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Motivating Career Counselors for Effective Working
& Improving Communication & listening Skills of a Counselors
PREVIEWPART-1 Right Way of Choosing Suitable
CareerCareer Decision Making Process
PART- 2Life SkillsImportance of Self EsteemSelf-DiscoveryPersonal StyleSelf ExpressionCase StudyHandling Relationships
Influence of parents
May force Their Dream On Children.
No Risk Taking, Prefer To Be On Safe Side.
Leaving Decision On Children.
Academic Performance
If I get good marks , I ‘ll go for science . Arts and commerce are for weak students
DRAWBACKS
.Complete waste of budding potential
Poor Success RateIn Competitive Exams.
Stream change after 10+2 out of frustration
Frequent Job Hopping/Early Onset of Burnout
Poor Professional Life, Hampering Home Life
CAREER DECISION MAKING PROCESS
Know Yourself
Career Options Available
Prioritize Values
3
Consideration withValues & Strengths
1
Explore the Career Options
Decision on Main & Alternative Option
2
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Career Path
Subject Selection • Values
• Strengths
• Personality
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Major Difference between Psychologist/Counselors of
Yesteryears and
Present day Psychologist/Counselors
PERSONAL STYLE AND CLOTHING
• Discover ‘The Power Of Style’.•Dress To Represent Your Personal Style.
SELF DISCOVERY
Identify ‘The Real You’ and take action on creating the life you’ve always wanted.
Set Your Priorities and follow them without feeling guilty.
Have at least one formula to boost your self-esteem.
(Studies reveal the more self-esteem you have the more likely it is you’ll live a life full of achievement, satisfaction and happiness).
CASE STUDY
Manvee is a 19 years old girl. She is an obedient student. She did well in her school exams. Now she is doing her graduation. She spends most of her time with herself. Her imagination is good. She writes good poems and stories.
In college, her academic performance is average. She has small circle of friends. She doesn’t participate in extra curricular activities in the college. She likes to follow others. She hardly takes initiative in any task.
CASE STUDY 1 ….
Of late, she has become very irritating personality. Her anger outbursts are on increase. Whenever she is spoken to for any issue, her reply is
“I do not Know”.
As Manvee’s friend, what are your proposed actions ?
SELF ESTEEM
“People believe that thinking well of themselves is equivalent to boasting and big-headedness. This is why children are often taught to behave better and work harder by having their faults emphasized, rather than by having their successes praised. Parents and teacher may spend their time pointing out what children have done wrong, instead of helping them to build on what they have done right.”
Individuals with High Self- EsteemIndividuals with High Self- Esteem
•They like to meet new people.•They don’t worry about how others will judge them.•They have the courage to express themselves.•Their lives are enriched with each new encounter.•They are nicer to be around.•Their ideas are met with interest because others want to hear what they have to say.•They are magnets to positive opportunities!
•Avoid trying new things•Feel unloved & unwanted•Blame others for own shortcomings•Be unable to tolerate a normal level of frustration•Put down their own talents & abilities•Be easily influenced
and with Low Self Esteem will :-
TIPS TO PROMOTE SELF ESTEEM
Stop having negative thoughts
Be assertive
Aim for accomplishment rather than perfection
Set Short Goals
Develop expertise in some area
Have A Clear Signature
HANDLING RELATIONSHIP
Go for honest, trusting relationships.
Respect is the key factor Enjoy your relationship
than wasting time in other issues.
Do not go out of your comfort zone.
Use I statements in arguments.
Avoid Blaming/ express your feeling.
SOME TIPS…
Be a Brand Ambassador of Your Subject. Work on yourself- Looks, Language, Label Take Risks Go out of your comfort zone Understand the changes in new generation
and have an empathetic attitude towards them
Handle difficult people and tense situations tactfully
Do anything to have feeling of a WINNER
“WISH YOU ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR FUTURE”
“ Counselling and Psychological Services” (CAPS)
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Email- [email protected] us at www.capscounselling.com