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Mindfulness and Compassion Workshop
Dr Tony FernandoPsychiatrist, Sleep SpecialistSenior Lecturer in Psychological MedicineUniversity of Auckland
Ajahn Brahm Ajahn Amaro
Circuitries for happiness
CalmContentment
ExcitementDrive
ConnectionCompassion
Exercise
For 1 minute, close your eyes, notice what your mind does
What did you notice? What did you think about? Emotions? Judgments?
This is 1 minute, in a contained environment, with not much stressors going on
Out of control minds and emotions
2 arrow metaphor of suffering
• 1st arrow- source of suffering
• 2nd arrow-relationship with the 1st arrow
• Self-induced suffering because of our own thinking patterns
“crazy mind”• Chattering• Planning• Remembering• Fantasising• Calculating
• Papanca
Committee members of the mind
• Self Critic• Checklist• Control Freak• Angry• Irritable• Judgmental• Greedy• Kind• Submissive• Pleaser• Lustful• Caring• Compassionate
• Know who’s chairing, speaking the loudest
• Acknowledge and accept that it’s part of you, neither good or bad
• We are all NUTS
• Evolved to protect us, propagate the species
Exercise for 5 minutes• Relaxed but alert posture• Close your eyes• SMILE• INTENTION- may I put in a good effort in my mindfulness
practice, to benefit not just myself, but other beings as well
• Notice the breath- coming in and coming out• Notice kindly; not too intense• Let the breath do its thing; don’t control it
• You will have distractions; from your surroundings; from your own mind and body; just notice, accept calmly, gently go back to the breath
How was that?• Positive experiences?• Difficulties?• Expectations?
• Not about focusing on the breath but how we relate to the breath
• “distractions” are not distractions; they are stimuli that your mind judges as distractions;
• instead, view them as mindfulness aids; relate to them kindly as they are your reality!
Expectation
• One of the biggest sources of suffering
• Suffering or Stress = Expectation/ Reality
• S= E/R
• Mindfulness teaches us to accept reality as it is; aligns expectation with reality less suffering
Exercise for 5 minutes• Relaxed but alert posture• Close your eyes• SMILE• INTENTION- may I put in a good effort in my mindfulness
practice, to benefit not just myself, but other beings as well
• Notice the breath- coming in and coming out• Notice kindly; not too intensely• Let the breath do its thing; don’t control it
• Be kind to your experiences- both external and internal (thoughts, feelings, sensations) then gently go back to the breath
How was that?
What do you do when you notice that you are: • Distracted
• Lost in thought• Judgmental • Falling asleep• Scattered
Mindfulness allows us to see our suffering and crazy minds
Mindfulness as a microscope
Diagnosis?
We are all “crazy”
What Mindfulness is not
Quieting the mind
Plain concentration
Focusing on the breath
Changing your situation e.g. pain, anger, anxiety
Informal mindfulness training
• Walking meditation– Instead of paying attention to the breath, meditation
object is the sensation of walking– Transition to mindfulness in everyday life
• Eating meditation
• Shower meditation, bathtub meditation, driving meditation, dishwasher meditation, meditation with the patient…
Key Skill
• Accepting reality (thoughts, feelings, experiences) as it is…now– Different from resignation
• Being at peace with what “is”…now
• Kind to oneself
• We are practicing mindfulness not just to achieve a certain experience (problematic)
• BUT to learn how we relate to experience
• Distractions are not the problem, but it’s how we relate to distractions (our crazy mind)
Compassion Training
Compassion not “switch”
Compassion is conditional
family/ likeability/ similarity
deserving vs blameworthy
external environment, bystander effect
stress/ pressure/SAFETY
Barriers to Compassion in Medicine
(Fernando, Consedine PGMJ 2014)
• Burnout/ Fatigue
• Difficult Patient/ Family
• External Distraction
• Clinical Complexity
Enhancing compassion
• Address burnout and fatigue• Motivation: May I be of benefit
2BOB “Be of Benefit” • Perspective: See everyone as
exactly like you- we all have dramas and baggages; we all want to be happy
• TOUCH• Compassion meditation training• Mindfulness training
– James Donald Meta Analysis on mindfulness and prosocial behavior
– Fernando, Skinner, Consedine– Condon, Desbordes, Miller, Desteno
Meditation Training on Compassion
• Metta bhavana
• May you be safe, free from suffering, be happy and be at peace
• http://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/compassion_meditation
• http://www.calm.auckland.ac.nz/20.html
Compassion not just for others but also for ourselves
Why are we practicing mindfulness?
Who suffers a lot?
We do, mainly from our crazy minds
I have been practicing compassion through mindfulness and I have found it incredibly liberating.
I am able to overcome habitual patterns of self-critisicing and negativity and treat them and myself with kindness and observe as they evanesce.
By being compassionate with myself, I can be compassionate to friends and whanau.
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