Heal Your relationship In Four Simple Steps

Heal Your Relationship In Four Simple Steps By Lisa Christine Christiansen We depend on the loved ones in our life for so much. In fact, a large part of our sense of well-being is derived from our perception of the state of the relationships with those closest to us both emotionally and physically. Thus, if those relationships are "healthy ", we tend to be "healthy " and if those relationships are "sick ", "hurt ", or "struggling"...well, then, we tend to mirror those negative states as well. That being the case, are we just mere victims to the whims of emotion and the circumstances or situations in which we find ourselves and our partnerships? Or can we take a more direct control of this symbiosis and reverse engineer it...fix ourselves in order to fix our relationsh ips with the others in our lives? The answer to all of those questions is actually, "Y es." Y es, we are victims to a certain extent because as much as we would like, we just can't control everybody and everything. Yet, "victim" has such a negative connotation, the mere mention or suggestion of the term in relation to ourselves, often makes us cringe or immediately get defensive. But what is the real definition - the unemotional definition - of the word ' victim'? Of course, one definition of 'victim' indicates undue harm projected or caused by another person. On the other hand, another definition of ' victim' is merely: an unfortunate person who suffers from some adverse circumstance (http://wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=victim ). N ot quite as bad,

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