Insights 2015 - Family Business
-
Upload
windham-brannon -
Category
Presentations & Public Speaking
-
view
212 -
download
1
Transcript of Insights 2015 - Family Business
From Blame to Resiliency: What Makes Families In Business Stronger And Their Business More
Sustainable Gaia Marchisio, Ph.D.
#WBInsights15
A Disclaimer
#WBInsights15
70 Years of Combined Experience
Family business
Conflict management
Family Psychology
#WBInsights15
When Working With Families…
#WBInsights15
From Heaven
Sour
ce: ©
Mar
chisi
o, B
lum
, 201
4
#WBInsights15
To Hell
Sour
ce: ©
Mar
chisi
o, B
lum
, 201
4
#WBInsights15
I did not see this comingShe blames me for not
understanding her and not caring. I can’t believe it!! After all I have done for her, her family and her
business.
Maybe she is right... If we didn’t have the business…
we wouldn’t be in this situation today. It is the
business’ fault!
What do you think? Would you agree?
The Most Recurrent Sentences Dan Shared
Sour
ce: ©
Mar
chisi
o, B
lum
, 201
4
#WBInsights15
Is the Business to Be Blamed?
Sour
ce: ©
Mar
chisi
o, B
lum
, 201
4
#WBInsights15
What Does the Genogram Reveal to Us About This Family?
Sour
ce: ©
Mar
chisi
o, B
lum
, 201
4
#WBInsights15
Whom Else Should Be Blamed?
Sour
ce: ©
Mar
chisi
o, B
lum
, 201
4
#WBInsights15
The Power of the Past
From Blame to Resilience
The Dimensions of Resilient Family
Food For Thought: A Few Key Ideas
Sour
ce: ©
Mar
chisi
o, B
lum
, 201
4
#WBInsights15
What We Inherit from the FamilyThe Power of the Past
#WBInsights15
Past As Prologue to the Future
Sour
ce: ©
Blum
, 201
4
The Power of the Past
#WBInsights15
Never Underestimate the Need of “Finishing” Unfinished Business
Sour
ce: ©
Blum
, 201
4
The Power of the Past
#WBInsights15
Be Intentional in What to Keep And Pass to The Next Generation and What
to Stop
The Power of the Past
#WBInsights15
Looking for the Scapegoat
Problem Family member
From Blaming to Resiliency
(Who is right – who is wrong)
#WBInsights15
Seeing the System and Recognizing Dynamics
Problem Multiple
components, and behaviors contribute to
it
From Blaming to Resiliency
(Seeking for understanding and compassion)
#WBInsights15
It Takes Two To Tango…
…but one to change a relationship
By changing the way to interact
From Blaming to Resiliency
#WBInsights15
Resiliency Is Not Always The Starting Point
1. Commitment (trust)2. Appreciation and affection3. Effective and positive communication patterns4. Desire to spend time together5. Ability to deal with crisis and stress in a positive
way6. Spiritual well-being (compassion and shared
ethical values)
Sour
ce: A
dapt
ed fr
om D
eFra
in, 2
007
Resilient families
#WBInsights15
Ultimate Goal: to Create
BOTHa sense of togetherness and belonging
ANDindividual family members develop their
own personality, self-esteem, and potential