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    Contents

    Foreword ix

    Acknowledgements xii

    List of abbreviations xiii

    1 Introduction: Training and development that sticks 1

    Different approaches 2An organic approach 4

    Deeloping themes 7

    Coda 9

    2 Whose agenda? 10

    Continuing ministerial deelopment 11

    Parish pastoral isiting team 17Fundraising 20

    Twele disciples 21

    Lent groups and house groups 22

    Conclusion 23

    3 Working below the surface 25

    Managing change 28Deeloping relationships 28

    Agreeing ision and alues 29

    Naming reality, identifying culture 31

    Clarifying purpose 40

    Ministry deelopment as culture change 41

    Coda: prayer 42

    4 Complementary approaches 44

    Cork in the bottle? 45

    From delegation to deelopment 47

    From how to what and why 66

    Conclusion 68

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    5 What am I like? 69

    Learning styles and preferences 71

    Personality preferences 73

    Skills, gifts and passions 75vocation and call 78

    Conclusion 80

    6 Reflection and review 81

    Indiidual reiew 81

    The who of reiew 88

    The how of reiew 89The when of reiew 91

    Reflectie practice 92

    Reiewing mission and ministry 94

    Conclusion 96

    7 Why shared ministry? 97

    A Trinitarian approach 99Wrestling Jacob 101

    Practical implications 103

    Conclusion 104

    8 An integrated and structured approach 106

    Process and content 106

    A structured approach to deelopment 110

    Conclusion 117

    Appendix 1: Who cares? A Lent course designed for

    All Hallows Church, Twickenham 120

    Appendix 2: SMART goals 135

    Notes 137

    Bibliography 140

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    Intrductin

    Training and deelpment that sticks

    Christianity in the third millennium will essentially be, fr the

    whle Church, the same as befre and yet ttally different. It

    will be in its pure frm the same faith, the same demand and

    the same gspel. But its expressin must nw be mre internally

    aried and multi-dimensinal, mre experiential, mre lay and

    mre humble. Pray Gd, the Christian Church will thus becme

    mre human. It will hae t accept ariety, and acknwledge its

    plural humanity. only in this way can it cme clser t Christ.

    (Astley 2007)

    When I was a curate in Bethnal Green my training incumbent

    wuld inariably begin a Mnday mrning staff-meeting dis-

    cussin abut Sundays sermn with the line, Gd sermn,

    but what difference wuld it hae made t peples lies? It

    is a line that has stayed with me thrughut my ministry. S

    ften we are encuraged t attend curses r cnferences,undertake training, read a bk because smebdy (ther

    than urseles) thinks its a gd idea: itll be gd fr yu.

    There can, f curse, be a huge mismatch between what

    thers think will be gd fr us and what we need whether

    its t deelp in ur Christian life, t d a jb r ministry

    mre effectiely r simply t cnnect with ur current

    situatin.

    In this bk I shall be explring ways in which we can put

    tgether training and deelpment pprtunities which can be

    as fruitful and effectie as pssible fr participants; asking the

    questin, What difference des it make? I will be ffering sme

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    tried and tested mdels alngside sme clear guidelines based

    n research and experience.

    one f the erwhelming themes that strikes me er and

    again in reading the Gspels is that Jesus began where peplewere, nt where he thught they ught t be. Jesus parables

    were cncerned with issues that peple culd readily relate t:

    swing crps, caring fr sheep, lking after smene whd

    been mugged. When discussing issues with a lawyer r a Pharisee

    he used their language and starting pint, but encuraged them

    t see further, t me n. S with fishermen, with the sick, with

    thse caught up in the language f sin. Jesus neer inalidated

    peples experience r situatin, but always started frm where

    they were and encuraged them t me n, beynd their

    situatins and usually ut f their cmfrt zne.

    S it seems t me that a fundamental questin that shuld

    always be asked f any training, educatin r deelpment

    pprtunity, whether its cntinuing prfessinal deelpmentfr clergy r a baptism preparatin curse fr the unchurched,

    is: where shuld we be starting frm? What are the participants

    bringing t this situatin in terms f their (life and/r ministry)

    experience, their prir knwledge and their expectatins? or,

    t put it mre simply, what difference will it make?

    Different approaches

    James Hpewell (1987) prpses fur mdels used by thse

    seeking t jin a church (using huse-hunting as an analgy):

    cntextual, mechanistic, rganic and symblic. He suggests

    that huse-hunters and church-seekers hae a dminant theme

    when cnsidering a new huse r new church (althugh each

    f the fur perspecties will play a part). S, the cntextual

    seeker will be fcused n lcal enirnment and cntext,

    the mechanistic n functinality, the rganic n the future

    pssibilities and the symblic n what the chice will say f

    them t the wrld.

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    It is a ery useful mdel fr thse engaging (r ptentially

    engaging) in any frm f ministry r Christian deelpment.

    The fur appraches can be readily identified (althugh I must

    emphasize that the appraches are nt mutually exclusie, butrather suggest a dminant theme). There will be thse wh

    seek deelpment primarily because f the cntext and enirn-

    ment in which it sits, chsing thse elements which particularly

    suit the landscape f their life r ministry and perhaps because

    it fits cmfrtably with the landscape in which they are situated:

    the cntextual seekers. Then there will be thse wh seek deelp-

    ment pprtunities primarily as a result f identifying specific

    needs in ministry r their Christian jurney. They need a new

    skill r hae a particular questin r area f cncern which

    they require addressing: the mechanistic seekers. Third, there

    will be thse wh undertake deelpment primarily t discer

    new pssibilities in ministry r in their lies, t pen new drs

    and t find ut what it is that they dnt knw, t help themgrw rganically. Finally, there will be thse wh will undertake

    deelpment primarily in rder t say smething abut them-

    seles, anything frm shwing the icar r bishp that they

    are jumping thrugh a particular hp t haing a curse r

    qualificatin n their Cv: the symblic seeker.

    Nt nly are these dminant starting pints nt mutually

    exclusie seekers are likely t hae mixed mties, which canchange during the experience f undertaking a particular piece

    f deelpment neither are they necessarily predminant

    in a particular persn r persnality. Different stages in life,

    different life experiences and different ministries and ministry

    situatins are all likely t influence the dminant theme adpted

    by an indiidual.

    Perhaps the mst imprtant lessn fr thse priding adeelpment pprtunity is awareness f ptential participants

    mixed mties. When priding such pprtunities a ariety

    f appraches will always need t be adpted, a theme I will

    return t.

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    Imprtantly, thugh, fr thse priding deelpment ppr-

    tunities there will almst ineitably be a tendency t adpt

    either the mechanistic r the rganic apprach. It wuld actually

    be much less easy thugh nt impssible t adpt eitherthe cntextual r symblic apprach, as the cntextual apprach

    will tend t be far t specific t an indiiduals wn situatin

    and the symblic apprach t an indiiduals persnal needs.

    An organic approach

    In any gien situatin the temptatin will be t chse a mech-

    anistic apprach t deelpment, fr ne ery simple reasn.

    Whether Im a trainer f clergy r a parish priest, a bishp r

    a cnsultant brught in t d sme training, I will beliee that

    I hae a fairly clear understanding f what the rganizatin

    (dicese, parish, small grup) needs. The issue will be, therefre:

    hw d I best get my message acrss? Hw d I train this bunchf peple t be better leaders, t grasp better the basics f

    baptism, t hae a better understanding f St Jhns Gspel?

    The task seems t be clear; the issue is, hw d I best fulfil

    the gien task? It seems a simple frm pint A t pint B

    frmula. But what this apprach lses is the baggage, the his-

    try, the persnalities, the needs that any participant brings t

    the gien situatin.A simple example and huge learning pint fr me was

    the yearly rund f annual parchial church meetings as a

    icar. Each year we wuld g thrugh the grind f persuad-

    ing (r dissuading!) peple t stand fr electin as church-

    wardens and t the Parchial Church Cuncil (PCC). We had

    a certain number f places t fill s we had t find peple t

    fill them.

    It gradually dawned n me that it wuldnt be the end f the

    wrld if the acancies were nt filled, and rather than asking

    hw I shuld fill these spaces the better questin was, Hw d

    I help deelp in apprpriate rles the peple Gd has sent t

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    this church? Rather than cramming rundish pegs int fairly

    square hles, I began t think alng the lines f Here are sme

    rund pegs: hw can I hne the hles s that there is a gd

    fit? We began t deelp ministries which suited the skills andtalents that peple brught, rather than ding stuff because

    thats what churches d.

    This prcess in turn challenged me t lk at the way that

    PCCs were run. Fr thse wh were prepared t sit n PCCs,

    was the way that we ran the PCC making the best use f their

    time, their talents and their energy r were we running a

    meeting because wee always dne it this way? Transfrming

    the meeting nt nly raised the energy leels but als gradually

    had an effect n thse wh were prepared t stand fr electin.

    And the amazing reality was that by using this rganic apprach

    nt nly did we get as much wrk dne (usually in a shrter

    perid) but we als had peple wh were mre fulfilled in their

    ministry.Ultimately, peple began t see that they were being fulfilled

    in ministry, and the ery clear side effect was that Gds Church

    increasingly became a place f missin, grwing accrdingly.

    In cmmn parlance, peple discered that there was sme-

    thing in it fr them (and then fr thers, because they brught

    their friends).

    I deelped this apprach in my wrk with clergy trainingand deelpment when intrducing a Wrk and Ministry Cn-

    sultancy Scheme fr clergy. I was aware that in sme parishes

    there were a number f peple wh wrked in the area f

    management cnsultancy, human relatins, etc., and had cn-

    siderable skills which culd assist clergy in their ministry.

    I therefre adertised fr such peple t ffer their serices,

    undertk an interiew prcess, and appinted sme (thughnt all) f the applicants t ffer their serices fr free!

    Thse appinted were delighted, first, t be taken seriusly

    and apprached prfessinally and, secnd, t be ffering back

    smething t the Church, in a real spirit f stewardship, which

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    they felt fully equipped t d (rather than being squeezed int

    a acancy n their lcal PCC).

    The cnsultants wrked (and cntinue t wrk) with clergy

    wh wished t aail themseles f this ministry and I expectedeach t draw up a clear cntract and understanding n which the

    arrangement was t be based. The whle scheme wrks fully

    rganically, and I will nt take clergy wh are referred by their

    bishp, etc., but nly thse wh themseles want t deelp

    their ministry (ften identified in their annual ministerial

    deelpment reiew).

    My experience, then, strngly suggests that an rganic

    apprach t deelpment is likely t be mst fruitful, because

    it addresses the issues that are f cncern t indiiduals, rather

    than stemming frm rganizatinal need. It meant that the

    rganizatin had t adapt accrdingly, but nt as much as

    might hae been thught.

    This apprach was supprted by sme research1

    that I under-tk with recently retired dicesan bishps, explring their

    experience and attitudes twards cntinuing prfessinal deel-

    pment (CPD), bth fr themseles and as plicy makers fr

    the Church f England and implementers in their wn diceses.

    All the bishps, while emphasizing the imprtance f an rganized

    apprach t cntinuing prfessinal deelpment, regarded the

    impsitin f mandatry CPD (which wuld be a mechanisticapprach) t be bth undesirable and unwrkable. Amng the

    reasns gien included the astly differing situatins in which

    clergy minister, the difficulty in plicing such a system, the nature

    f the ministry t which clergy are called, the underlying cul-

    ture f bth Church and the clerical prfessin, and the clear

    benefits f priding high-quality CPD which was attractie

    enugh fr clergy t want t participate, rather than clergy feel-

    ing they were being cajled int participating against their will.

    All f these themes I shall be returning t later in this bk.

    The rganic apprach, then, at its heart addresses the basic

    human questin, Whats in it fr me? Hweer, it sees this nt

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    as a selfish, indiidually centred cntext, but rather in the cn-

    text f a Church whse purpse is t prclaim by wrd and

    wrks the gd news f Jesus Christ. S perhaps this is better

    expressed as, Whats in it fr me as an indiidual, made in theimage and likeness f Gd, called t a cmmunity f faith, as

    a fllwer f Jesus Christ?

    Developing themes

    In this bk I shall explre this rganic apprach t Christian

    deelpment with reference t a number f themes:

    starting where peple are, as indiiduals, grups andcngregatins

    acknwledging and addressing inherited culture andexpectatins

    deelping cmplementary appraches explring indiidual needs, skills and preferences ensuring apprpriate reiew and reflectin integrating a cllabratie and c-peratie apprach being rganized and respnsie.

    S, in the next chapter I shall deelp the imprtance f

    beginning any training and deelpment agenda with the

    indiiduals cncerned, the lcal church and the lcal situatin.I will discuss the issue f why s many grand initiaties and

    er-structured appraches seem t fail.

    In Chapter 3 I explre the imprtance f inherited culture,

    amplifying the imperatie f taking receied culture seriusly

    and seeing the cntext as it really is, nt as we wuld like it t be.

    I will then shw hw and why apprpriate ministry deelpment

    can be a majr factr in culture change.

    Chapter 4 ffers reflectins n cmplementary appraches.

    I demnstrate hw any gd ministry deelpment will include

    a rich mix f skills training, thelgical educatin and persnal

    and spiritual frmatin. In unpacking the difference between

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    these three headlines I will shw why all three need t be present

    in an apprpriate mix fr fruitful deelpment.

    Chapter 5 returns t the theme f cntext and fcuses n

    the imprtance f indiidual identity and persnal needsand preferences while deelping in Christian ministry. I als

    address the key place f catinal discernment, calling and

    selectin when cnsidering majr areas f Christian deelp-

    ment. The nature f the ministry cntext and the matching f

    the needs f the cntext t indiidual calling and catin will

    be a majr theme f this chapter.

    It is crucial t acknwledge that needs and situatins change;

    just because smething wrks nce desnt mean that it will

    wrk eery time. And if smething didnt wrk, why didnt

    it wrk? Chapter 6 therefre addresses the need fr regular

    reflectin and reiew. While prpsing that bth frmal

    and infrmal prcesses fr reflectin and reiew shuld

    always be a part f any Christian deelpment, I will alsdiscuss the central place f ministerial deelpment reiew

    (MDR) fr bth rdained and lay ministers (and what gd

    MDR lks like).

    Chapter 7 reminds us that, in the wrds f Jhn Dnne, N

    man is an island. Here is the emphasis that ministry is nt a

    lne endeaur, but that all are Gds ministers, wrking in

    c-peratin with the Hly Spirit and in cllabratin withther ministers and with the whle peple f Gd. Althugh

    we might well start with the Whats in it fr me? questin, this

    is nly apprpriate if seen within the wider cntext f building

    cmmunity within the le f Gd. Underlining the whle

    endeaur, then, is a Trinitarian and relatinal apprach t

    ministry.

    In Chapter 8 I will ffer an rganized, yet pen, appracht training and deelpment which includes seen practical

    steps. These, I suggest, if taken seriusly and prprtinally,

    will gie an apprpriately structural underpinning fr effectie

    and fruitful ministry deelpment.

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    Coda

    The Oxford English Dictionarydescribes the wrd rganic in

    this cntext as meaning characterized by r designating cn-tinuus r natural deelpment. S much in the Gspels pints

    twards Jesus wrking with the raw material, the expectatins,

    that are presented. Whether its the parable f the swer, which

    recgnizes the imprtance f the cntext in which the swer

    sws, r the peple Jesus encunters and surrunds himself

    with a tax cllectr, fishermen, a Zealt Jesus life reflects

    an rganic apprach t his ministry and missin. Jesus earthly

    ministry is characterized by the cntinual and natural deelp-

    ment f peple amng whm he spends his time; he neer expects

    them t be ther than the peple they are, yet he helps t deelp

    them t play their part in the spreading f the gd news.