From the Principal · Isabelle Filliozat. Isabelle Filliozat is a clinical psychologist...
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MON 13 TO FRIDAY 24
NOVEMBER
Pre Primary
Swimming Lessons
FRI 17 NOVEMBER
Assembly—Choir @
8.30am
WED 22 November
BYOD Information
Evening @ 6.00pm
FRI 24 NOVEMBER
Advent Liturgy
MON 27 NOVEMBER
School AGM @ 6.00pm
N E W S L E T T E R
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Dear Parents,
Year 6 Camp
Congratulations to our Year Six class on the way they
represented themselves and the school on camp. Camp is always very taxing but great fun, and
hugely rewarding for all who participate. Many thanks to Mr
Yorke, Mrs Tomlinson and Mrs D’Alessandro for their time and energy, and to the Year Six class
for making it such an enjoyable and memorable experience. The
highlight for me was seeing and hearing about the leadership and teamwork displayed by the
students as they challenged themselves and each other to
complete tasks that may have seemed daunting and in some cases impossible. It is amazing
what can be achieved when we all work together for a common
goal.. Happiness never decreases by being
Notice of School Annual General Meeting
The Board of St Patrick’s Primary School invites you to attend the
Annual School Community Meeting at 6.00pm on Monday 27th November 2017.
The purpose of the half hour
meeting will be to give the school community a report on the Board’s activities during the past
year, Principal’s report on school activities, present a Provisional
Budget for the ensuing year and, most importantly, to elect
From the Principal
St Patrick’s Primary School
8 Ellen Street
Fremantle WA 6160
(08) 9335 5215
www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au
Dates
For the
Diary
members to the Board who have
an interest and can share their gifts in the welfare of the
students and are eager to promote Catholic schooling. It is not a forum for general
questions. There are two vacancies for the Board and we
hope you will consider nominating.
Election of Board for 2018: The School Board is accountable
to the Catholic Education Commission of Western Australia (CECWA). Its task is to help the
Catholic school achieve its educational responsibilities in
accord with CECWA policies, guidelines and procedures and
any Diocesan guidelines and prescriptions for religious education. The School Board is
responsible for financial management and planning and
for provision of advice in the formulation of school policy. The Board has no responsibility for
the administration of the school. The Principal is the Chief
Executive Officer of the school and is responsible for the day-to-day management of the school
and for the implementation of policies.
If you wish to nominate yourself for election to the School Board
please indicate your intention to nominate with the school’s
Administration.
John Ryan
Principal
Community
Christian Meditation
Every Wednesday
8.10am in the Library. Everyone
welcome!
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For the school calendar, click on the following link:
www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/calendar.php
Surf Online Safe
Thank you to the parents who attended Paul
Litherland’s presentation, Surf Online Safe, on Monday night.
We have now uploaded Paul’s latest newsletter about internet safety on to our
website.
If you were unable to attend the presentation and would like to catch up on what you missed, go to http://
www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/parentinfo.html.
Please click on the following links for more
information about the resources that were mentioned in last week’s Reading Workshop:
For spelling: https://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-spell-in-3-simple-steps/
For reading: https://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-read-in-3-simple-steps/
Socktober
Reading Workshop
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Tickets to our High
Tea are still
available.
If you would like to
enjoy an afternoon
of fine food and
beverages, please
purchase your ticket
from the school
office.
PS. Bring a friend!
Forthcoming Events
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Christmas Appeal
Donations of
hampers or cash can be
left at the school office.
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Around St Pat’s
Left and above—Pre Primary students were dressed to
impress on Melbourne Cup day.
Left and above—On Monday the Year 5
and 6 students learned about cyber-safety with Paul Litherland.
Left—On Friday 10th
November, the whole school
assembled for a very poignant Remembrance Day
ceremony, in lieu of the 11th hour of the
11th day of the 11th month.
Quote of the Day
“Thousands of candles
can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will
not be shortened. Happiness never
decreases by being shared”
----Buddha
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Year 2 Excursion to Fremantle Prison
By Lincoln
“We left school today and went to the Fremantle Prison. When we got there we lined up and waited for Steve the guide. Next we lined up and
talked about the rules. They are: no running, no shutting the doors or they will auto lock, no being
rude, and no shutting cell doors.
So we went in and when we got in Steve started talking about the cells. He said the small cells
are old and the bigger ones are new. It was very interesting. So we had a look. It was cool. In
there we could see the cool art. Then we heard Moondyne Joe escaped the prison 5 TIMES. Then we saw the ghost face that was made by Martha
that killed her grandsons but you don’t need to know any more yucky stuff like that. The
gallows, let’s not talk about this too much. They killed people there. Let’s not talk about this any more—it’s gross. Once in 1851 a prisoner set the
prison on fire and then they escaped but they got
caught again.
Then we saw where Moondyne Joe got chained up
for a week on the floor. Yeah, not nice.
Then we saw that you got whipped if you were
bad in prison.
Around St Pat’s
After 5 or 6 you would be screaming,
after 30 you would have lumps, after 100 you would have blood on your
back, and lots of blood. After 150 or 200 you would have fainted. But they didn’t do that many. Then we left and
that was what we did at Fremantle
Prison.”
The end!
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From Our Counsellor
How to end screen time without a
struggle
By Anita Lehmann
Do you ever struggle with getting your kids off the screen? Does it often end in tears
(both theirs and yours)? Like so many other
parents, I used to give my children warning.
“Five more minutes, then it’s dinner!” I’d yell
from the kitchen.
This statement would either be ignored or
grunted at.
Five minutes later, I’d march into the living
room and turn the TV/tablet/gadget off, expecting them to silently accept and for us
all to have a lovely, quiet dinner together.
Cue screams. Cue tantrums. Cue cold
dinner. Cue grey hairs.
I realized something was wrong. Something was wrong in the way I was approaching the issue. My children aren’t naturally prone to
tantrums, so I was thrown by this. I couldn’t work out what I could do to stop the sudden
screaming at the end of every screen-time.
I wanted to find a way of gently disconnecting my children from the screen,
of bringing them back into the real world without continual bumps and bruises along
the way (because this happened almost every night), but I didn’t know how. Then a friend introduced me to a little trick by
Isabelle Filliozat.
Isabelle Filliozat is a clinical psychologist
specializing in positive parenting. She is the author of many books about children’s education, and an authority on gentle
parenting in the French speaking world. From one day to the next, my world
changed. I suddenly knew how to handle the end of screen-time without the screams, the
tantrums, the cold dinner, or the grey hairs.
Here is Isabelle Filliozat’s very simple method to end screen-time without the
screams.
The science behind screen-time
Have you ever had the electricity cut off just as the football game reached its most nerve-
wracking stage?
Or your toddler pressed the “off” switch just as the protagonists in the deeply engrossing
romantic comedy were finally going to kiss?
Or you ran out of power just as you were
going to kill that alien and move up a level?
It’s hard to come out of the state of pleasure, which is what screen-time creates
in our brains. It’s hard for adults. For a child, it can be terrible. Literally. Here, according
to Isabelle Filliozat, is why.
When we human beings (not only children!) are absorbed in a film or playing a computer
game, we are, mentally, in another world. Screens are hypnotic to our brains. The light,
the sounds, the rhythm of the images puts the brain into a state of flow. We feel
good, and don’t want to do anything else. We certainly don’t want the situation to
change.
During these moments, our brains produce dopamine, a neurotransmitter which relieves
stress-and pain. All is well – that is, until the screen is turned off. The dopamine levels in the body drop fast and without warning,
which can, literally, create a sensation of pain in the body. This drop in hormones, this
physical shock, is where children’s scream-
time begins.
It doesn’t matter that we parents are quite
clear that now is the end of screen-time. After all, we’d discussed and arranged it
beforehand (”20 minutes!”), and/or given them warning (“5 more minutes!”). To us, it’s clear and fair enough, but to the child, it
isn’t. When in front of a screen, she isn’t in a state to think that way or to take that
information in. Her brain is awash with dopamine, remember? To turn the “off” switch on the television can, for the child,
feel like a shock of physical pain.
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You’re not exactly slapping her in the face,
but this is, neurologically speaking, how it
might feel to her.
Cutting her off forcefully is hurtful. So instead of simply switching the “off” button, the trick is not to cut her off, but to instead
enter her zone.
The trick: build a bridge
Whenever you decide that screen-time should come to an end, take a moment to sit
down next to your child and enter his world. Watch TV with him, or sit with him while he
plays his game massacring aliens on the screen. This doesn’t have to be long, half a minute is enough. Just share his experience.
Then, ask him a question about it.
“What are you watching?” might work for
some kids.
Others might need more specific questions. “So what level are you on now?” or “That’s a
funny figure there in the background. Who’s
he?”
Generally, children love it when their parents take an interest in their world. If they are too absorbed still and don’t engage, don’t
give up. Just sit with them a moment longer,
then ask another question.
Once the child starts answering your questions or tells you something she has seen or done on screen, it means that she is
coming out of the “cut-off” zone and back into the real world. She’s coming out of the
state of flow and back into a zone where she is aware of your existence – but slowly. The dopamine doesn’t drop abruptly, because
you’ve built a bridge – a bridge between where she is and where you are. You can
start to communicate, and this is where the
magic happens.
You can choose to start discussing with your
child that it’s time to eat, to go have his
bath, or simply that screen-time is over now.
From Our Counsellor
Because of the minute of easing-in, your
child will be in a space where he can listen and react to your request. He might even
have been smoothed back into the real world gently enough, and is so happy about the parental attention that he wants to turn off
the TV/tablet/computer himself. (I’ve experienced my children do this, hand to
heart.)
To me, simply the awareness of what’s going on in my children’s minds helps me handle
end-of-screen-time much better than before. It isn’t always as smooth as I want it to be,
but we haven’t had a scream-time incident since I discovered Isabelle Filliozat’s little
trick.
Don’t take my word for it, go and try it
yourself
Next time your child is sitting in front of a
screen, and you want to end it, try this:
Sit with her for 30 seconds, a minute,
or longer, and simply watch whatever
she is watching/doing.
Ask an innocent question about what’s
happening on screen. Most children love their parent’s attention, and will
provide answers.
Once you’ve created a dialogue, you’ve
created a bridge – a bridge that will allow your child to, in his mind and body, step from screen back into the
real world, without hormones in free-
fall, and therefore without crisis.
Enjoy the rest of your day together.
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P & F News
For all of you who attended Monday night’s Cyber Safety Presentation for parents by Paul
Litherland we hope you all enjoyed it and got a lot from it. Particularly for the Year 5 & 6 parents, we hope you were able to go home and discuss what you learnt with what their
children also learnt from their afternoon presentation. This will be something that the P&F will try to continue and do every second year, so if you missed out be sure not to miss it in
2019!
Thank you very much for those parents who have put their hands up to continue or take on the role of class reps for their classes in 2018. There are still a few classes in need of reps
so please consider this for your class and let your current rep know. It’s always great to be
able to start the new school year with reps in place.
Dates for your diaries;
Term 4
School AGM – Monday 27th November
Edu Dance Concert – Wednesday 6th December – iPad raffle drawn
Peta Evans, President
on behalf of the P&F Exec Committee
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Parish News “Let us love, not with words, but with
deeds.” (1Jn 3:18)
To mark the Inaugural World Day of
the Poor on 19 November, why not show your support of the poor both abroad and locally.
Join us on Thursday 14 December,
7pm at The Basilica of St Patrick, Fremantle for a captivating and beautiful evening of sacred music,
readings and congregational carols to highlight the meaning of the
Christmas Gospel in our world today. Emeritus Bishop Justin Bianchini will give the reflection.
Music from Eva-Marie Middleton
(soprano), Paul Wright (violin),
Dominic Perissinotto (organ) and The Basilica Choir.
Proceeds to Catholic Mission’s work in support of maternal and child health in Uganda.
Tickets $30, Concessions $20, 12 and under free. Add another ticket to your order for just $10 and we will give that ticket to a homeless or otherwise disadvantaged person so they
too can share in the beauty of Christmas and enjoy a light supper beforehand. Booking, www.trybooking.com/SWMO or at the door.
Community News
Seton Catholic College Enrolments Seton Catholic College warmly extends an invitation to discuss your child’s education with
us. Our main intake is Year 7, however there are limited places available in Years 8 - 12. First round applications for enrolment considerations for Year 7 students in 2020 are now open and close on December 14th 2017. Please contact [email protected] to register
your interest and also receive information about our Open Day in March.
WAAPA Summer School 2017/2018 This summer The Western Australian Academy of Performing Arts (WAAPA) is again offering
an exciting school holiday program for students in years 4 to 12. The Summer School in-cludes classes in dance, drama, acting, screen performance, music theatre and of course,
how to perform Shakespeare. For information about the fantastic courses on offer please visit WAAPA Summer School or contact Gabrielle Metcalf at [email protected] or 9370 6775.
http://www.trybooking.com/SWMOmailto:[email protected]://www.waapa.ecu.edu.au/corporate-training-and-short-courses/explore-short-coursesmailto:[email protected]