Grace Episcopal Cathedral Topeka, Kansas

February 2020 Vol. 94, No. 2

Dear friends,

When you have

to settle into

something new, how

do you do it? Do

you have a

particular thing that

brings you comfort,

such as an old blanket, a bar of your

favorite chocolate, a snuggly pet, or a

song you know by heart? What

relationships, ideas, or well-worn

phrases do you rely on to help you

make it through? What do you do

when you know you’re not in your old

familiar territory anymore? How do

you make yourself feel more at home?

I’m wondering because as you

know, I’m in the middle of a bit of a

transition myself.

There’s a book I often think

about, and sometimes go back and re-

read, whenever I’m in the midst of a

change like I am now – Transitions:

Making Sense of Life’s Changes by

William Bridges. He says we typically

think of change as part of a normal

procession: one thing ends and then a

new thing begins right after that. He

suggests instead that the reality for

many of us would be much more the

opposite: that something new starts,

and then it takes a while for the

former thing to end. In the middle, we

live in a kind of Neutral Zone, a

“wilderness time,” where things don’t

make sense, roles change, old

assumptions are upended or grieved,

and new patterns of being are tested,

thrown out, or adopted. After we’ve

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From the Dean THE PRESENTATION of Our Lord Jesus Christ in the Temple

Sunday, February 2

been through that, we can see clearly

enough to move on. So, some level of

turmoil is just a natural part of any

transition.

I first came upon that book

during a fairly dark period in my life.

But as I held its ideas up next to my

personal situation, I could see its

wisdom. We all like to say that

change is hard, and it’s true, but he

was explaining why, and that made a

tremendous difference. It gave me

permission to go a little easier on

myself when my life-circumstances

were changing.

At the bottom of my prayers

lately, I have felt a deep and abiding

peace – the presence of the Holy

Spirit in the midst of this transition to

Grace Cathedral from the offices of

the Diocese. I’ve had no doubt about

the decisions that have brought us to

this point. And even though I’ll be

just steps away from my former

office and those good colleagues, I

have had to say goodbye in my own

way to old ways of being, identities

and roles, concepts about my

vocation. In their own way, those

goodbyes have been hard and are far

from over. When a transition is upon

us, even the greatest joy is mixed

with a little sadness or confusion.

That’s just the cost of being human.

I want you to know all of this

because ... well, I just do. I’m aware

that clergy can model a lot of things,

and one of them is intellectual and

emotional honesty. I’d like to provide

you with as many shortcuts into my

heart and mind as I can, and I hope

you’ll do the same for me. Together,

it helps us be kinder and exercise a

greater love.

None of this is regret. It’s

actually an expression of forward

momentum! I sense God’s presence

and activity in every movement of

this transition. Together I see us

doing amazing things for God’s

kingdom in Topeka, and I hope we’ll

have some fun in the process.

Let’s get started!

— Fr. Torey+

From the Dean

For the first time in nearly 12 years, Grace Cathedral has two full time

priests on staff!

Our curate, The Reverend Ashley Mather, was ordained to the priesthood

on Sunday, January 12 (a day later than scheduled due to inclement weather);

and The Very Reverend Torey Lightcap celebrated his first Sunday with us as

the 15th dean of Grace Cathedral on January 19.

We are exited to see what the future holds in store for the Cathedral with

our new leaders at the helm. But don’t forget that their successes also depend

on the prayers, work and dedication of all our Cathedral parishioners. With

God’s help, let’s make this a great year!

A new dean and a new priest usher in 2020!

Above: Newly ordained priests, Fr. John Bullock and

Mtr. Ashley Mather with Bishop Cathleen Bascom

Below: Dean Torey Lightcap with his children, Gabriel and

Annie, and wife, Jacquie

Reception to honor Pastor Pejakovich, February 16 With the arrival of Dean Lightcap, the tenure of our Sunday assistant, Pastor George Pejakovich, will come to an end on Sunday, February

16. Pastor Pejakovich was hired in June 2008 as an assistant to the dean and remained on board during our interim period between deans. Please join us as we honor George and his wife, Joyce, at a special reception following each service on February 16. But this won’t be a good-bye party — you’ll still see George and Joyce worshiping with us in the pews. Thank you Pastor Pejakovich!

Daughters of the King February meeting Daughters of the King will meet Saturday, February 1, 9:30 a.m., for their monthly meeting in the Bubb Room. Mother Ashley will present a program on “The Way of Love”. Daughters of the King is a religious Order for women of the Episcopal church and those in communion with it. All women of Grace are invited to attend. For more information contact Jackie

Sommers at 785-383-5035 or at jdrsommers@gmail.com.

Adult Forum for February Learn some fascinating information about the history of our wonderful Cathedral, as well as the city of Topeka, from local historian and Cathedral Deacon Don Chubb during the Adult Forum on February 2 and 9. On February 16 and 23, Deacon Anne Flynn and Mother Ashley Mather will present a class on “Preparing for Lent.”

The Adult Forum takes place at 9:30 a.m. each Sunday in All Saints Hall. Childcare is provided. Please join us!

Menninger Bible Study Come join the Menninger Bible Study at Grace. In February, we will be studying the following Bible characters:

February 3 - Jeremiah - Before and After the Fall of Jerusalem February 10 - Jeremiah, Ezekiel and Foreign Nations February 17 - Prophecies of Obadiah, Joel, Habakkuk, and Zephaniah February 24 - Ezekiel - The Fall of Jerusalem.

The Bible Study meets at 6:30 p.m. every Monday in the Robyn Room (in the corner of All Saints Hall) at Grace Cathedral. For more info, contact Michael Deibler at deibler.michael@yahoo.com.

Senior Saints February luncheon The Senior Saints of Grace will hold their monthly potluck luncheon at 11:30 a.m., Wednesday, February 12, in All Saints Hall. Cathedral member Alicia Salisbury will present a program on the history of the Underground Railroad in Kansas and Topeka. Everyone is welcome. Bring a dish to share.

Movie Night at Grace This month’s film, Chariots of Fire, will be shown on Wednesday, February 12, 6 - 8 p.m. in All Saints Hall at Grace Cathedral. “Two British track athletes, one a determined Jew, and the other a devout Christian, compete in the 1924 Olympics.” (imdb.com) Refreshments will be provided.

Sympathies Sympathies of the parish go out to Bev Tilly on the January 21 death of husband, Dick Tilly. May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, rest in peace and rise in glory.

GREAT SPACES Music &

Arts Series

presents

Sunday, February 9, 3 p.m.

Zsolt Eder & FriendsZsolt Eder & FriendsZsolt Eder & Friends Chamber MusicChamber MusicChamber Music by Candlelightby Candlelightby Candlelight

Join us for a Champagne

Reception following the concert!

Tickets: $10/general; $5/students;

12 & younger free

Bites & BeveragesBites & BeveragesBites & Beverages February 22, 2020 6-8 p.m.

All Saints Hall It’s that time of year to share your

favorite appetizer, finger food, dip and more and pair

it with your favorite beverage.

Bring something new or a tried and true favorite.

There will be prizes for Best Food Dish and Best Beverage.

Invite a friend or two! Please RSVP for childcare (235-3457)

THE PROPER LITURGY FOR ASH WEDNESDAY

and IMPOSITION OF ASHES Wednesday, February 26

12:10 and 7 p.m. (Childcare at evening service)

WEDNESDAYS in LENT March 4—April 1

5:30 p.m. Worship (Cathedral) 6 p.m. Supper (All Saints Hall)

(Please call ahead if childcare is needed.)

Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return.

Presented by the Cathedral Choristers and their parents as a fundraiser to send

Choristers to the RSCM Summer Camp

SHROVE TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 25

6 p.m. in All Saints Hall

MENU Pasta and Meatballs

Salad, Garlic Bread, Desserts Wine, Tea or Coffee

No tickets, but a freewill offering will be taken.

Tips appreciated!

Join us for

On Sunday, February, 2 the Church celebrates “Candlemas.” This Holy Day is also referred to as the Feast of the Presentation of Christ in the Temple, occurring 40 days after the Nativity of Christ.

As early as the 4th century, Christians would bring their candles to church to be blessed and used during the rest of the year. Candles were important in those days not only because there was no electric lights. But for Christians, they were (and still are) a reminder that before Jesus came to earth, it was as if everyone was ‘in the dark.’ These blessed candles served as a symbol of Jesus Christ, who referred to Himself as the Light of the World.

On February 2, you are encouraged to bring a candle or candles as symbols of Christ’s light to be blessed for use in your own home throughout the coming year. Candles regularly used in the Cathedral will also be blessed as a part of this special service.

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Lenten Prayer Cross Many Christians will hold a small

cross in their hand as they pray. This

Lent, there will be a large wooden

cross set up in the Cathedral along

with small slips of paper and pins to

attach the paper to the cross. We

invite you to add a prayer to the

cross whenever you feel a need to

offer something up to God. The

prayer can remain anonymous. The

Prayer Cross will remain in place

through Palm Sunday.

It’s great to be back into the swing of our “normal” Sunday School schedule and

lessons following all holidays.

I am looking for one additional adult volunteer each Sunday to serve as an extra set

of hands during Sunday School, as well as Children’s Chapel time. No lesson

planning or teaching required, you would simply be there as a helper. Please let

Kathy Smith know if you are interested (knsmith@GraceCathedralTopeka.org).

Youth Sunday School

This Spring, Rev. Ashley Mather will be teaching the Middle School class, with Kathy

teaching the High Schoolers. More details to come!

February Parent’s Night Out — Friday, February 7, 6-9 p.m.

Art-A- Palooza! In the spirit of the First Friday Artwalk, it’s going to be a big- time night of art fun! RSVP to the

Cathedral office by Wednesday, February 5.

— Kathy Smith, Director of Children’s Ministries

We are gearing up for series three of Youth Group! We will meet Sundays, 5 - 7 p.m. on

the following dates:

January 26; February 2, 9, 16, & 23; and March 1

During these sessions, we will be exploring the importance of boundaries as teenagers

and as Christians. I hope your youth will join us!

We also want to thank everyone who purchased rosaries and donated to our outreach

projects. The last issue of The Chimes

broke down what we were able to

purchase for the “Communities in

Schools” program at Topeka High. Additionally, we were able to

purchase several warm socks, gloves, and hats for our Saturday Sack

Lunch patrons. If you have any of these items that are new or gently

used, then feel free to put them in the corresponding bin in All Saints

Hall (see photo to the right).

Additionally, I have started to gather a group of folks who are

interested in helping our youth ministry flourish. We are still looking

for 2-3 people who are interested in helping me recruit more youth

ministers, help with planning events (including ways to involve our youth more into the life of the church), and to simply

be our youth programs biggest cheerleaders. If this sounds like you or someone you know in our parish, then please

reach out.

Lastly, May and June will be here before we know it, so

please mark your calendars for Mega Camp! Here are the

details:

When: Sunday, May 31, 2:30 pm to Saturday, June 6,

11 am, 2020

Where: Camp Wood YMCA, Elmdale, KS

Who: Students in grades 3-12 for 2019-20 school year (you

must have finished third grade to attend); Camp is NOT

restricted to Episcopalians or regular churchgoers. All are

welcome, so feel free to invite friends and family.

Cost: $465 if you register by April 1; $480 if you register

between April 2-May 8; $495 if you register/pay after May

8.

Registration form: https://tinyurl.com/EDOKCamp20

— The Reverend Ashley Mather, Curate

Cathedral youth and Mtr. Ashley participated in the diocesan

youth event, MIQRA, January 18-20.

The Stephen Ministry Network

(a collaboration among 5 local

congregations) has decided to offer

our next training for new Stephen

Ministers in the fall. The first

session will be the Monday after

Labor Day, and the last, the

Monday before Thanksgiving. If

you feel a call to serve others

in Christ’s love, contact Karel

Ramsey for more information.

Consideration is also being

given to offering a second 6-week

group on Grief this spring. If you

are interested, please contact Gwen

McClain — and if you, or someone

you know, would like to receive the

support of a Stephen Minister,

please contact Gwen (506-6929) or

Karel (232-1452).

From the Cathedral Outreach Committee When Topeka High School “Communities in

Schools” Coordinator Eugene Jones arrived at

the Cathedral on January 9 to pick up your gifts

of personal hygiene products for his students, he

was amazed! He had brought three large plastic

tubs, which were quickly filled, which led to

filling various boxes and bags as well. When all

was loaded, the items filled almost every space in

his SUV! He was so pleased that members of the

Cathedral had made such an amazing response to

their student’s needs. Deepest thanks to all of

you, and a special thanks to the Youth Group who took this on as their own.

Blessings!

Justice Ministry at Grace We have community problems to solve. As members of Grace, we can play a

role in doing justice together to tackle these problems and bring God’s

abundance, hope, love and promise to communities throughout our city. The

Cathedral’s Justice Ministry is involved with campaigns to create more

affordable housing and improve access to transportation for some of the

most vulnerable people in Topeka as well as working to end gun violence

and influencing legislation about payday lending. If you would like to learn

more about this ministry, contact Debbie Sesler at debses@gmail.com or

Melissa Weikel at mweikel2@cox.net.

Vivienne Lee Shermoen

received the sacrament

of baptism on Sunday,

January 19. She is pic-

tured here, held by Mtr.

Ashley and surrounded

by her family, parents

Chris and Hallie, and

siblings, Jonathan and

Adelaide.

Give up complaining—

focus on gratitude.

Give up harsh judgments—

think kind thoughts.

Give up worry—

trust God to provide.

Give up discouragement—

be full of hope.

Give up bitterness—

turn to forgiveness.

Give up hatred—

return good for evil.

Give up anger—

be more patient.

Give up pettiness—

become mature.

Give up jealousy—

pray for trust.

Give up gossiping—

control you tongue.

Give up sin—

turn to virtue.

Give up giving up—

persevere.

Refocus for Lent

We apologize if we have missed

your birthday or have incorrect

information. Please call the office

at 235-3457 with any corrections.

DECEMBER ATTENDANCE

2019 2018 2017

1st Sunday .....319* ...... 363* ...... 343*

2nd Sunday ...258........ 284 ........ 263

3rd Sunday ....149** .... .... 257 ... 268

4th Sunday ....260........ 247 ........ 182

Xmas Eve ......701........ 773 ........ 732

Xmas Day ..... 44........ 47 ........ 52

5th Sunday ....210........ 210 ........ 192

Total 1,941 2,181 2,032

*includes Evensong

**ice/snow

February Flower Memorials

2 Walter T. Coolidge

Margaret Lodge

4 Darlene W. Ross

6 F. Warren Hawks

8 Loren N. Maffet

14 Ruth M. Mohler

Martha Harrison Moser

Thelma Jeane Grimes

15 Nelle H. Carkhuff

19 Charles C. Harrison

20 Adelaide Hollis White

22 Saraleen Curtis

24 Judith Lynn Waugh

26 Nelle Clough

Annette T. Goodson Reed

27 Willard A. Monahan

29 Alice Lakin Curtis

4 Max Cassidy

5 Jeanette Collier

6 Steve Burk

7 Jim Bertram

Ruthellen Saiya

8 Amanda Weikel

9 Phil Dittmer

12 Dale Gallaway

Barbara Salyer

14 Kathy Lambert

15 Marianna Nothern

17 Dennis Nelson

Nancy Perry

18 Larry Brock

19 Larry Kampschroeder

Stan Wilch

21 Elaine Bowen

David Starr

Sam Todwong

23 Carol Bertram

Lynne Dillon

Marilyn Trubey

24 Kathy Slawson

25 Frank Smith

26 Kathy Hood

Parker Lesser

27 Michael Wilson

Bring non-

perishable food

items to fill the

grocery cart in the

Cathedral. The

food is distributed

to Let’s Help and

Doorstep.

FOOD SUNDAY

February 2

Treasurer’s Report

December 31, 2019

For the month of December,

operating income was $62,113.95

and operating expense was

$69,096.76, resulting in a negative

balance of $6,982.81.

Operating income for the 2019

was $839,286.49 and operating

expense was $843,883.66, resulting

in a negative balance of $4,597.17.

Cash in the bank checking

account on December 31, 2019 was

$22,958.02.

— Lance Royer, Treasurer

SHOWING IN FEBRUARY: ARTWORK BY MADELINE SMITH

Madeline Smith, Washburn Rural Art teacher, will continue her exhibit of watercolors through the month of February. Madeline, who grew up at Grace Cathedral, also works as curator of the Cathedral’s Cloister Gallery and is happy to announce that the Gallery will once again be part of the First Friday Artwalk in Topeka! She will host a reception at the Cathedral on Friday, February 7, 5 - 7 p.m. The Cloister Gallery is open to the public Monday - Thursday, 9 a.m. - 4:30 p.m.; Friday, 9 a.m. - noon; and Sundays, 8 a.m. - noon.

The Cloister Gallery

About the window… Each month, we feature a small portion of a Cathedral stained glass window on the front cover of The Chimes. High up on each side of the St. Mary’s Chapel altar are two small windows which survived the 1975 fire. On the left is this window, depicting Mary and Joseph giving thanks to God in the Temple for the birth of Jesus. (Luke 2:22)

Weekly Schedule Sunday

8:30 a.m.—Holy Communion, Rite I

9:30 a.m.—Sunday School (Sept.-May)

10:30 a.m.—Children’s Chapel

10:30 a.m.—Holy Communion, Rite II

Grace Cathedral, Topeka, Kansas — A House of Prayer for all People and a National Jubilee Ministry Center of the Episcopal Church

GRACE CATHEDRAL CLERGY

The Right Reverend Dr. Cathleen Chittenden Bascom, Bishop of the Diocese of Kansas

The Very Reverend Torey Lightcap, Dean

The Reverend Ashley Mather, Curate

The Reverend George Pejakovich, Pastoral/Liturgical Assistant

Deacon Donald Chubb

Deacon Anne Flynn

The Very Reverend Steve Lipscomb, Dean Emeritus

CATHEDRAL STAFF

Kent Wingerson, Cathedral Verger/Finance & Facilities Manager

Connie Vosburgh, Office Administrator

Steve Burk, Organist/Choirmaster

Sylvia Hamilton, Assistant Organist

Zachary Cope, Music Assistant

Kathy Smith, Director of Children’s Ministries

Michael Godfrey, Sexton

VESTRY OF GRACE CATHEDRAL

Tammy King (Jr. Warden), Gwen McClain, Steve Roth,

Ron Langston, Chris Shermoen, Suzanne DeWeese,

Rick Backlund, Jim Smith, Susan Weber

Lance Royer, Treasurer;

Phil Elwood, Chancellor; Cynthia Sheppeard Langston, Vice-Chancellor

701 SW Eighth Avenue

Topeka, Kansas 66603-3219

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E-mail: info@GraceCathedralTopeka.org

Website: www.GraceCathedralTopeka.org

2020