Chapter 9: DEALING EFFECTIVELY WITH DIFFICULT SITUATIONS.

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Chapter 9: DEALING EFFECTIVELY WITH DIFFICULT SITUATIONS

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Chapter 9:

DEALING EFFECTIVELY WITH DIFFICULT SITUATIONS

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I. DENIAL

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What I have often found…

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Family members of patients with a recent neurological insult…

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II. RESISTANCE

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Rejection…

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Don’t get mad!**

• Openly acknowledge the situation

• “I know you don’t agree with what I said. I totally respect your right to have a different opinion. We can agree to disagree.”

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III. GRIEF

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• “Going Home Alzheimer’s”

• Re: Alzheimer’s Disease

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What helps a lot…

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7 Stages: (adapted from Kubler-Ross’ 5 stages)

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7 Stages:

• 1.

• 2.

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Stages continued:

• 3.

• 4.

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Stages continued:• 5.

• 6.

• 7.

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IV. FEELINGS OF INADEQUACY

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V. RECURRENT THEMES

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VI. OVERPROTECTION

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Turn to the people next to you and figure out:**

• How to engage the helicopter parent of a 4th grade girl with high-functioning autism

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VII. ENTITLEMENT

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In these cases,

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VIII. INTELLECTUALIZATION

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IX. OVERLY VERBAL

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X. POSITIVE COPINGA. Affirmation

• B. Integration

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C. Coping

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Holland and Nelson 2013—positive psychology:

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Holland and Nelson 2013—our goals are to help clients and families: