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    Whatothersaresayingaboutthismanualtoolkit:

    ThisisreallygoodmanuscriptIreallylikethewayyouusereallife

    examples.

    -ShurvonHayes

    Mr.Amonshowsthatifyoubelievethebestwaytocontrolofonesown

    mind,istositbackandthink.Veryfewofusreallytakethetimetosit

    downandthink.Alltheinformationontheplanetisatourfingertips,so

    onemustclearhisheadandbody.

    -ZakiAli

    Ifanyhumanbeingappliedwhatyouwroteitwouldmakethema

    righteousperson.Thegreatestgiftwecangivesomeoneisknowledge

    thatwillmakehimorherabetterperson,thankyoubro.-JamesMcDowell

    Mr.Amonawesomewisdomandknowledge.Keepbelievingandyou

    shallachieve!

    -Gum-LaiRoss

    Ilovetheideayouhaveinthisareaofmaterial.Yourbookisagreat

    read.

    -AjaniSnellingNovelAuthor

    Wemuststopgivingourselvestounnaturalpeople,thingsandideas.

    Ashumanbeings,wemustreturntothenaturalwayoflivingofbeingin

    touchwitheachotherandourselves.Themotivationforhealingmust

    startwithinonesself!

    -NeliahUhuruAsantewaa

    Mr.AmonsconceptinthismanualkitisaVERYPOWERFULone!He

    teachesustheimportanceofeducationourselvesfinancially,and

    surroundingourselveswithpositivepeopleandindividualswiththe

    drive,direction,andvisionssimilartothoseyouareworkingtoward.

    -CherylBlackford

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    Heruhascreatedapracticalguideforallages.Hetouchesonsubjects

    andmattersthatwillhelpindividualstakecontroloftheirlivesand

    theirowndestiny.Hehaschallengedyoutolookdeepinsideyourselfandconnectwiththeinnerenergytoovercomeobstaclesandbarriers

    thatmaybeinyourway.Hetrulywriteswiththeintenttomotivate,

    inspire,andtoinstillconfidenceintheabilitieshehighlightsthat

    everyonepossesses.

    -RashadC.Norris

    HeruAmonisapowerthoroughlyexpressingtheknowledgetothe

    peopleliketheairwebreathe(freely),favorableimpressingthoseof

    thoughttheprincipleofattainingadesireforfoodandwaterthemind

    needsthroughreadingandgoingoverallderivativesofwords,greatexampleofayoungblackgod,brotherHeruAmonhasinspiredmeto

    stepupmygame.Hisbookcreatesthoughtsomethingouryoungand

    oldforgot.

    -KhafreAmenRaHotep

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    CONTENTS

    ABOUTTHEAUTHOR

    WARNING-DISCLAIMER

    ACKNOWLEDGMENTSFOREWARDBYSUKUMAAVERY

    1.WHATAREYOUHEREFOR RESETTINGYOURROOTS DESIREOFNEEDS ADIFFERENTTHINKING HABITMAKING

    2.MINDOVERMATTER

    FORMULATINGYOURMIND SUBCONSCIOUSMINDCONTROL CREATIVEVISUALIZATION USINGYOUREMOTIONALTHOUGHTS

    3. POWEROFTHESPOKENWORD WHATYOUSAYISWHATYOUGET SELFTALK FAITHINONESELF FOODOFTHOUGHT

    4.BELIEVEORBELIEF SETTINGYOUROUTCOMES YOUROUTCOMEPLANNINGFORM OUTCOMESETTINGFORMULA EMBRACINGCHANGE CONSISTENCECREATESPERSISTENCE ACTIONMENTALITY EMBRACINGSUCCESS

    5.NOPLANNOWORK PLANYOURWORK,WORKYOURPLAN GROWYOURSELFBIGGERTHENTHEPROBLEM STOPTHEPROCRASTINATING/JUSTDOITNOW FOCUSACTIONS/MULTITASKING EMBRACINGFAILURES ISMYTIMENOTIMPORTANT KEEPONKEEPINGON

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    6.RELATINGWITHOTHERS USINGTHEHIGHESTSTIMULIOFTHEMIND SETTINGSEEDS THECHARACTERPEOPLESEEINYOU AMINEGATIVEORPOSITIVE ADMITTINGYOURFAULTS OPENINGYOURMINDTOOTHERS THEMOREYOUGIVE AHARVESTTOGETHER

    7. LEADERSCREATEOTHERLEADERS SETTINGTHEEXAMPLE CREATINGYOURFUTURE INTEGRITYCREATING

    UPDATEDLEADERS YOUAREYOUROWNSAVIOR WHATSNEXTCOACH/MENTORSHIP HOWDOYOUWANTTOLIVE PUTTINGITALLTOGETHER

    AFTER-WORD

    BONUSPACKAGEINFORMATION

    APPENDIX/CD-ROM

    EXTRAWORKSHOP/PROGRAMFORMS

    BIBLIOGRAPHYINDEX/SPRINKLES

    CONTACTINFORMATION/ORDERFORM

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    ABOUTTHEAUTHOR

    Heru-Amon

    FreedomFighter/Author/Publisher/Copywriter/Consultant/Marketeris

    veryconceptualandaninnovator.Heconstantlyisthinkingnew

    ideasandnewwaysinconnectingconcepts.NotonlydoesHeru

    havetheabilitytocreate,buthealsohastheskillsandknow-how

    inturningtheseideasintoreality.Heruisagifted,committedand

    talentedindividual.Heisfluidandmulti-facetedinhisapproachof

    creatingandworkingwithothers.

    Thebest-sellingguideonself-helpandpersonaldevelopmentthathasshownhundredsofpeoplehowtotakepossessionoftheirown

    minds.Whatisyourholdup?

    FounderofUniversalConceptsoftheMasterMindsGroup

    FounderofMySovereignWorldAssociation

    FounderofAutonomousLivingSocietyAssociation

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    WARNING-DISCLAIMER

    Ifyouarethetypeofpersonworriedaboutbadgrammarandmissed

    spelledwords,thissystemisnotforyou.Ontheotherhand,ifyouare

    thepersonlookingforastepbystepsystemthatwillhaveanimpacton

    yourlifethenyougottherightprogram.Theauthorandpublisherof

    thisbookandtheaccompanyingmaterialshaveusedtheirbestefforts

    inpreparingthisprogram.Theauthorandpublishermakeno

    representationorwarrantieswithrespecttotheaccuracy,applicability,

    fitness,orcompletenessofthecontentsofthisprogram.Theydisclaim

    anywarranties(expressedorimplied),merchantability,orfitnessfor

    anyparticularpurpose.ThisManualcontainsmaterialprotectedunder

    CopyrightLawsandTreaties.Anyunauthorizedreprintoruseofthis

    materialisprohibited.

    Youmayshareasmanycopiesasyoulike.Enjoy!

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    ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

    GivethankstoDailynnWebber,toHeatherJonesand

    familyforallyourlove,totheAveryfamily,NelsonDel

    Pino,Darryl&SarahBriceandFamily,NaziyrandFamily,JihadandFamilyZakiAliandFamily,KhafreAmen

    RaHotepandFamily,CherylBlackfordandFamily,Sukuma

    Avery,KwameAvery,ThomasRitchieandthefamily,

    NeliahUhuruAsantewaa,DorienHunterandFamily,

    GranddaddyandFamily,YoshikoHarden,Natasha

    Burrowes,JoshMagallanes,ChayudaOverby,Jonathan

    Brown,MartaReeves,Staff&facultyatHighline

    CommunityCollege,ZevSiegl,AaronReaderandFamily,AjaniSnelling,BazMoreno,thankstoallforthesupportin

    mylifejourneyandtowhomeverIdidnotlistyourinmy

    heart.

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    FORWARD

    Ifyouhadtheopportunityrightnowtositdownwithanexpertthat

    couldshowyouhowtoreset,reprogramthenegativethoughtsthatrun

    thoughyourmindonadailybasis,enablingyoutoachievemoreandgetthefinerthingsthatyoudesireinyourlife.

    Howwouldthatmakeadifferenceinyourbusinessworld,yoursocial

    worldandinyourdaytodaylife?

    Woulditallowyoutofreeupmoretimetospendwithfamily,friends

    andlovedones?Willitenableyoutoputmoremoneyinyourbank

    accountandlivelifeonyourownterms?Ithinkso!

    Icantthinkofabetterpersonwhocanshowyouhowtoreprogram

    yourmindinallaspectsofyourlifeformassivesuccess.Ihaveknown

    HeruAmonmyentirelifeandheisagentleman,agiverandmost

    importantanactiontaker.

    SukumaAvery

    January2011

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    HOWTOTAKEPOSSESSIONOF

    YOUROWNMIND

    DISCOVERTHESECRETSOFTAKING

    POSSESSIONOFYOUROWNMIND

    GUARANTEED!

    HERU-AMON

    2NDEDITIONEDITOR:DR.BAZMORENO

    U&CPUBLISHING

    COPYRIGHT2005-2011

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    Chapter1WhatareYouHereForYourfirststeptowardsinternalriches

    ResettingYourRootsResettingyourrootsbytakingwhatyourparentstaughtyou,then

    reevaluatinginaddition,reprogrammingyourmind.Asyoulookbackuponyourlife,thinkaboutthesocializationandthedifferentlessonsyouwheretaughtasa

    youngster.Whatkindofinfluencedidtheyhaveonyourmind?Howdoyoureacttowardsituationsinlife?Lookingback,youthinktoyourself,Didmyparentsteachmethebestthingsthattheycould?IfnotcouldImyselfchangethatwayof

    thinking?Growingup,youarepressuredorinfluencedbywhereyouliveandby

    peopleyourearoundyouaremorelikelytodowhatotherssaytodo,ratherthenhearingyourselfandtakingyourowncounsel,furthermore,weareimpactedby

    informationthroughmediatrends.Everyonewilltellyouwhatyouneedtolooklikeorbeliketobeacceptedamongyourcommunity.

    Ifyournothappywithothersmakingyourdecisions,isittimetochangeyourwayofthinking?Resettingyourrootsistheobjectivetounderstandingand

    changingyourthinkinghabitsandyourways.Themainpurposeistochangeyour

    mindset.Thepotentialyouhaveisgreat,farbeyondwhatyourealize,youalreadypossesstheinternalriches,allIwouldliketodoandthatyouseekfourstagestotap

    into.Whohasbeenyourinfluence,whynotme.Therearefourelementstages.

    1. Mental2. Emotional3. Spiritual4. PhysicalorPersonal

    Theseelementshavebeenshapedbyyoursocializationcycleofinfluences.

    Therefore,thefollowingcharacteristicshasbeenverbal,modelingformsof

    informationandintendedtoattractyourhabitsandbehaviorsthatcreatethepersonyouaretoday.Mentallyourmindsworkasifyouareacreativeartist.Forexample,Larryisasalesrepresentativeforasmalladvertisingagency.Larryisout

    andaboutthetownrunningsomeeonsandfindingmoreleadstodevelopingandgrowingtheagency,Larrywalksinalocalgrocerystoreforafewitemsandabitto

    eat.Larryisawareofwhatheislookingfor,thisactionofLarrysbraintriggersthementaltoreactandrecognizewhatLarryisseeking.Hegoestothedelisectionof

    thestoretofindthepremadesandwiches.Larryaskedhimself,Howcanweuse

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    thissamemethodattheagency?CreativityisdevelopedinLarrysmindashetakes

    noteofhisimpulsethoughtsandactionsthatcontrolshismentalthought.Thisbringsustothesecondstageofemotion.Emotionalstageisamental

    associationthathasbeenassociatedwithyourmindandwhatsomethingorsomeoneshouldlooklike.Larryrecognizedthethinkingofhismentalandhowit

    feltwhenhehadfoundthesandwiches.Eventhoughheknewwhatitlookliketheemotionaltriggersinhismindstimulithetastebudsandfeelingofholdingthe

    sandwichinhand.Larrythoughtifhecouldcreatethissameemotionasforthe

    clientsthatwouldwanttheagenciesservices,howtheagencywouldbenefittotheclients.

    Thethirdstagewouldbespiritual,whatandwhoisguidingyou.Whatmade

    Larryclickandbeawareofwhatwasgoingon?First,hisstomachIamhungry,and

    thenhestartedtopayattentiontothesurroundingofhowthelayoutofthestoreattractedthetriggersofLarryshabitsofconsumption.Societyhascreatedan

    atmosphereofwhatworksandwhatdonotwork.Theyhavealsomasteredtheart

    ofbrandingandwhatattractspeopletobuywithaspiritualoremotionalconnection

    totheproduct.Thefourthstageisyourphysicalorpersonalbeingandouterstructure.

    PhysicallyLarrytookactiontofollowinghisheartandstomach.Bywalkinginthis

    storeandapplyingthehabitsofhishumannature.Larrywasaccountabletohis

    actionsandthinkingaswellashisfeelingtowardstheimpulseideathathemustard

    upfortheagency.Nowletustakeitbackwhenyouwereaboutfiveyearsold.Themostcommon

    wordyouheard,outofyourparentsorwhomeveryourauthorityfigurewas,you

    heard,(No,dontdothat,thatsanono,etcAllnegativeaffirmations.Nothingpositiveaboutthatwordno.Growingupandadaptingtothatwordwouldmake

    youafraidofwhattheresultswere.Thatmaybewhyinyourlifepathyouareso

    skepticalofmakingdecisionsincertainsituations.Didsomeoneinyourlifesay,Doyouthinkmoneygrowsontrees?Therefore,parentsthinktheyaregivengoodadvicebutinfact,theyaredestroyingyourdreams.

    Forexample,Samwasborninalovingfamily,afamilythatgaveSamthepassion

    andattentionthatayoungchildneeded.Hisparentshadaverysuccessfullaw

    practicefirmthatspecializedindivorcesandbankrupts.TheylovedlittleSamso

    muchthattheybroughthimtotheiroffice.TheykeptSamaroundthebusinessandexpressedonhimhowtobecomealawyerandwhatitwouldtake.Samlearnedfast

    andthoughtinhisheartthathewouldbecomeasuccessfullawyerasparents.Sam

    grewupexperimentinglifethroughhisparentseyesandseemstounderstandhow

    thebusinesssystemworked.

    Ashegotolder,hewasexposedtootheropportunitiesbesideshissuccessfulparentsfirmandhewantedtodosomethingsimpler.EverytimeSamwantedtodo

    somethingonhisown,hisparentsdidnotapproveofwhathewanted.Samwanted

    togotoanothercollegetopursebeingascientistinsteadofalawyer,buthisparents

    hadabigproblemwiththat.ThenitcametothattimewhenSamparentswantedhimtodo,bygoingtothecollegetopracticelaw.Samsmothersuggestedthat,

    WhynotgothecollegesyourfatherandIattend?Samwasgettingconfusedon

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    whomtosatisfy,themormyself.WhoselifeIamliving?Hequestionshimself.

    Whatcomestomindwhenyouthinkaboutthissituation?Todayifyourepeatthesesamewordsandactions,theymaykeepyoudownand

    stopyoufromgrowth.Whenyoureprogramyourmind,youenableyourselftogrowandmanifestgoodthingsforyouandyourfamily.Yourmindisfullof

    thoughts,butyouhavebeenprogrammedbythoughtsfromothersthatlimitedyoufromgreatness.Thoughtsareideas.Therefore,actonthemandyouwillreceive

    them.Youintendtodosomething,butasofchange,youaresocalledpreparing

    yourselfforthechange.Example,youwouldliketostopeatingmeat,andbecomeavegetarian,thereforeyouarepreparingyourselftoactintheaccordingmatterto

    makingthechange,butsomehowyouarestillcravingthemeat.Youwouldtake

    theseprocedures,educatingyourselfonothersubstitutesofnonmeatproducts.

    Researchingthelibraryoryourlocalbookstorestofindingtherightinformationonbecomingavegetarian.Sometimesaskingothersiftheyknowofanyonewhoisa

    vegetarian.Youaretakingactiononthethoughtorideayouwouldliketo

    accomplish.Itisalsogoingtotakewillpowerandselfdiscipline.

    Usingthefollowingexample,youwillmakeitanefforttobecomingavegetarian.Daysgobybutyoumakeachangeofyoureatinghabits.Breakingthatoldhabitofeatingmeatandputtingsomethinginitsplace.Youarementallyat

    peace.Thispartakesinanythingyoudooursayinlife.Takecontrolofyourmind

    set.

    Humansadapttotheenvironmenttheyarearound,asyousee,Ihaveasystematicmethodtoresettingyourroots,bycreatingalearningenvironmentaroundyouandyours.Creatingahabitofpickingupbooksandlearningsupplies

    andcomprehensionofwhatspecializesknowledgeyouattain.Therealkeytoresettingyourrootsistolearntheinformationandapplyittothesubconscious

    mindinaformofselftalk,moreonselftalkinlaterchapters.Speakingtoyour

    innerselfandputtingpositivelywhereitbelongs,thatisyou.Youareagifttothisworld;youalsohavetheabilitytouseyoursixthsense,tappingintoyourGodliketalent.

    Sprinkles:Selfdisciplineishowyousucceedinaninternalandexternalriches

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    DesireofNeeds

    What makes you cringe or get excited about something or someone youdesire? For example, throughout history being under limited situations, people

    haveovercomefloodsoffailurestobeabletosucceedintheirdesiresandpassions

    inlife.Wetendtobeexcitedoverotherssuccesses,howtheybecamestrongerand

    keepgoingregardlessoftheresults.Eventhough,themajorityofthetimeyoudonotthink,itispossibletoachievethatoneandonlydesireyouwantandneed.Iwill

    illustratethisaction.Youhaveinyourmindlimitswhichyoucallexcuses.

    Johnisamerchandiseratamidsizerecordcompany.Onhisbehalf,hehas

    toplantogeneratenewmerchandiseaccountsforthecompany.Hewasinstructedbythevicepresidentofsalestocontactfourdistributorsperweekforservicingandexpandingbusinessaccounts.Attheendoftheweek,theVPofsalesaskedJohnfor

    thenewcontactsinformation.

    VPSales:WhatnewcontactsdidyoumakethisweekJohn?John: Icouldonly contact one distributor. Iwillhave the remainderdone lateron

    today.(Excuse)

    VPSales:IthoughtImadeitcleartoyouthatIwantedfournewaccountseveryweek.

    John:Yes,youmadeitreallyclear.VPSales:Whatarethereasonsthatyoucouldnotcompletetheotherthreecalls?

    John:Ihadtocatchupwithseveralotherdutiesyouexpectedfromme.Checkitout.

    AndIhavelotmoredonethisweekthanlastweek!

    VPSales:Nicework,butdontforgetaboutthosenewaccounts.

    John:No,Iwontforget.Thankyou.

    Excuses account for your failures and the desires you cannot accomplish.

    Creativemindsareresponsibleforinitiatingthisuniverseoftodayintoexistence!

    Forwardmoving,positivepeoplesetthestandardforyou.Beexcitedaboutyour

    desiresandthefactthatyoucanmakeyourdesiresareality.Youmustdowhatittakestomakeittruetoyourself.

    Iamheretobringyouthefactsoflifeandthedetailsofhowtobecomethe

    significant figure in life, to bridge the gap between the matrix and reality of

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    specializeknowledge.Whatareyourdesires?Whatisthedifferencebetweenneed

    andwant?Howdoesthisdesirecomeabout?Adesireisadreamoravisionnotyetsetintoreality.Ifyoudonothaveanyambitiontoreceivethatdream,thatisnota

    concretedesire.Manytimes,youhavebeencriticizedaboutwhatyoudesireorwantin yourdreammaking stage. Dreams aredestroyed dueto thenegative thinking

    and your social pool of negative people. Your ethic moral of that dictates yourbehaviorsinfluencesyourthinkingandhowyoureacttowardsthatdesireorneed.

    Mysystematicprogramwillguideyoutoyourmostdesiredneedorwantinlife.You

    must understand the difference. Aneed is being in want of a necessity like food,clothingandshelter.Towantistofeelorsuffertheneedofsomethingorsomeone.

    Desireisthefirststep,butyoumustunderstandthatitcannotbewithoutadefined

    plantoachievethismaindesireoroutcomeinyourlife.

    Lackofprogressonattainingtherightspecializedknowledgeandresearchthat you need to accomplish this desire you want. Ask yourself, What is the

    importantthingIneedinmyliferightnow?

    Sprinkles:Icanpaynowandplaylaterorplaynowandpaylater-ByJohnMaxwell

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    ADifferentThinking

    Understanding the logic of creative thinking is simple but not easy.

    Opinions arethe worst commodities, EarlNightgale would say.Have you reallyanalyzedyourprocessofthinking?Whatareyourresults,andwhatmadeyoucome

    upwiththissocalledwayofthinking?Whoinfluencesyourthinking?Adifferenttypeof thinkingisthechallengeyougothroughonadailybasis.

    Thinking is what makes the character stand out in you. Life gives you manychallenges to take or not take action, this gives you the experience it whatever

    situationyoumayencounter.Howdoyougooutandgetthisdifferentwayofthinking?Theanswerisas

    simple as applying yourself and opening your mind to other ways at looking at

    problemsandusingothersolutions.Areyourprioritiesofthinkingintherightfieldofthought? Thinkabout that!Are your priorities ofthinkingin the right fieldof

    thought?Whataretheimportantthoughtsthatcometomindeveryday?Mygoalis

    to make you think in an organized way to accomplish anything your mind can

    conceive.All formsof art are expressions ofthoughts andemotionsfor all peopleto

    relateto.Musicisanartofthinking;youlistentoothersexpresstheirthoughtsand

    feelings. In studying your thinking patterns put the right information in yoursubconscious mind by simulating the Nero thinking meaning your impulse

    thoughts to reacting to whatever habits you are applying. News and media hasinfluenceyourlife,theysaythatyousubconsciouslyseeover3000adsaday.What

    are thesesubliminal messages feeding you? The ads feed you what tothinkand

    howtoreact.Insteadoflettingmediaandsocietyfeedyourthinking;feedyourself

    motivationalandinspirationalinformationtopromoteyourpersonaldevelopmentandcreatetheenvironmentsaroundyouandyours.Forthisreason,setyoursocialcyclearoundothergreatpositivepeople.

    Iwouldlikeyoutochallengeyouwiththefollowingexercise.First,findawritingtoolandsomepaper.

    Iwouldlikeforyoutoobtainthisnewthoughtprocessbyclearingyourmind;findaplacewhereitisquietoutside.Imagineastreamofwateroraparkwherethebirds

    arechirpingandthesoundofnatureisonewithyourmind.Thiswayyoucanfocus

    onyouandyourthinking.Youwouldlookforatreeorsomewheretositdownandrelaxyourbodyandsoulwhileyouarebeingawareofeverythingthatisaround

    you.Take10minutesandwritedownallyourawarenessthoughtsthatcometo

    mind.

    Iwouldlikeyoutowritedownthisformat.Forexample,Iamawareofthesquirrelrunningacrossthegrass.Iamawareofthewindblowingthetrees.IamawareofI

    amawareofIamawareof

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    Now,Iwantyoutogoovereveryawarenessactionandwritedownatthe

    endofeachsentencethesensesthatyouused.Forexample,youusedyourfeelings,hearing,touch,smellorsight.

    Iamawareofthesquirrelrunningacrossthegrass.(Sight)Iamawareofthewindblowingthetrees.(Sight,hearing)

    Dothesameawarenessactivityonyourphysicalreactionstounderstandhowyourhabitscontrolyourreactionofyourphysicalbody.IfIwereyouIwouldfollowand

    usethesefollowingsteps&questionsthroughoutmylifetoseewereIstand.

    NowthatIhaveyourmindonyou,writedownthesequestionsandanswerthem.

    1.Whatismypurposeforbeinghere?

    2.HowcanIbestusemytimeonearth?3.Whataretheresults,ifIdonotfulfillmypurpose?WhathappensifIdontfulfill

    mypurpose?

    4.HowcanIgoaboutusingothersfortheactivitiesIcannotfulfill?

    5.Whatistakingmytime?6.HowcanIbemoreeffective?

    Sprinkles:Negativeexperiencedwellsonapositiveoutcome

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    HabitMaking

    Habitisanactionpackedword;awordthatexpressesmovement.AtermIwouldliketouseforthewordhabitishave.itisinyoursubconsciousmindto

    automatically pick it up or put it down, like saying something that you areconditionedtospeakon.Youcanchangethishabitbyapplyingthisformula.

    POSITIVEHABITS+ACTIONS+BUILDSCHARACTER=RESULTS

    In other words, habits make you the person you imitate today.

    Understandingand overstanding habits are a big challenge for you. Your mind is

    conditionedtoyouractionsandreactions.Habitscanbecontrolledemotionallyandphysically.They alsomay bea goodor abadinfluenceon you and others around

    youasIstatedbeforeintermsofyoursocialstructure.

    Makinganewhabitchallengesyourthinking.Goingaboutdoingsomething

    forthefirsttimeisthehardestmovetomake.Thisiswhereyouloseyourfocus.Youconstantly try to preparefor your new challenge. You have two factors pain orpleasureasAnthonyRobbinsalwaysspeakson.Whichsideisyourscaletilted

    painorpleasure?Habitsaretheresultofyourcommunity.Well how do you go about creating real positive habits? Lots of time, you

    assumethatyoucannotputa100%intoapassionofwhatyoureallyenjoy.Applynewhabitswithmysystematicmethod.Youautomaticallymultitask,I believe,ina

    concept called counter balancing. There are certain behaviors you have and you

    start to examinehabits.Notallyourhabits arepositive. Building yourhabits and

    buildingyourcharacterthisiswhatreflectstheoutlookofwhatothersseeinyou.I was taught at a young age that practice makes things perfect. What that

    taughtmewasdisciplineandselfdeterminationinwhateverathleticsorbusiness

    ventureIwastobeinvolved.Understandingthatconcept,Ilearnedthatyouneedtopracticetheskillortalentto bebetterormoreoutstanding.Therefore,getaround

    othersthatwillchallengeyourabilities.Habitsareethicsthatcreatevaluesinyourlife,whichmakeyouthegreatest

    sentientbeingonearth.Valuesaremapsthatkeepyouontracktolife,principles

    you live by to formulate your habits to have as many descriptions of skills andknowledgeforyourwellbeing.Wearewhatwerepeatedlydo.Excellence,then,is

    notanact,butahabit.Aristotle.Now,thisissomethingtodigest.

    Habits work byrepeatinga behavior repeatedly. What isjoyful isthat you

    can reprogram yourselfatanytimeyoulike.Itisatrip whenyouseea habitasayoungchild,andsayIamnotgoingtodothatwhenIbecomeanadult.Assoonas

    you become thatadult you havethatcertainhabitthatyoudidntwant asa childlookingatyouinyouradulthood.Youhavechoices,youcantakeitorleaveit,but

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    you must understandthatsome social structures donot have choice because the

    choicesaredecidedforyou.Moreonsocialstructuresinlaterchapters.Changingyour habits take time and energy. Foremost, when you want to experience

    successfulhabitchanges,keepinmindthathabitstakeabouttwentyonedays,orless,of repeatingthenewbehaviorsandactions. Howlonghaveyoubeenfighting

    withthishabit?Thiswilldeterminehowlongitwilltakeyoutochange.Sometimes,yourchanginghabitseemstorevertintoyouroldhabits,becauseofstressornot

    gettingtheresultsasfastasyouwant.

    Wearecreaturesofhabit,soyouareveypredictable.Youmightnotseetheresultsofthenewhabitasquickasyouwantitbutitwillsoonstarttoshow.

    Improvingyournewbehaviorsorhabitsisamatteroftakingonehabitatatimein

    eachmonth.Setthishabitchangeasanoutcomeforyoutoaccomplishwithinthat

    certainmonth.Inaddition,youcanusemymethodinthefollowingsectiononhowtobeawareofyouractionsofgoodorbadhabits.Yourbeliefsaretiedtoyourhabits

    andyoumustreprogramyourselffromthisdayforth.Changingthemeaningofyour

    habitwillchangetheeffectandtherewillbeabenefitintheend.Recondition

    yourself.Forexample,ifIworkout(liftweights)foraperiodoftimeandgettheresultsIwaslookingforandafterwards,stopIwillendupbackinthesameplaceIstartedandtheresultswillwasteaway.Youhavetomakethisalifestyle.Makeitan

    automaticreactiontowhatyoudoorsayinyourhabitbehaviors.

    Mysystematicmethodwillshowyouhowtointerruptyourhabitpatterns.

    Theonlythingisyouhavetowanttochangethishabitorbehaviorofpatternssetinyoursubconsciousmind.Nobooksoraudiotapeprogramsaregoingtomakeyouchange.Youhavetohaveitdeepdowninyourhearttowanttochange.Youmust

    learn through experiences.Apply each and everyday towards teaching yourmindstatenewsuccessfulhabits.Nothingwillchange,untilyouchange.

    Sprinkles:Soathought,reapanaction,sowsanaction,reapsahabit;sowahabit,reapacharacter,reapadestiny Asyouareneartheclosingofthischapter,Iwouldliketosuggestthatyoure

    readthechapterbeforeyoucontinuetothenext.

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    Chapter2MindOverMatter

    YourSecondStepTowardsInternalRichesFormulatingYourMind

    Theuseoftheoldestequipmentisnotbeingusedtoitsfullestpotential.Themostpowerfulcomputereverinexistenceisyourbrain.Itistimetoawakenyour

    mind and use the full capacityof it. You limityourself bynot developing amindlearning attitudetowards furtheringyoureducationor knowingyourself.Thereis

    much information on knowing yourself. Formulating your mind takes time andpatience. Yet, you enjoy that quick gratification. Mind over matter is what yourintellectissupposedtobeusedfor.Theinformationinsideyourbrainhaswhatever

    youdesire.Logically,yoursocialclasshasdominatedyourmind.Itisstatedthatthere is an 85% chance that you will stay in your social class without making a

    majormovetoanotherclass.The brain controls the function of your body. Your mind is the most

    importantpieceofyourbodygiventoyou.Whateverthemindcanconceiveandbelieve it can achieve. Napoleon Hill. The mind dwells on pain and pleasures.

    Studyyourmind.Howdoesyourmindworktoavoidpain?Whatarethepleasuresyour mind thinks about? You can control your minds state of thoughts. Setting

    yourselfuptowinisthetruethoughtsyouthinkabout.Understandingyourmindis

    the cause. Therefore, you get the effect of your results of what you have learnedthroughtrialanderror.Formulatingyourmindissoimportantyoucantakecontrol

    overyourselfinsteadoflettingotherscontrolyou.Threecharacteristicsofamindset:

    1. IndependencemeaningIcan.Iamselfrelevantandresponsibleformyownactions.

    2. Dependentmeaningneedfromotherstogetwhattheymaywant.3. Interdependencemeaningwecan.Togetherwecandoit.

    Combining your talents to create a bigger picture goes back to resetting yourroots. Asyou dealwith othermindsyou look atthe now instead ofthe future

    outcomes.Youknowthatyoustopthegreatestpotentialofwhatyourmindreally

    has imbedded. Clutter kills the mind everyday with junk that is not needed. It is

    important that you form a structure or an outline to guide the mind in the rightdirection.

    Sprinkles:Picture the condition youwant,not the condition youare attempting toovercome

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    SubconsciousMindControl

    Yoursubconscioushastheabilitytodowhateveryouprogramittodorightor

    wrong,negativeorpositive.Youhaveamindwithasubconsciousandconsciousthatmakesdecisionsforyou.Useyourcreativethoughtsforyourimpulsethoughtsandlifewillbemoredetailedtoyou.Mindcontrolisapatternbrokedowninto

    habits,memory,standardsofbelief,andsoforth.Subconsciouscontrolisthepower

    toactonortodoit.Yourconsciousmindissetuptopotentiallyactuponandtodo

    whatyouthink.So,theoutcomehereistoredirectyoursubconsciousmindandtothinkinanotherthinkingpattern.

    The spiritual world exists in the subconscious mind. As you control andbalanceyourlife,othersareaffectedbywhatyouarethinking.Doesreligionplaya

    bigpartinyourlife?Youmustresearchandgetthebasicsofallreligiontobreak

    downyourconsciousandsubconsciousmindscomprehension.Takethetimetogetto know yourself. Most of all, you are turned on by your feelings or emotions

    insteadoflookingattheact,logically.

    Mysystematicmethodshowshowtotakecontrolofthepowerthatswithin

    you; subconscious mind. Setting yourself apart from the masses and identifyingyourself, changes your destiny and future. Once you are able to strengthen the

    subconsciousmindwithpositivethinking,youwillbecomeunstoppable.Youneed

    tomakeyourpositiveemotionsworkforyou.

    Unlockthepotentialofyoursubconsciousmindinordertocontrol,actonideasyouhaveconceivedanddeveloptheatmosphereforyourselfwhichenablesyoursubconsciousmindtoactinthecorrectmanneritknows.Whenyoubecome

    awareofyoursubconsciousmindscreativity,youwillbeontopofyourideasandactuponthem.Takesmallstepstowardscreatingyoursubconsciousmindcontrol.

    Irecommendthatyouread15minutesofknowledgeforselfdevelopmentrightbeforelyingdowntosleep.

    Sprinkles:Everystepyoutakeisanimprovement

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    CreativeVisualization

    Useyourimaginationtocreatewhateveryourmindwishestoconceiveand

    believe and you will achieve. You are the creator of your life. What are thesepatterns that tap into your brain waves? You stop yourself from growth and

    advancementordevelopingyourpotentialofgreatness.Whoareyou?Haveyoubecomeawareofyourtrueessence?Prosperity,inyourlife,iswhatyouarelooking

    for.Thisisthatdreamordesireyouseekeveryday.Whatmakesyourcreativevisualizationdifferentfromothers?Youhaveyour

    owncreativeimaginationandvisioncapabilitiestocreatewhatyouwantorneed.Youareimpactedbyothersinfluenceindifferentways.Youvisualizeandcreateyou

    andthesurroundingsthatprotectyou. Thetype ofrelaxation you areusingis a

    deeperslowerlevelofthebrainknownasthealphalevel.Thelevelyoukeepbusyisyourconsciousmindknownasthebetalevel. Visualizationisnotthatyouseeit

    physically,butyouseeitmentallyorusingyourimagination.ShaktiGawain.You

    canfeelorthinkintermsofvisualtoobtainwhatyouwant.

    Thewordvisionmeanstoseephysicallyormentallyintoexistence.Youstartyourcreativevisionwhenyouputactionor movementto it.Keywordsareactionandmovement. Whataretheissues thatcomein yourpathof lifethatstops you

    from moving forward? Things what are those things that consume your time?Whenyouthinkaboutthesethingsaretheyimportant?Sometimes,youarecaught

    updoingsomethingsthatyouthinkareimportant.Creativityisalsoanartformthatsomeofuspossess;andsomeofusdonot.

    Itisalearnedabilitywhichyoudevelop.Creativityisworkthatmustbedeveloped

    tocreateortosketchyourdreamintoareality.Thatiswhatissogreataboutyou;

    youinfluencethewholeworldwithyourcreativeimagination.Somementorsinmylifehadsaid,Thegoodnewsisthefutureisinyourhands.Andthebadnewsisthefutureisinyourhands.

    Youruinorcreateyourdestinyinlife.Lookatthefactsoflife.Lifegivesyouwhatyouwantandneedlikecauseandeffect.Issuesyoufaceareforthepurposeof

    changeinwhomorwhatyouare,atthattimeofexperience,inlife.Everyonethatcomesintoyourlifehassomekindofinfluenceonyou.Youmaynotbelieveit,but

    every day you are learning habits of others that you are around. Creative

    visualization is practiced every day. Think of the new inventions which areintroducedtothemarketonadailybasis.Youhavetheabilitytoexpresswhatever

    youhaveinthatbeautifulmindofyours.Youhavetorealizethatyoualsohavetwo

    elementsofcreationgoodandbad.Whatweputinthebrainwillbeshownbythe

    results.Besides,youreapwhatyousow.

    Sprinkles:Thecreativepowerliesinyou.So,convertthattopositiveenergytoaffectsomethingorsomeone.

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    UsingYourEmotionalThoughts

    Emotionsarea verychallengingsubjecttoreflecton.Emotions areusedin

    everysituationofyourlifesinvolvement.Othersjudgeyouemotionally.Thoughts

    arethings;NapoleonHillsaidthateverythoughtyoubringtotheconsciousyouputactiontocreatingareaction.Sciencetheoryspeaksonhowyoucancontrolyour

    emotions.Youreactincertainsituationsofrelationshipswithothers.Emotionscanmakeorbreakyouthechallengeisthatyouhavechoice.

    In many cases, your parents dictate your emotions because they have

    installed emotional association to whatever that may be. You have to distinguish

    between situation and reaction. For example, for years your parents have beenusingCresttoothpastetobrushtheirteeth.Andtheyhavebeentellingyouthatyour

    teethwillbecleanandwhiteeverytimeyouuseit.Yourparentshaveassociated

    somethingtothattoothpastethatkeptyouwantingtobuyit.Eventhoughthereareother brands of toothpaste, youd rather buy what you think is doing what your

    parents taught you it should do instead of researching for yourself and finding abettersolution.

    Using your emotions means to express thoughts or sometimes feelingstowardthatspecialoneor others.Whydothesefeelingshappenthewaythatthey

    do? Your feelings couldchange atcertain timesof emotional balance. Therefore,feelinghappyorsadatthetimeofengagementofthiscertainissuethatneedstobe

    addressed. Themajorityofthetime,youtendtomakesurethatyourfeelingsare

    takingcareofbeforesomeoneelses.Youshouldputyourselfintheshoesofothersbeforeactingonthatparticularbehavior.

    Themostchallengingemotionisindealingwiththeoppositesex themaleandfemalerelationship.Whatabigstepinlife.Yousayitisgreatandothersmay

    saytheydonotagree.Itslike,ifthebirdstoldalltheairplanesintheairtogetoutofourskybecausewegotsomeflyingtodo.Itsnotlikeyouhavetoadjustyour

    emotionsandthoughtstofitthesituationthatisathand.Mostofthetimeyouwanttogivegoodthoughtstoothersandsometimesitcouldhurtyou.Thatistheriskyou

    take.Youhavetokeepkeepingon.Youhavesetbacksinlifeandthisiswhatmakes

    youthegreatpersonthatyouare.Youshouldhavehumblenessandpatiencefortherightemotionalfeelingtocometoyou.Asignofemotionalexpressionshowswho

    youreallyare.Forexample,youmaybeupsetwithyourfeelingsbyexpressingyourlove through a form of music or art of some form with some related detail that

    speaksfromyourheart.Youevenexpressattimeswhenyourspiritisup.The only time someone can understand you is by communicating their

    emotions. Action creates a reaction. And beingaware ofyouremotionsand how

    many times per day are you emotionally down? You know that you cannot bepositive in every situation of your life. Emotions are expressed throughout your

    difficulties contacting your energy levels of excitement. Someone is always

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    whippingoutthatemotionalbeatingsuchasyourbillcollectors.Thisfeelingcreates

    stressthatbreaksdownmotivationandambitiontoacton.

    Youhaveasituationyourchildisonthemonkeybarsandyouretellingthechildtobecarefulbecausehemightfall.Yourfirstreactionisanegativethought.

    Whatifithappens?Expressionsofnegativitycometomind.Youhavenofaithinyour child and this allows a negative association to you as well as your childs

    thinking.Sometimesyouhavetopushoutofyourcomfortzone.Youhavethepower

    tocreatethatlifestyleyouimagine,buttherearelimitstotheAmericandream;itisamyth.Emotions are habits that can bechanged. You must change your reaction

    patterns from negative topositive. Thinkabout this takemoreinto let yourself

    look at a situation from his/her point of view; and have a more humbling heart

    towards them. Emotions affect every part of your body from the motion of yourhandstothewayyoureyeslookatothers,thewordsyouspeakandthemannerin

    whichyoucarryyourself.Youdonothaveasixthsensefornothing.

    Sprinkles:Endthecycleoftheold,andbeginthecycleofthenew

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    Chapter3PoweroftheSpokenWordYourThirdStepTowardsInternalRiches:

    WhatYouSayisWhatYouGet

    Yourpeerswouldsay,Holdyourtongue!Youweremadewithtwoearsand

    one mouth. Get the clue? You speak such words and hear such sayings whichconvictyoueveryday.Iwanttochallengeyoutostudythewordsandphasesthat

    come out of your mouth. In addition, study your thoughts and thinking patterns.Studywhatyousayandhowyoureacttosituations.Thewordsfromyourmouth

    havecontrolofyourlifewhatyousayiswhatyouget.Itisallsaidanddone.So,whatdoyousayaboutyourfuture?Canyoucreate

    one?Studyandobserveotherculturesspeakinghabits,andyouwillbeamazedat

    how they look upon themselves. They speakof poverty and negative thoughts ofthinking.Youcannotriseabovewhatyouallowyourselftothinkorsay.Thelawof

    nature says, If youre lazy, youre lazy. The law of nature also says, If I am awinner,therefore,Iamawinner.FrancisP.Martin.Doyouhonestlyspeaktoyour

    innerself? Searchthroughyourmindandfindthepositiveambitions.TaketheTimein

    and Time out is what you get. What you say is what you get because yoursubconscious is continually on the thought or idea of some kind, constructive or

    nonconstructiveform.Whenyouthinkaboutthoseexpressions,thatswhatitis.

    Others in your life pressure these issues and thats when your mind seems toembracethatfact.Evenifitsrightorwrong.Mostofthetime,youaremockingor

    imitatingtheiractionsbecauseyouwouldliketobelikethemorhavethethingsthattheyhaveintermsofcharacterormaterialobjects.

    Spoken wordsare power. You are more intune tospeak negativelythingsabout certain situations in ones life than to think positive about the outcome.Wordsarespokeneveryday.Whataretheselectwordsthatyouspeaktoyourself

    andothers?Societyhasyouthinkingmorenegativelyandtalkingaboutothersto

    thepointthatyoudonotworryaboutyourself.Lookatitinanotherperspective.Say

    positiveandgoodthingsaboutyourself.Canyouseehowthemodechanges?Ifyouspeakgreatthingsinyourlife,greatthingswillcomebacktoyou.

    Sprinkles:Speakwhatyouwantintoexistence.

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    Self-Talk

    Iamthegreatest.

    IcandoanythingIputmymindto.

    Iamveryattractive.

    Iammorepowerfulandstrongereveryday.

    Iamawinner.

    Iwillnotbedenied

    Iwillhaveagreatday,today.

    Everynegativesituationwillofferapositiveresult.

    Theseareafewofselftalkaffirmationsforunderstandingyourawarenessofselftalkamongyourselfandothers.Selftalkisthemostpowerfuluseofwordsin

    understandingandknowingyourself.Youknowhowyouspeak.Thinkofallyour

    pastencounterswithothers.Youattractpeoplewithwhatyouthink,ratherthanhowyoulookinsome

    cases. If you can develop your subconscious to believe in yourself as a positivehuman,youwillsucceedinwhateverventureyouwishtoachieve.

    Iaminpowerofmyself;therefore,Iempowerothersaroundme.

    MythoughtsaresopositivethatIknowthatIwillbesuccessfulinanythingItouch

    ordo.

    MyattitudeissopositivethatIattractgreatandmotivatedpeopletome.

    Iwillbringmydreamsintoreality.

    Iamthegreatesthumanbeingonearth.

    Sprinkles:Puttingmythoughtstoaction

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    FaithinOneself

    Faith is a key principle of being successful. What is faith? Faith is selfawareness ofwho, what and why you exist. Faith isan element brokedowninto

    sectionsandemphasizingbeliefinoneself.Inaddition,faithisanactionwordwhenyou obtain the knowledge of something or someone you have faith in. You jump

    rightinto.Forexamplewhenyoulearnaboutsubstantialitylivingandotheroffthegridtechnologyforashousing,gardening,solarandothernaturelivingyoutendto

    learnmoreand have faith inwhat itcan dofor you and others. Here isanotherexampleoffaithyouhavefaiththattheotherdriverontheoppositesideoftheroad

    willstayon his/hersideandwillnotcross thatyellow line.Youhave got tohavefaithwhenyouwakeupeverymorning.Youhavefaithinsomeoftheleadersofthis

    country;knowingthattheywilldoagreatjobandsupportthebestinterestforthe

    people.Faith is created by repeating affirmations and habits which you develop.

    Apply faith in oneself due to positive actions resulting from persistence for a

    successful outcome. Ideas and abilities you believe in could guide you in the

    directiontowhereyouwouldliketoendup.Notallresultswillbesuccessful,butkeepfaithandbelieveyoucandoitwithapositivementalattitude.

    Sprinkles:Havefaithinthyself

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    FoodforThought

    Ifoundhappinessbyhelpingothersfindit.

    I found sound health by living temperately and eating only the food my body

    requirestomaintainitself.

    Ineitherhateorenvynomanandrespectallmankind.

    IamengagedinalaboroflovewithwhichIgenerouslymixplay.Therefore,Inever

    growtired.

    I pray daily. Not for more riches, but for more wisdom with which to recognize,embraceandenjoythegreatabundanceofrichesIalreadypossess.

    I speak no name save only to honor it. And I slander no man for any cause,whatsoever.

    Iasknofavorsofanyoneexcepttheprivilegeofsharingmyblessingswithallwho

    desirethem.

    I am on good terms with my conscious. Therefore, it guides me accurately ineverythingthatIdo.

    IhavemorematerialwealththanIneedbecauseIamfreefromgreedandconvertonlythosethingsIcanuseconstructivelywhileIlive.

    MywealthcomesfromthosewhomIhavebenefitedfrombysharingmyblessings.

    Thestateofhappyvalley,whichIown,isnottaxable.

    It exist mainly in my own mind, intangible riches that cannot be assessed for

    taxationorappropriatedexceptbythosewhoadoptmywayoflife.

    Icreatedthisestateoveralifetimeofeffortbyobservingnatureslawsandforming

    habitstoconformwiththem.NapoleonHill

    Its that time again. As the chapter comes to a close, I ask that you go back andrereadtheinformationuntilyougetitdeepdownintoyoursoul.

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    Chapter4

    BelieveorBelief

    YourFourthStepTowardsInternalRiches:SettingYourOutcomes

    The firstStepistobean outcomeorientatedperson. Believe insomethingand stand up. You judgesentientbeings before they express their feelings orthe

    beliefsystemthattheyrepresent.Wetendtogetstuckonthislevelofthinkingona

    beliefsystem.Astrongmindcreatesastrongwilltowardscreatingagreatimpacton

    yourlife.Themedia,TV,andentertainmentinfluencetellyouwhatyouneedtobelikeanddo.Thishasaverybigimpactononesmindcontrolintodayssociety.

    Outcomesarehabitscreatedbyselfdiscipline.Youhaveoutcomes,butmost

    ofthetimeyoudonotreallysitdownandplanyouroutcomes.Whatmakesyounot

    wanttosetanyoutcomes?1).Youdontknowhowtogoaboutit.2).Youhavealowselfimageofyourself.

    3).Youhaveafearofwhatwillhappen.

    4).Seedsthatarenotsowedintherightareasoflife.

    5).MisEducationorinformationyouneedtohaveforcertainoutcomes.

    Believe in you! Let me qualify this word believe or belief, these are

    manufacturedwordsthathasbeenkeepingmostpeopletrappedinasystemthatdonot give them a way out unless they are critically thinking outside this belief or

    believeetc..Conditionyourselftoestablishhabitsofbeliefsyoucantrainandretrain

    yourself. Believeinyour instincts. Your firstreactionisyour best reactiontotheproblemorsolution.Beliefwillsetyouapartfromthemasseswiththethinkingofanindependentthinker.Whenyouhavebelief,youstandforsomething.

    As time goes on, you will have more and more selfconfidence and grow

    stronger in reaching your outcomes in my systematic method. This program will

    teach you how to stay focused and consistent on your outcomes. Committing

    yourself to your outcomes and dreams will make you stand out from the crowd.Accountability plays a bigrole, inoutcome setting,to discipline yourhabitsto do

    whatyousayyouaregoingtodo.Beingresponsibleforyouractionsandplanswe

    makeyousucceed,soifyoudonthitthatgoalreplanandkeepitpushing.Build

    yourselfasolidfoundationtolayyouroutcomes.Educateyourselfaboutthefield

    you would like to be involved; it is all about paying the price for failure. Directyourselfintherightdirection.Setyourtimetobesuccessful.Thetimeisnow!

    Sprinkles:Confidenceinachievingyouroutcomes

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    YourOutcomePlanningForm

    Category(circle):Morecopiesofthisformlocatedinextrabonuspackage MENTAL*SPIRITUAL*PERSONAL*PHYSICAL*SOCIAL*FINANCIAL*BUSINESS

    TODAYSDATE:

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    Now,writeaparagraphtellingyourself,Iwillmakethisoutcomebecomeareality

    inmylife.Iwillliveit.Iwilltalkaboutit.Iwillbeit.And,itwillbemine.Then,you

    willsignanddateatthethisparagraph.

    Sign:

    Date:

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    OutcomeSettingFormula

    My3-monthOutcomesare:

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    My6-monthOutcomesare:

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    EmbracingChange

    Yourlifewillchangeifyouwantittoornot!Changecouldbesetupasfear.

    Notonlywillitchange,butfearwillmakeyouembracetheoutcome.Yousometimes

    takeor makeshortcutstosituationsyouwouldliketoaccomplishquicker.Mostofthe time thats why the outcomes dont look right or as you pictured it in the

    beginningstages.Youholdthekeytoeverysituationasofeverythoughtyoucan

    generate.Youareincontrolofwhatyoumakeofyourself.Understandwhoyouarebythe powerof wisdom. Doyou look atchange?Sometimes ithurts. Asthe old

    timerssaytome,Takeitlikeaman/woman.You are quicker to improve your circumstances,but you are not willing to

    improveyourself.AccordingtoBenSweetland,Knowledgeisofnovalueunlessyou

    makeuseofit.I,myself,embracechange.MymindthinksonhowIcangetthrough

    this action inthe best manner. For example,you never have securityunless youownyourownlife.Whatyoucontroliswhatyougot.Ihadtoquitmydayjobtobe

    abletoattendcollegeinordertofurthermyeducationsothatImayunderstandthe

    businessworldandhowtocommunicatemysuccess.Whatareyourlearningskillsand what abilities do youapply?Informationalor transformational learning, here

    aresomecharacteristicsaboutthelearningqualities.Informational is your leftbrain function. Meaning intellectual, structure

    and knowledge. Transformational is your right brain function, i.e., emotional,creativeandunderstanding.

    Changeisconstantinyourlife.Ofcourse,allofmyexperiencesinlifewerelearningthehardway,inmemories,toreflectonhowtogainsuccessfromactionon

    it.Therefore,ifthesamesituationinmylifecomesforth,Iknowhowtodealwithit.

    Wordsofwisdomfromthehigheronesstate,Thedefinitionofinsanityisdoingthesamethingandexpectingadifferentresult.Useyourpersonalityethicsorvaluesto

    change your behaviors and attitudes to positive. You will see others reflect thechangeinlifebackatyou.Makeachangeinyourlife.Focusonyourattitudesand

    behaviors.Lookinsideofyourselfandfigureyourparadigm.

    Sprinkles:Freedomstartsinthemindset.

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    ConsistenceCreatesPersistence

    Your mind delivers habits of doing day after day and night after night.

    Consistence is what separates the men/women from the boys/girls. This is that

    actionthatmakesgreatpeoplegreat.Consistenceisanactionwordmeaningtodoonasteadypace.Consistenceleadstopersistencethatcreatesorganizationforyou.

    Persistence development makes you continue after any task youre striving to

    accomplish.RalphW.Emersonsaid,Itiseasyintheworldtoliveaftertheworldsopinion; it is easy in solitudeto live afterour own; but the greatman/woman is

    he/she who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness theindependence of solitude. Set your own course of action. This is the formula of

    beingagreatsuccessinyourlifepathasyoucreate.

    Sprinkles:Takethechanceonrisk

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    ActionMentality

    Goforwardwiththeactionyouwishtotakeinlife!Justdoit,now! The

    maintracktotheactionmentalityistobeorganized.Areyoutoobusybeinglazy?

    Youhaveamanypeoplebeingactorsliketheyaresobusybutnotreallydoinganythingfortheirpresentsituation.Findthemotivationthatmovesyoutodowhat

    youhavetodoforyourdreamsandoutcomeswithprinciples.Takingfromwhatisimportant from you and your family. Control your actions by focusingon what is

    importantandtakestepsthatyoumusttaketoseesuccess.

    Sprinkles:Movementcreatesaction.Therefore,actionbringsresults

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    EmbracingSuccess

    Successiswhatyoumakeit.Embracinganythingisachallengeofalifetime.

    Youmustunderstandwhatyouwantoutoflifeandbeawareofdifferentroadblocks

    thatyouencounterthroughoutlife.Embracingsuccessisabigpartinyourlifethatyou do not recognize. Embrace means to take hold of, or grip of something or

    someone.Whenyouhaveafocusonyouroutcomesyouwillachievethatwhatyouseek.Embracingistherealityofyoursuccess.

    Whatissuccess?Successishavinghappinessforwhatyouveachievedandstrivedfor.Regardlessofwhetheryourerich,brokeorjustthankfulforwhatyou

    have. And too, financial literacy can help you bridge that gap to understandingsocial issues and how to create a foundation to success. The ability to recognize

    opportunitywhenitcomesyourwayiswhatmakesgreatpeoplegreat.Italsohelpsto have an attitude and/or intentions of staying in the fight regardless of the

    outcome.

    Sprinkles:Keepyourmindfocusedonyouroutcomes

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    Chapter5NoPlanNoWorkYourFifthStepTowardsInternalRiches

    PlanYourWork,WorkYourPlanSystematicMethod

    A plan of action is the key principle to address your way to a successfuloutcome.Carryingoutaplantakesorganization,strategyandconceptstogetgreat

    results. For example, after remembering how much better I felt when I wasphysically active and too, how much I missed it, I decided that I needed to

    consciously work to increasemy timeavailabilityfor improving thepossibility ofworkingout.Iwasdeterminedtodosomething;if,nothingmorethanweightlifting

    orjusttakingarunonthetreadmill.MyPlanofAction

    57yearplanIwillputmyplanintoeffect20052012.

    IwillestablishmyphysicalfitnessprogramandbefaithfultoitbyFebruary2005.

    IwillfinishcollegebyJune2007.

    IwillestablishandacquiremyownhomebyAugust2009.

    IwillpublishmysecondbookbyApril2009.

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    GrowYourselfBiggerThantheProblem

    Yourplanistogrowinthebestmanner,possible.Todoso,youwillneedto

    createanenvironmentaroundyourselfwithpositiveinfluences.Therewillalways

    beastompinyourpath.Still,youmuststayinthefightregardlessoftheoutcome.Patienceisthekeytoahealthylivelihood.Youareattractedtoproblemsbecause

    causeandeffectistheuniversallaw.Growingyourselfbiggerthantheproblemis

    achievedbyoutgrowingyourpersonalissuesandimprovinghowyoureacttowardsyourself and others. Growth is a vital science in living things. As I refer to

    EmbracingSuccess(Chapter4)thishelpsyoumoveonandkeepgoing.Itistimetoprepareyourselfforalmostanythingthatcomesyourway.

    Growing is part of you. You learn by experiencing different social groups,

    jobs,schools,anddifferentinstitutions.Ifyouarenottaughttosolveyourproblems,

    sometimesotherswillsolvethemforyou.Independenceiswhatyoulivefor.Youwerebornindependentandyoushouldliveanindependentmindframethatallows

    youtothinkforyourself.

    YouandIareindependentofanother.Youmustexpandyourknowledgeandexperienceoflifeinordertobeabletobebiggerthantheproblemsyouencounter.

    Problemscomeandgo.Buildingconfidenceinyourselfmakestheproblemseasier.Itallstartswiththeparents.Techniquestaughtbyparentsteachtheirchildren,at

    an early stage in life, your cycle of socialization. You must find role models inpositivepeoplethatwillembraceyouandhelpyoualongyourjourney.Tobebigger

    thanlife,youcanrespectandcherishthatlessonoflife.Howbigcanyoube?Biggerthanlifeitself.Revelationswakeyouandkeepyouawareofissuesyoudonotwant

    toencounter.

    Sprinkles:Iwillalwaysgrowmyselfbiggerthantheproblem.

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    StoptheProcrastinating/JustDoItNow

    Procrastinatingistheworstdefeaterinthehumanactiveness.Youdelaythe

    most important activitythat needs tobe done atany particular time. Thisword,

    alone, couldstop you from success. Procrastinating is a nonactive word puttingmetaphorsandotherthingsinyourwayofthinkinginsteadofthatimportantaction

    thatneedsyourattentionatthetime.Howmanytimeshaveyouputsomethingoffandthoughttoyourselfitcanbedonelater?Laterdoesnotcomearound,butthe

    deadlinecomesandfortheprojectisnotdone.Thatiswhatprocrastinationisallabout.Somethingsnaturallydonotworkthewayyouwantedthemtoo,butyoucan

    controltheoutcomeofyourreactionupontheyourdesiredeffects.Procrastination makes up other things to take over action at hand. You

    cannotacceptanyexcuse;moreexcusesmoreproblems.Youlearnfromthebest!Our government and parents have every excuse for you to be afraid of. Lots of

    opportunitygoes byyoubecause you failto act onthem. AsPhillip Knight ofthe

    Nike Corporation says, Just do it. These three powerful words are the cure toovercomingprocrastination.Timewastediswhatprocrastinationamountsto.

    Thisisyoursecrettocompletingyourtasksaheadoftimeinsteadofwaiting

    foritto bedonelaterorbehindschedule.Youhaveexperimentedprocrastination

    onceorafewtimes.Ifyouwanttosucceedinlife,whethereconomically,financially,personaland/orbusinesswise,youmustcutprocrastinationoutofyourlife.Youmustadaptajust-do-it-nowmentality.Ajustdoitnowmentalitycomeswithaplan

    of action. The principle must be an understanding of going about your plan ofaccomplishments and stopping the procrastination because it destroys your

    confidence and selfdiscipline. Of course, these actions bring about fear. Makeyourself aware of what actions you take before responding. You must keep a

    positiveattitudeandajustdoitnowmentality.Onestepattime.

    Sprinkles:Thereareonly24hoursinaday.So,dontputoffuntiltomorrowwhatyoucandotoday.

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    FocusActions/Multi-Tasking

    Focus,focus,focusandfocusonyourplans.Youmayhavetoadjustevery

    onceinawhile,butagreatplanyoushouldbeabletoadjustwithfire.Focusactions

    areselfdiscipline.Youmaynotunderstandwhyyouhavetofocusbutitiscriticaltofocusonthingsinsteadofputtingthemoffanddoingthemlater(procrastinating).

    Focusisamatterofenergyexpressedthroughconsistentandpersistence.The

    Websterdictionarydefinesfocusas,tobringorcometo.Astudypointthatkeepsyourighton.Hereisanillustrationdrivingyourcarbetweentheyellowandwhite

    linesontheroad.Youstayfocusanddonotcrossthoselinesunlessitisrequiredoryouhavetherightaway.Visversatheotherpersonfocusesontheirsideoftheroad

    toavoidcontactwiththeother.

    Focusisawarestrategyortactictounderstandwhereyouareat.Itisaterm

    calledmultitasking,doingmanythings,focusingonmanyoutcomesandobjectives.Todayyouareforcedtomultitask,duetoaccessofbusyschedule,andoccupiedby

    yourjobandprovidingfoodandshelterforyourfamily.Focusingkeepsyourmind

    together,andkeepyousharponwhatoutcomesorobjectiveofdirectionyouareheading.

    Youcannotsucceedwithoutfocusing.Youmustkeepyourselffocusedandlearnhowtobeawareofwhatyouwantorneed.Learnhowtofocusyourmulti

    taskingbyfacingtheoutcome.Yourmindisprogrammedtomultitask.Youdonotthinkinonestraighttrack,youthinkallovertheplace.Whatyoumustdoiscontrol

    yourthinkingtofocusonyourobjectives,whichmeansmultitaskingorganizingyourthoughts.

    Sprinkles:Continuedsuccessisaresultofcontinuedimprovement

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    EmbracingFailures

    Embracingfailuresiswhatkeepsyouinthegameoflife.Iexperiencedatrial

    thatlimitedmefromreceivingmoney,fromthegovernment,togobacktoschool.I

    hadputalltheelementstogetherthatI thoughtIneededandfoundoutthatitwaswaypastthedeadlinefortherequirements. Therefore,whatIdidwaswaituntil

    thenextperiodandtookcareofwhatIhadtodotobequalified.Ihadtoadjustwithfireandreworkmyplan.

    Embracingfailuresisapartofyourlife.Makesuccesshappenregardlessofwhatisinyourway.Keepapositivemindframeandnothingcanstopyou.Lifeisa

    journey not a destination. You cannot settle for anything! And this includesfailuresthatyou encounter. You learnthroughapplicationofactions opposed to

    procrastinating.Failuresarecausedbyprocrastinating. So,actnowsetthetone.Outcomesmustpositiveinyourmind,bodyandsoul.Failureisadestructiveact.It

    canmakeorbreakyourreactionstoallthingsyouwillcomeupagainst.Lookback

    onallyourfailuresandreflectonhowyousuccessfullylearnedfromit. Failurescouldbeforthegoodandforthebad;thismeansgrowth.Sometimes

    youmustexperiencefailuretobeabletogetyououtofyourcomfortzone.Failures

    areinyourlifetomakesurethatyouarenotaperfectsentientbeing.Funnyhuh?

    Strive not to be perfect, but strive to be. Furthermore, set your outcomes forexcellence.Besides,faithisbuiltthroughfailure.Youbuildyourselfconfidenceupthrougheveryactionoffailureorcreativeenergy.Dontbeafraidtoapproachyour

    failures:theseareyoursteppingstonesandexperiencestohelpyoufindtherightwaytogetthosegreatresultsyouarelookingfor.Noeducationhasanending.Keep

    thefaithinyourselfbecauseyouwillcomeupagainstthewall(failure)moretimesthanyoumayimagine.Makesuccessarecordofaccomplishmentinyourlifeand

    liveforsignificance.

    Sprinkles:Awo/maniswheretheyarebecauseofhabitsdeedsandthoughts.

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    IsMyTimeNotImportant

    Timeisthegreatestcommodity.Itismoreimportantthanallthemoneyin

    theworld.Organizeyourtimetocreatetimeforthethingsthatareimportantto

    you.Beawareofwhatmakesyoufeelgreataboutyourself.Askyourselfismytimenotimportantenoughformenottoreflectonhowothersabusemytime?Think

    aboutit.Areyouaccountableforyourword?Timeispreciousandtimedoesntneed

    yourpresence.InSectionOne(DifferentThinking)ofChapter1,Ihelpyoufocusontheimportantactionsyoumaytaketohelpyourjourney.

    Lifeisaneducationcourseinitself.Timeisonyoursideifyouwouldletitbe.Youhave24hoursinadayandyoumustorganizethattimetofityourbusy

    schedule. What causes you tobeso busy that you cannot focuson whats really

    important?Everyoneelseistakencareofexceptthegreatestsentientbeingthat

    suppliesthe gifts. Yourtimeisthe essenceof life itself. You are existingbecausetherearereasonsandapurposeforyoutofulfill.

    Thissystematicmethodiscalled Reflections.Takeoutawritingutensiland

    some paper. Write Reflections on the top left corner of the page. In the rightcorner, place todaysdate. Follow theexamplebelow as you honestlyanswer the

    questions:

    HowoldamI?Iam27yearsold.Whataremytalentsandskills?Mymaintalentiswritingsongsandpoetry.

    HowmanychildrendoIhave?Ihavethree(3)beautifulchildren.WhatmusicdoI enjoylisteningto?Whenalone,IplaymyfavoriteCDEarthWind

    andFireformyself.

    These are some thoughts to get you started on your reflections on whatsimportant to you. You should constantly question yourself so that you may

    understandwhereyourtruefocuslies.

    Sprinkles:Yourtimeisintheplansofyourmind

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    KeepOnKeepingOn

    Keepgoinganddonotstopforanything.Ifanythinggetsyouofftrack,go

    backtothefollowingexerciseandthesectionon Reflectionsandfigureoutwhat

    wentwrong.Thisisanattitude:keeponkeepingon.Noonecanstopyoubutyoucanlookoutsideofyoursocialstructurestratifications.Youareincontrolofyour

    actions and reactions. You can create or destroy and sometimes both could be

    effective.Controliswhatyoulivefortherefore,createitandlive.Havethedriveandselfmotivationtoaccomplishwhatyouwantinlife.Ifitberichesorabighome

    maybeyourownbusinesswhateveryourheartdesire,youmustkeeponkeepingon. This is where you are building selfdiscipline and patience with a lot of

    humbleness.

    Sprinkles:Reflectonyourheart.

    Youareneartheclosingofthischapter.Please,reflectbackonitbeforeyou

    moveontonextchapter.

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    Chapter6RelatingWithOthersYourSixthStepTowardsInternalRiches:

    UsingtheHighestStimuli

    Thehigheststimulusofyourmindhasbeensex.Furthermore,itisthemost

    powerfulinfluenceofallyourdesires.Whatyouhavetodoisutilizethesestimulifor otherelements in your life. Meaning transferyour sexual desires into other

    forms of expression. Not through the physical, but by means of nonphysicalexpressions.Youareatyourbestwhenthisemotionisatwork.So,whynotusethat

    sameenergyforotherthingsyoudo.YourSexstimuliisusedforyourcreativity.Ifyoucanbringthatsamemindstatetobusinessoranyotherform,youwillreceive

    excellence.Your mind respondsand acts upon what itmay be focused on. You are in

    control. You tell your body what you want to do and it will respond. Use your

    strengthstodevelopyourweakness.Youaretemptedtodothingsthatyoudonotwant to do. Love drives you to do just about anything that you want to do. A

    stimulusisenergythattriggersyourdesiretolove,careand/ordestroyandkillthepassionforwhoorwhatyouseek.

    Humans drive humans. Therefore, the science of a woman drives a manspassiontomakeorbreakthatman.Howdoyoutransferthisspecialenergythat

    youhave?Youmustbringtheessencebacktoyourselfandunderstandyourhabitsandemotions.Ageniusiswithinyouwhenavisionisputtoactionbecauseyouare

    a creature ofhabit. You come back toyour tracks repeatedlyunless someone or

    something stopsthe habit. Sex drives the forces ofyour desires to an ambitiousstageofenergyorsynergythatpowersormotivatesthereflectionofsomeoneelse.

    Asyoustrivetobetteryourself,youmustknowinyoursubconsciousthatyouarethegreatest;youcansucceedinwhateverendeavoryoumaytakeon.That

    smallvoicethatwhispers,Youcandoitisareminder.Haveyouevernoticedhow

    highlysexedindividualsaremotivatedandhaveaattractiveness thatinfluencesothersaroundthem.Sometimes,othersareinsecureaboutsomeonessexualnature

    andlookuponthemasiftheyareacursetotheworld.Therefore,nothavinga

    highlysexednaturecouldcreatetheoppositeinnotinfluenceanyone.Youarenot

    enthusiasticaboutlifeoryourlovelifeingeneral.Thesuperemotionsthatdriveyou

    tofullpowerareromance,loveandsex.Themind,soulandbodybecomeallinone

    tocreatethesuperemotion.Thesesuperemotionsdriveamantogoouthiswayfor

    hiswoman;influenced,aswellastheopposite.Youcontrolyourlifeandtransfer

    thesethoughtstoothernaturesandyouwillsucceed.Motivateyourthoughtsand

    othervibrationstomoveyouintoactiontopursueyourdreamsandoutcomes.

    Sprinkles: The emotion of sex is a virtue only when used intelligently, and with

    discrimination. It may be misused, and often is, to suchan extent that it debases,

    insteadofenriches,bothbodyandmind.-NapoleonHill

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    SettingSeeds

    Sellyourselffirst.Thenotherswillrespectyourserviceorproduct.Believe

    inyourservicesandproductsandotherswillseethatyouareconcernedaboutwhat

    yourepresent.Youplanttheseedinthepeopleyouassociatewith;theproductofyour environment. What you plant, mentally or physically, in someone or

    something,willgrowifyoumanagetowaterit.Cultivateyourseeds;nourishandgrowtheirvision.

    Thissameprocessmustbedoneonothersaroundyounotjustonplantsthat you grow in the backyard. Do not ever destroy something without having

    somethingtoreplaceit.Thisistypicalwhenyouareonthemovetoconvertotherswithyourideas.Youdonotrealizethatyouaretearingdowntheirdreamswithout

    preparingthemtoputsomethinginthevacancy. Itissimple tocriticizeotherswithoutthinkingabouttheirfeelingsandthe

    outcomeoftheirsituation.Togrowothersaroundyou,youmustsettheexample.

    When you criticize, you criticize the act not the person. Setting seeds is whatgrowsyou.Infivetotenyearsofwork,thepositiveseedsettingwillshow.Maybe,at

    thefirstitmaynotshow,butafterawhileitwillblossom.Renderfreeservices

    andwatchwhathappenstoyourcareer.

    Youhabituallyfocusyourmindonwhatdoesntworkinsteadofwhatdoesworkandseeminglygravitatetowardstheeasiestroadofsuccess.Thereisnotanyeasyroadtosuccess.Yourplanmusthaveactionanddetermination.Youmustknow

    whatyouwantandwhatkindofreactionyourelookingfor.Remember,negativemindsthinknegativelyandpositivemindsthinkpositivity.Smallthoughtsaresmall

    thoughtsgreatthoughtsaregreatideasthatyoumakehappen.

    Sprinkles:Faithisoneofthekeystolivingaspirituallife.Butawarenessisthekeyto

    faith.-KRS-ONE

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    TheCharacterOthersSeeInYou

    SystematicMethod

    Circleyourbestchoice!Morecopiesinbonuspackage

    Discipline

    Areyoupatient?YesorNo Doyouallowyouremotionstoaffectyourjudgment?YesorNo Doyouspeakbeforeyouthinkaboutwhatyouaregoingtosay?YesorNo

    Faith

    Areyouconfidentinyourabilitiesortalents?YesorNo Doyouhavefaithinyourintelligence?YesorNo DoyoubelieveinthisformofgovernmentAmericastandsfor?YesorNo

    Thinking

    Doyouresearchthefieldofinterestthatyouvalue?YesorNo Doyouvaluetheopinionsofothers?YesorNo Doyouthoroughlythinkthingsthrough?YesorNo

    Vision

    Imakemyowndecisions.YesorNo Myimaginationisverycreative.YesorNo Myideasarepractical.YesorNo

    YourPurpose Doyouhaveoutcomes?YesorNo Myoutcomeshavedeadlines.YesorNo Ihaveaplantoreachmyoutcomes.YesorNo

    ExtraMiles

    DoIrenderfreeserviceswithoutbeingpaid?YesorNo DoIknowsomeonethatbecameverysuccessfulrenderingmorefree

    servicesthantheywerepaid?YesorNo

    WillIhireothersthatrenderfreeservicesandhaveapositiveoutlookasmyself?YesorNo

    MasterMind Areothershelpingmetoreceivemyoutcomes?YesorNo CanIreceivemyoutcomeswithoutthehelpofothers?YesorNo Doesmyfamilysupportmydreamsandoutcomes?YesorNo

    Initiative

    Iplanmyworkeachday.YesorNo

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    Ihavetohavemyplanworkedout.YesorNo Igiveupwhenmyplansdontworkout.YesorNo

    PositiveAttitude

    Iamapositivethinkingperson.YesorNo Icancontrolmyattitude.YesorNo Icancontrolmyreactionstowardsothers.YesorNo

    Personality

    Ihavehabitsthatoffendothersaroundme.YesorNo Iamlikedbyothersatmyplaceofwork.YesorNo PeopleareinterestedinmewhenIspeak.YesorNo

    Enthusiasm

    Ihavebeenknowntohaveenthusiasm.YesorNo Icontrolmyenthusiasmonmyplansofaction.YesorNo Myenthusiasmisthemasterofmyjudgment.YesorNo

    Attention

    IconcentrateonwhateverIamdoing.YesorNo Iamprettyeasytochangemyplansormydecision.YesorNo IamquicktoabandonmyplanswhenIaminastruggle.YesorNo

    BudgetingTime&Money

    IhavesetamountofincomeIwouldliketomeet.YesorNo Ispendmoneylikewaterrunningdownariver.IhavenothoughtaboutifI

    didnthaveitwhereIdbe.YesorNo

    Mytimeisnotmanagedright.YesorNoHealth

    Imaintainaworkoutscheduleformyhealth.YesorNo Ifeedmybodytherightfoodsitneeds.YesorNo Iamawareofmyhealthconditions.YesorNo

    TeamWork

    Igetalongwitheveryoneatmyjob.YesorNo IhavedisagreementswithothersIamworkingwith.YesorNo Iamaverycooperativeperson.YesorNo

    Habits

    IhavehabitsthatIcantcontrol.YesorNo IhadhabitsthatIstopped.YesorNo Ihavedevelopednewhabitsoverafewmonthsperiodoftime.YesorNo

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    Adversity&Defeat

    IhaveproblemsthatIface,butIdontletitstopme.YesorNo IfIfail,Iwilltryagainwithanewconcept.YesorNo IovercomefailureeverytimeIrunintoit.YesorNo Ibelievefailurescreatesuccess.YesorNo

    Reviewthissurveyonceeverytwoweeksforimprovement.

    Whatisanimprovement?

    ScoreResultsfromapossible52

    40YesGreatCommunicator.

    31YesAverageDeveloppersonalimprovement.

    24YesNeedpersonalskills.

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    AmINegativeorPositive

    HowdoIreacttomyself?DoIkeepmyspiritshighorlow?WhatdoIthinkof

    myself? Am I negative or positive? These are some questions you should ask

    yourself.HowcanIbecomethatpositivepersonallthetime?IfIhadmorepositivethoughts and thinking to my conscious my mind will notice the differences and

    maketherightchoice.Thesetwochoicesarerightacrosstheboard.Youcanaccept

    thewayyouareorchangethewayyoulive.Youmaythinkthatyouaretoooldtochange now or that you are too young to beable to do something. Age does not

    matter.Ageisonlyastateofmindofwhereyouwouldliketobe. Takeitorleaveit!Thisiswherehabitsarecreatedofnegativethoughtsand

    yourenotrecognizingwhatyouproduce.Youunderstandthatwhatyouaccept,you

    valueitbecauseitiswhatyouthinkofyourselfandthewayyouacceptwhatever

    outcome.You are responsible for your resultsand the thoughtsyou let into yourmind.Youhavethechoiceofwhatyouwantanddonotwant.Takecontroloverthe

    thoughtsandwordsyouprogrammedintoyourconsciousmind. To control your life you have to control your mind. You will becomewhateveryourmindchoosestodwellonthemost.Youcannotjustacceptwhatever

    someone tells you. You must research on your own to create faith or belief in it.Causeandeffectaretheresultsofwhatyousaytoyourselfandothers.Everything

    happenstoyou for areasonbywayof yourthoughts and the wordsthat cometoyourmindandsoon.Again,yourthoughtsarewhatmakeyouthegreatestsentient

    being.AmInegativeorpositive?

    Sprinkles:Youarealivingmagnet;youinvariablyattractintoyourlifethepeople,

    situation,andcircumstancesthatareinharmonywithyourdominantthoughts.-BrainTracy

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    AdmittingYourFaults

    Standingupforyourwrongdoingtakescourage.Sometimes,youdontwont

    toadmitthatyouareinthewrong.Youfeelguiltyfornotcommittingtothetruthor

    someoneupfront.Lowselfesteemisbuildinginyoueverytimeyoudontadmittoyourfaults.Faultsaretrapsthatholdyoufromgrowth.Forexample,Iwouldwant

    totakethetimeoutmydaytofinishthisbookandmyfaultsfrommypastcoupleof

    dayscausemeto feelguilty. Thisisthefeelingyoudonotwant.So, youthink upevery excuse not to proceed with your accomplishments. Admitting your faults

    allowsyoutofacethetruth.Insteadofmakingothersorsomethingelsefeeluncontrolling,itisyouthatsuncontrolling.

    Faults are also your negative thoughts that you let come in your

    subconscious mind. You must embrace selfdiscipline and control what you say,

    think,andacton.Youcontrolyourfaultswiththethoughtsofthinkingbeforeyoureact. Mentally, you are ahead of what wouldyou do, if you were in their shoes.

    Treat others how you would want to be treated. You forgot the main lesson you

    weretaughtasayoungster.Thisvaluemakesyoustandoutfromthecrowd.Peoplecanrelatetoarealsentientbeing.Understand,thatyourenotperfectandtherefore,

    youhavemessupsjustlikethenextmanorwoman. Howmanytimesdoyouholdyourtonguefornegativereasons?Faultsarea

    destructiveartform.Itlimitsyoutogoonlysofarinlife.Yourheartmuststorethemostpositiveandupliftingthoughtstogivetoyourselfandothers.Researchyour

    subconsciousmindtoreprogramyourthoughtsandreplacethemwithempoweringthoughts.

    Sprinkles:Admittingyourfaultsisthatyoufacethetruth.-Heru-Amon

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    OpeningYourMindtoOthers

    Yourcontrolofyourmindiscontrolofyourenvironment.Openyourmindto

    others with positive thoughts. Surround yourself with people who want you to

    succeedinwhateveryoumaychoose.Sometimes,youshouldnotexpecteveryonetobeinyourlife.Youusepeopleandpeopleuseyou.Thatsoundsoutofplace,butis

    sentientbeingnature.Acceptitorleaveitalone.Evenyourchildrenuseyoutoget

    whattheywant.Youmustembracethefactthatyouhavetoreachouttoothers. Make yourself more exclusive to others. Promote yourself in orderto get

    more attention so that you cannot be a bad role model. This concept is calledteamwork. Your character must attract other out goingpeople who want to be a

    greatreflectionuponthe world. Open your mind toothers, listen towhat people

    havetosay.Understandingotherswillmakeyoustandoutfromthecrowd.Sentient

    natureisasocialnature:allyoureallywantisattentionandsomeonetolistentoyoueveryonceandawhile.

    Your mind is a sponge. Therefore,be careful of what others may tell you.

    Openyourmindtoothers.Helpstimulateideasandconceptstomakeyouamoreroundedperson.Youmustunderstandandknowyourselfbeforeyoucanopenyour

    mindtoanotherperson.Makeitahabittogetouttheretalktoothersandseewhattheyarethinking.Trytohelpthemreceivetheiroutcomesanddreams.You

    dontknowhowmuchpoweryouhaveuntilyoudoit.

    Sprinkles:Itisanachievementforamantodohisdutyonearthirrespectiveoftheconsequences.-NelsonMandela

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    TheMoreYouGive

    SystematicMethod

    Icanacceptfailure.Everyonefailsatsomething.ButIcantacceptnottrying.

    MichaelJordan

    The more you give, the more that comes your way. Go the extra mile.

    Meaning put yourserviceout there andserve others witha fullserviceattitude.Giveyourtimeandyourtimewillbegivenback.Thisbetterandclearer.Yourgoal

    istobeSelfSustainable.

    35%toyourselfininvestments10%topaybills10%tocharityorafoundation

    10%extraonyourmortgage10%forselfdevelopmentlearningCDsandbooks

    10%tosavingsinvestments10%tosavingsforchildren

    5%towardsentertainment&fun

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    AHarvestTogether

    Youmustgatherallyourthoughts,ideas,andactonthemtoprepareyourself

    for whatever action of defeat that comes your way. This is a process you must

    disciplineyourselftodo.Itisimportantthatyoutaketimeouttounderstandyouandyours.Harvestthegoodthingsthatyoudoforyouandothers.Buildyourselfup

    tobethegeniusthatyouare.Informationisofnouseifyoudonotapplyit.

    You act on the actions that give you pleasure. Most of the time, eventhoughtsthatpleasureyoumightnotfulfillyourneeds.Badresultsarewhatyou

    may get out of your pleasure actions. Before the wall you stand, dont give up.Harvest takes time, also. You want to plant the seeds at the appointed time of

    season. Explainingthisharvestcondition iswhenthetimesget hard.Do not run

    awayfromtheproblem.Gothroughtheproblem.

    Sprinkles:Thinkbeforeyouspeak,andlookbeforeyouleap.IrishProverb

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    Chapter7LeadersCreateOtherLeadersYourSeventhStepTowardsInternalRiches

    SettingtheExample

    Whator whodo you represent? Are you setting the example foryourself,yourchildrenandothersthatyouassociatewith?Youhaveahardtimeidentifying,

    foryourself,whoorwhatyourepresent.Forexample,whatdoyouwanttobefortheworld?Wouldyouliketobeaworldinfluencer?Beawareofyouractions.What

    you look like and what you say is a reflection for others and influences whatjudgmentstheymayhaveofyou.Youevennoticethatamanorwomanwilljudgeyoubeforeawordcomesoutyourmouth.Youcannotjudgeabookbyitscoverthe

    appearanceofsomeonemighttakeyoubysurprise.

    Sometimes, in order to set the example you may have to get out of your

    comfortzone.Youwanttogettheknowledge,wisdomandexperienceofwantingtobeagreatexampleforyouandothers.Leadersaremarkedeverydayoftheirlives.

    Someone is watching your every move. Therefore, you prepare yourself forwhateverinvadesyourlife.

    Here is an example, find someone you believe to be a great example of a

    sentientbeingandduplicatehis/heractions.Ifyouduplicatesomeoneelseswork,youmustputyourtrustintoitasyoubecomearepresentativeofthework.You

    make mistakes so be ready to embrace the criticism you may receive from your

    familyandfriends.Asyoubuildthishabit,makesureyouareexpressingyourbest

    efforts and abilities. Set the example that you would want to duplicate. Positiveinfluencecreatesapositivementaloutlook.

    Sprinkles:Mentalreleasekeepsyoufocusedonyourdreamsandoutcomedeadlines.

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    CreatingYourFuture

    SystematicMethod

    Whatarethekeytoolstobeingsuccessful?Tenpowerfulhabitsyoumust

    incorporateinyourlife.

    1. Createa mentalrehearsalof yourvaluedawarenessoutcomeseverydayfor

    510minutesadaytoplanyourday(Chapter4).

    2. Read personal development, selfhelp books and periodicals for 3060minutesaday.

    3. Listentotapes/CDsonmotivationandselfawarenessfor3060minutesinyourcarorwhileyouareworkingoutatthegym,etc.

    4. Watchyourwordsandbeawareofwhatyousaytoyourfamilyandfriends.5. Go to seminars, workshopsor discussion groups to furtheryoureducation

    andlearnhowtoapplytheknowledgethatyoureceive.6. Getaroundwinnersthatwanttowin.Associationisthekeytoyoursuccess.7. ValueyourselfandloveYOU.8. Increaseyour potential bybuilding on yourcharacter andstrengthenyour

    confidence.

    9. Lookattheendresultsforwhatyouwant.Donotdwellonthenegative.Findallthepositivitythatyoucan.

    10.Threeweekstocreateahabitorlessitisuptoyou.Selfhypnosis.

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    IntegrityCreating

    Integritymeanssoundness,acodeofvalue,completeness.ThisiswhoIamregardlessofwhereIam.Thishabitisnotbeingexpressedonaregularbasis.Do

    youbelieveinthisguiltthatyouexpress?Doyoulivebyasystemofvalueswhich

    youjudge?Itisnotwhatyoudobutwhomyourepresent.Thesearetheprioritiesinyour life that you accept or change. Integrity overrides your battles and trials.

    Decisionsbasedonwhattodoornottodo.Whatwillbeyourreactiontoaconflictthatyouencounter?

    Integrityisspiritualassetwithinyou. Youwillnotbreaktherulesofwhatyour heart believes in. You stay consistent and accountable for your word and

    actions.Thiswillpredetermineany circumstancesyoureinvolvedinorsituationsyoureinupordown,goodorbad.Putittogetherinyourmind;laydownonpaper

    whatneedstobedoneaboutmakingthisvisioncomeabout.Peopleseeinyouractionswhatisconsistent;theywanttofollowaleaderwhichtheycantrustandfind

    beliefintosubstantiatealoyalfollowing.

    Eightyninepercentof what youlearncomesthroughvisualactionandtenpercentcomesthrough byway of hearing while one percent is acquired through

    yourothersenses.Makeyourselfanexampletofollow.Whatyouseeyoubelieve.

    Whatyouhearyoustrivetounderstandit.Youleadbybeingthebestthatyoucan

    be.Yourintegritybuildstrustforotherstofollow.Buildaconfidencewithinyourselfthatwillreflectinallthatyoudoandpeoplewillcomerunningyourway.Otherswillbeinfluencedbyyourintegrityandvalue.Yougainmoreresponsibilitiesasyou

    growyourselftotakeonaleadershippositioninlife. Integrity is an inside job, however. You live your life by your reputation

    insteadofyourimage.Forexample,doyougivecreditwherecreditisdue?Howmanytimesdoyoumakeadecisionforsomeoneelsewithbetterresults?Doyouact

    the same no matter who youre around? You are a success when you start to

    master moralintegrity. You claimto have integrity oryou donot have integrity.

    Regardless,thewisdominsideyouwillspeakitintoexistence.Sprinkles:Thecommanderadeptinwarenhancesthemoralinfluenceandadheresto

    thelawandregulations.Thusitisinhispowertocontrolsuccess.-SunTzu

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    Up-DatedLeaders

    SystematicMethod

    Howcanyoubecomeagreatleader?Thesearethesteps.

    Priorities:Knowledgeofselfandyouroccupationservice.Beingaccountableandresponsibleforyourdutiesinlife. Havingselfconfidenceandcouragetostandfor

    whatyoubelieve.

    Vision:Youmustplanyourworkandworkyourplanasstatedinchapter4.Does

    your homework make the plan or vision a reality? Keep going nomatter whathappensaslongasitispositiveactions.

    ProblemSolving:Fairnesswithjustice,toleadyourfollowertoasuccessfulresult.

    Self-Discipline:Ifyoucannotcontrolyourself,howdoyoufigureyoucancontrol

    otherpeople?Livebyexample!

    Influence:Standfirmonyourdecisionmaking.Youcannotleadifyoudonothave

    anythingtolead.

    People: Gotheextra mile. Renderfree servicesandyouwillbesurprised by thereturnof100fold.Youwillreceiveallthatyougive.

    Attitude:Careforothers. Showrespectforyourfellowman?Sentientbeings?Just

    haveapleasingpersonality.

    Integrity:Masteringdetailsisthekeytoyoursuccessfulleadership.

    Creative Positive Change: Understand and have sympathy with your followers.

    Understandtheirproblemsandstrivetoovercomethem.Takeresponsibilityforallproblemsandissueswhenyoureleadingaorganization.

    OrganizationDevelopment: Cooperation isthe key to a successful organization.

    Embracethepowerofcooperationasaleader.

    Youcannotgowrongunlessyoustrayawayformthesetenprinciples.

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    YouareYourOwnSavior

    Youyouyouareyourownsavior! Youmakeithappen.Youmakeyourdreamscometrue.Yousetthepaceandthedeadlinesforwhereyouwouldliketo

    be.Youhavethecontrolofyou.Youfeedyourbodygoodandbadfoods(mentally).

    Youyouyouareincontrol.Theleaderiswithinyou,youjustneedtodeveloptheskillstounderstandyourroleinlifeonthisplanet.Youareaneducatedmanor

    womanthathaslearnedtogetwhatyouwantwithoutbreakingtherulesofgodandman.Beforeyoustrivetoleadothers,leadyourself.Youarefreewhenyouthink

    free.Ohyea,controlthatego,donotletitgetoutoftheelementofwhereyoucomefrom.

    Yourtimeonthisearthisaboutwhatyoumakeofit.Believeinyourabilitytodowhatyouputyourmindto.Thattakespreparationandplanningsoyoumust

    bereadyforwhatevercomesyourway.Youareyourownsavior!Noonecantellyoudifferently.Youarejudgedbyyourwordsandactionsoftheworksyouapply.

    Howmanypeoplehaveyouinfluencedandembraced?Doyoubelieveyouarehere

    forthat?Ontheotherhand,doyouknowwhatyouareherefor? Createawellroundedyou.Yourmarriedlife,socialbusinessandfamilyare

    allinoneandyouareincontrol.Theonlypersonthatcanstopyouisyou.Youare

    yourownworstenemy.Noonecantellyouwhoyouare,butIcanputyouonthat

    pathtogettingstartedtowardstherightdirection.Thebetteryouareawareofyourstrengths and weaknesses, the more confident you are. Are you an emotional orlogicalthinker?YoutellYOU.

    Sprinkles:Bewhoyouare.Beenlightened.Knowwhoyouare.Self-knowledgeisthe

    foundationofsuccess.

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    WhatsNextCoach/Mentorship

    SystematicMethod

    Mentorshipis a keyto yoursuccessfultraining.The mentor isamirror to

    yourroadofsuccess.Duplicationisoneelementthatmustbetaughttoyousothat

    you have a plan that already has been successful for others. Even thoughmentorship is a great tool to use, you must also think about why you would let

    someonelimit yourgreatnessby doingwhat heorshe has done.Youareyou.So,

    youaregoingtodoitwithyourpersonalitytraitsinmind. Youcannotbeeducatedbyanotherbutyoucanlearntoeducateyourselfby

    comprehending whats being taught. Your steps for understandingcounseling/mentorshipwillbeyourguide,tutororcoach.Mentorshipisalsoaship

    thatisgoingsomewhere.Ithasadestinationpointtowheretheshipisgoingto

    arriveat.Duringmyhighschooldays,Iwaspartofthehighschoolwrestlingteam.I

    had a coachnamed Mr. Thomas Ritchie. Hewas a very successful coachwith thedrivetohelpotherscreateavisiontosucceedinwrestlingandinlife.Thesewere

    thelessonsIlearnedfromhim.

    Basicsfirst Knowthyself Bewillingtolisten Knowyourfieldofknowledge Becoach-ableorteachable Movewiththetimesathand Embracetechnology Havegreatcommunicationskills

    Beeasytogetalongwith Knowwhoisinauthority(You)

    Onatransparentlevelfindtheoneyourespectandwouldlovetoworkwith

    and learn their life style. You cant judge him/her on your own guiltyinsecurities. Mentorship you will find to be a partnership in life itself. Your

    guideto agreatlifeistodevelopanunderstandingwithbeinginarelationshipwithamentororacoachforyourlearningorexperiencedbase.

    Mentorshiptakesalotofselfdisciplineforlisteningtotheteacherorcoach.

    The only benefit to learning something is to teach what you want to learn.Mentorsmustgiveotherspowerbyauthority,responsibilityandaccountability.

    Makesureyoulookforamentororacoachthathasarecordofaccomplishmentandhasfruitontheirtree.Moreover,youwilllivethelifeyoureallywant.Ifyou

    lacktoplan,youwilllackyoursuccess.Yourplanningisconstantlychanging.Duplicatesuccessassuccessisduplicatedthroughyou.

    Sprinkles:Addingvalueisreallytheessenceofequippingothers.

    -JohnMaxwell

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    HowDoYouWanttoLive

    Youhavedreamstodowhateveryouwish,butaskyourself,HowdoIreallywant to live? Do I want to have a house on the hills in California with five

    bedroomsandtwoorthreecargarage?WhatisitthatIwant?Thisquestioniswhat

    youliveforeachandeveryday.Onamissioniswhatyouareherefor.Youareherefor a path to setting a legacy of significance for someone in this world. Action

    requiresallfaith.Therefore,youmustmakeithappenonthedreamsandoutcomesyouwouldlovetolive.

    Your dreams become your realities for your future planning. Takeresponsibility for your future and the path ofyourfamily. How you wantto live

    shouldbeonthetipofyourtongueeverydaythatyousitdownandspeakyourmindtoyourselfandothers.

    Sprinkles:SuccessistheonlyresultofPlanning.

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    PuttingitAllTogether

    SystematicMethod

    Howdoyouputitalltogether?Youmustapplyyourselftogettingaroundthe

    people who are making ithappen. How wouldyou go about that? Why not sell

    yourself? For example,place an ad inyourlocal publicationof what,when, how,why and who youre lookingfororto be likein the future. Puttingitalltogether

    takesguts.Youhavetoeliminatethefearsinyourlife.Fearstopsyoufromgrowth.

    You cannot judge others on your own guilty insecurities. So what can you do?Strategyofexecutingyourplansofaction(chapter4).

    The time is right now to take control of your life and focus on growthpriorities such as selfimprovement and relationship communication skills with

    othersaroundyou. Surroundyourselfaroundsuperstarsin yourareaofexpertise

    orstudies. Iwould likeforyoutogotoyourlocallibraryorbookstoreandwrite

    downatleasttentitlesofbooksandtapes/CDprogramsthatyoucouldaddtoyourknowledgeofsubject.Thenlistthreeothersourcesofbooksandtape/CDprograms

    thatyoucouldgainmoreknowledgeonthesubject.Beascreativeasyoucan.No

    onecanstopyoubutyou.ThatiswhyyouaregoingtostartrightafteryouhavefinishedreadingthismanualHowtoTakePossessionofYourOwnMind.

    Afterthefirst60daysfollowingthereadingthismanual,Iwantyoutocomebacktoyourfavoritechapterstorereadthematerial.Puttingitalltogethertakes

    time.So,youcannotwastetimeindoingthingsthatdonotbenefityourfuture.Yourrealvictoriesareyourprivateones.Beproactiveonyourplansandwhateveryour

    outcomes may be. You must think a win/win outcome. Life is too short to bethinkingshort.Lifewouldnotbeanygoodifyoudonothavealittlechangeinyour

    step.

    Betheexampleofgreatnesstoyourselfandasyougrow,othersaroundyouwillbeattractedtowhatyouhavetooffer.Thepathisnotsimplebutitiseasy

    whenyouputyourheartintoit.Responsibilityiswhatyoumusttakeintoyourownhandsasyoudefineyourjourneyoffulfillmentandembracethedifficulties,failures

    andattempttosucceedbybuildingyourselfashighasthesky.Putitalltogetherbypredetermining a course of action. Layout your outcomes, adjust your priorities

    whichyouhaveorwillhave.Notifykeypeopleyouwantonyourteam&allowtimeforacceptance.Puthead,heart,andsoulintoactionofpurpose.Youhavetoexpect

    problems in every level of success and failure. Do not forget to always point to

    success.Last,butnotleast,reviewyourplansofactionsandoutcomesdaily.

    Sprinkles:Yourlifeisnotadestinationbutajourney.-Sun_Of_Life

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    AFTERWORD

    Yourroadmaptosuccess!Wouldntyouliketocontrolyourthinking

    andthewayyouperceiveothers?