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COSMini Conference
November 2011
Together with Families
Hearing Family StoriesGaining Family Insight
Involving Family
Naomi Younggren, Ph.D.
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Hearing Family Stories
Mass. Health & Human Services
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Gaining Family Insight
Listening
Asking good questions
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How good are you as a listener?
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Good Listener?Zachary’s mom talks with Spec. Ed.
Director
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ListeningProf. Jeffrey Berman, Salem State College
Don’t confuse hearing with listening
Listen with intensity
Listen with empathy
Practice acceptance
Take responsibility for completeness
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Seek ClarificationI understand
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Interviewing PointersWestby, Burda, & Metha, 2003
Use open-ended questions
Use restating – repeating the exact words
Summarize and invite opportunities to
correct
Avoid back-to-back and compound questions
Avoid leading questions
Cautiously use "why" questions
Listen more than talk
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L – I - S - T – E - N
L Look attend
I Inquire - show interest ask questions
S Summarize what you hear - seek
clarification
T Take notes to remember
E Encourage smile, nod, respond
N Neutralize your biases
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Involving Family in the COS Process
Remember Parent Roles
Share EC Outcome Information Early &
Often
Include Parents in the COS Rating
Discussion
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Parent Roles
Team Member
Information Provider & Receiver
Participant in the COS rating
discussion
Consumer
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ListeningCO Results Matters
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Information SharingBrazelton
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Share Information Early & Often
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Prepare Families
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Prepare Families for the COS Process
Washington
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What We Should Expect from Family Involvement in the COS Rating?
Yes! They can provide rich information about
their child’s functioning across settings and situation.
Maybe…but not necessarily! They will know whether their child is
showing age expected skills.
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Discussing Strengths & Needs
CO Results Matters
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Rating Decision
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Decision Making ModelsModel Provid
erParent Knowledge flow Objective
Paternalistic Directive Passive One-way knowledge transfer provider to parent
Compliance of parent
Autonomous Receptive Directive One-way knowledge transfer parent to provider
Compliance of provider
Shared Decision Making
Informative Informative Two-way knowledge exchange
Equity in the decision making
process
Collaborative Decision Making
Supportive Proactive Knowledge builds through shared learning
Optimal action
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Genuinely engage families
in the entire process,
appreciate their strengths,
and
reach agreement with them
about their child.