Have you ever had a fight? Why try mediation?

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The slideshow is about reasons why you should consider mediating before your try other options.

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Have YOU ever had

a fight?No! Yes!

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CONFLICT can be personal

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CONFLICT is INEVITABLE

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Conflict costs

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Options?

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Sometimes negotiations seem like a never-ending argument

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Mediation provides the missing ingredient – the mediation process

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Facilitate a dialogueHelp generate new options

Provide structure for the negotiation

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the Mediator

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CONTROLCONSTRUCT

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CHANGE YOUR

CONFLICT

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Keep control of your conflict

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Make your conflict constructive

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Solve conflicts with creativity

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