How To Make Others Feel Fantastic Around You
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How To Make Others Feel
Good Around You
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Once I was walking around downtown. I saw this poster for a movie.
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It had an actor who's been in a lot of other movies I've watched and enjoyed.
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So without knowing anything about the movie, I bought a ticket.
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As I was sitting there in the theater, my big bucket of popcorn on my lap, the lights dimmed.
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So excited. One of my favorite actors.
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In a movie I knew nothing about.
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Now, when I watch a movie, I always buy popcorn.
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But I don't start eating until the movie actually starts.
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Kind of a "delayed gratification" trick I play on myself.
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So as the lights dimmed, I waited for the first scene to start shoveling popcorn in my mouth and...
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...they started singing.
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WTF?
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Turned out it was a musical. Not my favorite type of movie.
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Another time I was in Taiwan.
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There had just been a movie released called "Red Eye," some thriller movie that took place aboard a plane.
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I saw the title at my local theater.
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Same story.
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Bough the popcorn, waited for the lights to dim.
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And....
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...it was a Korean movie called "Red Eye."
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Some sort of horror. No idea what it was about since it was in Korean with Taiwanese subtitles.
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This is what happens when we make assumptions.
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Most of the time they are true.
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But when we're wrong, it can be funny, like in those movies, or you can upset people, or embarrass yourself.
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But there ARE some assumptions that most people may disagree with that people will be GLAD to accept.
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Within the Covert Hypnosis training course, there're these things called "Linguistic Presuppositions."
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They are sentence structures that PRESUPPOSE things to be true, in order to make sense of and respond to the sentence.
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When we use this naturally, it's when we're trying to unconsciously assert something that we really don't want questioned.
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Usually this is some kind of insult, or some form of "I'm right and you're wrong" type of thing.
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Like when you're arguing with your friend, and you think they're being dense, because they won't accept your argument.
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You don't come right out and say, "Since you don't accept my argument, you are being dense." Because they could argue with that.
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Instead, we tend to say things like, "Why are you being so dense?" Which is a question that PRESUPPOSES the density if your friend.
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When you start to use these consciously, you can use them much more effectively.
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Not to make other people feel bad or stupid, but to make them feel really good.
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You can start to "Presuppose" good things about them.
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Good things about their ideas. Good things about their future.
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What effect will this have?
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They'll start to feel really good about themselves.
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But since you're covertly hiding these "compliments" in the middle of a complex sentence structure, they won't really know why.
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All they'll know is that around you, they feel pretty good.
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Think you can use this to
your benefit?mindpersuasion.com/covert-hypnosis/