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Developing A that Fits You & Leads to Success Session No R2.45 March 15, 2012 10:00 am to 10:50 am BARBUSH ENTERPRISES James E. Barbush Professional Speaker & Professional Engineer in Leadership Development

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Developing A

that Fits You & Leads to Success

Session No R2.45 March 15, 2012 10:00 am to 10:50 am

BARBUSH ENTERPRISES James E. Barbush

Professional Speaker & Professional Engineer

in Leadership Development

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THE DEFINITION OF LIFESTYLE LEADERSHIP:

The specific means

by which an individual leads others

that is based on the leader’s individual identity

that includes the leader’s

ways of living – beliefs – habits – behaviors

attitudes – values – and – worldview

The leader must project that identity

In ways that “inspire”-“breathe life into” people

in ways that make sense to others and self

in a given time and place.

THE DEFINITION OF LIFESTYLE LEADERSHIP

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James Eugene Barbush [email protected] You can find me on-line at:

Social Hub Site for “Harrisburg Biz Leaders”:

http://bizleaders.socialhubsite.com/blog/category/leadership-topics/ http://bizleaders.socialhubsite.com/ http://harrisburgbizleaders.com/

Social Hub Site for “G42-The 42nd Generation”:

http://g42the42ndgeneration.socialhubsite.com/ http://jamesebarbush.blogspot.com/

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/JamesEBarbush Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/jamesebarbush Slide Share: http://www.slideshare.net/JamesBarbush/

YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL654BC96ED6C121FE&feature=view_all

You Tube Channel by JamesEBarbush To find Playlist, search “0 LEADERSHIP – Crossroads” This playlist has numerous videos on leadership, inspiration, and education

where to find “INSPIRATION” on leadership

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OFFICE : 2021 BLUE MOUNTAIN PARKWAY HARRISBURG, PA 17112 717-514-5549 [email protected]

BARBUSH ENTERPRISES

JAMES EUGENE BARBUSH

The Business Look The Catch A

Wave Look

THANK YOU

Success Facilitator

Leadership Developer

Speaker

where to find “THIS SPEAKER” on leadership

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OUR MOTTO is “Building Leaders for Today's Success"

OUR OBJECTIVE is “Building People Into Leaders They Are Destined To Be”

OUR OFFERINGS are “Guaranteed to

INSPIRE Leaders, Management, and Project Teams,

and thus

MOTIVATE Them in Ways to Boost Their Proven SUCCESS”

The Focus

of

BARBUSH ENTERPRISES

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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves,

Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

Actually,

Who are you not to be?

Your playing small does not serve the world.

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking

so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, as children do.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It's not just in some of us;

it's in everyone.

As we let our own light shine,

we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear,

our presence automatically liberates others.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ybt8wXIahQU

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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves,

Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

Actually,

Who are you not to be?

Your playing small does not serve the world.

There is nothing enlightened about shrinking

so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, as children do.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It's not just in some of us;

it's in everyone.

As we let our own light shine,

we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear,

our presence automatically liberates others.

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It’s An

Experience!

“Active participation

in activities, leading

to the accumulation of

knowledge and skill”

“BEYOND STATUS QUO LEADERSHIP”

Breaking The Leadership Mold for Success

EDUCATION Gain Insight Into Becoming More Effective Leaders Of Staff

COLLABORATION Give And Obtain Feedback With Peers

NETWORKING Meeting Like Minded People

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You might say

“I’ve heard it all before”

“What can anyone say differently or new about

defining leadership

how it can be done

LIVING obtaining real life experiences

READING being inspired by writers

Do I have anything new and different to say? P-o-s-s-i-b-l-y

I offer the following

Leadership! What more can I learn about it?

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J o h n M a x w e l l

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In leading,

I want to project

a lifestyle,

a way of living

beneficial and contagious

to others.

But what does it mean

to practice a lifestyle of leadership.

DEFINITION

“Lifestyle Leadership”

“ L i f e s t y l e L e a d e r s h i p ”

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In speaking,

I do not want to think of myself as

a teacher of methods and processes.

Such as, here are

“The 5 Ls of Leadership – L earning

L osing

L aunching

L iving

L oving

However,

after just creating that sentence with those 5Ls,

sounds like I could make a pretty good presentation

on leadership based on those 5 Ls.

What do you think?

I’ll give that some further thought.

“ The 5 Ls of Leadership”

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a LIFESTYLE rather than a METHOD

When leadership is a lifestyle,

it involves our relationships at work and everywhere else.

It involves our head our heart our sense of caring our sense of passion As a lifestyle, leadership consists of life giving actions to affect (influence) people who get things done.

“ L i f e s t y l e L e a d e r s h i p ”

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a LIFESTYLE rather than a METHOD

Life Giving Actions inspire people

such that people are motivated to do what they need to do.

Life Giving Actions Do not motivate people

Life Giving Actions inspire people

to develop ways to do what must be done.

“ L i f e s t y l e L e a d e r s h i p ”

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“MOTIVATION”

“the driving force by which people achieve their goals”

That sounds good,

BUT is motivation really the driving force?

OR, is motivation caused by a force that causes us to act?

“INSPIRATION”

“to breathe life into”

If a speaker can “breathe life into me”,

then I can be motivated to choose

what I need to do to get something done.

If I am not inspired,

then I might not choose to do the right things to get the right results.

If I am inspired,

then I am hit in the heart

(what I care about, what I am passionate about),

Thus,

I am motivated to get the right things done.

A distinction between INSPIRATION and MOTIVATION - - Why?

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METHOD

We get training

to learn methods for getting something accomplished.

It involves head knowledge

It may not involve the heart

METHOD

I can follow the steps taught,

I may not care while going through the motions

METHOD

I know steps that need to be taken to get the job done

I might not be inspired to do anything

METHOD

My head is in it

My heart may not be

Why is LIFESTYLE different than UTILIZING METHODS?

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Okay. So what? Who cares? Where are we going? Get to the point.

Here’s the point.

The distinguishing characteristic of

Lifestyle Leadership

it involves

the heart, our cares, our passions, our identity

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Lifestyle is the way a person lives

Lifestyle is a set of behavior

behaviors represent the senses of

self and belonging

Lifestyle is a means

to forge a sense of self

to create cultural symbols

that resonate with personal identity

[ “green” for environmentally sustainable]

Lifestyle is a characteristic bundle of

behaviors that make sense

to both others and oneself

in a given time and place

Lifestyle reflects individual’s attitudes, values, or worldview”.

Definitions of “LIFESTYLE” - Wikipedia

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Symbols to

Represent

World View

Habits, Behaviors,

Attitudes

Ways of Living

Beliefs & Values

Our Identity

Does all that make sense to others and oneself in a given time and place?

L I F E S T Y L E I N V O L V E S

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THE DEFINITION OF LIFESTYLE LEADERSHIP:

The specific means

by which an individual leads others

that is based on the leader’s individual identity

that includes the leader’s

ways of living – beliefs – habits – behaviors

attitudes – values – and – worldview

The leader must project that identity

In ways that “inspire”-“breathe life into” people

in ways that make sense to others and self

in a given time and place.

THE DEFINITION OF LIFESTYLE LEADERSHIP

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Because

if a leader is dysfunctional in aspects of lifestyle,

the dysfunction can be indirectly or directly translated to followers.

We recognize that no one is perfect.

We all have areas of our lifestyles that need improvement.

leaders must be life long learners

continually strive to become better Lifestyle Leaders

Because

leaders affect many followers

leaders affect others with whom the followers are connected

leaders can affect everything we do

in business, at home, in neighborhoods, and anywhere else.

Because

As the saying goes, “The leader sets the tone…..”.

Leaders must set tones for success, not mediocrity or failure.

Why Should We Know This?

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THE BEST PART IS

In the development of YOUR LIFESTYLE LEADERSHIP

It’s based on YOUR LIFESTYLE

It’s based on YOUR IDENTITY

It’s up to you HOW TO SHAPE IT

It’s about HOW YOU IMPACT YOUR WORLD

You can glean ideas from others, but IT’S YOU

SO MAKE IT THE BEST IT CAN BE!

Why Should We Know This?

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As a teacher of “Lifestyle Leadership”, I might do a presentation

“The 5 Ls of Leadership

Learning, Losing, Launching, Living, and Loving”

If I do, it will be done in a way

to get to our hearts so that we can

change our lifestyles and

lead others to change their lifestyles

and thus have

better and more successful businesses

better and more successful homes

better and more successful neighborhoods

better and more successful communities,

and most importantly

better and more successful relationships

It will be done in a way that you can

“Catch Your Wave To A Transformed Atmosphere”

I MIGHT DEVELOP A TALK ON……

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SERVANT LEADERS’ DNA

1. Relationship with God

2. Care About People

3. Stewardship

4. Communicator

5. Humble

6. Positive Attitude

7. Encourager

8. Motivator

9. Influencer

10. Accountability

LINKED IN CONNECTION – BILL FLINT

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FOLLOWERS NEED YOU TO GET CREATIVE

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“PRESS ON…..NO MATTER WHAT”

MY “SURVIVAL” SAYINGS

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obdd31Q9PqA

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“PRESS ON…..NO MATTER WHAT”

MY “SURVIVAL” SAYINGS

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obdd31Q9PqA

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STAY OUT OF THE DESERT

IT’S A HOT DRY PLACE

KEEP YOUR HEARD ABOVE THE WEEDS

DON’T GET STUCK IN THE MUD

MY “SURVIVAL” SAYINGS

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“KEEP YOUR HEARD ABOVE THE WEEDS.

DON’T GET STUCK IN THE MUD.

STAY OUT OF THE DESERT…

IT’S A HOT DRY PLACE.”

“PRESS ON…..NO MATTER WHAT”

MY “SURVIVAL” SAYINGS

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James Eugene Barbush [email protected] You can find me on-line at:

Social Hub Site for “Harrisburg Biz Leaders”:

http://bizleaders.socialhubsite.com/blog/category/leadership-topics/ http://bizleaders.socialhubsite.com/ http://harrisburgbizleaders.com/

Social Hub Site for “G42-The 42nd Generation”:

http://g42the42ndgeneration.socialhubsite.com/ http://jamesebarbush.blogspot.com/

Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/JamesEBarbush Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/jamesebarbush Slide Share: http://www.slideshare.net/JamesBarbush/

YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL654BC96ED6C121FE&feature=view_all

You Tube Channel by JamesEBarbush To find Playlist, search “0 LEADERSHIP – Crossroads” This playlist has numerous videos on leadership, inspiration, and education

where to find “INSPIRATION” on leadership

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OFFICE : 2021 BLUE MOUNTAIN PARKWAY HARRISBURG, PA 17112 717-514-5549 [email protected]

BARBUSH ENTERPRISES

JAMES EUGENE BARBUSH

The Business Look The Catch A

Wave Look

THANK YOU

Success Facilitator

Leadership Developer

Speaker

where to find “THIS SPEAKER” on leadership

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OUR MOTTO is “Building Leaders for Today's Success"

OUR OBJECTIVE is “Building People Into Leaders They Are Destined To Be”

OUR OFFERINGS are “Guaranteed to

INSPIRE Leaders, Management, and Project Teams,

and thus

MOTIVATE Them in Ways to Boost Their Proven SUCCESS”

The Focus

of

BARBUSH ENTERPRISES

Copyright © 2012

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