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Marriage is not the GoalMarriage is not the Goal
• Eccl. 12:13 Let us hear the conclusion
of the whole matter: marry well and enjoy life: for this is the whole duty of man.
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Two Destructive ErrorsTwo Destructive Errors• 1. Life is meaningless without marriage
– “What’s wrong with you? You’re single!”– “Don’t worry, there’s someone out there”
• 2. You can only reach marriage by dating– Junior and High School Class on “Dating”– Concept not found in the Bible
• Date – couple spending time together with romantic interests and no other company
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Purpose for DatingPurpose for Dating• Recreational
• Peer Prestige
• Social Interaction
• Required before Marriage
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Problem With DatingProblem With Dating• Disposable
Relationships
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Disposable RelationshipsDisposable Relationships
• Fast and Loose with emotions of others
• Develop habit of walking away from commitment
• Gen. 29:18 And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter.
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Problem With DatingProblem With Dating• Disposable
Relationships
• Decisions by Immature
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Decisions without GodDecisions without God• Gen. 6:1-7 married daughters of men
• Judges 14:1-4 Samson wanted a Philistine– Culture involved parents making arrangements– Today parents only pay for the wedding
• Decisions made by a teen or pre-teen who is filled with Hollywood notions of romance.
• Emotions aroused in a person who is not old enough to marry for another 10 years!!!
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Problem With DatingProblem With Dating• Disposable
Relationships
• Decisions by Immature
• Desires meet Opportunities
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Opportunity for ImmoralityOpportunity for Immorality• Gen. 39:11-12 Joseph was a slave who
was trapped alone with his master’s wife– Innocent, but no one to verify the truth– Potential for fornication was available
• Very real danger of single dating– Girls dress as if they are advertising – Boys do not need much persuading– Most parents feel there are no alternatives
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Purpose of CourtshipPurpose of Courtship• Protect from Immorality while
preparing to marry
• Parental Involvement– not pre-arranged marriage– set age, time, place…– Isaac Gen. 24– Esau Gen. 26:34-35, 27:46,
28:6-9
• Communicate to learn spiritual compatibility
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Purpose of CourtshipPurpose of Courtship• Preparing yourself for
God’s purpose
• Ruth 2:1-12 gleaning to aid mother-in-law
• Followed Naomi’s advice 3:1-4
• Boaz sought right before self 3:12
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Problem With CourtshipProblem With Courtship• Liberated children and
permissive parents
• Misunderstood
• Socially Ingrained:– Movies– Music– Advertising
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Purpose for MarriagePurpose for Marriage• Companionship
Gen. 2:18
• Lawful fulfillment of sexual desires– I Cor. 7:2, Heb. 13:4
• To bring children into the world
• To fear God and obtain heaven Eccl. 12:13