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Foster Parent Support Line 2

Protocol Support Contact Information 2, 19

Relief Care Contact Listing 3

Family Care Rates Guidelines 3

FPSSS Coordinator Updates 4

A CHILD’S SONG CONFERENCE

6

TRAUMA INFORMED CARE WEBINAR

6

FOSTER HOPE INFORMATION SESSIONS

7

South Island News and Events 8

Central Island News and Events 10

Healthy Families, Helping Systems

12

Upper Island News and Events 13

North Island News and Events 15

Non-Verbal Communication

15

BCFCE 2018 Spring Schedule

16

Resource Work Policies 8.7

17

Room for Improvement 18

Contacts 19

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Do You Need Help or Information?

The following numbers are provided for your convenience. Please feel free to call these numbers when you need assistance.

EMERGENCY “Centralized Screening” Duty Worker (MCFD) Contact Number: 1-800-663-9122 • Foster Parents are encouraged to call this number in the event of an EMERGENCY

or CRISIS concerning a child in their care, occurring after regular office hours.

FOSTER PARENT SUPPORT LINE (MCFD) Call Toll Free: 1-888-495-4440 Weekdays: 4:00pm to 12:45am Statutory Holidays & Weekends: 8:00am to 12:45am If you have an immediate concern relating to child in your care we are here to help you and will provide: • Fast response for urgent issues outside regular office hours. • Professional support, information and consultation.

PROTOCOL SUPPORT WORKER TEAM (FPSSS) TOLL FREE 1-888-922-8437 The FPSS Society office can arrange for a support person to help you through a Protocol Investigation. • The support person can answer your questions, attend any interviews with you,

and give you information about the investigation.

FPSS SOCIETY COORDINATORS (FPSSS) TOLL FREE 1-888-922-8437 Monday through Thursday 9:00am to 4:00pm, Friday 9:00am to 1:00pm Closed Weekends and Statutory Holidays The FPSSS Coordinators are available 5 days a week to assist you. • There are FPSS Society Offices in Victoria (778-430-5460) and Nanaimo (250-802-

4414); and Local Coordinators in Cowichan Valley (1-888-922-8437), Port Alberni (250-735-1124), Comox Valley (250-898-4488), Campbell River (250-204-1566), and Port Hardy (250-949-7397).

• Coordinators are available to assist foster parents in obtaining current information; support services for caregivers; ongoing training and development opportunities; peer support and mentoring; and BC Foster Care Education Program information.

The opinions expressed herein are those of the writers and not necessarily those of the FPSS Foster Parent Support Services Society or the Ministry of Children and Family Development.

NEWSLETTER: The Island Connection is published 5 times per year; emailed and mailed

free of charge to all foster homes and MCFD offices in the Vancouver Island region.

ADVERTISING INFORMATION: Tel: 778-430-5462 / admin@fpsss.com

You can stay connected to the most up-to-date news of training and networking events in your area at home or on the go!

You can...go to our interactive website www.fpsss.com

You can...find us on FACEBOOK or TWITTER

You can...download a Calendars of Events directly to your Outlook or smartphone!

You can...call and talk to us in person!

GUIDELINE TO THE FAMILY CARE RATE—2009*

Basic Foster Care Costs (per month) Ages 0-11 years Ages 12-19 years

Food 135.04 183.35

Housing 149.51 183.35

Transportation 67.52 76.89

Personal Needs 14.46 17.74

Recreation 33.78 35.50

Clothing 81.98 94.63

Sub-total 482.29 591.46

Additional Family Care Costs Ages 0-11 years Ages 12-19 years

Education 25.72 31.85

Babysitting 86.81 57.33

Transportation 61.09 60.51

Personal Spending 41.79 54.14

Gifts/ Activities 61.09 60.51

Equipment/ Recreation 45.03 54.15

Sub-total 321.53 318.49

Total Maintenance (per month) 803.82 909.95

*The amounts in each category are estimates of what is required for most children. Actual costs will vary between categories, with some caregivers spending more

in some categories but less in others. The total amounts should be sufficient to cover the actual costs for most children. (Estimates developed by Dan Malone, FPSSS)

The Relief Foster Care Rates

Restricted (for a child aged 0 to 11 yrs) $36.79

Restricted (for a child aged 12 to 19 yrs) $40.33

Regular (for a child aged 0 to 11 yrs) $36.79

Regular (for a child aged 12 to 19 yrs) $40.33

Level 1 (all ages) $55.60

Level 2 (all ages) $68.35

Level 3 (all ages) $90.89

RATES EFFECTIVE APRIL 1, 2009

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The following is a listing of Ministry approved homes willing to provide Relief Care for foster parents. This list is for information purposes only. Foster parents must make their own arrangements with the prior knowledge and

approval of their Resource Worker.

SOUTH Island Relief Care Listing CAREGIVER PHONE TYPE OF HOME

Hughes Elaine 250-590-1298 Level 1 / 3+ yrs

Kitcher Julie 250-294-0275 Level 1 / 0-12 yrs

Tuttle, Celina Plant, Roger 778-433-5988 Level 1 & 2, 10-18 yrs

Weeks Amanda 250-592-0471 Level 2 / 4-9yrs

Case Sandy & Rob 250-478-2782 Level 2 / 0-5 yrs

Shumard Laura & Steve 250-478-1973 Level 2 / 0-5 yrs

Henderson Carol 250-474-7470 Level 2/ 0-12 yrs

Cooper Cheri 250-415-9216 Level 2 / 5-10 yrs

McKay Meaghan 250-532-3158 Level 2 & 3, 12-18 yrs

Cooper Karyn & Leo 250-216-7003 Level 3

Smith Natalie & Evan 250-544-0041 Level 3 / 2-6 yrs; boys

Thompson Dianne 250-216-6380 Level 3 / 2-8 yrs

Bergeron Michelle 250-474-4735 Level 3 / 7-19 yrs

Clifford Shandra 250-727-6542 Level 3 / 5-12 yrs

Dewar Maria & Bob 250-478-6503 Level 3/ 5-19 yrs; boys

Dorsey James 778-350-5527 Level 3 / 10-18 yrs; boys

CENTRAL and UPPER Island Relief Care

Please Note: Central Island Area: Foster Parents are encouraged to contact their Resource Social Worker, or the Child’s Social Worker when seeking relief care from Ministry approved caregivers. Campbell River and Area: A current Caregiver Relief List is now available. Please contact Heather Murphy 250-923-6028 to access.

Relief-a break from caregiving—is important for both the child-in-care and the foster parents in most family care homes. Relief means overnight care, typically lasting between 1-3 days that takes place either in the foster parent’s home or in the home of the relief care provider.

Respite is not the same as relief. Respite is out-of-home care provided or funded as a service to a child’s parents with whom there is a Support Service Agreement.

Foster Family Handbook (Page 50)

Since you are responsible for ensuring the suitability of any person entrusted with the care of the child in your home, usually you will use an approved foster parent. Ideally you would identify proposed relief care providers (e.g. relatives, family friends) when your home study assessment is in process so that future relief care providers can be screened/assessed/approved at the same time.

Foster Parent Support Services Society Receives a Third Consecutive

Three-Year CARF Accreditation

Below is a sample of the comments in the Accreditation Report

“CARF is an independent, non-profit accreditor of health and human services, enhancing the lives of persons served worldwide. The accreditation process applies CARF’s internationally recognized standards during an on-site survey conducted by peer surveyors. Accreditation, however, is an ongoing process that distinguishes a provider’s service delivery and signals to the public that the provider is committed to continuous performance improvement, responsive to feedback, and accountable to the community and its other stakeholders.”

“CARF found that FPSS Foster Parent Support Services Society demonstrated the following strengths:

• FPSSS demonstrates an excellence that has been developed through a conscientious momentum of dedication, talent, and vision during the past 15 years in fulfilling its mission throughout the Victoria, British Columbia area.

• The staff members of FPSSS are exceptional in delivering a comprehensive support program to foster families through direct service and collaboration…

• The FPSSS website is highly informative, attractive, and user-friendly. Satisfaction surveys indicate that foster families are accessing it for information and find it to be a valuable support…

• The mentoring program is a special project of FPSSS that has been developed without special funds to further support and develop the skills of foster parents. It is organized with a researched curriculum, training, and certification process…

• The board of directors at FPSSS includes members who have a wealth of experience and knowledge that collectively contribute to the strong governance of the organization…

• FPSSS produces and distributes a newsletter five times per year. The newsletter is produced in-house and is of professional quality, resulting in an attractive, polished document at a fraction of the price.”

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SOUTH ISLAND Area Update Prepared by Janet Christie T: 778-430-5460 Toll free: 1-888-922-8437 E: sicoord@fpsss.com Foster Parent/MCFD Resource Partnership Foster parents are encouraged to attend these MCFD-chaired meetings where Resource Social Workers are available to answer questions. On-site babysitting provided. South Vancouver Island Retention and Recruitment Committee This partnership meeting has representation from MCFD Residential Resources, MCFD Aboriginal Resources, Child and Youth with Special Needs, Aboriginal Foster Parent Support Agencies, FPSS Society, SIFPA, and local foster parents. FPSS Society received a one-time only fund to assist with recruitment of foster homes. A dedicated recruitment coordinator has been hired to facilitate this. Safe Babies Support Group The Safe Babies Support Group continues to meet monthly to discuss information pertaining to issues and the care of vulnerable infants. Life Book Sessions FPSS Society offers Life Book sessions with foster parent facilitator Karyn Cooper. Life Books are a way of documenting memories for children and youth in care. FPSS Society can scan completed Life Books for the social worker to place a copy in the child’s file. All supplies provided! FPSS Mentoring Program Mentors are experienced foster parents who have received specialized training on how to mentor other foster parents. FPSS Society currently has a pool of mentors available to connect with new foster parents. Other Training FPSS Society organized a First Aid Certification course through Alert First Aid. FPSS Society have slowly been rolling out the FPSS Mentoring Program on Vancouver Island. We recently presented an orientation to Resources team in Campbell River as the next community to receive the mentor training. Ongoing Training FPSS Society continues to support foster parents who attend other community-based training. We continue to look to foster parents what they would like for ongoing training as

caregivers. If you know of training that might be beneficial, please contact Janet Christie at sicoord@fpsss.com or 778-430-5460.

E-mail Distribution List and Calendar If you would like to receive e-mail notifications of workshops, meetings and news of interest to foster parents, contact Janet Christie, the South Vancouver Island Coordinator at 778-430-5460 or sicoord@fpsss.com. Foster parents can see events on our website calendars at http://fpsss.com/calendars/south-island-events/.

CENTRAL ISLAND Area Updates

Email Distribution List Central Island caregivers can contact their Local Area Coordinator to be added to the local distribution list. Your coordinator keeps you updated on workshops, peer groups, and other fostering activities. This is especially important for last minute changes.

PORT ALBERNI Area Update Prepared by Juanita Currie T: 250-735-1124 E: pacoord@fpsss.com Port Alberni Foster Parent Coffee Support These monthly meetings are great opportunities for foster parents to share information, ask questions, or find an objective sounding board in other foster parents who understand the challenges and rewards of fostering. Cultural Agility Training Foster parents learned about items traded on the “Grease Trail” and surviving with resources found on the land and sea. Trauma and Addiction This workshop was informative and well presented with great videos showing what happens when a child grows up in a home with addiction, verbal and or physical abuse and how intervention can reshape a child’s life. Amber touched on the ACES study as well.

COWICHAN VALLEY Area Update Prepared by Michelle Beam T: 250-714-2691 E: dacoord@fpsss.com Foster Parent/MCFD Resource Partnership Meeting Foster parents are encouraged to attend these MCFD-chaired meetings where Resource Social Workers are available to answer questions. On-site babysitting provided. Contact Debbie Underhill at 250-715-2892 (MCFD) NANAIMO/PARKSVILLE Area Update Prepared by Brenda Nicholson T: 250-802-4414 E: cicoord@fpsss.com MCFD Partnership Meetings MCFD and foster parents meet monthly to discuss topics that contribute to the recruitment and retention of foster parents. Partnership meetings build relationships between MCFD and foster parents and create a close community of foster parents supporting foster parents. In February Guest Speaker, Constable Eric Coyne spoke to us on drug awareness. Be on the lookout for invitations and upcoming meeting topics. Foster Parent Network Gathering Foster parents meet monthly to get to know each other, have fun, and enjoy coffee and snacks. Foster parents build relationships that provide support, friendship, and resources that help us support vulnerable children. In January we held an evening gathering for foster parents that work during the day. Children were invited and explored the toys and crafts at our Applecross office. Nineteen participants attended this gathering. Network Gathering time is spent on getting to know our fellow foster caregivers.

I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than

history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over

experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than

death. Robert Fulghum

FPSSS Coordinator UPDATES:

victoria

parksville

comox valley

campbell river

tofino port

alberni

nanaimo

port hardy

port mcneill

duncan

Safe Babies Training In January, the four-week Safe Babies Training began. This training is mandatory for caregivers who desire to care for medically fragile babies. Thank you to the caregivers who have adjusted their already busy schedules to take part in this training and for the interest in caring for these precious babies. Wanted “External Brains” Parenting Strategies for Supporting Children with FASD Dr. Diane Russell, Clinical Neuropsychologist, presented three-hour interactive, exciting workshop offering parenting strategies for supporting children with FASD. The feedback we received from this workshop was overwhelmingly positive. Seventy-nine people attended this event. Parksville In January, fifteen foster parents attended two sessions with Jan Ference to look at Trauma Informed Care. This training is part of an initiative from Parksville Child and Youth Mental Health to develop a community response to trauma with counsellors, school professionals, MCFD staff and foster parents.

UPPER ISLAND Area Updates Comox Valley Area Update Prepared by Lisa Bowie T: 250-898-4488 Toll free: 1-888-922-8437 E: cvcoord@fpsss.com Comox Valley Film Fest Film Fest has been going strong with decent turn out most weeks. This is where foster parents get the support they need and take part in education, discussion and problem solving. Bring your lunch and enjoy Diane’s famous popcorn. Our sessions are engaging and meaningful to fostering! Contact Diane at diane@jhsni.bc.ca or 250-338-7341 ext. 323 with any questions.

Foster Parent/MCFD Partnership Meeting Twenty people attended the January Comox Valley Partnership for a discussion on the upcoming workshop, Belonging on Foreign Ground. BCFFPA talked about having identification for the child in your care for prescription drugs. We covered Resource Work Policy 8.11 “Allowable number of children in a Care Giving Home” . Comox Valley Education Committee Heidi Hentze and Diane Daigle facilitated Belonging on Foreign Ground. This was a

collaboration between our Resource Worker and our Behavioural Consultant to Caregivers. It focused on “How to create a sense of belonging for a child in your care!” Lifebooks are a collaborative effort between social workers and foster parents and are crucial to promote belonging and identity for children in care. Campbell River Area Update Prepared by Judy Hollywood Bonnet T: 250-204-1566 Toll free: 1-888-922-8437 E: uicoord@fpsss.com Foster Parent/MCFD Partnership Meeting January and February meetings addressed relevant topics. Read the draft meeting minutes distributed by email or contact Tom Robinson CR Foster Parent Association for partnership information. Youth Home Caregiver Monthly Meeting Thank you to our knowledgeable presenter; Foundry’s Mark Tazumi for his Youth to Adult Transition session at our January meeting. We had a check-in and support meeting with caregivers in February. Organizers are thrilled with the participation of a growing number of youth home caregivers. Thanks for your time and attention. Campbell River Foster Parent Association The MCFD Children and Youth with Special Needs team attended and outlined their services at the January meeting. In February, Mary Catherine Williams and Michelle Holland facilitated the workshop Belonging on Foreign Ground: Fostering a Sense of Belonging with Children in Care. Indigenous Cultural Event On February 27th and 28th MCFD arranged an event called Sacred Gifts Golden Threads. This event provided an opportunity for participants to learn about local traditions and build bridges of understanding. Thanks go to First Nations communities, attendees, and organizers. Campbell River Safe Babies Caregiver January meeting’s discussion topic was Helping Children Heal – Trauma and Attachment. Caregivers report these meetings provide great peer support and skill enhancement. Thanks to Mary Catherine for facilitating. MCFD Staffing Update Foster parents and network members attended a retirement tea for Brenda Hanrahan, Resources Team Leader, on

February 21st. Farewell Brenda, enjoy your retirement! We welcome Marianne Currie as the new Team Leader and Tricia Gereluk as a frontline worker to the Resources Team.

NORTH ISLAND Area Updates

PORT HARDY Area Updates Prepared by Jackie Kervin T: 250-949-7397 Toll free: 1-888-922-8437 E: jackiekervin@gmail.com Foster Parent/MCFD Partnership Meeting Five foster parents and Social Workers with MCFD and Foster Support attended our January partnership meeting. Nicki Ranger addressed foster parent questions regarding the Foster Care Home levelling process and will share this information with all North Island foster parents by letter. The group also discussed upcoming workshops and foster family events. On-going Training There was a terrific turn out of foster parents, MCFD and NICC staff to hear the presentation What Kids Need presented by Dr. Vanessa Lapointe on January 15th. The workshop specifically considered the situations of children in care. Foster parents were thrilled to have one-on-one consultations with Dr. Lapointe. MCFD funded the event. Peer Support February’s foster peer support breakfast was held at Market Street Café. Thank you to participants.

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Daylight Savings Time March 11th

Remember to turn your clocks, watches,

microwaves, DVD players, and other time-sensitive electronic devices

forward one hour so you continue to be on

time for all the fun things you do in

a day. Don’t think of it as losing an

hour’s sleep, think of it as an excuse

to go to bed an hour earlier!

FPSS Society presents

Foster Parents, You DO Make a Difference Island-Wide Conference

A Child’s Song Facilitated by Andrea Chatwin

May 9th in Nanaimo Welcome facilitator Andrea Chatwin, MAA, CCC, founder of A Child’s Song. Children need consistent, predictable and committed caregivers in order to reach their full potential. A Child’s Song equips families with tools to become therapeutic parents and experts on their children. Topics include addressing trauma, understanding behaviour, supporting transitions, and learning strategies that will increase parent (caregiver) child connection and improve child functioning. This workshop will be of interest to social workers and caregivers engaged in adoption, fostering, or raising the child of a relative. Watch your emails for more information. Not on our email distribution list? Call the Regional Office today and add your name. You will receive notices of social events, training, and peer support opportunities and collaborative meetings where can share questions, concerns, and ideas.778-430-5459 or admin@fpsss.com.

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WEBINAR FOR FOSTER PARENTS ON VANCOUVER ISLAND

Healing Families, Helping Systems: A Trauma-Informed Practice (TIP) Guide for Working with Children, Youth and Families

Wednesday, March 7th, 7:00pm to 8:30pm Presenter: Nancy Poole, Director of the British Columbia Centre of Excellence for

Women’s Health, and the Prevention Lead for the CanFASD Research Network

Trauma-informed approaches involve a paradigm shift to support changes in everyday practice to factor in the centrality of trauma for many children, youth, and families, and our growing

understanding of how to promote resilience. The overall goal of trauma-informed approaches is to develop environments that do not re-traumatize while also promoting coping skills and

resilience. Nancy Poole is the writer of the guide and will be presenting an overview. There will be an opportunity for questions at the end.

ABOUT THE PRESENTER Nancy is well-known for her work on research, training and policy initiatives related to trauma-

informed practice, girls' and women's alcohol, tobacco and prescription drug use, Aboriginal women's health, prevention of fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, gender and health promotion,

and the intersections of women's mental health, experience of trauma, homelessness and substance use/addiction.

Watch your email for Registration Information. This webinar will be recorded for those unable to attend.

LINK TO THE DOCUMENT https://www2.gov.bc.ca/assets/gov/health/child-teen-mental-health/trauma-informed_practice_guide.pdf

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION TOUCHTOUCH

A great number of cultural expressions are achieved through touch. In America, for example, using a firm handshake is considered appropriate to greet a stranger or another business professional. In France, however, it is common to kiss someone you greet on both cheeks. Touching children on the head is fine in North America. Yet in Asia, this is considered highly inappropriate, as the head is considered a sacred part of the body. In the Middle East, the left hand is customarily used to handle bodily hygiene. Therefore, using that hand to accept a gift or shake hands is considered extremely rude. [Lefties beware!] There are also a wide range of cultural viewpoints on the appropriate rules regarding physical contact between both similar and opposite genders. http://online.pointpark.edu/business/cultural-differences-in-nonverbal-communication/

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World Autism Awareness Day April 2nd 2018

The TENTH ANNUAL WORLD AUTISM AWARENESS DAY is April 2nd, 2018.Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a complex condition that impacts normal brain development and affects a person's social relationships, communication, interests and behaviour. Because ASD is a spectrum disorder, there is wide variation in how it affects each person. Individuals with ASD vary widely in their needs, skills and abilities. For more information on ASD, refer to the following websites:

Ministry of Children and Family Development: https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/health/managing-your-health/healthy-women-children/child-behaviour-development/special-needs/autism-spectrum-disorder Victoria Society for Children with Autism: http://www.victoriaautismsociety.ca/ Autism Community Training: http://www.actcommunity.ca/

VICTORIA FOSTER PARENT INFORMATION SESSIONS

CALL DIANNE AT 778-430-5459 TO REGISTER

Victoria Wednesday, March 14th 12:00 noon to 1:00pm MCFD office, 140-4460 Chatterton Way

Victoria Wednesday, March 28th 6:30pm to 7:30pm MCFD office, 140-4460 Chatterton Way

Victoria Wednesday, April 11th 6:30pm to 7:30pm MCFD office, 140-4460 Chatterton Way

Victoria Wednesday, April 25th 12:00 noon to 1:00pm MCFD office, 140-4460 Chatterton Way

DUNCAN FOSTER PARENT INFORMATION SESSIONS

CALL DEBBIE UNDERHILL AT 250-715-2892 TO REGISTER

Duncan Thursday, March 8th 12:00 noon to 1:00pm VI Regional Library, 2687 James Street

Duncan Tuesday, March 13th 6:30pm to 7:30pm Youth Drop-in Centre, 2687 James Street

Duncan Tuesday, April 10th 12:00 noon to 1:00pm VI Regional Library, 2687 James Street

Duncan Tuesday, April 10th 6:30pm to 7:30pm Youth Drop-in Centre, 2687 James Street

NANAIMO FOSTER PARENT INFORMATION SESSIONS

CALL SUZANNE AT 250-741-741-6732 OR RACHEL AT 250-741-5432 TO REGISTER

Nanaimo Wednesday, March 14th 3:00pm to 4:00pm MCFD Office 101-488 Albert Street

Nanaimo Thursday, March 15th 6:00pm to 7:00pm MCFD Office 101-488 Albert Street

Nanaimo Wednesday, April 11th 3:00pm to 4:00pm MCFD Office 101-488 Albert Street

Nanaimo Thursday, April 12th 6:00pm to 7:00pm MCFD Office 101-488 Albert Street

COMOX VALLEY FOSTER PARENT INFORMATION SESSIONS

CALL LORI AT 250-218-2704 TO REGISTER

Comox Valley Wednesday, March 7th 6:30pm to 8:00pm Call to 250-218 2704 to Register

Comox Valley Friday, March 16th 10:00am to 11:30am Call to 250-218-2704 to Register

Comox Valley Wednesday, April 4th 6:30pm to 8:00pm Call to 250-218-2704 to Register

Comox Valley Friday, April 20th 10:00am to 11:30pm Call to 250-218-2704 to Register

T he need for foster homes continues to be great across Vancouver Island. If you know of someone who is interested in fostering,

encourage them to attend an Information Session in their area. You can find more information at fosterhope.ca and fpsss.com. The Regional office can also direct you to your local Ministry office. 1-888-922-8437.

Janet Christie South Island Coordinator 778-430-5459 or sicoord@fpsss.com

Caregiver Wellness Evening Friday, March 2nd, 6:30pm to 9:30pm FPSS Society Office, 145-735 Goldstream Avenue Relax in a stress-free environment and make bath bombs and essential oil spritzers. RSVP to Sandy Case 250-415-8135 slcase@cshaw.ca. Foster Parent and Resource Worker Partnership Meeting Monday, March 5th, 9:30am to 11:30am MCFD Office, 345 Wale Road New! These meetings will now be held once every two months instead of every month This is an opportunity for foster parents to meet with Resource Social Workers, be informed of Ministry updates and staffing and policy changes, and have any questions answered. A Ministry Standard is reviewed and discussed at each meeting. Free on-site babysitting. Foster Hope Information Sessions Wednesday, March 14th, 12:00 noon to 1:00pm Wednesday, March 28th, 6:30pm to 7:30pm Wednesday, April 11th, 6:30pm to 7:30pm Wednesday, April 25th, 12:00 noon to 1:00pm MCFD Office, 140-4460 Chatterton Way Do you have a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or relative interested in becoming a foster parent? Please contact Dianne Thompson to register for an information session at 778-430-5459 or sirecruitment@fpsss.com. See also page 7.

She always laughed when she heard someone say, “Not my circus, not my

monkeys,” because it was her circus, and

they were her monkeys, and she wouldn’t have it any other way.

Safe Baby Caregiver Training Fridays, April 6th, 12th, 20th, and 26th

9:30am to 3:00pm MCFD Office,

Presented by Dana Kinney 140-4460 Chatterton Way

FPSS Society is pleased to offer a Safe Baby Caregiver training this spring. To take this training, you must be pre-approved and selected by

your Resource Social Worker. Attendance on all four days mandatory. If you would like to be considered for approval to attend this training, contact your Resource Worker for more information. Limited seating. To register or for more information, contact Janet Christie at 778-430-5459 or sicoord@fpsss.com.

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Fostering 101 THURSDAY, March 15th

6:30pm to 9:00pm (6:30pm to 7:00pm Meet and Greet)

FPSS Society, 145-735 Goldstream Avenue

SIFPA and FPSSS would like to invite you to an interactive meeting with lively discussion on current fostering issues.

Please RSVP to Sandy Case at 250-478-2782 or slcase@shaw.ca. All foster parents welcome!

Annual Easter Egg Hunt Saturday, March 31st, 12:30pm to 2:30 pm

Military Resource Centre, 2610 Rosebank Road (off Ocean Blvd)

Come out to this fun family event!

We provide hot dogs, snacks and drinks for everyone, plus an

Easter Egg Hunt for the kids with goodie bag prizes! All family

members welcome. Please RSVP to Sandy Case at

slcase@shaw.ca.

NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATION ParalanguageParalanguage

“Paralanguage” refers to factors of speech such as accent, pitch range, volume or articulation. In Britain, for example, people use volume to convey anger, while in India, they use it to command attention. Japanese women make a point of raising the pitch of their voices to differentiate themselves from men. In America, voice pitch between genders remains comparably the same. The use of and attitude toward silence can also be considered a type of paralanguage. The Greeks use silence as a way to refuse things, while Egyptians use it to consent. Some cultures (such as those in Asia) are generally more comfortable with long bouts of silence than others. When international business professionals take the time to learn what isn’t being said, everyone benefits. Not only will their efforts decrease the likelihood of misunderstandings, they will improve their abilities to negotiate, solve problems effectively, create good working relationships and become better global citizens http://online.pointpark.edu/business/cultural-differences-in-nonverbal-communication/

FASD and Adverse Childhood Experiences Monday, April 9th, 10:00am to 1:00pm

Present by Dr. Caron Byrne, Psychiatrist Juan de Fuca Library Meeting Room, 1759 Island Highway

The challenges individuals with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder have with anxiety, dysregulation, depression, PTSD and often early trauma, loss, and adverse childhood experiences will be discussed. Suggestions regarding approaches, assessment and treatment will be explored. Dr. Byrne worked as a consultant psychiatrist with the Developmental Disability Mental Health Support Team (DDMHT) on Vancouver Island. Dr. Byrne has lectured on FASD and mental health issues to a wide variety of audiences. Dr. Caron Byrne is retired and lives in central Vancouver Island. To register, contact Janet Christie at 778-430-5459 or sicoord@fpsss.com

Permanency Planning Workshop Tuesday, April 17th, 12:00 noon to 3:00pm

Presented by Michelle Robertson Ministry of Children and Family Development

Location TBA The different out-of-care options will be discussed; as well as emotional, financial and legal considerations, and how caregivers can be part of permanency planning for children in their care. Presented in partnership with Ministry of Children and Family Development and the Adoptive Families Association. Coffee, tea, and light refreshments will be served. Registration information to follow.

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FPSS Peer Mentoring Program

“Peer support is founded upon the principle that people who have lived experiences in common have something to offer each other which cannot be provided by others.”

The Canadian Mental Health Association

The FPSS Peer Mentoring Program is developed for foster parents by foster parents. Mentors are volunteer foster parents who have received specialized mentorship training.

This is a free, confidential resource for new and existing Vancouver Island foster parents (including Restricted caregivers), who hold a Family Care Home Agreement with the Ministry of Children and Family Development or a Delegated Aboriginal Agency. For more information, contact Janet Christie, Regional Mentor Coordinator at sicoord@fpsss.com or 778-430-5460.

Are you new to fostering? Imagine having the opportunity to tap into something bigger than yourself. That “Something Bigger” is our

mentoring program.

Peer Support Service SOUTH ISLAND

Friendly, non-judgmental, and confidential support to local caregivers regarding family issues, behaviour management

guidance, personal support, and debriefing. Whether you need an objective sounding board from someone

who understands what fostering is all about or someone to help you trouble shoot a crisis situation.

You are invited to call Vicki at 250-661-3348

Monday to Friday, 8:00am to 8:00pm or email at vbridge@shaw.ca

SAVE THE DATES For those who like to plan ahead...Here are two events that are coming up in May. Watch your email for more details and registration information. Not on our email distribution list? Call the Regional Office today and add your name. You will receive notices of social events, training and peer support opportunities and collaborative meetings where can share questions, concerns, and ideas.

One Day Workshop with Kathi Camilleri Building Bridges Through Understanding the Village

Friday, May 4th, 9:00am to 4:00pm Watch your email for registration information.

Caregiver Wellness-Evenings Select Fridays, 6:30pm to 9:30pm

145-735 Goldstream Avenue Join fellow caregivers for an evening of relaxation and self-care. Please call Sandy Case with your suggestions for stress-reducing activities.

Passing of Long-term foster parent Carmen Jones

With a heavy heart, FPSS Society bids goodbye to long term foster parent Carmen Jones. Carmen was a caregiver for 33 years with MCFD and was highly respected in the fostering community. Her unique style and strengths allowed her to touch the lives of many children in care. A youth that spent time in her care said she was “... a compassionate lady whom he had a lot of great talks with, someone who took the hard kids but was the perfect person do

to this tough work.” Carmen was living proof of how the little

things we do everyday make a big difference in the lives of children

in care and those not in care.

Melanie Morton, Central Island Safe Babies Coordinator 250-756-6297 or cisbcoord@fpsss.com

FPSS Society welcomes Melanie Morton as our new Central Island Safe Babies Coordinator. Contact Melanie with any questions or ideas you have regarding the challenges and gifts that come from caring for Safe Babies. See under Cowichan Valley, Port Alberni, and Nanaimo for meetings and training in your area.

PORT ALBERNI AREA

Juanita Currie Port Alberni local Coordinator 250-735-1124 or pacoord@fpsss.com

Living with FASD Thursday, March 1st, 9:30am to 2:30pm

Port Alberni Lawn Bowling Club, 4255-A Wallace Street Presented by Myles Himmelreich

Lunch provided. FPSSS is partnering with Circles of Cedar to bring foster parents this personal, powerful presentation on the challenges and gifts that come with FASD. For more information or to register for this workshop, contact Juanita Currie at 250-735-1124 or pacoord@fpsss.com.

The Neurological Impact of Trauma on the Brain Wednesday, March 14th, 9:30am to 2:30pm

Port Alberni Friendship Centre, 3555 4th Avenue Presented by Jan Ference

Lunch provided FPSS Society is partnering with Circles of Cedar and the Port Alberni Friendship Centre to present Jan Ference. Twenty sports are reserved for out-of-town foster parents. For more information or to register for this workshop, contact Juanita Currie at 250-735-1124 or pacoord@fpsss.com.

Culture Agility Wednesday, March 28th, 9:30am to 11:00am Venue: TBA Topic: Fried bread and bannock making! Join us for conversation, networking, and fun as well learn to make fried bread and bannock. We’ll wrap up the meeting by sharing and enjoying our tasty treats. For more information or to register for this workshop, contact Juanita Currie at 250-735-1124 or pacoord@fpsss.com.

COWICHAN VALLEY AREA

Michelle beam Cowichan valley Local Coordinator 250-714-2691 or dacoord@fpsss.com

Foster Hope Information Sessions Thursday, March 8th, 12:00 noon to 1:00pm VI Regional Library Meeting Room, 2687 James Street Tuesday, March 13th, 6:30pm to 7:30pm Youth Drop-In Centre, 2687 James Street Tuesday, April 10th, 12:00 noon to 1:00pm VI Regional Library Meeting Room, 2687 James Street Tuesday, April 10th, 6:30pm to 7:30pm Youth Drop-In Centre, 2687 James Street Do you have a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or relative interested in becoming a foster parent? Please contact Debbie Underhill to register for an information session at 250-715-2892. See also page 7. Foster Parent/MCFD Resource Partnership Meeting Foster parents are encouraged to attend these MCFD-chaired meetings where Resource Social Workers are available to answer questions. On-site babysitting provided. Please contact Debbie Underhill at 250-715-2892 (MCFD). Cowichan Valley Foster Parent Coffee/Support Mornings Wednesday, March 21st, 10:00am to 12:00 noon Wednesday, April 18th, 10:00am to 12:00 noon St. John’s Anglican Church, 163 First Street Free on-site babysitting and refreshments. Please contact Lisa Johnston, President of CVFP Local, at lisajdanah@gmail.com should you wish to help out at future foster family events.

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Becoming a Foster Parent

in the Cowichan Valley

If you have a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or childcare provider interested in becoming a foster

parent in the Cowichan Valley please have them contact

Debbie Underhill at 250-715-2892 (MCFD)

to learn how, and to find out about up-coming Pre-Service and Information Sessions.

Not on our email distribution list? Call the Regional Office today and add your name. You will receive notices of social

events, training and peer support opportunities and collaborative meetings where can share questions, concerns,

and ideas.

Call toll free1-888-922-8437

I love those connections

that make this big old world feel like a little village.

Gina Bellman

in Centre, 2687 James Street

Cowichan Valley Safe Babies Support Group Thursday, April 19th, 10:00am to 12:00 noon VI Regional Library Meeting Room, 6287 James Street The Safe Babies Support Group meets monthly to discuss information pertaining to the care of vulnerable infants. For more information please contact Melanie Morton cisbcoord@fpsss.com 250-756-6297. Upcoming Events For those who like to plan ahead...Watch your email for details and registration information about Foster Parent Appreciation Planning Committee, and BC Child and Youth in Care Week Planning Committee. If you are interested in learning more please contact, Michelle Beam at dacoord@fpsss.com or 250-714-2691.

NANAIMO AREA Brenda Nicholson Central Island Coordinator 250-802-4414 or cicoord@fpsss.com

Nanaimo MCFD/Foster Parent Partnership Meetings Tuesday, March 6th, 9:30am to 11:30am Tuesday, April 3rd, 9:30am to 11:30am MCFD Board Room 6551 Aulds Road, Nanaimo Come and join MCFD Resource Social Workers and Foster Parents for our monthly Partnership Meeting. As a collaborative group we have been working together on recruitment and retention ideas. This is an opportunity to be informed on Ministry updates/staffing/policies and have questions answered. A guest speaker is booked for each meeting. If you have ideas on an area of interest you feel would benefit foster parents please contact Melanie Morton cisbcoord@fpsss.com or 250-756-6297.

Nanaimo Foster Parent Information Sessions Wednesday, March 14th, 3:00pm to 4:00pm Thursday, March 15th, 6:00pm to 7:00pm Wednesday, April 11th, 3:00pm to 4:00pm Thursday, April 12th, 6:00pm to 7:00pm MCFD Office, 101-488 Albert Street If you or someone you know is interested in learning more about becoming a foster parent, please attend an upcoming information session. Contact Suzanne (250)741-6732 or Rachel (250)741-5432 to register.

Nanaimo/Parksville Foster Parent Networking/Support Lunch Gathering Thursday, March 15th, 11:30am to 1:30pm Wednesday, April 11th, 11:30am to 1:30pm ABC Restaurant-meeting room, 6671 Mary Ellen Drive, Nanaimo A support gathering for foster caregivers to meet, have a meal, relax, recharge and enjoy the understanding of other caregivers. This is a private room to ensure confidentiality and to allow for caregivers to bring little ones if needed. Any questions please contact Melanie Morton cisbcoord@fpsss.com or 250-756-6297. Nanaimo Safe Babies Support Group Wednesday, April 25th, 10:00am to 12:00 noon FPSSS Nanaimo Office 102-6421 Applecross Road Speaker: Kimberlee Howland The Safe Babies Support Group meets monthly to discuss information pertaining to the care of vulnerable infants. Family Resource Navigator Kimberlee Howland will speak at our April meeting. For more information please contact Melanie Morton cisbcoord@fpsss.com or 250-756-6297. Foster Homes Needed in Parksville There is a need for foster homes in the Oceanside area to provide care for every age group. If you have family or friends who are providing

relief to your foster kids, they are halfway to becoming full-time foster parents! Thank you to the foster parents who are actively recruiting friends and neighbours by demystifying the myths of foster care and extolling the benefits of rebuilding a child’s life. We are actively looking for caregivers who are interested in caring for children with special needs and or wanting to be a relief home to other foster parents. Give Alison or Bonny at call at 250-954-4737.

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FPSS Society Peer Mentoring Program FPSS Society believes that the best support and feedback for a foster parent are other foster parents who have the experience and knowledge to share. If you are a new caregiver and would like the support of a mentor in your corner please contact Brenda Nicholson 250-802-4414 or cicoord@fpsss.com This is a free, confidential resource developed by foster parents for foster parents.

Are you new to fostering? Imagine having the opportunity to tap into something bigger than

yourself. That “Something Bigger” is our mentoring program.

Becoming a Foster Parent

in the Nanaimo area

If you have a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or childcare provider interested in becoming a foster

parent in the Nanaimo area, please have them contact

Suzanne Jones at 250-741-6732 (MCFD)

to learn how, and to find out about up-coming Pre-Service Information Sessions.

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This guide is the result of a project of the Ministry of Children and Family Development in British Columbia with the following objectives:

TO IDENTIFY TRAUMA-INFORMED APPROACHES to supporting children, youth and families, from the academic and non-academic literature and from the experience of those delivering child and youth services in B.C. (child protection, youth justice, child and youth mental health, children with special needs, early years services, and family, youth and children in care services and adoption services).

TO RAISE AWARENESS among those delivering child and youth services in B.C. of evidence-informed approaches to trauma-informed service delivery.

TO INCREASE CAPACITY amongst service providers delivering child and youth services in B.C. to better serve children, youth and families impacted by violence and trauma, and thereby improve outcomes for those engaged with these services. 1.2 Intended Audience This Trauma-informed Practice (TIP) Guide is designed to inform the work of leaders, system planners and practitioners working with children, youth and families within the service areas of the British Columbia Ministry of Children and Family Development and Delegated Aboriginal Agencies. This document may also be relevant to those working with children, youth and families in other settings such as schools, hospitals and other community-based settings.

1.3 The Rationale for this Guide Experiences of trauma, arising from childhood abuse, neglect, witnessing violence and disrupted attachment, as well as other life experiences such as accidents, natural disasters, sudden unexpected loss, war/terrorism, cultural genocide and other life events that are out of one’s control – affect almost everyone in child and youth serving agencies. Children and their caregivers, therapists and administrators, program planners and support staff are all affected by these types of traumatic experiences, either directly or indirectly. Trauma-informed approaches to serving children, youth and families recognize how common the experiences of trauma are, and the wide range of effects trauma can have on both short-term and long-term health and well-being. Trauma-informed approaches involve a paradigm shift to support changes in everyday practices and policies to factor in the centrality of trauma for many children, youth, and families, and our growing understanding of how to promote resilience. The overall goal of trauma-informed approaches is to develop programs, services, and environments that do not re-traumatize while also promoting coping skills and resilience. The foundation of trauma-informed approaches is the wealth of research we now have on integrated, evidence-informed approaches that support brain development and resilience. Providing safety, choice, and control to individuals who have experienced trauma is the starting place and encourages us all to work in ways that can make a positive difference by reducing the short-term effects of trauma, supporting long-term healing, and creating systems of care that support staff, children, youth and families alike. A key aspect to trauma-informed practice is that it is delivered in a culturally safe manner to people from diverse backgrounds [2, 3]. This includes cultural sensitivity toward Aboriginal peoples, refugees, immigrants, and people of different religions, ethnicities and classes, and requires a commitment to ongoing professional development in cultural agility. Current Truth and Reconciliation processes are assisting Canadians to become more aware of the devastating intergenerational impacts of residential schools and other forms of institutional abuse on Aboriginal people’s cultural identity, health, and parenting. Trauma-informed practice is a component of broader healing strategies that help address historic and intergenerational trauma experienced by Aboriginal peoples. 2.1 Definitions Trauma has been described as having three aspects: exposure to harmful and/or overwhelming event(s) or circumstances, the experience of these event(s) which will vary from individual to individual, and effects which may be adverse and long-lasting in nature [3, 4]. There are a number of dimensions of trauma, including timing of first exposure, magnitude, complexity, frequency, duration, and whether it occurs from an interpersonal or external source. Two types of trauma particularly relevant to children and youth are developmental and intergenerational trauma. Developmental trauma results from exposure to early traumatic stress (as infants, children and youth) and is related to neglect, abandonment, physical abuse or assault, sexual abuse or assault, emotional abuse, loss and separation, witnessing violence or death, repeated grief and loss, and/or coercion or betrayal [5-8]. Developmental trauma can also be related to prenatal, birth, and perinatal experiences such as experiences involving poor prenatal care, a difficult pregnancy or birth and/ or early hospitalization. Often the term complex developmental trauma is used to acknowledge the impact of multiple or chronic exposure to trauma in the caregiving relationship. Children and youth may also experience system-induced trauma through exposure to invasive medical treatments, youth incarceration or involvement in the justice system, and multiple moves in foster care. LINK TO THE DOCUMENT https://www2.gov.bc.ca/assets/gov/health/child-teen-mental-health/trauma-informed_practice_guide.pdf

Healing Families, Helping Systems: A Trauma-Informed Practice (TIP) Guide

EXCEPT FROM

COMOX VALLEY

Lisa Bowie Comox Valley Coordinator 250-898-4488 or cvcoord@fpsss.com.

Comox Valley Film Fest Monday, March 5th, 11:00am to 2:00pm Monday, March 12th, 11:00am to 2:00pm Monday, March 19th, 11:00am to 2:00pm Monday, March 26th – No Film Fest/Spring Break Monday, April 2nd – No Film Fest/Spring Break Monday, April 9th, 11:00am to 2:00pm Monday, April 16th, 11:00am to 2:00pm Monday, April 23rd, 11:00am to 2:00pm Monday, April 30th, 11:00am to 2:00pm John Howard Society, 1455 Cliffe Avenue, Courtenay Film Fest, a weekly educational and supportive group focusing on understanding and responding to the behaviours of kids in care. Some of the topics include: Attachment, trauma, brain development, brain differences, grief and loss, child development, managing stress, and self-care. Please bring your lunch and, as always, popcorn is provided. For more information, please contact Diane Daigle at diane@jhsni.bc.ca or 250-334-7341 ext 323. The Comox Valley Foster Parent/MCFD Partnership Meeting Tuesday, March 13th, 9:30am to 11:30am Comox Valley United Soccer Club 1701 Lerwick Avenue All Foster Parents Welcome! Please come and join in the discussions, networking and enjoy tasty potluck treats. For more information or add to the agenda, please contact Lisa Bowie at cvcoord@fpsss.com or 250-898-4488. Comox Valley Safe Babies Friday, March 9th, 9:30am11:30am Friday, April 27th, 9:30am to 11:30am Topic: Lifebooks Comox Valley Child Development Centre, 237 Third Street The Comox Valley Safe Babies meeting happens monthly. For more information, please contact Mary Catherine Bellamy at mbellamy@shaw.ca or 250-703-6135. Comox Valley 2018 information Session /MCFD Wednesday, March 7th, 6:30pm to 8:00pm Friday, March 16th, 10:00am to 11:30am Wednesday, April 4th, 6:30pm to 8:00pm Friday, April 20th, 10:00am to 11:30am Register for an information session if you are thinking of becoming a foster parent. Please call Lori Villemere, MCFD, at 250-218-2704. See page 7.

CAMPBELL RIVER Judy Hollywood Bonnett Upper Island Coordinator 250-204-1566 or uicoord@fpsss.com

Foster Parent/MCFD Partnership Meeting Friday, March 2nd, 9:30am to 10:30am Friday, April 13th, 9:30am to 10:30am (NOTE DATE) Campbell River Family Services, Board Room, 487-10th Avenue All foster parents, MCFD social workers, Behavioural Consultants and C&Y Mental Health Staff can participate. Share your fostering concerns, learn about MCFD updates, and discuss local fostering trends. Contact co-chairs, Tom Robinson at sunrisestart@hotmail.com or Marianne Currie at Marianne.Currie@gov.bc.ca or 250-286-7542 for more information or to suggest a discussion item. Campbell River Foster Parent Association Meeting (CRFPA) Wednesday, March 7th, 9:30am to 11:30am Wednesday, April 11th, 9:30am to 11:30am (NOTE DATE) Campbell River Family Services, 487-10th Avenue Discover the benefits of peer support and drop in! Here you can network with local foster parents and share your concerns and successes. Our meetings have themes of interest to foster parents. Your participation and ideas welcomed! Please contact Tom Robinson at 250-204-9050 or sunrisestart@hotmail.com for information on this meeting, or any foster concerns you’d like to share with your local FP Association.

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Becoming a Foster Parent

in the Comox Valley

If you have a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or childcare provider interested in becoming a foster

parent in the Comox Valley please have them contact

Shawna Stevenson at 250-334-5820 (MCFD)

to learn how, and to find out about up-coming Foster Parent Information Sessions.

Comox Valley Foster Family Spring Event Sunday, March 18th, 1:30pm to 3:30pm

The LINC, 300 Old Island Hwy Across from Lewis Centre

All Comox Valley Foster Families and Social Workers are welcomed to this pizza, crafts, games, and indoor skatepark event. Kids are encouraged to bring their scooters and helmets! This is a great time for connection and fun!

What would your pet do if he or she found you sad and in pain? The answer is clear: give you love, give you comfort,

and stay with you as long as it took.

We can all take a lesson from our animal

friends.

Youth Home Caregiver Monthly Meeting Tuesday, March 13th, 12:00 noon to 2:00pm Topic: Rob Schoemaker Working with Teens: Reflective Statements versus Using Self-Disclosure Tuesday, April 10th, 12:00 noon to 2:00pm Campbell River Family Services, Conference Room, 487-10th Avenue (2nd Tuesday of the month) This group offers friendly conversation and practical tips to help you support the tween or teen in your care. Each month, the group focuses on a caregiver-driven discussion topic. Bring your coffee and drop by; light refreshments provided. For more information or to suggest a topic, please contact Mary Catherine Williams at 250-703-6135 or Robert Schoemaker. Joint Education Committee meeting Campbell River Family Services, Board Room, 487-10th Avenue Foster parents are welcomed to join in the planning of future workshop and training events. Please contact Mary Catherine Williams at 250-703-6135 or Robert Schoemaker for more information and date of the next meeting.

Campbell River Safe Babies Caregiver Meeting Wednesday, March 28th, 10:00am to 12:00 noon Wednesday, April 25th, 10:00am to 12:00 noon Topic: Lifebooks Campbell River Family Services, Young Parent Centre, 487-10th Avenue (4th Wednesday of the month) Each monthly meeting features a topic to keep your caregiving skills current! For more information, contact Mary Catherine at 250-703-6135.

Campbell River Foster Parent Association invites you to

Foster Family Spring Break Pizza and Gym Party Saturday, April 7th, 2:00pm to 3:30pm

Gymnasium B, Sportsplex Recreational Complex, 1800 S Alder Street Watch for more information to be released! Campbell River foster families are invited to our Foster Family Gym-time and Pizza Party at the Sportsplex recreation facility. Open to all foster parents and the children and youth in their homes. A member of the Sportsplex staff will be present to assist with activities and equipment. Caregivers are asked to stay on site to support and supervise their children. Your CR Foster Parent Association has arranged this all-ages event. For more information and to register, so we have enough pizza, please contact Judy uicoord@fpsss.com or call/text 250-204-1566 with the number in your group. FPSSS Peer Mentorship Program Mentor Training Thursday, April 19th and Friday, April 20th Time and location to be announced (Attendance at both sessions is required) Join facilitator Ros Pringle at this training that will provide a fun and sensible approach to supporting newer foster parents. Please register your interest with Judy at uicoord@fpsss.com or call/text 250-204-1566.

Mandatory Semi-Annual Foster Homes Standards Training Family Systems and Foster Care - Understanding the Dynamics

Thursday, March 8th, 9:00am to 2:00pm (Doors open at 8:30am) Maritime Heritage Centre, Tyee Room, 621 Island Highway

Facilitator: Rob Schoemaker

Snacks, Lunch and participation certificates will be provided. Standard C.2 Maintaining Relationships: “Children are encouraged and supported to maintain relationships with their families and others of significance.”

Each family is unique. Within each family, members have roles and responsibilities that help the family function. Sometimes these roles and responsibilities are purposeful for the family, but not for the individual. What happens then?

Family Systems Theory, introduced by Dr. Murray Bowen, proposes that we best understand individuals by considering them as a part of their family system, as the family is an emotional unit. Following this logic, children come into care from a family system they know and are placed in a new system with new rules, roles, and reactivity. What could go wrong? The more we understand the systemics within the child’s family the better we can understand and predict the roles, responses and reactions of that child in our care.

Register by Friday March 2nd with Judy Hollywood at uicoord@fpsss.com or by cell/text: 250-204-1566. This event arranged and sponsored in partnership by the member agencies of your Joint Education Committee.

If you have a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or childcare provider interested in becoming a foster

parent in the Campbell River area, please have them contact

Michelle Holland at 250-286-7590 (MCFD)

to learn how, and to find out about up-coming Pre-Service Information Sessions.

Becoming a Foster Parent in Campbell River

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Jackie Kervin Port Hardy Local Coordinator 250-949-7397 or jackiekervin@gmail.com

Foster Parent/MCFD Partnership March Wednesday, March 14th, 1:00pm to 2:30pm MCFD Office, 8755 Gray Street, Port Hardy (Every second month) Please note the time and location of this meeting. This meeting will provide an opportunity for foster parents to meet and greet MCFD social workers. All foster parents, social workers, MCFD and C&Y Mental Health Staff invited to share your fostering concerns, learn about MCFD updates, and discuss local fostering trends. Contact Ella Ho at 250-949-8011 or Jackie at 250-949-7397 for more information or to suggest an discussion item. Foster Parent Support Breakfast Wednesday, April 4th, 9:00am to 11:00am Market Street Café, 7030 Market Street, Port Hardy All foster parents welcomed. This is a chance to meet and discuss caregiving topics with fellow caregivers in a casual and relaxed setting. Hosted by NICSS. Please contact Cheryl Jorgenson at 250-230-3484 for details.

North Island Foster Parent Support Coordinator

Cheryl Jorgenson

Friendly, non-judgemental, and confidential support services to North Island caregivers.

Cheryl invites foster parents to self-refer and contact her to learn about the variety of services she can provide.

You can contact Cheryl by calling North Island Community Services Society at 250-956-3134 or through her email at

c.jorgenson@nicommunityservices.ca .

Becoming a Foster Parent in North Island

If you have a friend, co-worker, neighbour, or childcare provider interested in becoming a

foster parent in North Vancouver Island please have them contact the

Port Hardy MCFD Office at 250-949-8011 (MCFD) (Press 1)

and ask for the Resource Social Worker Maggie Fidler.

We are currently seeking foster parents interested in fostering Youth

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Foster Family Fun Swim Sunday, March 4th, 11:00am to 12noon

Port Hardy Recreation Centre, 7440 Columbia Street

Save the day! We will announce event details as planning continues.

Experienced swimmers will need to accompany inexperienced swimmer in the pool. Thanks to MCFD for funding!

NONNON--VERBAL COMMUNICATIONVERBAL COMMUNICATION Nonverbal communication can take many forms. Effectiveness as an international professional often hinges on understanding what these forms might be and how their meanings may differ between countries. Below are samples of some forms of nonverbal communication, as well as specific cultural variances. Eye contact Whether or not eye contact is made, who makes it and how long it lasts vary tremendously in meaning. In many Asian cultures, avoiding eye contact is seen as a sign of respect. However, those in Latin and North America consider eye contact important for conveying equality among individuals. In Ghana, if a young child looks an adult in the eye, it is considered an act of defiance. Physical Space Countries that are densely populated generally have much less need for personal space than those that are not. The Japanese, for example, are less likely to react strongly to an accidental touch by a stranger than Americans. Less personal space is also needed in areas such as Latin America, and, in the context of one-on-one conversations, the Middle East. Facial Expressions Winking is a facial expression particularly varied in meaning. In Latin America, for example, the gesture is often considered a romantic or sexual invitation. The Yoruba people in Nigeria wink at their children if they want them to leave the room. And the Chinese consider the gesture rude. Posture Posture can convey power structures, attitudes and levels of civility. Slouching in Taiwan is considered disrespectful, while other parts of the world may not think much of it one way or another. In America, standing with hands on the hips may suggest power or pride, but in Argentina, it may suggest anger or a challenge. http://online.pointpark.edu/business/cultural-differences-in-nonverbal-communication/

CHILDCARE SUBSIDY/TRAVEL SUBSIDY

A limited amount of childcare and travel subsidy is available for foster parents whose financial barriers prevent them from attending the BCFCE

program. These funds are intended to assist with (not cover) the costs associated and must be approved by the Executive Director of FPSS. If the

subsidy provided by FPSS is not sufficient to remove the financial barrier, foster parents are advised to contact their Resource Worker.

All subsidy requests must be made

at the time of registration.

Series 1 S1-1 Overview S1-2 Communication Skills and Self-Awareness S1-3 Effects of Caregiving S1-4 The Child’s Family S1-5 Observing, Recording, and Reporting S1-6 Child and Youth Development S1-7 Attachment, Separation, and Loss S1-8 When Children Experience Abuse and Neglect S1-9 Guiding Behaviour of Children and Youth

Series 2 S2-1 Cultural Responsiveness S2-2 Aboriginal Children in Care S2-3 Substance Misuse Awareness S2-4 Introduction to Fetal Alcohol/Neonatal Abstinence

Syndrome S2-5 Suicide Awareness

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Please Contact Eva Vowles, BCFCE Coordinator

1-888-922-8437 Or

bcfce@fpsss.com

TO REGISTER FOR SPRING 2018 CLASSES

B C F o s t e r C a r e E d u c a t i o n P r o g r a m S P R I N G 2 0 1 8 Code VICTORIA NANAIMO PORT ALBERNI COURTENAY

S1-1

T Apr 17 6:30pm-9:30pm

To Register for modules in all areas

of Vancouver Island, contact Eva

Vowles in the Regional office at 1-

888-922-8437 or bcfce@fpsss.com.

T Apr 3 6:00pm-9:00pm

Modules S1-1 through S1-6 will be offered

beginning in late Spring. Watch your

email for more information.

S1-2 M Apr 23 6:30pm-9:30pm T Apr 10 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-3 T Apr 24 6:30pm-9:30pm T Apr 17 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-4 M Apr 30 6:30pm-9:30pm T Apr 24 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-5 T May 1 6:30pm-9:30pm T May 1 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-6 M May 7 6:30pm-9:30pm T May 15 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-7a T May 8 6:30pm-9:30pm T May 22 6:00pm-9:00pm

“Well-constructed peer groups serve as an anchor for

learning.”

S1-7b M May 14 6:30pm-9:30pm T May 29 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-8a M Mar 5 6:30pm-9:30pm T May 15 6:30pm-9:30pm T June 12 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-8b T Mar 6 6:30pm-9:30pm T May 22 6:30pm-9:30pm T June 19 6:00pm-9:00pm

S1-9a M Mar 12 6:30pm-9:30pm M May 28 6:30pm-9:30pm

S1-9b M Mar 13 6:30pm-9:30pm T May 29 6:30pm-9:30pm

Code VICTORIA NANAIMO PORT ALBERNI COURTENAY

S2-1 M Mar 19 6:30pm-9:30pm M June 4 6:30pm-9:30pm M Mar 26 9:30am-12:30am

S2-2 T Mar 20 6:30pm-9:30pm T June 5 6:30pm-9:30pm M Apr 9 9:30am-12:30am

S2-5 Sat M 24 9:30am-2:30pm Sat June 9 9:30am-2:30pm M Apr 16 9:30am-2:30pm

S2-3 M Mar 26 6:30pm-9:30pm M June 11 6:30pm-9:30pm M Apr 23 9:30am-12:30am T Mar 20 6:00pm-9;00pm

S2-4 T Mar 27 6:30pm-9:30pm T June 12 6:30pm-9:30pm M Apr 30 9:30am-12:30am T Mar 13 6:00pm-9:00pm

Victoria FPSS Society Office

145-735 Goldstream Avenue

Nanaimo FPSS Society Office

102-6421 Applecross Road

Port Alberni Italian Hall

4085 6th Avenue

Courtenay CVCD Centre

237 Third Street

MINISTRY OF CHILDREN AND FAMILY DEVELOPMENT

Resource Work Policies Effective March 1 2017

Caregiver Continuing Learning and Education Policy 8.7

Policy Statement: Caregiver Continuing Learning and Education Caregivers continue to access learning and attend training sessions to improve their caregiving knowledge and skills. Caregivers attend mandatory training sessions within the required time frame, and while they have a Family Care Home Agreement in place.

Outcomes Learning plans are developed in collaboration with caregivers and outline how learning needs and mandatory training will be addressed. Caregivers are supported at the time of approval and during reviews to meet their learning needs and mandatory training requirements. Learning plans are continually reviewed and updated in collaboration with the caregiver, as the caregiver’s learning needs evolve. Caregivers have more knowledge and skills and are able to provide a higher quality of care.

Standards 8.7.(1) Develop and follow up on a learning plan with the caregiver to provide them with information and/or education on relevant topics of interest for the caregiver. Review the caregiver’s learning and development needs and training activities and plans at each annual review.

Procedures Learning Plan Discuss with the caregivers potential topics of interest and learning needs, and collaboratively develop a learning plan to provide him or her with information and/or training on topics including:

• roles and responsibilities of caregivers and the care team,

• sensitive and responsive practices to use with a child’s family to maintain the family’s involvement with each child, consistent with the child’s Care Plan and cultural safety plan,

• the role of the caregiver in providing temporary care for a child and/or support for the family until each child returns home or to another stable, lifelong family living arrangement, and helping prepare children for a move to a permanent placement,

• knowledge of each child’s unique culture in order to preserve the child’s identity and connection to his or her community,

• child development, parenting skill development, positive behaviour support and interventions, and trauma informed practice,

• restraining procedures outlined in each child’s Care Plan that have been approved by members of each child’s team including a health care provider who is knowledgeable about the child and restraining techniques, and approved by a CFCSA designated director in writing, and

• how best to address the individual needs and interests of each child and the unique situation of his or her family in accordance with each child’s Care Plan.

Follow-up with the caregiver to ensure that they receive information and/or training according to their learning plan.

Post-Approval Training Inform all caregivers who sign a family care home agreement or contract that they must complete the mandatory ministry approved caregiver training within the required time frame. After advising the caregiver about the post-approval training, refer the caregiver to the regional agency that provides the mandatory training. Regularly discuss with the caregiver their progress with the training program, and identify and address barriers affecting successful completion. When the caregiver completes the mandatory training, document the date the program was completed and the title of the program in the resource file. Additional training is also documented in the resource file. https://www2.gov.bc.ca/assets/gov/family-and-social-supports/foster-parenting/resource_work_policies.pdf

*If you have any questions or concerns regarding your rights and responsibilities around mandatory training, contact your Resource Worker.

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ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT TOWARD BETTER EDUCATION OUTCOMES FOR CHILDREN IN CARE

On Oct. 26, 2017, the Representative for Children and Youth released a public report on what is happening at school for children and youth in care and what supports are available to help these students succeed. Below are excerpts from this report, Room for Improvement: Toward better education outcomes for children in care. The provincial government must take action to reduce significant gaps in the academic achievement of children and youth in

care, including the provision of specific funding to each school district dedicated to supporting the learning needs of these students, recommends a report released today by B.C.'s Representative for Children and Youth. Room for Improvement: Toward Better Education Outcomes for Children in Care also recommends that the Ministry of Education strengthen accountability for the academic achievement of students in government care and that the Ministry of Children and Family Development (MCFD) ensure that children and youth in care are supported to recover from trauma so that its impact on their learning is reduced. https://www.rcybc.ca/roomforimprovement

“...The Representative has identified six distinct areas in which more help or changes can make a significant difference for all students in care.”

• Stability at home and school, and adequate support for when moves are necessary • Positive and consistent relationships both at school and home that support education • Help with school work including flexibility, goal-setting, celebrating success and support for special needs • Adults sharing information and planning together, with the student, for the student’s success • Mental Health needs met and help to heal from trauma recognized and addressed • Support for Indigenous students at school, including Indigenous children and youth in care with their own cultures, participation by

elders and Indigenous school staff, and cultural content in class.

What supports positive educational outcomes? Factors that can support educational success for children and youth in care include:

• Minimizing placement changes to promote positive engagement with school and better mental health. • School stability can also be improved by providing supports to stay in one school over time or not moving a child in the middle of the

school year, and ensuring that schools and teachers know when a student is moving so that classmates can say goodbye and paperwork can be transferred quickly.

• Learning to read early and fluently. • Caregivers and teachers who communicate high expectations, value education or provide help with school work. • Relationships with supportive and engaged adults. Youth in care identify committed, consistent adults or mentors as key to their

educational success. Youth also note the role of supportive teachers in their educational success. • Participation in school activities such as clubs and extracurricular activities that help build peer relationships. • Friends who are motivated to do well at school. • Expectations that students attend school regularly, monitoring school attendance and positive school engagement (e.g., positive teacher-

student and peer relationships, and future-oriented goals and expectations for education). • Tutoring programs, and programs that provide structured, individualized supports to address learning gaps.

What factors can contribute to supporting positive educational outcomes for Indigenous students? • Parent and community engagement; Indigenous language and cultural

programming; well-trained teachers and opportunities for professional development; strong supports for Indigenous learning, including relevant curriculum and adequate resources; and, individual student supports.

• Holistic approaches to integrating Indigenous knowledge in schools, providing mentorship supports for Indigenous students, and fostering strong community/parent relationships.

• Strong leadership and governance at schools; setting high expectations for Indigenous students; focusing on long-term student success; building a secure and welcoming school climate for both children and their families; and respect for Indigenous cultures and traditions.

For the full report, go to: https://www.rcybc.ca/sites/default/files/documents/pdf/reports_publications/rcy-education-support-final.pdf

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We invite any letters or comments. Please ensure your submissions are forwarded by the 5th of the month.

How are we doing? Do you have Comments? Suggestions? Queries? Newsletter Submissions?

Please feel free to contact us anytime at Toll Free 1-888-922-8437 Victoria telephone: 1-778-430-5459 fax: 1-778-430-5463

Nanaimo telephone: 1-250-619-6553 fax: 1-250-390-9687 or email us at admin@fpsss.com

FPSS BOARD OF DIRECTORS NAME TEL FAX E-MAIL

Chairperson Diane Burrows 250-723-9779 burrowsdiane@hotmail.com

Vice Chairperson Sandy Case 250-478-2782 250-474-7677 slcase@shaw.ca

Treasurer Jo Axe

FPSSS PERSONNEL

Executive Director Dan Malone 778-430-5459 778-430-5463 execdirect@fpsss.com

Administrative Assistant Krista Hazeldine 778-430-5459 778-430-5463 admin@fpsss.com

SVI Coordinator Janet Christie 778-430-5460 778-430-5463 sicoord@fpsss.com

SI Recruitment Coordinator Dianne Thompson 778-430-5459 778-430-5463 sirecruitment@fpsss.com

Cowichan Valley Coordinator Michelle Beam 250-714-2691 778-430-5463 dacoord@fpsss.com

Central Island Coordinator Brenda Nicholson 250-802-4414 778-430-5463 cicoord@fpsss.com

Port Alberni Coordinator Juanita Currie 250-735-1124 778-430-5463 pacoord@fpsss.com

Courtenay/Comox Coordinator Lisa Bowie 250-898-4488 778-430-5463 cvcoord@fpsss.com

Upper Island Coordinator Judy Hollywood Bonnett 250-204-1566 778-430-5463 uicoord@fpsss.com

Port Hardy Local Coordinator Jackie Kervin 250-949-7397 778-430-5463 odyssey@island.net

SI Safe Babies Coordinator Janet Christie 778-430-5460 778-430-5463 sicoord@fpsss.com

CI Safe Babies Coordinator Melanie Morton 250-756-6297 778-430-5463 cisbcoord@fpsss.com

UI Safe Babies Coord & UI/CI Trainer

Mary Catherine Williams 250-703-6135 250-286-0545 mbellamy@shaw.ca

Admin Ass’t (BCFCE Program) Eva Vowles 778-430-5459 778-430-5463 bcfce@fpsss.com

PROTOCOL SUPPORT TEAM

Protocol Team Coordinator Janet Christie 1-888-922-8437 778-430-5463 sicoord@fpsss.com

South Island Janet Christie 778-430-5459 778-430-5463 sicoord@fpsss.com

Central Island Diane Burrows 250-723-9779 burrowsdiane@hotmail.com

Upper Island Janet Christie 1-888-922-8437 sicoord@fpsss.com

SOUTH ISLAND LOCAL

President Sandy Case 250-478-2782 slcase@shaw.ca

Secretary Treasurer Sam Taylor 250-686-3353 s.taylor44@shaw.ca

NANAIMO AREA

Contact Brenda Nicholson 250-802-4414 cicoord@fpsss.com

PARKSVILLE AREA

Contact Brenda Nicholson 250-802-4414 cicoord@fpsss.com

PORT ALBERNI LOCAL

President Diane Burrows 250-723-9779 250-720-2100 burrowsdiane@hotmail.com

Vice President Colette Vermette 250-724-3642 patver1is@shaw.ca

COWICHAN LOCAL

President Lisa Johnston 250-246-2001 lisajdanah@gmail.com

Vice-President Connie Masson

NORTH ISLAND LOCAL

President Jackie Kervin 250-949-7397 250-902-0565 jackiekervin@gmail.com

Vice President Clarence Alfred 250-949-5777

CLS Rep Connie Gibbs 250-949-7682

CAMPBELL RIVER

Contact Tom Robinson 250-204-9050 sunrise@hotmail.com

Contact Judy Hollywood Bonnett 250-204-1566 uicoord@fpsss.com

COMOX VALLEY LOCAL

Contact Lisa Bowie 250-898-4488 cvcoord@fpsss.com

FPSSS Contact Information

SOUTH FPSSS OFFICE CENTRAL FPSSS OFFICE UPPER FPSSS CONTACT

145-735 Goldstream Avenue Victoria V9B 2X4

778-430-5459 Fax: 778-430-5463 sicoord@fpsss.com

102-6421 Applecross Road Nanaimo V9V 1N1

250-802-4414

Fax: 778-430-5463 cicoord@fpsss.com

250-204-1566 Fax: 778-430-5463 uicoord@fpsss.com

MISSION STATEMENT: The FPSS Society is a CARF Accredited

Grass Roots organization committed to providing meaningful and accessible support, education and networking

services which will continually enhance the skills and abilities of foster parents to

deliver the best care possible to the children in their homes.

Funding: FPSS Society is a Registered Society that is funded through contracts with the BC Ministry of Children and Family Development to deliver the BC Foster Care Education Program, support services, networking, communication and on-going training opportunities for foster parents of the Vancouver Island Region.

Regional Office Location: 145-735 Goldstream Ave,

Victoria, V9B 2X4 Phone: 1-778-430-5459

Fax: 1-778-430-5463 Toll Free: 1-888-922-8437

Websites: www.fpsss.com, www.fosterhope.ca

Hours of Operation: Monday to Thursday: 9:00am to 4:00pm

Friday: 9:00am to 1:00pm

ISLAND CONNECTION NEWSLETTER: Published 5 times per year and mailed

free of charge to foster homes & MCFD offices in the Vancouver Island region.

Newsletter Information Eva Vowles

Tel: 778-430-5459 Fax: 778-430-5463 admin@fpssss.com

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