DEVELOPING THE SERVANT L.E.A.D.-ER IN

YOU!™

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Presenter: Gretchen Jones Torbert, Ph.D.Certified Holistic Life Coach

www.The3iiis.com

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Who am I?

TeacherDedicated

Life Coach

Stable

Minister Servant

I am ME!Ignite.Inspire.Instruct™

WHO ARE YOU?

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Let’s Take the Leadership Assessment Test

WHO ARE WE TOGETHER?

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Act. Share. Reflect™Activities

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Lion Attributes• detail oriented

• service oriented

• values family traditions

• helpful and trustworthy

• belief in policies, procedures, rules

• value order duty, loyalty

• punctual, precise

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Eagle Attributes• spontaneous

• competitive

• risk taker

• test limits

• master negotiator

• creative

• natural entertainer

• high need for mobility

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Alligator Attributes• intellectual

• independent

• philosophical

• perfectionists

• standard setter

• visionary

• Cool

• work is play

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Deer Attributes• mediators

• optimistic

• passionate

• has a kind word

• sensitive to the needs of others

• encourage others

• cooperative rather than competitive

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The downfalls of Lions!

• rudeness and defiance

• breaking rules intentionally

• running away and dropping out

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The downfalls of Eagles!

• attention-getting behavior

• withdrawal

• passive resistance

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The downfalls of Alligators!

• refusal to comply or cooperate

•refusal to communicate; the silent treatment

•perfectionism due to severe performance anxiety

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The downfalls of Deers!

• complaining and self-pity

• anxiety and worry

• depression and fatigue

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Having success with Lions!• remember to be on time

• try to be extra organized and efficient

• they are generous but like things returned

• be dependable, loyal

• respect their need for security

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Having success with Eagles!• be active with them

• be spontaneous

• compete in fun

• be adventuresome and optimistic

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Having success with Alligators!• be aware of their curiosity about life

• respect their need for independence

• respect their inventions and ideas

• give them time to process information

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Having success with Deers !• be aware they wear their heart on their sleeve

• listen to them as they listen to you

• share your thoughts and feelings

• praise their imagination and creativity

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Working with Lions…Others see a Lion as:

• rigid

• controlling

• opinionated

• system-bound

Choose to see a Lion as:

• stable

• providing security

• dependable

• efficient

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Working with Eagles…Others see an Eagle as:

• irresponsible

• not serious when they should be

• only do what they enjoy

Choose to see an Eagle as:

• fun-loving, enjoy life

• proficient, capable

• problem-solver

• good negotiator

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Working with Alligators…Others see an Alligator as:

• arrogant, heartless

• don’t care about people

• think they are superior

Choose to see an Alligator as:

• tough-minded, efficient

• creative, visionary

• original, unique

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Working with Deers…Others see a Deer as:

• overemotional

• bleeding heart

• too tender hearted

• too “touchy-feely”

Choose to see a Deer as:

• caring, compassionate

• see potential for people

• willing to work for a cause

• unselfish

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Thank you!

You are an exceptionalServant L.E.A.D.-er!

Please complete the survey so that we can better SERVE YOU!

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LEADERSHIP VIDEOSIntroduction

http://youtu.be/JETriceiLTw

Leadership Clip

http://youtu.be/0VZW54uJW4s

Leadership Clip

http://youtu.be/YVMBJ9kvl2g

Leadership Clip

http://youtu.be/XlTzLd6oXC0

Closing

http://youtu.be/SJR-MRVd1ok

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