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Masters of Scale Grit Happens with Crisis Text Line's Nancy Lublin LUBLIN: I went to see Ibsen’s, A Doll's House, at the theater. 10th row center sitting to my left. Donald Trump. Sitting to his left some skinny blond I didn't recognize. And he's eating Milkduds, like shoving them in his mouth. Fistful at a time and I look at him and I'm like, do you need to own the company or are those available in the lobby, and he says all Haw-Haw grabs the box from the skinny woman him and hands them to me because I don't think she's anything but tofu and water. And and so I eat the Milk Duds and we strike up a conversation and he says so what do you do. REID: That’s Nancy Lublin. And what does she do? She builds non-profits the way Donald Trump builds skyscrapers. Her organizations are huge, tremendous, big-league stuff. Believe me. When Nancy accidentally sat next to Trump in that theater, she had just launched her first non-profit, Dress for Success. The organization started as a clothing drive to help women on welfare dress for job interviews. She collected pantsuits, pearls, pumps. You name it, Nancy had it piling up in her tiny apartment. She figured Trump might have a spare storage room somewhere in his real estate empire. So she started pitching. LUBLIN: I talk about Dress for Success and how amazing it is. And he says, “Oh really? Do you enjoy it? And I was like, “Yes it's pretty amazing helping women like move from welfare to work.” And he says, “Really it's not boring?” And I'm like, “No it's not boring.” So I said to him, “So what do you do?” And he says, “No one ever asked me that before.” And I said, “Well, what do you do? How would you describe it?” And he said, “I guess I'm a builder. I build things.” And I said, “Oh, do you like it?” I mean like I gave it right back to him.

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LUBLIN:IwenttoseeIbsen’s,ADoll'sHouse,atthetheater.10throwcentersittingto

myleft.DonaldTrump.SittingtohisleftsomeskinnyblondIdidn'trecognize.Andhe's

eatingMilkduds,likeshovingtheminhismouth.FistfulatatimeandIlookathimand

I'mlike,doyouneedtoownthecompanyorarethoseavailableinthelobby,andhe

saysallHaw-Hawgrabstheboxfromtheskinnywomanhimandhandsthemtome

becauseIdon'tthinkshe'sanythingbuttofuandwater.AndandsoIeattheMilkDuds

andwestrikeupaconversationandhesayssowhatdoyoudo.

REID: That’s Nancy Lublin. Andwhat does she do? She builds non-profits theway Donald

Trumpbuildsskyscrapers.Herorganizationsarehuge,tremendous,big-leaguestuff.Believe

me.

WhenNancyaccidentallysatnexttoTrumpinthattheater,shehadjustlaunchedherfirst

non-profit,DressforSuccess.Theorganizationstartedasaclothingdrivetohelpwomenon

welfaredressforjobinterviews.Shecollectedpantsuits,pearls,pumps.Younameit,Nancy

haditpilingupinhertinyapartment.ShefiguredTrumpmighthaveasparestorageroom

somewhereinhisrealestateempire.Soshestartedpitching.

LUBLIN:ItalkaboutDressforSuccessandhowamazingitis.Andhesays,“Ohreally?Do

youenjoyit?AndIwaslike,“Yesit'sprettyamazinghelpingwomenlikemovefrom

welfaretowork.”Andhesays,“Reallyit'snotboring?”AndI'mlike,“Noit'snotboring.”

SoIsaidtohim,“Sowhatdoyoudo?”Andhesays,“Nooneeveraskedmethat

before.”AndIsaid,“Well,whatdoyoudo?Howwouldyoudescribeit?”Andhesaid,“I

guessI'mabuilder.Ibuildthings.”AndIsaid,“Oh,doyoulikeit?”ImeanlikeIgaveit

rightbacktohim.

REID:They’reofftoarockystart.Nomatter.Nancykeepspushing.

LUBLIN:Icallafriendandsayyougottogivemethenameofhispersonalassistant.She

saysit'sNormaFoerdererorwhowasfamouslyhisassistantfordecades.Igoto

Blockbuster—againthisisalongtimeago—And[buy?]likeagiantboxofMilkDuds

andIgetinacabandIsay,takemetoTrumpTower

LUBLIN:NowI'monthe26floorandIlookaroundit'sallgoldandglassandmirrors.

ThroughthegoldandglassandmirrorsIseetheskinnyblondfromthenightbeforethe

theaterandIwavedmyarms.Shecomesover.She'slike,thewomanfromthetheater.

Whatareyoudoinghere?AndIsaidlookIwillgivehimaboxofMilkDudsaweekfor

therestofhislifeifyoucanjustfindmelike500squarefeetofspacebecause

everything'sinmyapartment.Shesayshe'sbroke.Andlookaround.I'mlikeIseetimes

areroughandIshakeherhandIsay,OKwellthankyousomuch.

REID:YouhavetolovethisaboutNancy:Shedoesn’tgiveupeasily.

LUBLIN:NowagainI'manentrepreneur.Iambittenbythatbug.Idon'tgiveupthere.

SoI'mdoinglikeFoxbreakfastTVthenextweekandIlookoverandthewomansitting

nexttomeandIrecognizeherandIsay“AreyouLizSmith,thegossipcolumnist?”She

says,“Iam.”IsayyouknowIhaveastoryyoumightbeainterestedinandItoldthe

story.AndthatSundayshewritesitupinTheNewYorkPostanditrunsinhercolumn

nationallyandshetellsitonTV.AndsoMondaymorningItakethatNewYorkPostandI

gotoTrumpTowerandIsaytosecuritypleasetellNormaFoerdererthatNancyLublinis

downstairs.AndIgoupandNormaFoerderersaysit’sgoodtoseeyou.Wesawithe

saw.Hethinksit'sveryfunnybutwehavenothingforyou.Sotheendingofthestoryis

I'vegotthemostbeautifulrejectionletterI'veeverseeninmyentirefreakinlife.Like

onTrumpTowergoldembossedletterhead.AsI'vesaidbeforetoyouIcouldscrapeoff

thatlogoandmakefillingsforeveryoneIknow.Imeanthatthelogoislikeaquarterof

aninchoffthepage.Beautiful,tellingmethathehadnomoneyandsorry.Andsorry,

bestofluck.IwasworkingonsomethingthatP.S.isnowin120citiesaroundtheworld

solikeitwouldhavebeenasafebettogivemefivehundredbucks.Instead,I'vegota

storythatItelleverywhere.

REID:Thestoryisn’tsimplythatyoucan’ttake“no”forananswer.Anyonecandothat.And

frankly,ifyougettoopushy,you’remorelikelytogetarestrainingorderthananinvestor.

TherealstoryisaboutthepowerofpersistenceANDagoodPlanB.Orrather,PlansB.Just

considerNancy’smulti-channeledcharmoffensive.Shedeploysjokes,multipleboxesofMilk

Duds,letters,surprisevisitsandaNewYorkgossipcolumnist.Thisiswhatwecallgrit.And

GRITiseveryentrepreneur’strumpcard.

[ThemeMusic]

REID:I’mReidHoffman,co-founderofLinkedIn,invstoratGreylockandyourhost.Ibelieve

successfulentrepreneursneedideas,money,goodtimingandaheftydoseofluck.Butnone

ofthosematterifyoudon’thaveGRIT.

Somepeoplemistakegritforsheerpersistence.Chargingupthesamehill,againandagain.

Butthat’snotquitewhatImeanbytheword“grit.”Thesortofgrityouneedtoscalea

businessislessreliantonbruteforce.It’sactuallyonepartdetermination,onepartingenuity,

andonepartlaziness.Yes,laziness.

YANG:I'mverylazy.IthinkmybiggestfaultgrowingupwasthatIwasneververy

complete.Iwasneververythorough.

REID:That’sJerryYang,co-founderofYahoo!Andafiercelydeterminedentrepreneur.Andit

turnsoutwehadlazinessincommon.Here’swhatItoldhim.

REID:ItendIthinkpersonallythatlazinessisoneofthefoundationsofintelligence

becauseiflookingforthoseshortcutssoIactuallythinkthatit'sactuallyinfacta

positiveattributeinthiscase.

YANG:WellThat'sniceofyoutosaybutReidbutwhenIwasyoungIwas,mynickname

inmyfamilywasMr.Lazy.Myuncles,mymomeverybodycalledmeMr.Lazy,Iwasso

lazy.Imust’vebeenveryintelligent.

REID:Wellthisissomethingwediscoveredthatweshare.BecausewhenmydadandI

wereonhissabbaticalinKenya,thedrivercalledmeLazyBones.Sowehaveyouknow

wehaveacertainparallelhistory.

YANG:IknewIlikedyouforareason.

REID:Lazybonesoftheworld,unite.Inanycase,Ithinkthisconversationgetsuscloserto

thetruenatureofentrepreneurialgrit.Youshouldbebullheadedinyourpursuitofabig

idea,butalwaysonthelookoutforshortcuts.

Youwanttoconserveyourenergy.Youwanttominimizefrictionandfindthemosteffective,

mostefficientwayforward.Youmightactuallyhavemoregritifyoutreatyourenergyasa

preciouscommodity.Soforgetthetiredclicheofrunningamarathon.Youwanttobemore

likeIndianaJones,somersaultingunderblades,racingafewstepsaheadofarollingboulder

andswingingyourwhipuntilyoureachyourholygrail.

Ifyouaskme,NancyLublinistheentrepreneurialequivalentofIndianaJones.Andwe’ll

comebacktoherstoryinaminute.Butfirst,awordfromoursponsor,ZipRecruiter.

[note:teamstilldecidingbetweentheseapproaches]

Ifyouaskme,NancyLublinistheentrepreneurialequivalentofIndianaJones.Iwantedto

talktoherforthisepisodebecausesheisa10outof10whenitcomestogrit.Andshealso

doesherworkinthenot-for-profitsector,whichhasevenmorelandminesthanthe

commercialworld.Capitalishardertocomeby,talentishardertorecruit,andouroverall

society—atleasthereintheU.S.—broadlyrewardscommercialpeoplemorethanthey

rewardnon-profitpeople.

We’llcomebacktoNancy’sstoryinaminute.Butfirst,awordfromoursponsor,

ZipRecruiter.

REID:Sobeforewegettoourguests—theentrepreneurswhoputthe“grr”inthewordgrit

—I’dliketoopen,abituncharacteristically,withaquotefromtheBible.

“Theraceisnottotheswift,northebattletothestrong,orbreadtothewise,orriches

tothediscerning,orfavortotheskillful;buttimeandchancehappentothemall.”

Timeandchancehappentousall—exceptNancyLublin.Timeandchancedon’thappento

Nancy.Grithappens.Andoncethisqualitykicksin,she’sunstoppable.

Nancyhasscaledthreehugelysuccessfulnot-for-profitorganizationsthatchampionthe

world’smostneedy.

REID:I’vebetonNancybefore—andsohavealotofinvestors.Why?Partlybecauseshehas

thesamebiasforactionthatI’veseeninallgreatscaleentrepreneurs.Getherthinkingabout

somesocialproblem,andshegetsrestless.Shecan’ttolerateit.Take,forinstance,hernot-

for-profit,DressforSuccess.You’llrecall,shewantedtohelpwomenonwelfareenterthe

workforceinstyle.Entertainingly,Nancynevercaredmuchforfashion.Ifanything,shefinds

itludicrous.

LUBLIN:Myfathergrowingupwasalawyerandheusedtotellmethatwhenhewas

hiringsecretarieshe'dlookoutthewindowandwatchthemgofromthecartothe

buildingandthenhe'dknowbeforetheyreachedthebuildingwhetherornothe'dhire

them.SoIthoughtwastheworstthingIhadeverheard.Iwaslikethat'syoujust

describeddiscriminationtome.That'shorrible.Andhesaidandit'sthetruthsogo

combyourhair.AndsoImeanIjustknewthattheworldworksthiswaywe

discriminatebasedonafirstlookoneverybody.Andsothat'swhereDressforSuccess

camefrom.

REID:SoNancyhasjustidentifiedahugeproblem.Employersjudgejobapplicants—

especiallywomen—basedontheirphysicalappearance.Shemighthavevaliantlystruggled

forfairerhiringpractices.Butthat’sastruggleforactivists—thesortofpeoplewhocan

tolerateanincrementalbattlewithhistoryandhumannature.

ButNancywantsasolutionnow.Shecan’tchangethewaybossesthinkovernight.Butshe

canleveltheplayingfieldbygivingwomenaccesstoprofessionalclothing.Shehasanidea.

Shehas$5000inseedmoneyfromhergrandfather’sestate.Andshe’sabouttogetherfirst

unlikelycollaborators.

LUBLIN:AndsoIwasinlawschoolIwenttomylawprofessorandsaidheyIhavethis

ideawhatdoyouthink.AndhesentmetoSisterMaryNurniinSpanishHarlem.And

thenshebroughtintwoothers.WhenIwenttomeetthemforthefirsttimeIfully

expectedthemtomeetmeinlikeinhabitwithlockedarmssingingliketheSoundof

Music...andinsteadthey'rereallycool.They'relikekindoflikesocialworkers.They’re

reallycoolwomen.ThedrawbackwasItookfinancialadvicefromthem.Theytoldmeto

putthe$5000intoasixmonthCDinthebank,whichmeantwestartwithnomoney.So

likedon'ttakefinancialadvicefrompeoplewhotakeanoathofpovertyislikethe

lessonthere.13:53

00:14:53WheneverIhavedoneastartup,thefirstthingIactuallydoiscallmyfamily

andfriends.Becauseyouthink“Theyloveme,andIlovethem.”Thatdoesn'tmean

they'regoingtoloveyouridea.

AndthethingaboutthenunsisIreallyhadnorelationtothembefore.Buttheyknew

fucktonsaboutmovingpeoplefromwelfaretowork.Theyknewexactlywhatwasgoing

oninNewYorkCityandhowtomakethishappenandhowtogetitstarted.Theywere

theywereactuallytheexactrightpeopletostartthiswith.

REID:SohowdidNancyandthreenunsmanagetoscalethisideaworldwide?Theydidn’t

havemuchmoney.Theydidn’thaveconnectionstowealthyphilanthropists.Andthey

certainlydidn’thavestaff.Theironlyassetwastheirknowledgeofthewelfaresystem.That

systemincludedavastnetworkofgovernmentandprivateagenciesdedicatedtohelping

women.Nancysimplybuiltanorganizationthatcouldtapintothistalentnetworkforfree.

LUBLIN:Thechallengeoriginallywaswehavethesepeoplewhoaremovingfrom

welfaretowork.Howdoyougetthemintothesystemwithoutpassingajudgmenton

individuals.Andthenhowdowesolveourlaborproblemintheshop?Sowecombined

that.Andwhatwedidwaswescreenedagencies.Wewouldapprovedomesticviolence

shelters.Wewouldapprovejobtrainingprograms.Wewouldapprovehomeless

shelters.Andthentheycouldsendwhoevertheywantedtotheshop.Asabarterwe

requiredthemtosendsomeonetostafftheshoponedayamonth.Sowegotfreelabor

andhighqualityreferralsanddidn'teverhavetopassanyjudgmentontheindividualso

everybodywhocametouswasworthdressingbecauseoneofouremployees

essentiallyhadreferredthem....Andbythewaythismodelofstaffingtheshopand

referringstaystodayinover100locationsaroundtheworld.

REID:NoticewhatNancydidnotdo—shedidnottrytobuildanentiresystemfromscratch

byherself,whichisatrapmanyentrepreneursfallinto.Shelookedaroundherforother

sourcesofenergy.Likeatinyjiujitsuartist,sheredirectstheenergyofstronger,heavier

fighters.Andthisway,shechannelsthecollectivestrengthoftheexistingwelfaresystem

towardrealizingthisideawithher.Thisisaclassicscalingtechniquethatnonprofitstypically

don’tmaster.Nancy’sorganizationsaretherareexception.

Youcanthinkofthistechniqueasamagnificentshortcut.Andit’sthekindofshortcutNancy

findsagainandagain.Shedartsahead.Shefindsquick,systemicfixestobiggnarlyproblems.

It’sapatternthroughoutherstoryofgrit.

SoNancyhassomuchgritthatnotonlywouldshecountasa10outof10gritpersoninthe

commercialworld,butshegoesanddoesitinthenonprofitworldwhichhasevenmore

landminesBecausecapitalismuchhardertocomeby,youdon'tgettoaself-sustaining

business,alotoftalentwantstogoworkwherethey'repaidalotmore.Andwhat'smoreour

overallsocietyatleasthereintheU.S.butprobablybroadlyrewardscommercialpeople

morethantheyrewardnonprofitpeople.

Withherfirstnon-profitstartup,Nancycutsthroughalloftheseconstraints.That’swhygritis

theessentialsuperpowerforentrepreneurs.Itbeatsbrains,brawnorboatloadsofcash.It’s

anunstoppablequalitythathelpsfoundersovercomeimpossibleoddsinthepublicorprivate

sector.AndthesamequalitythathelpedNancynavigatethewelfaresystem,workedjustas

wellassheworkedherwaythroughNewYork’suppercrustofdonors.

LUBLIN:SointheearlydaysofDressforSuccesswewoulddotheseclothingdrives.So

womenwouldgiveusclothessowewoulddoaclothingdriveatlikeGoldmanSachs

whentheygocorporatecasual.Andsowegetbeautifulbeautifulsuitsandlikethe

largestsuitwouldbeasize8andtheaveragesizeAmericanisactually14andthe

averagesizeDressforSuccessclientwasa22.Butwealwaysdidthosesuitdrives

anywaybecauseonceyougaveusyourArmanisuitsyougaveusmoney.Sowewould

takethosesuitsandwemightwarehousethemfortwoyearsbutwewerehappytoget

thosesuitsfromthosewomenatGoldmanbecausethentheywouldwriteuschecks

becausetheyfeltclosenesstousbecausewehadthatsuitthattheylikeinterviewed

somebodyinorthattheyyouknowlikewentonCNBCthefirsttimetheywerewearing

thatArmanisuit.Nowwehaditandsoitwasactuallykindofadonormechanism.Itwas

partofthewholecycleofDressforSuccess,ofkindofwealthybusinesswomen

connectingwithwomenwhoaregoingtogooutandlandtheirfirstjobs.Thatwasthe

trickofthetrade.

REID:Noticehowshekeepsturningproblems--inthiscase,pilesofuselessclothing--into

solutions:asourceoffunding.It’swhyIcallthebestentrepreneurs“infinitelearners”.The

morethornypatchestheyhit,themoreeffectivetheybecomeathackingtheirwayout.The

onlyproblemisthatsomeCEOs—likeNancy—getabitaddictedtoproblem-solving.If

there’snoproblemtosolve,well,theycreatesome.

LUBLIN:I'mawartimeCEO.Oncethingsgetgoodandit'speacetimeIgetboredandI

eitherwanttolikedosomethingelsewildtoitorI'llfuckitupbecauseI'mlikenobut

wecandoblahblahblah.AndandsoIgetboredandImoveon.

REID:Thisisoneofthebyproductsofgrit.It’sasortofrestlessenergythateventually

compelledNancytoleaveDressforSuccess,onceithadscaled.

LUBLIN:HavewetalkedaboutScooby-Doosyndrome?HaveItalkaboutthiswithyou?.

HOFFMAN:No.

LUBLIN:OKsoyou’veseenScooby-Doo?

HOFFMAN:Mm-hmm.

LUBLIN:EveryScoobyDooepisodeisthesame.Thereisachurchoramovietheaterit's

goingtobetorndowntobecomeastripmallOK.Andthere'slikeazombieoraghost

that’shauntingit.Andsoamysteryteamgetscalledtofindthezombieorghostand

ShaggyandScoobyaresomehowtheonesthatalwaysfindthezombieorgoeven

thoughVelmaknewitthewholetimewhichistotallyweirdbutwhatever.Andthey

unmaskthezombiebecauseit'snotazombieorghost.It'slikethegranddaughterofthe

founderofthemovietheaterorlikethepastthejanitorofthechurch.It'sthefucking

founder,thefounderisthezombieorghosthauntingthebuildingitdoesn'twantto

leave.IhadnodesiretobeaScoobyDoovillain.Right.SoIleavethingsIbuildthings

andthenImoveon.I'mnotparticularlysentimental

REID:AndclearlyyouwatchalotofScoobyDoo.

LUBLIN:ImeancomeonI'man80skid.Weallwatchedalotofthat.

REID:SoNancyfoundanewproblem,anearlybankruptorganizationcalledDoSomething

dotorg.DoSomethingmobilizesyoungpeopletovolunteerforworthycauses.Backin2003,

itwasnearlydefunct.

00:30:43

REID:AndsowhatwasthestateofDoSomethingwhenyouarrived?

LUBLIN:Bad.Itwasonfire.AndrewShuestarteditwhenhewasonMelrosePlacebut

thenhewentoffairandhadthreekidsinNewJersey,andDoSomethingfellonreally

hardtimes.WhenIgottheretheyhadjustlaidoff21outof22people.Theyhadlost

theirofficespace,andeverythingwasinboxesinstorageinQueens.Theywere$250K

indebtandhadabout$74000inthebankitwastotallytotallyfucked.

REID:Nancywassmitten.

LUBLIN:Ithoughtthenamewasgreat.DoSomethingwasgreat.Therewasno

organizationthatwascoolandfunforyoungpeopleanditwasthereneededtobe

somethingthatmadevolunteerismandsocialchangefunandenergeticandsotomeit

waslikeaficusplantyouknowliketheleavesfalloffallthetime.Butlikeiftherootsare

goodyoucanprobablybringthemback.AndIthoughtthisisinteresting.I'vealsojust

turned30andIwasgettingheadhuntedforanumberofveryseriousroles.ButwhatI

realizedwasthattheheadhunterwasonlybringinginmetomaketheheadhunterlook

good,likehere'sonecrazyoutsidetheboxcandidate.Lookwe'rebringingyoua30year

oldentrepreneur.NoonewastakingmeseriouslyandIwantedtotakesomethingthat

wastotallyscrewedandprovethatactuallyyeahI'manentrepreneurandI'malsoreally

smart.Ithinksometimesentrepreneursarewrittenoffaswackyvisionaries.Youknow

wewecanbemorethanthat.Wearesystemsthinkers.

REID:Beforelong,Nancygotthatficusplantflourishing.Thebreakthroughmoment?When

herteamidentifiedacrucialshiftintechnologythatmadeallthedifferenceinreachingtheir

adolescentaudience.Ifyouknowateenager,youprobablyalreadyknow:Togettheir

attention:?Textthem.

33:20

LUBLIN:Ithinkprobablythebiggestepiphanywasthepivottotext.Andthebestthing

thatIdidwasgetoutoftheway.SoIwasonaconferencecallandIsawthroughthe

glassdoorpeopleinmyofficehigh-fivingeachother.andIwaslike,“Whatisgoingon?

Whyareyouallsohappy?”Anditturnsoutthattwolikeentrylevelemployeeshad

polled500defunctusers—likepeoplewehadn'theardfrominsixmonthsprobablye-

mailthem20timesandpulledtheirmobilenumbersandtextthemaboutacampaign

wehaddone.AndinnineminutesIsawa20percentresponserate.Holycrap.AndI

wasIwassmartenoughtosay“Let'sdothat.”AndalsoIguessIwassmartenoughto

createanenvironmentwhereentry-levelemployeesfeltcomfortableexperimenting.

Andlikethat'swhatyou'vegottodoasanentrepreneurialCEOisgetoutoftheway

sometimes.Andthenwhenyouseesomeonedosomethingreallysmart:Grabitand

elevateit,andbelike,“Let'sdothat.”Andsowepivotedandwebecameamembership

organizationandwedideverythingaroundtext,andgrewrapidlythankstothat.

REID:Nancy’sabilitytotapEVERYresourcearoundher—includingherentry-levelemployees

—isoneofherhiddenstrengthsasascaleleader.UnderNancy’sguidance,DoSomething

addsnearly5millionteenagersasmembers.Andthenshedoessomethingtrulydaring.She

hatchedanideaforathirdnot-for-profitcalledCrisisTextLine.Andshegoesaheadand

launchesit,atthesametime.

LUBLIN:Idon'trecommendhavingtwofulltimejobs.

REID:NoticehowNancydoesn’trelishholdingdowntwoimpossiblydemandingjobsatonce.

Butyouhavetounderstandhermotivation.Whensheseesaproblem,shewantstosolveit

fast.Thebiggertheproblem,thegnarlierthesolution,themoreshewantstosolveit.

REID:HerirrepressibleurgetolaunchCrisisTextLinebeganwithasingletextfromasingleteenager.Yousee,DoSomethingsentallitscommunicationsbytextmessage.Andtheirvolunteerswouldrespondbytextaswell.Eachcampaignwouldunleashawaveofgoodwillandcheer,forthemostpart.Buttherewerealwaysafewteenswhorepliedtothesetexts,askingforhelp.

ButtherewouldbeacoupleofdozenmessagesoutofflowsayingthingslikeI'mbeing

bullied.Mybestfriendsareaddictedtocrystalmeth.Andwewouldtriagethem

REID:Oneday,Nancyreadatextmessagethatshecouldn’tstopturningoverinherhead.It

wasinresponsetoaDoSomethingcampaign.

LUBLIN:Andthenwegotamessagethatputmeonthisotherpath,thatliterallysaidhe

won'tstoprapingme.It'smydad.Hetoldmenottotellanyone.AndthenthelettersR

Uthere.Canyouimagine?You'retheCEO.Someonebringsthatandputsitonyourdesk

andsaysIdon'tknowwhattodowiththis.It'slikebeingpunchedinthestomach.So

horrific.Icouldn’tbelieveitwashappeningtoarealhumanandthen…Howbaddoesit

havetobetosharethat,liketobesoalonethatyousharethatwithanorganizationlike

this,andyoudon'tknowwhereit'sgoing.AndsowebuiltCrisisTextlinereallyforher.

REID:Herewecometothewellspringofgrit.Youhavetohaveamission—acallingthat’sso

powerful,itmakesyouwanttorunthroughaminefield,onafoggyday,withyourshoelaces

tiedtogether.

NancyenvisionedCrisisTextLineasahotlinethatwouldfunneltextmessagesfrom

distressedteenstocrisiscentersaroundthecountry.Itwouldopenupawholenewlineof

communicationforteenagerswhopreferredtheconvenienceandanonymityofwritingfrom

theirphones.NancyfiguredshecouldearmarksomeportionofDoSomething’sbudgetfor

thecause.Theywereaveraging$6millionayearincorporatesponsorships.Therewasjust

oneproblem.Aserviceforsuicidalteenswasnotanaturalfitforcorporatesponsors.

LUBLIN:IwenttotheboardandsaidIwanttodothisandyouguysIthinkrightlysaid,

brandconfusionwithDoSomething.DoSomethingishopehopefulhopefulhappy

volunteerism.CrisisTextLineisadifferentthing.Likewe’llgiveitourblessing.But

you’vegottodoitontheside.AndsoIdiditatthesametimeforalongtime.Itwas

harderthanIthoughtitwasgoingtobe.Anditwasmaybeharderthanitshouldhave

been.Thetruthisittookmetwoyearstosecurethefundingtodoit.Iwoulddialfor

dollars.AndIfoundoneafriendthatwaslikeyou'llcomeintomyofficeeveryweekfor

anhourandgothroughmyRolodex,andonthethirdweekIspoketosomeoneandin

fiveminutesIdescribeditfiveandsaidstopstopstop.I'mgoingtogiveyou$50,000

becausesomeoneneedstogiveyoumoneytoseeifthiswillgoanywhere.AndImay

neverseeyouagainbutit'sworthputtingthismoneydown.AndIwanttobe

anonymoussoIrefertohimforalongtimeasMr.X.He'snowfinebeingknown.It's

actually,it’sPeterBlum,whoistheboardchairofDonorsChoose,whohasdonethis.

He'smadebetsonpeoplelikethat,notexpectinganyreturntheseearlybetsonsocial

changeideas.That'sawesome.Andwiththatmoneyitbecamereal.Ihadtoreallydoit.

IhiredourCTOandourChiefDatascientist,eventhoughIonlyhad$50Ksothatwasn’t

goingtokeepthemverylong.Andsothenitmeant,shitIreallyhadtofindtherestof

themoneyandmakethishappen.

REID:SoNancy,onceagain,wasscalingonashoestringbudget.ShefiguredCrisisTextLine

couldpiggybackonapatchworkofcrisishotlinesacrossthecountry.Shewouldsupplythe

textmessages,thecounsellorswouldsupply24-hoursupport.Itwasshapinguptobe

anotheroneofhercleverjiu-jitsumoves,shewaschannelingtheirenergytothewrong

teens.Crisiscounsellorstendtospecializeinspecificissues,likesuicideorsexualabuseor

eatingdisorders.Andthisledsomecounsellorstowritesomeratherawkwardscripted

responses.

LUBLIN:Weoriginallybuiltthisthinkingwewouldjustbethepipeswewouldbethe

technologyandwewouldfarmthisouttoothercrisiscenterstodothecounseling.And

wekeptgrowinglikefastfastfastandwewentfrom3to11inlikesixmonthscrisis

centerswhatwenoticedwasthattheywereincrediblydiverse.Likeonecrisiscenter

wouldaskeverysingletext[er]areyoufeelingsuicidaltoday?No.Ihaveacalculusfinal

thisafternoon.ShouldIbefeelingsuicidal?Likethequalitywasallovertheplacewasn't

great.Soweculledbestpracticesfromtheplatformandsaidwellwhatifwetrainedour

ownpeoplebasedonwhatwe'reseeing.Andsowetrainedthismagic12cohortand

quicklysawthattheyoutperformedoneveryKPIandpivoted.Sowedumpedallofthe

crisiscenterswhowewerepaying.Sowesavedthatmoney.Movedinsteadtoa

volunteermodelandbasicallybecameamarketplace.

REID:Nancyhasmadeahugelyriskydecision,here.She’sscramblingforfunding.She’sjust

jettisonedherpartnershipswiththeexperiencedcounsellorswhoweresupposedtohelpher

scale.Andifshehasanychanceofkeepingherideaafloat,shehastonowtrainanarmyof

novicesintheartoftextingwithdistressedteens.

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Fortunately,Nancyhasagiftforrecruitingandcelebratingvolunteers.Infact,thegreatest

shortcutNancyhaseverfound—theonesheturnstoagainandagain—isthealmost

bottomlesswellofhumanindustriousness.WhatNancyunderstandssowellisthatpeople

lovetohelp.Sometimesallyouneedtodoisaskthem.

Nancyissoconfidentvolunteerswillanswerhercall,thatsheenvisionsamarketplacefor

crisishotlinevolunteers—muchinthewayUberbuiltamarketplacefordriversorAirbnb

builtamarketplaceforhomerentals.Buthowonearthdoesshematchsupplyanddemand?

Shecan’toffersurgepricingtovolunteersduringaspikeinteenageneed.Shecan’tofferany

pricingatall.Whatsheneedsisasurgeofgoodwill.

It’saboldvision.Andthereareahandfulofotherscaleleaderswhowilltellyouthatthis

works.

GREGBALDWIN:Ithinkasarulewetendtounderestimatepeople'shungeranddesire

tobehelpful.

REID:That’sGregBaldwin,PresidentofVolunteerMatch.Theirwebsitematchesmillionsofvolunteerswithmorethan100,000organizationsthatneedtheirhelp.Themostscalablenon-profits,hesays,startwithapleaforhelpthat’sambitious—vergingonunreasonable.

BALDWIN:WhenyouknowwhenHabitatforHumanitygotstartedhowunreasonableis

ittothinkthatyoucaninvitemillionsofpeopletohelpbuildhomesforotherpeople.

It'sacrazyidea.Whenyouthinkaboutitbutittooksomebodytoasktoseehow

powerfulthataskistobringpeopleintodoingsomethingthattheythinkisimportant.

CrisisTextLineisanotheramazingexampleofthat.It'ssounreasonabletothinkthat

peoplewouldwillinglytaketimeoutoftheirbusylivestobeontheircellphonetexting

withkidsincrisis.Itjustitalmostdoesn'tmakesensewhysomeonewoulddothat.And

certainlyyoucanimaginebeingreluctanttoasksomebodytodothat.Butwhatwefind

sooftenisit'sinthosebigboldasks,thoseunreasonableasks,thatsomeofthemost

amazingthingshappen.

REID:Forthisepisode,wedidaflashpolloftheVolunteerMatchcommunity—themanagersatnon-profitswhoareonthefrontlinesofthesecrazyrequests.Wewantedtoknowjusthowhardthey’llpushtheirvolunteers.Andhowfarwastoofar?Soweasked,“Haveyoueverheardavolunteersay,‘You’reaskingtoomuchofme?’Morethan400volunteermanagersresponded.Andstatistically,speaking,itwasaresounding“No.”

BALDWIN:Only11percentofVolunteermanagershaveeverheardthat,whichis

fascinating.

REID:AndthenweaskedwhethertheythoughttheycouldaskMOREoftheirvolunteers.

BALDWIN:And70percentoftheuserssaidyes.Sotherealquestionis:What'skeeping

peoplefrommakingtheserequeststhatareyouknowsomewhatoutsidethenorm?

REID:It’sagoodquestion.AndJohnLilly,theformerCEOofMozilla,hasatheory.Mozillais

anopen-sourcewebbrowserpoweredalmostentirelybyvolunteers.Theydoeverything

fromcodingtomarketingtotranslation—andJohnactuallybelievesthesevolunteers,

workingforfree,canruncirclesaroundpaidprofessionals.Youjusthavetoknowhowto

workonaslidingscale.

LILLY:Sotherearewaysforpeopletocontributeanhouraweek,to40hoursaweek,

or80hoursaweek.Anditkindofscalesupanddown,whichmostorganizationsdon't

knowhowtodo.Theyknowhowtohaveyoubeanemployeeornot,sosortof

binary.Opensource,thesuccessfulones,figureoutawaytobeonaspectrum.

Volunteersisnotahomogenouscategory.It’sallsortsofdifferenttypes.

There'saguyIrememberfromUlanBator,whotranslatedforFirefoxintoMongolian.

Andforhimhediditbecauseifhehadn'tdonethathisparentswouldn't,whoonly

spokeMongolian,wouldn'thavebeenabletounderstandsoftwaretoaccessthe

Internet.Andsoforthesepeopletheydoitasalaboroflove.Andyouknowyou'll

knowthissinceyoulearnedLatin,butliketherootofthewordamateursisomma

whichmeansIlove.AndIthinkthatamateursandvolunteersinmanywaysaremore

powerfulthanprofessionalsbecausetheydoitfornon-monetary.Theydoitdespite

allthechallengesandallthehardparts.

REID:AndNancyisanexpertatwhippingupthatinneromma,thatinnerlove.Shestarts

fromthepremisethatshe’snotuniqueincaring.Plentyofotherpeoplecouldcareasmuch

asher.Shejusthastofindthem.Andsellthemonhercause.

Andifyouwanttoknowwhattruegritsoundslike,justlistentohermultifacetedapproach

torecruitment.Shesoundsabitlikeagoldprospectorwhoknowsexactlywheretopanalong

theriver.

LUBLIN:Sorecruitmentsure.Zeroinginonlikewhoareourbestcrisiscounselorsand

figuringthatoutwaskeyandnowfindingmoreofthem.Turnsoutthatitshifts.LIke

post-election,sadliberalsaregreat.We'relovingsadliberals.Peoplereallywanttofeel

likethey'rethey'rehavinganimpactonsomethingandwhat'sbetterthantalkingto

anotherstrangerinthemostdiremomentsoftheirlife.It'sarealimpact.Momsofa

certainage,lovethem.Deafandhardofhearing.Phenomenal.Mostorganizationsdon't

knowwhattodowiththem.Hardtovolunteerifyou'redeafandhardofhearing.We

loveyou.Veterans.Iloveveterans,especiallywhentheheatisonandwe'respiking.The

veteransarelike“Wegotthis.Wecandoit.Let'sgo.”

ThisswellofofvolunteersallowedCrisisTextLinetoscalequicklyandmeetthegrowing—

andspiking—demand..

LUBLIN:We'vedonezeromarketing.WehaveexchangeWe'vedoneover700,000

conversationssincelaunching.Thatworksouttobecloseto30millionmessages

exchanged.

REID:Butthose30millionmessagesdidn’tarriveinasteadystream.Theywouldspikeand

dip,regardlessofhowmanycounsellorswereavailableatthetime.Soshestartedtriaging

themessagesthroughacombinationofgruntworkandbigdata.

Theyhadtoidentifythekeywordsandphrasesthatteenagersuseintimesofdistress,and

thenrankthosewordsonascalefromworryingtolet’scall911,immediately.Theystarted

withtheobviouslydistressingwords.

LUBLIN:Soweoriginallyputintothealgorithmwordslike“die,”“suicide”or

“overdose.”Ifyoutextinthosewordsyou'renumberoneinthequeue.Andthenwe

addedamachinelearninglayerandsaidwellwhatreallyendsupinahighriskcase.

Whatarethewordspeopleuse?Anditturnsoutthattherearethousandsofthemthat

aremorehighriskthanthansuicide.Apparentlyit's16timesmorepowerfulnotsix

timesmorepowerful16timesmorelikelytoendupcalling911thanthewordsuicide

whichIknowI'vealreadyreadthisyouknowbutwhateverlistenerscanguessandit's

it'sactuallyit'sibuprofen,aspirin,tylenol,advilit'sthemostcommondruginyour

house.Soyounotonlyhavetheideaandtheplanbutyou'vethemeansandthetiming

becauseit'srightinyourmedicinecabinet.Sothosewordsandtheunhappyfacecrying

emojiisfourtimesmorepowerfulfourtimesmorelikelyforustoendupcalling911

thanthewordsuicide.ThehashtagKMS.Anyideawhatthatstandsfor?Neitherdidwe.

Thealgorithmsdiscoveredthat’skillmyself.Thisisaperfectexampleofscienceofdata,

oftechnologymakinganorganizationfasterandmoreaccurate.

REID:Beforelongherteamwasequippedtohandlehugeinfluxesofmessages.Soonshewas

detectingwavesofanxietyrollingacrossmiddleschoolsnationwide.Thedatawas

unprecedentedinitsscopeandtimeliness.

LUBLIN:Ohgosh.Sothehardthingaboutmarketplaces.Soyoudon'tcontrolsupplyand

youdon'tcontroldemand.Everyonceinawhilethere’llbeanunpredictableevent.Now

ifIranLyftIcanputsurgepricinginplaceandsoyoucanhandlethat.Sounpredictable

eventsforCrisisTextLinearethingslikeZaynleavingOneDirection.Andwehadjust

tonsofpeopletextinginwithseriousanxiety.

REID:Forthoselistenerswhohaven’theardofZaynorOneDirection,I’lltranslateintoold

fogieterms—ZaynwouldbeZaynMalik,aBritishsingerfortheboybandOneDirection.And

whenhelefttheband,itwasabitlikeJustinTimberlakeleaving‘NSyncorJohnLennon

leavingtheBeatles.Itmaynotsoundlikeabigdealtopeopleofacertainage.Buttoalotof

teenagersatthetime,thenewswasshattering.Nancycallsthesurgeoftextsfollowinghis

departure,“theZaynspike.”

LUBLIN:Imeanthehashtag“cutforZayn,”trendedworldwideforalmostthreedays

whenZaynleftOneDirection.Thesearegirlscuttingrealskinhopingthathewouldsee

thisandrejoinOneDirection.Andthatsentrealtraffictous.Thatwasrough.The

electionnight.AtonepointwesaweighttimesnormaltrafficmostlyLGBTQtexters,

childrenofimmigrantsandimmigrantsthemselvestextingandaskingiftheirfamilywas

goingtobedeportedandthensexualassaultsurvivors,includingsurvivorswhohad

beenassaultedyearsagobutalsohadbeenassaultedinthat24hourperiodsaying

shouldIbotherwithmycourtcase,shouldIbothergoingtopolice.Who'sgoingto

believemenow.FeelingtriggeredbytheelectionofTrump.

REID:Andhowdoyoubuildthecapacityforthat?

LUBLIN:Againasamarketplace.

REID:Andwhat'sthesizeofthevolunteernumber?

LUBLIN:Yeah.That'sover3000.Andandtheytakealotoftimeandcaringandloveand

that'sactuallymyprimaryfocus.Imeantheyarewhoweare.Andcanyouimagine,

theydoitallforfreelikethey'regivingustimeattwoo'clockinthemorning.They're

incredible,incrediblepeople.

REID:“Theyarewhoweare.”ThatonesentencesumsuptheapproachtoscalethatNancy

hastakenthroughouthercareer.Sheidentifiesthepeopleandorganizationswhocantake

herideaforward,andshemakesthemherown.There’salottobesaidaboutstickingwitha

vision,andadaptingitthroughtheyears—weatheringtheriseandfallofluck.

ButIdon’twanttooverstatethepowerofgrit.Ultimatelyyourplansaresubjecttoluck.You

maybethinking,Ithoughtgritwasmysuperpower—myopportunitytoovercometimeand

chance.It’salittlemorenuancedthanthat.IlikethewaySamAltman,presidentofthe

SiliconValley’smostsuccessfulaccelerator,YCombinator,unpacksthisproblem.

SAM:ThewayIhavealwaystriedtothinkaboutitformyselfisthatluckisabigfactor

butI'mgoingtokeepworkingandeventuallyyouknowbecauseit'sarandomvariable

it'sgoingtoswingmyway.AndIthinkthat'sroughlytherightmindsettohave.Ifyou

don’tacknowledgetheroleofluckatalllikeIthinkyou'reWronginadangerousway

whereyousortofjustarenotagreathumanandyoucan'tlookat—Igotreallyluckyat

somepoints—that'sprobablybad.

Butifyou'realsolikewellit'sallaboutluckandyouknowIhavenochance.Theworldis

againstmeandI'mjustgoingtosithereandcomplainthat'snotgoingtoworkeither.So

Ithinktheroughlycorrectmindsetisluckisimportant.ButI'meventuallygoingtoget

luckyandI'mgoingtojustworkreallyharduntilIdo

REID:ThatmaybetheoneofthebetterdefinitionsofoptimismIthinkI'veheard.

REID:Andtoseehowthisinteractionbetweengritandluckreallyworks,Iwanttointroduce

youtoonelastentrepreneur.SaraBlakely,thefounderandCEOofSpanx,a$250milliona

yearundergarmentindustryheavyweight.Ontheonehand,shehadtheultimatelucky

break.ShesentaprototypicalpairofSpanxtohertelevisionhero.Shetellsmeshewas

hardlypreparedforwhatwouldhappennext.

SARA

01:03:26

SoIinventedthisproductandIsentagiftbaskettoOprahoftheproductwithanotein

itandfoundoutAndrewhodressesherputitinherwardrobeandsheputitonand

loveditandbasicallyhasworniteverydaysince.

REID

01:03:42

That'sawesome.Andthenwhatdidtheshow.Howdidtheshowimpactyourbusiness.

SARA

01:03:48

Ohitwasunbelievable.ImeanIhadnomoneytoadvertiseIwasrunningitoutofmy

apartmentandOprahhelditupandsaidThisismyfavoriteproduct.Soeverything

startedgoingbezerk.

REID:ButthissensationalappearanceisactuallyjustthetailendofherjourneytoOprah.

SarahadbeendoingeverythingshecouldtoappearonOprahforthebetterpartofadecade.

Youprobablyhaven’theardaboutherfailedattempts.Saratickedoffafewforme.

SARA

01:02:14

WellwhenIwasinmy20sincollegeIIhadavisualizationthatIcreatedformyselfthat

wouldmeanthatIhadarrived.AndmyvisualizationwasmesittingontheOprah

WinfreyShowbecauseinmymindifIwassittingonhershowitmeansIhaddone

somethingreallyrightanddonesomethingamazingwithmylife.AndIhadnoideahow

Iwasgoingtogetthere.ButIwas100percentsureIwasthere.

01:02:40ImeanIwassoclearseeingmyselfonstageandthenIcalledthenext10years

ofmylifefillingintheblanksIwasalwaysthinkingisthiswhat'sgoingtogetmeonthe

Oprahshow.YouknowItaketheLSATandgotolawschoolbecauseIthoughtmaybeI'd

tryafamouscaseandthat'showIenduponOprah.ButthenIfailedtheLSATtwiceand

couldn'tgetintolawschool.AndthenIdidstandupcomedyforawhileandIthought

maybethat'smaybesomethinghereishowIenduponOprahsoIwasconsciouslyand

subconsciouslypursuingthingsthatIthoughtcouldultimatelygetmetothatthat

snapshotthatmeantsuccessforme.

REID:NowbeforeIleaveyou—Saraisofferingyou,thelistener,atestofyourownmettle.

Youcanspeaktoher,personally,aboutallofherplansB.She’llcallyou,ononecondition.

SARA

Andyouknowthescrappysideofmecan'tresistbutIyouknowItoldyouIjuststarted

InstagramandIwouldloveforthepeoplelisteningtofollowmeonInstagramandI'm

goingtochooseoneofyourlistenersiftheyputhashtagMastersofScaleinmylatest

postthattheyseeandI'mgoingtocallthemanddoaprivate20minutecallwiththem

wheretheycanaskmeanything.

REID:Grittylisteners,theracetoamasterclasswithSarabeginsnow.Andifyoucan’tget

Saraonthephone,don’tworry.YouhavecountlessplansB,solongasyouhavethegritto

seethemthrough.

I’mReidHoffman.Thankyouforlistening.

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