kd esa ekuh tk ldrh gSA deyk nsoh pÍksik/;k; dh v/;{krk esa
vf[ky Hkkjrh; efgyk lEesyu dh LFkkiuk 1924 esa dh xbZ FkhA efgykvksa us vlg;ksx
vkanksyu ¼1920½] lfou; voKk vkanksyu ¼1930½ rFkk Hkkjr NksM+ks vkanksyu ¼1942½ esa
c<+&p<+ dj fgLlk fy;k FkkA 19oha 'krkCnh ds lekt lq/kkj vkanksyu ds }kjk efgykvksa
dks izHkkfor djus okyh dqjhfr;ksa tSls& vf’k{kk] cky fookg] lrh izFkk] fo/kokvksa dk
mRihM+u] inkZ izFkk vkfn dks lekIr djus dk iz;kl fd;k x;kA blh dk ifj.kke Fkk fd
20oha 'krkCnh esa efgykvksa es jktuhfrd xfr’khyrk dk vkjaHk gqvkA
vktknh ds ckn Hkkjr esa u, lafo/kku }kjk efgykvksa dks lekurk] Lora=rk vkSj
U;k; ds vf/kdkj iznku fd, x,A efgykvksa dh f’k{kk rFkk tkx:drk esa o`f) gqbZ rFkk
de ls de uxjh; {ks=ksa esa efgyk,a fo’o Lrj ij efgyk vkanksyu dh j.kuhfr dks le>us
esa vkxs c<+hA vkt ns’k esa efgyk xfr’khyrk dks izHkkoh cukus ds fy, efgykvksa ds dbZ
NksVs cM+s laxBu gSa rFkk ns’k ds fofHkUu {ks=ksa esa efgykvksas us vius ljksdkj ls lacaf/kr
fofHkUu eqÌksa tSls efgyk mRihM+u] eg¡xkbZ] i;kZoj.k dh j{kk] 'kjkc canh] efgyk vkj{k.k dh
ek¡x vkfn ds fy, la?k"kZjr gSaA i;kZoj.k ls lacaf/kr fpidks vkUnksyu eq[;r% efgyk 'kfDr
ij vk/kkfjr vkanksyu gSA es/kk ikVsdj }kjk lapkfyr ^ueZnk cpkvks vkanksyu* rFkk byk HkÍ
}kjk lapkfyr ÞlsYQ bEIyk;M oweu ,lksfl,’kuß ¼lsok½ efgyk xfr’khyrk ds Js"B
mnkgj.k gSaA ljdkj }kjk xzkeh.k {ks=ksa esa xfBr Lo;a lgk;rk lewg efgykvksa esa
vkRefuHkZjrk o laxBu dh Hkkouk dk fodkl dj jgs gSaA blh izdkj ns’k ds izR;sd cM+s
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jktuhfrd ny us efgykvksa ds fy, vyx laxBu ;k mi laxBu Hkh cuk, gSa] fQj Hkh
xfr’khyrk dh n`f"V ls xzkeh.k {ks= esa efgykvksa dks laxfBr fd, tkus dh vR;f/kd
vko’;drk gSA
fu;a=.k& l’kfDrdj.k dk og Lrj gS tc efgykvksa dks fu.kZ;] fuekZ.k vkSj lalk/kuksa dks
izkIr djus esa iq#"kksa ds leku vf/kdkj izkIr gksrs gaSA ;g ukjh l’kfDrdj.k dk vkf[kjh
Lrj gS] ;g efgykvksa dks lkekftd] vkfFkZd] jktuhfrd vkfn izR;sd {ks= esa fu.kZ;&fuekZ.k
dh 'kfDr nsrk gSA Lora=rk ds ckn ns’k esa efgykvksa ds l’kfDrdj.k dh fn’kk esa dsUnz
ljdkj }kjk le;≤ ij iz;kl fd, tkrs jgs gSaA lafo/kku ds vuqPNsn 40 esa fn;s x,
funsZ’kksa ds vuqikyu esa laln }kjk 73oka ,oa 74oka lafo/kku la’kks/ku }kjk xzke iapk;rksa rFkk
uxjikfydkvksa esa Øe’k% vuqPNsn 243 ¼?k½ rFkk ¼u½ }kjk vkjf{kr rFkk vukjf{kr oxZ dh
efgykvksa ds vkj{k.k ds fy, izLrko j[kk x;k gSA jkT; lHkk esa bls eatwj Hkh dj fy;k
x;k gS] ijarq vHkh yksd lHkk esa ;g izLrko ikl gksuk ckdh gSA
vkt fofHkUu {ks=ksa esa efgykvksa ds ;ksxnku dks vis{kkd`r fo’ks"k igpku fey jgh gSA
m|ksx] O;kikj ,oa vU; {ks=ksa esa efgykvksa dh Hkkxhnkjh ,oa rjDdh ds jkLrs c<+rs tk jgs
gSaA Hkkjrh; lekt esa efgykvksa dh fLFkfr esa dkQh mrkj&p<+ko vk, gSaA ,d le; Fkk]
tc efgykvksa dks tfVy ckSf)d {kerk okys dk;ksZa esa iq#"kksa ds cjkcj ekuk tkrk Fkk] ijUrq
vkt og dbZ ek;us esa os muls Hkh vkxs fudy pqdh gSaA
jktuhfrd {ks= esa csgrj Hkkxhnkjh ds fy, iapk;r Lrj ij vkj{k.k dh O;oLFkk
izkjaHk dh tk pqdh gS vkSj lkFk gh dbZ losZ ds ek/;e ls ;g rF; Hkh mHkj dj lkeus
vk;s gSa fd efgyk,a iapk;r Lrj ij vius dÙkZO;ksa ds izfr vf/kd tkx:d ,oa dÙkZO;fu"B
gSaA os vius dk;ksZa dks le; ij djuk ilUn djrha gSaA izkjaHk esa efgykvksa ij de vDy
,oa iq#"kksa ij vkfJr gksus dk vkjksi yxk;k x;k Fkk] fdUrq /khjs&/khjs efgyk,a csgrj
iapk;r iz/kku cudj lkeus vk jgh gSaA yksdlHkk ,oa fo/kku lHkk Lrj ij Hkh vkj{k.k fn,
tkus dh izfØ;k py jgh gSA KkrO; gks fd vHkh rd Hkkjrh; jktuhfr esa Hkh efgykvksa dh
mifLFkfr larks"ktud ugha jgh gSA efgykvksa ds vkj{k.k laca/kh ekeys ij lHkh ny ,der
gksrs gq, Hkh mlds fo/ks;d ij dksbZ u dksbZ vlgefr vo’; trkrs gSaA ;g vlgefr ml
fo/ks;d dks ikfjr gksus ls jksd nsrh gSA efgykvksa dks viuh fLFkfr esa lq/kkj ds fy, csgrj
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,oa O;kid Hkkxhnkjh lqfuf’pr djuh gksxhA lHkh efgykvksa dks nyxr] tkfrxr ,oa
lkEiznkf;d Hkkoukvksa ls Åij mBdj vkilh leUo; cukrs gq, vkxs vkuk gksxk] rkfd os
jk"Vªh; ,oa vUrjkZ"Vªh; Lrj ij viuh mRd`"V Hkwfedk r; dj ldsaA jk"Vªh; leUo; ,oa
lkaEiznkf;d lkSgknZ dks fodflr djus dh vlhe {kerk dks ns[krs gq, gh egkREkk xka/kh us
efgykvksa dks Hkh] vius fofHkUu lekt lq/kkj laca/kh dk;ZØeksa ,oa vkanksyuksa dk vfHkUu
dk;ZdÙkkZ cuk;k FkkA Lokeh foosdkuan efgykvksa dks lkekftd ,oa jk"Vªh; iqufuZekZ.k dk
l`"Vk ekurs FksA orZeku dky o Hkfo"; esa Hkh lkiaznkf;d lkSgknZ dks fodflr dj jk"Vªh;
leUo; dh Hkkouk dks lqn`<+ djus esa efgyk,¡ vrqyuh; ;ksxnku nsrh jgasxhA
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ukjh gh lkEiznkf;d ln~Hkko,oa ,dhdj.k dh lPph fgrS"kh gSA
&ftrsUnz dqekj lksuh
vJqvksa dks u;u esa fNikrh jgh]nnZ ihdj lnk eqLdqjkrh jgh]
nqxkZ] ljLorh dh izfrewfrZ cudj]izse lkxj /kjk ij cjlkrh jghA
Hkkjrh laLd`fr dk ewyeU= ^v;a fut ijksosfr x.kuk y?kq psrlke~ mnkj pfjrkuke~
rq olq/kSo dqVqEcde~* ekuk x;k gSA fo'o dks tc ge ,d ifjokj ds :Ik esa ekurs gSa rks
ge lc blh ,d bdkbZ ds Lrj ij ,d lekt dk fuekZ.k dj jgs gksrs gSaA ,d ?kj dk
gksuk iwjs fo’o ds fy, egÙoiw.kZ gSA ,d ?kj dk dsUnz fcUnq ek¡ gksrh gS vkSj ?kj dk lkjk
i;kZoj.k] lkjs laosnu] lkjs ljksdkjksa dh fuekZrk gksrh gSA vkt Hkkjrh; ?kjksa esa ,drk dk
tks lw= ge ns[krs gSa ml dh fuekZrk ek¡ gh rks gSA eryc L=h gh ifjokj dks ,d lw= esa
fijksus esa l{ke gSA ukjh bZ’oj dh loZJs"B d`fr gSA ukjh dks ifjHkkf"kr djus dk eryc
gok dks eqB~Bh esa cka/kus ds leku gSA ifr ds fy, 'khy] cPpksa ds fy, eerk] cqtqxks± ds
fy, lEeku] lekt ds fy, pfj= vkSj ifjokj ds fy, /kqjh cuus okyh bZ’oj dh loZJs"B
d`fr dk uke gh ukjh gSA ukjh gh ,slh 'kfDr gS tks ifjokj] lekt vkSj jk"Vª dks ,dhd`r
djrh gSA fdlh Hkh egku dk;Z dh 'kq#vkr ckgj ls Fkksi dj ugha gksrh gSA mnkgj.kr%
vaMs dks ckgj ls rksM+dj ge pwts dks iSnk ugha dj ldrs gSa D;ksafd ,slk djus ls vaMk VwV
tkrk gSA vaMs ls ,d u;k thou rHkh 'kq# gks ldrk gS tc og vUnj ls ckgj dh vksj
nokc iM+us ls QwVrk gS vkSj ,slk rHkh gksrk gS tc pwtk vUnj ls tksj yxkrk gSA cl
blh rjg fdlh Hkh jk"Vǻ dk ,dhdj.k] mldh 'kkafr vkSj veu] lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk
fuekZ.k dkxtksa ij fy[kdj fQj 'kkld ds }kjk iztk ij Fkksidj ugha fd;k tk ldrk gSA
bldk fuekZ.k vkSj fodkl rks ns’k ds gj ?kj ds vUnj ls izLQqfVr gksrk gS vkSj ge tkurs
gSa fd ?kj ds vUnj ;g dke flQZ vkSj flQZ ,d ukjh ls gh 'kq# gks ldrk gSA viuh
dks[k ls l`f"V pykus okyh ukjh ds ckjs esa bfrgkl ds iUus VVksys tk,¡ rks ge ik;saxs fd
;qxksa&;qxksa ls ukjh lkaiznkf;d lkSgknZz vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k dh tuuh jgh gSA oSfnd dky
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esa eS=s;h] iq"ik tSlh fonq"kh ukfj;ka vius Kku ds cycwrs ij ln~Hkko vkSj olq/kSo dqVqEcde~
dh ckr djrh FkhaA MkW- cnzh izlkn iapksyh us viuh jpuk ^/kzqoJh* esa ,sfrgkfld ik= /kqzoJh
;k /kwLlh dk o.kZu djrs gq, crk;k gS fd dfyax ujs’k] [kkjosy dh iRuh] /kwLlh iq#"k os’k
esa lsuk esa 'kkfey gqbaZ vkSj ;eu vkØe.kdkjh nses=s; ls vius ns’k dh j{kk ds fy, yM+haA
blh rjg Hkkjr dh izFke eqfLye efgyk 'kkfldk jft;k lqYrkuk us vius Lrj ij vius
lkezkT; dks ,dhd`r vkSj v[kaM j[kus dk iz;kl fd;k FkkA ;gk¡ jkuh gkM+k dk ftØ djuk
Hkh t:jh gksxk ftlds ifr us ;q) ij tkrs oDr izse fu’kkuh ekaxh rks uo C;kgrk jkuh us
;g lkspdj viuk lj dkVdj ns fn;k fd dgha ;q) esa mlds ifr dk /;ku mlesa gh uk
jgs vkSj vxj ,slk gqvk rks os ;q) esa csgrjhu j.kdkS’ky ugha fn[kk ik;saxs ftldk ifj.kke
mudh fj;klr dh gkj gks ldrh gS vkSj viuh fj;klr dh v[k.Mrk dks cjdjkj j[kus
ds fy, mlds lj dk dksbZ eksy ugha gSA
flQZ bruk gh ugha vxj ge ukjh dh jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d lkSgknzZ esa
Hkwfedk dks foLr`r :Ik ls le>uk pkgsa rks ge ukjh thou ds fofHkUu i{kksa dks ns[kdj
vklkuh ls le> ldrs gSaA
loZizFke ge vxj lkekftd ljapuk dh ckr djsa rks ik;saxs fd vkerkSj ij vkneh
thfodksiktZu ds fy, ?kj ls lqcg ckgj fudyrk gS vkSj nsj 'kke dks ?kj ykSVrk gS] ,slh
fLFkfr esa vkSjr gh gS tks cfgeqZ[kh gksrh gS] ftldk lkekftd lEidZ l?ku gksrk gS vkSj
O;ogkj esa dkseyrk gksrh gS] lcls igys vius iM+kslh ds lkFk pkgs og fdlh Hkh tkfr ;k
/keZ dk gks] mlls laidZ cukrh gSA ijLij ?kjksa esa vkuk & tkuk 'kq# gksrk gS vkSj ;g
lkSgknzZ QyhHkwr gksrk gSA bls ,d xqtjkr naxksa ij vk/kkfjr fQYe ^fQjkd* ds mnkgj.k ls
Li"V fd;k tk ldrk gS ftlesa eqfLye efgyk dh fgUnw lgsyh gh naxksa ds nkSjku varr
mldh tku cpkrh gS vkSj mldh lcls lPph vkSj utnhdh lgsyh fl) gksrh gSA Hkkjr
xk¡oksa dk ns’k gS vkSj xk¡oksa eas iM+kslhiu vkSjrksa ds cycwrs ij gh iyrk&c<+rk gS jke ds
?kj ij nqxkZ v"Veh dh iwfM+;ka vkSj [khj rFkk fnokyh dh feBkbZ tc chp dh nhokj ds
ikj lyhe ds ?kj tkrh gS vkSj lyhe ds ?kj ls bZn dh flob;ka tc jke ds ?kj eas vkrh
gSa rks lkEiznkf;drk nwj&nwj rd utj ugha vkrh gS vkSj ,slk jke ;k lyhe ds iz;klksa ls
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ugha cfYd buds ?kjksa dks pykus okyh vkSjrksa ds ijLij O;ogkj ls gh laHko gksrk gS fQj
pkgs ml ?kj dh ekyfdu lhrk gks ;k #[klkuk ;k ijethr dkSj gks ;k dksbZ vkSj] D;k
QdZ iM+rk gSA ikl&iM+ksl dk ;g ln~Hkko tc iwjs ns’k esa gksrk gS rks veu dh c;kj esa
ns’k v[kaM jgrk gSA
lkaLd`frd :Ik ls ukjh dh jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko esa Hkwfedk ns[ksa
rks ik;saxs fd vkSjrsa dqucs vkSj ifjos’k esa 'kknh&fookg dh jLeksa] fjoktksa] yksx xhrksa]
ijEijkvksa dkss eu&efLr"d esa cSBk ysrh gSa vkSj ;gh otg gS fd lkaLd`frd :Ik ls fofHkUu
lEiznk;ksa dk feyki vkSjrksa dh otg ls gh gksrk gS fQj pkgs oks ^cuM+k* gks] ^<ksyd* gks]
^vjsfcd esganh* gks ;k fQj dqN vkSj] bu lc dk QSyko fdlh lEiznk;] /keZ] {ks= dk /;ku
j[ks fcuk u tkus dgka ls dgka rd ig¡qp tkrk gSA
uSfrd #Ik ls ns[ksa rks izse] I;kj] R;kx] leiZ.k] oQ+k vkfn ewY; lc ukfj;k¡ vius
vUnj vkRelkr fd;s gq, gSA cPps ds ckyeu ij nknh&ukuh dh cks/kijd dgkfu;ksa dk
vlj muds /kkfeZd :Ik ls lfg".kq gksus esa izdV gksrk gSA ek¡ dh yksfj;ka vkSj Lusgiw.kZ lh[k
bruk laLdkjoku cukrh gSa fd og flQZ bruk lh[krk gS fd gj fdlh ds [kwu dk jax
yky gksrk gS vkSj esjk ns’k esjh eka dh rjg gh gSA eka dh lh[k tc cPPks dks dqN ;aw
le>k, rks cPps fdl rjg vkSj D;ksadj fdlh dk [kwu cgk;saxs&
v’k+Qkd dh cdjh]rkjksa ds uhps ls vkdj]
pj tkrh gSguqeku ds [ksr dh ?kklA
vkSjbl ij ls lqjs’k ds ikys gq, dcwrj]
eafnj ds vk¡xu lspqXxk pqxdj]
mM+dj rkjksa ds ikj]oqtw okyh txg ls]ih ysrs gSa ikuh]fdruk vPNk gS]
ydhjksa esa Qals] vkSj [kwu ls rj]vkneh dh rqyuk esa cdjh ;k dcwrj gksukA
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eka dh lh[k dk vlj thtkckbZ ds }kjk f’kokth esa vkSj iqryhckbZ ds }kjk xka/kh esafdruk vk;k gS] bls crkus dh t:jr gh ugha gSA blhfy, rks efgykvksa ds fy, dgk x;kgS&
fj’rs gSa lHkh LokFkZ ds] dqN vkSj D;k dgsa]ij mez Hkj fj’rksa dks fuHkkrh gSa ukfj;ka]ns nsdj ,d&,d cwan] vius [kwu dh]
balku ds ru&eu dks] balku cukrh gaS ukfj;kaA
gdhdr gS fd nqfu;k esa vxj dksbZ iq#"k ukjh ds xq.k viuk ys rks og nsork cu
tkrk gS vkSj vxj ukjh dHkh iq#"kksa ds xq.k viuk, rks og os’;k vkSj dqyVk cu tkrh gSA
blh otg ls rks cM+s fo’okl ds lkFk dgk tk ldrk gS fd nqfu;k es dHkh Hkh dksbZ Hkh
vuSfrd dk;Z vkSjrksa ds }kjk ugha gksrk gSA bfrgkl ds leLr ;q)ksa vkSj cckZfn;ksa esa igyk
vkSj vafre gkFk iq#"kksa dk gh gksrk gSA fdlh ns’k ij geyk djds mlds VqdM+s&VqdM+s
djus okys ;k fQj /keZ dh dV~Vj vka/kh esa [kwu cgkus okys iq#"k gh gksrs gSaA dHkh fdlh us
ugha lquk fd Qyka & Qyka vkSjr us pkdw ekjk ;k /kkfeZd dV~Vjrk ls efLtn ;k eafnj
rksM+ MkykA ge nqfu;k esa fdruh efgyk vkradokfn;ksa ls ;k muds [krjukd dkeksa ls
okfdQ gSaA tokc gS fdlh ls Hkh ughaA bldh ;gh otg gS fd vkSjrsa lgu’khy gksrh gSa]
n;k o izse dh ewjr gksrh gSaA bZ’oj us mudk ân; dsoy izse ls Hkjk gS vkSj izse dsoy
tksM+uk fl[kkrk gS] rksM+uk ughaA L=ha dks pwafd vk/kh nqfu;k dk ntkZ fn;k x;k gS rks
nqfu;k esa gksus okys gj deZ eas mldh vk/kh Hkkxhnkjh lqfuf’pr gS] exj lkaiznkf;d ruko
QSykus esa mldh Hkkxhnkjh drbZ ugha gSA blfy, bl ekeys esa dgk tk ldrk gS fd
efgyk lkEiznkf;d ,drk dh lcls cM+h iSjksdkj gSa
'kS{kf.kd :Ik ls ns[ksa rks ukjh us f’k{kk izkIr dj mldk mi;ksx lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko
vkSj jk"Vª fuekZ.k esa gh fd;k gSA ,d cPps dh igyh ikB’kkyk mldh eka dh xksn gksrh gS
vkSj f’kf{kr eka vius cPps dk fdruk fodkl dj ldrh gS] ;g lgt gh lkspk tk ldrk
gSA cPps xhyh feV~Vh dh rjg gksrs gSaA cpiu esa bu ij dqN Hkh vkSj dSlk Hkh fy[kks]
lcdqN Ni tkrk gSA bl xhyh feV~Vh ds lw[kus ds ckn ;kuh cPpksa ds cM+s gksus ds ckn
ge fy[ks gq, dks feVk ugha ldrs gSa vkSj ,d eka vius cPPks ds dksey ân; ij lnSo
vPNk gh vafdr djrh gSA
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flQZ bruk gh ugha vk/;kfRed vkSj HkfDr Hkko ls vksr&izksr ukfj;ksa us bl /kjrh
ij pSu&veu dk tks lUns’k fn;k gS mldk fo’o lnk _.kh jgsxkA vk/kqfud ;qx esa tgka
lkaiznkf;d ,drk dk loky gS ogka efgyk larksa dh Hkwfedk Hkh de ugha gSA ftuds thou
n’kZu us Hkkjr dks fo’o xq# dgykus dk gdnkj cuk;k gSA HkfDrdky esa vusd HkDr
dof;f=;ka gqbZ ftUgksaus lkEiznkf;d ,drk gh ugha] L=h&iq#"k ds ,dhdj.k ij Hkh cy
fn;kA dUuM+ dfof;=h uhyEek bl fopkj dks LFkkfir djus okyh l’kDr jpukdkj gSaA
blh rjg dchj ls Hkh igys d’ehj dh fL=;ka us vkMacjksa ,oa lEiznk;okn dk ?kksj fojks/k
fd;kA yYys’ojh ;k yYyk nSn ¼1320&1392½ us Jhdkar uke ds czkgkz.k ls v/;kRe Kku
fy;k rks lEiznk; ds vkMEcjksa ls ijs jgrs gq, njos’k lS¸;n vyh genkuh ds lkFk veu
izse dh f’k{kk dk ikB yksxksa dks i<+k;kA
Qwypanzk }kjk yYys’ojh dh dqN dforkvksa dk vuqokn fd;k x;k gS tks muds
lkaiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dks fl) djrk gS&
izse dh vks[kyh esa ân; dwVk]izd`fr ifo= dh iou lsAtyk;h] Hkwuh] Lo;a pwlh]'kadj ik;k mlh lsAA
dUuM+ dh ,d vkSj dof;=h cksUrk nsoh us czkgkz.k ,oa vUR; oxZ esa Hksn dh Hkkouk
dk tedj fojks/k fd;kA ekuo ek= esa lekurk dh Hkkouk dk izlkj djus okyh vU;
dof;f=;ksa esa lgtks ckbZ dk uke izeq[krk ls fy;k tkrk gSA mUgksaus tkfr ds dkj.k fdlh
dks Åapk o uhpk ekuus okyksa dks QVdkjk&
lhl dku eq[k ukfldkÅaps&Åaps BkaoAlgtks uhps dkj.kslc dksbZ iwts ikaoAA
jktLFkku esa rkt uked ,d HkDr dof;=h gksus dk mYys[k feyrk gS ftlus
eqfLye gksrs gq, Hkh Jhd`".k dh vkjk/kuk dhA mudh iafDr;k¡ gSa*
lquks fnu tkuh esjs fny dh dgkuhrqe nlr gh fcdkuh] cnukeh Hkh lgwaxh eSa
nso iwtk Bkuh] eSa fuekt gwa Hkqykuh]rts dyek&dqjku rqgkMs rsjh lwjr iS]
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uUn ds dqekj dqjckj rsjh lwjr iS]gksa rks rqjdkuh] iSa fgUnqvkuh OgSa jgwaxh eSaA
bu HkDr dof;f=;ksa us lxq.k&fuxqZ.k rFkk f’ko d`".k&jke Hksn dks u ekurs gq,
vkjk/kuk ij cy fn;kA ehjk] ,d izfl) d`".k HkDr] ,d vR;ar Å¡ps jktiwr dqy dh csVh
vkSj cgw Fkh exj blds ckotwn Hkh uhph tkfr jSnkl ds lkfuè; esa d`".k HkfDr esa yhu
jghaA bl izdkj bUgsa lkEiznkf;d ,drk rFkk jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k dh felky ds rkSj ij ns[kk
tkuk pkfg,A egkjk"Vª dh cfguk ckbZ tks ,d czkãz.kh Fkh] us viuk xq#] ,d uhph tkfr
ds lar rqdkjke dks cuk;k vkSj Å¡p&uhp o lkaiznkf;d HksnHkko dks njfudkj dj fn;kA
efgykvksa us lnk gh ;g fl) fd;k gS&
ikuh vkSj ilhus esa cM+k varj gksrk gS]iRFkj vkSj uxhus esa Hkh cM+k varj gksrk gS]eqnZk ?kfM+;ksa dh rjg lkal ysus okyksa]lkal ysus esa vkSj thus esa cM+k varj gksrk gSA
izFke Loa=rk laxzke esa jkuh y{eh ckbZ] csxe gtjr egy] pk¡n chch vkfn us ns’k
dh v[k.Mrk dh j{kk ds fy, izk.kksa dh ckth yxk nhA fot; y{eh iafMr] dLrwjck]
,uhcslsaV] ljksftuh uk;Mw vkfn us Lora=rk laxzke esa c<+&p<+dj Hkkx fy;k rkfd ns’k dh
vktknh lqfuf’pr dh tk ldsA vktknh ds nhokuksa dk tc Hkh uke fy;k tkrk gS rks mu
ekrkvksa dk uke Hkys gh bfrgkl dh dye ls u fy[kk x;k gks ftuds cPpksa us xqeuke
:Ik ls ns’k dh v[kaMrk ds fy, viuh tku dqckZu dj nh] exj bl ns’k dh feV~Vh dk
gj d.k lk{kh gS vkSj gj t+jkZ lyke djrk gS ,slh ekarkvksa dks ftUgksaus vius cPpksa dks
lnSo izse vkSj ns’k ds fy, cfynku gks tkus dk ikB i<+k;kA vktknh ds ckn bafnjk th
dk uke fy;k tk ldrk gS ftUgksaus jk"Vª dh lqj{kk ds eísutj rRdkyhu ifjfLFkfr;ksa esa
l[r fu.kZ; ysdj caxykns’k dh eqfDr esa egrh Hkwfedk fuHkk;hA ,d ukjh fdl rjg ls
fdlh Hkh lEiznk; esa <y ldrh gS bldk lcls cM+k mnkgj.k lksfu;k xka/kh dk fn;k tk
ldrk gS ftUgksaus vius vki dks bl ns’k dh ijEijkvksa esa <kyus dk lQy iz;kl fd;k
gSA
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/kkfeZd] U;k;] iz’kklu vkSj jktuhfrd {ks= esa efgykvksa us viuk opZLo LFkkfir
fd;k gS vkSj os gj txg veu&pSu vkSj HkkbZpkjs dh felky dk;e djrh fn[kkbZ nsrh gSaA
tgka rd U;k; dk loky gS rks U;k;ky;ksa esa U;k; dh nsoh ds :Ik esa ,d efgyk gh rks
izfrLFkkfir gS] eryc lcdks leku :Ik ls U;k; iznku djus esa ,d efgyk gh iw.kZr;k
l{ke gSA oSf’od fygkt ls ckr djsa rks vkax lku lw ph ¼E;kaekj½] oaxkjh eFkkbZ ¼dsU;k½]
Mksfjl ysfLlax ¼fczVsu½] ,atsyk edsZy ¼teZuh½ vkfn us vius&vius {ks= esa vius ns’k vkSj
ekuork ds fy, csgrjhu dke fd;s gSaA
jktuhfrd :Ik ls efgykvksa dh vPNh mifLFkfr dk gksuk jk"Vªfgr esa gksrk gS
D;ksafd dksbZ Hkh efgyk jktuhfrd /ku cy dk iz;ksx ugha djrh vkSj u gh og ekbd
Qsaduk tkurh gS- blhfy, ,d 'kkar vkSj mTToy jktuhfrd Nfo ds fy, gj ns’k esa
efgykvksa ds izfrfuf/kRo dks c<+kus dh ckr dh tk jgh gSA fLFkj vkSj LoPN jktuhfr ls u
dsoy van:uh rkSj ij lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko jgrk gS cfYd ckgjh rkSj ij jk"Vª dh v[kaMrk
Hkh lqjf{kr jgrh gSA
fu"d"kZr% dgk tk ldrk gS fd ,d ukjh vius uSfrd ewY;ksa vkSj lfg".kqrk ds
cycwrs ij lnSo gh lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dks cukdj j[krh gSA blds ihNs ;g rdZ Hkh gS
fd mls fdlh Hkh lkaiznkf;d naxkas] oSeuL; ;k jk"Vª ds foHkktu ls dqN ugha feyrk gSA
gj ejus okyk mldk ;k rks csVk gksrk gS ;k HkkbZ ;k ifr ;k firk 'kkjhfjd vkSj ekufld
:Ik ls gj ckj ukjh gh gj vkØe.k dk igyk f’kdkj curh gS & blfy, ukjh dHkh Hkh
fdlh dk [kwu ugha cgkrh gSA og rks veu & pSu dh mikfldk gSA oSf’od ifjn`’; esa
mldk gj dne blh 'kkafr dh vksj gksrk gSA blfy, rks dgk tkrk gS fd ^;= uk;ZLrq
iwT;Urs] je;ars r= nsork* lPps vFkks± esa ukjh gh lkaiznkf;d lkSgknzZ vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k
dh lPph fgrS"kh gS] varr ,d iafDr ds lkFk&
iwjh tehu nsa rks vkSj ckr gS]ge ¼iq#"k½ ukfj;ksa dk tjk lk lkFk nsa rks vkSj ckr gS]py rks ysrs gSa yksx ,d ik¡o ij]ij nwljk ik¡o Hkh lkFk ns rks vkSj ckr gSA
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efgyk /kEe egkik=
& HkkLdj yk{kkdkj
;s nkx nkx mtkyk] ;s 'kc xt+hnk lgj;s oks 'kgj rks ugha] ftldk bUrtkj Fkk eq>sA
& ^^QS+t+**
^fu;fr ds lkFk le>kSrk* djrs oDr bl ns’k ds d.kZ/kkjksa us lkspk Fkk fd ;g eqYd
vius vrhr ls lh[k ysrs gq;s lejlrk vkSj lkSgknzZ dh ,d ,slh felky cusxk ftls
nqfu;k Hkj esa vkn’kZ ekuk tk;sxk vkSj vuqdj.k fd;k tk,xkA D;k ge mu vk’kkvksa vkSj
vis{kkvksa ij [kjs mrj lds\ ;g iz’u gekjs le; ds lcls cM+s ;{k iz’uksa esa ls ,d gSA
vkSj blh ds lkFk tqM+rk gS lekt esa lkSgknzZ vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k dk eqíkA ;g flQ+Z ,d
:ekuh fopkj ugha ftlesa flQ+Z bZn dh floS;k¡ vkSj fnokyh dh feBkbZ dk vkReeqX/kdkjh
xq.kxku gks cfYd ;g gekjs lekt vkSj le; dh egrh vko’;drk Hkh gSA
lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ dk vFkZ flQ+Z naxksa vkSj /kkfeZd minzoksa ls jfgr lekt ugha
cfYd lekt+ ds fHkUu&fHkUu /kkfeZd lewgksa eas vkilh le> vkSj fo’okl dk gksuk gSA
lkEiznkf;d ekul vusd fo/oald vkSj ccZj d`R;ksa dh i`"BHkwfe rks rS;kj djrk gh gS lkFk
gh vusd vizfrxkeh ,oa vizfrØkE; ifj.kkeksa dks Hkh tUe nsrk gSA foxr n’kdksa esa ;g
leL;k vkSj fodjky gqbZ gS ftlesa u,&u, isap tqM+rs x, gSaA esjh le> ls] lkEiznkf;drk
,d ?kVuk iz/kku ugha] fopkj iz/kku lehdj.k gS ftldk gy flQ+Z lkekftd lkSgknzZ esa
fNik gSA
ewy iz’u ;g gS fd vkf[kj D;ksa lkekftd lkSgknzZ t+:jh gS vkSj mlesa Hkh
lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ gh D;ksa\ bldk mÙkj fNik gS Hkkjr dh cgqHkk"kh vkSj cgq/kkfeZd laLd`fr
ds oSfo/; esa ftls ,d vksj gesa cpk, Hkh j[kuk gS vkSj lkFk gh buds la’ys"k ls fodkl ds
u;s vk;ke Hkh Nwus gSaA bu laLd`fr;ksa vkSj lEiznk;ksa esa esy vkSj vkilh le> ds fcuk
Hkkjr flQ+Z ,d HkwHkkx esa cny tk,xk bldk jk"VªRo [kRe gks tk,xkA gkykafd ;g lgh gS
fd cgqr gn rd geus viuh bl lk¡>h laLd`fr dks cuk, j[kk gSA izlax pkgs mLrkn
fcfLeYykg [kku ds ladV ekspu efUnj esa 'kgukbZ ctkus dk gks ;k eksgjZe ds rc#Zd ds
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fy;s vk¡py ilkjrh fgUnw efgykvksa dkA ;g lejl laLd`fr vius fojkV ia[k QSykrh
ut+j vkrh gS] ysfdu D;k okdbZ lc dqN Bhd gS\ cjcl gh esjk /;ku tkrk gS dqN fnu
igys vk;s v;ks/;k eqís ds Q+Slys ij] bl ?kM+h esa lkjs ns’k esa lqj{kk dh vpwd rS;kfj;ksa
ijA ,slk yxk fd lkjk ns’k ,d Nkouh esa rCnhy gks x;k gSA ladsr Li"V gS lekt esa
lc dqN viuh /kqjh ij ugha gSA dgha dqN veaxy vfu"Vdkjh t:j gSA ;g ns’k vc Hkh
eqEcbZ ce /kekdksa] xqtjkr naxksa vkSj eqEcbZ ij vkradh geys dks vius eu efLr"d ls
foLe`r ugha dj ldk gS vkSj ml ij /khes fdUrq fujUrj c<+ jgs lkEiznkf;d /kzqohdj.k dk
t+gj tks gj 'kgj dks ck:n ds <sj ij /kdsyus dk dke dj jgk gSA
t+jk fopkj dhft;s fd ml jk"Vª dk ,dhdj.k D;k et+cwr jg ik,xk ftlesa /keZ dsvk/kkj ij ,d foHkktu gks pqdk gks vkSj fujUrj {ks=h;rkoknh i``Fkdrkokn flj mBk jgkgksA
^^Mksyh nqYgu dgkjksa esa] lwjt pank rkjksa esaxkao xyh xfy;kjksa esa] ?kkVh vkSj iBkjksa esa
/khjs /khjs Hkksyh turk gS] cfygkjh et+gc dh,slk u gks ns’k tyk ns] ;s fpaxkjh et+gc dh**
,d {k.k ds fy;s mu dkj.kksa dh iM+rky djsa tks fujUrj v’kksd] vdcj vkSj tSuqy
vkcsnhu ds bl ns’k dks lkEiznkf;d >a>kokrksa esa /kdsyus dh ps"Vk dj jgs gSa\
lEHkor % lcls izeq[k gS jktuhfrd usr`Ro }kjk vius pqukoh vkSj jktuhfrd fgrksa
dks loksZifj j[kus dh ekufldrkA jktuhfr tks okLro esa fgrksa dk la?k"kZ gS ftlus
fl)kUrksa ds la?k"kZ dk ckuk igu j[kk gSA
/kkfeZd vkradokn vkSj /keZxazFkksa dh xyr O;k[;k;sa] futh fgrksa dks /kkfeZd fgrksa dk ckuk
iguk nsuk vkSj /kkfeZd leqnk;ksa esa t+ehuh Lrj ij lEokn dh deh dqN ,sls vU; izeq[k
dkj.k gSaA ,d vksj lekt ds /kkfeZd vYila[;d oxks± esa vU;k; vkSj xSj vkuqikfrd
fodkl dh Hkkouk gS rks nwljh vksj cgqla[;dksa dks yxrk gS fd oksV cSad ds fy;s
vYila[;dksa dk rq"Vhdj.k fd;k tk jgk gSA ,slh le> ,d lrr ?k"kZ.k dks tUe ns jgh
gS ftlds Q+y dVq gh gksaxsA
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cgjgky dkj.kksa ij dkxt+ dkyk djus ds ctk; csgrj gS fd buds fuokjd mik;ksa
ij fopkj fd;k tk,A okLro esa bu lcds ewy esa gS lkekftd lejlrk vkSj lkSgknzZ dk
{kj.kA lkekftd lkSgknZz ,d ,slk lehdj.k gS ftlesa fujUrj izsj.kk vkSj fnzf"Vdj.k
vko’;d gS vkSj lkFk gh ;g /;ku cuk;s j[kuk Hkh t:jh gS fd blesa lekt ds reke
rcdksa dk leqfpr ;ksxnku gksA
blh izdkj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k Hkh dksbZ vyx&vyx ladYiuk ugha vfirq lkekftd
lkSgknzZ dk ,d izfrQy gSA bl ifjizs{; esa lekt ds ipkl izfr’kr fgLls ;kfu efgykvksa
dk ;ksxnku] u flQZ egRoiw.kZ eqíksa ij mHkjrk gS cfYd vU; oxks± ds fy;s izsj.kklzksr ,oa
fnXn’kZd dk Hkh dk;Z djrk gSA
;g ,d ekuk gqvk rF; gS fd efgyk,a vf/kd lEosnu’khy gksrh gSa vkSj mudk
usr`Ro Hkh lkekftd eqíksa ij csgrj idM+ j[krk gSA ;g usr`Ro pkgs iz’kklu ds Lrj ij gks
vFkok jktuhfrd Lrj ij] vf/kd lEosnu’khy gksrk gS D;ksafd muesa mnkj psruk vkSj
ekuoh; xq.k {kqnz lkEiznkf;d fgrksa dh HksaV ugha Pk<+ ikrsA vr% efgykvksa dh ,d egRoiw.kZ
Hkwfedk mHkjrh gS iz’kklu vkSj jktuhfr ds {ks= esaA gekjs lkeus bfUnjk xk¡/kh vkSj
ljksftuh uk;Mw ds nSnhI;eku mnkgj.k gSaA
{kqnz pqukoh fgrksa ds ctk; lekt dh Hkkoh ihf<+;ksa dk iFk izn’kZu ,d efgyk csgrj
rjhds ls dj ldrh gSA ;fn efgyk jktusrk vius iq#"k jktusrkvksa ljh[ks gFkdaMs u
viuk,a rks jktuhfr rks csgrj gksxh gh] jk"Vªh; lqn`<+hdj.k Hkh gksxkA u flQZ jk"Vªh; Lrj
ij cfYd iapk;r Lrj ij efgyk,a viuh lk[k ,oa izHkko dk bLrseky /kek±s esa vkilh
le> c<+kus vkSj lkSgknzZ vfHko`f) ds fy;s dj ldrh gSa tks ,d nh?kZdkfyd j.kuhfr fl)
gksxhA
efgyk,a csgrj iz’kkld lkfcr gksrh gSa vkSj bl Hkwfedk dks lkEiznkf;d lkSgknzZ
vfHko)Zu ds fy;s cgqr csgrj rjhds ls bLrseky dj ldrh gSaA ljdkjh dke dkt esa
lEosnuk vkSj mnkÙkrk dk lEesyu lekt esa U;k; vkSj lerk dh Hkkouk c<+krk gS vkSj
bldk izfrQyu lekt ds oxks± esa vkilh lfg".kqrk ds :Ik esa fn[kkbZ nsrk gSA <kbZ gt+kj
lky igys lezkV v’kksd us Hkh vius ,d f’kykys[k esa viuh iztk esa ^leok;* ,oa
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^euksxqfÙk ¼/kkfeZd lkSgknzZ½ c<+kus ij cy fn;k vkSj mlus blds fy;s efgyk vf/kdkfj;ksa dh
fu;qfDr Hkh ^efgyk /kEe egkek=* ds uke ls dhA ;g nq[kn gS fd dfri; vf/kdkjh x.k
lkEiznkf;d /kzqohdj.k dks u flQZ c<+kok nsrs gSa cfYd Lo;a Hkh mlesa 'kkfey gksrs gSaA
efgyk iz’kkld ;g lqfuf’pr djsa fd jkt&dkt esa yksd&ykt cuh jgs vkSj lekt ds
fdlh /kkfeZd leqnk; esa vyxko dh Hkkouk tUe u ys ldsA
fdUrq ,d blls cM+k {ks= gS ftlesa efgykvksa dks dksbZ izfrLFkkfir ugha dj ldrk
vkSj og gS ekr`Ro dkA ifjokj lekt dh /kqjh gS vkSj bl ukfHkd esa cPps ds fy;s ek¡ izFke
xq# gksrh gS vkSj ek¡ dh ftEesnkjh curh gS fd viuh lUrkuksa dks cpiu ls gh laLdkj ds
:Ik esa lfg".kqrk vkSj lkekftd lekurk ds fo"k; esa lgh tkudkjh ns] mls vU; /kkfeZd
leqnk;ksa ds ckjs esa vf/kd tkx#d vkSj lEosnu’khy cuk;sA /kkfeZd lkSgknzZ dk ,d cM+k
'k=q gS gekjs fnyks&fnekx+ esa cus gq, ikjEifjd fp= ftuesa O;fDr dks ,d bdkbZ u
ekudj mlds ckjs esa le> mlds /keZ ds vk/kkj ij cukbZ tkrh gSA eqfLye gS rks xUnk
gksxk] fgUnw gSa rks <kasxh gksxk oxSjgA bu Nn~e fo’ks"k.kksa ls cky eu dks eqfDr fnykdj mls
Lora= fpUru ds fy, flQZ ek¡ gh rS;kj dj ldrh gSA
d’ehj dk vkradokn gks ;k eqEcbZ naxs] buds ewy esa vius /keZ dks nwljs ls csgrj
le>us ds vfrfjDr vkSj dksbZ eukso`fÙk ugha gks ldrh gSA vkSj bl [kjirokj dh lQkbZ
ifjokj ds Hkhrj gh dh tk ldrh gSA egkRek xka/kh dgrs Fks fd ;q) gekjs euksa esa iSnk
gksrs gSa vkSj gesa mUgsa ogha lekIr djuk gksxkA eu ds ;q) flQZ ifjokj esa ek¡ lekIr dj
ldrh gSA gekjs lkeus xka/khth dk gh mnkgj.k gS] os viuh vkRedFkk esa bldk mYys[k
djrs gSa fd fdl izdkj mudh ek¡ us mUgsa cpiu esa tSu ,oa eqfLye /keks± ds izfr lfg".kqrk
vkSj ln~Hkko tkx`r djus esa enn dhA ;g Hkkouk jk"Vªh; ,sD; ds fuekZ.k dk ewy rRo gS
tks fofHkUu leqnk;ksa] {ks=h; oSfo/;ksa vkSj tkfrxr Hksnksa dks rksM+rs gq, ,d lejl lekt dh
uhao Mkyrh gSA
efgykvksa ds foLrkj dh ifjf/k flQZ ifjokj rd lekIr ugha gksrhA mudh
lkekftd iw¡th Hkh iq#"kksa ls vf/kd O;kid vkSj lqn`<+ gksrh gSaA iwjh nqfu;k¡ esa py jgs Lo;a
lgk;rk lewg vkUnksyuksa ds ewy esa ;gh lkekftd cU/k gSaA ;s os eap gSa tgk¡ efgyk,a
,d= gksrh gSa vkSj vius vkfFkZd rFkk lkekftd l’kfDrdj.k dh vksj l/ks gq, dne c<+krh
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gSaA buesa /keZ vkSj tkfr dh nhokjsa ^vkSjriu* ds lkeus VwVrh tkrh gSaA ,sls eapksa dk
bLrseky lkekftd ln~Hkko vkSj jk"Vªh; ,drk ds lao/kZu ds fy;s cgqr lkFkZd :Ik ls
fd;k tk ldrk gSA
lkekftd nk;jksa dk foLrkj vUrtkZrh;+ fookgksa ds ek/;e ls Hkh gksrk gSA ,slh
fookgksa dh Øe’k% c<+rh lkekftd Lohd`fr esa efgykvksa dh cM+h Hkwfedk gSA ,d f’kf{kr
vkSj tkx:d efgyk u flQZ vius ifjokj ds cfYd lekt ds vusd vaxksa ij cM+k izHkko
Mkyus dh {kerk j[krh gSA t:jr gS bl {kerk dks igpkuus dh vkSj mldk bLrseky
ldkjkRed :Ik ls djus dhA
izk;% lEiznk;ks us efgykvksa dks mudk leqfpr izns; ugha fn;k gS vkSj /keZ/oth
/kkfeZd usrk] mysek vkfn oSlh gh fLFkfr fujUrj cuk, j[kuk pkgrs gSaA KkrO; gS fd ;s gh
os yksx Hkh gSa tks /keZ dks vius /kkjnkj vkSt+kj dh rjg bLrseky djrs vk;s gSa vkSj fofHkUu
lEiznk;ksa ds vkilh lEokn dks vizR;{k :Ik ls jksdrs gSaA efgyk,¡ bu /kkfeZd usrkvksa dh
vogsyuk djrs gq, /keks± esa vkilh lEokn dks c<+kok ns ldrh gSa tks efgyk eqfDr dh
fn’kk esa Hkh egRoiw.kZ dne gksxkA
lkekftd ln~Hkko esa fxjkoV ls iSnk gksus okyh lkEiznkf;d dVqrk ftldh ifj.kfr
izk;% naxksa esa gksrh gS] mldk lcls cM+k nq"izHkko lekt ds lcls fupys vkSj de+tksj rcdksa
ij gh iM+rk gSA gkf’k;s ds ;s lewg fjD’kk pykus okys] lCt+h dk Bsyk yxkus okys vkSj
et+nwjh dj ds isV ikyus okys lkekftd vkSj vkfFkZd nksuksa gh n`f"V ls uktqd gksrs gSaA
vkSj lcls c<+dj ;g fd bu oxks± dh efgyk,sa vksj Hkh cnrj gkykr esa gSaA
,d mez xqt+j tkrh gS] vkf’k;k¡ cukus esa]rqEkdks dqN ugha gksrk] cfLr;k¡ tykus esa
vkSj ml ij rqjkZ ;g fd lkEiznkf;drk dks jk"Vªh;rk ls Hkh tksM+us ds iz;kl gksrs
gSaA ,sls esa Hkh ?kj ds Hkhrj vkSj lekt esa ckgj nksuksa gh ekspk±s ij efgykvksa dk lkFkZd
;ksxnku okafNr gSA
;g fopkj.kh; gS fd vkt rd gq, lSdM+ksa vkSj gt+kjksa naxksa esa ,d Hkh mnkgj.k ,slk
ugha feyrk ftlesa efgyk,a ryokj ;k ykBh ys dj lM+dksa ij [kwu [kjkck djus fudyh
gksaA ;g foMacuk gh dgh tkuh pkfg;s fd lkEiznkf;d dVqrk ds tUe esa rks lcls de
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fdUrq ifj.kkeksa esa lokZf/kd f?kukSus vijk/k bu efgykvksa dks gh >syus gksrs gSaA ysfdu
lEosnuk dh n`f"V ls] nwjnf’kZrk dh n`f"V ls vkSj lekt dh le> dh n`f"V ls efgyk,a
bl leL;k ds funku esa lEHkor% iq#"kksa dh vis{kk csgrj Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA
vkt lekt dh vis{kk,a vkSj jk"Vªh; vfuok;Zrk,a vkcknh ds 50 izfr’kr Hkkx dk
ekSu ugha eq[kj ;ksxnku pkgrh gSaA gj {ks= bl ;q) dh j.kHkwfe gS pkgs og ifjokj esa
ckyeu dks laLdkj nsus dk Øe gks ;k iz’kklu esa U;k; vkSj lerkiw.kZ iz’kklu pykus dk]
pkgs og iapk;r esa lHkh leqnk;ksa dks mfpr lEeku vkSj laj{k.k dk izlax gks ;k efgykvksa
ds izxfr’khy eapksa dk] lc txgksa ij efgykvksa dk ;ksxnku u flQ+Z lEHko gS cfYd le;
dh ekax Hkh rkfd lekt esa ln~Hkko vkSj lkSgknzZ jg lds vkSj jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lqn`<+
gks dj mHkj ldsA ;g lgh gS fd gkykr dfBu gSa fdUrq u rks fujk’k gksus dk dkj.k gS u
gh mnklA fo’okl dhft, bl ns’k dh efgyk,a viuh egrh Hkwfedk fuHkkus esa leFkZ Hkh gSa
vkSj bPNqd HkhA
vkt dh jkr cgqr xeZ gok pyrh gS]vkt dh jkr u Q+qVikFk is uhan vk,xh]lc mBsa eSa mBw¡] eSa Hkh mBw¡ rqe Hkh mBks]dksbZ f[kM+dh blh nhokj esa [kqy tk,xhA
& dSQ+h vkt+eh
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ukjh izkFkfed&lkekthdj.k dh vk/kkj f’kyk gS
& eksgEen ;wlqQ dqjs’kh
^^ohj iq#"k ;fn Hkh# gksa]rks eq>dks ns ojnku l[khAvcyk;sa mB iM+s ns’k esa]djsa ;q) ?keklku l[khAianzg dksfV vlg;ksfxfu;k¡ngyk nsa czgekaM l[khAHkkjr y{eh ykSVkus dks]jp nsa yadk dkaM l[khA
Jherh lqHknzk dqekjh pkSgku dh ;g iafDr;k¡ lgt gh ukjh&’kfDr dh mn~?kks"k.kk
djrh izrhr gksrh gSa fd ukjh* jk"Vª&fuekZ.k* ds izR;sd ?kVd dks u dsoy fn’kk&funsZf’kr
dj ldrh gS oju~ fu.kkZ;d Hkwfedk Hkh fuHkk ldrh gSA Hkkjr esa ^jk"Vª* ds izfr ukjh ds
blh n`f"Vdks.k ds pyrs bls ^Hkkjr&ekrk* dk ntkZ iznku fd;k x;k gS vkSj blds gj ,d
ukxfjd ds euksefLr"d esa ,d ^ek¡* ds :Ik esa jk"Vª ds izfr izse] J)k] leiZ.k vkSj loZLo
U;kSNkoj dj nsus dk Hkko ek= gh mUgsa ^,drk dh Hkkouk* ls vkg~ykfnr djrk gSA jk"Vª
fuekZ.k esa ukjh dh egrh Hkwfedk dks n`f"Vxr j[krs gq, gh dgk x;k gS&
^^;= uk;ZLrq iwT;Urs]jeUrs r= nsorkA
vFkkZr~ tgka ukjh dh iwtk gksrh gS] ogka nsork fuokl djrs gSaA oLrqr% ^Hkkjr ekrk*
'kCn ls gh jk"Vªh;&,drk o lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknzZ esa ukjh dh Hkwfedk izfrfcafcr gks tkrh gSA
Hkkjrh; Lok/khurk&vkanksyu ds nkSjku ;g ^oans ekrje~* dk mn~?kks"k ek= gh Fkk ftlus u
gesa fczfV’k&vU;k; o xqykeh ls vktknh iznku dh oju~ gesa ^,drk ds lw=* esa Hkh fijks;k
ftlls ge feytqydj la?k"kZ dj ldsA vkt Hkh ^oansekrje~* dk mn~?kks"k ek= gh gjsd
Hkkjroklh dks >d>ksj dj jk"Vª ds fy, dqN Hkh U;kSNkoj djus ds fy, lgt gh rS;kj
dj nsrk gSA oSls Hkh ukjh u dsoy iq#"k dh v/kk±fxuh gS oju~ ;g fdlh jk"Vª dh izR;sd
xfrfof/k esa LokHkkfod rkSj ij viuh fof’kf"V vkSj egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkk jgh gSA ,sls esa
jk"Vªh;&,drk o lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ Hkh ukjh ls vNwrk ugha gSA
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,d ek¡ ds :Ik esa ukjh lekt esa ^izkFkfed&lkekthdj.k* dh vk/kkjf’kyk gSA f’k’kq
tc ek¡ dh xksn esa] mlds vkWpy ds lk;s esa iyrk gS] rks ekrk gh loZizFke mls thou ls
lk{kkRdkj djkrh gS] ogh mldks lqlaLd`r djrh gS vkSj mls gWluk] cksyuk o pyuk
fl[kkrh gSA og vius jDr o nqX/k ls mls iksf"kr dj vkdkj gh ugha oju~ laLdkj Hkh
iznku djrh gSA izR;sd ckyd esa ckY;dky ds nkSjku gh fofHkUu izdkj ds xq.k] lksap]
n`f"Vdks.k o vfHkxeksa dk fodkl gksrk gSA izR;sd ek¡ bl izdkj ckyd ds fy, izFke
vk/kkjHkwr ikB~’kkyk dh Hkk¡fr dk;Z djrh gSA
ek¡ dh nh gqbZ ^lh[k* vkSj mlds }kjk ckyd esa jk"Vª o lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko ds izfr
fodflr fd;k x;k n`f"Vdks.k] ml ckyd ds Hkkoh iq#"k ukxfjd cu tkus ij mlds laiw.kZ
thoudky esa mlds }kjk lapkfyr jk"Vª dh fofHkUu xfrfof/k;ksa esa izfrfcafcr gksrk gSA
fofHkUu jk"Vªksa ds fofHkUu fo}kuksa o izfrf"Br gfLr;ksa us Hkh vius O;fDrRo ds fodkl o
jk"Vª ds izfr muds ;ksxnku esa ek¡ dh Hkwfedk dks ekuk gSA xka/kh th o dyke nksuksa us gh
^ekW rq>s lyke* dgk gSA buds vykok fo’o ds ftrus Hkh egkiq#"k gq, gSa vkSj fofHkUu jk"Vª
ftuds _.kh gSa os lc Hkh eerk Kku ds fpj _.kh gSaA bfrgkl lk{kh gS fd f’kokth dk
egku O;fDrRo ekrk thtk ckbZ ds gkFkksa gh fufeZr gqvk FkkA ouokfluh lhrk us vHkkoksa eas
Hkh ^yo&dq’k* ds O;fDrRo dks bruk laokjk fd egk&/kuq/kZj ^y{e.k* Hkh mu ij ikj ugha
ik lds FksA fofHkUu lekt’kkfL=;ksa o ekuo’kkfL=;ksa us Hkh vius 'kks/k ls ;gh fu"d"kZ
fudkyk gS fd izk;% ^lkaiznkf;drk* o vyxkookn ds cht ^cky&eu* esa
izkFkfed&lkekthdj.k ds nkSjku gh fijks;s tkrs gSA cpiu esa gh ckyd dks fdlh tkfr ;k
/keZ&fo’ks"k ds izfr ?k`.kk ds Hkko] NqvkNwr ds Hkko ;k fdlh laLd`fr&fo’ks"k ds xq.k ;k
voxq.kksa ls ifjpr djk;k tkrk gSA
orZeku esa f’k{kk dk rsth ls futhdj.k gksrk tk jgk gSA gekjs ns’k esa ;=&r=
loZ= izkbZosV&Ldwyksa dh ck<+ lh vk xbZ gSA izk;% izkFkfed f’k{kk iznku djus okys
futh&Ldwy cgqrk;r esa gSa] bu Ldwyksa esa izk;% f’kf{kdkvksa dh ekWx jgrh gS] D;ksafd ;g
rF; vc lkekftd :Ik ls ekU; gks pqdk gS fd ulZjh&Lrj o izkbejh Lrj dh f’k{kk
ukjh&eerk ds lkfUu/; esa gh nh tk ldrh gSA vr% ckyeu esa jk"Vªh;&,drk o
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lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ dh Hkkouk dk lapkj djuk bUgha f’kf{kdkvksa ds o’khHkwr gS] os pkgsa rks
bUgsa rFkkdfFkr fczrkuh ekufldrk okyk Hkkoh ^^itYM&flVhtu** cuk nsa ;k jk"Vª ds
fodkl ds fy, gqadkj Hkjus okyk Kkuh Hkkjrh; ukxfjdA os pkgsa rks bUgsa xka/kh] usg:]
bafnjk] dyke ;k iVsy cuk nsa ;k pkgsa rks ekuork dks ywVus okys lkaiznkf;d :Ik ls
fgald euq";] naxk izseh jk{kl] cykRdkjksa ls vkg~ykfnr gksus okys ekuork ij dyad:Ikh
^vekuq"k&euq";*A
ukjh us tc&tc vkxs c<+dj ^lkSgknzZ fufeZr djus dk iz;kl fd;k gS rc&rc jk"Vª
dh ,drk dks c<+kus okyh o lkaiznkf;drk dks 'kkfey djus okyh fLFkfr;k¡ cuh gSaa fpRrkSM+
dh fgUnw egkjkuh }kjk foifRr esa eqlyeku 'kkld dks Hksth xbZ ^jk[kh* bfrgkl esa mRd`"V
mnkgj.kksa esa ls ,d gS] ftlds o’khHkwr gksdj gqek;wW us mldh enn ds fy, viuh leLr
'kfDr >ksad nh FkhA vdcj ds le; eqxy&lkezkT; dkQh laxfBr o 'kfDr’kkyh Fkk
D;ksafd mldh ^oSokfgd&uhfr* varj&/keZ fookg ij voyafcr FkhA jktiwr fgUnw ukfj;ksa ds
eqxy&oa’k esa izos’k dj tkus ls dkQh gn rd ml le; Hkkjr esa xaxk&tequk laLd`fr*
dk fodkl gqvkA vdcj&tks/kk dh dgkfu;kW Hkkjr esa vc rd izfl) gSA dqN fo}kuksa us
vdcj ds lkezkT; ds foLrkj o mlds lkaiznkf;d&lfg".kq gksus esa mudh fgUnw ifRu;ksa dh
Hkwfedk dks ekuk gS] tcfd vkSjaxtsc ds ^lkaiznkf;d* gksus ds ihNs mUgksaus ekuk gS fd
laHkor;k mUgsa ,slh ukjh dk lkfUu/; ugha feyk] tks muesa ^lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ* ds cht
fijksrhA
,d eqlyeku efgyk] fdlh fgUnw HkkbZ dh cgu cudj mldk fny thr ldrh gS]
mls lkaiznkf;d :Ik ls lfg".kq cukus ds mRizsjd dh Hkkafr dk;Z dj ldrh gSA ,d fgUnw
ek¡ fdlh eqlyeku ds csVs dks xksn ysdj mldk ikyu&iks"k.k dj ldrh gS] og mls ,sls
laLdkj ns ldrh gS tks mls lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkkouk dk ^elhgk* cuk ldrs gSaA
^^u gks oru esa dHkh /keZ dh fgalk];fn xhrk i<+s lqcgks&lqcg dgd’kkaA
vkSj u gks dHkh vktkn d’ehj dh ea’kk]vxj fny ls fn[k tk;s ^pjkjs 'kjhQ* ij pknj p<+krh fu’kkA
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fofHkUu jk"Vª&foHkktu vFkok lkaiznkf;d naxkas ds nkSjku izk;% lokZf/kd ihM+k ukjh dks
gh >syuh iM+h gSA bu naxksa ds nkSjku lSdM+ks efgykvksa dks lkewfgd cykRdkj] gR;k o
vieku dk f’kdkj gksuk iM+k gS&pkgs og ^^dkSlj gR;kdkaM** gks ;k ^^tkfgjk 'ks[k dkaM**A
,sls esa ukjh dks ;g le>uk vR;ko’;d gS fd og bu naxksa dks jksdus esa viuh iwjh rkdr
yxk nsaA og vius ifr] csVs ;k HkkbZ dks le>k ldrh gSa fd muds }kjk fd;s x;s nq"d`R;ksa
ds Hkkxh os Lo;a gks ldrs gSaA naxksa ds nkSjku mudh choh] cgu ;k ek¡ Hkh ^f’kdkj* gks
ldrh gSa] vr% os dHkh Hkh lkaiznkf;d mUekn ds Hkkxh u cusaA dbZ txg efgykvksa us Lo;a
vkxs vkdj lkaiznkf;d naxksa dks jksdk gSA ;fn naxs ds nkSjku ,d eqlyeku ek¡ vius fganw
csVs ls ;k ,d fgUnw cgu vius eqlyeku HkkbZ ls vkxs vkdj vihy djs fd mls
lkaiznkf;d fgalk ds nkSjku loZizFke eq>s gh ekjuk gksxk] rks ;g laHko gS fd dgha mlds
ân; esa mifLFkr izse dk Hkko] Øwjrk ij gkoh gksdj laHkkfor lkaiznkf;d fgalk dh vfXu
dks cq>k ldsA
uDlyokn ds fo#) vkanksyu ^lyok&tqM+e* ds vlQy gksus ds ihNs dkj.k Hkh
ukjh lgHkkfxrk dks udkjuk o mldk vieku jgk gSA ^fdj.k csnh* tSlh efgyk iqfyl
vf/kdkfj;ksa us jk"Vªh; ,drk o lkaiznkf;drk ds neu esa viuk egrh ;ksxnku fn;k gSA
Hkkjr dh gtkjksa ekrk,¡ lSfudksa ds :Ik esa vius liwrksa dks lhek ij Hkstrh jgh gaS] rkfd
ns’k v[k.M o v{kq.; cuk jgsA fofHkUu lkaiznkf;d naxksa ds nkSjku fdruh ekrkvksa us vius
liwrksa dks [kksdj bl fgalk dks jksdus esa enn dh gSA ;fn yksx ;g le> ysa fd ijeohj
pØ fotsrk estj lkseukFk 'kekZ o vCnqy gehn ds 'kghn gksus dk nnZ nksukas dh ekrkvksa ds
fy, leku gS rks jk"Vªh; ,drk o lkaiznkf;d lkSgknZ dk iz’u Lor% gh vn`’; gks tk;sxkA
ns’k esa fofHkUu eapksa ls ^leku&ukxfjd lafgrk dh ekax le; le; ij mBrh jgrh
gS D;ksafd dqNsd yksxksa dk ekuuk gS fd jk"Vªh; ,drk o lkaiznkf;d&lkSgknZ ds fy,
^O;fDrxr dkuwu* ds LFkku ij leku ukxfjd lafgrk ykxw fd;s tkus dh vko’;drk gSA
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lgHkkfxrk nj mldh lcyrk dks de djus ds fy, i;kZIr gSA vkt Hkh ;kSu fgalk]
cykRdkj] Hkwz.k gR;k] ngst gR;k] dk;ZLFky 'kks"k.k tSls vusdksa jk{kl mlds le{k [kM+s gSa]
tks mldh jk"Vª&fuekZ.k esa mldh Hkwfedk dks le;≤ ij lhfer dj nsrs gSaA ,sls esa
mls tkx:d gksdj] lcyk dk :Ik /kj dj lkeus vkuk gh gksxk] rHkh og jk"Vªh; ,drk o
lkaiznkf;d lkSgknZ dks cuk;s j[kus esa viuh 'kr izfr’kr Hkwfedk fuHkk ik,xhA
t; fgUn!
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jk"Vª dh ,drk ,oa v[k.Mrk efgykvksa ds lg;ksx ds fcuk lEHko ughA
& t; izdk’k ekS;Z
jk"Vª ,d o`gn ladYiuk gS] ftlds fofHkUu ewrZ rFkk vewZr vo;o gksrs gSaA fdlh
etcwr jk"Vª ds fy;s mlds ewrZ vkSj vewZr vo;oksa esa larqyu vko’;d gSA ;g rc rd
laHko ugha gS tc rd vk/kh nqfu;k ¼efgyk lekt½ dh Hkkxhnkjh u gksA okLro esa jk"Vª dh
rqyuk ,d tfVy ;a= ls dh tk ldrh gS ftlds nks ifg;s gSa tks bls vk/kkj nsrs gSa blesa
ls ,d ifg;k iq#"k gS rks nwljk efgyk ;fn blesa ls ,d Hkh ifg;k Fke tk; rks jk"Vªh;
,drk v[kaMrk vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dks [krjk gks tkrk gSA ;gh dkj.k gS fd jk"Vªh;
,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko c<+kus esa efgykvksa dh vge~ Hkwfedk gksrh gSA
blds igys fd jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko c<+kus esa efgykvksa dh
Hkwfedk ij izdk’k Mkyk tk;sA la{ksi esa ;g fopkj djuk visf{kr gksxk fd jk"Vªh; ,drk
vkSj lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk vFkZ Li"V dj fy;k tk;sA jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k ls rkRi;Z&jk"Vª
ds ewZr vkSj vewZr vo;oksa ds chp larqyu gksA lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk rkRi;Z gS&fofHkUu
tkfr] /keZ] laiznk; rFkk Hkk"kk lewgksa ds chp ln~Hkko dh Hkkouk gksA pawfd fdlh Hkh jk"Vª
dh tula[;k dk yxHkx vk/ks fgLls dk izfrfuf/kRo efgyk,¡ djrh gSa vr% jk"Vª dh ,drk
rFkk va[kMrk dh dYiuk efgykvksa ds fcuk ugha dh tk ldrh gSA
jk"Vª O;fDr] ifjokjksa rFkk lektksa dk laxBu gSA ifjokj dk dsUnz fcUnq efgyk;sa
gksrh gSA efgyk,a tSlh f’k{kk vius ifjokj ds cPPkksa dks nsrh gSa] oSls gh ifjokj ds laLdkj
curs gaS] ifjokj ds laLdkj tSls gksrs gSa] oSls gh laLdkj lektksa ds rFkk jk"Vªksa ds gksrs gaSA
vr% ifjokj ftls O;kogkfjd thou dh vk/kkjf’kyk ekuk tkrk gS efgykvksa ds dsUnz esa
vkrk gSA vr% jk"Vª fuek.kZ esa efgykvksa dh izR;{k Hkkxhnkjh gks tkrh gSA vr% efgyk;sa insZ
ds ihNs vR;ar egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk fuHkkrh gS] ftldk lkjk Js; nqHkkZZX; ls iq#"k ys ysus dh
dksf’k’k djrk gSA og ,slk iznf’kZr djrk gS ekuks jFk dk ogh lkjFkh gks] ogh /kqjh gks] ogh
mls vkdkj nsrk gks] ogh jFk dk mís’; gksA
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bZ’oj us ,d ,sls fo’o dh jpuk dh gS] ftldk izR;sd d.k fof’k"V gS] vn~Hkqr gS]
dgha Hkh iqujko`fÙk ugha gS] lkFk gh vusdrk esa ,drk dk vn~Hkqr leUo; gS] ftlls fofHkUu
oxZ lewgksa dh jpuk dh gSA blh vusdrk esa ,drk gSA vc iz’u gS efgyk izd`fr D;k gS\
efgyk izd`fr dh fof’k"Vrk gS n;k] d#.kk] izse] lfg".kqrk bR;kfnA okLro esa efgyk izd`fr
dh ;gh fof’k"Vrk mls iq#"k ls vyx djrh gS] okLro esa efgyk izd`fr dh blh fof’k"Vrk
ds dkj.k fofHkUu ifjokjksa esa ,d etcwr laxBu cu tkrk gSA
efgykvksa ds vanj leUo; dh fdruh vn~Hkqr {kerk gS bldk loZJs"B iznZ’ku
ekrkvkas }kjk] ifjokj ds ykyu&ikyu esa ns[kk tkrk gS efgyk;sa ,d vn~Hkqr iz’kkld dh
Hkkafr] lerk] Lora=rk] U;k;ewyd lekt dh uhao j[krh gSa] tgk¡ izR;sd lnL; dh t:jr
dk /;ku j[krh gaSA bl izdkj lerk ewyd lekt dh uhao j[k nh tkrh gSA ysfdu budh
vn~Hkqr {kerk dk ykHk iq#"k iz/kku ekufldrk okyk lekt jk"Vª ds Lrj ij ugha mBk ik
jgk gS D;ksafd og efgyk 'kfDr dks ?kj dh pkjnhokjh esa dSn dj j[kuk pkgrk gSA ;fn
efgyk;sa ifjokj ds vanj vn~Hkqr {kerk dk izn’kZu dj ldrh gSa rks jk"Vªh; Lrj ij D;ksa
ugha\
efgyk izd`fr dk nwljk ln~xq.k gksrk gS& /kkfeZdrkA efgyk;sa O;ogkj ds Lrj ij
iq#"kksa ls vf/kd /kkfeZd gksrh gSA ifjokj ds Lrj ij efgyk;sa gh /kkfeZdrk dk ikB vius
cPPkksa dks i<k+rh gSaA ;fn efgyk vius cPpksa dks vius /keZ ls izse djuk rFkk nwljs /keksZa ls
?k`.kk djuk fl[kkrh gS rks u;h ih<+h dêj gksxh vkSj ;fn ekrk vius cPpksa dks lHkh /kek±s
ds izfr n;k] izse d#.kk dk Hkko fl[kkrh gS rks cPpk /kkfeZd :Ik ls lfg".kq gksxkA bl
izdkj ge ns[k ldrs gS efgyk;sa /kkfeZd lfg".kqrk rFkk loZ/keZ leUo; esa Hkh egRoiw.kZ
Hkwfedk fuHkk ldrh gSaA
izkphu Hkkjrh; bfrgkl esa ns’k dh ,drk vkSj v[kaMrk dks dk;e j[kus esa mnkgj.kksa
dh deh ugha gSA ekS;Z jktoa’k dsa laLFkkid panzxqIr dk fookg] lsY;wdl jktoa’k dh dU;k
ls gqvkA mijksDr mnkgj.k ds ckn] eu esa iz’u mB ldrk gS fd jktdU;k ds fookg dk
jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k rFkk lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko ij D;k izHkko iM+ ldrk gS\ izHkko xgjk gS bl
fookg ds ckn pUnzxqIr vkSj lsY;wdl ds ;q) dh reke laHkkouk;sa lekIr gks xbZaA pUnzxqIr
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vkSj lsY;wdl nksuksa us fe=rk ds uke ij fo’kky lkezkT;ksa dh LFkkiuk dh] ckr ;gha ij
vkdj lekIr ugha gksrh gS] oju~ lkaLd`fr leUo; dh bl ijaijk ij efgykoknh fpard
vk{ksi yxk ldrh gSa fd] ;gka ij efgykvksa dks eksgjk cuk fn;k x;kA bl vk{ksi ls iwjh
rjg cpuk eqf’dy gh gS] ysfdu ;g Hkh lp gS] vkf[kj og efgyk 'kfDr Fkh ftlds
dkj.k foHkUu jk"Vªksa ds e/; lkaLd`frd vknku&iznku gks ldkA
e/;dkyhu Hkkjr esa bldk vn~Hkqr mnkgj.k vdcj ds dky esa ns[kus dks feyrk gS
tcfd vdcj vkSj txr xksalkbZ dk fookg gqvkA ftls vdcj ds dky esa vdcj &
tks/kkckbZ fookg dgrs gSaA ;gka ij tks/kkckbZ ds O;fDRo ds etcwr i{k dks ns[k ldrs gSa fd
tks/kkckbZ us fookg ds ckn Hkh viuk /keZ ifjorZu ugha fd;k lkFk gh jktegy ds vanj
xaxk&tequh lfEefyr laLd`fr dks c<+kok nsrh jghsaA fuf’pr rkSj ij vdcj dh /kkfeZd
lfg".kqrk dks blus izHkkfor fd;k gksxkA D;ksafd ;g vdcj dh eq[; csxeksa esa FkhA
e/dkyhu Hkkjr esa vU; egku ukjh 'kfDr;ksa esa jkuh nqxkZorh] uwjtgka rFkk eqerkt egy
dk uke fy;k tk ldrk gSA ftUgksaus jk"Vªh; ,drk vkSj lkaiznkf;d ,drk cuk;s j[kus esa
enn dhA
1857 ds fonzksg ds le; jkuh y{ehokbZ rFkk csxe gtjr egy dk ;ksxnku
vfoLej.kh; jgk gSA jkuh y{ehckbZ us vaxzsth gqdqer dks Lohdkj djus ds ctk; ;q) esa
izk.k R;kxuk vf/kd Js"Vdj le>k] csxe gtjr egy us y[kuÅ esa vius usr`Ro dk
mnkgj.k izLrqr fd;kA mlh izdkj lkekftd rFkk /kkfeZd lq/kkj vkanksyu esa iafMrk jekckbZ
dk ;ksxnku vfoLej.kh; jgk gSA e/;dkyhu HkfDr vkanksyu eas ehjkckbZ dk egRoiw.kZ
;ksxnku jgk gSA
xka/kh ;qx esa Lora=rk la?k"kZ esa efgykvksa dk ;ksxnku vius mPpre f’k[kj ij ig¡aqp
x;k FkkA vlg;ksx ,oa lfou; voKk vkanksyu esa os ?kj dh pkjnkokjh yk?k¡dj lh/ks
vkanhsyu esa dwn iM+ha ftlesa dLrwjck xka/kh] lqpsrk d`ikykuh] ljkstuhuk;Mw dk egRoiw.kZ
;ksxnku jgkA 1905&1942 rd efgykvksa us mxzokn ls ysdj ØkfUrdkjh vkardokn esa [kqy
dj fgLlk fy;k ftlesa yfrdk?kks"k] m"kk esgrk dk ;ksxnku vfoLej.kh; jgk gSA vktknh
ds ckn lafo/kku fuek.kZ rFkk uoxf.kr ljdkj esa Hkh budh Hkkxhnkjh ls jk"Vªh; ,dhdj.k
esa lgk;rk feyhA lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko cukus esa ,uhoslsaV dh gkse:y yhx dk egRoiw.kZ
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;ksxnku gSaA oslsaV us 1916 dkeufoy esa fy[kk] ßjktuhfrd vkt+knh thrus ds fy, igys
t#jh gS] izR;sd Hkkjrh; lkaLd`frd ln~Hkko dk;e j[ksAÞ blh dkj.k ,uhoslsaV dh yhx dk
ukjk Fkk& ^^Lo’kklu ,oa lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko lkFk**
vktknh ds ckn jk"Vª fuekZ.k rFkk lkaiznkf;d ln~Hkko dk;e j[kus esa
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Sl. No. Contributors1. Shri Shah Faesal, IAS
Sogam Lolab KupwaraSrinagar-193223Jammu & Kashmir
2. Ms. Rashmita Panda, IASAkshaya Kumar Panda,Retd. Chief Engineer,At Bateswar, Post Sunhat,Baleswar Distt,Baleswar-756002 Orissa
3. Shri Anurag Chaudhary, IASS/o Ram Karan ChaudharyVillage-Parsia Tehsil-RudhauliDistt-Basti-272150 U.P.
4. Ms.Suman Rawat, IASVillage Makuri; PO Tikochi(Arakot);Tehsil Mori(Purola);Dist. Uttarkashi-249185Uttarakhand
5. Ms. Durga Sakthi Nagpal, IASB5 Police StationDelhi Cantt., Delhi-110010
6. Shri Pawan Kumar Konda, IAAS64-2-36, Annamma ColonyShriharipuramVishakhapatnam-530 011
7. Ms. Arunima Sharma, ICCES156, Sharda ViharNear New High CourtCity Centre, Gwalior (MP)
8. Shri Arun Thomas Kalathikal K.,IRAS
9. Ms. Upasna Paul, IRSC/o Shri Satnam SinghB-2, 2378,Vasant Kunj, New Delhi
10. Satyarth Aniruddha Pankaj, IPSHouse No.45 A,Phase- One,Aashiyana Nagar,Patna- 800025, Bihar
11. Shri Harish Chander, IPSJ.N-208, Outram Line,Opposite 1980, Kingsway Camp,G T B Nagar,Delhi- 110009
12. Kumar Rajeev Ranjan, IASVill;+Post+Block-Simri,Buxar 828125Bihar
13. Shri Surendra Kumar Jha, IPSVillage-Barsam, Post-Bheja,Thana-Bheja,Dist-Madhubani 847408Bihar
14. Shri Jitendra Kumar Soni IASNear Old Radhaswami SatsangBhawan,Rawatsar,Distt- Hanumangarh-335524Rajasthan
15. Shri Bhaskar Lakshakar, IASJawahar Colony,Old Shivpuri 473551Madhya Pradesh
16. Mohammed Yusuf Qureshi, IPSHouse No. 75 Bajrang Gali #1Joura-476221Madhya Pradesh
17. Shri Jai Prakash MauryaIndira Nagar PO LailunjaRaigarh496113 Chattisgarh
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