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Negotiation Essentials Professor Bob Bordone Harvard Law School Center for Faculty Development Massachusetts General Hospital Thursday, September 24, 2015 Copyright 2015 by Robert C. Bordone. All Rights Reserved.

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Negotiation Essentials

Professor Bob Bordone

Harvard Law School

Center for Faculty Development

Massachusetts General Hospital

Thursday, September 24, 2015 Copyright 2015 by Robert C. Bordone. All Rights Reserved.

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What is Negotiation?

A definition: Any communication

between two or more persons with an

intention to influence or to persuade.

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Negotiations are pervasive...

In everyday life with family and friends

In hospitals & the healthcare industry

In business, real estate, & finance

In politics, communities, & government

In law, labor relations, & international trade

In academia!

Within all organizations – betweencontinents and across all cultures

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Negotiations often fail

Deals are not made

Disputes are protracted

Relationships are damaged

Money and time are wasted

The Problem:

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Possible Causes:

View negotiation as primarily zero-sum innature.

Lack a systematic framework for preparingfor, conducting, and analyzing ournegotiations.

Unaware of impact of our behavior onothers.

Limited by institutional and cultural norms.

Trapped by the three “E”s: Ego, Emotions, &Escalation.

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Possible Solutions:

Recognize possibilities for mutual gain.

Learn a simple, systematic way to prepare for

negotiations.

Review with a partner to learn about the

impact of your behavior.

Do what you can to make systemic changes

within MGH and its culture to increase the

capacity for resolving conflicts efficiently and

negotiating for mutual-gain

Increase your self-awareness and diagnostic

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How we define our success drives our

outcome …

Assumptions,

Mindset

Behaviors

or ActionsOutcome

Reframe

Modify/Change

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Traditional Bargaining:

A Commonly Assumed Model

Commitment (extreme position)

Final offer

Last Offer

Final last offer

Commitment (extreme position)

Final offer

Last offer

Final last offer

Threat to walk

Threat to walk

Split the Difference Compromise

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A New Model: Seven Critical Elements of

Negotiation Success:

Alternatives

Interests

Options

Criteria

Communication

Relationship

Commitment

Useful For:

Defining Success

Preparation

Understanding

different process

choices

Diagnosing and

handling difficult

tactics

Organizing insights,

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Alternatives

Definition The walk-away possibilities that each party has if no

agreement is reached

Measure of Success Better than your “Best Alternative to a Negotiated

Agreement” (BATNA)

Advice Determine your BATNA; consider what their

alternatives might be

Try to improve your alternative before beginning thenegotiation

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Interests

Definition The needs, concerns, goals, desires, and fears that

motivate us to negotiate

Measure of Success Satisfies parties’ interests

Yours well, theirs acceptably, and others not directly in thenegotiation tolerably enough to be durable

Advice Clarify yours; estimate the other side’s

Probe for interests. Ask “Why?” or “Why not?”

Consider both intangible as well as tangibleinterests

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Options

Definition All of the possibilities on which the parties might

agree

Measure of Success An option that maximizes joint gains, is efficient,

and expands the pie

Advice Option generation should follow discussion of

interests and be based upon them.

Follow brainstorming rules

Separate option generation from option evaluationand commitment

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Criteria

Definition External standards of legitimacy against which to

measure possible agreements

E.g. laws, regulations, industry standards, standard of care,market price, expert or third party opinion

Measure of Success Using criteria so no one feels taken

Advice Use criteria as a “sword” – “Let me show you why

this is fair.”

Use criteria as a “shield” – “Why is that a fairnumber?”

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Communication

Definition The exchange of thoughts, messages, or

information by speech, writing, physical cues, orother actions

Measure of Success Message sent = message received

Advice Tailor your words & tone to the needs of your

intended audience.

Combine advocacy with plenty of inquiry.

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Relationship

Definition The connection between the parties in the

negotiation, especially their ability to manage differences effectively

Measure of Success As a result of the negotiation, the relationship

improves or, at minimum, is not harmed

Advice Be unconditionally constructive on the relationship

Separate the people from the problem.

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Commitment

Definition Agreements about what a party will or will not do

Measure of Success Specific, firm, implementable

Advice Avoid committing too early

Use process commitments at the beginning tomove the negotiation forward

Make commitments of substance at the end, notpiecemeal

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A successful negotiation is one in which any

agreement we may reach:

Is better than our BATNA

Meets our Interests well, theirs acceptably, andothers tolerably enough to be durable

Is the best of many Options

Is legitimate, supported by objective Criteria

Improves, or at least does not damage theRelationship

Is based on clear Communication

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Circle of Value:

Communication

Relationship

Interests

Options

Criteria

BATNA Commitment

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Assumptions

•Pie is fixed

•Only job of negotiator is to

claim value

Assumptions

• Pie can be expanded

• Negotiators should look to

create value before dividing

it up

Interests

BATNA

Communication

Commitment

Options

Legitimacy

Relationship

If “No” If “Yes”

A Key Choice

Traditional Bargaining:

A Commonly Assumed Model

Commitment (extreme position)

Final offer

Last Offer

Final last offer

Commitment (extreme position)

Final offer

Last offer

Final last offer

Threat to walk

Threat to walk

Circle of Value:

Communication

Relationship

Interests

Options

Criteria

BATNA Commitment

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Effective Negotiation Skills:

The Key Components of Doing Well

CONDUCT RESULTS

REVIEW

P R E P A R A T I O N

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The Value of the 7 Elements:

Provides a systematic way to measure

success in a negotiation

Serves as a simple, thorough way to prepare

for a negotiation

More robust than simplistic unidimensional

definitions of negotiation success

Useful in all types of negotiations

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