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Conflict Management Resolve conflicts peacefully, fairly and decisively while staying emotionally balanced with people you deal with

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Conflict ManagementResolve conflicts peacefully, fairly and decisively while staying

emotionally balanced with people you deal with

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Introduction

Hello!

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Definition of Conflict

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Let’s Take A Poll

If one side has a lot more authority or power over the other, would there be any conflict?

1. Yes2. Not at all3. Maybe 4. I am a pacifist

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Conflict vs. Confrontation?

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Is Conflict Good or Bad?

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Cost of Conflict

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Let’s Take A Poll

Which one of these are not a source of conflict?1. Love2. Coffee Preference3. Values4. Perceptions

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Zero-Sum game

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Win/Win

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Win/Lose

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Lose/Lose

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Let’s Take A Poll

Are you a Good Negotiator ?

1. Yes

2. No

3. Never really tried

4. I always give In

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Styles of Resolving conflict

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Conflict Life Cycle

Annoyance Frustration Anger Violence

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Toxic

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Handling Conflicts

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Arguments

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Options

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Resolution

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Poll

What are the major causes of workplace conflict?

1. Personality clashes

2. Stress

3. Workload

4. All of the above

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Conflict Resolution Styles

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Domination

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Accommodate

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Compromise

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Collaboration

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Avoidance

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Revenge

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6 - Steps

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Emotions

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Anger Management

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Strategy

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Irritating

“Stop banging on the table. Don’t you have any respect for other people?”

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Exaggeration

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Dismissal

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Blame

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Attacks

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Authority

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Cynical

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Assume

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Point of View and Experience

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Arrogance

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Concerns? Questions?Comments?

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