Module 5: Living Your Passion, Your Way

©2011 • Motivation To Move, Inc/Scott Smith • All Rights Reserved Worldwide

Overview of Module 5:Living Your Passion, Your Way

• Success Is More Fun When You Enjoy The Ride.

• Living A Strategic Life.

• Nurturing The Folks In Your Life.

• Live Your Life, Your Way. It's All About Style.

“You Must Choose To Live Your Way”

It’s All About Living YOUR Way• Your Plan Is The Logic Of Your Life.

• Emotions Are The Juice - Where It’s Fun.

• Your Plan Is Your System.

• Your Style Is What Makes It Fun.

• Today, We’re Going To Add Some Style.

Top Of Mind Awareness Is Key• Are You...

• Actively Living Your APD?

• Using Your Values To Guide Choices?

• Laser Focused On Goals?

• Continuously Clearing Clutter?

•Moving Forward Every Day?

Are You Building Your Bridge?

• Your Goal Is To Transition From “Old To New”.

• Have A Clear Picture Of Exactly What Is On The

Other Side Of Your Bridge.

• Know What MUST Be Eliminated And At What

Stage To Allow For New.

Are You Building Your Bridge?

• Plan A Realistic Timeline For Completing The

Crossing Of Your Bridge.

• Remember To Use Outcome Based Thinking.

Are You Building Your Bridge?

• How Will You Support Your Current Life?

•What Steps Will Be Required For New Life?

• At What Point Will You Add In The New?

• At What Point Will You Let Go Of Your Past?

• Never Drop Anything Until Stabilized.

“Success Is More Enjoyable When You

Enjoy The Ride”

A Beautiful Life Is Built On Traditions And Rituals

• Think Of The Best Times You’ve Had.

• Traditions And Rituals Create Great Memories.

• Traditions And Rituals ARE Life.

• Time Will Pass Quickly - Are You Caught Up?

• Decide On Your Traditions And Rituals.

Create Memories For You AND Others

• Plan Holiday Celebrations In Advance.

• Everybody’s Birthday IS Important.

• Life Transition Events Should Be Celebrated.

• Vacations, Date Nights, Weekend Cookouts.

• “Think” About How You Can Make Them Great.

Create Memories Just For YOU

•What Traditions Are Yours? Only Yours?

•What Do You Enjoy? What Powers Your Soul?

• Is It Simple? Complicated? Does It Matter?

• YOU Are Responsible For YOUR Moments.

• Know Them. Enjoy Them. Honor Them.

A Beautiful Life Built on Traditions and Rituals

• Your Rich Life Is Built Upon A Foundation Of

Social Structure - We Share Through T&R.

• T&R Allow Us To Celebrate Life.

• Yes - It Is More Work - But That Is Where The

Juice Of Life Lives.

The Storm Makes Your Stronger• Calmer Weather Always Leads To The Storm.

• Storms Test Our Resolve - But Always Pass.

• Storms Serve As A Powerful Bond.

• Storms Create Great Relationships.

•Multiply and Amplify Your Life Experiences.

Consistency is The Secret To All Success

• Some People Get Lucky - It Just Happens.

• Overnight Sensations Are A Myth.

• Daily, Small, Focused Direction Wins.

• Long Term, Big Picture Thinking Moves You.

• Remember - The Journey Matters.

Consistency is The Secret To All Success

• Always Do The Most Important Thing First.

• Don't Try And Do Everything In One Day - Do

Everything That Must Be Done.

• Start Your Next Day Before You End Your Current

Day - Look Ahead.

“A Better Life Is A Strategic Life”

Simplify Your Life By Being Proactive

•My Phone Hasn't Rung In Two Weeks.

• It Rarely Rings More Than Once Or Twice A Week.

• I Have No "Emergency" Emails.

• Nobody Has Interrupted My Workouts In Years.

•My Days Are Focuses On My Plan.

Simplify Your Life By Being Proactive

• I Usually Have Too Much Time On My Hands.

• Being Pro Active Means Everything Is Taken Care

Of - No Reason To Be Interrupted.

• I Focus On My Goals - Nothing Else Matters.

• That Leaves Time For Others.

Simplify Your Life By Being Proactive

• Activity Is Easy - Is It The Right Activity?

• Think, In Advance What’s Coming Your Way.

• Decide How To Handle Everything - Get Everybody

On The Same Page.

• Being Proactive Eliminates Problems.

Simplify Your Life By Being Proactive

• You Probably Won’t Have Problems.

• If Not? You Have Time To Deal With Problems.

• ALWAYS Do Things ONLY Once.

•More Than Once? Automate.

• Have More Fun And Scale Everything.

• You MUST Multiply Yourself.

• Think In Terms Of “Life Automation”.

• An Automation Foundation Allows Scale.

• Scale Allows Freedom And Growth.

• You Will Quickly Multiply Your Success.

The Magic Of Automation & Scale

• Getting What You Want In Requires Self Control.

• Self Control Requires Mind Power & Hours.

• Automation Creates Additional Energy.

• EVERYTHING Should Be Automated.

• Automation Should Support Your Chosen Life.

Why Automation & Scale?

• Ritual.

• Rest.

• Rejuvenate.

• Reactivate.

• Repeat.

The 5 R's of Success

“Nurturing The Folks In Your Life”

Enjoy The Folks In Your Life

• Relationships Are What Life Is About.

• Relationships Are How We Experience Life.

• You Have A Choice In Most Cases.

•Why Not Choose Ideal Relationships?

•What Not Nurture Family Relationship?

Enjoy The Folks In Your Life

• “Treat Me Nice And I'll Enhance Your Life.”

• “Treat Me Rude And I’ll Elude.”

• You Get To Choose How People Treat You.

• You Must KNOW How You Want To Be Treated.

• Relationships Are Two-Way. Remember That!

Pay Attention To Our Culture

• Relationships Are Guided By Cultural Rules.

• Society's Tribes Acceptable Rules.

•When You Enter Another Tribe - Make Sure

You're A Good Fit.

• They Are Not Going To Change For You.

Nurturing The Small Circle Around You

• Your Smallest Circle IS The Most Important.

• Friends, Family, Business You Can Count On.

• Focus On The Small Group First - Then Expand.

• This “Relationship Foundation” Will Support You.

• ALWAYS Pay Attention To Your Core Group.

Foolishly Assuming What Others Feel

•We All Have Rules Of Our World.

• You Behave Based On Your Rules.

• Your Views Come From Your Experiences.

• Others Also Have “Their Rules”.

•Misinterpretation of Rules Causes Conflict.

Foolishly Assuming What Others Feel

• To Understand Others - Get On The Other Side

Of The Table.

• Before Assuming - Look At It From Every Angle.

• Arrive At A Conclusion. Right Or Wrong.

• That Perspective Will Create Rapport.

Saying NO To Get Ahead

• Saying “No” Will Say “Yes” To Life.

• To Move Forward, You MUST Say “No”.

• “No” IS Confrontation And Feels Bad.

• Instead Of Confrontation? Try Confirmation.

• After Confirmation. (Truth) Everything Is Easy.

Control Your Life By Going Dark

• Nothing Really Matters - Yet When We're In The

Middle - Everything Matters.

• Eventually - The Outcome Will Become Clear.

• Everything In The Middle Is De-Focusing Drama.

• Usually Caused By Controlling People.

Control Your Life By Going Dark

• You Can’t Always Control Others.

• In Fact, The More You Try, The Worse It Gets.

• The ONLY Way Is Go Dark. Control THEM.

• Don't Ignore. Control.

• Stay Focused On What Is Important To You.

“Life! It's All About Style!”

What Is A Personal Style Book?

• It's A Rule Book For How You Live Your Life.

• It States Who You Are.

• It States How You Act.

• It States How You Wish To Be Seen.

• A Personal Style Book Is Performance Based.

What Is A Personal Style Book?

• Your Personal Style Book Is Your “Constant”

Reminder Of Who You Are, What You Like To Do,

And What And How You Like To Experience Life.

• Your Personal Style Book Is How You Choose To

Live Your Life.

Why Use A Personal Style Book?

•Many Businesses Use “Style Guidelines” To Keep

Everybody On The Same Page.

• Yours Is To Keep YOU On The Same Page.

• Style Books Allow Consistent Performance Forever.

• Style Books Establish Your Brand.

Why Use A Personal Style Book?

• Your Personal Style Book Allows You To Merge Your

Style With Your Goals And Dreams And Literally

Create Your Lifestyle.

• Your Personal Style Book Keeps You On Track And

Always Living Life On Your Terms.

How To Create Your Personal Style Book

• Begin With Your Average Perfect Day (As It Is).

• Review Your Values & Goals.

• Honor Your Inner Feelings - How You Want To Live.

• Decide How You Want To Be Seen By Others.

• Affirm Your Style. Honor It. Live It.

Remember This!!!

•What You Think - You Get!

• Don’t Let Others Guide You.

• Think - “How Do I Like To Do Things?”

• Be Honest. Be Brave. Be Patient.

• KNOW That YOU Decide Your Destiny.

Most Importantly!!!

•Write Your Personal Style Down.

• Review It Daily.

• Consult Your Personal Style On Decisions.

• Be Willing To Make Changes IF You Feel The Need.

• Don’t Change Too Fast!

“Did You Do Your Homework?”

Did You Do Your Homework?

• Review Your APD, Values & Goals.

• Continue To Remove Clutter (From Module 3)

• Continue To Build Your Bridge To New Life.

(From Module 4)

• Create Your Personal Style Book.

COMING UP....

©2011 • Motivation To Move, Inc/Scott Smith • All Rights Reserved Worldwide

Preview of Module 6: Nothing Happens Until Something Happens

• Installation, Integrations & Migration.

• Create Your “Recipe For YOU”

• Putting Your New Life Into Action.

•Maintaining Your New Success.

• PYOTB!

A 12-Week Step-By-Step Coaching Program

©2011 • Motivation To Move, Inc/Scott Smith • All Rights Reserved Worldwide