Julian treasure, speaking in a way that people listen
-
Upload
sameer-mathur -
Category
Self Improvement
-
view
38 -
download
2
Transcript of Julian treasure, speaking in a way that people listen
1.GOSSIPING
Speaking ill of someone when he/she is not present!
FACT- The person will be gossiping about you five minutes later.
4. COMPLAINING
People see you as a person who will always say something to criticize or complain!We don’t want to be that person!
5. EXCUSES
They will never take responsibility. They are blamethrower. We don’t want to hear excuses.
6. LYING
This is the most dangerous sins of all. If there’s a common hate for a person in a society, its for the lyer.
7. DOGMATISM
When people keep throwing opinions at you, not allowing you to argue, they become repellent!
1. Register
● You can locate your voice.● Throat, it is from where most of us speak.● If you want weight, you go down the chest. We
associate depth with power and authority.
2. Timbre
● It is the way our voice feels.● We prefer voices which are rich, smooth and warm.● But if it is not your voice, it is not the end of the
world.● You can train, get a voice coach. ● You can do postures, breath and exercise to improve it
● This is the sing-song , the meta language. Its add meaning.
● Not being monotonous, is talking with prosody.● Sometimes, its “repetitive prosody” in which every
statement is a question.● This restricts your ability to express.
3. Prosody
● We fasten up when we get excited.● We slow down when we want to emphasize on
something.● Our old friend, SILENCE! You don’t have to fill all
the voids with ums and uhs. Silence is powerful.
4. Pace
● You can add meaning with pitch.● We say “I don’t like the pitch of her voice”. That’s
that.● You can be effective speaker, if you pitch correctly.
5. Pitch
● You can be very impactful if you have a loud voice, or you get all serious and listening by lowering it.
● Well, don’t broadcast always. That’s SODCASTING.
6. Volume
Register PaceTimbre PitchProsody Volume
Well that’s your toolbox to look at whenever you are to speak something important.
All SIX TOGETHER
1. Arms up(like a V), deep breath in and sigh out like “ahhhhhh” with the hands going down.( 2 or 3 times)
2. Warming up lips. Roll in both your lips in and say “ba”. Do this 20 times.
3. Now, “brrrrrrrrrrrrr” just like a kid. Your lips will come alive.
4. Exaggerate with “la la la la la la la…” 5.Simply roll an R like “Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr”. That’s like champagne for the tongue.
6. Finally we have our special one! It is called the “siren”. It starts with “we” and goes to “aw”. The “we” is high and “aw” is low. So you go “weeeeaawww”,“weeeeaawww”.