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Count the F’s
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RESULT OF YEARS
OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF YEARS.
Count the F’s
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RESULT OF YEARS
OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF YEARS.
Communication Skills
• Effective communication skills are a critical element in your career and personal lives.
• We all must use a variety of communication techniques to both understand and be understood.
https://www.pauwelsconsulting.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/Verbal-and-non-verbal-communication-during-job-interviews.jpg
NVC as a Stepping Stone to Strong Relationships
• Accurately read other people, including the emotions they’re feeling and the unspoken messages they’re sending.
• Create trust and transparency in relationships by sending nonverbal signals that match up with your words.
• Respond with nonverbal cues that show others that you understand, notice, and care.
• Unfortunately, many people send confusing or negative nonverbal signals often without even knowing it. When this happens, both connection and trust may be lost in our relationships.
http://www.creducation.org/resources/nonverbal_communication/types_of_nonverbal_communication.html
Categories of NVC
• Kinesics
• Fascics
• Ocalics
• Gestics
• Haptics
• Posture, walk, stance
• Artifacts
• Physical characteristics
• Proxemics
• Paravocalics
• Chronemics
• Olfatics
• Gustorics
KINESICS FASCICS
COMM 107 Oral Communication : Principles and Practice http://www.slideshare.net/COMM107/chapter-3-nonverbal-communication-6797746
KINESICS FASCICS
http://thefederalistpapers.integratedmarket.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/trump-clinton-headshot.jpg
KINESICS FASCICS
https://static01.nyt.com/images/2016/11/06/magazine/06clintontrump-alt/06clintontrump-alt-superJumbo.jpg
KINESICS OCALICS
https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/5c/22/e5/5c22e5e1db9f768b86ab7be5889b61e0.jpg
KINESICS GESTICS
http://wpmedia.news.nationalpost.com/2015/08/trump_fox_news_201508081.jpg?quality=65&strip=all&w=620
KINESICS GESTICS
http://www.bodybuildingdungeon.com/forums/attachments/bodybuilding-discussion/1946d1133824728-best-side-arnold_schwarzenegger_-_side_chest.jpg
KINESICS GESTICS
https://greatcanadianmove.files.wordpress.com/2015/10/fingers-crossed-300x300.jpg
https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcS8jyvw8vygX2zD1xi3_R4DNjmXcrTY0l3cGXRuAfmDkWMdsnoy
KINESICS GESTICS
• Okay or sign of approval
• Obscene gesture
Iraq, Iran, West Africa,
Greece, Bangladesh
• Well done / awesome
Russia
• Sign of recognition
(while driving) UK
• Goodbye or farewell
among young males UK
• Ascend in underwater diving
https://hillaryiscoming.files.wordpress.com/2015/08/hillary-thumbs-up.jpg
KINESICS GESTICS
https://hillaryiscoming.files.wordpress.com/2015/08/hillary-thumbs-up.jpg
A- okay
• F in Am. Sign Language
• zero or money in Japan
• insult in Brazil
• I’m OK, are you OK, too?
in sign language in
underwater diving
• offensive gesture
Spain, Portugal, Turkey
https://typeset-beta.imgix.net/rehost/2016/9/13/2b2c5083-b057-4e2b-89a0-1973b3ce0922.jpg
KINESICS GESTICS
• Victory
• Peace
• Friend
• bunny ears
Palm facing the
signer
Insult in UK,
Ireland,
South Africa,
Australia http://www.stephanieburnett.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/south-korea-peace-sign-v-sign-1.jpg
KINESICS GESTICS
http://wpmedia.news.nationalpost.com/2015/08/donald-trump-
1.jpg?w=620&quality=65&strip=all&h=465
KINESICS HAPTICS
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/10/26/15/2DCDD21000000578-0-Males_were_seemingly_happy_to_be_touched_anywhere_by_strangers_a-a-6_1445871932380.jpg
KINESICS HAPTICS
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3290112/Don-t-touch-Women-let-strangers-contact-hands-men-happy-touched-long-s-female.html
KINESICS POSTURE, WALK, STANCE
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-W9JP5Qpp3cc/US9MKDR1xxI/AAAAAAAADk4/Z2qwAAsmGJc/s1600/postures.jpg
KINESICS POSTURE, WALK, STANCE
https://thepentadroid5.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/non-verbal-communication.jpg?w=540&h=431
KINESICS ARTIFACTS
Reference: Ugik Sugiharto, Effective Nonverbal Communication, GICI Business School
PHYSICAL CHARACTERISTICS
http://evironhealthdrink.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Interview-Person.jpg
PROXEMICS
http://evironhealthdrink.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/Interview-Person.jpg
http://cdn.mtlblog.com/uploads/2015/07/elevator.jpg
PROXEMICS
http://tle.com.vn/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/635704500418122099-1965462289_elevator-rules-8.jpg
PARAVOCALICS
https://laulapidescompany.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/woman-singing-into-microphone2.jpg
CHRONEMICS
• Power/Status
• Cultural Norms
• Expectations
• Interpersonal Priorities
http://www.workingcarers.org.au/images/newsimages/runninglate.jpg
OLFATICS
https://img-s2.onedio.com/id-55953fd3638880c029e440cf/rev-0/raw/s-c291eab93884896ed682461a75689c4a68ff6891.jpg
GUSTORICS
https://img-s2.onedio.com/id-55953fd3638880c029e440cf/rev-0/raw/s-c291eab93884896ed682461a75689c4a68ff6891.jpg
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-HnvqBfa8wg0/UFlnw2xEi1I/AAAAAAAAK6s/aMFpjxrK0Os/s1600/Exploring+the+Sense+of+Taste+(7).jpg
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NVC CHARACTERISTICS
• Sensitive to the relationship between sender and receiver
• Meaning is based on context
• Part of, not separate from, verbal communication
3 RULES FOR NVC READING
• Read gestures in in CLUSTERS
• Look for CONGRUENCE
• Read gestures in CONTEXT
http://news.nationalpost.com/news/barack-obamas-selfie-with-danish-prime-minister-leaves-twitter-a-tweet-about-michelle-obama-soap-opera
When sending messages:
• Be conscious of nonverbal behavior
• Be purposeful in use of nonverbals
• Make sure nonverbals are not distracting
• Match verbal and nonverbal communication
• Adapt to the situation
Improving NVC Skills
Keys to Building Strong NVC Skills
• Establish and maintain eye contact.
• Use posture to show interest.
• Improve your decoding skills.
• Probe for more information.
• Avoid assigning nonverbal meanings out of context.
Keys to Building Strong NVC Skills
• Associate with people from diverse cultures.
• Appreciate the power of appearance.
• Observe yourself on videotape.
• Enlist friends and family.