HOW TO REKINDLE YOUR MARRIAGE AFTER CHEATING

(Even When There are Multiple Affairs)

Finding out your spouse cheated is devastating, but learning how to rekindle the marriage will ultimately be something you'll want to work for.

You may not feel that way at first, but if you're like most couples who go through the nightmare of infidelity...you'll want to rebuild.

HERE'S HOW TO DO THAT

How to rekindle your marriage in seven precise steps.

FIRST, STOP BELIEVING THE MYTHS

• Most couples go through an initial stage of believing the myth that infidelity is a relationship killer.

• For some it does spell the end but for the majority of couples who experience cheating, nothing could be further from the truth.

• Even when cheating occurs over and over again, a marriage can be saved.

NEXT, UNDERSTAND YOUR REACTIONS

• If you're wondering how to rekindle your marriage, then it's a safe guess that you're beyond the initial shock of learning about the cheating.

• But it's OK if you're not: therapists say that the strain that infidelity poses on a marriage causes a form of temporary insanity.

• Much like Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), the effects of finding out your spouse cheated on you can make you lose your mind, at least temporarily.

• Nothing seems real, and you can easily become disconnected from each part of your life: your job, your family, your friends- everything is viewed through the dark lenses of the cheating that's wrecked everything.

• For this reason, immediately seeking out a divorce attorney when you find out about an affair is premature. That brings us to the next step...

MAKE SURE IT'S THE END OF THE AFFAIR(S)

• The reason it's a mistake to file divorce papers right away is that most affairs fizzle out and die.

• And if they don't fizzle and die on their own, you can work with your spouse to decide to end them.

• If this hasn't already happened with the cheating spouse, then it's up to him or her to actively end the affair before you can work together on how to rekindle your marriage.

OPEN ALL LINES OF COMMUNICATION AND KEEP THEM

THERE

• Questions will need to be asked, and answers will need to be given.

• It's time for the cheater to become an open book- about the facts of the affairs as well as the emotions felt.

• If multiple affairs occurred, it's no different. As long as the affairs are over with and the couple wants this to work, it's the same process.

KEEP IN MIND THAT MANY HAVE GONE BEFORE YOU

• Sadly, infidelity happens to both happy and unhappy marriages. Countless couples have gone through this too and have felt the same way you do now.

• That may not make you feel any better when you're caught in the throes of anger and shock after first learning of the cheating.

• However, after you've gained control of your emotions you'll be able to find some comfort in numbers.

FIND A SYSTEM FOR GETTING BACK ON TRACK

• Rekindling your marriage is not going to happen overnight, and it's not going to be easy. Those are certainly not reasons to give up but they are reasons to find help.

• A therapist or counselor is not the only path to saving your marriage.

• Plenty of self-help books and programs exist for couples in your situation- and if you really want to save your marriage you can make them work for you.

FINALLY, AIM FOR FORGIVENESS

• Ask any couple who's been through this and survived, and they'll tell you that forgetting about the cheating in their marriage never happens (how could you be expected to forget something so traumatic?)

• The trauma of how you felt when you discovered the cheating is actual pain...and that does fade with time.

• But once you forgive, love can begin to flourish again and happiness together is yours.

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