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Rapport: A Central Foundation of NLP 4
The Stepping Stones to Rapport 7
Public Projection and Why It Matters 11
The Power of Matching and Mirroring 16
What is Pacing & Leading? 25
In Focus: Rapport and Virtual Environments 29
A Reasonable Approach to Breaking Rapport 31
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Thanks for downloading NLP Rapport Hacks.
What you have here is a tactical guide for
using NLP to create rapport with anyone.
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Rapport: A Central Foundation of NLP
Rapport may well be one of the most important foundations of neuro-linguistic programming because it is really at the
heart of every successful human interaction, both in the past and the
present.
Neuro-linguistic programming was only able to shed a light as to how it worked and how
it can be consciously applied in any situation. Natural communicators and
speakers were already using the principle of rapport before any formal discipline was able to pin it down and define its
contours.
Rapport works extremely well in different
situations because it allows people to reach out to each other in a very respectful and harmonious manner.
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Rapport can only increase over time. So as long as a person is able to continue adding to the initial rapport, the harmony created
at the beginning of a conversation will remain and will even be reinforced by the
other subjects involved in the dialog or interaction.
One of the biggest misconceptions about
rapport is that it only has to be used in the beginning of an interaction. People
tend to think that it’s like 46
a hat that can easily be discarded when you get someone to say “yes” to what you want.
This isn’t the case. If you want truly meaningful interactions with other people,
you have to realize that rapport or harmony should be present in all your interactions. It should remain at the very center of
every social strategy that you create. It should also be a priority when you are
trying to persuade or influence someone.
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Rapport is one of those things in life that can be likened to credit or cash. You only know that you need more of it when what you
have right now is no longer sufficient for your needs.
For example, a teacher who thinks that it is perfectly fine to “do his own thing” day in and day out may one day find himself at
a loss as to why his own students would give him a very poor performance
evaluation.
The problem in such cases is always poor or distorted communication. A whole blizzard
of problems emerges from a single defect in communication.
How does neuro-linguistic programming actually define rapport? In its simplest form, rapport is merely the absence of
friction between individuals. Rapport can also be defined based on its positive
outcome – harmony.
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When there is complete harmony between individuals in an interaction, then we can say that there is definitely rapport.
Rapport is often built from the ground up.
The more effort you spend in establishing
rapport, the better the results. The big difference between rapport and all the other communication strategies from the
other disciplines is that rapport emphasizes mutual benefit and a dynamic
connection between individuals.
The Stepping Stones to Rapport Rapport can most certainly emerge from any
social interaction. In fact, you can establish rapport even if you weren’t
expecting it if things click together. The following are the different levels of human experience and factors that affect your
ability to establish rapport with people:
1. Places that you frequent 50
2. New people that you meet at work or in clubs and organizations that you join
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3.Your physical appearance
4.Your physical projection
5.Your handling of verbal language
6.Your handling of nonverbal language
7.Your current communication skills
8.Your core beliefs in life
9.Your core values
10.Your identity as a person
If you want to sharpen your skill in establishing rapport with other people,
there are four basic steps that will help you achieve that:
1.When you are interacting with other
people, exert some extra effort to become genuinely interested in what they have to
say.
Ask questions to draw out important information but at the same time, learn to
actively listen so that the other person
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will see and feel that you are indeed a good communicator.
If you are perceived as a good
communicator, people around you will be comfortable talking to you and even new
acquaintances will trust you more easily. Make it your primary goal to understand where your subject is coming from.
Do not expect your subject to exert effort to understand you. Remember – the outcome
of all communication efforts depends on the speaker or communicator. So when you set out to talk to someone, you take full
responsibility for the outcome of that interaction.
2. Listen closely to your subject when he is talking. Observe how your subject actually expresses himself and take note of
any special mannerism or phrases that he uses frequently.
Use these special elements later on so that you will slowly match the other person. I
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am not asking you to mimic the other person so much that you will appear comical.
No, what I want you to focus on is to match
the other person’s energy and subtly lead him to where you really want him to be. For
example, if your subject is angry because he encountered traffic, try to be a little mad as well about a similar problem so that
you will align with his current wavelength.
By aligning to his current wavelength, you
will be able to influence his behavior and thinking pattern. The biggest mistake that any communicator can do is to try to stop a
person from thinking the way he does instantly.
Try that and I can assure you that all you will be getting is plenty of resistance. No one likes the idea of being controlled. One
can only subtly pace and lead a person.
3. Determine how the other person processes
information. Does he like talking about “the big picture” or does he prefer to
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discuss the smaller steps and fine details of the current topic?
Once you have determined the other person’s
preference when it comes to information, gradually adjust your own approach so that
he will be able to fully comprehend what you are trying to communicate in the first place.
For example, if you are trying to sell a business owner new software, you need to
explain the benefits of the new software in a way that he will fully understand.
Public Projection and Why It Matters
Each person has two images of himself. The first image is his mental image which is
often created with a ‘rosy’ lens. People only see what they want to see and often, this is reflected in their own mental
images. Positive aspects of oneself always take precedence over negative aspects.
The result is a self-image that is only partially true, because it does not take
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into consideration the various elements that can be improved. The second self-image that we all have (and we usually do not
consciously control) is our public projection.
Our public projection is the image of ourselves that is seen by other people. Obviously, this particular image can be
quite different from the rosy, ideal self-image that we have of ourselves.
Our public projection can be so different that we may end up wondering why sometimes, we don’t create the desired impact on
people. Part of your training in neuro-linguistic programming is heightened self-
awareness.
Before you use NLP on other people to help them solve their problems, you must be
aware of yourself and your own imperfections so that you may start
addressing these problems yourself.
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Only when a person is aware of his own weaknesses would he be strong enough mentally and emotionally to help others.
Self-awareness also strengthens a person’s resolve to follow- through with different
forms of change, which is always a necessary component in many of life’s tough goals.
Whenever you have to talk to people or present important ideas in a presentation,
ask yourself this vital question: what kind of first impression am I creating?
We must always remember that lifelong
opinions of other people are often created within the first one to three minutes of
the first meeting. First impressions do last!
Some of you might be saying – well, we can
always repair the damage done by a lousy first impression. That is true, but what
would you rather have: a good first impression (with lasting benefits) or a bad first impression and perhaps a few years of
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repair work ahead of you? If you do it right the first time, you won’t have to repair your self-image.
Many people think that appearances are generally deceiving and that people are now
more interested in hearing out a person before making a judgment.
This critical leaning is a good development
in our modern civilization but it doesn’t mean that our instinctual drive to analyze
and categorize people within minutes of meeting them will be erased by this tendency.
In short – people will still be secretly measuring you based on the first impression
that you make. Some of you might be furious at the idea – it is irrational, I know.
But we must remember that people often base
their decisions on irrational grounds.
We only know how to rationalize our deeds
which is why we often appear as very rational creatures. But in reality, we
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rarely take the time to analyze what we are about to do. We just do it – and then rationalize our deed later to lend it some
sense of logic and legitimacy.
So the next time you appear in front of an
audience, think of your appearance. Does the mental image of yourself match what others are seeing?
When you speak in front of people, does your body language actually ooze of
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can be really difficult at first to measure
the similarity or dissonance of the two self-images.
So if you are having a lot of trouble comparing the two, I suggest that you get someone who can watch you present or talk
so you can get that person’s opinion.
Remember, you don’t need a lot of analysis
to get a first impression. First impressions are handled by the subconscious
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mind. After the subconscious mind finishes tagging someone does the conscious mind kick in with how to deal with the person
based on the first impression that he has given.
The Power of Matching and Mirroring Matching and mirroring are two essential skills that will allow you to establish
rapport with anyone in a shorter period of time. Matching and mirroring can also be
used to measure the existing rapport between two or more individuals.
To illustrate this point, try watching two
best friends when they talk. Observe how these two individuals talk and move as they
banter. Did you notice something special between them?
What you are actually seeing is matching
and mirroring. One person mirrors the other. Then the second person matches the
movement of the other. They do it because they are comfortable, happy and they are at ease.
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This is the kind of rapport that we want when we are interacting with other people. Of course, we can’t be best friends with
every person that we have to talk to. In fact, it would be extremely exhausting if
we had to do that because establishing snap friendships can be tiresome (at best).
But even if we can’t do that, it doesn’t
mean that we can’t apply the method to our daily interactions. On the contrary, you
can always use matching and mirroring regardless of who is 65
in front of you. So how can you start using
this marvelous approach to establishing instant rapport with people? The first
thing that you have to do is activate the VAK/VAKOG system.
Let your senses run wild and let your
imagination do its work. Listen as if this is the first time that you are listening to
someone talk. Pay close attention to what the other person is saying and respond not
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only through verbal language but through body language.
Observe how the other person talks and
moves and try to naturally match what he’s doing. The idea here is to start mimicking
some of the other person’s gestures and expressions so that later on, he would do the same for you.
When the other persons starts mimicking your movements and your expressions that is
a time that you can be sure that you have been successful in matching and mirroring.
Are you eager to get started on matching
and mirroring? Here are some ways that you can ignite rapport in a conversation
without looking the part of someone who wants to speed up the process of rapport:
1. Observe the other person’s posture. Does
he look tense or relaxed? Does he look lazy or confident? Match the person’s posture to
begin the aligning yourself with the person’s wavelength.
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If the other person feels lazy, you are showing that you understand his feeling at the moment and he will be less resistant to
your message because you appear to be non- threatening. Harmonizing with the other
fellow is the key here. The more you harmonize, the more comfortable the other person gets.
2. Check out the subject’s gestures. Does he wave around his arms when he gets
excited?
Does he fiddle with his pen or press his cellular phone when he is listening to you?
Does he like to gesture with his hands when he is trying to emphasize important points?
Match these gestures when you talk and watch the magic of mirroring take place.
3. A person’s breathing rate can reveal his
state of mind. A person with a fast breathing rate may be agitated, nervous,
excited or downright frightened.
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By matching the other person’s breathing rate, you would be able to pace and eventually lead the person to a more
desirable state. For example, if the other person is breathing fast because he is
agitated, increasing your breathing rate will allow you to get his full attention and then you can slow down your breathing
rate afterward.
The other person will most likely mirror
you and you would both have more comfortable breathing rates afterward. The idea behind matching and mirroring is not
to let the other person take control of the conversation or interaction.
On the contrary, you are matching the other person with the intent of eventually taking control of the interaction so that you will
succeed with what you want to happen in the first place.
4. Measure the other person’s energy level. Some people like gesturing from the chest up. These folks are “high energy” people
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who really like to pump things up when they are talking. Some folks are so shy that they keep their hands on their sides.
They do this so that their voices do not rise too much and they won’t sound like
they want to take control of the interaction. If the other person’s energy level works for you, then by all means,
don’t try leading the person to a higher or lower energy level.
But if the subject’s energy level is too high or too low for your taste, then it might help to first match the other
person’s energy level so that you can eventually adjust it to a more comfortable
level.
5. And then we have the other person’s speech rate and speech tone. A very excited
person would speak very fast and would also have a higher tone of voice. How does your
subject speak to you?
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Why does he speak that way? Is it because he is excited or bored? Or is he trying to sound excited so that you won’t be
offended? Determine those things and make the adjustments needed to make the
interaction work.
Important Note:
Beginning NLP practitioners often perform
mechanical copying of other people’s gestures, expressions, etc. While it is
true that it is difficult to performing matching and mirroring without making it look mechanical. But don’t worry – the more
you practice, the more natural it would become over time.
However, I have to warn you not to engage in obvious mimicry. Mimicry is defined as “the action or practice of the art of
mimicking”. Mimicking in itself is just artificial imitation of someone else’s
gestures and words. Mimicking is done for its own sake; it doesn’t belong in neuro-linguistic programming.
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People often mimic when they want to mock or make fun of someone else. So with this in mind I also have to warn you against
matching uncontrollable gestures and facial expressions. For example, if the other
person had an inborn facial tic, you should never, ever match the tic even if it is very obvious or if it is done very
frequently.
Why? Because the other person probably
dislikes the tic very much and would do anything to get rid of the tic. The same applies to uncontrollable gestures and
peculiar movements.
For example, if a person flicks his hands
every so often because of a physical condition, ignore the hands but watch how he moves his body when he leans in to talk
to you. You can also observe how the other person reacts when you say specific things
to him.
How does he react when you object to what he says? How does he react when you laugh
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when he cracks a joke? These are the more important 75
interstices in the other person’s verbal
and nonverbal armor that you must pay attention to so that you can establish
rapport more quickly.
Before trying out this method on other people, it would be a good idea to practice
at home alone in front of a mirror. Just visualize another person talking to you and
see how you would look like when you are matching someone’s actions and gestures. You will notice immediately that when you
match someone, there has to be a bit of a delay to make the next action, expression
or gesture look more natural.
Develop your newfound skill so that people would never think that you were just
mimicking them to make fun of them. I know that this is a terrible thing and as an NLP
practitioner you would never do it on purpose. But here’s the thing about body language and such – you never have full
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control of every little detail involved in a personal interaction.
There will be times when your best efforts
will produce only mediocre results. There will be times when the desired outcome will
not emerge at all. You have to be prepared for these realities so you would be able to improve your craft and protect yourself
from undesirable outcomes in the future.
What is Pacing & Leading?
Pacing and leading are two other skills that you need if you want to establish rapport. Pacing and leading are
complementary skills. When you pace someone, you do it with the intention of
eventually leading him to a particular state that you believe is beneficial to both of you. Here’s an illustrative
example.
Let’s say you wanted to board a bus but the
bus has already started running. You want to jump on the bus but in order to do so, you would have to run alongside the
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vehicle. You not only have to run alongside the bus but you also have to increase your speed to match the current speed of the
vehicle.
If you try to jump in the bus without
enough speed, it is likely that you are going to get hurt in the process. But if you are able to gather enough speed to
match the exact speed of the bus, you will be able to jump in without a scratch.
Pacing and leading apply not only to gestures and body language in general but also to verbal exchanges between people. If
you are set on influencing another person so that he will see things your way, you
would have to pace and lead him so that there would be a minimum of resistance.
Pacing and leading will also give you
access to the person’s innermost thoughts and that is actually quite important in
drawing out potential roadblocks to your success. These roadblocks are simply the hidden objections of people.
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Hidden objections are objections that are not verbalized by people for a variety of reasons. For example, if you are trying to
convince someone to leave a particular method for your own method, you would have
to draw out the different objections that this person may have about the idea itself.
If you cannot draw out these objections,
they will stay hidden from view and the other person will continue to say “no” to
you. You will end up becoming more and more frustrated because all your arguments will fall on deaf ears.
Of course, we don’t want this to happen at all. We want our efforts to pay off
(immediately, if possible). So my advice to you when you are pacing someone with the intention of influencing him or changing
his mind about something, you just keep doing it until you reach that exact moment
that the person is already caving in and saying yes to what you’re saying.
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That is the time when you should start leading him to where you want him to be. Until this time is reached, do not try to
lead the person because he will feel that you are consciously trying to take control
of him and when this happens and the conditions are less than ideal, a lot of negative things can happen.
For example, the other person can just say “no” and walk away from the conversation.
The other person can also accuse you of being manipulative. These are quite plain realities that we all have to deal with and
if it does happen, you have to learn from the experience and do better next time.
I am also advocating behavior flexibility – you have to be adaptive and you have to change what you are doing if it is not
working. Focus on the outcomes that you want and stick to the path that gives you
access to those wonderful, desirable outcomes.
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In Focus: Rapport and Virtual Environments Several decades ago, the idea of really communicating with someone through an
interconnected network of computers and devices was the stuff of fantasy. The idea
belonged to the books of science fiction, not reality. Today, we live in a world that is absolutely ruled by virtual
communication.
And virtual communication is a wonderful
thing because it has allowed so many things to become possible for countless people around the world. Don’t let virtual
communication hinder you from becoming an effective communicator and NLP
practitioner.
Here are some expert tips on improving rapport in a virtual environment:
1. If you are about to speak to a lot of people over the telephone or over service
like Skype, make sure that all individuals are connected before you start talking.
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2. Before everyone starts exchanging ideas and information, set an agenda that you will all follow.
3. Inform the others that you are expecting a specific set of outcomes from the meeting
and that it would be best to work toward these outcomes.
4. It is possible that not everyone in the
teleconference or Skype meeting will be talking. Do not close the meeting until
everyone has given their input. Encourage other members of the meeting to talk and share their ideas and really listen to
them.
5. If some people are talking among
themselves, stop them and try to lead them back to the main topic.
6. It is harder to catch information over
the phone or over a non-video conference because people won’t see your face when you
talk. With this in mind, you have to slow down and repeat parts of your statements to
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ensure that everyone is getting what you are saying.
7. Employ the VAK system and adapt to the
specific preferences of people.
8. Call people by their name before stating
something so that your subject would pay attention before you give your facts.
9. Imagine how the other person would react
to your words.
A Reasonable Approach to Breaking Rapport
This may sound strange to some readers because I have been discussing rapport so
extensively in the previous sections that one would think that it’s a little crazy to
break rapport with another person. Why would anyone want to break rapport with another person? Here’s a short story that
will shed light on this matter:
There was once a doctor who was extremely
popular with all of her patients. She was so popular in fact that she always appeared
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on top of all patient surveys. Her secret (as you may have already guessed) is rapport with all of her patients.
She made sure that she spent more than the necessary amount of time for each patient.
It was common for her to exceed the regular one hour allotment for each of her patients. This would have been a nice
scenario if she did not actually fall behind in terms of handling all of her
appointments.
In the case of this doctor, her rapport with her patients meant the patients loved
talking to her so much that she spent more time with each patient. The doctor soon
became stressed and overburdened with the sheer number of appointments that she had to handle on a daily basis.
When she approached a counselor for advice, she discovered that she had a problem
breaking rapport with people. She had a natural ability to establish rapport with all of her patients but her problem was
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that the interactions were so successful that she could not break away from the interactions even if she really had to.
As one can imagine, if this problem persists, the doctor would have probably
succumbed to overwork and she would probably have to turn away some appointments every week just to cope with
the demand for her services.
As an NLP practitioner, you should be aware
of how to actually break the rapport you have with another person without offending your subject.
Some people might be thinking – it’s easy to break rapport; I can be rude and the
rapport will end immediately!
That’s correct, you can actually break rapport by mistreating another person. But
then again, imagine the outcome of that type of approach to breaking rapport.
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The other person would probably mistrust you and may not even want to talk to you next time.
Strategically breaking rapport is necessary if you want the other person to be
comfortable and trusting the next time you meet. Here are some ways that you can sensitively end rapport in an interaction
without hurting anyone’s feelings:
1. Gradually create dissonance between your
posture and the other person’s posture. When you want to establish rapport, it is common for NLP practitioners to match the
active posture of their subject.
If you want to break rapport, you need to
do the opposite. You need to create some dissonance between your posture and the other person’s posture so that the
harmonizing trance will end.
2. Break eye contact with the person toward
the end of your interaction.
3. Change the expression of your eyebrows.
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4. Modify how you sound. If you were loud before, try lowering your tone of voice. If you had a lower tone beforehand, try
increasing your tone for effect.
5. Strategic silence often helps in
breaking rapport.
6. Turn your head away from the person. But don’t turn your back – you may
inadvertently send a very negative message to the other person. Instead of just
breaking the rapport because you have to leave the conversation, you might end up sending a message like “I don’t want to see
your face”.
Be careful with the messages that you send
with your body language. We all have an inborn ability to understand body language.
The other person may not have the special
knowledge to explain what he feels when he observes your negative body language, but
his subconscious mind will begin generating
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thoughts like “he doesn’t like you at all” or “he is not showing any respect”.
Trust me – you do not want this kind of
problem hanging over your head the next time you meet this person.
7.Learn to say the golden phrases like “I will see you next time”, “thank you very much for that great discussion” and
“goodbye and be safe”.
I know that many people like waiting for
the other person to say these phrases because it’s polite to wait, but sometimes, you have to be the one who will signal the
end of the interaction. Just make sure you say goodbye to the other person properly.
Some of you might be wondering: when is the right time to end an interaction? Here are some key situations where you definitely
have to break rapport:
1. When a customer agrees to buy something,
he should be left for a few minutes to review the terms of the sale. Standing over
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another person’s shoulder as he mulls over his decision to buy something is never a good practice.
2. When you already have all the details you need from another person and the
conversation has already veered off topic.
3.When you are talking to one person and you see another person that you need to
talk to urgently about something.
4. When you feel weary and exhausted from
all the talking.
5. When you are doing something at the moment and you really need to finish it.
6. When the other person is trying to lure you into topics and issues that you are not
comfortable in discussing.
What you have here is a tactical guide for using NLP to create rapport with anyone.
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