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All you want to know about effectively managing and dealing with conflict by Toronto Training and HR August 2015

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All you want to know about effectively managing and

dealing with conflict

by Toronto Training and HR

August 2015

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CONTENTS3-4 Introduction5-6 Types of conflict7-8 Sources of conflict9-11 Causes of conflict12-18 Styles of handling conflict19-20 Conflict handling modes21-22 Is conflict always negative?23-26 A conflict management model27-28 Variables that affect a conflict situation29-30 Ways to manage and resolve conflict31-33 Handling conflict between team members34-38 Conflict in Nigerian universities39-40 Strategies for focusing on individual conflict41-42 Strategies for focusing on organizational conflict43-45 Using negotiation to resolve conflict 46-48 Organizational politics and conflict49-50 Conclusion, summary and questions

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Introduction

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Introduction to Toronto Training and HR

Toronto Training and HR is a specialist training and human resources consultancy headed by Timothy Holden 10 years in banking15 years in training and human resourcesFreelance practitioner since 2006The core services provided by Toronto Training and HR are:

Training event designTraining event deliveryHR support with an emphasis on reducing costs, saving time plus improving employee engagement and moraleServices for job seekers

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Types of conflict

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Types of conflict

• Constructive or destructive

• Intrapersonal, interpersonal, intra-groups, inter-organizational or intercultural

• Cognitive or affective

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Sources of conflict

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Sources of conflict

• Facts• Methods• Goals• Values

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Causes of conflict

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Causes of conflict 1 of 2

• Change• Stress• Confusion• Miscommunication• Personality clashes• Misunderstandings• Lack of cooperation• Frustration and

irritability• Substandard

performance

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Causes of conflict 2 of 2

• Differences over work method

• Responsibility issues• Authority issues• Value and goal

differences• Non-compliance with

rules and policies• Competition for

scarce resources

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Styles of handling conflict

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Styles of handling conflict 1 of 6

• Avoiding• Competing

(dominating)• Accommodating

(obliging)• Collaborating

(integrating)• Compromising

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Styles of handling conflict 2 of 6

Avoiding• “I’ll think about it

tomorrow”…• Low assertiveness-

low cooperativeness• Roles played• Results of under-use• Results of over-use

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Styles of handling conflict 3 of 6

Competing (dominating)• “My way or the

highway”…• High assertiveness-

low cooperativeness• Roles played• Results of under-use• Results of over-use

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Styles of handling conflict 4 of 6

Accommodating (obliging)• “It would be my

pleasure”…• Low assertiveness-

high cooperativeness• Roles played• Results of under-use• Results of over-use

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Styles of handling conflict 5 of 6

Collaborating (integrating)• “Two heads are

better than one”…• High assertiveness-

high cooperativeness• Roles played• Results of under-use• Results of over-use

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Styles of handling conflict 6 of 6

Compromising• “Let’s make a deal”…• Moderate

assertiveness-moderate cooperativeness

• Roles played• Results of under-use• Results of over-use

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Conflict handling modes

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Conflict handling modes

• Assertiveness• Cooperativeness

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Is conflict always negative ?

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Is conflict always negative?

• Costs of conflict• When conflict is

unresolved…• Negative outcomes• Benefits of resolving

conflict• Personal benefits of

mastering conflict resolution

• Positive outcomes of successful conflict management

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A conflict management model

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A conflict management model 1 of 3

• Create space• Add value• Seek closure

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A conflict management model 2 of 3

Create space• PerceivingAdd value• Thinking• FeelingSeek closure• Judging

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A conflict management model 3 of 3

• Clear vision• Blind spot

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Variables that impact a conflict situation

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Variables that impact a conflict situation

• Immediacy• Personality styles

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Ways to manage and resolve conflict

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Ways to manage and resolve conflict

• Make the relationship your priority

• Self-interest• Anticipation• Focus on the present• Pick your battles• Know when to let something

go• “I v. you”• Meta-talk• Set limits• Consequences

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Handling conflict between team

members

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Handling conflict between team members 1 of 2

• Ask people who disagree to paraphrase the comments of others

• Work out a compromise• Ask each member to list

what the other side should do

• Have each side write down ten questions

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Handling conflict between team members 2 of 2

• Convince team members they sometimes have to admit they were wrong

• Respect the experts on the team

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Conflict in Nigerian universities

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Conflict in Nigerian universities 1 of 4

Sources of conflict• Subordinate

conflict/superordinate conflict/lateral conflict

• Conflict based on the relationship between the objective state of affairs and the perceived state of affairs by conflicting parties

• Conflict based on antagonistic sources

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Conflict in Nigerian universities 2 of 4

Sources of organizational conflict• Individual• Group • Organization

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Conflict in Nigerian universities 3 of 4

Causes of conflict• Continuous

competition for scarce resources

• Perceived goal incompatibility

• Autonomy and academic freedom

• Management style of universities

• Difference in values and lifestyles

• Politics and national issues

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Conflict in Nigerian universities 4 of 4

• Possible ways to manage conflict

• Strategies for the future

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Strategies for focusing on individual conflict

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Strategies for focusing on individual conflict

• Increasing awareness of sources of conflict

• Increasing diversity awareness and skills

• Undertaking job rotations or secondments

• Undertaking permanent transfers or dismissals

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Strategies for focusing on organizational

conflict

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Strategies for focusing on organizational conflict

• Change the structure or culture of an organization

• Alter the source of conflict

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Using negotiation to resolve conflict

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Using negotiation to resolve conflict 1 of 2

• Definition of negotiation

• Third party negotiators

• Mediators• Arbitrators• Distributive

negotiation• Integrative

bargaining

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Using negotiation to resolve conflict 2 of 2

Strategies to encourage integrative bargaining• Emphasis on

superordinate goals

• Focus on the problem and not the people

• Focus on interests not demands

• Create new options for joint gain

• Focus on what is fair

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Organizational politics and conflict

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Organizational politics and conflict 1 of 2

• Definition of organizational politics

• Definition of political strategies

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Organizational politics and conflict 2 of 2

• Political strategies for gaining and maintaining power

• Political strategies for exercising power

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Conclusion, summary and questions

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Conclusion, summary and questions

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