Get a Life That Doesnt Suck

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Get a life that

Doesn't suck

Taking the first step tobuilding a life of excitement

By Benny Hsu


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G E T A L I F E T H A T D O E S N ' T S U C K

Table of Contents

Introduction................................................................................................................................ 4

The Beginning.............................................................................................................................

!!."# $e%&on%i(e i%n't Enough............................................................................................... )*

+h, Do +e A-oid Choo%ing.................................................................................................... )/

Gi-e u& (01ing......................................................................................................................... )4

Contro( ,our thought%............................................................................................................... )

Co1&(0ining.............................................................................................................................. )!

Sto& %&ending ti1e 2ith co1&(0iner%...................................................................................... //

Li3e eco1e% 1uch e0%ier......................................................................................................... /

Are ,ou 2i((ing to %t0rt contro((ing ,our 3uture...................................................................... /4

In Conc(u%ion ........................................................................................................................... /"

+ho 01 I................................................................................................................................. /5

Did 6ou A&&reci0te thi% .......................................................................................................... /!

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Thi% i% 0 3ree re&ort 2ritten , Benn, H%u. 7(e0%e %h0re it 2ith

0n,one ,ou &(e0%e under Cre0ti-e Co11on% Attriution .*

Copyright 2011 Benny Hsu

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Introduction

Gro2ing u& I thought 1, (i3e 2ou(d e e80ct(, the 20, I 20nted it. I i10gined 03ter co((ege1, (i3e 2ou(d e 2onder3u(. +h, Bec0u%e I 20% t0ught to 3o((o2 the chec9(i%t 0nd h0&&ine%%

2i(( 3o((o2.

Ten ,e0r% (0ter: 1o%t 2ou(d thin9 I h0d it 0((. A nice c0r: hou%e: %t0(e ;o: no det 0nd

o&&ortunitie% to t09e (ong -0c0tion%.

In%te0d: I h0d ne-er 3e(t 2or%e. I 20% 0t 1, (o2e%t &oint in 1, (i3e. I 3e(t (o%t: con3u%ed: 0nd

unh0&&,. +or9 ec01e une0r0(e. The thought o3 1, 2or9 %ic9ened 1e. The &ro(e1 20%

2or9ing in the re%t0ur0nt u%ine%% did nothing 3or 1e. The g0& et2een 2h0t I 20nted to e

doing 0nd 2h0t I 20% doing 20% huge.

I %t0rted to (oo9 0t 1, (i3e 0nd &ointing the (01e on other%. I 2ou(d thin9: You did this to

meor It's your fault my life sucks.I'd ho&e 1, (i3e 2ou(d 1ir0cu(ou%(, turn 0round.

I turned to %e(3 de-e(o&1ent oo9% to 3ind the 0n%2er%. The &ro(e1 2ith oo9% i% i3 ,ou

don't t09e 2h0t the, te0ch 0nd &ut it into 0ction: no good co1e% out o3 it.

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It too9 ,e0r% e3ore I (e0rned 1, (e%%on 0nd %t0rted 0ctu0((, eing 1ore &ro0cti-e 0out the

ch0nge I 20nted.

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The Beginning

I3 there h0% een one ch0nge in 1, (i3e th0t turned 1e 3ro1 0n unh0&&,: out o3 %h0&e: nodirection: gu, into one 2ith entre&reneuri0( %&irit: 0 &ur&o%e: go0(% 0nd 0 %en%e th0t I'1 in

contro( o3 1, (i3e i% due to thi% one %entence.

Take 100% responsibility for everything you experience in your life.

$ere0d th0t (ine 0 3e2 ti1e% e3ore ,ou continue. $e0((, under%t0nd it. I3 ,ou re1e1er

0n,thing 3ro1 here: 109e it th0t one %entence.

6ou %ee e3ore I &ointed 0 (ot o3 3inger% 2hen %o1ething 2ent 2rong. I 2ou(d (01e 1,

unh0&&ine%% 0nd (0c9 o3 %ucce%% on 1, &0rent%: 1, gir(3riend: the econo1,: 1, 1ortg0ge:

1, (0c9 o3 1one,: 0d (uc9. An,thing ut (01e 1,%e(3>

I 3o((o2ed the t,&ic0( chec9(i%t 3or 1, 2ho(e (i3e 0nd in return I got to 1, (o2e%t &oint in 1,

(i3e. See 2h, I thought it 20%n't 1, 30u(t

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+hi(e I (0id the (01e on other%: I %tu&id(, 9e&t thin9ing good thing% 2i(( h0&&en to 1e. I 3e(t

entit(ed to 0 gre0t (i3e. I ho&ed to 209e u& the ne8t 1orning 0nd h0-e 1, (i3e ch0nge 3or the

etter. I 20% i1&0tient. No2 c(e0r(, I 9no2 it?% %tu&id to thin9 (i9e th0t.

Thi% 0ttitude %ho2ed nothing in return. I3 ,ou (oo9ed u& in%0nit, in the diction0r,: ,ou 2ou(d

h0-e %een 0 &icture o3 1e. I tried to thin9 the %01e neg0ti-e 0nd %e(3 (i1iting thought%: do

nothing o-er 0nd o-er 2hi(e e8&ecting 0 di33erent re%u(t.

It h0% een (i9e th0t 3or the etter &0rt o3 the (0%t 3i-e ,e0r% 0% I'-e tried to 3igure out 2h0t

%hou(d I e doing 2ith 1, (i3e.

In Octoer /*)*: I h0d 1, re09ing &oint. I h0d 0nother %tre%%3u( night o3 2or9 0t the

re%t0ur0nt 0nd 20% dri-ing ho1e. Fru%tr0ted: in te0r%: 0nd %0d 2ith ho2 I 3e(t 3or %o (ong: I

decided I needed to %to& ho&ing 0nd %t0rt t09ing 0ction. I cou(dn't (i-e 0nother d0, 3ee(ing

(i9e thi%.

I c01e ho1e 0nd t,&ed 0 note te((ing 1,%e(3. Thi% i% the exactnote I 2rote. I ne-er thought

0n,one 2ou(d %ee it ut I 20nt to e o&en 2ith ,ou. I'1 %ur&ri%ed ho2 c0(1ed I re10ined

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2hen 2riting 0nd didn't 3i(( it 2ith e8&(eti-e%. Ho2e-er: 1, &oint 20% -er, c(e0r.

This is it. This is when I start to make changes to the life I want. It starts now. Stop wasting

time. It's been more than five years since you've wanted to find a new career. You need to

start doing it today. Today. Tomorrow and everyday until you reach your desired lifestyle. Life

is too short to be unhappy when working. Start working hard everyday to find your passion

and reach your goals. Focus focus focus. !pen your mind and allow it to attract great ideas

and answers to your "uestions.

I 10de t2o co&ie% 0nd t0&ed it to one to 1, 0throo1 1irror 0nd one on the 20(( ehind 1,

(0&to&. I 9ne2 I cou(d not 1i%% %eeing it e-er,d0,.

Th0t night 20% the turning &oint. I 2or9ed on ch0nging 1, thought%. I eg0n to t09e 0ction.

It 20%n't e0%, to egin ut it'% etter th0n 2here I 20% e3ore.

E-er, 1orning I 2ou(d %ee th0t note . It re1inded 1e o3 ho2 I 3e(t th0t night 2hen I 2rote it

0nd ho2 I don't 20nt th0t 3ee(ing 0g0in.

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I eg0n to tr0in 3or 0 h0(3 10r0thon ec0u%e I h0d (et 1,%e(3 get out o3 %h0&e. I %t0rtedre0ding (og% 0nd ho2 other% 2ere 109ing their (i-ing %o(e(, 3ro1 on(ine inco1e. It ec01e

1, in%&ir0tion th0t it 20% &o%%i(e. I %t0rted &(0nning 1, o2n (i3e.

Three 1onth% (0ter 3ro1 th0t note: in Dece1er /*)*: I r0n 1, 3ir%t h0(3 10r0thon 2hi(e

%hedding )" &ound%. In Feru0r, /*)) I r0n 1, %econd e-en 30%ter. In th0t %01e 1onth I

%t0rted 1, (og Get Bu%, Li-ing.

The %01e ti1e I %t0rted 2or9 on 1, dre01: 0n i7hone 0&& c0((ed 7hoto ". In Augu%t: it

20% re(e0%ed. I h0d 1, go0(% %et high: ut it 2ent e,ond 1, i10gin0tion. * d0,% (0ter I h0d

e0rned 0 (itt(e o-er *:*** 03ter eing 3e0tured 0% A&& o3 the +ee9: in ;u%t 1, third 2ee9>

A% o3 0nu0r, ): /*): it h0% e0rned o-er @*:***. (You can read more about my storyhere

and here).

I h0-en't 0chie-ed e-er,thing I 20nt. Not e-en c(o%e ut I'1 2or9ing on it e-er,d0,. I

2ou(dn't e here right no2 2riting to ,ou i3 I didn't egin to t09e )**# re%&on%ii(it, 3or

e-er,thing th0t h0&&en% to 1e. I'1 &roud o3 th0t.

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99.5% Responsible isn't Enough

I3 ,ou 20nt to e %ucce%%3u( ,ou h0-e to t09e )**# re%&on%ii(it, 3or e-er,thing th0t ,ou

e8&erience in ,our (i3e. Not !*: !" or !!." &ercent. It'%

)** &ercent. Thi% inc(ude% ,our %ucce%%: 30i(ure%:

re(0tion%hi&%: he0(th: inco1e: det%: 3ee(ing% =

e-er,thing>

I thought I 20% in contro( o3 1, (i3e. I thought I h0d

10de the e%t deci%ion% &o%%i(e ut other &eo&(e 0nd

circu1%t0nce% %tood in 1, 20, to h0&&ine%%.

Loo9ing 0c9: I in 30ct (et other% 109e deci%ion% 3or 1e:deter1ined ho2 I 3e(t: in turn I cre0ted (i1iting e(ie3% 0nd e0%i(, g0-e u& 2hen thing% got

tough.

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The best years of your life are

the ones in which you decide

your problems are your own.You do not blame them on your

mother, the ecology, or the

president. You realize that you

control your own destiny.

- Albert Ellis
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I turned to 1ind(e%% 0cti-itie% th0t too9 1, 1ind o33 1, &ro(e1%. I 20tched (ot% o3

te(e-i%ion 0nd (o%t 1,%e(3 in the end(e%% in3or10tion on the internet. It 20% 1, 20, to

un2ind 0nd re(08.

I ui(t u& 1, o2n i10gin0r, &ri%on. Fro1 the out%ide 1, (i3e 10, h0-e %ee1ed &er3ect: ut

in%ide I 3e(t 0nger 0nd %0dne%%. I thought I 2ou(d ne-er 3ind 1, h0&&ine%%.

Thi% i% 2h, I 3e(t (o%t. Thi% i% 2h, I cou(dn?t 3ind 1, &0%%ion. Thi% i% 2h, I 3e(t %tuc9. Thi% i%

2h, I 3e(t un3u(3i((ed.

A3ter intro%&ection: I re0(i


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T09ing it 0(( 1e0n% ,ou under%t0nd ,ou?-e cre0ted e-er,thing th0t h0% h0&&ened to ,ou. 6ou

t09e tot0( re%&on%ii(it, 3or ,our (i3e: inc(uding the %ucce%%e% 0nd the 30i(ure%.

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Botto1 (ine i% th0t ,our (i3e i% de3ined , the deci%ion% ,ou 109e. Choo%ing one thing %h0&e%

2h0t h0&&en% ne8t. So1eti1e% it'% 0% %10(( 0% 2h0t to e0t to deciding on 0 ;o o33er.

I3 there 2ere choice% ,ou cou(d 109e th0t 2ou(d 109e (i3e etter: 2ou(dn?t ,ou 109e the1

6ou 2ou(d %0, o3 cour%e: ut th0t?% not 2h0t 1o%t &eo&(e do.

o%t 2ou(d r0ther not h0-e to 109e th0t choice 0nd &0%% it o33 to

%o1eone e(%e. Th0t'% gi-ing ,our &o2er 020,. Tho%e 2ho (i-ee8citing 0nd re10r90(e (i-e% t09e th0t &o2er into their o2n

h0nd%.

"ive #p Bl$ing

6ou 2i(( ne-er eco1e %ucce%%3u( 0% (ong 0% ,ou continue to (01e %o1eone or %o1ething 3or

,ou not 0chie-ing ,our go0(% 0nd dre01%.

+hen ,ou (01e other% it 1e0n% ,ou g0-e 020, ,our &o2er to contro( ,our (i3e. In%te0d o3

109ing 0 deci%ion: ,ou (et the1 0nd no2 ,ou?re (01ing the1 3or ,our 30i(ure.

)4 Getu%,(i-ing(og.co1

If you have time to whine

and complain about

something then you

have the time to do

something about it.

$&nthony %. '&ngelo


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I3 ,ou 20nt to 0chie-e 0(( ,our go0(% 0nd dre01% ,ou h0-e to under%t0nd it i% ,ou 2ho too9

the 0ction%: thought the thought%: cre0ted the 3ee(ing%: 0nd 10de choice% th0t got ,ou 2here

,ou 0re no2.

6ou 0re the one 2ho 0te ;un9 3ood.

6ou 0re the one th0t %t0,ed in the cr0&&, ;o.

6ou 0re the one th0t %t0,ed in the 0d re(0tion%hi&.

6ou 0re the one 2ho didn?t 0%9 3or he(&.

6ou 0re the one 2ho ought it.

6ou 0re the one th0t (i%tened to th0t &er%on.

6ou 0re the one 2ho %0id ,e%.

6ou 0re the one 2ho didn?t %0, no.

6ou 0re the one th0t in-e%ted the 1one,.

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A(( re%u(t% c01e 3ro1 ,our thought% 0nd 0ction%.

ontrol &our Thoughts

So 30r I?-e t0(9ed 0out 109ing con%ciou% choice% 2hen 109ing 0 deci%ion. There?% 0nother

20, ,ou c0n t09e 3u(( contro( o3 ,our (i3e. It h0% to do 2ith ,our re0ction to cert0in e-ent%.

Here i% 0n eu0tion %h0red , 0uthor 0c9 C0n3ie(d 2hen 0&&ro0ching %itu0tion%.

E$O

The E i% the e-ent.

The $ i% our re%&on%e to the e-ent.

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The O i% the outco1e 2hich de&end% on the $.

Be3ore i3 I didn?t (i9e the outco1e OJ: I 2ou(d (01e the e-ent% EJ. Th0t 20% 1, re0ction.

$J. , re0ction 20% 0%ed on 1, 0ttitude% 0nd ho2 I re0cted to &re-iou% %itu0tion%.

The e-ent c0n e ,our %&ou%e: the 2e0ther: the econo1,: ,our (0c9 o3 1one,: ,our o%%: ,our

(ong 2or9ing hour%: ,our (0c9 o3 e8&erience: 0nd %o on. O3 cour%e the%e 30ctor% do e8i%t: ut i3

the%e 2ere the deciding 30ctor% then nood, 2ou(d e-er %ucceed>

The%e 0re (i1iting 30ctor% in ,our 1ind. So 10n, &eo&(e h0-e thri-ed de%&ite 0(( tho%e 30ctor%

1entioned. So the%e 30ctor% 0ren't the &ro(e1%: it i% ,ou> 6ou %to& ,our%e(3>

The 9e, to the eu0tion i% the $ re%&on%eJ. I3 ,ou?re not h0&&, 2ith the outco1e: ch0nge

,our re%&on%e unti( ,ou get the outco1e ,ou 20nt.

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6our re%&on%e co1e% 3ro1 ,our thin9ing: the 20, ,ou co11unic0te: the &icture% ,ou ho(d in

,our he0d: 0nd ,our eh0-ior%.All these can be controlled by you.

Ho2e-er 2e'-e een conditioned to re0ct to cert0in %itu0tion% in 0 cert0in 20,. Th0t'% 2h0t

h0&&ened to 1e. +hen %o1ething 0d 2ou(d h0&&en: I 2ou(d h0-e 0 t,&ic0( re0ction. I

didn't thin9 0out ho2 I 20nted the outco1e. I re0cted 2ith 2h0t c01e n0tur0((,.

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A% it &0%%e% 0n hour the &eo&(e 20iting %ee1 to %&(it into three grou&%. One grou& i% en;o,ing

the1%e(-e%: t0(9ing to e0ch other: h0-ing 0 drin9: 0nd 20iting &0tient(,. The ne8t grou&

%t0rted (i9e th0t: ut i% no2 getting 0 it i1&0tient. The (0%t grou& i% 3uriou%. The, de10nd to9no2 2h, it?% t09ing %o (ong. There?% %ti(( 0 cro2d o3 &eo&(e in the 20iting 0re0 0nd 2e?re

doing the e%t 2e c0n. It?% not enough 3or the1. The, (o%e their &0tience. So1e h0-e h0d

enough 0nd (e0-e. Other% decide to 9ee& 20iting: ut no2 the,?re c(e0r(, in 0 0d 1ood.

No2 i3 h0-ing 0 (ong 20it 20% the 10in -0ri0(e: e-er,one %hou(d h0-e een u&%et. But

e-er,one 20%n?t. It 20% their indi-idu0( re%&on%e to the (ong 20it th0t g0-e the1 their

&0rticu(0r outco1e. It?% under%t0nding i3 ,ou go out to e0t on the 2ee9end it?(( e u%, 0nd

,ou h0-e to 20it.

It?% deciding 2hether or not to 20it 0t the eginning. It?% 0 10tter o3 0ttitude 0nd eh0-ior

th0t cre0ted co1&(ete(, di33erent e8&erience%.

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opl$ining

+ho h0%n?t co1&(0ined in their (i3e to 0n,one Nood,. Ho2e-er: to e 100 res!onsible3or,our (i3e ,ou h0-e to gi-e u& co1&(0ining.

Do ,ou under%t0nd 2h, ,ou co1&(0inIt"s because you belie#e somethin$ or someone better

exists. You ha#e an ima$e of somethin$ you !refer but are un%illin$ to take risk and make

choices to make it ha!!en.

I3 ,ou didn?t thin9 there 20% 0 etter ;o: hou%e: o%%: %&ou%e: &0rtner: or 1ore 1one, : ,ou

cou(dn?t co1&(0in. There 2ou(d e nothing to co1&(0in 0out> 6ou 9no2 there'% no etter

o&tion 3or ,ou>

In%te0d ,ou 9no2 there?% %o1ething etter 3or ,ou %o ,ou co1&(0in: ut don?t do 0n,thing

0out it. Th0t'% the 9e,. Not doing 0n,thing 0out the %itu0tion.

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Do ,ou e-er co1&(0in 0out gr0-it, Do ,ou %0, &hy is $ra#ity kee!in$ me on the $round

todayO3 cour%e: ne-er. +e don?t co1&(0in 0out thing% 2e h0-e no &o2er o-er.

The %itu0tion% ,ou do co1&(0in 0out 0re one% th0t ,ou do h0-e contro( o-er. Do ,ou

co1&(0in 0out ,our ;o 6ou c0n ch0nge. Do ,ou co1&(0in 0out ,our 2eight 6ou c0n (o%e

2eight. Do ,ou co1&(0in 0out not h0-ing 1ore 1one, 6ou c0n 109e 1ore 1one,.

T09e 0 %econd 0nd thin9 o3 the thing% th0t ,ou h0-e co1&(0ined 0out (0te(,. o%t (i9e(, the,

0re %itu0tion% th0t c0n e re%o(-ed , 109ing ne2 choice%.

+h, don?t 2e uic9(, 0ct on the%e choice% +h, don't 2e do 0n,thing 0out it

It?% ec0u%e it %c0re% u%. There i% 0 (e-e( o3 ri%9 in-o(-ed. 6ou cou(d e une1&(o,ed: (e3t 0(one:

ro9e: ridicu(ed 0nd ;udged , other%. 6ou 1ight 30i(: 30ce con3ront0tion%: or ;u%t e 2rong.

09ing 0 ch0nge 1ight t09e ti1e: 1one, 0nd e33ort. It 1ight e di33icu(t or unco13ort0(e. It

t09e% 2or9. So 2h0t do 2e nor10((, do St0, &ut to 0-oid 0(( o3 the 0o-e 0nd continue to

co1&(0in.

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Either ,ou 0cce&t ,our %itu0tion or t09e the ri%9 o3 cre0ting the (i3e ,ou 20nt. 6ou 1u%t t09e

3u(( re%&on%ii(it, 3or ,our choice%. 09e ch0nge% or %to& co1&(0ining. It'% ,our choice.

+h0t 2ou(d ,ou choo%e

top pending Tie (ith opl$iners

The &eo&(e ,ou %&end the 1o%t ti1e 2ith %0,% 0 (ot 0out ,ou. 7er%on0( de-e(o&1ent guru

i1 $ohn %0,% th0t 2e 0re the 0-er0ge o3 the 3i-e &eo&(e 2e %&end the 1o%t ti1e 2ith. He

cou(d (oo9 0t tho%e 3i-e 3riend% 0nd 9no2 0(( 0out ,ou. It?% %c0r,: ut it?% true.

+e 0re in3(uenced , our 3riend% 2hether 2e 9no2 it or not. Friend% 2ho co1&(0in 0(( theti1e 0re one% th0t don?t t09e ri%9% to 109e ch0nge% in their (i-e%. The, ;u%t itch 0nd 1o0n

0(( d0, (ong. Do ,ou 20nt to e 0round &eo&(e (i9e th0t

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Not on(, th0t ut 2hen the,?re co1&(0ining ,ou?(( e 1ore inc(ined to co1&(0in to the1 too.

+h, i% it 2hen &eo&(e co1&(0in the, 0(20,% co1&(0in to the 2rong &er%on The, go to 2or9

0nd co1&(0in 0out their %&ou%e. The, go ho1e 0nd co1&(0in 0out their o%%. +h,

Bec0u%e it?% e0%ier. It t09e% gut% to te(( ,our o%% ho2 ,ou re0((, 3ee(. The %01e goe% 2ith ,our

%&ou%e.

O3 cour%e ,ou 20nt to t09e 0 1ore di&(o10tic 0&&ro0ch 2hen 30cing the1. In%te0d: (oo9 0t it

0% 109ing reue%t% 0nd t09ing 0ction to 2h0t ,ou 20nt. I3 ,ou 3ind ,our%e(3 in 0 re(0tion%hi&

,ou don?t (i9e: either 2or9 on it to 109e it etter or (e0-e. Do %o1ething. +or9 2ith ,our

o%%e% or 3ind 0nother ;o. Either 20, ,ou?(( get 0 ch0nge.

$e1e1er it?% u& to ,ou to 109e the ch0nge 0nd to do %o1ething di33erent. 6ou h0-e to

cre0te ,our re0(it,. On(, ,ou c0n do it. Don't e8&ect other% to do it 3or ,ou.



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)i*e Becoes +uch E$sier

Succe%%3u( &eo&(e do the unco13ort0(e 0nd t09e %te&% to cre0te their de%ired outco1e%. The,0ren?t &0%%i-e. The, t09e 0ction. The, don?t (0, (01e on their 30i(ure%.

I3 ,ou egin to 109e con%ciou% deci%ion% uic9(, 0nd deci%i-e(,: (i3e eco1e% 1uch e0%ier.

In%te0d o3 3ee(ing (i9e 0 -icti1 or 3ee(ing nothing e-er 2or9% out: ,ou %t0rt to 3ee( in contro(.

6ou 0re the CEO o3 ,our o2n (i3e. No one contro(% ,our thought% or ,our 0ction% ut ,ou.

No 10tter the outco1e o3 0 deci%ion: ,ou c0n %0, to ,our%e(3 I made this choice. You h0-e

thi% 2onder3u( &o2er to %h0&e ,our 3uture.

Are &ou Willing to t$rt ontrolling &our ,uture!Beco1ing %o1eone 2ho t09e% )**# re%&on%ii(it, i%n?t e0%,. I3 it 2ere th0t e0%, e-er,one

2ou(d e (i-ing their dre01 (i-e%.

/4 Getu%,(i-ing(og.co1


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It reuire% 020rene%%: di%ci&(ine 0nd 0 2i((ingne%% to t09e ri%9%. 6ou h0-e to e 2i((ing to &0,

0ttention to 2h0t ,ou 0re doing 0nd to the re%u(t% ,ou 0re &roducing.

Li3e 2i(( 0(20,% gi-e ,ou 3eed0c9 0out the e33ect% o3 ,our eh0-ior i3 ,ou ;u%t &0, 0ttention.

Notice 2h0t i% going 2rong. 0,e ,ou?re 3ighting 1ore 2ith ,our %&ou%e: ,our 9id% 0ren?t

(i%tening to ,ou: ,ou?re 0(20,% tired 0nd 2e09: ,our &0nt% 0re getting tighter de%&ite

e8erci%ing. Thi% i% 0(( 3eed0c9. It i% te((ing ,ou %o1ething i% 2rong. Thi% i% the ti1e to %t0rt

&0,ing 0ttention to 2h0t?% h0&&ening.

So1e ue%tion% to 0%9 ,our%e(3...

Ho2 01 I cre0ting or 0((o2ing thi% to h0&&en

+h0t 01 I doing th0t?% 2or9ing th0t I need to do 1ore o3

+h0t 01 I doing th0t?% not 2or9ing

+h0t do I need to do (e%% o3

/" Getu%,(i-ing(og.co1


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+h0t 01 I not doing th0t I need to tr, on to %ee i3 it 2or9%

In onclusion

6ou 0re the one 2ho i% cre0ting ,our (i3e the 20, it i%. 6our (i3e: u& to thi% &oint: i% the re%u(t

o3 0(( ,our &0%t thought% 0nd 0ction%.If this hasn't been your ideal life consider today a

%ake u! call to %ake u! the !o%er of choosin$.

6ou contro( ,our current thought% 0nd 3ee(ing%. 6ou contro( 2h0t ,ou do 0nd 2h0t ,ou %0,.

6ou contro( 2h0t ,ou 3eed ,our 1ind. 6ou contro( 2ho ,ou h0ng out 2ith. 6ou contro( the

3ood ,ou &ut into ,our 1outh. E-er, 0ction i% under ,our contro(.

To e 1ore %ucce%%3u(: ,ou ;u%t h0-e to 0ct in 20,% th0t &roduce 1ore o3 2h0t ,ou 20nt.

6ou on(, h0-e thi% one (i3e to (i-e. No 10tter ,our 0ge: ,ou %ti(( h0-e the &o2er to t09e ,our

(i3e in 0n, direction ,ou 20nt.



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Do ,ou 20nt to cre0te ,ou o2n (i3e Do ,ou 20nt to h0-e ,our o2n ru(e% 3or ,our (i3e

I3 ,ou'-e %trugg(ed to 3ind %ucce%%: h0&&ine%%: 0nd e8cite1ent in ,our (i3e: I ho&e ,ou 2i((

%t0rt to 109e choice% 0nd deci%ion% in%te0d o3 (e0-ing it u& to other%.

Nood, %0id it 2ou(d e e0%,: ut tho%e 2ho t09e )**# re%&on%ii(it, 3or e-er,thing th0t

h0&&en% in their (i3e: 2i(( (i-e one -er, re10r90(e (i3e.

/@ Getu%,(i-ing(og.co1


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Who $ I!I'1 Benn, 0nd I 2rite 0t et *usy +i#in$

2here I in%&ire &eo&(e to %t0rt (i-ing 0nd not

;u%t e8i%ting.

I 0(%o h0-e 0n i7hone 0&& co1&0n, c0((ed Get

Bu%, Li-ing LLC.

I'-e de-e(o&ed 0 %econd i7hone 0&&:Gr0titude ourn0( ".

6ou c0n 3ind 1e 0t Getu%,(i-ing(og.co1

T2itter Benn,H%u

F0ceoo9M 30ceoo9.co1getu%,(i-ingno2

6ou c0n 0(%o e10i( 1e 0t

enn,h%ug10i(.co1

7(e0%e e10i( 1e 0nd (et 1e 9no2 2h0t ,ou

thought o3 the oo9.

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Did This Inspire &ou!

I3 ,ou got %o1ething out o3 thi% 3ree eoo9: I 2ou(d re0((, 0&&reci0te it i3 ,ou cou(d %h0re it2ith 0 3riend. u%t e10i( the1 thi% 7DF.

I?d (i9e to %ee 0% 10n, &eo&(e 0% &o%%i(e e 0(e to ui(d 0 3ound0tion 3or 0 2onder3u( (i3e.

Being )**# re%&on%i(e 3or e-er,thing ,ou e8&erience i% the 3ir%t %te&.

Ho2 ,ou c0n he(& %&re0d the 2ordM

Email a friend. end this to someone youthin9 2ou(d ene3it 3ro1 it.

!eave a revie" on #ma$on.com. The absolute coolest thing you could do 2ou(d

e 2rite 0 re-ie2 there. I do o33er the oo9 3or 0 %10(( &rice there: ut ,ou got it 3or 3ree c0u%e

,ou ec01e 0 %u%crier. u%t go to 1, A10


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Th0n9 ,ou -er, 1uch 3or t09ing the ti1e to re0d thi%.

I3 ,ou h0-e 0n, ue%tion%: co11ent%: or need %o1e he(& getting %t0rted

on t09ing )**# re%&on%ii(it, 3or ,our (i3e:

&(e0%e don't he%it0te to e10i( 1eenn,h%ug10i(.co1

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