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- LeavingPositive Impression (DoesBodylanguagematter?)
- YesBodylanguagematter
- Researchhasactuallyproventhat Research has actually proven that confidentpeople,thosewhosmile oftenandthosewhomaintain aboveaverageeyecontactare usuallyperceivedtobemore attractivethantheirpeers.
- Ifyousucceededinleavinga If you succeeded in leaving a positiveimpressionyourchanceof g gettingajobwillbecomehigher, g j g yoursocialrelationswillimprove andpeoplewilladmireyou.
- Expressionareimportant
- BeConfident
- BeGoodlistener
- Thesearetheeffectiveand practicaladvicesthatarebacked y by Deeppsychologicalprinciples
- Ifyoufollowedtheseadvices y thefirstimpressionyouwill p leavewillbepositive99%ofthe time.
- Whynot100%?
- becausesometimesthe impressionpeopleformofyou p p dependsontheirownpast experience.
- Forexampleifyousaw someonewholooksjustlike h l k j t lik yourarrogantbossyouwilltend tothinkofhimasarroganteven t thi k f hi t ifhewasnot.
- GeneralPsychology
- GeneralPsychology General Psychology Apersontakesabout5to10 A person takes about 5 to 10 secondstoformanimpression ofsomeoneelseAndthenhe of someone else And then he usestheother510minutesto confirmhisjudgment. confirm his judgment.
- GeneralPsychology General Psychology Soifyoumadeagooduseof y g thefirstfivesecondsthenyour g p chanceofleavingapositive impressionwillbecomemuch g higher.
- GeneralPsychology General Psychology Iknowyoumaybethinkingthat5 or10secondsisaveryshortperiod 10 d i h i d oftimeandthatnothingmuchcan bedoneinthembutifyoureadthe be done in them but if you read the followingsectionyouwilldiscover thatlotsofthingstakeplacein that lots of things take place in thesefivesecondsbutyounever usedtofocusonthem.
- Thingstoremember
- EyeContact
- EyeContact Thefirstthingyoucandoisproper eyecontact.ProperEyecontactshows respect,interestandthatyouarenot shy.Propereyecontactmeansthat theeyecontactshouldbearound70% y to80%ofthetime.
- Handshake
- Handshake Anotherthingthathappensinthefirstfew secondsisthehandshake,afirmhandshake seconds is the handshake a firm handshake combinedwithpropereyecontactleavesthe impressionthatyouareaconfidentperson. peoplewhodon'tshakehandsinafirmway willmostlikelyleavetheimpressionthatthey ill lik l l h i i h h arenotconfident.
- Smile
- Smile Ifyoudidtheprevioustwopointsyouwill appeartobeconfidentbutinthesametime pp youmayappeartobealittlecoldandthats whyyouneedtoaddasmileonyourface.This smilewillnotonlymaketheotherpersonthink thatyouhavegotasenseofhumorbuthewill that you have got a sense of humor but he will alsofeelmorecomfortableindealingwithyou.
- SitStraight
- SitStraight Sitwithyourbackstraightandyourshoulders stretched.Astraightbackleavestheimpression thatyouareconfidenthappyorinterestedinwhat that you are confident happy or interested in what youarelisteningtoNeverevercrossyourlegsor foldyourarmswhensittingbecausethisleavesthe impressionthatyouarenotthatcomfortableor impression that you are not that comfortable or evenafraid.Don'tplaceanobjectlikeabagorafile betweenyouandtheinterviewerbecausethis p gy leavesthesameimpressionthatfoldingyourarms leaves
- DonotScratchnose
- DonotScratchnose Ifyoufeltlikescratchingyournosedonotdoit becausethisshowsthatyouarenegativeevaluating something,afterallyouremotionsareprivateand youshouldn'tletanyoneknowwhatareyou thinkingaboutunlessyouwantthat
- Wearbluecolorclothes
- Wearbluecolorclothes Ifyoucanwearblueclothesthendoit,inthe psychologyofcolorsbluegivestheimpressionof loyaltyandhonesty,wearingbluewillleavean unconsciousimpressioninthemindofotherpeople thatyouareloyalandhonest. th t l l dh t
- TotalImpressions99% p
- References 1.WikiencyclopediaforBodylanguage 1. Wiki encyclopedia for Body language 2.Picturesfrom www.flickr.com
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