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Families/Morality part I
Card Q1: What is one thing you learned about working with high poverty families from the homework?
Concepts:Beliefs about familiesFamily discipline stylesConnecting with familiesKohlberg’s stages
True or False: Based on research. .. 1. Females are more nurturing than males and thus the more nurturing
care-giver in families.2. People of the same racial group have more DNA in common that people
of different racial groups. This is the reason families of one racial group tend to live near eachother.
3. One of the most likely reasons parents do not care adequately for their children is that they do not like their children. (this includes coming to school for parent conferences)
4. There is a positive correlation between a family’s wealth and the likelihood that they will abuse drugs and alcohol.
Group Activity
• Discussion circle question: What obstacles might interfere with low-income families being active in their children’s school.
• Now brainstorm—think out of the box about ways teachers and schools can involve low income parents more in their children’s schools.
The MOST Important thing to remember when working with families is: (come up with an answer in your group)
NO MATTER WHAT DIFFERENCES YOU HAVE WITH PARENTS, REMEMBER THAT YOU BOTH CARE FOR THE STUDENT’S WELFARE.
3 Guidelines for meeting with families
1. Ask questions, don’t assume. Recognize parent’s expertise when it comes to their own children
2. Learn about and accommodate for cultural differences
3. Parent contact: ongoing all year long, use multiple means of communication(Example: the Belleview approach—every parent
contacted in some way each quarter.)
Moral development: 6 Important points
1. Morality is influenced by both nature and nurture—inborn sense of fairness, aggression, cooperation
2. Moral behavior is situation-specific3. Moral reasoning, the ability to take the perspective of
others, and empathy are influenced by a child’s cognitive development
4. Moral reasoning is not necessarily correlated with moral behavior
5. Memorizing moral codes and rules does not necessarily result in moral behavior
6. Modeling and parental style are positively correlated with moral behavior
Moral Reasoning: Kohlberg’s Theory
Remember: It is the reason behind the choice, not the actual choice that determines a person’s moral developmental level.
The Heinz DilemmaA woman was near death from a very special kind of cancer. There
was one drug that might save her, and it was something the local druggist had available. The drug was very expensive, and the druggist was charging 10 times what the drug cost him to make. The woman’s husband, Heinz, went to everyone he knew to borrow money, but could only come up with half the money. He could not convince the druggist to sell it to him cheaper, even when he told the druggist his wife would die without the drug. Heinz got desperate and broke into the man’s store to steal the drug. Should Heinz have done that? Why?
Kohlberg’s model
• Preconventional (Most preschoolers and elementary school children)
1) Punishment/avoidance and obedience: behaviors are wrong if they will get punished.
Heinz dilemma example: Heinz should not do it because he will probably get caught and punished.
2) Possibility of personal gain: Behaviors are right if I will get something out of it.
Heinz dilemma example: Heinz should do it because he will be happy that his wife is can cook his dinner again.
Kohlberg’s modelConventional morality: Some older elementary and
middle school children, many in high school (buzz)1) Good boy/good girl: Look to others, especially authority
figures for what is right and wrong and behave so to please them
Heinz reasoning:
2) Law and order: Look to society to set laws and guidelines to tell us how to behave. Strict adherence to a moral code.
Heinz reasoning:
Kohlberg’s model
• Postconventional morality—often not until people reach college (and maybe not then)
1) Social contract: Society or groups of people construct rules based on moral codes, but recognize flexibility is needed.
2) Universal ethical principle—A code of personal morality that transcends existing rules or codes—respect for human dignity & basic human rights is universal and should guide our behavior
HEINZ ANSWERS?
Check your understanding of Kohlberg
• A person who thinks it is wrong to speed only because a state trooper’s car is behind them and they fear getting a ticket, is operating in what Kohlberg stage?
• Give an example of someone in the “Law and Order” Kohlberg stage.
• Think of a person in the public eye who operates (most of the time) in Kohlberg’s Postconventional stage.
• Do you see any problems with Kohlberg’s theory? Describe.
How to Support Student Morality:
1. Lecturing doesn’t work—use induction2. The 3 F’s: Firm, Fair, Flexible (authoritative)3. Praise for moral actions and kindness4. Use the Fantastic 4
FANTASTIC 4, #1 (AND THIS IS ALWAYS THE FIRST THING YOU DO. . .)
http://youtu.be/gTDhgR3p12w
What is the message of this film clip?
Fantastic 2: Respectful language
Diversity Flashpoint: A “teachable moment” in classrooms when students say something that might hurt another person because of the person’s race, gender, body size, language, beliefs, etc.
How to handle flashpoints
• Start the year by describing your policy• Practice what will happen• Don’t overlook• Buy some time• Don’t “dis” the speaker, but remind them of
the policy• Provide the speaker with alternative language
Fantastic 3: Teach the language of tolerance
1. Prejudice2. Discrimination3. Racism
Example of teaching about these ideas. . .
Fantastic 4: work with the curriculum
Use curriculum that encourages perspective-taking and understanding difference—Paperclips
Tolerance activities:•Brown eyes/Blue eyes
Very Cool Website
• Linked to today’s schedule--Teaching for Tolerance—Southern Poverty Law Center: http://www.tolerance.org/
Tips for teachers1. Lecturing doesn’t work, Frequent punishment
doesn’t work—remember to ignore and reinforce 2. The 3 F’s: Firm, Fair, Flexible3. Induction is helpful—discuss reasons certain
behaviors are wrong4. Praise for moral actions5. Opportunities for pro-social behavior are
important (service-learning, etc.) (Alfie Kohn)6. Changing the environment to promote pro-social
skills
Self-grading• Total possible is 10 points• Explain why you give points/explain why you take
off points• Be accurate and fair• You must provide specific evidence
– Examples to illustrate—a bulleted list is fine, but be specific
• I have the right to over-ride if I have conflicting evidence or if you do not prove to me what you say
Going the Extra Mile• Examples:
• Exceeding the 15 hours (1-4 hours over, 1 pt extra, more than that, the full 2 pts)
• Developing and using an activity• Completing additional research and using it to
support student• Doing something out-of-the expected to help
—for example, bringing materials for student to use, providing something for the classroom, performing a special service in school or classroom
• Not examples because they are expected:• Being on time• Being well-prepared• Helping when asked
You have to provide evidence
to make clear what you did!!!