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Fall is in full swing andI’m trying not to thinkabout the fact that weare already sharing afew holiday storieswith you in this issue.I’m also doing my bestto be a good parent andlimit my children’sscreen time during theweek, make sure they

complete their homework in a timely fashion and arrive safely to theirrespective extracurricular activities, even when there are times that Ithink I should just slap a taxi service sign on the side of my car and bedone with it.I recently talked the family into taking a day trip to the nearbymountains for some hiking, and after a few initial grumblings, wewere on our way. During the drive, my husband and I decided thatreconnecting with nature is something that we need to focus on morewith our kids, even when the prospect of it gets overshadowed byeveryday life and work obligations. Watching the look on mychildren’s faces as they stood on top of Chimney Rock was priceless,and even they couldn’t help but “ooh and aah” at the spectacular view.To help with our new outlook, I’ve decided to put together a short fall“bucket list” of things I want us to get out and do during the next fewmonths. Maybe, just maybe, by the next issue I’ll be able to report thatwe did indeed find time to enjoy the following things:

1. The Amazing Maize Race. This is the year we’re finally going to puton our walking shoes, hats, grab a map, and navigate our way throughthe gigantic seven-acre corn maze at Rural Hill. I live about two milesaway from this particular site, so there really is no excuse not to goover there.2. We’re going to make either a day or overnight trip to Boone andtake in a football game at my husband’s alma mater, Appalachian StateUniversity. Maybe while we’re there we’ll venture over to that Mile-High Swinging Bridge at Grandfather Mountain.3. I want us to go on a leaf hunt at one of the nearby nature trails andtake some candid photos of our adventure.4. I’m going to make candy apples with my daughter and play thegame Trouble with my son as often as he wants, even when he beatsme every time.

I hope you all find the time to unplug from your everyday obligationsfor awhile and come up with your own fall bucket lists before themadness of holiday shopping and celebrations begin. You’ll be so gladyou did.

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cover:Graceson loves playing outside,riding bikes, and roller coasters.He’s got a silly sense of humor fora 9-year-old and loves his dog,Chloe. Lily enjoys both taking pic-tures and isn’t shy to have her pic-ture taken, too. As a kindergart-ner, she loves to be read to, singout-loud, laugh with great joy, andenjoys painting and playing out-side with her two older brothers,Caleb (11) and Graceson.

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featuresBy the Book . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .9By Renee RobersonShare the love of reading with your child.

When Preschool is Playtime . . . .12By Heather GeiserOne mom describes how she chose the rightpreschool for her family.

Special Needs Support . . . . . . . .14By Christi WoodMothers of children with Down syndrome share aremarkable bond.

From Back to School toHoliday Shopping . . . . . . . . . . . .18By Theresa PaytonYour guide to the best educationalapps and gadgets for kids.

Homemade Holiday Gifts(That Aren’t Cookies!) . . . . . . . . .20By Lisa LeakeGet out of your gift-giving rut with these fun ideas.

Have Some Fright-Free Funwith Your Little Ones . . . . . . . . . .26The best places for tricks, treats, costumes and funduring the month of October.

CT Scans and Your Child . . . . . .34By Brooke NealLearn when the benefits of the procedureoutweigh risks.

Lights, Camera . . . Asheville! . . .40By Renee RobersonVisit the Western North Carolina locales fromsome of your favorite movies.

departmentsBook Corner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8By Arden McLaughlin

Ask the Therapist . . . . . . . . . . .29By Leslie Petruk, MA, LPC, NCCLearn how parenting is the ultimateleadership role.

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Some of my favorite moments with childrenare watching them participate in a first ofsome sort. Whetherit’s a first step or afirst schoolperformance,there’s alwayssomething soprecious about thefirst time. InJamie Lee Curtisand LauraCornell’s 10thchildren’s bookMy Brave Year ofFirsts: Tries, Sighs, and High Fiveswe get to watch the characters experiencelearning to ride a bike and making newfriends. I love the bouncy language and boldpictures that have become signaturestatements for Curtis and Cornell.

Unique little onesgrab my heartbecause I feellike I’m aunique big one.I love when achild has thecourage to bewhoever he orshe wants to

be. It’s a rare gift and we all can learn fromthis kind of brave spirit. It’s why I love bookslike Spaghetti in A Hot Dog Bun: Having theCourage to BeWho You Are by MariaDismondy and Kimberly Shaw-Peterson.Ralph teases Lucy for her one-of-a-kind spiriton a regular basis. Yet, Lucy has theopportunity to make a defining momentchoice when Ralph truly needs help. Read thiswith your unique little one and look for waysto encourage them to be brave, too.

Oh boy! Oh boy!Oh boy! A newSkippyjon Jonesbook hits shelvesthis fall, too! Lookfor SkippyjonJones Cirque deOle by JudySchachnerOctober 16. Inthis adventure,the wildSiamese catwho thinks he’s aChihuahua goes into his closet to bepart of the circus with his buddies. The entireChimichango gang has a role in theperformance, but only Skippito the Strong canperform the trickiest of all the stunts. I’mlaughing already!

he crisp autumn air always puts a bit ofa bounce in my step. Over the summer Ibegan training hardcore for a sprinttriathlon and even through the tri’sfinished I’m still participating in theexercises from my training. I’ve really

become a lover of running and biking outside. So,I’m incredibly thankful for cooler air!I’m also excited about curling up in a local park

and reading some great books. We’re so lucky tolive in an area that boasts beautiful scenery foreach of us to grab those we love and read, read,read our days away. Check out a few that I’mexcited in this edition of Book Corner. Andremember, all of the Charlotte MecklenburgRegional Libraries now have Sunday hours,thanks to additional funding from our mainfunding partner, Mecklenburg County.

Enjoy!Arden

Reading to your young childis one of the most important things you can do to prepare your little one for a lifetime of learning.Research tells us that when you read to a young child, you naturally touch on important pre-reading “building blocks” that begin to develop at birth and must be mastered before your child can become a reader.

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icture this scenario. A small group ofchildren are gathered together discussinga book they’ve recently read. Next, theywork on a craft or building projectinspired by the theme of the book andbreak with refreshments also enjoyed bycharacters in the story. Sound like a themed

activity from your child’s classroom at school?While it could be, the activities could also be on the agendaof a children’s book club.An avid reader, I have to admit I’ve only attempted to

join one book club discussion as an adult. I grew discouragedwhen the group only spent about 10 minutes discussing the bookand decided not to return for the next meeting. Because of thatexperience, I’ve been reluctant to join another book club, butwith parent/child book clubs, there is potential for more than justgeneral discussion of books. There are excellent books and onlineresources to help parents develop ideas for how to form a club,browse through sample reading lists for readers of all ages andchoose enrichment ideas to enhance the literature discussions.

The thought of forming a parent/child book club could seemoverwhelming. It can be difficult to find creative ways to engageyounger readers, but all book clubs are not created equally. Withthe right organization and a lot of creativity, book clubs are awonderful way to nurture a lifelong love of reading in yourchildren, as well as the chance to explore new stories with theirfriends.There are numerous benefits to starting a parent/child book

club, even with younger readers. Discussing the books with yourchild is a great bonding experience, and also provides a way foryou to explore difficult topics in a safe way. Book clubs helpdevelop children’s literacy and language skills, too. Read on forways to help get your own parent/child book club started,examples of themed activities and sample book lists for youngreaders.

Getting StartedBefore you get started, decide how many people you want to

invite to be a part of your book club. You want to make sure youhave enough children to make the discussion and activities

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worthwhile but not so many that eachchild doesn’t get a chance to fullyparticipate. A group of five to eightchildren and their parents work well.Next, decide on the role of theparents/guardians in the group. Adultscan choose to take turns leading the bookdiscussions, facilitating the relatedactivities and/or preparing the snack forthe meeting. Then, decide on how oftenyou want to meet and the best place tobring the group together. There areseveral different ways to decide whatbooks the group should read, such as:• Members can bring several books in fora group vote• An adult facilitator can bring in titlesfor the group to vote on• Each member or parent/child gets totake a turn selecting a book for the groupThe Kids’ Book Club Book: Reading Ideas,

Recipes, Activities, and Smart Tips forOrganizing Terrific Kids’ Book Clubs byJudy Gelman and Vicki Levy Krupp is agreat resource for parent/child book clubsand includes many different discussionquestions and activity guides for variousbooks popular with readers of all ages.Below are two examples from the book:

The Boxcar Children by GertrudeChandler Warner(appropriate for grades 1-5)In the first book in the series, the childrenhelp a character pick cherries from hisorchard, which his cook then bakes intocherry dumplings. Authors Gelman andKrupp include an easy recipe for cherrydessert dumplings made from pie doughand cherry pie filling. For a craft, readerscan take inspiration from the manytravels of the Alden children and use pre-cut suitcase templates to make their own“Suitcases for Survival” by decorating anddeciding which items are absolutelynecessary for long trips. Discussion

questions can include why readers thinkthe children were scared to live with theirgrandfather and the importance of gettingto know people before making judgments.

Half Magic by Edward Eager(appropriate for grades 2 - 5)In the story, four siblings find a magicalcoin that grants wishes and seems to bean answer to their summer boredom.However, they learn an important lifelesson after they discover that the magicalcoin only grants partial wishes. Duringone point in Half Magic, the kids take abreak and enjoy a hot fudge sundae inToledo, Ohio, and book club members canhave a turn making their own. Childrenthis age are also intrigued by magic tricks— why not let children in the book clubtake turns presenting their own trickswith or without parent assistance? Thebook also provides a great discussionquestion on how the children wouldphrase their own wishes, knowing thatonly half of them might be granted.

For the littlest readers . . .Even the youngest of readers can join

the fun of participating in a parent/childbook club. For example, there are a varietyof activities that work well with the bookThe Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle.Preschoolers can take turns samplingfrom the same feast the caterpillar in thestory enjoyed, make a life cycle chart of abutterfly using different shapes of pastaand pre-cut materials or paint their veryown version of a caterpillar withwashable paints. Participants can learnthe differences between Chihuahuas andSiamese cats based on the loveable maincharacter in the SkippyJon Jones books byJudy Schachner (available in first readerformats). Other activities include learningthe Mexican hat dance set to music andmunching on Mexican fare, such as chipsand salsa and quesadillas.

Younger ReadersBecause of Winn-Dixieby Kate Di CamilloThe Boxcar Children seriesby Gertrude Chandler WarnerHalf Magic by Edward Eager

The Magic Treehouse seriesby Mary Pope OsborneThe Mouse and the Motorcycleby Beverly ClearySarah, Plain and Tallby Patricia MacLachlanThe Secret Gardenby Frances Hodgson Burnett

Middle-Grade ReadersCharlie and the Chocolate Factoryby Roald DahlChasing Vermeer by Blue BalliettFrindle by Andrew ClementsHarry Potter series by J.K. RowlingThe Last of the Really GreatWhangdoodles by Julie Andrews EdwardsThe Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe byC.S. LewisThe Tale of Despereauxby Kate Di Camillo

Additional Resources:Book by Book: The Complete Guide toCreating Mother-Daughter Book Clubs byCindy HudsonDeconstructing Penguins: Parents, Kidsand the Bond of Reading by Lawrenceand Nancy GoldstoneThe Mother Daughter Book Club byShireen DodsonThe Parent-Child Book Club: ConnectingWith Your Kids Through ReadingBy Melissa Stoller and Marcy Winkler

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t some point very early in my first daughter’s life, Irealized that I wasn’t going to be the cheerful well-spring of endless creative activities that the parent-

ing magazines led me to expect I would be. Reading articleswith titles like “Beating Summer Boredom: 150 RecyclingCrafts” and “Do-It-Yourself Toddler Toys” during the veryyoung months of her life I pictured my future self as an ener-getic all-in-one teacher/cheerleader/party director/chef/toyinventor.I realized quickly how unrealistic that vision was as I tried

to keep my home business running while doing my best toraise an inquisitive, independent little mind. I was notequipped to offer her the variety of daily activities and expe-riences required to keep her learning at the pace that sheneeded. Preschool suddenly became urgently necessary, notonly for the activities but for the social learning that herpeers in daycare were getting.We wanted a school that would offer creative activities and

help foster our daughter’s independence, allow plenty of out-door time and support healthy choices. And we wanted toget her started as soon as she was old enough to talk. Westarted with the preschool at our church: too restrictive, notenough outside time. Then Montessori: amazing, but tooexpensive. Then, a gymnastics preschool and a traditionalpreschool where my daughter refused to let me put herdown. I turned to the CharlotteMommies.com forum and onepreschool was repeatedly recommended: PiedmontProgressive Preschool, a play-based curriculum.We went for a tour and we immediately felt at home. It was

informal, the children were exploring at their own paces andthere were lots of activities from which to choose. My daugh-ter actually climbed out of my arms and joined the class, dig-ging for buried toys in a sand table. The children spent alarge portion of their day outside on the playground, therewas a nature trail available for class adventures, and snacktime was fresh fruit.In the three years since that tour, I have been asked many

times what “play-based” means for a preschool. To us, it

means that our daughter islearning through trial anderror, through explorationand in a way that is natural-ly engaging to her. She uses astethoscope on a stuffed ani-mal, plants flowers in the gar-den, paints at an easel, readsto her friends, builds roadswith blocks, uses hand tools onwood, and manages a pretendoffice from a laptop. She is in aclassroom of children withwhom she is learning to social-ize and communicate without a lot of adult interventionsince the school emphasizes working through their issues byusing their words and not running for a mediator.My second daughter was born halfway through my older

daughter’s first year at the preschool. She was in the class-room with me on the days I volunteered as class mom andthen during the following year as she got older while I taughtcrochet classes with some of the other preschool moms. Herpersonality couldn’t be more different than her sister’s, butshe also is ready to leap into the school with both feet, oftenescaping from me to go play with the older class either out-side on the playground or inside the classroom.So now when other parents ask about how our school

teaches, I tell them that it is the most natural place for achild to learn: in a comfortable, non-directed environmentwhere they learn to love school and learning. I know this isthe very best foundation I can give my kids before they startelementary school, and ultimately that was my goal.

Heather Geiser is a work-at-home mom with two energeticyoung daughters. When she isn’t driving them to school, danceor gymnastics or chasing them through the neighborhood,she can be found at her Macbook doing graphic design forher company, JippityJuice Design.

when preschool is

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Special Needs

Local photographer Melody Serrano of SnookySmiles Photography is shooting images of local children for a 2013Down Syndrome Awareness Calendar. The proceeds from the calendars will be gifted to the DSAGC to be used tobring speakers, support meetings, and new parent material. For more information, visit her blog athttp://snookysmilesphotography.blogspot.com.

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own syndrome can be all encompassing, a balanc-ing act of sorts of not allowing this chromosomaldisorder take over your life, even if in all actualityit is your new life. Welcome to the sisterhood ofthe DSACG (Down Syndrome Association ofGreater Charlotte).

When Arden was born and I looked into her eyesI knew that instant that I had a daughter withDown syndrome. Everything stopped. The life Iknew was altered. Once the grieving for thedaughter I thought I would have had taken its lasttear, something magical happened. I could see thepeople around me — really see them. I can only

compare it to seeing shades ofcolor as vibrant, rich,bright colors. Red was nolonger just red, it was thisamazing deep rich red. I wasviewing life in a completelynew way.

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The women of the DSACGunderstand an unspoken language ofraising children with Down syn-drome. Even your closest and dear-est friends and family members can-not speak the language of our sister-hood. We understand the trial ofemotions you endure in a typicalday. Joy, Sadness, Anger, Love, Envy,Appreciation, Acceptance andFrustration. We get it. I have alwaysfound it fascinating when you meetother mothers of children withDown syndrome one of the firstquestions is always “how did youfind out?” We all have completelydifferent stories. We always debate ifit would have been beneficial tohave had a prenatal diagnosis. Thelonging for the child you thoughtyou would have is so great at times.The topics at our monthly Mom’s

Night Outs can range from what arethe newest therapies to who wethink is the best ENT in Charlotteis. As we escape for a few hours, weenjoy a glass of wine and ask who itis attending our upcoming WineTour. We laugh. We sometimes cry.We welcome and embrace the newmothers who have entered our pri-vate club with a knowing smile andacknowledgment as we once remem-ber our first MNO with the Downsyndrome moms group as surreal.We remember asking, why am Ihere? No thank you, I would preferan invitation to another group.We were unaware how one day

these women would become some ofour closest and dearest friends. TheDSACG has brought some of themost brilliant women into my life;ladies who I would never had the

opportunity to meet before Arden. Ilike to think as them as warriors. Ifyour child has a life threatening dis-order or a major accident you havepeople and friends who grieve withyou and come to your aid. If yourchild has special needs you have tohold your head high and move for-ward like a warrior going throughbattle. Your role is to set the stagefor others to follow. Lead by exam-ple. The moments of deep pain areheld in private or blinked awayquickly in public.We understand the challenges we

face in the future as our little onesleave the adorable cute stage of tod-dlerhood and development intoyoung adults. We prepare ourselvesand we also know that we can sendout an SOS text and the troops ofour sisterhood will respond in quick

“If your child has special needs you have tohold your head high and move forward likea warrior going through battle. Your role is toset the stage for others to follow.”


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military precision. They will come run-ning to celebrate all that comes withraising a child with Down syndrome.As mothers of children with Down

syndrome we do not get the opportunityto truly grieve. We power on since ourmain goal is to make sure the entireworld sees this child as typical, valuedand important. Our goal is to makethis child rise above any set stan-dards and show everyone what agift we have. We educate, always.It’s not just that this is our calling;it is our duty. We endure igno-rance with a smile and graceknowing we once were also igno-rant. I often question my feel-ings. Do my surroundingfriends and family see Arden asthis sweet, cute little girl andquestion why would I not begrateful to have her? Big deal.It could be worse. I do this tomyself to ease the pain.I am sure my friends do

the same to comfort me andsome people who are wisesee her as a complete giftand cherish all that she is.Arden has made meappreciate this one life we have

and most importantly to embrace ourdifferences. I believe that life with Ardenwill make us all better people.

Visit www.dsa-gc.orgfor more information.Christi Wood lives in Huntersville with herhusband David and two beautiful daugh-ters, Andersen, age 9, and Arden, age 3.

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Charlottewill hold its annual

Buddy Walk on Oct. 6 atFreedom Park from

10 a.m. – 2 p.m.

The goal of the Buddy Walk is topromote acceptance and inclu-sion of people with Down syn-drome. Your support will help allpeople and families living withDown syndrome to enjoy a more

successful future.

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Many of you have sent your older kids off to school andmight have little ones in preschool. It might feel like you justfinished buying school supplies, but do not put away yourcheckbooks and credit cards yet, it is time to start planningout your holiday gift giving.

We know you do not have a lot of time on your hands so wehave done some pre-holiday shopping for you and have rec-ommendations on digital fun for the family along with tips tokeep you and your kids safe while you work and play online.

Tablet Apps that Entertain and Are Educational

Five Little Monkeys. Good for tod-dlers through age 5. This is abook collection and uses thepopular “5 little monkeysjumping on the bed” song.

Books can be played in autoplay. It is visuallyappealing and keeps the attention of even themost fussy of the wee ones. This will run youabout $12.99.

Disney’s “Where’s My Water?”Good for ages 7-10. This is apuzzle game that will makethem laugh and use theirbrain. The main characteris Swampy the Alligator,

a Disney original character. There aremore than 100 puzzles to solve. Thereis a free version and prices varydepending upon device.

Doodlecast forKids. Good for ages3-5. Your childdraws and the appturns it into a

story. The story it creates based onhis drawing can be shared with any-one with a quick upload to email orYouTube. Cost is approximately $1.99.Whether your little one loves math

or is struggling to keep up, apps are here

to help. For the preschoolers, try CountingCaterpillar. For ages 5 to 7 tryMathBlasteronline. For ages 9 to 12, try CoolMath. (Note:prices vary depending upon your device).

Many of us grew up playing board games butnobody wants to huddle more than 2 peoplearound today’s digital devices. Try a product called TheGameChanger. It allows you to plug your iPad into its boardsystem so you get the beauty of digital and the space of aboard game for a group. $60.

Device Protection

If the kids hold your device as much or more than youdo, consider theWoogie. The Woogie is going tobring smiles and protection to your device. Thinkstuffed animal meets protective case. Get one foryour smart phones and it comes witha built-in speaker. The Woogie isperfect for entertaining the kidswith music, games, or movies,and it also comes with a spot toplug in headphones.Different models runabout $19.99.

Using devices “on the gocan make them easy to lose, especiallythe smaller ones. If you are going toinvest in an iPod nano or your childalready has one, consider pairing itwith the Slap Band— it’s a great wayto turn it into a bracelet and/or func-tioning watch. I have personallyenjoyed one on a long runbecause you get a timerand music on thego and you arehands free.Dependingupon themodel, theSlap Band isaround $25.

For homework or the holidaysTHE coolest

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eeking a product to send sandwiches inthe sack? It’s a snap. Wrap it up with theall-organic Sandwich Wrap made byMichigan-mom Tina Beatty’s company,Eco Lunch Gear. The sandwich wrap firstfolds around your food and seals withvelcro. But wait — it gets better: unwrap

it and use the cool creation as a placemat to eat off of. With100 percent organic cotton used as the material and asturdy nylon liner, you can feel comfortable in the productscoming close to your little one’s lunch. You can also feelgood about the fact that it’s made in the USA. And whenyour kiddo comes home with some sticky stains on thewrap, rest assured that it is machine washable. The productmeasures 13” x 15” and retails for $9.50. Find super funprints and more at www.ecolunchgear.com.

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1. Never purchase apps or toys online from sites thatyou do not know and beware of fakes and counterfeits.

2. Password protect all your devices.3. Teach your children never to click on pop-ups.4. Set browser settings to the tightest security andparental controls possible if your children will beusing the devices

5. Show your children how to use Google Safe Searchtool for all internet searches that they do — Googlewill do their best to shield your kids from sites youdon’t want them to accidentally be exposed to.

6. Do not give your child’s information when registeringthe gifts, use your own instead.

7. Tell your children to never type in their name, age,gender, address, birthdate or where they go to schoolon any site ... even if it says they’ll get a free gift.

Fortalice is a risk, fraud, and security consulting com-pany serving companies, organizations, consumers andfamilies. Theresa Payton, the founder of Fortalice andauthor of “Protecting Your Internet Identity: Are YouNaked Online?” previously worked for the White Houseand the banking industry. Payton’s company hosts“Internet Safety Parties” for consumers and also families.They have a “ladies night out,” “company bootcamp,”and “family night” version of the party they can cus-tomize accordingly. She is offering our readers an exclu-sive discount of 15 percent off a party fee if you bookbefore 1/15/13. Call her offices at 704.749.3131or [email protected] to book your party. Visitwww.FortaliceSolutions.com.

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Homemade Vanilla ExtractOne of my favorite things about this gift

(other than how cute the bottles are!) isthat you can makethem in advance. Infact – this is a gift thatwill actually get betterwith time, which isquite the opposite of alot of otherhomemade goodies.Simply slit twovanilla beans down

the middle, drop them into375ml of vodka (I used the red Smirnoff)and within a few weeks you will haveinfused pure vanilla extract that someonecan use in all sorts of recipes like granola,pumpkin bread, French toast, andoatmeal. And save some money byordering your vanilla beans online (withfree shipping) instead of buying them atthe grocery store!

Seasoning MixesWhether it’s a meat rub for chicken or

pork or a spice mixture for homemaderanch dip (or allthree!) this could beyet another uniqueholiday present.Craft stores likeMichael’s and A.C.Moore sell cute littlecontainers and jars– meant forwedding favors –and with one oftheir weekly 40 or50 percent off coupons it could be a ratheraffordable gift idea as well. Attach arecipe card detailing how to use the spicemixes and you end up with anothercreative gift idea!

Homemade Granola Cerealor Granola BarsThis is what we eat (and love) for

breakfast almost every single day so Ican’t think of a better reason to share itwith others. You could give the granola

cereal version in a jar or gift bag or makesome granola bars with dried fruit andput them in little treat boxes (which iswhat I gave out last year). Don’t forget alittle recipe card to go along with itbecause you know you’ll leave themwanting more!

Homemade BreadIf you make your own bread either in

the oven or in a breadmaker you have anadvantage becausethat’s just one morevery thoughtful andtasty holiday gift youcan offer. Whether youwant to make thestandard Honey Whole-Wheat SandwichBread or a Cinnamon Raisin Loaf I can’timagine anyone being disappointed. I’veactually given out loaves of bread as“thank you” gifts before, and they werevery well received.

Glazed/Candied Nutsand Trail MixesI have a standard glazed pecan recipe

that we love, but don’t be afraid to mix itup by adding extra pepper or even makingsomething with a stronger flavor like ThaiCurry Cashews. You could also add inextras like popcorn, pumpkin seeds, driedfruit, or unsweetened coconut to makemore of a spiced trail mix. Thepossibilities are endless.•••••••••••••••••••••••••••••

Recipe for CinnamonGlazed Popcorn MixYou’ll need:4 cups plain popcorn (about 1/4 cup ofkernels). Hint: We use “The PopcornTrick” for easy plain popcorn3/4 cup raw cashews3 tablespoons butter2 tablespoons honey1/2 teaspoon dried cinnamon1/4 teaspoon ground ginger1/4 teaspoon saltParchment paper suggested for baking

Directions:Preheat the oven to 325 degrees F.

In a small pot over low heat melt thebutter and honey together. Mix in thecinnamon, ginger, and salt.

Put the cashews in an extra largemixing bowl. Coat them with about atablespoon of the butter/honey mixture.Spread the coated nuts onto a baking

sheet covered with parchment paper andbake for 6 minutes.

Meanwhile, in the same large bowlevenly coat the plain popcorn – minusany unpopped kernels – with theremaining butter/honey mixture.

After the cashews have been in theoven for 6 minutes, take out the tray, addthe popcorn to it, and mix it all uptogether. Stick the tray back in the ovenand set the timer for 4 minutes.

After 4 minutes open the oven and stiror shake the mixture around on thebaking sheet. Set the timer for 2 moreminutes.

Once again, open the oven andstir/shake the mixture so there are no hotspots that could get burnt. Set the timerfor 1 more minute at which point themixture will once again need to bechecked/stirred.

Repeat the process of checking/ stirringthe popcorn mixture every minute thentake it out of the oven once it turns a darkbrown (it can burn easily toward theend!). My total bake time was 6 minutesfor the nutsthen anadditional 7 or8 minutes onceI added thepopcorn.

The popcornand nuts will beslightly wet rightout of the oven,but will hardenas they cool.

dmit it. When you think of “making” or “baking” sometype of holiday gift you think of cookies. Or maybe candy.

No matter what it is I guarantee it’s full of sugar, andcollectively there’s just too much of that going around this timeof year (in my opinion)! I personally think there are manyother little holiday gift ideas that are more exciting – and moreoriginal – than cookies, and since I like to play by my own ruleshere’s some of what I will be giving out this year…

By Lisa Leake

HomemadeHoliday Gifts

(that aren’ t cookies!)

Lisa Leake is a wife, mother, foodie, and blogger who chronicles her family’s journey on 100daysofrealfood.com as they seek out the real food in our processed foodworld. Projects include a 100-day pledge to avoid all processed foods and refined ingredients as well as another 100-day pledge on a food stamp budget. Leake’s

award-winning blog is receiving national attention from big names like Yahoo!, The New York Times, and Jamie Oliver.

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Fun fashions for babies, kids and tweens!Peek A Boo Couture’s Fall "Back to School" Fashion Show was held Sunday, September 9th, 2012

Register your child today to model in our upcoming Spring Fashion Show at Peekaboocouture.orgProceeds benefit Victory Junction

Rock the Bump tee with blinged heart!at Pickles & Ice Cream

Add some sparkle to your teamcolors with custom hairbows.

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Shimmer alwaysadds that finaltouch to any outfit.at Shoe Zoo

Make your notes anddoodles shine on thisLCD tablet.at Toys&Co


We love sparkle& shine!

Put a sparkle in hereye with this adorable,life-size Huggles doll.at Toys&Co

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Casual weekends

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Have her favorite colors incorporated into a custom-made tulle gown ready for a weekend of pretend.

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A stylish way to show off her sweet but tough side, your littleprincess will rule the playground in this boot by Roxie.

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Soft pima cotton nursing pajama sets from Olian make the perfect gift for mommy and baby!

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Offering a great selection of styles for boys and girls.Girls-infant through size 6 Boys-infant through size 7••••••••••••••••••••Many accessories and gifts too!••••••••••••Featuring: Under Armour, KSwiss, Saucony, KEEN, Tsukihoshi, Lelli Kelly, Sperry,and more.

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The Sheeky Boutique1509 West C Street • Kannapolis, NC 28081Inside Sam Miller Carpet Sales704-932-5850 • Hours: Mon-Fri 9-5 • Sat 9-2 • Closed SundayFor consignment appointment, please call Tues-Thurs.

Children’s brands: Bailey Boys, Sir John,Jane Copeland, Little Me, Petite Amy,Austin & Ashley, Mud Pie, & muchmore.Women’s brands: J Crew, LV, Liz Claiborne,Abercrombie & Fitch,American Eagle,Coldwater Creek

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Upscale resale andnew clothing andproducts for thestylish & thrifty.Custom tutus, headbands,sport team bows and mompins for cheer and dance.

Jewelry, handbags and shoes.

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Offering infant to plus sizes

Howl-O-Fest’s Boo BlastWhat: Celebrate the fun of Halloween without the scary! Highlights include:a Peanuts Dance Party Show®, Hay Bale Maze, Foam Zone, Fraidy CatPuppet Show, Mumpkin Patch, “Kiddie-Oke” and Trick or Treating from 2– 4 p.m. Activities are included with the cost of admission.When: Saturdays and Sundays in OctoberWhere: Carowindswww.carowinds.com

Ray’s Haunted Tour and Halloween CarnivalWhat: Join Ray’s Splash Planet for a spook-tacular haunted tourthrough the Splash Park and/or the kid-friendly carnival in the gymnasi-um. This event is open to the whole family and promises to provide ahowling good time for everyone with games, contests and course, trick-or-treating. Costumes are strongly encouraged. Note: Ray’s SplashPlanet will close at 3 p.m. on Friday for preparations before the event.When: Oct. 26 from 6:30 – 9 p.m.Where: Ray’s Splash Planetwww.rayssplashplanet.com

All Hallow’s Eve What: Experience the history of Halloween and its most famouscharacters! The plantation will host trick-or-treating, Halloweenbaking in the old kitchen, storytelling, pumpkin painting and a cos-tume contest.When: Oct. 13 from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.


Have a Fright-Free Halloween

with Your Little OnesLet’s face it. With Halloween candy and décorarriving in stores right after back-to-schoolshopping, it’s hard for the children (and manyadults) to ignore the excitement of Halloween.Tricks and treats and fun, creative costumesabound, but sometimes the thrills and chillsare not for everyone. We’ve gathered a list oflocal fun but fright-free Halloween festivitiesthat even the smallest children can enjoy.

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Schiele-O-WeenWhat: Schiele-O-Ween is filled withfun and interactive family activities,including cowboy trick or treating,planetarium shows, hands-on activi-ties and a special showing of the stageprogram “Halloween Tales.” Great forthe entire family and kids are encour-aged to attend in costume. Advancetickets available.When: Oct. 26; 5 – 6 p.m., membersonly, 6 -8 p.m., general publicWhere: The Schiele Museumwww.schielemuseum.org

Boo BashWhat: Bring the kids for costumecontests, face painting, arts and crafts,food, pumpkin decorating, hayridesand music.When: Oct. 27 from 6 – 9 p.m.Where: Bailey Road Parkwww.cornelius.org

Not So SpookyHalloween CarnivalWhat: Perfect for children 10 years

and under, this carnival features hayrides, spooky tattoos, a pumpkin walk,ghostly golf, food and much more.Children can take part in a themedcostume parade by dressing up astheir favorite superhero! When: Oct. 29 from 11 a.m. – 2 p.m.Where: Stumptown Parkwww.matthewsfun.com

BootanicalWhat: This celebration is perfect forlittle ones who want to celebrate thefriendlier side of Halloween.Participate in fun, plant-basedHalloween activities and ghoulishgames. Search for plants with spookynames like the creepy eyeball plantand bat-faced cuphea. Children whowear their costumes receive 50 per-cent off admission.When: Oct. 27 from 9 a.m. – 3 p.m.Where: Daniel Stowe BotanicalGardenswww.dsbg.org

Boo at the ZooWhat: Head to Asheboro for a magi-cal weekend of safe daytimeHalloween fun with trick-or treat

games, magic and storytelling, liveentertainment and a costume contest for the children.When: Oct. 27 & 28Where: North Carolina Zoowww.nczoo.org

Creature Feature: SpinningSpiders and Creepy CrawlersWhat: It’s a hauntingly good timethat is a little spooky, but not-too-scary. Enjoy Halloween treats andlearn about all of our little friends thatscurry underfoot. Kids are encouragedto wear costumes.When: Oct. 27 from 10 a.m. – 2 p.m.Where: Charlotte Nature Museumwww.charlottenaturemuseum.org

“Halloween Fun” at Rural HillWhat: This free event sponsored byRural Hill and the Town ofHuntersville promises fun for every-one in your group with games, artsand crafts, balloons, a moon bounce,hayrides, and pony rides and a pettingzoo from Zootastic.When: Oct. 27 from 2 – 6 p.m.Where:Rural Hillwww.ruralhill.net

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Dressed to ImpressCharlotte area trick-or-treaters get creative with costumes

Matthew Stroud couldn’tdecide whether he wanted tobe a robot, or a kitten . . .

Cooper and Chance Panzikdecided not to wait untilChristmas to give Santa a hand.

Sophie and Darcy Howarddecked themselves out as“Paper Dolls.”

Drew Howard strolled thestreets as a royal king.

Cole Thompson loved hisLegos® so much he wanted to

become one.

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Jack Howard constructedand helped design his own

Snoopy costume.


arenting truly is the ultimateleadership role. I love this quote byMarianne Williamson; “There is nosingle effort more radical in itspotential for saving the world than a

transformation of the way we raise ourchildren.” What a true and powerful statement! It’seasy to lose sight of the impact and legacy we areleaving on the world as parents. And with that,comes the responsibility we have as leaders of our

children. Leadership is a skill that has been researched andstudied for decades. Effective leaders exemplify certain qualitiesthat make them successful. Whether you are leading as a parentto your children or you wear the hat of leadership both at homeand in your professional life, knowing and embracing the skillsof a good leader will help you build better leaders of tomorrowwhether those are your children and/or your employees. As aparent, you hold a particularly important leadership role inshaping the future. In their book “How Remarkable Women Lead,” Joanna Barsh

and Susie Cranston researched the characteristics of successfulwomen leaders and confirm in their book what I have alwayssaid, that work-life balance is not only a myth that womenstrive to attain, it’s an immeasurable and illusive standard weset for ourselves. Women can love their work and theirchildren. Mastering the skill of managing these two worlds isthe more realistic aspiration. In their research, they uncoveredfive characteristics that were consistent in successful women

leaders. Interestingly, they all had meaning as foundation. Ithink whether you are a “stay-at-home” mom or are in theworkforce, these are applicable.Using these five characteristics the authors created a model

called Centered Leadership as a model for workingwomen/moms. I believe this model can and should be appliedfor both working and stay-at-home mothers. In leading yourchildren, their success is determined by yours, just as those whoyou manage in the workplace. Meaning. Know what inspires and excites you, what sustains

your energy and enthusiasm and allows you to lead creativelyand profoundly. Some stay-at-home moms lose sight of this afterchanging diapers and doing laundry all day. While children areclearly important to you, it’s important to know and stay intouch with your own passion outside of being a mother. Whenyou have meaning, you are happier which translates into youbeing more effective, motivating and healthier, overall. Thesaying, “If mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy” has sometruth to it! Happiness also leads to more creativity and researchhas shown that it improves learning and higher goalachievement as well. Finding meaning in what you are doing isnot just cheerfulness, but provides a level of purpose andfulfillment that creates happiness.Framing. Leadership includes the ability to clearly view

situations, to adapt, and employ solutions without losingcontrol or perspective. While some women have the naturalability to positively frame things, for others it requires making aconscious choice. This is not about living in denial, but about

ask the therapist

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taking the facts and dealing with them inthe most productive and beneficialmanner without letting your emotionstake over and distort reality. Adaptabilityis also a skill that comes into play here.Being willing to adjust when necessaryand allowing for flexibility is the makingof a good leader.Connecting. Collaborate. Whether it

is with a mentor in the workforce or afellow mom, in order to be a successfulleader we all need connection. This isthe “sisterhood” that I believe all momsshould be striving to create with oneanother and let go of the judgment.Connectedness is a core human need.The synergy that comes from being partof a group creates something that isbigger then the sum of its parts. Womenare natural connectors and buildingrelationships is key in both work andhome life. Having a strong network offriends and colleagues who will mentorand support you as a professional and amother is critical to your success.Connecting is something you have togive in order to get. Showing interest inanother person and how you can helpthem is the best place to start.Engaging. Successful leadership

involves using your voice, facing fearsand taking ownership along with the

risks that you face. As a parent there area lot of fears that we face. Learning toface them with courage and compassion,as a mother and professional, will engagethose around you in an effective way.Taking action on opportunities even ifit’s a risk requires you to face your fears.Speaking up, seeing opportunity andtaking it and taking risks are all ways toengage and become a successful leader asa parent and professional.Energizing. Successful leaders are

those who have the skill of managingtheir energy reserves over time. I believethis involves learning when to say no,paying attention to your own limits andfeelings, and asking for help when youneed it. Self-care is also a critical part ofstaying energized. I am always tellingmothers (including myself) who areforever putting everyone and everythingahead of themselves, “You can’t givewhat ya don’t got.” The “to do” list isnever going way. Making yourself apriority is a must and learning how tomanage your energy and letting go of theidea that work/life balance is attainableis the first step. Stay-at-home momsoften struggle with the idea that becausethey are home, they should have aperfectly clean house with the laundrydone and well-balanced meals on the

table every night at 6 p.m. This myth is apretty fairytale picture — but it is notreality! So letting go of the unrealisticexpectations and learning to manageyour energy and care for yourself willallow for better leadership for your homeand professional life. There are manyways to re-energize. Find what works foryou. Mindfulness practices are easy toemploy throughout your day and takeonly a few minutes. But ultimately, youneed to be aware of where your energycomes from and tap into that resource.Whether parenting full time or

managing the roles of parenthood andprofessional, your leadership skills areimportant to you and your familiessuccess. I will end with a quote by AnnaQuindlen that the authors of “HowRemarkable Women Lead” share at theend of their book that nicely summarizesthe journey of leadership for parents andprofessionals: “The thing that is reallyhard, and really amazing, is giving up onbeing perfect and beginning the work ofbecoming yourself.” Our children arewatching us as we lead — do we wantthem to be perfect or to become whothey are meant to be?

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n Aug. 18, nonprofit groupThe Family EnrichmentMovement (TFEM) held itsfirst community event with aBack to School bash at Sugar

Creek Presbyterian Church inCharlotte with the goal of outfitting

area children with proper school supplies, cloth-ing and backpacks for the current school year.Participants enjoyed carnival-style goodies,entertainment and giveaways. The turnout wasso great for the event that organizers ran out of320 hot dogs in the first 45 minutes and 564children ranging in all ages and grades placedtheir names on the sign-up sheet for school sup-plies. Many of the donations for the event camein through Chanda Cares, the philanthropy armof local photographer Chanda Pope ofPhotography by Chanda.The Family Enrichment Movement’s mission

is to equip families with the necessary tools tosuccessfully raise and support their children.They work to provide real solutions to realissues faced by families in the community.

charityspotlightgroup aims toenrich the livesof local families

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Chanda Cares - Chanda Cares is aprogram that provides memoriesand/or financial assistance to familiesthat have been stricken with immedi-ate life-threatening circumstances.This program also offers a veryunique service for expecting mothersthat have given birth to a life thatreceived angel wings to soon. Formore information, visitwww.photographybychanda.com.

Family Alliances & Advocates -Family Alliances and Advocates, F2A,is a program that provides counselingfor families or individuals in need ofmental wellness. Licensed counselorsand social workers provide one-on-oneand family counseling to address anarray of issues that may be hinderingthe happiness and growth of a familysuch as grief counseling, couplescounseling, parenting skill develop-ment counseling, co-parenting skilldevelopment and areas of specificdiagnosis such as ADHD, depression,anxiety, PTSD, bipolar disorder andmany more.

EDGE – This program is targeted tochildren ages 5-12 years who are inneed of literacy skills and mentoring.The program lasts the entire academicschool year and focuses on a mix oflife skill sessions coupled with literacyskills and EOG preparation. TheNeighborhood Teen Center is theexact same program but gearedtowards teenagers 13-18 years. It is a

safe after-school program for teensdesigned to help families in need ofsupport for teens in their family inareas of gang prevention, substanceabuse/ alcohol use prevention, collegereadiness, job preparedness and vol-unteerism.

TFEM founderJamie Adams, whoalso serves as anAssistant DistrictAttorney forMecklenburgCounty, recentlyreceived recognition as one ofCharlotte’s Most Impactful Womenthrough WomenWithKnowHow.com.Adams was honored with the awardfor Elite Woman’s Advocate for herwork in the community with domesticviolence, women empowerment andyouth development.

Looking to donate or get involved? Visit www.thefamilyenrichmentmove-ment.org.

Below is an offering of services through The Family Enrichment Movement:


ecent findings linking multiple childhoodCT scans with cancer development havecaused parents to think twice aboutallowing such scans for their children. Andrightly so. But at what point do the benefitsof the tests outweigh the risks?

As parents, we’re faced with a milliondifferent reasons to worry about our

children. We’re bombarded daily with studies andstatistics that could send even the most levelheaded of usover the edge. So what is the appropriate reaction whenwe learn that CT scans in children have been linked tobrain tumors and leukemia? Fear of radiationoverexposure is justified. But fear of CT scansthemselves can be just as dangerous. It all stems from an international study released June

7, 2012 by The Lancet, one of the world’s oldest and mostrespected medical journals. Specifically, the findingsdemonstrated direct evidence that 2 – 3 head CT scansbefore age 15 could triple a child’s risk of developing abrain tumor; 5 – 10 CTs could triple the risk ofleukemia. Jointly funded by the US National CancerInstitute and the UK Department of Health, the reportstudied 178,000 children who had CT exams betweenthe mid-1980s and 2002, following each child for up to20 years post-CT exposure.

Experts at Charlotte Radiology agree there is validityto the report. But they caution us to do our homework asparents before writing off CT scans altogether. First, dothe math. The findings of this study translate to roughlyone case each of leukemia and brain tumors per 10,000children. The chances of your child being injured in acar accident are higher than his or her chances ofdeveloping cancer from childhood CT scans. Second,note the dates of the study. CT scanners have improvedexponentially since the mid-1980s and are estimated totransmit pediatric radiation doses that are 40 – 50percent lower than just 10 years ago. Third, consider thecommitment of the medical community to “imagegently.” Launched in 2008 by the Alliance for RadiationSafety in Pediatric Imaging, the goal of the Image GentlyCampaign is to protect children from overexposure toradiation by increasing imaging awareness and changingpractices. To date, more than 17,000 medicalprofessionals have taken the pledge. “We avoid CT whenever it’s reasonable to do so,” says

Marc Mancuso, MD, Charlotte Radiology’s Chief ofPediatric Radiology. “We use alternative imaging, likeultrasound and MRI, when we believe we can get theinformation we need with less risk to the child. One ofour biggest jobs is to serve as gatekeepers of radiology.But there are times when CT scans are medically

Abby underwent three CT scans -- one detecting the infection; a second confirming surgical success; and a third, fourmonths later, verifying that the abscess had, in fact, resulted from an infection, not a DNA cyst. This final CT provided

peace of mind that the ordeal truly was behind them.

Photo by Joseph Decker

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necessary, and in those cases we usepediatric dosing to reduce the exposure,thus reducing the risk. CT can be lifesaving in many circumstances. But I willrecommend against it every time if therisks outweigh the benefits.”So when is a CT warranted? What can

a CT show you that can’t be seen on anultrasound, MRI, or other alternativeimaging source? Every case is different,so it’s important your child’s doctor is aperson you can trust. But CT scans candetect blood inside the skull resultingfrom a head injury; injuries to the solidorgans, like the kidneys, spleen andliver; and life-threatening infections andabscesses. This was the case for Katie Robbins, a

Charlotte Radiology employee whosethen 6-year-old daughter’s sore throatturned out to be a life-threateninginfection. “Abby had a sore throat andfever that worsened over two weeks.Strep tests came back negative. Tworounds of blood work were normal, andno evidence of infection could be seen.Our pediatrician believes in imaginggently, so we exhausted all optionsbefore heading to the hospital for a CT.Turns out that was the best decisionwe’d ever make.” A CT scan showed a retropharyngeal

abscess in Abby’s neck — an infectionthat was already beginning to shift herairway. Pediatric and neurologicalradiologists recommended emergencysurgery to drain the infection. “It wasterrifying at the time. Emergencysurgery on an abscess that wascompromising her airway — and had analarmingly high mortality rate. Butscarier still is the thought of whatcould’ve happened if we’d waited. Or ifwe’d refused the CT scan altogether.” The bottom line is this: CT is a

powerful tool that should only be usedwhen absolutely necessary. But howgrateful are we, as parents, that it’s herewhen we need it? So do your homework.Confirm that your child’s doctors areACR-certified and have made thecommitment to image gently. In theevent a CT is recommended for yourchild, ask these questions: Is there aclear medical benefit? Can alternativestudies be used instead? Will only theaffected area be scanned? Will childdosing will be used? And mostimportantly, do the benefits outweighthe risks?

For more information on CT scans andchildren, visit CharlotteRadiology.comand ImageGently.org.

Abby Robbins, now 9 years old,continues to thrive after

emergency surgery to drain a neck abscess three years ago.

Photo by Joseph Decker

By Brooke Neal


CarolinaRenaissanceFestivalWhat: The CarolinaRenaissance Festivalis a 16th-century,

European-style art andentertainment festival combiningoutdoor theater, circus entertainment,arts and crafts marketplaces, ajousting tournament and much more.The festival spans 22 acres and isfilled with 11 stages of non-stopentertainment, charming cottages andcastles, an open-air market with 100artisan shops, kitchens and pubs,games of skill and people-poweredrides.When: Seven consecutive weekends(Saturdays and Sundays) from Oct. 6through Nov. 18. The festival runsfrom 10 a.m. to 5:30 p.m., rain orshine.Where: Highway 73 at Poplar TentRoad (between I-77 and I-85)www.royalfaires.com/carolina

Amazing Maize MazeWhat: Get lost in a giant seven-acrecorn maze featuring more than twomiles of interconnecting paths. For anextra challenge, trek through the mazein the dark with a flashlight duringone of the Family Friendly Friday orSaturday Night mazes. While you’rethere, take a hayride around the farm,play a round of cornhole, explore minimazes, take a hike or enjoy a picnic.When: Through Nov. 4Where: Rural Hillwww.ruralhill.net

Fall FestivalWhat: Bring the kids for hayrides,contests, games, food, music, bouncehouses, face painting and a balloonartist. $10 admission per child; parentsare free. Purchase game and crafttickets on site for $5 and $10. When: Oct. 5 from 5 – 7:30 p.m.Where:McKinney Academy, 412Armour St., Davidson www.mckinneyacademy.com

“You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown”What: The Peanuts gang’s all here –Snoopy, Charlie Brown, Linus, Lucy,Schroeder and Sally – in this delightfulmusical that will have you celebratingchildhood, or revisiting it! CharlieBrown just wants to win the heart ofthe Little Red-Haired Girl, whileSnoopy and Linus want to daydream.Meanwhile, the rest of the groupbattles book reports, kites, baseballand misunderstandings in this classicBroadway musical based on the iconiccomic characters of Charles Schulz.Appropriate for ages 5 and older.When: Oct. 5 – 28Where:McColl Family Theatre,ImaginOnwww.ctcharlotte.org

Movies in the Park HuntersvilleWhat: Take in a showing of “TheMuppets” on a huge 20’x25’ outdoorscreen with a concert-grade soundsystem. Admission is free and Brian’s

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BUILDINGBRIGHTFUTURESAt the Y, we believe the values and skills learned at any early age are vital building blocks for quality of life. Through our many programs, kids learn their ABCs, sharing and sportsmanship and most importantly how to be themselves. Find out more about all the great ways we’re shaping the futures of children in our communities at ymcacharlotte.org.

YMCA OF GREATER CHARLOTTE ymcacharlotte.org YMCA Mission: To put Christian principles into practice through programs that build healthy spirit, mind and body for all. Ask about My Y Pricing – making the YMCA available to all.

Dog House Grill has food and drinksfor purchase. Bring your lawn chairs(or blankets) and come early for someexciting pre-movie entertainment andgive-a-ways. The movie begins at dusk.When: Oct. 5Where: North Mecklenburg Park

Ray’s Splash PlanetCelebrationWhat: Come celebrate 10 years ofsplashes, smiles and water play atRay’s. The event will include inflatableslides, bounce houses, carnival games,child-friendly activities, food andmore.When: Oct. 7 from 1 – 5 p.m.Where: Ray’s Splash Planetwww.rayssplashplanet.com

Latin American Festival What: Bring the family to samplesavory cuisine and take in music, localartists and international crafts;inspiring dance presentations and funchildren’s activities.When: Oct. 14 from noon to 8 p.m.(rain or shine)Where: Symphony Park in SouthParkwww.festivallatinoamericano.org

Blakeney Boo BashWhat: Following the 5K Big SouthRoad Race at 8 a.m., The Boo Bashtakes place on the Blakeney Lawn withinflatables, pumpkin paintingsponsored by Noah’s Art, rides, waxhand molding and food.When: Oct. 20 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.Where: Blakeney Shopping Center

Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint UptownWhat: Enjoy family-friendly artprojects, healthy living activities, artistdemonstrations, and more in theseevents for all ages. Roam through 100years of painting history asdocumented by American father andson artists in the exhibition “The WeirFamily, 1820-1920: Expanding theTraditions of American Art.” Seeartist Elizabeth Bradford paint, try outminiature-manikin drawing, dabble inImpressionism, and enjoy a19thcentury pastime, jump roping, 21st-century style!When: Oct. 21 from 1 – 4 p.m.Where: The Mint Museum Uptownwww.mintmuseum.org


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“The CommediaPinnochio”What: The littlepuppet who wisheshe were a real boy

comes to life in aslapstick spin on the classic story.Children’s Theatre of Charlotte’sTarradiddle Players perform thisheart-warming story for the wholefamily, told in the humorous acting

style of Italian Commedia dell’arte.Puppetmaker Geppetto carvesPinocchio out of a magical piece ofwood, but the talking puppet can’t stayout of trouble. Appropriate for ages 5and older.When: Nov. 2 - 18Where:Wells Fargo Playhouse,ImaginOnwww.ctcharlotte.org

“Into the Woods, Junior”What: Presented by the DavidsonCommunity Players’ Connie Company,The Brothers Grim “go Broadway” inStephen Sondheim’s cockeyed fairytalewhere all of your favorite characters –Cinderella, Little Red Riding Hood,Jack (and his beanstalk) and TheWitch – meet and interact on theirjourneys. A junior version of the TonyAward-winning production, thisirreverent fantasy will stir your heart.Appropriate for ages 7 years and older.When: Nov. 10 through Nov. 18Where: Armour Street Theatrewww.davidsoncommunityplayers.org

Harvest DayWhat: Take in an 18th-centuryversion of a modern-dayThanksgiving. See open-fire cookingand hearth skills with baking, roastingand boiling. Visit with re-enactorstelling the story of Backcountrybonding — the gift of time earnedfrom a busy harvest season forfellowship with family and friends.When: Nov. 17 from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m.Where: The Schiele Museumwww.schielemuseum.org

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Creature Feature: Turkey TalkWhat: Learn all about this incredible bird and why BenFranklin thought the turkey would make a great nationalsymbol.When: Nov. 17 from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m.Where: Charlotte Nature Museumwww.charlottenaturemuseum.org

Sunday Fun Days @ The Mint UptownWhat: Enjoy family-friendly art projects, healthy livingactivities, artist demonstrations, and more in these eventsfor all ages. Experience how cutting-edge 21st centuryartists utilize wood in remarkable ways in the exhibition“Against the Grain: Wood in Contemporary Art, Craft, andDesign,” and see a furniture-building demonstration with aNorth Carolina artist. You can also explore the art ofmarquetry, get innovative at the pre-fab furniture lab, andplay giant Jenga!When: Nov. 18 from 1 – 4 p.m.Where: The Mint Museum Uptownwww.mintmuseum.org

Belk Carolina’s Carrousel ParadeWhat: The 65th Annual Thanksgiving Day Parade is oneof the largest get-togethers of Carolinians during the year.Area marching bands, floats sponsored by localorganizations and corporations, step and drill teams,entertainers and other specialty units grace the streets ofUptown for spectators of all ages to enjoy.When: Nov. 22 at 10 a.m.Where: Uptownwww.carrouselparade.org


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Take in the sights at somefamous movie locationsin the “Land of the Sky”By Renee Roberson | Photos Courtesy of ExploreAsheville.com

Asheville!Asheville!Asheville!Asheville!


ast summer, local fans of the popular book series “The Hunger Games”were excited to learn that preparations were underway for filming tobegin in North Carolina. The film was shot entirely on location in theBlue Ridge Mountains of Western North Carolina, including Shelby,Black Mountain and DuPont State Forest, with stars of the movie set-ting up camp at Hotel Indigo in downtown Asheville and theDoubleTree by Hilton Biltmore near the famous Biltmore Estate.Asheville and its picturesque surrounding mountains have been pop-

ular with the movie industry since the early 1920s, when “Conquest ofCanaan” was filmed in Pack Square in the heart of downtownAsheville. Others movies featuring the Asheville area include “PatchAdams,” “Winter People,” “Forrest Gump,” “Nell,” “Bull Durham” andmany others. I lived in Asheville from 1988 to 1999, and always want-ed to work as an extra on a film set but never got the chance. I didhowever, have my share of run-ins with celebrities who were in townfilming, such as:• John Larroquette. While in high school, I worked at the box office ofa local movie theatre. One afternoon, I sold a ticket for the Hugh Grantmovie “Four Weddings and a Funeral” to a very tall man wearing sun-glasses. After he entered his theatre, my best friend ran over from theconcession stand and asked me if actor John Larroquette (from the tel-evision show “Night Court”) had come through my line. Crews were intown filming the movie “Richie Rich” at the Biltmore Estate and I hadbeen hoping Macaulay Culkin would make an appearance, so I didn’teven notice that the man I was helping was also in the movie.• Aidan Quinn. While working at a café in the nearby town ofWeaverville I served brunch to Quinn, who was in town filming themovie “SongCatcher.” The café also hosted the wrap party when

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filming was complete. While chattingwith Quinn I mentioned that mymother was a huge fan of his work,after which he asked for my cellphone and called her in Texas. Shewas completely shocked andthrilled and still tells thatstory to this day.• Andie MacDowell. Whilethe actress wasn’t filming amovie at the time, she nowlives in Asheville with herfamily and I realized oneday that I was standingbehind her in line at alocal restaurant inAsheville. I grabbed anapkin and asked for herautograph. After Ireturned to work downthe street and told mynow-husband who I hadjust spoken with, hebolted out of the officein hopes of seeing herbut missed her by a few minutes.Asheville got its start as a primitive

outpost in 1797, and was transformedinto a resort and therapeutic healthcenter when the railroad arrived in1880. The town is well known forattracting poets, artists, visionariesand explorers. Upon visiting the areain the late 1800s, George Vanderbiltimmediately purchased 120,000 acresthat the Biltmore Estate now resideson and author Thomas Wolfe wroteabout his hometown in the autobio-graphical novel “Look Homeward,Angel.” Most recently, author WileyCash paid homage to the area with theliterary thriller “A Land More KindThan Home.” Located about two and half hours

from Charlotte, the town of Ashevilleis a great place for families to visit

simply because it has activities sure tosuit every personality type. For theoutdoor enthusiasts, there are beauti-ful fall leaves and scenic Blue RidgeParkway views in the fall, hiking andbiking trails, stargazing, waterfalls,natural waterslides, kayaking, canoe-ing and whitewater rafting. For thoseinterested in the arts, there arenumerous art galleries, working stu-dios in the River Arts District, muse-ums and a thriving music scene, com-plete with street performers on Fridaynights and the infamous AshevilleDrum Circle in Pritchard Park duringthe warmer months.Allyson Neeriemer, a Matthews

mother of three, grew up in the neigh-boring town of Weaverville and livedthere with her family until a few years ago.

“I liked living in a small town, but I alsoenjoyed being close to Asheville,” shesays. “It was the best of both worlds.When my chil-dren weresmall, I lovedpushing them instrollers downMain street andall of the sidestreets. Weenjoyed eating atWell Bred Bakery,especially whenthey had livemusic on theweekends. Thegirls love LakeLouise and Avery’s

Little Corner for parks. There is also anature walk in right in downtownWeaverville that was always a hit withthe girls.”In Asheville, Neeriemer recom-

mends The Health Adventure, ahands-on children’s museum openseven days a week that sparks curiosi-ty about health and science with bothpermanent and traveling exhibits. Shealso suggests the Western NorthCarolina Nature Center for visitors(annual memberships are reciprocalwith other area zoos and museums),which features more than 60 speciesof animals, including black bears,river otters and red wolves.

Take a TourTo take in more during your trip,

arrange a 90-minute tour through theAsheville Historic Trolley Tours

(www.ashevilletrolley-tours.com), which travelthrough the MontfordHistoric District, the ThomasWolfe Memorial, The GroveArcade, Battery Park and theBiltmore Village and RiverArts District. The movie “MyFellow Americans” featuredscenes that were shot in thedowntown area of Asheville.Asheville Historic TrolleyTours also offers a “hauntedtrolley tour” from Marchthrough November during theevenings. The Asheville FoodTours(www.ashevillefoodtours.com)are great for adult food loverslooking for a fun weekend get-

away. Choose from a DeliciousDowntown or Biltmore

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Chimney Rock State Park is a majestic attraction thatmakes a great day trip at just an hour and a half drive away.The park offers camera-worthy picturesque views and fivedifferent hiking trails, ranging from easy to strenuous skilllevels. On a recent weekend, our family piled into the carand made the drive to nearby Lake Lure, which also hap-pens to be the place where most of the film “DirtyDancing” was filmed back in the late 1980s. We stoppedfor lunch at a restaurant called La Strada, where we sat onthe covered deck and had a great view of the Lake Lurepublic beach area across the street. The menu at La Stradafeatured a variety of entrees, from pizza, burgers, sand-wiches, salads and other specialty Italian fare. ChimneyRock State Park is just a short drive up the street. Afterdriving up the mountain to the park, we opted to take the26-story elevator up to the Chimney level so we could con-serve our energy for the climb down and other hikingtrails. We had to stand in line briefly for the elevator, butonce on board, the ride lasted about 30 seconds. Once atthe top, we browsed through the Sky Lounge Gift Shop andDeli before heading out to the Chimney, where even ourkids gasped at the initial view from the top. Be sure to takeyour camera because there are plenty of great places to takephotos at this attraction.We were in the mood to see a waterfall so we opted to

tackle the Hickory Nut Falls Trail, which incidentally,makes an appearance in the 1992 film “Last of theMohicans” starring Daniel Day Lewis, and we weren’t dis-appointed. The trail is about a mile and half and hikers arerewarded with the cool mist from the 400-ft. waterfall anda small set of stairs at the base of the falls. The GreatWoodland Adventure Trail is also a great trail for families,featuring an interactive half-mile hike tailored to helpyounger children learn about the animals that inhabit thepark. At the end of the trail, kids can visit with some of thepark’s animals, such as Grady the Groundhog and a fewnon-venomous snakes, turtles and toads.It is important to note that while the trails are main-

tained, they are not paved so strollers and wheelchairs arenot recommended. Visitors can rent a child-carrier back-pack at the park for $8. Also, wearing comfortable shoes isa must for this type of excursion. The park is open yearround with the exception of Thanksgiving and ChristmasDay, and the cost for admission is $15 for adults, $7 forages 6 to 15 years, and free for children under the age of 6.For more information, visit www.chimneyrockpark.com. If you want to make a day or even a weekend out of your

trip, the town of Lake Lure has a variety of shops andrecreational opportunities tailored around the 720-acremanmade lake. Visitors can swim (the beach area even hasa splash pad and waterslide), take a boat tour, rock climb,go horseback riding, hike or golf. Canopy Ridge Farm pro-vides an eco-adventure tour with six ziplines, including theZip Zilla, which is a quick thrill ride spanning 1,000 feet.

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Village Tour, where you follow your foodguide into several restaurants for inti-mate food and beverage tastings that con-sist of no more than 12 people per group.

Christmas at BiltmoreNumerous movies, including “Mr.

Destiny” and “Hannibal” have beenfilmed at the Biltmore Estate(www.biltmore.com), which is currentlythe largest private home in NorthAmerica. George Vanderbilt built thehome in 1895 and it now serves as a pop-ular tourist destination. Visitors to theestate can choose a self-guided tourthrough the 250-room chateau and sur-rounding gardens. Discover the linkbetween the present and past at theAntler Hill Village & Winery (includedwith estate admission), with restaurants,an exhibition hall and theatre, shopping,an outdoor adventure center and specialwinery experiences. For a little holidaymagic, plan your visit for the “Christmasat Biltmore” event that runs from Nov. 3to Jan. 1, 2013, when

the house will be deco-rated with dozens of Christmas trees,hundreds of wreaths and thousands ofornaments.

Stay and PlayThe only problem with figuring outwhere to stay in Asheville is decidingamong the many attractive choices. Thecity and surrounding towns feature awide selection of places to stay, whetheryou’re looking to stay in a hotel the heartof downtown, a quaint bed & breakfastor on the outskirts of the city in a seclud-ed mountain cabin or campground. You’lleven find places that offer pet-friendlyaccommodations.

For more information, visitwww.exploreasheville.com.

climb the rock

n this article I decided to write to those of you who have yet toembark on the “little ones” thrill ride. Yes, having children isSpace Mountain times one hundred. There should be a signbefore you have kids and get on that crazy ride that says, “Youmust be really sane to ride this ride!” because you will becomemuch more insane as the ride really takes off. So, here aresome warnings.Children graze. They are constantly searching for food. Your

pantry could be full of delicious treats (healthy andunhealthy), but they will turn up their nose up at everything.They are like unsatisfied royalty at the gifts we theparents/peasants have offered them. While at the grocery storei

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prepare for the roller coaster ride called parenting

By Matt Harris


they will tell you it is the greatest fooditem ever invented. They will considerthe same item at home the equivalentof rotten eggs. Everyday your child willask, “What time is lunch?” The timethey ask will be about 8:30 in themorning, and the same goes for dinner,although that will be asked tenminutes after lunch.Your best-laid plans will fall apart.

Amy and I lined up a sleep over forAddison, and an overnight babysitterfor Avery. We headed to a hotel, a mereeight miles away. You see, when youhave kids you don’t want to waste oneminute more than you have to drivingto your “child-free” destination. Weenjoyed the pool and some adultdrinks. We went to our room, orderedroom service and a movie. Minutes latethe phone rang and it was ourovernight sitter informing us thatAvery had a fever. We told her to givethe 2-year-old some Tylenol and call usback in an hour, if the fever persisted.You know darn well her temperaturedid not come down. The phone callcame just as room service arrived.That little six-hour getaway cost usabout one hundred fifty bucks an hour.

Just accept the fact it will happen toyou.By the end of a weekend filled with

kids’ activities, you will be at your witsend. Sunday, maybe even Saturdaynight, you will lie to your kids aboutthe time to get them to bed earlier thannormal. There is a short windowwhere this works on children. Theyhave to be old enough to know theirbedtime is 8 p.m., but not old enoughto tell time. So, putting them to bed at7 p.m. can remain your little secretuntil then.You will be very happy when your

child finds an activity that she loves.You will realize though, with yourchild’s enthusiasm comes a fewnegatives. Not negative enough tomake you wish they didn’t love soccer,dance, lacrosse, or karate. However,there is a small downside. Number oneis the amount of hours you will spendtransporting them to and frompractices and games. Number two isthe amount of money the activity willsuck from your wallet. Number threeis the constant amount of fundraisers.Number four is that she brings heractivity to life at home. That might

mean constantly dribbling a basketballaround the house, or, in my case,constantly flipping, cartwheeling, etc.throughout the house. I must add theincessant showing off of theirnewfound skills. “Watch this!” and“look what I can do!” are cute the firstseventeen times. After that ... not somuch.The truth is kids are great, but like

anyone else you’re around many, manyhours a day, they can get on your darnnerves. It’s good to rant about themonce an awhile. Just make sure yousay, “I love my kids, but ...” before youbegin your tirade. I am told, by thepatron saint of parents, that by usingthose words you absolve yourself ofany guilt, and no one is allowed tojudge you. Okay, maybe it wasn’t asaint who made that decree; maybe itwas just a dad writing an article thatfelt guilty about what he wrote in hisprevious paragraphs.

Matt Harris is the co-host of the Mattand Ramona Show, aired Monday –Friday from 3 – 7 p.m. You can emailMatt your thoughts [email protected].

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“Patients’ Choice”Award 2012

“Compassionate Physicians”Award 2012

5th AnniversaryFREE, fun service event for all ages tobenefit local homeless children

Sunday, December 2nd, 2 – 5 pmThe Giving Village at Bright Blessings

608-A Matthews Mint Hill Road, Matthews704-846-Bday (2329) • www.BrightBlessingsUSA.orgWith the community’s support at this event, Bright Blessings will deliver approximately 600 stockings and 400 trim-a-tree sets to local homeless children in December.

Stuff-a-StockingYou bring the stuffers, we’ll provide the stockings and winter fun bags to give to

homeless children!

Trim-a-Tree$5 donation to take a ride on the

North Pole Express to visit our “tree farm”to adopt a tree for a homeless child

and fill a bag of ornaments!

EVENT PARTNERS

Winter Wonderland festivities include:• Create your own ‘Make & Take’ holiday art project• “North Pole Express” train rides!• Sand Art & Holiday Face Painting• Family-friendly service projects• Games, contests and prizes• Delicious refreshments, hot chocolate… & more!

December/JanuarySurvival Guide • Cope with holiday stressCity Lights • Parades, shopping and moreThis Year, I’ll . . . • Resolutions to keepDestination • Low Country South Carolina

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