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Kindness Behaviour Training (KBT)
Dr Paramabandhu Groves Consultant Psychiatrist Camden & Islington Foundation Trust Clinical Director of Breathing Space London Buddhist Centre
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Drop-in
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ABC of Mindfulness-Based Approaches
• Develop Awareness
• Learn to Be with experience
• Making skilful Choices
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How do we learn to be with difficult
experience?
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Buddhism emphasises awareness (mindfulness) and kindness (mettā)
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Compassion focussed therapy (CFT)
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3 main emotion-regulation systems
1. Threat
2. Excitement
3. Care / contentment
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Positive psychology
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KBT
Kindness
meditation
Kindness
in daily life
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Course content
• 2 weeks of mindfulness
• 6 weeks of kindness
• day retreat
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False kindness
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Near enemies…
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True kindness includes sympathy, understanding and action for oneself and
others
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Different ways to develop kindness
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Kindness in action
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Kindness breathing space
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What is the effect of KBT?
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Kindness is not about being nice, that I found so helpful…that kindness doesn’t mean sort of always being nice and sweet and meeting everyone’s needs. Kindness also means being honest and saying what is, not just feeding someone’s desires or sorrows but also saying look, I think this is happening or not just saying to someone oh yeah you’re right and that’s really bad. Kindness also means supporting someone with constructive feedback… but you know being supportive in an honest and constructive way.
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I mean when you are not beating yourself up about something, you can enjoy things for what they are…. It’s just allowed me to enjoy things…. I’m only aware now, looking back at it. At the time I just thought you know this is what people do.
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I suppose the realisation that, if you’re kinder to others and more supportive of others, just feeling a bit more towards others, not so judgemental and a bit more empathetic, then actually things are a lot easier. Just the realisation that everyone has something going on in their lives.
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Taking a genuine interest, which I always thought I did… I structure our conversations differently; I ask her (family member) questions that are more pertinent to her experience of things, rather than questions that I think are important to her, and actually listening to stuff that’s important to her, rather than brushing over it.
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I’m feeling much more open, spacious towards people, especially more difficult people… much more accepting, expecting less. Just focussing on what I don’t like about them or what’s difficult, the person sort of shrinks to just that, but I think the course helped me, really to remind myself of in each person there’s so much more.
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Thank you!
To book or find out more:
www.breathingpsacelondon.org.uk