Couples 7

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Chapter 7: X3Pure Couples Series

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Chapter 7: X3Pure Couples Series

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Dealing with Anger

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• Four styles of conflict.

Dealing with Anger

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• Four styles of conflict.

Dealing with Anger

- Win- Yield

- Withdraw

- Resolve

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• Four styles of conflict.

Dealing with Anger

- Win- Yield

- Withdraw

- Resolve

• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.

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• Four styles of conflict.

Dealing with Anger

- Win- Yield

- Withdraw

- Resolve

• Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.

• Confronting in love.

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Anger

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Anger

• 3 Types of Anger

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Anger

• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific

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Anger

• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific

- Displaced anger

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Anger

• 3 Types of Anger- Situation specific

- Displaced anger

- Chronic anger

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Chronic Anger

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Chronic Anger

• Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation.

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Chronic Anger

• Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation.

• Similar to displaced anger but chronic anger is connected to your past, a wound, or abuse. Chronic anger is usually the result of unresolved issues.

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Chronic Anger

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Chronic Anger

• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.

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Chronic Anger

• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.

• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event.

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Chronic Anger

• To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.

• Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event.

• Until you are able to forgive you will never break free from chronic anger.

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Forgiveness

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Forgiveness

• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”

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Forgiveness

• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”

• It is a command

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Forgiveness

• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”

• It is a commandBe kind

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Forgiveness

• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”

• It is a commandBe kind

Be compassionate

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Forgiveness

• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”

• It is a commandBe kind

Be compassionate

Forgive

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Forgiveness

• Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”

• It is a commandBe kind

Be compassionate

Forgive

• In Christ

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Forgiveness

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Forgiveness

• “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.”

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Forgiveness

• “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.”

• Forgiveness is not about the other person, it’s about me.

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Homework Assignment

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Homework Assignment

• Begin the process of forgiveness today