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Contents
Foreword ix
Acknowledgements xii
List of abbreviations xiii
1 Introduction: Training and development that sticks 1
Different approaches 2An organic approach 4
Deeloping themes 7
Coda 9
2 Whose agenda? 10
Continuing ministerial deelopment 11
Parish pastoral isiting team 17Fundraising 20
Twele disciples 21
Lent groups and house groups 22
Conclusion 23
3 Working below the surface 25
Managing change 28Deeloping relationships 28
Agreeing ision and alues 29
Naming reality, identifying culture 31
Clarifying purpose 40
Ministry deelopment as culture change 41
Coda: prayer 42
4 Complementary approaches 44
Cork in the bottle? 45
From delegation to deelopment 47
From how to what and why 66
Conclusion 68
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5 What am I like? 69
Learning styles and preferences 71
Personality preferences 73
Skills, gifts and passions 75vocation and call 78
Conclusion 80
6 Reflection and review 81
Indiidual reiew 81
The who of reiew 88
The how of reiew 89The when of reiew 91
Reflectie practice 92
Reiewing mission and ministry 94
Conclusion 96
7 Why shared ministry? 97
A Trinitarian approach 99Wrestling Jacob 101
Practical implications 103
Conclusion 104
8 An integrated and structured approach 106
Process and content 106
A structured approach to deelopment 110
Conclusion 117
Appendix 1: Who cares? A Lent course designed for
All Hallows Church, Twickenham 120
Appendix 2: SMART goals 135
Notes 137
Bibliography 140
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Intrductin
Training and deelpment that sticks
Christianity in the third millennium will essentially be, fr the
whle Church, the same as befre and yet ttally different. It
will be in its pure frm the same faith, the same demand and
the same gspel. But its expressin must nw be mre internally
aried and multi-dimensinal, mre experiential, mre lay and
mre humble. Pray Gd, the Christian Church will thus becme
mre human. It will hae t accept ariety, and acknwledge its
plural humanity. only in this way can it cme clser t Christ.
(Astley 2007)
When I was a curate in Bethnal Green my training incumbent
wuld inariably begin a Mnday mrning staff-meeting dis-
cussin abut Sundays sermn with the line, Gd sermn,
but what difference wuld it hae made t peples lies? It
is a line that has stayed with me thrughut my ministry. S
ften we are encuraged t attend curses r cnferences,undertake training, read a bk because smebdy (ther
than urseles) thinks its a gd idea: itll be gd fr yu.
There can, f curse, be a huge mismatch between what
thers think will be gd fr us and what we need whether
its t deelp in ur Christian life, t d a jb r ministry
mre effectiely r simply t cnnect with ur current
situatin.
In this bk I shall be explring ways in which we can put
tgether training and deelpment pprtunities which can be
as fruitful and effectie as pssible fr participants; asking the
questin, What difference des it make? I will be ffering sme
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tried and tested mdels alngside sme clear guidelines based
n research and experience.
one f the erwhelming themes that strikes me er and
again in reading the Gspels is that Jesus began where peplewere, nt where he thught they ught t be. Jesus parables
were cncerned with issues that peple culd readily relate t:
swing crps, caring fr sheep, lking after smene whd
been mugged. When discussing issues with a lawyer r a Pharisee
he used their language and starting pint, but encuraged them
t see further, t me n. S with fishermen, with the sick, with
thse caught up in the language f sin. Jesus neer inalidated
peples experience r situatin, but always started frm where
they were and encuraged them t me n, beynd their
situatins and usually ut f their cmfrt zne.
S it seems t me that a fundamental questin that shuld
always be asked f any training, educatin r deelpment
pprtunity, whether its cntinuing prfessinal deelpmentfr clergy r a baptism preparatin curse fr the unchurched,
is: where shuld we be starting frm? What are the participants
bringing t this situatin in terms f their (life and/r ministry)
experience, their prir knwledge and their expectatins? or,
t put it mre simply, what difference will it make?
Different approaches
James Hpewell (1987) prpses fur mdels used by thse
seeking t jin a church (using huse-hunting as an analgy):
cntextual, mechanistic, rganic and symblic. He suggests
that huse-hunters and church-seekers hae a dminant theme
when cnsidering a new huse r new church (althugh each
f the fur perspecties will play a part). S, the cntextual
seeker will be fcused n lcal enirnment and cntext,
the mechanistic n functinality, the rganic n the future
pssibilities and the symblic n what the chice will say f
them t the wrld.
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It is a ery useful mdel fr thse engaging (r ptentially
engaging) in any frm f ministry r Christian deelpment.
The fur appraches can be readily identified (althugh I must
emphasize that the appraches are nt mutually exclusie, butrather suggest a dminant theme). There will be thse wh
seek deelpment primarily because f the cntext and enirn-
ment in which it sits, chsing thse elements which particularly
suit the landscape f their life r ministry and perhaps because
it fits cmfrtably with the landscape in which they are situated:
the cntextual seekers. Then there will be thse wh seek deelp-
ment pprtunities primarily as a result f identifying specific
needs in ministry r their Christian jurney. They need a new
skill r hae a particular questin r area f cncern which
they require addressing: the mechanistic seekers. Third, there
will be thse wh undertake deelpment primarily t discer
new pssibilities in ministry r in their lies, t pen new drs
and t find ut what it is that they dnt knw, t help themgrw rganically. Finally, there will be thse wh will undertake
deelpment primarily in rder t say smething abut them-
seles, anything frm shwing the icar r bishp that they
are jumping thrugh a particular hp t haing a curse r
qualificatin n their Cv: the symblic seeker.
Nt nly are these dminant starting pints nt mutually
exclusie seekers are likely t hae mixed mties, which canchange during the experience f undertaking a particular piece
f deelpment neither are they necessarily predminant
in a particular persn r persnality. Different stages in life,
different life experiences and different ministries and ministry
situatins are all likely t influence the dminant theme adpted
by an indiidual.
Perhaps the mst imprtant lessn fr thse priding adeelpment pprtunity is awareness f ptential participants
mixed mties. When priding such pprtunities a ariety
f appraches will always need t be adpted, a theme I will
return t.
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Imprtantly, thugh, fr thse priding deelpment ppr-
tunities there will almst ineitably be a tendency t adpt
either the mechanistic r the rganic apprach. It wuld actually
be much less easy thugh nt impssible t adpt eitherthe cntextual r symblic apprach, as the cntextual apprach
will tend t be far t specific t an indiiduals wn situatin
and the symblic apprach t an indiiduals persnal needs.
An organic approach
In any gien situatin the temptatin will be t chse a mech-
anistic apprach t deelpment, fr ne ery simple reasn.
Whether Im a trainer f clergy r a parish priest, a bishp r
a cnsultant brught in t d sme training, I will beliee that
I hae a fairly clear understanding f what the rganizatin
(dicese, parish, small grup) needs. The issue will be, therefre:
hw d I best get my message acrss? Hw d I train this bunchf peple t be better leaders, t grasp better the basics f
baptism, t hae a better understanding f St Jhns Gspel?
The task seems t be clear; the issue is, hw d I best fulfil
the gien task? It seems a simple frm pint A t pint B
frmula. But what this apprach lses is the baggage, the his-
try, the persnalities, the needs that any participant brings t
the gien situatin.A simple example and huge learning pint fr me was
the yearly rund f annual parchial church meetings as a
icar. Each year we wuld g thrugh the grind f persuad-
ing (r dissuading!) peple t stand fr electin as church-
wardens and t the Parchial Church Cuncil (PCC). We had
a certain number f places t fill s we had t find peple t
fill them.
It gradually dawned n me that it wuldnt be the end f the
wrld if the acancies were nt filled, and rather than asking
hw I shuld fill these spaces the better questin was, Hw d
I help deelp in apprpriate rles the peple Gd has sent t
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this church? Rather than cramming rundish pegs int fairly
square hles, I began t think alng the lines f Here are sme
rund pegs: hw can I hne the hles s that there is a gd
fit? We began t deelp ministries which suited the skills andtalents that peple brught, rather than ding stuff because
thats what churches d.
This prcess in turn challenged me t lk at the way that
PCCs were run. Fr thse wh were prepared t sit n PCCs,
was the way that we ran the PCC making the best use f their
time, their talents and their energy r were we running a
meeting because wee always dne it this way? Transfrming
the meeting nt nly raised the energy leels but als gradually
had an effect n thse wh were prepared t stand fr electin.
And the amazing reality was that by using this rganic apprach
nt nly did we get as much wrk dne (usually in a shrter
perid) but we als had peple wh were mre fulfilled in their
ministry.Ultimately, peple began t see that they were being fulfilled
in ministry, and the ery clear side effect was that Gds Church
increasingly became a place f missin, grwing accrdingly.
In cmmn parlance, peple discered that there was sme-
thing in it fr them (and then fr thers, because they brught
their friends).
I deelped this apprach in my wrk with clergy trainingand deelpment when intrducing a Wrk and Ministry Cn-
sultancy Scheme fr clergy. I was aware that in sme parishes
there were a number f peple wh wrked in the area f
management cnsultancy, human relatins, etc., and had cn-
siderable skills which culd assist clergy in their ministry.
I therefre adertised fr such peple t ffer their serices,
undertk an interiew prcess, and appinted sme (thughnt all) f the applicants t ffer their serices fr free!
Thse appinted were delighted, first, t be taken seriusly
and apprached prfessinally and, secnd, t be ffering back
smething t the Church, in a real spirit f stewardship, which
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they felt fully equipped t d (rather than being squeezed int
a acancy n their lcal PCC).
The cnsultants wrked (and cntinue t wrk) with clergy
wh wished t aail themseles f this ministry and I expectedeach t draw up a clear cntract and understanding n which the
arrangement was t be based. The whle scheme wrks fully
rganically, and I will nt take clergy wh are referred by their
bishp, etc., but nly thse wh themseles want t deelp
their ministry (ften identified in their annual ministerial
deelpment reiew).
My experience, then, strngly suggests that an rganic
apprach t deelpment is likely t be mst fruitful, because
it addresses the issues that are f cncern t indiiduals, rather
than stemming frm rganizatinal need. It meant that the
rganizatin had t adapt accrdingly, but nt as much as
might hae been thught.
This apprach was supprted by sme research1
that I under-tk with recently retired dicesan bishps, explring their
experience and attitudes twards cntinuing prfessinal deel-
pment (CPD), bth fr themseles and as plicy makers fr
the Church f England and implementers in their wn diceses.
All the bishps, while emphasizing the imprtance f an rganized
apprach t cntinuing prfessinal deelpment, regarded the
impsitin f mandatry CPD (which wuld be a mechanisticapprach) t be bth undesirable and unwrkable. Amng the
reasns gien included the astly differing situatins in which
clergy minister, the difficulty in plicing such a system, the nature
f the ministry t which clergy are called, the underlying cul-
ture f bth Church and the clerical prfessin, and the clear
benefits f priding high-quality CPD which was attractie
enugh fr clergy t want t participate, rather than clergy feel-
ing they were being cajled int participating against their will.
All f these themes I shall be returning t later in this bk.
The rganic apprach, then, at its heart addresses the basic
human questin, Whats in it fr me? Hweer, it sees this nt
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as a selfish, indiidually centred cntext, but rather in the cn-
text f a Church whse purpse is t prclaim by wrd and
wrks the gd news f Jesus Christ. S perhaps this is better
expressed as, Whats in it fr me as an indiidual, made in theimage and likeness f Gd, called t a cmmunity f faith, as
a fllwer f Jesus Christ?
Developing themes
In this bk I shall explre this rganic apprach t Christian
deelpment with reference t a number f themes:
starting where peple are, as indiiduals, grups andcngregatins
acknwledging and addressing inherited culture andexpectatins
deelping cmplementary appraches explring indiidual needs, skills and preferences ensuring apprpriate reiew and reflectin integrating a cllabratie and c-peratie apprach being rganized and respnsie.
S, in the next chapter I shall deelp the imprtance f
beginning any training and deelpment agenda with the
indiiduals cncerned, the lcal church and the lcal situatin.I will discuss the issue f why s many grand initiaties and
er-structured appraches seem t fail.
In Chapter 3 I explre the imprtance f inherited culture,
amplifying the imperatie f taking receied culture seriusly
and seeing the cntext as it really is, nt as we wuld like it t be.
I will then shw hw and why apprpriate ministry deelpment
can be a majr factr in culture change.
Chapter 4 ffers reflectins n cmplementary appraches.
I demnstrate hw any gd ministry deelpment will include
a rich mix f skills training, thelgical educatin and persnal
and spiritual frmatin. In unpacking the difference between
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these three headlines I will shw why all three need t be present
in an apprpriate mix fr fruitful deelpment.
Chapter 5 returns t the theme f cntext and fcuses n
the imprtance f indiidual identity and persnal needsand preferences while deelping in Christian ministry. I als
address the key place f catinal discernment, calling and
selectin when cnsidering majr areas f Christian deelp-
ment. The nature f the ministry cntext and the matching f
the needs f the cntext t indiidual calling and catin will
be a majr theme f this chapter.
It is crucial t acknwledge that needs and situatins change;
just because smething wrks nce desnt mean that it will
wrk eery time. And if smething didnt wrk, why didnt
it wrk? Chapter 6 therefre addresses the need fr regular
reflectin and reiew. While prpsing that bth frmal
and infrmal prcesses fr reflectin and reiew shuld
always be a part f any Christian deelpment, I will alsdiscuss the central place f ministerial deelpment reiew
(MDR) fr bth rdained and lay ministers (and what gd
MDR lks like).
Chapter 7 reminds us that, in the wrds f Jhn Dnne, N
man is an island. Here is the emphasis that ministry is nt a
lne endeaur, but that all are Gds ministers, wrking in
c-peratin with the Hly Spirit and in cllabratin withther ministers and with the whle peple f Gd. Althugh
we might well start with the Whats in it fr me? questin, this
is nly apprpriate if seen within the wider cntext f building
cmmunity within the le f Gd. Underlining the whle
endeaur, then, is a Trinitarian and relatinal apprach t
ministry.
In Chapter 8 I will ffer an rganized, yet pen, appracht training and deelpment which includes seen practical
steps. These, I suggest, if taken seriusly and prprtinally,
will gie an apprpriately structural underpinning fr effectie
and fruitful ministry deelpment.
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Coda
The Oxford English Dictionarydescribes the wrd rganic in
this cntext as meaning characterized by r designating cn-tinuus r natural deelpment. S much in the Gspels pints
twards Jesus wrking with the raw material, the expectatins,
that are presented. Whether its the parable f the swer, which
recgnizes the imprtance f the cntext in which the swer
sws, r the peple Jesus encunters and surrunds himself
with a tax cllectr, fishermen, a Zealt Jesus life reflects
an rganic apprach t his ministry and missin. Jesus earthly
ministry is characterized by the cntinual and natural deelp-
ment f peple amng whm he spends his time; he neer expects
them t be ther than the peple they are, yet he helps t deelp
them t play their part in the spreading f the gd news.