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fcmek~- R`{s& dr ds nkrrk~ (jmb kjsdk~$ rc akk| tc{~ hj~~djek r`jm rc hjakjmcr`k~-

Dm @j||dft Hj~~dkb* J Htr`3 C~---& tc{ udff fkj~m rc akk| tc{~ hj~~djek (c~ sjyku`km dr ds r~c{nfkb$- Tc{ udff {mbk~ec sdp (9$ fksscms- Tc{ ojm ekr `kf|i{f rd|sjmb dmbdojrdyk s{ookss (c~ ijdf{~k$ o`koas ic~ tc{ rc amcu di tc{ j~k j||ftdme r`kfksscms ~de`r-

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\j~r >& Fksscm : rc \j~r 5& Fksscm 9 ds jff jnc{r hjadme tc{~ hj~~dkb fdik |fjm c~~de`r bd~kordcm dm hj~~djek- \j~r 0 ds |k~scmjf hkmrc~dme jmb jordme cm tc{~hj~~dkb fdik |fjm-

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^kydsdrdme Hj~~djek_cf{rdcms rc |~cnfkhs j~k cirkm njsdo- R`{s& uk udff ~kydsdr r`k njsdo ocmok|r ci hj~~djek dmFksscm :-

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k{mbk~srjmb r`k ocmok|r ci hj~~djek-

C{r|{rTc{~ dbkjf hj~~dkb fdik b~jir |fjm

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Oc{fb r`k icffcudme kykmrs s{bbkmft r~deek~ tc{ rc ocmsdbk~ hj~~djek3

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rjfakb udr` j `j||dft hj~~dkb oc{|fk1

~ke{fj~ft sju tc{~ |j~kmrs z{j~~kfkb1

oj~~dkb j o{rk njnt ci j eccb i~dkmb1

Bdb hj~~djek g{sr |c| {|3 Bdb tc{ jfsc r`dma jnc{r dr u`km tc{ srdff bdb mcr `jyk j |j~rmk~ c~jirk~ tc{ fcsr tc{~ |j~rmk~3

J i~dkmb srj~rkb rc r`dma jnc{r hj~~djek u`km `ds ijhdft ocmrdm{c{sft z{j~~kfkb- @k ujshcrdyjrkb rc srj~r j ijhdft r`jr ds bdiik~kmr i~ch `ds ijhdft- @k ujmrkb rc |~cyk `k oc{fb nk jeccb ijr`k~ jmb `{snjmb- @k ujs bkrk~hdmkb mcr rc ~k|kjr r`k sjhk hdsrjaks r`jr `ds|j~kmrs bdb- Hj~~djek ujs `ds kmr~t |cdmr rc oc~~kor hdsrjaks ci `ds |j~kmrs jr `ds cum rk~hs-

Jmcr`k~ oc{|fk |fjmmkb jnc{r hj~~djek nkoj{sk r`kt ujmrkb rc `jyk hjmt o`dfb~km- R`ktsdh|ft ujmrkb rc `jyk j nde `j||t ijhdft- R`kt kykm gcakb ci `jydme j och|fkrk iccrnjffijhdft rkjh-

Hcsr sdmefk uchkm D rjfakb udr` ~kjfft |fjmmkb ci ekrrdme hj~~dkb nkic~k jek ?


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@cukyk~& j~k r`kt eccb e~c{mbs ic~ hj~~djek3 Uk~k c{~ hcrdyjrdcms r`jr srj~rkb r`k rjfa cmhj~~djek kmc{e` rc g{srdit r`jr dr ujs r`k ~de`r rdhk rc hj~~t3 Ujs hkkrdme H~- ^de`r c~ Hs-^de`r r`k ~de`r sdemjf rc hj~~t3 Ujs dr r`k sdh|fk dbkj ci s`j~dme tc{~ fdik rc schkcmk r`jrhj~~dkb tc{3

Dr ds dh|c~rjmr rc bdso{ss r`k |~dhj~t hcrdyjrdcms (c~ r~deek~s$ ci hj~~djek nkoj{sk dr udff ~kydsdr

r`k ~ccrs ci tc{~ hj~~djek- [mbk~srjmbdme r`k ~ccrs udff ciik~ scf{rdcms rc fcmesrjmbdme hj~drjf|~cnfkhs jmb dbkjs rc mc{~ds` r`k hj~~dkb fdik hc~k-

Hj~~djek s`c{fb kmoch|jss r`k |jsr& |~kskmr jmb i{r{~k- [mbk~srjmbdme r`k ~ccrs ds r`kjbb~kssdme r`k |jsr- ^kifkordme cm r`k dbkjf hj~~dkb fdik ds s`j|dme r`k i{r{~k- Ncr` r`k |jsrjmb i{r{~k bkrk~hdmks r`k |~kskmr ocmbdrdcm ci hj~~djek-

Js|d~jrdcms ic~ Hj~~djekR`k~kic~k& uk s`jff jfsc fcca rc jmb hc~k dh|c~rjmrft& o~kjrk r`k i{r{~k- Uk s`jff `cukyk~~kydku id~sr `cu tc{ skk tc{~ hj~~dkb fdik nkic~k ukbbdme- Uk s`jff ~kkpjhdmk di tc{ `cfb r`k~de`r |fjm- Uk s`jff sr{bt di ncr` tc{~ |jsr jmb i{r{~k j~k ocmsdsrkmr- U`kr`k~ ~de`r jmbocmsdsrkmr c~ mcr& uk s`jff o`koa di tc{ srdff `cfb r`csk hj~~dkb fdik |fjm-

R`k hjdm bdso{ssdcm jmb ~kifkordcm |~cokss udff ~kycfyk j~c{mb r`k icffcudme ico{s z{ksrdcms7

@cu s`c{fb tc{~ hj~~dkb fdik nk3

U`jr ds j `j||t c~ s{ookssi{f hj~~djek3

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U`jr s`c{fb nk r`k okmrk~ ci j fjsrdme hj~~djek3

U`jr j~k tc{~ {mbk~srjmbdme jmb hdsocmok|rdcms cm hj~~djek3

U`km tc{ jmb tc{~ |j~rmk~ srj~rkb rjfadme jnc{r hj~~djek& uk~k r`k icffcudme tc{~ {s{jfbdso{ssdcm |cdmrs3

m{hnk~ ci o`dfb~km rc ~jdsk1

so`ccf jmb ocffkek oc{~sk tc{~ o`dfb~km udff sr{bt1

`c{sk& oj~& j||fdjmoks& i{~mdr{~k& kro-1

r~jykf bksrdmjrdcms jmb i~kz{kmot1

uc~a& n{sdmkss& dmochk& sjydme1

ukbbdme ok~khcmdks1

|j~kmrdme srtfks1

Rc hcsr oc{|fks nkic~k r`kt uk~k hj~~dkb& hj~~djek ds j srjek u`k~k ruc |kc|fk bkodbkb rcskrrfk |k~hjmkmrft rcekr`k~- R`kt cirkm skk s{ookssi{f hj~~dkb fdik js stmcmthc{s rc j`j||t jmb idmjmodjfft srjnfk hj~~dkb fdik- Hj~~dkb fdik ds cirkm okmrk~kb rc ijhdft& o`dfb~km& jmbidmjmoks-



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Jirk~ uk ~kjsskss tc{~ |jsr& uk udff jsa r`k sjhk z{ksrdcms jejdm- Uk udff r~t rc jsskss dic{~ c~dedmjf hcrdyjrdcms& js|d~jrdcms& jmb |fjms `cfb r`k ~de`r ocmok|r ci hj~~djek- Uk udffbdso{ss r`k {s{jf hdsocmok|rdcms ci hj~~djek- Uk udff r`km hjak c~ ~kydsk tc{~ dbkjf hj~~dkbfdik |fjm-

Bdb dr kyk~ hcrdyjrk c~ r~deek~ tc{ rc ocmsdbk~ hj~~djek nkoj{sk tc{ sdh|ft fcyk tc{~s|c{sk3 Bdb tc{ kyk~ js|d~k c~ |fjm `cu rc ochh{mdojrk3 Bdb tc{ kyk~ |fjm tc{~ ~cfks dm r`kijhdft3 Bdb tc{ kyk~ |fjm `cu rc akk| tc{~ hj~~djek3

Ofdoa RjfaHdsocmok|rdcms ci Hj~~djekR`k {s{jf hdsocmok|rdcms ci hj~~djek ~ccrkb i~ch r`k hds{mbk~srjmbdme ci hj~~djek- R`dshds{mbk~srjmbdme kykmr{jfft o~kjrkb r`k sakukb hcrdyjrdcms jmb js|d~jrdcms ic~ hj~~djek-

Cirkm& r`ksk hcrdyjrdcms jmb js|d~jrdcms j~k kprk~mjf rc oc{|fks fdak o`dfb~km& ijhdft& idmjmoks-

Hcrdyjrdcm s`c{fb id~sr nk dmrk~mjf& mcr kprk~mjf- Dr s`c{fb mcr nk r`k kykmrs c{rsdbk tc{- Drs`c{fb srj~r i~ch tc{ jmb tc{~ s|c{sk- Hcrdyjrdcm s`c{fb id~sr m{~r{~k tc{~ ~kfjrdcms`d| udr`tc{~ s|c{sk- ^kfjrdcms`d| udr` tc{~ o`dfb~km& ijhdft& jmb i~dkmbs j~k skocmbj~t- Hj~~djek& dmr`k id~sr |fjok& ds jff jnc{r tc{ jmb tc{~ s|c{sk& mcr tc{~ o`dfb~km& ijhdft& jmb i~dkmbs-

Tc{ uk~k mcr hj~~dkb rc tc{~ o`dfb~km& ijhdft& c~ i~dkmbs& n{r rc tc{~ s|c{sk-

Bdb tc{ udrmkss r`jr hcsr ijdfkb hj~~djeks srj~rkb u~cmeft nkic~k ukbbdme- _k|j~jrkboc{|fks uk~k g{sr hj~~dkb nkoj{sk ci |~khj~drjf |~kemjmot- R`kt uk~k (ic~odnft$ hj~~dkb rc

g{sr |j~kmr r`k o`dfb- _chk uk~k jfsc u~cmeft hj~~dkb nkoj{sk ci ijhdft |~kss{~ks jmbocmbdrdcms- Cmk kpr~khk ojsk ds r`k ijhdftdmdrdjrkb ic~okb jmb j~~jmekb ukbbdmes- _chkoc{|fks hj~~dkb nkoj{sk ci sdh|fk kmyt rc `j||dft hj~~dkb oc{|fki~dkmbs jmb |~kss{~ks i~chscodkrjf mc~hs-

Cm r`k cr`k~ `jmb& `j||dft hj~~dkb oc{|fks uk~k hj~~dkb nkoj{sk ci s`kk~ fcyk ic~ kjo`cr`k~ jmb mcr`dme kfsk kprk~mjf- Fcyk ak|r r`kd~ hj~~djek-

R`k~k j~k `cukyk~& fcmesrjmbdme hj~~djeks& n{r r`kt uk~k mcr `j||t hj~~djeks- Oc{|fksock~okb rc fdyk rcekr`k~ nkoj{sk ci r`kd~ o`dfb~km& ijhdft& jmb scodkrjf |~kss{~ks-

Jmcr`k~ hdsocmok|rdcm ds `j||t hj~~djek js jfujts c~ hcsrft `j||t hj~~djek-

@j||t hj~~djeks j~k mcr jfujts `j||t- R`kt dmof{bk sjo~didoks& ocmifdors& jmb ijdf{~ks- @j||thj~~djeks bc mcr kmrd~kft kz{jrk rc ijhdft& idmjmodjf& |~cikssdcmjf s{ookssks- R`k~k j~ks{ookssi{f |~cikssdcmjf c~ n{sdmkss oc{|fks udr` srjnfk idmjmoks jmb eccb o`dfb~km- @cukyk~&r`k oc{|fks sk|j~jrkb- _chk hjt srdff fdyk rcekr`k~& n{r r`kt j~k mcr `j||t dm kjo` cr`k~soch|jmt jmthc~k-



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R`kd~ o`dfb~km& ijhdft& scodkrjf mc~hs& jmb hcmkt `cfb r`kh& mcr fcyk- Udr`c{r r`kskkprk~mjfdrdks& r`kt oc{fb `jyk kjsdft sk|j~jrkb- _jo~didoks& ocmifdors& jmb ijdf{~ks j~k |j~r cifdik- R`kt hjak {s nkrrk~ jmb `j||t-

Fjsr& `j||t hj~~dkb fdik cirkm kh|`jsdwkb ~chjmrdo fcyk jmb skp{jf i{fidffhkmr- R`c{e`

~chjmok jmb skp j~k ksskmrdjf dm hj~~djek& r`kt j~k mcr r`k ic{mbjrdcm- Fcyk o~kjrks ncr`-Udr`c{r fcyk& ~chjmok jmb skp j~k g{sr mcr |cssdnfk- Di dr ds |cssdnfk& dr ds mcr rcc j{r`kmrdo jmbfjsrdme- ^chjmok jmb fcyk j~k bkidmdrkft s|doks rc hj~~djek- @cukyk~& r`kt s`c{fb mcr nk r`k|~dhk hcrdyjrdcms jmb js|d~jrdcms ci hj~~djek-

Hj~~djekU`jr ds hj~~djek r`km3 @cu bc o{fr{~ks& srjrks& jmb ~kfdedcms bdiik~ jmb ~kfjrk cm hj~~djek3Uk jsa-

Uksrk~m o{fr{~ks fdak ^chjm& E~kkas& K{~c|kjms& jmb Jhk~dojms {mdyk~sjfft bkidmk dr js jh{r{jf je~kkhkmr jmb scodjf {mdcm ic~ s|kodido hcrdyks (|cfdrdos& kpof{sdyk skp{jf jookss&dm`k~drjmok$ jmb bdiik~kmr ~kjscms (s|d~dr{jf& ~kfdedc{s& skp{jf& fkejf& kocmchdo& jmbkhcrdcmjf$- Hj~~djek ojm `j||km udr`c{r fkejf jmb ~kfdedc{s s{nsrjmok- @dsrc~t rkffs {s r`jrschk uksrk~m o{fr{~ks kykm dmof{bk sjhkskp& |cftejht& jmb |cftjmb~t rc jo`dkyk hcrdyks-

U`dfk hcsr o{fr{~ks ocmsdbk~ hj~~djek js h{r{jf je~kkhkmr& hcsr srjrks |c|{fj~ft bkidmk drjs fkejf ocmr~jor- Hj~~djek fkedrdhdwks ijhdft jmb cnfdejrdcms-

Cm r`k cr`k~ `jmb& hcsr ~kfdedcms skk dr js j sjo~kb ycu nkrukkm j hjm jmb j uchjm-Hj~~djek ds j sjo~kb sjo~jhkmr jmb edir i~ch Ecbrc O`~dsrdjms- \~crksrjmrs ~kej~b hj~~djekjs j efc~didojrdcm rc Ecb& mcr j sjo~jhkmr c~ ocykmjmr nkrukkm s|c{sks jmb Ecb- Jmefdojmsnkfdkyk dr ds j ochhcmukjfr` ci srjrk& o`{~o`& jmb ijhdft- U`dfk hj~~djek ds j ncmb bd~korkbnt Ecbrc Gkuds`& dr ds j sjo~kb& ~kfdedc{s& jmb scodjf b{rtic~ @dmb{dsh-

Hj~~djeks yj~t jo~css o{fr{~ks& srjrks& jmb ~kfdedcm& n{r r`kt `cfb ochhcm e~c{mbs jr js{~ijok udr` hdmc~ kpkh|rdcms-

hj~~djek ds j {mdcm ci ruc |kc|fk1

ukbbdme ok~khcmt& kdr`k~ odydf c~ ~kfdedc{s& ic~hjfdwks hj~~djek1

Dsfjh srdff |~jordoks |cftejhc{s hj~~djek& n{r r`k m{hnk~ ci hcmcejhc{s H{sfdhs dsdmo~kjsdme- _jhkskp hj~~djek ds ejdmdme mkus ocyk~jek& n{r dr ds srdff j hdmc~ ojff- R`k~k j~kh{r{jf je~kkhkmrs nkrukkm ruc |kc|fk udr`c{r ukbbdme ok~khcmdks- R`kt j~k mcr ojffkbhj~~djeks rcbjt- R`kt j~k oc`jndrjrdcm-

R`k ruc {mdyk~sjf kfkhkmrs hjak jmb bkidmk hj~~djek- @cukyk~& r`kt bc mcr hjak fjsrdmejmb `j||t hj~~djeks- Ukbbdme ok~khcmdks bc hjak hdffdcms ci oc{|fks& n{r r`kt bc mcrhjak hjmt `j||t oc{|fks-

Hj~~djek ds bkidmdrkft mcr hk~kft jnc{r {mdcm ci ruc |kc|fk jmb ukbbdme ok~khcmt-



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Hj~~djek ds j fjsrdme (nktcmb bkjr`$ |fkbek nkrukkm ruc |kc|fk r`jr ~kz{d~ks s`j~kb{mocmbdrdcmjf ochhdrhkmr jmb fcyk dm jff fdik kp|k~dkmoks- Dr ds r`k nksr ujt rc e~cu rcekr`k~-Dr ds jm dmrdhjrk |j~rmk~s`d| ci fdik jmb fcyk- Dr ~kz{d~ks c|kmmkss jmb `cmksrt- Dr jfscbkhjmbs ijdrì{fmkss& kykm di oc{|fks j~k dm j |cftejhc{s srjrk- Dr ds mcr cmft j b{rt rc j

|fkbek- Dr ds j okfkn~jrdcm ci j ~j~k edir-

Hj~~djek ds jff jnc{r r`k icffcudme ksskmrdjf yjf{ks7

Ochhdrhkmr Fcyk Ijdrì{fmkss \j~rmk~s`d| C|kmmkss

@cmksrt Dmrdhjot E~cudmercekr`k~

Jff kp|k~dkmoks Okfkn~jrdcm

R`ksk yjf{ks udff e{j~jmrkk fjsrdme `j||t hj~~djeks dm jmt o{fr{~k& srjrk& jmb ~kfdedcm- R`ktkmoch|jss |~k jmb |csrukbbdme ok~khcmt- Hj~~tdme tc{~ s|c{sk nkoj{sk tc{ fcyk `dh#`k~ds mcr kmc{e` di tc{ bdb mcr ochhdr rc fcyk `dh#`k~ ic~ r`k ~ksr ci tc{~ fdik- Ochhdrrdme rc fcyktc{~ s|c{sk ds mkdr`k~ kmc{e` di tc{ uk~k hj~~dkb ic~ dm`k~drjmok-

Kjo` yjf{k ojm o~kjrk fjsrdme hj~~djeks& n{r och|c{mbdme jff yjf{ks jncyk ojm n{dfb `j||thj~~djeks- J ijdrì{f tkr mcr dmrdhjrk s|c{sk ojm sdh|ft s{srjdm hj~~djek& n{r mcr akk| j`j||t hj~~djek- R`{s& dr ds dh|c~rjmr r`jr tc{ jmb tc{~ s|c{sk |csskss jff yjf{ks-

Dbkjf Hj~~dkb Fdik B~jir \fjm

Fksscm : s{eeksrs tc{ rc b~ju tc{~ dbkjf hj~~dkb fdik |fjm jooc~bdme rc r`k ocmok|r ci dbkjfhj~~dkb fdik c~ ksskmrdjf yjf{ks- Nkfcu ds j ~kik~kmok rc srj~r udr`-

Ocmok|r ci Dbkjf Hj~~dkb Fdik(Cngkordyk$

Jordydrdks (_r~jrkedks$

C|km ochh{mdojrdcm Rjfa ~ke{fj~ft

Ochhdrrkb oc{|fks Nkdme ijdrì{f

Eccb |j~kmrs \fjt udr` o`dfb~km

Eccb odrdwkms \j~rdod|jrk dm ochh{mdrt jordydrdks

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