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Transcript of LINKING THE EUROPEAN FAMILY: I, YOU, WE - PARENTHOOD 1 EUROPEAN PROGRAM SOCRATESGRUNDTVIG.
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EUROPEAN PROGRAMEUROPEAN PROGRAM
SOCRATESSOCRATES
GRUNDTVIGGRUNDTVIG
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PARENTHOODPARENTHOOD
EUROPEAN PROGRAMEUROPEAN PROGRAM SOCRATES GRUNDTVIGSOCRATES GRUNDTVIG
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THE DECISION
TO BECOME A PARENT
THE DECISION
TO BECOME A PARENT
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DECISION TO BECOME A PARENT
SOME PREVIOUS MEDITATIONS
RESPONSIBLE PARENTHOOD: conscious decision to become a parent
Hope?
Responsibility
Anxiety?
Fear?
Insecurity?
Can I afford that?
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WHY WANT TO BECOME A PARENT?
WHY WANT TO BECOME A PARENT?
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WHY WANT TO BECOME A PARENT?
Somebody to fight and live for
Need to give oneself
Need to find a self-reflection in another human being
Get strength
Life gets a sense
Leave something behind
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LONG-LIFECOMPROMISE
LONG-LIFECOMPROMISE
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LIFE-LONG COMPROMISELIFE-LONG COMPROMISE
Consolation, comfort
Affection
Long-life memoriesCompromise
Self-involvement sincethe very first momentNo free-time, lots of fun
Renunciation
Transmission of values
DutyDutySatisfactionSatisfaction
A never-ending contract:Since birth you must take care of it
No-limit needs
Availability 24 hours a day
No boredom
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EARLY CHILDHOOD
0 – 3 YEARS OLD
EARLY CHILDHOOD
0 – 3 YEARS OLD
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EARLY CHILDHOOD 0 – 3 YEARS OLD
EARLY CHILDHOOD 0 – 3 YEARS OLD
Help to discover the world
Parents are everything: they are the whole world
Physical and affective stimulation
The feeling of being a parent trapped/ super(wo)man: constant feeding & no-sleep nights
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CHILDHOOD 4 – 8 YEARS OLDCHILDHOOD
4 – 8 YEARS OLD
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CHILDHOOD 4 – 8 YEARS OLDCHILDHOOD 4 – 8 YEARS OLD
A parent: leader of explorers in search for the adventure of life
Setting routines, rules and sharing freetime activities
A child: learning the first steps toward independence
Powerful influence of school and teachers
Shaping personality and transmitting values
First initiatives
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BEFORE ADOLESCENCE 9 – 12 YEARS OLD
BEFORE ADOLESCENCE 9 – 12 YEARS OLD
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BEFORE ADOLESCENCE 9 – 12 YEAR OLD
BEFORE ADOLESCENCE 9 – 12 YEAR OLD
A parent: authority but not authoritarian: decisions have a reason
Listening and respecting opinions
Knowing when to say NO: no silly needless whim
Emotional wear
Promoting self-esteem: no derision, all possible help
Emotional blackmail
Joys: conversations & complicity
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ADOLESCENCE 13 – 18
YEARS OLD
ADOLESCENCE 13 – 18
YEARS OLD
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ADOLESCENCE 13 – 18 YEARS OLD
DUTIES
JOYS
Assertive attitude: say NO without seeming to be Mr. No
Need for dialogue
Trying to use conflict as a means to achieve maturity and avoid damage
Freedom and control
Teaching self-control
First signs of maturity and responsibility
Expectancy to see the result of all effort
Share of worries: they become supportive
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YOUTH 19 – 30
YEARS OLD
YOUTH 19 – 30
YEARS OLD
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YOUTH 19 – 30 YEARS OLDYOUTH 19 – 30 YEARS OLD
DUTIES DUTIES
JOYSJOYS
Advice for adult life
Need for dialogue
Help with studies (university) and work (looking for a job)
Money help
Teaching self-control
Share of adult experience despite not always agreeing with goals
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BEING A PARENT FROM THE DISTANCE
BEING A PARENT FROM THE DISTANCE
CHILDREN FLY AWAY FROM HOME
CHILDREN FLY AWAY FROM HOME
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BEING A PARENT FROM THE DISTANCE:
CHILDREN FLY AWAY
BEING A PARENT FROM THE DISTANCE:
CHILDREN FLY AWAY
SATISFACTION
Enjoying your husband/wife again
Realising decisions taken have turned out to be the right ones
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CONCLUSIONCONCLUSION
BEING A PARENT is something natural which implies a kind of personal extension with
physical and psychological aspects.The latter modified by education.
BEING A PARENT is something natural which implies a kind of personal extension with
physical and psychological aspects.The latter modified by education.
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