From the Principal · Isabelle Filliozat. Isabelle Filliozat is a clinical psychologist...

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1 MON 13 TO FRIDAY 24 NOVEMBER Pre Primary Swimming Lessons FRI 17 NOVEMBER Assembly—Choir @ 8.30am WED 22 November BYOD Information Evening @ 6.00pm FRI 24 NOVEMBER Advent Liturgy MON 27 NOVEMBER School AGM @ 6.00pm NEWSLETTER 16NOVEMBER 2017 Dear Parents, Year 6 Camp Congratulations to our Year Six class on the way they represented themselves and the school on camp. Camp is always very taxing but great fun, and hugely rewarding for all who participate. Many thanks to Mr Yorke, Mrs Tomlinson and Mrs D’Alessandro for their time and energy, and to the Year Six class for making it such an enjoyable and memorable experience. The highlight for me was seeing and hearing about the leadership and teamwork displayed by the students as they challenged themselves and each other to complete tasks that may have seemed daunting and in some cases impossible. It is amazing what can be achieved when we all work together for a common goal.. Happiness never decreases by being Notice of School Annual General Meeting The Board of St Patrick’s Primary School invites you to attend the Annual School Community Meeting at 6.00pm on Monday 27 th November 2017. The purpose of the half hour meeting will be to give the school community a report on the Board’s activities during the past year, Principal’s report on school activities, present a Provisional Budget for the ensuing year and, most importantly, to elect From the Principal St Patrick’s Primary School 8 Ellen Street Fremantle WA 6160 (08) 9335 5215 [email protected] www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au Dates For the Diary members to the Board who have an interest and can share their gifts in the welfare of the students and are eager to promote Catholic schooling. It is not a forum for general questions. There are two vacancies for the Board and we hope you will consider nominating. Election of Board for 2018: The School Board is accountable to the Catholic Education Commission of Western Australia (CECWA). Its task is to help the Catholic school achieve its educational responsibilities in accord with CECWA policies, guidelines and procedures and any Diocesan guidelines and prescriptions for religious education. The School Board is responsible for financial management and planning and for provision of advice in the formulation of school policy. The Board has no responsibility for the administration of the school. The Principal is the Chief Executive Officer of the school and is responsible for the day-to- day management of the school and for the implementation of policies. If you wish to nominate yourself for election to the School Board please indicate your intention to nominate with the school’s Administration. John Ryan Principal Community Christian Meditation Every Wednesday 8.10am in the Library. Everyone welcome!

Transcript of From the Principal · Isabelle Filliozat. Isabelle Filliozat is a clinical psychologist...

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    MON 13 TO FRIDAY 24

    NOVEMBER

    Pre Primary

    Swimming Lessons

    FRI 17 NOVEMBER

    Assembly—Choir @

    8.30am

    WED 22 November

    BYOD Information

    Evening @ 6.00pm

    FRI 24 NOVEMBER

    Advent Liturgy

    MON 27 NOVEMBER

    School AGM @ 6.00pm

    N E W S L E T T E R

    1 6 N O V E M B E R

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    Dear Parents,

    Year 6 Camp

    Congratulations to our Year Six class on the way they

    represented themselves and the school on camp. Camp is always very taxing but great fun, and

    hugely rewarding for all who participate. Many thanks to Mr

    Yorke, Mrs Tomlinson and Mrs D’Alessandro for their time and energy, and to the Year Six class

    for making it such an enjoyable and memorable experience. The

    highlight for me was seeing and hearing about the leadership and teamwork displayed by the

    students as they challenged themselves and each other to

    complete tasks that may have seemed daunting and in some cases impossible. It is amazing

    what can be achieved when we all work together for a common

    goal.. Happiness never decreases by being

    Notice of School Annual General Meeting

    The Board of St Patrick’s Primary School invites you to attend the

    Annual School Community Meeting at 6.00pm on Monday 27th November 2017.

    The purpose of the half hour

    meeting will be to give the school community a report on the Board’s activities during the past

    year, Principal’s report on school activities, present a Provisional

    Budget for the ensuing year and, most importantly, to elect

    From the Principal

    St Patrick’s Primary School

    8 Ellen Street

    Fremantle WA 6160

    (08) 9335 5215

    [email protected]

    www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au

    Dates

    For the

    Diary

    members to the Board who have

    an interest and can share their gifts in the welfare of the

    students and are eager to promote Catholic schooling. It is not a forum for general

    questions. There are two vacancies for the Board and we

    hope you will consider nominating.

    Election of Board for 2018: The School Board is accountable

    to the Catholic Education Commission of Western Australia (CECWA). Its task is to help the

    Catholic school achieve its educational responsibilities in

    accord with CECWA policies, guidelines and procedures and

    any Diocesan guidelines and prescriptions for religious education. The School Board is

    responsible for financial management and planning and

    for provision of advice in the formulation of school policy. The Board has no responsibility for

    the administration of the school. The Principal is the Chief

    Executive Officer of the school and is responsible for the day-to-day management of the school

    and for the implementation of policies.

    If you wish to nominate yourself for election to the School Board

    please indicate your intention to nominate with the school’s

    Administration.

    John Ryan

    Principal

    Community

    Christian Meditation

    Every Wednesday

    8.10am in the Library. Everyone

    welcome!

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    For the school calendar, click on the following link:

    www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/calendar.php

    Surf Online Safe

    Thank you to the parents who attended Paul

    Litherland’s presentation, Surf Online Safe, on Monday night.

    We have now uploaded Paul’s latest newsletter about internet safety on to our

    website.

    If you were unable to attend the presentation and would like to catch up on what you missed, go to http://

    www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/parentinfo.html.

    Please click on the following links for more

    information about the resources that were mentioned in last week’s Reading Workshop:

    For spelling: https://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-spell-in-3-simple-steps/

    For reading: https://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-read-in-3-simple-steps/

    Socktober

    Reading Workshop

    http://www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/calendar.phphttp://www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/parentinfo.htmlhttp://www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/parentinfo.htmlhttp://www.stpatsfremantle.wa.edu.au/parentinfo.htmlhttps://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-spell-in-3-simple-steps/https://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-spell-in-3-simple-steps/https://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-read-in-3-simple-steps/https://pld-literacy.org/product/teach-a-child-to-read-in-3-simple-steps/

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    Tickets to our High

    Tea are still

    available.

    If you would like to

    enjoy an afternoon

    of fine food and

    beverages, please

    purchase your ticket

    from the school

    office.

    PS. Bring a friend!

    Forthcoming Events

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    Christmas Appeal

    Donations of

    hampers or cash can be

    left at the school office.

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    Around St Pat’s

    Left and above—Pre Primary students were dressed to

    impress on Melbourne Cup day.

    Left and above—On Monday the Year 5

    and 6 students learned about cyber-safety with Paul Litherland.

    Left—On Friday 10th

    November, the whole school

    assembled for a very poignant Remembrance Day

    ceremony, in lieu of the 11th hour of the

    11th day of the 11th month.

    Quote of the Day

    “Thousands of candles

    can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will

    not be shortened. Happiness never

    decreases by being shared”

    ----Buddha

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    Year 2 Excursion to Fremantle Prison

    By Lincoln

    “We left school today and went to the Fremantle Prison. When we got there we lined up and waited for Steve the guide. Next we lined up and

    talked about the rules. They are: no running, no shutting the doors or they will auto lock, no being

    rude, and no shutting cell doors.

    So we went in and when we got in Steve started talking about the cells. He said the small cells

    are old and the bigger ones are new. It was very interesting. So we had a look. It was cool. In

    there we could see the cool art. Then we heard Moondyne Joe escaped the prison 5 TIMES. Then we saw the ghost face that was made by Martha

    that killed her grandsons but you don’t need to know any more yucky stuff like that. The

    gallows, let’s not talk about this too much. They killed people there. Let’s not talk about this any more—it’s gross. Once in 1851 a prisoner set the

    prison on fire and then they escaped but they got

    caught again.

    Then we saw where Moondyne Joe got chained up

    for a week on the floor. Yeah, not nice.

    Then we saw that you got whipped if you were

    bad in prison.

    Around St Pat’s

    After 5 or 6 you would be screaming,

    after 30 you would have lumps, after 100 you would have blood on your

    back, and lots of blood. After 150 or 200 you would have fainted. But they didn’t do that many. Then we left and

    that was what we did at Fremantle

    Prison.”

    The end!

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    From Our Counsellor

    How to end screen time without a

    struggle

    By Anita Lehmann

    Do you ever struggle with getting your kids off the screen? Does it often end in tears

    (both theirs and yours)? Like so many other

    parents, I used to give my children warning.

    “Five more minutes, then it’s dinner!” I’d yell

    from the kitchen.

    This statement would either be ignored or

    grunted at.

    Five minutes later, I’d march into the living

    room and turn the TV/tablet/gadget off, expecting them to silently accept and for us

    all to have a lovely, quiet dinner together.

    Cue screams. Cue tantrums. Cue cold

    dinner. Cue grey hairs.

    I realized something was wrong. Something was wrong in the way I was approaching the issue. My children aren’t naturally prone to

    tantrums, so I was thrown by this. I couldn’t work out what I could do to stop the sudden

    screaming at the end of every screen-time.

    I wanted to find a way of gently disconnecting my children from the screen,

    of bringing them back into the real world without continual bumps and bruises along

    the way (because this happened almost every night), but I didn’t know how. Then a friend introduced me to a little trick by

    Isabelle Filliozat.

    Isabelle Filliozat is a clinical psychologist

    specializing in positive parenting. She is the author of many books about children’s education, and an authority on gentle

    parenting in the French speaking world. From one day to the next, my world

    changed. I suddenly knew how to handle the end of screen-time without the screams, the

    tantrums, the cold dinner, or the grey hairs.

    Here is Isabelle Filliozat’s very simple method to end screen-time without the

    screams.

    The science behind screen-time

    Have you ever had the electricity cut off just as the football game reached its most nerve-

    wracking stage?

    Or your toddler pressed the “off” switch just as the protagonists in the deeply engrossing

    romantic comedy were finally going to kiss?

    Or you ran out of power just as you were

    going to kill that alien and move up a level?

    It’s hard to come out of the state of pleasure, which is what screen-time creates

    in our brains. It’s hard for adults. For a child, it can be terrible. Literally. Here, according

    to Isabelle Filliozat, is why.

    When we human beings (not only children!) are absorbed in a film or playing a computer

    game, we are, mentally, in another world. Screens are hypnotic to our brains. The light,

    the sounds, the rhythm of the images puts the brain into a state of flow. We feel

    good, and don’t want to do anything else. We certainly don’t want the situation to

    change.

    During these moments, our brains produce dopamine, a neurotransmitter which relieves

    stress-and pain. All is well – that is, until the screen is turned off. The dopamine levels in the body drop fast and without warning,

    which can, literally, create a sensation of pain in the body. This drop in hormones, this

    physical shock, is where children’s scream-

    time begins.

    It doesn’t matter that we parents are quite

    clear that now is the end of screen-time. After all, we’d discussed and arranged it

    beforehand (”20 minutes!”), and/or given them warning (“5 more minutes!”). To us, it’s clear and fair enough, but to the child, it

    isn’t. When in front of a screen, she isn’t in a state to think that way or to take that

    information in. Her brain is awash with dopamine, remember? To turn the “off” switch on the television can, for the child,

    feel like a shock of physical pain.

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    You’re not exactly slapping her in the face,

    but this is, neurologically speaking, how it

    might feel to her.

    Cutting her off forcefully is hurtful. So instead of simply switching the “off” button, the trick is not to cut her off, but to instead

    enter her zone.

    The trick: build a bridge

    Whenever you decide that screen-time should come to an end, take a moment to sit

    down next to your child and enter his world. Watch TV with him, or sit with him while he

    plays his game massacring aliens on the screen. This doesn’t have to be long, half a minute is enough. Just share his experience.

    Then, ask him a question about it.

    “What are you watching?” might work for

    some kids.

    Others might need more specific questions. “So what level are you on now?” or “That’s a

    funny figure there in the background. Who’s

    he?”

    Generally, children love it when their parents take an interest in their world. If they are too absorbed still and don’t engage, don’t

    give up. Just sit with them a moment longer,

    then ask another question.

    Once the child starts answering your questions or tells you something she has seen or done on screen, it means that she is

    coming out of the “cut-off” zone and back into the real world. She’s coming out of the

    state of flow and back into a zone where she is aware of your existence – but slowly. The dopamine doesn’t drop abruptly, because

    you’ve built a bridge – a bridge between where she is and where you are. You can

    start to communicate, and this is where the

    magic happens.

    You can choose to start discussing with your

    child that it’s time to eat, to go have his

    bath, or simply that screen-time is over now.

    From Our Counsellor

    Because of the minute of easing-in, your

    child will be in a space where he can listen and react to your request. He might even

    have been smoothed back into the real world gently enough, and is so happy about the parental attention that he wants to turn off

    the TV/tablet/computer himself. (I’ve experienced my children do this, hand to

    heart.)

    To me, simply the awareness of what’s going on in my children’s minds helps me handle

    end-of-screen-time much better than before. It isn’t always as smooth as I want it to be,

    but we haven’t had a scream-time incident since I discovered Isabelle Filliozat’s little

    trick.

    Don’t take my word for it, go and try it

    yourself

    Next time your child is sitting in front of a

    screen, and you want to end it, try this:

    Sit with her for 30 seconds, a minute,

    or longer, and simply watch whatever

    she is watching/doing.

    Ask an innocent question about what’s

    happening on screen. Most children love their parent’s attention, and will

    provide answers.

    Once you’ve created a dialogue, you’ve

    created a bridge – a bridge that will allow your child to, in his mind and body, step from screen back into the

    real world, without hormones in free-

    fall, and therefore without crisis.

    Enjoy the rest of your day together.

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    P & F News

    For all of you who attended Monday night’s Cyber Safety Presentation for parents by Paul

    Litherland we hope you all enjoyed it and got a lot from it. Particularly for the Year 5 & 6 parents, we hope you were able to go home and discuss what you learnt with what their

    children also learnt from their afternoon presentation. This will be something that the P&F will try to continue and do every second year, so if you missed out be sure not to miss it in

    2019!

    Thank you very much for those parents who have put their hands up to continue or take on the role of class reps for their classes in 2018. There are still a few classes in need of reps

    so please consider this for your class and let your current rep know. It’s always great to be

    able to start the new school year with reps in place.

    Dates for your diaries;

    Term 4

    School AGM – Monday 27th November

    Edu Dance Concert – Wednesday 6th December – iPad raffle drawn

    Peta Evans, President

    on behalf of the P&F Exec Committee

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    Parish News “Let us love, not with words, but with

    deeds.” (1Jn 3:18)

    To mark the Inaugural World Day of

    the Poor on 19 November, why not show your support of the poor both abroad and locally.

    Join us on Thursday 14 December,

    7pm at The Basilica of St Patrick, Fremantle for a captivating and beautiful evening of sacred music,

    readings and congregational carols to highlight the meaning of the

    Christmas Gospel in our world today. Emeritus Bishop Justin Bianchini will give the reflection.

    Music from Eva-Marie Middleton

    (soprano), Paul Wright (violin),

    Dominic Perissinotto (organ) and The Basilica Choir.

    Proceeds to Catholic Mission’s work in support of maternal and child health in Uganda.

    Tickets $30, Concessions $20, 12 and under free. Add another ticket to your order for just $10 and we will give that ticket to a homeless or otherwise disadvantaged person so they

    too can share in the beauty of Christmas and enjoy a light supper beforehand. Booking, www.trybooking.com/SWMO or at the door.

    Community News

    Seton Catholic College Enrolments Seton Catholic College warmly extends an invitation to discuss your child’s education with

    us. Our main intake is Year 7, however there are limited places available in Years 8 - 12. First round applications for enrolment considerations for Year 7 students in 2020 are now open and close on December 14th 2017. Please contact [email protected] to register

    your interest and also receive information about our Open Day in March.

    WAAPA Summer School 2017/2018 This summer The Western Australian Academy of Performing Arts (WAAPA) is again offering

    an exciting school holiday program for students in years 4 to 12. The Summer School in-cludes classes in dance, drama, acting, screen performance, music theatre and of course,

    how to perform Shakespeare. For information about the fantastic courses on offer please visit WAAPA Summer School or contact Gabrielle Metcalf at [email protected] or 9370 6775.

    http://www.trybooking.com/SWMOmailto:[email protected]://www.waapa.ecu.edu.au/corporate-training-and-short-courses/explore-short-coursesmailto:[email protected]